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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.
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#25 Is some real shit. Ick.
#43. I have had land with Willowdale for 4 years and have never had a single problem. The managers are friendly and helpful especially Imagin. The lands are gorgeous, beautifully landscaped and you can terraform to suit if you want to add or change something. It’s easy to change to a different land if you want and if you have a full homestead they will switch it completely to one of their many other designs such as going from forest land to a beach. You don’t have to move . I
@24 Not sure what it is that you did that would elicit such negativity from the group but I’ve been in the group long enough to know that this is one of the friendliest non toxic groups in SL where you are free to initiate a conversation within the group.
Maybe look inwards and you will see your own toxicity?
So, NH, where is the new mayor? you hardly ever see a hide or hair of her?, her office looks nice, but shouldn’t a mayor be in the office.. doing mayor stuff?, IDK, i think she might be a lame duck mayor, not seen, not talking, not around.
At least Zane was EVERYWHERE, still is, and at any event almost, she was there, looking fucking smashing too… and a sweetheart to everybody she is around, even those who disrespect her, talking about an Angel (PUN INTENDED LOL) And she’s just about the city’s most drop dead gorgeous girl, that woman knows how to do it.. Charm, class, sophication to the MAX, i hope she re runs, and gets back in, she is the diamond of new haven in all honesty, that shine to the city, that greeter, the girl who is sweet to EVERYONE, i wish i was single, i would so SO SO SO SO try to date her,
you know the old saying? “don’t hate me because i’m beautiful” That is who and what Mayor Zane should say, but again, she has too much class and sugar, to ever say that to anybody, the girl likes classics like David Bowie, i’ve heard it blasting Kate Bush in her Black Lusch Stella,
people hate her, i suspect, is because she is a gentle soul, beautiful too.. and hurt, i read the last weeks posts about her, somebody loves her, and also told us why she doesn’t take peoples shit….
Anyway, new haven will survive, with a boring mayor, she’s just a chair keeper for Zane to come back i think!
#7 What happened to other managers like Eliza and Emma. Were they fired?
As far as I know Eliza was never a manager. Emma, there was one when I first moved to town but she decided to leave with someone else and go over to grimlocke I think. They have quite a few managers now.
The rumors must be true that Cara and Brian fired the original managers
Naw. They moved out of NH for personal reasons from what I was told. They didn’t even give notice. They legit spend a day grabbing their stuff and removed everyone from NH. They left with no notice or warning to Cara & Brian. They were just as upset and confused as everyone else.
#19
This is the real one. First off I didn’t even want to post to ANY thread here. However I have been put in the position to where I have to. I may make mistakes from time to time, but I would NEVER stoop as low to put someone’s contact info in or on a public forum. Yes, I have seen the rumors and hate, however that was NOT me! I am defending myself. The post about the ABDL is fabricated. I do have to wear from time to time because of a weak bladder from having prostate cancer a couple years back. I am just moving on with my life which I really wish others would do. I see below here that There is a space for a name and an email. So that means everyone and anyone could post. Right? Right! So have you thought for a second that the original poster(s) are wanting to make me look bad? Trust and believe, if I wanted to make myself look bad, I would have no issue doing so. Let me be. Let me live my life. I am not going to name any names because that is naming and shaming. But they know who they are. they know what they are capable of. Do I want to get even? Yeah, I sure do. However once again…I am not going to bring myself to their mentalities. Once again….posting to a thread on here is the last thing I wanted to do. But I had no choice. I am using my real email address to post on here. I only knew about this from waking up to a nice little message this morning. Let me be and move on. Thank you.
Stop lying.. i have seen all the RL pictures of you wearing pacifiers, diapers, reaccepts of you wishing people to die, screenshot of you sending Diaper porn, so you keep living in that imaginary sick life.
Dude you used the name Gizmo, Justins RL dead cats name only YOU knew that, don’t worry Karma will get you. You are not fooling anyone with your lies. P.s over 35+ people complained about you posting the addresses, and before you get your diaper in a twist, this is not Justin or Megan, nor is it them posting the virtual secrets about you, all i know is… it aint them. 🕶
Oh and you having Cancer, that is a lie too, anything to gather sympathy.
#1
Send the proof, because without it, your just jelly?
No need to be jelly of a cheating man whore. Wasn’t Candi given proof before? Why would my friend put her name out there to save someone who likes to play pretend. I’m just calling out how funny it is.
#1 this screams BS from a jealous psycho who can’t keep a man and has no life so instead comes on this site to make herself feel better. Also, if you “bestie” knew he was a married man and supposedly slept with him anyway, your friend is a whore.
My friend maybe a whore if you were married. But you married in an online game not rl dear and you knew he was a compulsive cheat as I said she knows about the last time. At least she doesn’t stay with a man that cheats on her with multiple women. She just really used him for money. Sending her 10k at a time. He has multiple alts and trashed you to lots of other women. Continue with your fake relationship Candi baby, your “perfect partner”. You only make a fool of yourself. But we do enjoy watching you do it. See you soon baby girl kisses.
10. Women are probably just living their life and you’re taking it personal. “Mind games” yeah right. Your insecurity has made you go into a “I’m in charge. I’ll get you before you get me” kind of thing which is going to be your downfall. You wanted to bring her down a peg or two because YOU are insecure. YOU are the person playing games. She trusted you with RL. Hell, I get annoyed when guys even ask me for more pictures just because I show my pictures every now and again by my OWN choice but here you have this woman meeting you then you proceed to ignore her and make sure not to say nice things to her? That’s weird and you need to grow up. She probably thinks there’s something wrong or is questioning her looks but I feel like that’s what you wanted. You wanted to bring her down to your insecure level. I’m glad she’s dating. Don’t tell her anything, try growing up first. She’ll move on from you just because YOU yourself resorted to mind games all because she’s pretty. Pretty people exist. They exist everywhere even on SL. Stop judging people by looks and age.
“Pretty”… judging by that text she’s a 5 tops and still the hottest chick that ever gave him the time of the day so he completely fumbled the football.
I mean, OP said she’s beautiful so I’ll take their word for it. Beauty is subjective. One persons 10 can be another persons 5 and vice versa but I’m not going to rate the looks of a girl I’ve literally NEVER seen. If she’s pretty, I’m happy for her. No point in insecurely attacking her looks. But yeah OP is fumbling the ball.
Objectively, no dude that regularly dates 7-10s does what he did and asks what he asked. Nothing to do with her, everything to do with him being clueless so you can estimate the ceiling.
“Beauty is subjective.” is a hard cope of women in their 40s believing they can still compete with women in their 20s. Yes the shape of a nose or eye color preference can differ, but pretending there are no objective beauty measurements is just copium.
Objective beauty measurements do not exist because the standards are judged by the culture in question. Just because some cultures insist beauty is more important than honesty and youth is everything doesn’t mean it’s scientifically validated truth. Even studies (especially studies) can be painfully biased by who builds them and why they’re being done. A 6′ supermodel won’t be as beautiful to a culture who prefers women who are shorter. The pale-as-pretty motif is based on classism (the rich can stay indoors) and often racism. Being heavy is valued in societies with dubious food access because the richer can afford to be fatter. The reverse happens in societies where working out is leisure-time behavior. Try studying this stuff before barfing out your nonsense.
The social justice crusader with a PHD in everything has to make it about landwhales and racism, consider me not surprised. Keep pretending I’m wrong and seethe on.
Fat chance; if it’s not in the margin of the redpill subreddit, that guy isn’t reading it.
The catlady still obsessing about the redpill. Boomers on the internet man.
And yet everything you say comes directly from their sad, incel bible, complete with the scent of sweat and shame.
12 Prize money – no, but I have won some store credits when they did huge giveaway in collab with creators, back in the beginning.
#10 You don’t approach her about your feelings, you should have shown you’re interested in the way you acted, making another date, as in a real date, not some supermarket. You acted like a little boy and didn’t make a move and now want to ask her to be your gf in hindsight? You know how that’s going to go, you just refuse to accept you messed up the first impression moment and got yourself stuck deeper in the friendzone. She’s telling you about the dates she’s going on, you’re basically her gay male girlfriend already
25. Seriously. Isn’t that point of sl.? To have a second life. You do realize that the 40 and 50 yesr olds made sl,, right? And the point of sl is you can be anything you want. Be anyone you want. If it bothers you,, they make a really cool feature, it’s called a block button.
#22/23.
3.5k for a megapack of CLOTHES is the craziest shit I have ever seen in SL.. sure it’s nice quality and shit but gah damn, you’d get alot more sales if it was cheaper.. I’m just saying.
I haven’t seen 1 person wear anything from Palette and I see new/old people all the time working in clubs… wonder why..
#27.
Looks like an ex of mine after he left me xD
to be fair… its 5 fatpacks (top, bottom, shoes, backpack, book stack accessory). that ends up only being 700 each which really isn’t bad. I def wouldnt pay 700L for a fatpack of a backpack or books to hold, but i’d prob pay 800-900 each for the rest, so that balances out. but only if that outfit holds up for multiple looks and reuse/wear… which to me it doesn’t. I’m sure others like it enough to pay it.
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To be fair, a 5 piece set for 1,225 is only 245 per item. That really isn’t a bad price.
3.5k for a megapack is nuts though
#8 Whoever posted this is a bitter person because something didn’t go right for them. 511, is literally 100% better since it’s been taken over. No more small little skybox with 900 people standing around doing NOTHING. No more drama- literally the drama in local has dropped to zero since they have started bring in DJ’s. People are moving, talking, enjoying themselves. Sounds to me like the poster is probably a club owner and is pissed that 511 is taking away from their business by,,, just being a better place to be. Keep up the good work 511– I will continue to show my support.
511 was only good when it was not so popular, the people at gobsmacked were cool and fun… not sure why the new owners got this club if they were going to change it completely anyway
#8 A narrow hallway with chairs and a piano where people AFK, while low-quality jazz plays from a radio stream, is not a club.
#11 Stop infantilizing Asian women
#13 The original was a prefab
#25 Using slang from a 20 year old movie to cry about the way people talk? Okay boomer.
guess you’re into kids, asian’s don’t look like white kids you fucking moron pedo
re: 8 – maybe you’re thinking of the old build but that is definitely not it now. you should look again.
Baby Boomer- Year Range: 1946 to 1964
Okay, Boomer.
okay zoomer
My ability to Google it was not a result of my age, dumbass.
Yeah cool. Weird thing to be smug about but you do you. I’m sure someone somewhere is proud of you that you googled something and then yelled at someone about it on the internet.
Why do people like you get defensive about being wrong instead of just accepting it and moving on? Do you enjoy being more stupid than you have to be?
Whatever, LOL.
it’s not mind games just because someone younger doesn’t want to get serious…… they are just being smart and enjoying life and not trying to be tied down right away. let her live ehr life as freely as she wants, and if you don’t fit that and can’t let her go.
#28: Sisterly advice: you don’t need a partner to be happy. Try to find your happienes on your own, and then you can add a partner.
However, if f*ckboys and those hookups are the thing for you right now, thats fine too, just remember you can be complete on your own.
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This is absolutely disgusting behavior & should not be allowed.
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Do you find children sexy? Is that why you think of sex/pedophilia when you see young looking avatars.
Young face does not mean sexualizing children. People watch anime all the time & all the girls on there look like children even if they aren’t children & there are adult humans that look extremely young.
Perhaps you should change how you look at young looking people.
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Boycott Palette prices
Everyone is raising prices. It’s getting ridiculous & is why I rarely ever shop anymore. Even sale events people are charging more at the high end of the sale prices. People are having more & more of a hard time affording things in RL, keep jacking your prices & you’ll end up with a way bigger loss than you realize.
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40-50 yr olds regressing to teen speak: If you don’t like it, don’t talk to them. Easy peasy.
Child avatars baby talk: It is creepy, but again. Don’t talk to them. Simple enough fix.
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Same stuff different events: I’ve noticed several places doing this & several big name stores actually using full perm mesh or mesh off of sites & then calling it their own original mesh. They will only do what they are allowed to get away with. So if you see it, call it out & stop buying from them.
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Revoul hair messed up from the side view: This isn’t the only place that has done this, but it does seem to be the worst offender.
A lot of stores honestly just don’t care anymore. It’s just about making the money & they will do the least amount of work as possible to achieve that.
Well said about number 11… I was thought to be a child, just cause I was “shorter”… this shit needs to stop… not hard to tell whats a child or isnt…
I haven’t been in SL for years but still come back to this site time to time to be nosy. None of these post are secrets for god sake. Just people complaining. Why do people care what the fuck others chose to look like in sl… isn’t that the point to be different? Back when this site was sl secrets you had actual people outing
Shit. For example… did you know that the owner of greed cat bumblefoot use to do so much coke back in the day her doctor told her to stop because she started developing holes inside her nose. That’s a secret people. Know the difference. Stop being fucking babies and just coming on here complaining.
Complaining about complaints is so sad.. gtfo!
#12 I know for certain the owner of this raffle deletes some or all entries daily. I kept getting my entry bumped out of the last round so something fishy was going on with it. Probably choosing her friends for the prizes.
Best to avoid these types of events with fake incentives.
14. Shut your cockhole, you hoplophobe. No one likes a whiney bitch
36. People in SL can be whatever color, sex, or species they please. And can change any of these as often as they like. STFU and mind your own business.
Willowdale has some of the more pretty land that you can buy from. Imagin works her ass off to keeping that, that way. The girls that sell work their butts off to keep the customer happy… including trying to help fit houses. You are paying for land, not the land to be set to your liking. That is what you do AFTER. But YOU do it.
Time is money and if people are busy hire your own landscaper to move. Btw willowdale even gives rights to move their items yourself.
Stop being lazy. Learn how to do things in sl, and buy houses that fit rather than fitting an oversize house for a parcel.
#12 yes, I won 1k from Binge. Was a nice surprise. Made my day. 🙂
5. Wonder when people will learn to stay away from guys with “lord”, “king” and similar in their names.
Never ever met one dude whose name contains one of those words is at least a little bit normal.
“Saint” is also a red flag to me. I’ve never once met a guy who chose to have saint in his name who wasn’t also one of the most revolting people alive.
Same with the demonic names
34. Willowdale is still a thing? Didn’t it used to have a school that closed and some other things? Anyway I remember living there a long time ago, it was borning af.
This thread isn’t about an RP Sim. Willowdale is a land rental agency
34 has nothing to do with Willowdale. Check you’re self….
I lived there myself and liked it but it got boring.
15- i wish these skin stores would make a version of the body skins without the shine painted on. we have specular settings on bodies for that. i don’t wanna be walking around covered in body oil all the time
Velour has a separate addon that removes the shine, and it helps a bit, but it should have been a default option imo. Although a lot of people seem to like it.
Good thing they’ve put out 2 other female body skins (Venus and Picasso) since Ipanema, neither of which are shiny by default. I agree the oiled look is weird and incredibly outdated- reminds me of the early, EARLY days of SL- but it’s way past being relevant as a complaint against Velour when it’s only 1 of 3 options.
the 2 mentioned are not by Velour though lol
Yes they are, dumbass; one tp could have settled that for you, but you had to correct me despite not knowing shit. Picasso is a collaboration with IT Girl, but it’s still Velour branded and sold in their store, and Venus is a Velour only product.
Its not a collaboration in that way lol.. wow you are moronic. It fully 100% Itgirl work the collab is the tones made to match nothing more or less. Nor is it Velour branded. It is ItGirtls branded and ItGirls redelivery etc. Just because a creator has a vendor some store doesn’t make it that stores product. Not how it works lovie. I mean Velour and others have vendors at lelutka does that mean Lelutka made them and Lelutka branded? no dumbass
#31 If Caiti Baxton is a Reason your on FB I know 11 people who this she is a down right cunt and can gyazo conversations of her running her fucking mouth and destroying their friendships and them being replaced by other bitches by Caiti.
If Bella Anne Wexhome is a reason your on FB well I know 7 guys from Lusthouse she fucks on the regular….that just makes her a slut/whore fill in the blank.
That is all.
So what you’re saying is that Caiti said something mean to you and hurt your feel feels once and Bella wouldn’t fuck you?
I don’t know Bella’s Slut as personally I know her from a few female friends in the circle I of gal pals I know. Caiti I know through FB and ran into her a few times in world. She is a fown right cunt muffin and twat. She pisses people off on the regular and she knows it. I have no compulsion to bow down to her to prove anything because she knows it be true. She doesn’t have to set out to destroy anything, anyone with half a brain knows friendship can be destroyed by her or the other person on a whim without much effort. The ones I know who longtime even short time friends of hers were who thought she was cool saw the truth and who she really is.
I wouldn’t turn into a lesbian to fuck Bella’s cheap ass looking avatar to save my SL avie in a million years. I’d rather get Covid a million times over in RL to be quite honest that be a ho like her. Or a complete bitch of a cunt like Caiti. They both know it that is why they stick together. I feel bad for anyone who befriends them.
And it also sounds like you’re someone Bella chose to distance herself from and are hiding behind anonymity like a coward. Slut shaming is a weirdo look for anyone and it speaks of their own lack of confidence. Be blessed!
Ahh, someone who doesn’t like me! Oh no, my poor feelings. Great assumptions about me you’ve got there. The last thing on Earth I want is for people to bow down to me, which just tells me you have zero clue who I am personally and are just one in the multitude of folks here, angry about the public persona of someone who likely didn’t wish to know you. Still waiting on your gyazo’ed conversations, or at least for you to be brave enough to say who you are tho. <3
Don’t need to shame her, she came out and admitted it herself, she fucked much more than that. She could have kept her mouth shut and not said a word, kind of like you and being a cunt. Again, if it wasn’t true, you wouldn’t have said a word and the onus would have been on me to prove it and you not coming out here trying to antagonize someone into showing things you already know. Besides you know how SL works. One person says it to one. They tell 5 others who tell 50 others who tell 500 others who tell 5000. Then it becomes truth. Or have you not been around life long enough to figure out public opinion yet?
I am NOT fucking 7 guys on the regular from the Lusthouse.
The number is much MUCH higher.
Fuck you for trying to slut shame me.
Yeah, the microdick energy is strong in that post lol
and omg are we still slut shaming women and people in general for usinf SL as a safe space to explore sexuality. seriously. and show those UNEDITED gyazos you speak of.
Also…you’re*
Dude, who are the 11 guys I’ve been fucking on the reg at lusthouse.
I know 11 people who think I’m a cunt too! I’ve never set out to destroy friendships though. Lets see those conversations.
*raises hand* 12. I LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUU
I think you’re a cunt . But that’s ok!
#26 Does Yo and Preshy and Alexis still have there mouths wrapped around Bully Trisks cock?
Yo still fuck her kids and DJ’s and other staff?
That was at least the story when my friend DJ’d there she tried to fuck him.
No they have their mouth wrapped around DJ Shit I mean shots 💀
DJ shots aka Dom padlock is the sexiest man in sl you better recognize. You jelly bc he so foine even in rl hotter than your sunburn
💀
May i suggest get close to Dee (DMT) give her that good dick like Issues (Justin) is doing and you’ll make hella bank lmfao Justin got himself a good one him and his brothers making it off Dee keep giving her that shrimp dick issues
🪦 💀
#10 I’m going to tell you what you Need to hear, because that’s what you asked for.
A few observations here:
You’ve only been talking to her as friends, not dating her in SL, right?
You only met her once in RL.
She is seeing others in RL.
Therefore, she probably doesn’t consider you as a potential romantic partner.
You, on the other hand…
…have fallen for her mostly because of her looks.
…are afraid she’s going to play mind games on you…
…are playing mind games yourself, just so that you “seem uninterested”…
…while she is just busy living her own life, considering you as a trusted friend.
Honestly, you seem very immature, and this is a recipe for disaster. Please do not approach her or anyone else for anything other than friendship until you sort yourself out.
#20 Dimi did you do it again? How the hell did you convince Arch Neuntolder to make you Clan Proxy lol! I swear to all that is Vampire. You Russian Twit. Well,HDLO deserves a POS like you TBH.
#34 I ALWAYS SEE THAT SEAJI GUY WITH SOME VERY POPULAR LADY WHO CALLS HERSELF BLVD HO. I WONDER IF SHE CAN HELP HIM GO OUTSIDE AND TOUCH GRASS.
Doubt it, he’s like secretly into his Youth kid who made an adult character now and they both spend all their time together so I think the last thing he’ll be touching is grass. 👀
He sure gets around.
Voting down because the guy posting that is probably the one that was harassing him and calling him slurs a while back. 🙄
Oh? Do say more.
The guy who posted that was the guy Caspian from last week, he has constantly stalk that one guy to the point both his account got banned from actual love cuz he had a whole new account to stalk the people who rejected him. OH yea! He keep every picture you send of yourself self and send it too others and call you a slur so yea mf crazy lol.
lol this is good.
#16 Agree. By derendering the demo sign they can only use the outfit for photos.They weren’t going to buy it anyway, but at least they are giving you free marketing. *shrugs*
Demo text, single texture demo, or timed demos are okay. But those untextured/ugly texture demos are awful. And NO DEMO is the worst!
#27 Guys with system avis and flexi hair get laid plenty. That guy will have no problem whatsoever.
Disappointing. Secrets didn’t even make it to 50. I submitted one last night and it didn’t make it. 🙄
I submitted on months ago that never made it. They pick and choose what ones they put. The ones they think will bring in more or ones they deem more interesting. It’s common business practice. Nothing new.
secrets are only redone 1x per week on sunday aeround 10am PST
you probably wrote one about the site owners buddies, its pretty clear she does not post secrets when they are perfectly legit but might hurt her buddies… so sad..
It takes 2-3 days.
Sumit it again, surely your secret will be better than this same ole shit.
#14 Unpopular opinion here. A lot of SL residents,including many of those creators, are from outside the USA. In most other countries guns are only owned by law enforcement etc. so even owning a truckload of guns in SL is not going to inspire people to go on a rampage in RL, because they simply can’t.
All the most popular video games involve full-blown violence…PUBG, Mortal Kombat, Doom etc. Kids and adults are addicted to these games.
In SL, apart from the VICE combat stuff, most guns are just props. Themes like spies, mafia, military, police etc. have always been popular. You are making an issue where there isn’t one.
I agree, gun violence is extremely horrible. But only RL laws can solve the RL problem.
To the poster of 14- SL is the place to escape reality and have fun doing it. You should know that SL is where children ‘can’t’ be harmed…duh, and is why people go there to do the things they can’t in SL and where we don’t see anything against kids. To compare this to RL violence or to the Ukraine shows you’re not separating yourself to be in SL in the first place. SL is not the Sims, lol, and I recommend you go play that instead.
40: “We have hairs at another level at home!”
*The hairs at another level at home*
#24 – First time posting on this site, the Drivers of SL group is pretty TOXIC. Most active members on the chat are rude and trash. I have noticed more and more sponsors no longer posting on group notice because the amount of attacks and berates they will get.
REMEMBER MOST OF THOSE MEMBERS ARE INTO ”FREE” STUFFS. IT IS ALSO A GROUP BUILT BY Christi/Tiff haystack and her friends to advertise her store, being a sponsor you are feeding her and those freebie lovers LOL. They don’t buy, they get your free stuffs and then give you ungrateful, nasty comments.
The group also promotes hate about certain scripts, systems the ”core members” don’t like while falsely advertising some certain store/script.
SO BEWARE, you won’t be able to sell anything there. Don’t be a sponsor, don’t bother with that group. I feel so bad for those creators/sponsors who have been a victim of them.
Agreed, I once voiced a simple suggestion to Christi because one of the drives couldn’t be completed and she absolutely flipped out on me until I had to block her insane ranting. That was my last drive, lol.
10: Hey friend. This is a serious comment.
This is going to hurt her if you continue to avoid her. How did you meet up? Is she LOOKING for RL or did she trust you to meet in RL because you’re friends and not looking to date her as far as she knows? You need to at least talk to her, because right now her take-away could hypothetically be “Oh, im losing a friend because im pretty.” There is no single feeling worse than losing someone in your life because you’re “too amazing”. Its like being punished for being yourself around someone. She hasn’t done anything that you’ve mentioned to change your friendship ,so IMO you gotta facilitate a conversation, friend. Even if you ask her out and she says no. Then you can figure your stuff out. But right now youre blowing off a FRIEND who trusted you with RL because you like her a lot? Thats gonna hurt like a mother fucker if you keep ignoring her and she feels ghosted right after meeting you. 9/10 of women would be like “oh, hes ghosting me. What did i do wrong, do I look bad, did I say something dumb” etc. So if it turns out she returns your feelings? Shes gonna spare herself the pain if she thinks you’re blowing her off.
Sincerely,
Someone who’s been there.
#1 – They just announced their SL pregnancy today too..what timing
Stalker Much?
Can’t help what pops up on my FB/Flickr feed as I am scrolling along but sure, think what you will
Is it being a stalker when they post the information publicly? Asking for a friend.
Maybe that’s why the girl outed him? Mad he’s making babies while promising to leave the girl?
Or maybe the whole post is a lie, a sad attempt from a jealous psycho at trying to break them up 🤷🏻♀️
Or is that what you keep telling yourself?
#36 – Why did you even post this? Who cares about a persons avatar? this is SECOND Life, Right? Could be a damn pony goblin if you wanted. Get a life.
Hate to tell #43, but Willowdale does not owe you anything when it comes to helping you terraform your land. I’ve been a resident of Willowdale for several years and before that many years with their sister company Luxury. They allow you to move the items they leave on your land or to just delete them altogether. However, any landscaping you want done, you have to do yourself within the rules of the convent ofcourse. I’ve never had one issue with this company which is why I’ve stayed for so long. Perhaps you need to learn to be less entitled and also learn how to do landscaping or buy a house that fits your land instead of coming here and talking crap about a really great land owner.
Totally agree, Ive been renting of them for ages and Imagin is really helpfull. Its not her fault if someone doesnt know how to teraform or make their land look nice… learn or pay someone to landscape it ffs.
Agree. And the land is already gorgeously landscaped. I have changed some of their trees for some of my own that were lower prom and even changed out the surround because mine was from the same place but I liked a little better. I have been there nearly 4 years and will be staying.
40. Hair should be wearable from all angles. Creators learn your craft and release quality products.
#10 I was in that situation, went out on a few outings, wouldn’t call them dates, more just chilling out and enjoying each others company, when all of a sudden she told me she just wants to be friends, im cool with that, i would rather have a close friend than a friend you date and it gets ruined and you lose both. My guy/girl, some people are just not meant to be, while you might find love in someone you never thought possible, i just recently found out a long time friend of mine likes me more than just a friend, but i digress, keep them as a friend! Friendship is more valuable than gold now days and its rare to find someone that will stick by you.
All these secrets about town / family roleplay sims. Does anyone actually roleplay at these? My understanding is most of them are basically expensive rental places where people play themselves, not a character.
Yes but usually only within their clique. Everyone else is ignored and yelled at for complaining about the favoritism hoping that person will just leave.
thats what I get from it too. Its like…idk…softcore RP + mystory LOL
#14 get over it, you dont like guns, do go where peoples where them, end of story.
#16 you dont make stuff so if you dont like signs on demos, who cares, you must be a copy botter that sucks at copy botting, some of us creators work hard on demos though we hate making demos cause you whiners use deformers and other stuff that your idiot self whines because ya have to alpha out under them.
and this ^ is from a designer lmao. wow. says everything right here xD
Wow #14
I only got one point for you.. We can never get rid of guns in America, with so fewer and fewer Police and longer responce times because of the lack of cops. The sad truth is the only way we can stop a bad guy with a gun is a good guy with a gun.
#BuyMoreGuns
I’m considering building a medieval, Chinese repeating ballista…often completely legal and as deadly as an assault weapon of today. It’s comical to me how liberal people of today are so against guns when in ancient times, the weapons were just as deadly and everyone alive owned something to protect themselves, so that people of today could even exist. The English soldiers would shoot bolts at their enemy, they weren’t playing around. Weapons will exist as long as people do.
It’s either cops or guns. Anarchy or authority. That’s the world we live in. You’re only option is death if you want full peace or take it both ways. You can’t be the authority without a weapon.
Also remember that one school shooting where a kid was miss gendered and people were on that so called nonbinary side? Why are kids caring about what gender they are don’t you think there’s something fucked up about kids learning about gender and sex?
If people glamourize murderers and criminals for social justice or for other political and social reasons. You already lost the argument.
The shooter wasn’t non-binary or trans. And you must be fine with kids learning about heterosexuality, so why quibble when the combination is different so long as we’re not discussing showing porn as sex ed? Also, you have a gender. Most people do. Including kids. So they should know it exists and how it works. Don’t like it? Russia agrees with you.
Russia is whats fucking the world right now. They wouldn’t agree with me on womans rights. the fact that kids are learning about sex at a young age is kinda the demoralization Russia and mostly China wants so that they can make sure our military constantly fight itself while they miss gender every transexual when they invade.
I genuinely feel bad for some Americans. I can’t imagine living in this much fear for no reason.
I don’t live in fear, in my state its not common for people to break into houses or rob people, its a fuck around and find out state. Most people in my state have at the very least 1 gun on them, in their car, or in their house.
I feel sad for you, that you have to let yourself and your family get robbed and stabbed and raped without being able to defend yourself.
Not American, mate. Lol We have lots of guns here but none of the gun culture or culture of fear, and crime is super low.
The good guy with a gun thing isn’t realistic, it’s a useless political narrative. For the record, I’m indifferent to guns in SL, but it doesn’t surprise me considering how pervasive gun culture is in America and how many users are American.
well what do you describe someone as that never uses the gun for anything but hunting and left in cabinet otherwise. they are typically called a good ole’ boy, yes a good guy that happens to own a gun. it does exist
I didn’t say it didn’t exist, I said the trope is a political narrative and is meaningless. It’s used to counter the attempts at stricter gun laws and the public just repeats it without thinking.
you do realize that stricter laws on law abiding citizens with guns will in no way effect those that do not carry legally, right? and they are the largest issue we have.
Wanna know why? You can literally go to Mexico or Colombia or countrys close to our border and get them illegally. That or another gun owner or a guy who knows how to build guns after being fired from a gun manufacturering center. It’s that easy.
Another useless political narrative designed to stop any kind of discussion aimed at lessening gun violence. Now, why are we talking about this when the topic was guns in SL?
But…. the post does refer to RL in the last paragraph.
When you’ve lived in an area with constant gun violence and shootings, swat at your door yet not a single gun in use was legal then come back to me about political narratives that a figment of your own paranoia in this topic. Until then shoo fly shoo I guess. Guns are here it is a fact, guns will stay legal or illegal. No amount of laws for law abiding will change this it only increase the illegal guns. It is the US this is the reality here. As for why, its the topic of this thread. Keep up will you.
Do you understand why Americans have a right to own guns? Its so we can defend ourselves against our own government. Also….REALLY hate to tell you this, but making laws doesn’t stop gun violence. People who break the law don’t follow the law, so making laws against guns won’t stop people who want to do bad things with them.
What people seem to forget is if they did succeed in wiping out our second amendment rights it won’t affect the criminals and thugs. So they keep their guns and have no problem using them criminally and the responsible gun owner is left without defense! I carry but went thru a gun program to do so I do so legally. It’s not legal gun owners shooting people. Sadly it’s become a time where you need to be able to defend yourself if necessary. And then you have the fools who want to defund law enforcement.
If you think your piddly personal arms can actually protect you from the government, congrats- they’ve trained you to be exactly the moron they need. If the government actually wanted you dead, you’d never see it coming. If the government wanted your whole city dead, they could do it from miles away. This argument is 100% clown shoes
Do you realize or understand how many people are former military? Or have grown up with guns in their house and understand how to use them? Do you also realize, that former military people don’t suddenly forget their training once they leave their service? I’m sure you don’t being as you likely have never served, and that makes you a sad person. Also…fun fact, the military is every were, they will NOT throw bombs so close to their bases. You really have no clue as to anything you talk about here, the fun thing is 99.9% of the people know this.
Look up Waco Texas.
I don’t need to look it up; I lived only a couple of hours from there when that happened. Why mention a situation where death wasn’t the actual goal? That’s not at all relevant. I said if the government actually wanted you dead- there would be no hostage negotiation, no standoff, no attempts at peaceful resolution. You’d just be dead. Nice try though.
Do you understand why the right spoon feeds you the laws-won’t-stop-criminals narrative? So you forget how complex the issue is and latch on to an oversimplified and faulty logic and then feel confident in the assumption that you know what you’re talking about and completely forget that you’re doing everything in your power to ensure children continue to get murdered in schools. That takes a certain lack of empathy and common sense which makes me sad.
So you’re telling me, that a law will stop someone from gaining something they want? Gee sure does a great job with drugs. It is so so easy to get drugs, yet theres many laws against having them, using them, selling them, making them. And its all still going on without a hitch. Laws don’t stop criminals, because a criminal doesn’t follow the law. Gun laws stops people who follow the law from defending themselves against criminals.
Just look at any blue state, there’s people getting shot, robed, assaulted all the time. Now look at red states, it doesn’t happen as much because red states don’t allow strict gun laws, so criminals are less likely to do theses bad things in fear of getting shot.
Maybe you should stop watching CNN and The View and really do some looking of your own. I understand that means using your brain but I have faith you can do it.
You can’t explain this shit to people who have already decided what they believe to be true; they’re wearing impenetrable shields of willful ignorance, and their whole identity depends on them feeling “right”. If their dumbfuck logic actually made any sense, there would be no point in having laws against anything, but of course they don’t have the capacity to think in terms that broad. They don’t understand how black markets work, how much more expensive things get when they are illegal because of the risk involved in providing them, and how much harder it would make it for the average poor fuck to get an illegal gun if we had stricter laws. At the very least, the private sale/”gun show” loopholes should be closed. No one should ever be able to purchase a gun legally without a background check and registering the weapon. I personally think we should treat guns like cars; safety training, insurance, and licensing required to operate, with periodic updates to registration and licenses. I don’t want to take people’s guns away entirely, I just want them to fully understand the gravity of their purchases, be informed of how to own them safely, and have the ability to financially cover any “accidents” that may arise from their negligence. They invent whatever deflections they need to explain away the huge, glaring difference in the amount of gun violence in other countries where they have more stringent laws, they ignore the phrase “well-regulated” in the Second Amendment because that obviously allows for any necessary restrictions; all they care about is protecting their ignorance at any cost, including the lives of strangers. I’d like to think that a senseless gun death in their own families might wake them up, but unfortunately as a lifetime resident of the South, I… Read more »
“feeds you the laws-won’t-stop-criminals narrative” because it has been proven time and again. do you know what guns kill the most people? illegal ones, unlicensed, unregistered. Give us how you propose to prevent gun trafficking that will actually work. Give is how to prevent shootings using illegal guns. You speak a good game running circles and trying hard to seem more knowledgeable than you are. In the US there is no real way to remove guns from our country. They are here, in massive and easy to get reach. Guns don’t kill, people kill. Those same people highest % are not using legal registered guns. Why? Because it can trace back to them. Gasps concept here. Thousands and thousands are killed with illegal guns while only hundreds with legal. Living within it is a lot different than judging looking from outside on it.
Let’s talk verified facts, shall we? (TL;DR: “An American” is mostly talking out of his ass.) First, since the majority of gun deaths in the US are death by suicide, the odds are extremely high the guns used are legally owned. This would include guns owned by someone else in the same house. Since the rate of suicide by gun is highest in rural areas, this increases the odds the guns were legally obtained. This means thousands and thousands of people die when a legally owned gun is used to fire ammunition through their vital organs. Especially when you combine suicides with homicides due to domestic violence or law enforcement. Second, gun deaths of all kinds are highest in states with fewer gun laws. Not just raw numbers, per capita. Third, it is true that studies indicate the majority of guns used by criminals are illegally owned. A lot of people aren’t killed by criminals, though (see above). Also, since police departments aren’t required to report all violent deaths to the FBI, and also not required to give details when they do so, what the legality of the guns used in murders are is unable to be accurately determined. Criminals aren’t asked “did you kill with an illegal gun,” just “did you get the gun in the crime you committed through legal channels or not.” Armed robbery is not murder without murder being committed during same, to state an obvious point. And our single best set of data on the issue is 19 years old. Finally, you aren’t one, it’s clear, but the majority of your cohort support evidence-based gun laws in our country. Background checks that work, delays between purchase and delivery, and so forth. Illegally obtained also means “got around a background check or bought it where they… Read more »
24 an excuse to virtue shame anyone who stands up for themselves
9 – SERIOUSLY! I knew something had changed but i couldnt put my finger on it! whatever they did, they need to put that shit back. I hate it. I don’t even know what they did, something behind the scenes must be.
8 – literally lol @ the person who posted this. there is not a single club in SL that is bumping 24/7. get a grip and stop hating. try going when they have a dj or live singer there then come back and share your little screenshots. sounds to me like a salty bitter ex employee or something.
it’s as lame as the owners, it was a pretty dead giveaway these self absorbed twats would trash the place
From what I have seen it’s a boomer haven. Didn’t rate the old 511 highly but at least it was a great av watching place. The new and ‘improved’ 511 is basically Maui in a box with DJs.
I don’t know the owners but I am going to take a wild stab and say they are Maui people
Literally lol @ you, 511 simp. This looks like a screenshot of their website. Maybe actually look at the post before rushing to leave your little brown nosed comment.
lol i did read it, did you even read MY comment? i didnt say anything about the screenshot in the post. but ok, go off sweety.
The place is so big you could have 50 avatars standing spread out in that room and hear crickets chirp. But yes they get crowds every time they pay for entertainment. 511 used to be busy around the clock, but Lusthouse grabs that title now. Good for the 511 owners for seeking out their own spin on things but they should have started their own place instead of trying to make $$$ off of an established patron base. If there is no event the place is not somewhere people want to hang out at and meet up and to me they had an agenda to make money off something that was already hugely popular.
I think the OP was more focused on the provocative spelling error though which is pretty funny considering they went to all that trouble to open a website and don’t check their spelling.
it is never bumping just filled with bots
No, not everyone. Some of us got vacated by doctors cutting momma open. Just because you came out of one though, doesnt mean you gotta be one. 👋