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Virtual-Secrets Week 772
· kesseret ·
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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.
#37 – Sammy Berries and their partner have been scamming people out of money for years. They sell things that they never intend to make to people and then cut and run. People have opened fraud cases against them. Both of them constantly talk about health issues and the “money issues it causes”, but then they’re constantly ordering Doordash instead of cooking, vaping, upgrading their PC’s, etc.
They’re now crying all over social media about how they’re depressed because people are being mean on here, yet they’ve been caught numerous times harassing people and posting on here. Both of them need to seek professional help.
13. We was all thinking she’s annoying
Krystyna or Lauren you snakes can im Patty if you have something to say
#33
Dear Poster,
I want to express my deepest apologies for the pain caused by your husband’s actions. I understand that in your frustration, you directed your anger towards an innocent woman who had no involvement in the situation. It is clear that you are going through a difficult time, and managing your emotions is proving to be challenging. Please know that I truly empathize with your hurt and anger.
I want to make it clear that your partner’s visit to my sim, club, or farm was entirely his own decision. He was neither coerced nor forced in any way. There are only a few possible ways he could have found the farm: either through a search, the website, or via teleportation from someone else. The responsibility for his actions lies solely with him, not with me or anyone else.
I understand that during distressing moments, it’s natural to feel the urge to blame and criticize others. However, I would like to propose a different approach. I extend an open invitation to meet with me for a mature and honest discussion. Let us come together as women and lift each other up, rather than tearing each other down.
While resorting to posting slander on a website might seem like an outlet for extreme anger, I believe we can transform that anger into something positive. Instead of being adversaries, let us become friends, and I’ll be more than willing to offer my help and support in fostering a more positive outlook.
Please consider my invitation, and I hope we can find a way to support each other through challenging times.
With understanding and compassion,
Fox
#4 Child avatars are allowed within Second Life.1 A child avatar, even within a mature or adult region (but not participating in adult (in this case, sexual) ) activities is allowed. A child avatar is allowed do everything any other avatar is, with the following exceptions: Child avatars in sexual situations (sexual congress obviously, though it is unclear beyond this) are not allowed and abuse reportable (ARable). Public promotion (classified listing, profile, etc.) of sexual situations with child avatars is not allowed and ARable. Creating areas for the purpose of sexual ageplay is not allowed and is ARable. This includes having items with sexual content (sexual poseballs or equipment) in proximity to items traditionally associated with children (swingsets, etc.) Indicating that the real age of a child avatar (as opposed to a stated SL/role playing age) is below main grid age is not allowed and ARable. Child avatar nudity has been called into question as well. While no language specific to nudity was included in the initial policies, child avatar nudity of the genital or chest regions, including in otherwise non-sexual situations (skin vendors, for example) can be a violation. This also applies to parcel descriptions: nudity or “clothing optional” language can not be included in a parcel description on a kid-specific area. Note that child avatars are allowed on PG, Mature, and even Adult public parcels, provided with the latter that they are adult verified. Note that this does not necessarily apply to private parcels where one has the option to eject or ban as desired. The allowance of child avatars on adult rated land such as Zindra does not invalidate any of the above rules. Policies towards child avatars are largely focused on the actions of the avatars, not the avatars themselves. Quite simply, a child avatar is… Read more »
you for few things
PolicyUnder our Community Standards policy, real-life images, avatar portrayals, and other depictions of sexual or lewd acts involving or appearing to involve children or minors are not allowed within Second Life. When detected, individuals and groups promoting or providing such content and activities will be subject to sanctions, which may include termination of accounts, closure of groups, removal of content, and loss of land or access to land.
There are three key aspects involved in these materials or acts that are in breach of the Community Standards:
Shes not a minor though, shes using an adult body with adult features just a anime looking head/face or in other cases “kawaii” representing the ahegao look From “Belle delphine” in this case whats the problem ? People are people in sl make their avatars completely unrealistic with 8-10ft tall looks so someone being slightly under that is childlike? And in general any women whose petite and not obese or heavy chested is considered a child? Even though the petite women have adult bodies and adult features? You guys base it all on the face and height you don’t actually look into the details. People love the drama and love to get their rocks off just by getting attention off a post thats not even relevant anymore to the community and has been going on for weeks. Doing this without any form of research or common sense. If you wish to see some real “underage vibe avis” look for the ones who carry pacifiers and shit now those keep any eye out for. Leave the other women alone.
Also for tip this is NOT kawaii asian. Asians are actually voiced upset as this type depictions and claim. This is underage and minor appearances used for sexual attraction and acts. They absolutely do not agree with it.
depiction of a minor she absolutely has a face that is pre-pubescent. does not matter about body .. minors have curves tits and asses everyday. She also protrays child habits and accesories. This is 100% a visual depication of a minor and against TOS for her to be anywhere near sexual including clothing, groups and locations.
she uses pacis, and child accesories…along with childlike AO. Argue all like she is for all accounts a minor in appearranc and is subject to reporting.
Completely oblivious to the anime look as well and asian maybe people dont know how to create or make asian looks? Hows that an issue. But thats beside the point minors have curves yes but they do not have fully developed breast if you think that your insane. Theres a difference between minors and adults and i find it clear if an avi has adult features their considered an adult. People have baby faces in real life so your gonna call everyone with baby face who is short in reality a child? Thats also insane. I begin to think people are jealous or overly critical or confused. If not that you guys have a real fetish on using other people for a tiny chance of fame.
I had DDs by 15 lol so yes they absolutely can be fully developed. Has nothing to do with height actually. It has to do with face and sorry the facial bone structure of a child, teen and adult are all different. These faces are not adult structured at all. Babyface means young skin etc not proportional bones to a pre-pub child or barely teen. Nobody is jealous, we are sickened by the fact people do this and others actually look at this childlike face and accessory knowing it’s not adult and want to fuck them. It’s completely scary and revolting.
Its a game grow up people and hide your emotions in real life, upset about it what you can or cant have crying and bitching over fake characters online. Get a life
#37 Yo, this person’s still pulling scams left and right in Second Life and beyond! Ain’t it wild how they bounced outta there, raking in mad cash (real world, mind you) for work they never did, and now they’re out here begging for handouts like it’s all good? They really think they can dodge criticism like it’s no biggie.
You best believe, ask any decent soul in the wrestling feds in SL, and they’ll tell ya why these two are straight-up trash. They’re rotten to the core.
Remember all that wrestling drama that used to go down on this site? Well, guess who was behind it all. This person actually doxxed herself, can you believe that?
But check this out, even with all their shady history, companies like Phedora still wanna mess with these con artists. I don’t get it, man. Anyone working with ’em is just as guilty of stealing assets. Yeah, I’m lookin’ at you, Team Wildfire, Miwa Bunny, Valiant Wrestling, and Honor Pro Wrestling. Y’all better watch out!
I blocked this girl when she started posting half naked photos to prove she wasn’t ugly and begging for money.
I’m the words of her two days ago… I do appreciate your mean bullying attempt tho to try to make me feel like crap. Sorry you failed.
Now today she’s on hiatus for her mental health because everyone is mean 💀 bitch please nevermind the fact of all your scamming you do for years! Also you live online and flaunt your gross self for money… nice try though on acting like you won’t be online, dumbass.
She totally flipped out right after my comment dropped, and I never buy it when she claims she’s blocked people or doesn’t read virtual secrets, ’cause she always goes all negative when folks call her out on her stuff. I mean, sorry, but that’s just people holdin’ her accountable for her actions, ya know?
Props to her for bringin’ up mental health, but don’t go blamin’ the victim, man. But hey, if you really deal with mental health struggles, think about all the peeps you (Samantha/Charisma/Kara, etc.) caused a world of hurt over the years.
Imagine the folks who forked over their cash, only to find out later they got hustled. Maybe those feelings you’re catchin’ are your conscience talkin’, but honestly, I doubt it. You’ve wrecked every good thing that’s come your way.
Stuff was a year ago? bitch you literally tried to kill a community because one person said something wrong 10 years ago. It wasn’t right for them at the time and now you expect ppl to treat this differently for you?
If anyone out there’s readin’ this, listen up: don’t drop a dime on this scammer or her copyright-infringin’ Bang Toy Co business. And if you’re workin’ with ’em now, you’re just as guilty as they are in their crimes.
At least you all made her delete half of all them gross pictures she’s posted over the years 💀
Can’t ruin her days btw… she’s definitely not deleting anything at all over this on her social media hiatus she’s apparently having over stuff that she claimed wouldn’t ruin her days 💀
Also her business is trash. Items aren’t even good.
#23
This is so far out.
Why would Diconay leave GoodCross for Matt – who is Anton, who is a hundred alts but to the core a Creek housewife. The famous Anton we all know?? Lol
This secret is just a very bad a stupid assumption lol
Ok – i take my words back comparing avis and Flickr
Wow What a Down grading
Nah… she just copied Diconay’s look.
why would anyone go ‘hide’ on an alt and make it spottable. just keep your main in that case
i might have missed “anton” secrets tho sure seems like a popular guy
#36
Everyone who knows Adam know this is his way, when needing a new woman.
Adam the catfish lives in SL. He doesn’t work but spend his entire life making poses and sex. He needs admirers and he needs attention.
Lya is like all previous women now boring, but to keep her from running to a new guy he will marry her – same, same.
Adam – whisperinmyearz – were made to cheat on his back then girlfriend also saying, he got a job and couldn’t be online. Ask all women who were involved in this drama they know from bad experiences!!
To Adam. Stop being a coward but show who you really are. Don’t you owe that to Lya since she believes all woman from your past are crazy or mentally unstable?
How you manage to make her believe that is -yes – insane.
Be a man for once, stop the lies.
Lya you need to look into him closely – take care of yourself
Are you sure he is a man???
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Sprout deleted her fb if she’s that bothered by what online people say she needs to go touch grass no one tried to doxx her or anything she just butthurt because people called her morbidly obese because that’s the most hurtful think someone can say to an online person lol.
Crazy how people who don’t even know her are trying to act offended on her behalf
She has several FB accounts as well as several SL accounts. She is a lot more toxic than anyone realizes.
#33
Since you want to post about the OWNER, how about you come to the sim and let’s have a conversation. Posting behind a website is cowardly. Lets us talk face to face..Come to LUXE..
27
I know I’m late to the party but how the fuck are you going to attack one of the sweetest people on the grid like that? Show me where she hurt you so I can pour some whiskey on that non-existent open wound. Some people deserve to be miserable and one of them is you.
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That girl begs for money all over social media. Its cringe af.
Not even ten posts away from #27 and you proceed to do the same thing you’re criticizing in #27 by trash-talking the person in #37. Do you not see how backward that is? All the sanctimonious talk about not attacking people and here you are doing the same thing. Hi Pot, meet Kettle.
Lmao. If I had a nickel for every time I’ve seen the “pot meet kettle” on here, I would be pretty wealthy. Learn how to use it appropriately if you have that ability.
Might as well learn the difference between a sweet person and a con artist while you’re at it too.
I Like “People in glass houses should not throw stones” :D!
Learn to separate simple logic from your own unfiltered bias if you have that ability. Might as well learn the difference between being sincere with your beliefs and being a hypocrite while you’re at it too.
Body shaming a person’s real life body for no reason other than to be a c*nt ain’t the same as saying this other person begs for money on social media. BTW, I’ve given 37 money when I heard her sob story. I learned that lesson. So any “unfiltered bias” would be pretty much warranted. Was there anything else you had a problem with?
She is fat. She is morbidly obese. She’s a whale. She’s a cow. She needs to buy multiple seats on an airplane. She buys bed sheets to make clothes that will fit her. She FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT.
Usually people who are morbidly obese themselves express the hatred for themselves upon others. Its sad, honestly.
Ma’am/Sir/It, if you took anything I wrote in my last comment seriously, then you need a better sense of humor. I don’t care who is fat or who isn’t, but the sheer ass-kissing going on in these comments is astounding given others have been called much worse things. If what was said isn’t true then why get this upset about it? It’s clear that her being called fat is what gets under her skin the most, then people are going to say it more. If you can criticize other users on this very website, then why is it wrong for people doing it to the subject of #27?
Its wrong because its body shaming a persons real life body. People here are too immature to keep it virtual related. Its bullying. Why the fuck am I explaining this to a grown ass adult?
It was more of a generalized statement as Kess stated than anything else. No one knows what she looks like in real life and for all we know she could be a 6’5, 250-pound man. People get “bullied” on this site weekly. This has nothing to do with “explaining this to a grown-ass adult”, ma’am, it’s just common sense.
Yeah, I read her comment. She’s wrong. From someone who wants to bring up ass-kissing, you sure did a whole lot of it in that comment. You, Kess, and a lot of other people are using “generalization” as a means to promote and protect body shaming and a slew of other horrible shit and think leaving the suicide hotline number is good enough so she doesn’t look like a complete piece of shit human who runs a website literally built to bully people online. Common sense doesn’t exist where morons gather to gossip and bully.
#14- I think you need to get your eyes checked buddy. What part of these skins are the same? Cause it’s not the nose, the lips, the eyes, the cheeks, or the shading.
#19- I like the way maitreya looks, but I wouldn’t call it realistic or luxurious. I wouldn’t call any body on SL realistic for that matter, they’ve all got their issues. IDK why y’all get so catty about people wanting to look different than y’all either, don’t y’all like standing out?
it’s closer to realism BUT you’re right not a single body out there actually is 100% real in anyway. Some are just so so much further from it than others. Sadly those are the ones scream dont body shame me, I’m realistic thicc etc.. Delusional
#27 – It’s her own fault for being such a shitty person. She deserves every mean word and every bad thing that comes her way.
She isn’t who you think she is. She has several accounts. And she also has several FB accounts. 😆
Oh wow what are they?
I dont think somebody who is a paedo child bait is goin to be a good person but what has she done besides paedo bait that is shitty?
exactly !
#19 “Dur, dur, dur. My SL body looks like my RL body duuuuuuurrrrrr”. Nobody cares.
#39 Ok great. Let’s all go back to system ava because doesn’t matter what you wear someone is going to shit about your pixel body.
14, get a fucking life, why are you so obsessed with them im tired of seeing this shit every other fucking week.. pick a new hobby besides stalking sweet girls
What’s most hilarious about people raging about #27 and being offended on behalf of whoever this person is, is that the majority of us have no idea if it’s even true or if it’s just someone trash talking. The more up in arms you all get over it though, the more we think there’s something to it. So… is it true?
Damn, Virtual Secrets was boring this time. No hate on the publisher! People just need to submit newer drama. It’s the same thing every week now. I need my weekly dose of laughs at the newest tea. Lol
#2 Really you gonna put some fake ass conversation up there .. like do you have any actual evidance .. i dont want shit you copy pasted i want to see Gyazo actual pictures of these convos .. and why hide who it was .. is not like we know you .. and that person wont know .. come up with a better excuse .. you people all you do is slander peoples names for your own gain .. if you want to do a witch hunt why not go after those that think they all that with a bag of chips and be giving out inside info .. instead of messing with people who did nothing .. .. Get a grip and move along ..
And don’t come back on any of your 3000 alts either! We will not give you any peace till you are completely gone! Go be a productive member of society for once in your life. #EndTheScams
Calliope you were caught cheating red handed. You guys are the dumbest criminals ever. We know you’re gonna try to continue scamming over at Mad Hatter’s. We also know Eccentric and Claus and their entire family were cheating too. Time to accept the L and leave SL. Your days of scamming are over. Go get a real job. You are the bane of breedables.
Everybody knows it says ZeroDice lol. But it really doesn’t matter. We all know you caught cheating Calliope.
Paedos are so funny!
It’s getting exhausting always seeing the body shaming comments. You would think people might come up with actual reasons to dislike someone. Or maybe they might learn that the moment they make a body shaming comment their entire argument is simply seen as an attack and hatred for a personal gripe.
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NH should probably stop advertising as a “family rp” when there is nothing about it that is like a traditional family. Breaking up couples would go against a family value. It should be called LGBT “progressive” or “liberal”, family values to give people the idea of what it really is. When most read family rp, they get the wrong idea about NH, thinking they can rp a traditional family when those people are shunned or fucked over.
I’ll say that I have nothing against gay people but…the feeling is hardly ever returned to me as a straight person, by them. I get tired of the constant hostility for not being gay. If straight people are really welcome, then act like it, New Haven.
The thought of the “rp” around a baby being mounted to a wall as punishment is so sickening to most people who would leave if they knew about it, since it’s an illegal and reportable offense. A head’s up hint would prevent people from thinking it’s a good place for them when they first arrive, instead of the Candyland welcome on their site and their phony rules, that do not reflect the attitudes and behaviors of “the staff”, actually the opposite.
Cara and Harlowe are like a two-headed monster…Carlowe.
The past weeks here have me wondering if they’re not men. The more I pieced it together, the more obvious it became to me. I always wonder though when people refuse to ever voice, so one never knows. I’m just glad I left, although, sorry for the time and few lindens I wasted there.
Who gay over there that makes you feel that way or are you talking bullshit because you probably didn’t get your way abt something. So sick of hearing abt how people hate this place or that place but provide no real proof of something wrong besides there own butthurt opinions. Give us some real tea or sit the fuck down already
they’re not men, though they are not nice looking. Harlowe runs the day care and goes around fucking anyone that will let her, meanwhile she’s married IRL
what do they look like? I’m assuming your a panty dropper?
Interesting. Hehe, I’m not surprised that they’re not good looking. The daycare thing is pretty gross considering her reputation. Maybe her hubby likes to watch, lol. It’s amazing to me that any woman could be such a nympho.
Ok, Boomer.
Wrong gen, X’er.
#33 Like maybe put the guy who cheated you on blast not the woman you’re jealous of because he chose to play with her and have fun with her because your such a sparkling conversationalist
I see brutal personal attacks on people’s real life appearances in the comments on a monthly basis. Just because this one was put in a secret makes it no different.
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Why is it discussed how someone looks in RL or how old someone is. This is SL, a virtual world where you can be creative with your avatar. She doesn’t even pose sexually in the picture, I think her avatar is cute.
Right!? What does it matter what this person, or any person for that matter, decides to make their avatar look like? In the end it’s their money, it’s their time. Don’t like it, don’t look. Get over yourself and stop making things up to be mad about.
Exactly!!!!
This post was WAAAAAY out of line. It’s 2023. We aren’t fat shaming people anymore! Sound’s like the OP just is jealous this girl has tits IRL! REAL big ones sag dipshit!
Have you read the comments for the past few months? There’s rampant, brutal remarks about people’s real life appearance and I don’t see anyone jumping to defend those.
Fake News. Of course we are.
#37 This right here. This girl is annoying as all hell. Girl thinks she’s cute when really she’s not. Writing her little novel that’s probably fake thinking someone was trying to bully her? Lol she clearly too stupid to understand whoever wrote this but hey now she continue to make content aka just put her titties out and hope for people to like her more. She’s gross.
Nothing about her is cute …All her pictures are edited …titties or no titties I still wouldn’t want that 🤮
She has hot titties , I would gladly give her my money for that content .
SL is full of simps, so I guess you’re in the right place
Pump the hate brakes Fox and Friends.
#25 – Nehemi’s fb is like watching a trashy trainwreck reality show you can’t look away from. You can also make bets about which posts will get deleted because she is just not the same person she was 6 minutes ago😂
#16) You know what really gets me going? This whole attention-seeking accusation about her post is just baseless. Take a closer look; it’s set to “friends only.” How on earth can that be attention-seeking?
Finally, someone is addressing the issue with Sunny’s, and I couldn’t agree more. That place is a complete joke! Kicking people out of the group for no reason other than to make them pay again to get back in? That’s just plain ridiculous.
And let’s talk about their banning policy. Leaving a prim shouldn’t be grounds for a ban, especially when it’s their crappy rezzers that cause the lag. If they had some decent ones in place, we wouldn’t have to struggle to move and get our prim. Simple as that.
Honestly, why don’t they implement an Auto-return feature? It would solve so many problems and make everyone’s lives easier. But instead, we’re stuck with walls everywhere, and we have to go through the hassle of derezzing just to get proper lighting. It’s becoming a headache.
Sure, it might be a decent place for newcomers, but personally, I’d rather support the creators of the poses or backgrounds with my hard-earned money. They deserve it way more than Sunny’s.
Regarding auto return- the entire ground level was landscaped and decorated by staff and volunteers. Auto return would send all that back to the respective owners. So that isn’t an option. What’s so hard about cleaning up after one’s self?
And maybe banning for a prim does seem a little extreme, until you factor in that the average traffic in the sim is around 500 people a day. 500+ prims laying around would become a real problem, really quick. Most of the time, we return them without comment. It’s only when we start seeing the same names over and over, that a warning is given. And without fail , the warning is ignored.
Being an adult, and simply cleaning up after one’s self, solves all those problems.
Or you can start your own photo Sim.
Sunny’s sucks! They really are some assholes that think they can knuck if ya buck. Then when someone cussing them the fuck out…they are shocked. LOL I had a run in with a bitch ass staff member a few years ago. I went there. Nothing rezzed. I was unable to even take a pic so I left. Same day I got a message saying I was banned “cause I aint clean the shit up” LOL So my initial approach was.. calm. But the chick was like “she said what she said” So I’m like eat a dick bitch. Shrugs and I’ve told everyone.. now vs. Buy your own backgrounds save yourself a banning.
I saw the chat she posted (Imogen Aurelia) it was on her post an she was rude for zero reason. I personally don’t go to these places but seeing her play it like she was wronged with no cause is a joke and if you don’t or didn’t see her chat log, Will happily post it. She got booted for being a bitch over a simple yes or no question. (Lots of people and places use the same props.)
This is just coming from me personally. If people are going to talk to my staff like she did, they would be booted. Period. If you all have such amazing ideas to help with making the place better, then go to the owner with ideas instead of coming to the rag page to post your unhappy and do it like you actually care not with a “This place sucks” attitude.
Awh, so incredibly cute…now we are dragging even more women into this thing. Pot or kettle dear? As you call Imogen out on her stuff you are doing nothing but displaying a prime example of being “fairly rude and full of yourself.” Then, you start bringing others in based on your opinion of whats drama and whats not, I suppose you are an expert because you probably also are an epic display of drama as well!?!?! In either case, how about we keep it to the folks who were involved in the original issue at hand instead of grasping for validity based on whether or not you have your 2 grimy little cents in on the topic you know nothing about. Have the day you deserve sweetheart, goodness knows out of anyone in this post you deserve to
That’s not a good place for newcomers when they charge for access. Newcomers are better sent to just about any other photography place.
The whole “gtfo if you don’t pay within 2 minutes of landing” is really off-putting, even to people who may not mind paying to have access. It’s really in your face when you land.
New people are likely to find it in people’s profiles, but what they don’t know is the security system is going to yell at them as soon as they land, multiple times, until they either pay or leave (and usually before they’ve even fully rezzed). It’s a really weird policy, imo. But, their land, their rules, so it is what it is. I wouldn’t send anyone there though, lol.
It’s a generalization. They weren’t doxxed. Calling someone a fat ass in real life doesn’t mean shit. For all anyone knows they have 3 arms. And is your avatar really a human being? LOL
I agree and it seems like she sent her minions in to defend.
How is it Kesseret’s fault that you have body image issues or issues with self-esteem? Sounds like a personal problem and it’s not her fault whatsoever. People have been called much worse things on this website before and no one whined about it.
Boomer mentality? Not sure what that means in this context, but alright. If this website is such a horrible place, then why, pray tell, are you on it too? These types of replies are what I enjoy the most about this place. It’s the holier-than-thou mentality that is often only reserved for friends and fans of those getting talked about. I think the beauty in all of this is rather than discussing this with me, there’s a disclaimer at the top of this page about the very thing you’re whining about.
Still doesn’t give them a right to make those personal attacks on her Real Life. I mean that is cyberbullying 101. It may not be her fault that someone has body image issues. But that doesn’t change the fact that this was a direct attack on someone’s person. I mean this clear-cut slander and defamation of character.
Slander is spoken, not written. What you’re looking for is something called libel. The challenge is defining and establishing a standard of defamation and that standard begins when a reputation is seriously damaged. Technically, anything that gets submitted to this website could be considered defamatory. However, Kess is not responsible for anything that gets shared on this site because this site acts as a middleman, but all statements that get put on this website fall on the responsibility of the user who shared it. The only thing that got said about her “real life” is that she’s fat. People have been attacked for a plethora of things and some are far worse than being called fat. She hasn’t been doxxed. No one knows who she is in real life or what she looks like. The only thing we have to go by is her avatar. What makes her any different than any other person that has been talked about here? Absolutely nothing.
This doesn’t excuse the defamatory remarks made against her RL body. There is a line, and whoever made that secret, they truly crossed it. And I know the statement falls on the onus of the person who shared it. But that person should be ashamed of the disgustingly cheap shot they made at her. Whether it is true or not, that is still wrong and they be held accountable.
May I ask what line was crossed? People have been called fat, anorexic, drug addicts, racial stereotypes, pedophiles, accused of child abuse, and many other things that could fall under a “disgustingly cheap shot”. No one knows what her real-life body looks like because all we see is an image of her avatar. Is it hurtful? Sure, it might be. It’s still a generalized statement. It’ll also be difficult to hold the poster accountable considering everything is anonymous.
No one and I mean no one, should ever have their RL body or character attacked. No matter what they did. I mean that bullying plain and simple, and I will not stand for that whatsoever. You act as if this is okay, due to it being posted on this site. If you see it as generalized or not. No one and I mean no one should be shamed for their RL body size. Whether it be true or not. That is just absolutely wrong.
This site still isn’t going away, just so you know. People will continue to be talked about here and there’s nothing you can do about it. If you’re all this sensitive about what anonymous internet strangers on an obscure website say about you, then maybe it’s time to turn off the computer.
I am not sensitive, as you so eloquently put it. I am just standing up to people, whose Real life is being attacked. I don’t know how you see that as being sensitive, but okay.
No one’s real life is being “attacked”. We don’t know anything about Sprout other than a generalized statement made on this website. We don’t know her real-life address. We don’t know what her body looks like in real life. We don’t know her real-life name. Women who have babygirl-looking avatars get called morbidly obese 30-somethings on this site all the time. Where have you been? LOL. You can use all these adjectives to describe the secret in question or this website, but it won’t change anything. The best thing to do is to not look at the website at all for the sake of your mental health.
And potentially actually actionable in a civil court, no less.
it’s kind of funny that anyone thinks Kess doesnt have a lawyer who has already made 100% certain that actions can’t be taken. this site has been around for years. and it will continue to be for years to come. but good luck trying to debate legal action in these comments 🙂 things get spicy when armchair “lawyers” show up.
Good luck with that. Section 230 is a lovely thing, isn’t it?
Actually not the relevant law in this case.
Actually, it is. There’s nothing you can do about what gets said on this website.
You’re mistaken. You can do something about the individual who wrote it, but not the website. The reason they said Section 230 is irrelevant is because that applies to businesses, and they’re speaking of suits against a private individual.
I can tell you’re new to this site. There’s no way to identify the sender of #27 unless they either personally identify themselves or if Kess shared personal details of the sender such an as IP address, for example. Otherwise, whatever generalized statements get sent to this website are all fair game. If what gets written here affects your mental health, Sprout is free to not engage with it.
I don’t know about you, but that seems like a personal attack on a person’s body. Especially how the secret is framed. And I don’t know where you got your definition of generalization from. But last time I checked, it meant it was a broad and general statement, meant to talk about a group of people. Not an individual. I love how you’re excusing this as a generalization when you know for a fact that this was a personal attack.
#31
Please share your username so that I can find you inworld, derender your clothes and move my mouse cursor “in and out” and around your cartoon pussy. Come on, be a good sport. If you don’t I’ll just go someplace like Fogbound Blues and do to another “woman”
Utterly insane isn’t it?
Like apparently living in real life fear isn’t enough they have to invent some for their Second Life where any unwanted talk from another person can be stopped with a single click.
You’ve obviously been very lucky and not been stalked before. Yes, there is a single button to rid yourself of a single account doing that. But what about their 5+ alts that now follow you everywhere, tell people lies about you, stalk your friends. Or the ones the take it out of SL, and they stalk your social medias, post overly sexual comments to make you uncomfortable, send DMs and messages with multiple different accounts using VPNs. If you’ve never had to deal with any of that, congratulations you’ve been lucky. A lot of others aren’t so lucky. As much as we wish blocking would stop it, or maybe reporting it to moderators or linden labs, nothing ever gets done because it’s considered harmless UNTIL they have your RL information. By then it’s too late, LL won’t do anything because it’s no longer within the realm of their platform and they tell you to deal with it legally. Proving a cyberbullying and stalking case AND having it enforced by the law is near impossible, especially considering LL ToS preventing the sharing of logs unless explicitly ordered by a court. Especially if the perp is using a vpn, which most do if they are using that many alts and accounts to stalk you in the first place. ThePatriarchy’s ‘joking’ comment is the whole reason none of this gets taken seriously until someone is actually stalked/assaulted IRL. I’ll go one further for you. If you had your own teenager playing an online game and this was happening to them you’d take it far more seriously than saying, just push the block button. You’d be asking for details and finding out where that person was so you could make them stop. That is how serious this gets sometimes, so joking about it in… Read more »
I think the people screaming about pedos are about as crazy as the ones screaming about harassment to be honest.
Cyberbullying isn’t real, it’s something people bring into their own lives for unknown reasons.
I would not be demanding details of anyone because I know fine well that is impossible and pointless.
You should not have any RL information on SL or any other platform for them to get. This is internet 101, how the hell did people forget the basic steps of maintaining pseudo-anonymity online?
“Cyberbullying isn’t real, it’s something people bring into their own lives for unknown reasons.”
Then why are there laws against it? Why are there case studies about the damaging effects of cyberbullying and actual deaths that have happened where it was involved? Yes, I know, there are some truly dumb laws in place 😣, just pointing out that most things put into law are there because at some point it was relevant.
I would honestly agree with you about people bringing it into their own lives if not for having dealt with hackers and threats myself. I don’t put my RL information out there and yet I’ve had anonymous messages telling me about myself in order to attempt to coerce me into doing things. Technology is scary with what it allows you to do and for those that know it in depth, well, some have found out how to bypass any of the things we’ve been ‘taught’ about protecting ourselves online.
I truly do wish you were right about this. I stand by what I said before though, your initial comment is your experience online and I am thankful you’ve never had to deal with it, that’s a blessing. Just please remember there are some people that haven’t been so lucky, so joking about it and blaming the victims for being affected isn’t the route to take here. Just my two cents. 🙃
Because people from idk your school spreading shit about you on the internet for the whole school to see is totally the same as someone wanting pixel sex on SL.
Someone stalks your friends with 5 alts and doxes you bc you told them “no” when they asked for sex at a club? Didn’t happen. Maybe tell the whole story, of how you ignored 500 red flags in hopes of scoring a “bad boy” and are now deeply involved with some psychopath.
That’s called victim blaming, and women have been dealing with that bullshit regarding men not respecting their boundaries since time immemorial. Tells me everything I need to know about your attitudes toward women.
Actually no. My specific situation is different and did not start in SL. Mine was an angry ex RL who knew about my SL, because they were a part of my life and I shared my interests with them, and decided the best payback was to dox me online.
What I mentioned above was in regards to the many people that have mentioned this happening. If you’ve been on VS for a few weeks then you already know someone else was called out for stalking a person at a club on various alts because they were denied.
That’s not my situation, please don’t assume it is in order to validate your own argument of people ‘bringing it on themselves.’
I didn’t attack anyone here, just asked that people please be mindful that it does happen, and that joking about it in that way is potentially damaging. That was all.
Just reading everything…how the hell did you come to that conclusion?
When was a club mentioned?
#27 It sounds like you are a bit of bitter how you talk about Sprout. Who cares how she looks in RL? She is playing SL, she can look however she wants. Only thing that matters in SL, is her personality. I don’t know her, so I can’t judge her by that. But I can judge about you, you are a c*nt for posting this about someone’s RL. Just crawl back in that little hole where you came out.😇
Sometimes I wished the content was curated more. 85% is incomprehensible garbage.
ah, but that’s the fun of it all. hideous posts, largely unmoderated. this is SL’s tabloid, where would it be without shitty MSPaint jobs and paedo accusations? (probably a lot of the latter are true though)
#23. so you say she is Diconay’s alt and in the same sentence that you miss Diconay? Nothing to miss if the same person is still round.
however one person copying Diconay’s avatar look and the style of some photos doesn’t make her Diconay’s alt, just makes her unoriginal. that’s all
27- leave sprout be. she has enough going on irl with losing her hair and doesnt need to be mocked for literally existing. she is beautiful n her avis are so cute.
Why are you offering RL info about this person? Literally no one who she didn’t tell needs to know anything about her hair. This is part of what makes the situation so many of you are crying about possible. If she’s a beautiful person, that’s awesome. I do think the picture is cute, not my aesthetic per se, but it wasn’t exploitative so I’ll leave it at face value.
1. You’re lying if you say you’ve never had this happen. 😛 6. This is the SL Twitter mindset as well. God forbid you are friends with someone that’s been ‘blacklisted’ for having a different opinion. 7. You are taking someone giving advice and attacking them personally? Sounds like a grudge. How about you show everyone YOUR perfectly proportionate avi shape and superb skill in taking pictures? No? Seriously, the time stamps give away that you have a hard on for her. 9. Kawaii Girl at it again with the entire idea that stealing another person’s man makes her superior. Honey…if he cheats to be with you, he’ll cheat on you. Be smarter than that, you look desperate going after another person’s man. 13. If ‘we’ don’t care about it, why are you spamming it all over this site to make it more relevant? 14. You do realize that creators can create in MULTIPLE platforms, right? Bringing up Knives again to start another debate is tasteless as hell. If one of your friends was ‘copybotting’ without your knowledge and you got dragged into it, you’d be pissed, right? Stop doing it to other people. 15. If it’s run by the same staff, you’ll have the same issues. 18. Tiny feet AND tiny hands! Proportions people, PLEASE! 27. Yet again, going after someone’s RL appearance as if it matters makes YOU the idiot and a damn bully. 31. Read it, read it again. Now stop and really think about it. How terrifying is it that we can’t feel safe in a virtual world because predators exist here too acting like friends? 34. Seriously just confirmed #7 has a hard on for this chick. Did she block you? Show me on the doll where she hurt you. 38. How the hell is… Read more »
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Knives still hangs out with the copybotter lol
34. Is that an always sunny reference?
You win the prize!
4 Give it a rest, that’s NOT a child! Show the fully developed breasts and butt as well, get over the younger looking face!
Still nobody cares about GoT rp drama…
41-45 What in the actual hell?!?! It’s little freaks like this that give kids as a whole a bad name. Most would frown on and condemn bondage etc of children, this is NOT OK.
The whole point of these people is to make toddler faces and put them on adult bodies… You are so stupid. How you say ” Get over the younger looking face?” that is exactly the issue. You clearly don’t see the problem do you?
That’s a younger face, yes, but you haven’t seen too many actual toddlers, they look nothing like that. You also are being purposely oblivious to the fact that many fully mature people in the real world have younger looking faces and have no concept of kawaii/lolita/etc. Just because your urges make you want to jump them and your own pedophilia is showin, making you uncomfortable, DOESN’T give you a right to dictate anything for others. Leave what you don’t understand alone and quit being so bigoted!
body doesn’t egual an adult. baby, toddler, child, teen and adult all have different facial bone structures each. A 12yr old in middle school can have curves, ass and tits developed early. Most have it by 16. These are still underage minors.
Just because you say so doesn’t make it so, that’s NOT a minor.
Okay I’ll say so. As a 12 year old 7th grader I had the body of a young adult female and my face was definitely more reflective of my age. Not an uncommon situation for a lot of my classmates either. Just because you don’t think so, doesn’t make it not so. It goes both ways.
Your dealing in anecdotal evidence and using it to demean and judge others. Your blossoming early has nothing to do with the fact that many women (Asians especially) don’t “look their age.” Your experiences are your own, and I am not saying you weren’t sexualized or traumatized, but you in no way have constructed any justification for the shitty behavior displayed in either the secret or in the responses to my post.
It was a counter argument for the one you offered that apparently hurt some feelings. I’m okay with this. It doesn’t make what I said untrue. My experience is what it is, it was a common experience with many of my peers, it’s not that of others. As you said, my experiences are my own, as are others. Neither points are invalid just as neither points are absolute. Also I’m not demeaning or judging anyone at all, I was offered another perspective. I spoke on myself and a generalized experience of those around me. I did not delve into a single experience that I had sexualized or otherwise, you’re reading far more into my words than I said. I don’t deal in implications, I say exactly what I mean, it avoids the embarrassment of the assumptions you just made. There was nothing “shitty” in my response, only what you decided I was saying.
It’s neither adding to the conversation or addressing the issue at hand, as stated earlier, I don’t say what you said is invalid or untrue. In this case though, it does the issue at hand a disservice, that’s why you got all the down votes. While you might not agree with their labeling others as minors, you added fuel to their fire, and they think their behavior is justified because of stories like yours. They like to pretend everyone with a younger face is as you were.
If it added nothing to a conversation or addressed the issue at hand then it would have no effect on the “issue at hand”. It’s called perspective, I know that’s an underrated concept in this social climate. I didn’t say if I agreed or disagreed with anything, I literally only said that it was a possibility based on my actual life experience.
If you want a definitive position from me: I don’t condone the sexualization of children in *any* capacity. I don’t condone the intentional action to make an adult resemble a child, especially for the purpose of sexualization/romanticization of child like qualities. Pedophilia/hebephilia is not a sexual identity/preference, those who are perpetuating it, even in a virtual setting need to seek help.
That said, if it’s not being presented in a sexual fashion, then there shouldn’t be an issue.
You couldn’t be any more clear that you don’t comprehend the kawaii aesthetic. You obviously don’t understand that it’s not at all about sexualizing children or trying to make an adult pass for a child. You are bigoted, same as the OP and those making comments condemning their appearance and trying to “tell me what these people are trying to accomplish.” Your comments will (rightfully) continue to receive downvotes.
Also, I think you’re proud of using a buzzword, but perhaps you should make sure it means what you’re intending it to mean. Personal experience, as in something actually happening to a person is not “anecdotal”, it is specific and direct.
anecdotal
adjectiveOf, characterized by, or full of anecdotes.
Based on casual observations or indications rather than rigorous or scientific analysis.
Pertaining to, or abounding with, anecdotes
Of the nature of or relating to an anecdote.
Containing or abounding in anecdotes.
Having the character of an anecdote.
Characterized by or given to telling anecdotes.
It means exactly what I’ve intended, that your personal experience isn’t all encompassing and means nothing as far as a broader picture. That’s the very definition of anecdotal and it’s not a “buzzword.” You’re likely to get the exact same thumbs down because you now seem to have flipped to justifying calling anyone with a younger face a minor, despite claiming there was a point to be had to the contrary.
From your own posted definition “based on casual observations.” You do know what those words mean when used together like that, right?
#4 If the denizens can’t infantilize Asian women and call them pedos they will have to actually focus on the real pedos.
The ones trying to infantilize ARE the pedis.
27 Its not majorly obese its morbidly obese, get it right
Just say fat
Yet fat assses are disliking this you all hate honesty go on a treadmill and eat a fucking salad for once.
lmfao truer words have never been spoken. not to mention she will show herself to anyone who gives her even a little bit of attention and peak talk about people behind their backs.
What do you mean? Do you have proof? She always seemed so sure of herself like she’s hot shit lol
I’m not sure that I am hot shit. I never once have said I am super hot. I am your average chonky girl who has struggles just like the rest of you. I try to stay off this site because it’s really terrible but, yeah. :/
34 – that is completely valid. I always support matching energy with folks, even from the outside
Something tells me the person who posted that is one of the ones that would try to play victim and say they were blocked for no reason. I mean I block people who block me too, I don’t want them looking at my shit when they clearly don’t want me looking at theirs. Completely valid opinion. Also, considering that’s a second post on this person, someone clearly has a grudge. How do you take those posts and go on a rant about someone being bowlegged for giving advice? And time stamps? Tell me you are stalking her without telling me you are stalking her.
#29 High five to this poster! (not about Harlowe or Thomas.) But spot on about Aria Rossi. Considering she has probably done this in the past to people in SL, and had to start all over again with a new avatar. When she runs out of guys to play and runs out of people to mooch lindens off, she will have to start all over again! Poor dude that has to deal with her now. Teaming up with the worst kind of people in New Haven, yeah, she’s on her way to making yet another alt!
You repeatedly comment as a different person on the same post and also you have used language that is not tolerated. The N word. You are shadowbanned. Don’t push me or you will be perma banned.
LMAO. I love how anyone can use a username here. Makes trolling easier I guess.
yours is epic