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Virtual-Secrets Week 771

07/23/2023 · kesseret ·

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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.


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PL19
1 year ago

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LOL
I just stole one from a Reborn wearer
While I’m Maitreya
How?
Maybe it’s cuz in the end, it’s not about the body

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Infyrin
1 year ago

35)

I’m not touching any of the other female bodies because others have bimbo-fied the fuck out of them and creators continue to clamor to it shamelessly.

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Yopuzzystank
1 year ago

#4 I seen this twice. Did not gaf the first time. Question is.. why does someone care so must to recycle that post? If the mf said she couldn’t afford it ok then? If she cried begged asked for donations, who cares? End of the world this one person that said she was poor now can magically delicious afford it. You’re so extra lol. What does her location have to do with it? And how do you personally know how much she earns Now if you want someone to really talk about why not search these rl*charitable organization’s?” Or nah…too real huh…got to keep it to flicker-😁its giving obsessed #8 I mean…Who cares? The ad looks good.😁its giving-envy #13 “Self serving vanity.” I had to read this one a few times. Also saw this in the comments before. So.. someone is upset because of how some choose to edit and gear them self to look younger. Whereas some are like its a fucking avatar Get outta here. I for one am over the pedo non pedo shit. Ya’ll out here really slandering some people just because they don’t have the same opinion as you. This is how it is. Its a virtual world right.. Where you got to click to get into a pose LOL. Then…do what? Emote or mic up. Bdsm-baby girl all that shit is a rp on virtual worlds. Some of them folks have that rl kink-Ion…google it shit. But if a mf wants to walk around with a bratz dolls face and some big ol biddies..They are pedo bait? How you know? Wait a minute cause I know some “Karen is bout to run out of target to jump on me” How do you KNOW! Without a shadow of a doubt that these infantized faces. I… Read more »

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To be honest...
1 year ago

I came here to just read the comments for #27 Lol

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Ugly truth
1 year ago

19. Place is creepy. The photo is not showing what really goes on there. Just picture blood covered and half dressed toddler sized and other prepubescent avatars trying to survive adult avatars in a camp. This Justin Dakota guy is just another one of SL’S pedo creeps

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haterswannahatebigtimebruv
1 year ago

#27 adorable this thicc brained person thinks a chubb body with giant ass, saggy tit mod & fat rolls (michelin spare tire) on the hips belives stealing men is easy.

Listen Darlin only thing your stealing are the fuckboi men who have no commitment or loyalty.. You know the worthless men that arn’t worth keeping in the first place all you just did was their partners a favor, they will be cheating on you with the next blob of jello the very next day with another notch on the bed post.

Here’s the kicker you simply just stated that your EASY cos men in sl like easy, you have simply no standards you just want attention, you want the fat look and belive that makes men want you, instead it’s because you were fucking easy to shag which means you have no real standards your self asteem it at an all time low like all thicc drama queens you belive that your saggy pixle tits had something to do with it…

Your basiclly like those fat chicks in the night clubs at the end of the night, willing to put out for any attention and the only men you got are the sad fuck deperates who’ll take anything at this point to blow their load over ya face…

Re-think your life or better yet get on a diet or the legacy body and stop looking like the walmart trolly wanders on their mobility scooters.

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haterswannahatebigtimebruv
Reply to  haterswannahatebigtimebruv
1 year ago

hahha betting these dis-like downvotes are the shemale/dick chick ebody users 😉 aww i’m sorry did the truth hurt?

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At Least It's Halfway Right?
Reply to  haterswannahatebigtimebruv
1 year ago

Transphobic bitch.

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Yopuzzystank
Reply to  haterswannahatebigtimebruv
1 year ago

Not the “alleged” bean pole fat shaming right? I wonder how attractive do you think you are in rl? Are you the equivalent of a model? Or are you some double jawed, pancake sloped ass, loose skin, arm wrinkles flapping in the wind 50 yr old.. attempting to fat shame? Here’s the kicker-Who gives a shit if she can bang all of sl. Why are you so “triggered” Is it possible that some big chick stole away your fuckboi? LOL
PS It is (you’re) ..YW😁its giving butt hurt

Last edited 1 year ago by Yopuzzystank
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Fat Bitch Ambassador
Reply to  haterswannahatebigtimebruv
1 year ago

So a fat broad got under your skin there, huh? It’s okay dove. Life goes on and there’s no need to body shame what people like over what they don’t on either side. You want to be a skinny bitch? Be a skinny bitch. You want to be a fat bitch? Be a fat bitch. Just shut the fuck up about it.

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Yopuzzystank
Reply to  Fat Bitch Ambassador
1 year ago

Thumbs up

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Jawanna Blowme
1 year ago

11/28. Just like fucktard conservatives in the US do, the people who constantly post on here about “child avatars” and “pedos” are most likely projecting. Look at post 28, all at least a C cup breast with child bearing hips. Listen you dumb cunts there are people of age who do look younger. I myself am 32 year old woman and yet I have a young face. What you assholes are doing is conflating these young faced adult bodies with real child avatars and forcing the real pedos underground to play with these real child avatars. Most likely people who post this kinda crap are attracted to children themselves. The Feds should really be looking at any IP data they can get from the likes of whoever made post 11 and 28.

Mr G is an alt of Mr Z Zack Hughes. Just like Hmmor Thespian and Roger Burroughs are alts of that other manwhore Casey Wardark. I wonder if Caseys partner knows he is fucking her sister Sassy behind her back. Sassy is just the latest flavor in this fuckboy old mans menu. As for Zack Hughes he is probably looking for the next whipping post for when he gets bored of Farhannah. Other World is just a buffet for a handful of abusive womanizing assholes and they have no clue a valued female member is watching all the shit they do an reporting it on here.

Viva la Raza

JB

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blah
Reply to  Jawanna Blowme
1 year ago

ballooning your body features does not make an adult. i had size Ds at 15yrs old, knew many already getting curves hips and butts. But there is a difference between adult and child faces, the bone structure is entirely different. Once you have a childs face regardless what you think you did with your body, its underage and a child. And thats sick.

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Yopuzzystank
Reply to  blah
1 year ago

So are you talking about sl or rl…Because if you are comparing sl proportions and faces to rl ones…as you did your size D’s..then LOL😁its giving stupid biased confusing non facts.

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seth
Reply to  Jawanna Blowme
1 year ago

You think this is only about America? AMERICA? Stop spreading justification for your pedo-tendencies here!

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Working at the saltmine
Reply to  Jawanna Blowme
1 year ago

 I myself am 32 year old woman and yet I have a young face.

Press X to doubt

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Nah...
Reply to  Jawanna Blowme
1 year ago

fabrizio (Mr G) is not zack hughes alt. different universes.

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Sarcastic Marc
1 year ago

#32 – MOST Gay men in SL are GAY FUCK BOYS and BOTTOMS. Then a vast number are under-age child-like and TEEN BOY avatars. The under-age child-like and TEEN BOY Avatar look in SL is an expression of real life – character – Old men liking underage boys. THIS IS THE TRUTH – there is NO OTHER REASON – as one cannot suppress the subconscious. It always comes out. What is annoying is that the “child-like avatar” will always try to justify himself – “Well it’s Role-Play” while we all know the little pedophile inside him is what this is all about. Also – the older the man in real life – the younger the teen avatar. Then we have the REAL WOMEN who RP as Gay Men in SL and they are not TRANS people. They are RL STR*8 women. I even have some of their names. Well go ahead now and press that THUMBS down button. LOL it is amazing to see how many people deny the FACTS!

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Yopuzzystank
Reply to  Sarcastic Marc
1 year ago

I down voted. Feel free to return the favor. One question. HOW THE FUCK do you know what “Most” gay men on sl do? Are you perhaps gay? Have you been on top of most all of sl men? Who cares if you have peoples names? Like obviously you did not enlighten us.
😁its giving sus opinions

Last edited 1 year ago by Yopuzzystank
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Former Soviet Nation
Reply to  Sarcastic Marc
1 year ago

Who the fuck cares if a cis woman plays a gay male character? I certainly don’t. If the roleplay is good, I don’t fucking care if it’s a dog typing. Maybe stop inserting your OOC feelings into RP and you won’t be disappointed.

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Biological_bitch
Reply to  Former Soviet Nation
1 year ago

I agree, but only arrogant college kids are ok with being called cis anything. If you want us to support your cause then stop trying to erase us. We are biological women, not cis anything and if you insist on using that language then you aren’t inclusive at all. Instead, you’re participating in a fad. Don’t be a hypocrite.

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seth
Reply to  Former Soviet Nation
1 year ago

If you support this you are disrespecting GAY MEN AND YOU ARE RUDE, INSOLENT and a PSYCHO!

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Gustav
Reply to  Former Soviet Nation
1 year ago

Lol Straight women so horny and desperate fucking Gay Boys and NOT RESPECTING GAYS AT ALL for their preferences! TRY AGAIN!

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HerbalTea
Reply to  Sarcastic Marc
1 year ago

Don’t forget the gay men who play as lesbian women. It’s the case with RP towns that are ruled by lesbian “women”.

Last edited 1 year ago by HerbalTea
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Gustav
Reply to  HerbalTea
1 year ago

lol Gay men do not go for lesbian women – then they are NOT GAY – they Bisexual.

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HerbalTea
Reply to  Gustav
1 year ago

I didn’t say, “go for”. I mean, gay men have female avs and have sex with other gay men with female avs. They’ll also hit on men wearing male avs since they’re gay.

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seth
Reply to  HerbalTea
1 year ago

You clearly have no conception that a GAY MAN prefers other MEN! NOT WOMEN! Give me a f*cking Break! There is a clear distinction between Gay Men and Bisexual men! Please learn the difference!

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HerbalTea
Reply to  seth
1 year ago

Can you not read?

Where did I say gay men want to have sex with women? Where??

I am saying gay men are WEARING female avatars, not having sex with women. Grow a brain.

Lesbian club = Men WEARING female avs to have sex with each other.

Last edited 1 year ago by HerbalTea
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seth
Reply to  HerbalTea
1 year ago

GOD MAN! GET A LIFE! GAY MEN PREFER TO BE MEN AND DO NOT POSE AS LESBIANS!!!

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HerbalTea
Reply to  seth
1 year ago

Wrong. I know plenty who do. You’re not the spokesperson for gay guys.

On the other hand, I also know gay women who pose as men.

Last edited 1 year ago by HerbalTea
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seth
Reply to  Sarcastic Marc
1 year ago

look how the pedos are giving a thumbs down lol! as expected mate!

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Gaylord
Reply to  seth
1 year ago

You seem a little mad.

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HerbalTea
1 year ago

I hope the VS owner removes all these #27 comments on trafficking.

Last edited 1 year ago by HerbalTea
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Not the fool
1 year ago

Mercy a person needs big girl panties to deal with all this nonsense. https://gyazo.com/587e6823c8875501483f2a3b73dad590

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HerbalTea
1 year ago

#28 Yes, they do have childish faces, especially #1, 2 and 5. Just admit it already. They were obviously created to have a voluptuous body with a baby face.

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Biological_bitch
Reply to  HerbalTea
1 year ago

Dear people under 40,

Second Life was never meant to be social media where we tell everyone who we really are in RL. It’s Second Life, a place for people to experience another world and maybe even escape in some roleplay. If you think SL is just a 3d dating site or social network you’re really wrong. Most of these young avatars are being avatars or dolls no different than a furry isn’t a furry. Touch grass please.

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Jawanna Blowme
Reply to  HerbalTea
1 year ago

Apparently you cannot have a cute face if you are over 12 years old. These people are as sick as those they protest about. Also what if you are a little person in real life, there have been some in SL, and you want you represent yourself like that in SL you cannot because of these projecting assholes.

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HerbalTea
Reply to  Jawanna Blowme
1 year ago

Little people in RL still have adult, not child like faces.

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blah
Reply to  Jawanna Blowme
1 year ago

bone structure is different my dearie, there is a difference between child like faces ((wanting to purposefully look pre-pub)) and young looking adult. no amount of tits fixes that and only makes it 100x worse

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wat
1 year ago

Also to site owner: there’s a whole heap of AI/bot comments this week, you can clearly see the formatting and poor language similarities. You’re being hit by someone.

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Toe Beans
Reply to  wat
1 year ago

I was wondering how all those got approved when a good chunk of comments that have actual substance never sees the light of day…

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Jawanna Blowme
Reply to  wat
1 year ago

They could be just Trump voters.

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Biological_bitch
Reply to  Jawanna Blowme
1 year ago

I’m sure you have so much experience in the real world that omg trump is bad. One day you’ll see that what that means is you aren’t truly informed on how the world works and probably don’t own anything, especially investments or you’d realize that life isn’t a popularity contest. So keep being woke and keep demanding other people should always make you feel good about yourself.

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seth
Reply to  Jawanna Blowme
1 year ago

You must be an American Trump Hater spewing your vile hate here. Take your liberal views somehere else and shove it, you brainwashed sicko! Many of us are sick and tired of you dehumanizing people for exercising their free will! EVER HEARD OF “FREE WILL” YOU SICK FUCK? Look what you did to your cities with your vile policies asshole! Get your dirty political ass out of here!

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Gaylord
Reply to  seth
1 year ago

Lol why are we so mad. Sir calm down. It’s not that serious.

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Yopuzzystank
Reply to  seth
1 year ago

LOL Hey…stfu.. Pstt…you just spewed a bit.😁its giving oof

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wat
1 year ago

#28

I really hope SL take action against anyone who “reports on sight” other avatars who they apparently disapprove of appearance wise.

Just leave people be. If they’re not breaking TOS (and an avatar with an appearance under the age of 30 is not breaking TOS) then it’s not anything for you to even think you have a say in.

How can you be on SL with its spirit of free expression yet get so wound up about how another avatar chooses to appear?

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Biological_bitch
Reply to  wat
1 year ago

It’s simple. It’s a sign that these people mostly live through their phones. They do not know what the real world is actually like. If they point blame elsewhere they’ll never have to address things normal people spend time thinking about.

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FagFinder
1 year ago

32- all fags are the same. lies alts and cheating.

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Jawanna Blowme
Reply to  FagFinder
1 year ago

another projector, you probably smoke more poles than a whore from Warsaw

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Yopuzzystank
Reply to  Jawanna Blowme
1 year ago

😁its giving FUNNY! thumbs up!

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Gleem Glam Glomp
1 year ago

For that one single person that answered #27 in fifty different comments all by yourself🚩. Wow, who hurt you? Here are some tips to help a person hitting rock bottom rather than bitching about the GAME SecondLife.

☻Get a RL job.
☻Go outside.
☻Touch grass and get sunlight.
☻Find a new hobby.
☻Talk to a therapist.
☻get laid.

Sounding like an insulted incel🚩on the internet makes you even less attractive while wearing that Maitreya body. Seek help. It seems your time is severely wasted on defending something outdated no one likes as much anymore💀Also sounding like an ancient Karen boomer.

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You’ll never know
1 year ago

#14 You missed me in the deleting party boo xoxo

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Hdueodnfv
Reply to  You’ll never know
1 year ago

I seen this …thought something was up because she does all her photo edits to make her avatar look different too …don’t know who wants to tell her to stop because they look like shit

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Lololol
Reply to  You’ll never know
1 year ago

And she’ll never figure out who any of us are 😂 she’ll keep catfishing though ☕️

Last edited 1 year ago by Lololol
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Imokboissreally
1 year ago

A lot of creators don’t come to minimum wage in their country, in mine to earn just for the minimum wage I have to go beyond 1600$ which is about 408,000L$ but people will always say “it was your choice to work on sl”

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GenXistentialCrisis
1 year ago

21 Apparently you like them big and ugly too, stalker. Why else you looking at all his pics?
34 Weird flex, but given the meme you used I imagine you’re full of hot takes like that where you own the libtards, huh?
35 Why are there so many people defending the Maitreya body?!! This is a virtual environment where things change and innovate constantly. It’s like you’re over here saying how superior the 1984 Apple Macintosh is to everything that’s come after. You’re allowed to love it, you just sound silly saying how great it still is compared to mesh that’s done so much more in the years since

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Alex
1 year ago

27) Lara is still the best Meshbody you can get for little money. And for many it was the first mesh body. Not everyone wants to lose so many nice clothes. If a partner leaves someone because of a slightly better mesh body that person wasnt worth it anyway and you will be in danger to get replaced too, if that mesh body is all you can offer. Also… most men cant tell the differance anyway. The hate on Lara is insane. Do we really need bodyshaming on sl?

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Yeah
Reply to  Alex
1 year ago

I ditched Lara as soon as Legacy dropped, it’s far from the best body. It’s literally incapable of having any cleavage. It’s one of the first mesh bodies, and it certainly shows.

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WhatIsYourDamageHeather
Reply to  Alex
1 year ago

Not to mention how Lara bodies and Reborn bodies have different contours under average slider conditions. I cannot make Reborn’s butt look like mine does in Maitreya because it is designed to assume you want to be pear-shaped. Maitreya is designed for a more balanced look. The balance is why I was devoted to SLink Physique until Siddean left the grid.

I’m not saying bigger butts are automatically a problem. I’m not saying Maitreya is objectively better, either. But I am saying that this manic drive to browbeat the entire grid to conform to one body only is a sickness. And that’s what this kind of secret tries to do. Poorly, but it tries. The obsession to be number one and rule the roost over a pile of pixels is almost depressing. I’m too busy scoffing at their arrogance to let it get me down, though. For the sake of your mental health, OP, drop the fixation.

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Omega Luls
Reply to  Alex
1 year ago

Also I’m pretty sure those Lara users are not crying over “losing” men to Reborn bodies. Most look like their bodies are having an allergic reaction to 100 bee stings.

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Mr. X
1 year ago

#27 The Reborn welfare whale look is not sexy. 

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Jawanna Blowme
Reply to  Mr. X
1 year ago

You can smell the trailer park trash from this post. Yeehaw. You still want to suck at De Santis teet?

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Biological_bitch
Reply to  Jawanna Blowme
1 year ago

I’m not sure what the beginning of this conversation is but it boggles my mind to think you can hate someone you disagree with that you don’t even know or that you’ve formed opinions based off of what others have told you. Think outside of your echo chamber or at least touch grass. Politicians argue then play golf together while they let you talk shit for them. Touch grass.

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I'm on a ride
Reply to  Mr. X
1 year ago

Calm down Ms Reagan

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Jawanna Blowme
Reply to  I'm on a ride
1 year ago

dat bitch was a bigger crack head than Donald Trump Junior

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Toxicwater
1 year ago

#6 Okay, you got my laughing way too hard

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lol
1 year ago

jesus yall are pressed about how other ppl style their avatars. mad a girl who’s better at shapes than you is getting more bitches than your default lelutka shape?

on god yall need to go outside and touch grass and maybe notice what an actual child looks like because it aint that

Last edited 1 year ago by lol
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Battle of Hastings, 1066.
1 year ago

As someone who owns most major bodies on SL.. I don’t see the point in fighting over it. The only argument I have ever made for people to switch is perhaps more optimised mesh or it suits their vision / form better… REALLY don’t see the point of bickering over who’s ass is better meshed. I own Mait, Legacy, Reborn, Kups, Kupra, Freya, Jake, Slink ect and they all have their own shapes and purpose..

Be who YOU want to be rather than giving a shit about what that girl or guy over there is wearing. No one is forcing you to interact with them.
Christ..

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WhatIsYourDamageHeather
Reply to  Battle of Hastings, 1066.
1 year ago

Thank you. This is the entire point of mesh body diversity. It’ll do what you need it to or you’ll move on to another. Because you can. Blessings on all mesh body houses. Even the utter failures like Signature Alice.

Last edited 1 year ago by WhatIsYourDamageHeather
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Biological_bitch
Reply to  WhatIsYourDamageHeather
1 year ago

Body diversity? I just threw up in my mouth a little. How about it’s a cartoon fucking avatar and if you care THAT much you need to get a life.

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Devious Diva
1 year ago

#1 – Hmm wonder if this means they tried to dominate another breedable by being a bossy hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do. Price this way or else. Then using alts to sell cheaper elsewhere and crash the market.
Crux and Crazy Callie Sales are the bane of breedables.

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Whoever
Reply to  Devious Diva
1 year ago

They do say one thing and DO another and so what. Get another life. you cannot blame them for the market collapse, that started months ago and is fueled by everyone’s greed. If you do not like their business, then do not rent from them or go to their auctions

Last edited 1 year ago by Whoever
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Stoog
Reply to  Devious Diva
1 year ago

So WHAT, who fucking cares if they do this. Potted had a bug, they didnt fix it. People took advantage of it, way more than a handful. They do what you said, they do say one thing and do another and SO WHAT. Up your own game, create your own scandal, get a third life

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Total Devious Bitch
Reply to  Devious Diva
1 year ago

What is it you actually think you know! 1st off Huntress is a very successful market that has ALWAYS supported breedables and has been a huge supporter of Potted. In fact they are one of few markets that actually ran pricing guides to help maintain the market prices and keep Potted afloat. If you want to point fingers maybe look towards the fact that Potted has 3 meshes and over 100 retextured items. They are a great product but people have a short attention span in breedables and grow very bored quick- when they do breeders sell low. This is all breedables or games it happens with. All Huntress has done is give POTTED patrons a market for their sales and breedables. While other market do OPEN BID auctions and shopping panels, or breeders selling seeds for under a 1k that are brand new. You should point your fingers at the people truly at fault. Potted is great product but unfortunately as soon as a new breedable releases they will be like everything else old news. Patrons of Potted should ban together to keep prices and hold all of markets accountable instead of pointing fingers— 1-2 people do not end a breedable.. Idiots selling in every market for quick cash is the problem.

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Your Alt
Reply to  Devious Diva
1 year ago

lmfao…. first 🙂 it is not a breedable
Second : yall have that much time to waste that you on here dissing on people rather than act like an adult and talk to them face to face? lmao what a joke 🙂
Third… while you pointing fingers, it makes me wonder about you and all the corruption you are spreading.. is it you that is under-selling on an alt? just getting facts straight here 😉

If you have to hurt other people in order to feel powerful, you are an extremely weak individual..

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Seriously get real
Reply to  Devious Diva
1 year ago

Seriously blaming two people for downfall of 1 breedable. Maybe check facts. Only 2 meshes retextured over and over. Yes people will grow bored. And people like Elenazero and others selling new seeds for 100 lindens. They tried to maintain market prices while other markets ran 100 linden shopping panels and open bid auctions. Sure its them. Check your facts and get a grip

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Former Soviet Nation
1 year ago

Rather than continuing to shame people for using Maitreya, could some commenters who have changed bodies after using Maitreya for a long time provide some useful tips for how to go about doing that? Especially if your inventory/CTS Wardrobe was previously organized to prioritize Maitreya items? It seems like a sort of daunting task and it would be nice to have a constructive conversation around how to change bodies instead of this petty bitchery.

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A-Kid
Reply to  Former Soviet Nation
1 year ago

Sure!

Every friend I’ve had who changed from Maitreya was already buying from stores that had other sizes so when they got their new body, they just mass redelivered and switched out the sizes in their inventory. Firestorm has a “replace links” feature too, very handy. Some did have to give up clothes only for Maitreya. If you worry you’ll change your mind and want those back – just keep the original boxes and clear out the unpacked ones. Save your shapes too.

I’ve only changed kid bodies a few times and it’s a pain, there’s no way around it and no way to make it easy.

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breakwater
Reply to  Former Soviet Nation
1 year ago

It’s not an either-or situation. Most people still use their Maitreya some of the time for old outfits. Just save the whole damn thing as an outfit. CTS will throw a fit but it was going to anyway.

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Dilila
Reply to  Former Soviet Nation
1 year ago

Really, just go buy the new body you’d like and check to see if any of the stores from your other clothing items or mesh items have updated to also include new said body. You’d be able to delete the older versions and get the updated ones for free.
And if you’re trying to figure out the organization aspect. In your inventory, between your inventory and the received items box below. There’s a suitcase button. It opens a second inventory. I would also recommend utilizing the “recent” tab for ease of access.

Also, if you want a use friendly body, use reborn. Though if you’re looking for a look that doesn’t have nice bit of thick…. Use w.e body. Personally, I prefer reborn just because too many people when making skinny avi’s tend to make them look pre-pubescent. And that’s just me personally. It’s SL, have fun.

Last edited 1 year ago by Dilila
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blah
Reply to  Dilila
1 year ago

CTS isnt your inventory sorting. Its a tool to create outfits within the CTS warddrobe functioning with links and images. While could edit links to body all the outfits themself would be broken

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Dilila
Reply to  blah
1 year ago

That’s just literally how I do it. I forget how to update all your bodies at once. I was shown it like once or twice? But, yea. Forgot how to do it. I think it’s like you right click the individual item and then hit replace all links? I could be wrong, but that’s how you’d replace all the old stuff with the newer stuff, but it’s only one item at a time sadly. (Could be wrong, someone correct me if I am)

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sweetjesusmakeitstop
Reply to  Former Soviet Nation
1 year ago

Useful tip- buy the new body, buy new clothes, the end. This isn’t NATO.

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Jawanna Blowme
Reply to  sweetjesusmakeitstop
1 year ago

Putin sticks it in your ass and you like it

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Former Soviet Nation
Reply to  sweetjesusmakeitstop
1 year ago

Oh, go fuck off a cliff, you ghoul.

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Toot the horn
1 year ago

3. Faceapp – making ugly to mediocre avatars look better since 2017. Faceapp – the poor man’s photoshop. They need a slogan. I don’t care if people use faceapp but their avatars usually look stupid or obviously faceapped. The smiles are creepy too. It’s nice to see photos that don’t use heavy enhancement on the avatar’s face. I especially hate when creators and bloggers use it to advertise skin and face products.

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RocksoCocaine
1 year ago

32 Yup, and Pandemonium sim is full of them. A lot of “mid-life” crisis queens.

28 They look nothing like child avatars. They look between the ages of 18-20 And 18+ means they are adults.

11 Doesn’t look like a child avatar. They look between the ages of 18-20. I mean seriously what child have you seen outside of SL dressed or even looking like that? Because there are none. so stop comparing them to kids. Yall obviously don’t know what real-life kids look like. They sure as hell don’t look like that. What the hell is wrong with you all? They look like YOUNG ADULTS, not babies, not toddlers, not teens, not pre-teens.

27 Stop that shit, Don’t use Reborn in that drama shit. I love Maitreya and Reborn. I got both of them for different avatars for different looks. So stop creating drama where there is none. Hell, I got Legacy, Maitreya, slink, reborn, and Belleza. Each body I use faithfully for different avatar looks. So please, stop with the drama shit. Just wear the whichever body you like and continue on with your second life and shit.

Last edited 1 year ago by RocksoCocaine
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sweetjesusmakeitstop
Reply to  RocksoCocaine
1 year ago

jfc, right?

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Bojangles
1 year ago

#27 Lol. Love how y’all think dudes in SL actually give a flying fuck about what mesh body you wearing! They just looking for easy coochiecoo! Sooo….

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Jawanna Blowme
Reply to  Bojangles
1 year ago

Yo some guys don’t even give a shit if the girl is really a girl in RL either bahwahaha

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Omega Luls
Reply to  Bojangles
1 year ago

Truth!

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breakwater
Reply to  Bojangles
1 year ago

Actually some are super fucking into a specific body or look. There are some really freaky guys in sl who just want a pixel Barbie hence AFK being so popular. Men have ZERO clue how crazy other men can be. Just like women have NO clue how crazy other women can be but men have a pretty good idea.

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Please don't mind the truth
1 year ago

#38 This chic has been doing this for YEARS she goes around to different guys to get as much money out of them as she can, but she is no different from a huge amount of girls who are all invading your wallets for the fantasy of making you think she gives two shits about you. Get a clue guys those red flags are stuck all over if you just use the eyes in your head to look instead of one eyed Willie.

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opinions are like bootyholes we all have one!
1 year ago

3. I personally don’t get the hate for Faceapp in connection with SL! We are all pixels anyway!! The only time AI and Faceapp should be an issue is when people on SL are using it in ads to promote skins they are selling and promoting!

Last edited 1 year ago by opinions are like bootyholes we all have one!
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Mr G like them small and young
1 year ago

#21 Mr G is an abusive mind player and loves his girls small. He can’t stand Independent women. He need his small girl that looks up to him and his depressive behavior. His weird idea of everyone copy him, and he is the mastermind of all blurry noir pictures on Flickr. Catching the shy teen girls on sl and play his father role. Disgusting.

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Nah...
Reply to  Mr G like them small and young
1 year ago

hahaaahh none of his exes fits the shy teen girl on sl. instead the opposite. his last ex is a 24 hour stand around offering cam sex to every guy that rezzes on sim.
not quite the shy girl on sl type

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Jawanna Blowme
Reply to  Mr G like them small and young
1 year ago

He is a legit piece of shit, he aint even smart at all. I figured him out pretty quickly when I turned him down last year. He is cruel though, just like Zack and that other abuser Levi.

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for real
1 year ago

#3 I actually feel this way every time I see a FLICKR avi in SL…its always a complete letdown and you see how powerful filters are and that even the ugliest avis can still look like total pornstars.

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maitryea4Life
1 year ago

35 Yep, we already know Maitreya is still the most used and best looking body. Only dumb little girls who need to grow up use reborn. Glad the stats prove me right, thank you!

Last edited 1 year ago by maitryea4Life
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WhatIsYourDamageHeather
Reply to  maitryea4Life
1 year ago

Mait user here. You’re an ass. Or a troll. Either way, can it. Nobody has to love Maitreya. I wish Onyx would stop making the arms so they fold like a paper towel roll at the elbow, so I’m merely glad I had one when SLink shut down. Easier to migrate my current inventory, and I’m honestly pleased I can use my appliers again. Some things cannot be redelivered.

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Jawanna Blowme
Reply to  maitryea4Life
1 year ago

Yo eat a dick Boomer ahahaha

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Tablecloth
Reply to  maitryea4Life
1 year ago

Lol ok boomer

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HerbalTea
Reply to  Tablecloth
1 year ago

Idiot response

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breakwater
Reply to  Tablecloth
1 year ago

I’m a boomer and even I am like ‘yep OK Boomer’ on this comment.

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blah
Reply to  breakwater
1 year ago

so you’re over 65?

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yuckyuck
1 year ago

@38 this kid needs to be in child daycare instead of in SL.. what kind of grown man wants to hit this sh*t???? please give me a name so I can ban this pos from my sims!

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BitchWithAnAttitude
1 year ago

#1. Um gesh if you gonna spill some dang tea atleast give all the dang tea cus we here for the tea not for rummors or you know what you did .. WE WANT TO KNOW WHAT THEY DID TO .. i mean gesh ..

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blah
1 year ago

18 how does one steal IP?

25 while that’s fucking hilarious this is all bodies, people don’t seem to know how operate fucking sliders or that hips shouldn’t the length of a toddlers

27 hunnie if a man is switching over a piece of data code graphics, he ain’t yo man or even A man at all, he is a lonely loser in a basement stroking that pinkie sized dirty knob stained with cheetos. That’s more a cry desperation than a brag.

35 epic thanks !!! love the data instead of just insults on opinions

38 perfect example of the pre-puberty faces with balloon bodies and adult XXX 

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At Least It's Halfway Right?
Reply to  blah
1 year ago

One can steal IP by claiming someone’s intellectual property as their own. IP theft includes activities such as: stealing patents, copyrights, trademarks or trade secrets. These may include logos, symbols, inventions, client lists, and other IP. https://www.proofpoint.com/uk/threat-reference/intellectual-property-theft

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blah
Reply to  At Least It's Halfway Right?
1 year ago

okay ty. I was thinking yanno IP as IP address and went uh

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No One
Reply to  blah
1 year ago

He has stolen IP addresses as well. a few of us in SL have the proof

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blah
Reply to  No One
1 year ago

you cant steal an IP address, to steal means to take from and the other lose something. You can see it sure. Guess what everytime you listen to a DJ it shows them the IP of listeners. Your emails show your IP, forums show your IP. etc Entirely pointless to think it’s some oh no he has my IP, your IP is out there everywhere for anyone to see

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Trout
1 year ago

#19. That looks like the kind of roleplay that Lucy Drake and Ramesh Singh have and would dabble in. Isn’t this guy a friend of hers too?

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HerbalTea
Reply to  Trout
1 year ago

I don’t see that child in the pic tied up with anything, just playing. Am I missing something here? Or, are we trying to see something bad?

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HerbalTea
Reply to  HerbalTea
1 year ago

Okay, thumb it down without saying what is wrong with the pic then. I seriously don’t see it.

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Ugly truth
Reply to  HerbalTea
1 year ago

That place always had blood covered child avatars and half dressed too trying to survive adult avatars. It’s creepy

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HerbalTea
Reply to  Ugly truth
1 year ago

I’m not a fan of the place either but, I never once saw anything even close to that in public anyway.

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Kody Black
1 year ago

Why do you care if Verity and I are homies? Leave our gang alone everyone on this site is a bunch of twats. I disagree with the accusations against Crim and Verity that has been posted week to week. Get fking slapped into the next dimension if you have a problem with it.

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Toe Beans
Reply to  Kody Black
1 year ago

It’s good to know where you stand on Pedo/Zoos, just as insane as your girlfriend. 🙂

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Lmfao
1 year ago

#38
Cole you need to give it up,Hadley doesn’t want to date you..deal with it and move it and get your own life…I know hers is amazing,but it’s hers not yours..get your own. As amazing as she is,we don’t need updates on every single thing she’s getting up to. It’s pretty sad that you stalk her profile all the time and post here when something changes..even if you don’t know the facts lmfao poor unfortunate soul.

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YourMomsaHo.
Reply to  Lmfao
1 year ago

Bruh…… it doesn’t have shit to do with whoever “cole” is. If it’s the “cole” I knew, she’s just as much of a little bitch too…
Hadley has been fucking up lives since 2015,probably even longer. She’s never gonna learn, she’s just gonna find the next guy like she always does. Personally she needs to Uninstall SL and get some therapy.

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Anotherslguy
Reply to  Lmfao
1 year ago

The unfortunate souls is the ones hadley suck each week or so. She will have someone new and then poof, they will be gone as well. Hadley is not innocent, but loves to play the victim.

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How many more…
Reply to  Anotherslguy
1 year ago

Lmfao typical someone blaming someone else…….Hadley prob made moves on this so called Cole person & now he’s just another person caught in the lies of her……All she does & has ever done is lie on everyone’s name to turn others against each other…..long as she isn’t to be the blame and made out to look like a victim……She’s clearly a horrible partner and an even worse friend…..girl has been on a downward spiral ever since her and Z split. Makes u wonder how much she paid him to stay them years because I still don’t understand how he did that long cause all these other guys don’t last two seconds without running away from her 😂

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Ew
Reply to  How many more…
1 year ago

Probably paid him in pussy since she’s done nothing but give herself to everyone but hey we won’t fault the man for being an idiot! she’s great at manipulating everyone she comes in contact with. I’m surprised she hasn’t tried to manipulate him being with her again but let’s hope he wouldn’t be that stupid cause she probably can’t pull him again even as a friend LUL these guys catch on rather quickly now, guess you can say she’s pretty washed up now so they see right through her lies and bs

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She a Hoe
Reply to  Ew
1 year ago

I barely know the guy but I’d beat his ass for even thinking of being her friend too! She don’t got it like that with some of these ex’s tho, she played them all too much to be that dumb! She deadass is too fucked up and everyone should stay far away from her and keep their mans away too!

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Lordddddddd
Reply to  She a Hoe
1 year ago

Not just ex’s, friends too …. I don’t know wth is wrong with her that she has to wrong people who care about her …. She has destroyed her reputation since him and I doubt he would be stupid to ever go back even as friends …. The things she done to so many can’t be forgiven and she will just keep doing it so if anyone sees her in game we all suggest staying far away …. Drama everywhere she breathes and she’ll try to fuck your man behind your back

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Hahahaha
Reply to  How many more…
1 year ago

She’s still sucking off this last guy and he pathetically doesn’t know what she’s been doing while he’s been offline lul also can we talk about how she took back a kid who has put her up here more than once and probably did this one too? She’s so fucking stupid 💀

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Wow stupid
Reply to  Hahahaha
1 year ago

Let me say, watching her choose kids who put her up here is hilarious. The people she fucked over and have fucked her over so many times she puts back in her life lol she is beyond stupid and it’s clear she will continue to be stupid lol she wonders why shes always up here but here she is choosing people shes done wrong many times before, like girl stop being so desperate because you continue to lose people that you go back to one’s you got rid of in the first place. That too never last long like your men don’t if you don’t remember

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Bruh
1 year ago

#11 and #28
Oh look…. more 40+ years old women whose husband left them and that no one loves complaining about people not looking like worn out used potato sacks like they do.

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Donna
Reply to  Bruh
1 year ago

it’s pretty sad that little kids like yourself grow up with second life.. you clearly will never reach maturity with comments like this.. and even more sad, you will never even get a husband if you waste your life being a sad little pixel in sl… laugh at others all you want but these women live and have lived a more normal life that you will ever have.. kisses 🙂

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Jawanna Blowme
Reply to  Donna
1 year ago

It is pretty sad that you think a representation of a full figured woman is still a child because of a young face you dried up old hag.

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Duh
Reply to  Donna
1 year ago

Not everyone’s goal in life is to get married and be someone’s property…kisses

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breakwater
Reply to  Donna
1 year ago

Actually You both have points here. But Donna has it right when she says at least the 40+ women ACTUALLY had an RL relationship, whereas you pixel babies are just moaning discord with your lovesense D, thinking that’s real.

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Jawanna Blowme
Reply to  breakwater
1 year ago

At least we don’t have to use lube when we play Gramma. DANG

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Belle Delphine
Reply to  Donna
1 year ago

Do you also cry when you look at real young adults on instagram and tiktok? Stay strong mummy!

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downwithunderboob
1 year ago

#27: Sorry, honey. If a woman’s man can be stolen by a bimbo, it’s on him, not on her or her Maitreya body.

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Lia
1 year ago

Well, when it comes to the Maitreya thing. I use it, and both my friends use it. I’m in my 30’s, one of my friends is in her 40’s and the other just turned 50. The reason we first picked the body is a simple one, at the time we bought them it was (and still is) the most supported body for clothing. People who have been using Maitreya for a long time are now essentially “locked in” to the body. Is Maitreya showing its age? Yes, it is, is it an old body? Yes, it is. However, does it still look decent? Yes, but only if you spend time to tweak the shape to overcome some of the obvious problems…and THAT is the singular problem with some Maitreya users you see, they haven’t spent time on the shape. When me and the girls go out and dance we get nice comments in chat and even in IM, and we’re going to the likes of Peak and Warehouse where there are a lot of Legacy and other body users. Sure, we’ve had a few comments that the body suck’s and we should buy new ones, i then ask them for 400,000+ L$ to replace the clothing we will EACH need to drop. The convo ends soon after that. There’s been a handful of times they start getting abusive, I just block and report if that happens. Maitreya is showing its age though, at some point they are going to have to give it a major overhaul, or come out with a totally new body, but for the people who have been using Maitreya for a number of years and have hundreds, and in some cases thousands of outfits for it, it’s going to have to be a big draw in… Read more »

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Throwingsomesalthere
1 year ago

38- Give it about a week. An ex will show up and they will be back together claiming it’s love, then a few weeks later, they will break up. It’s the “never ending hadley relationship show”

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She a Hoe
Reply to  Throwingsomesalthere
1 year ago

Catch her in Club511 looking for her next victim cause that’s where she was last seen

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TheTruth
1 year ago

27# Imagine you flex with ¨stealing your pixel man¨ in Second Life. I don’t think I heard a more sad and desperate sentence in a long while

Also imagine you are Be Less Ignorant, Please and actually take time to snap photos in SL of lovely young women, who also look like adults. I mean A+ for being invested. Maybe someone needs some fresh air and a scoop of life with it 😂

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