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Virtual-Secrets, Week 743
· kesseret ·
Quick link to the 261 Comments
Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.
# 28
When you find out his alts like the rest, you will learn from the mistake you made the first time in trusting him like the rest.
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salty bitches stay salty. those meshes are clearly different, you can tell from the shading. btw the wireframe one is very dumb and hard to see you might want to do a side by side. remember human bodies will always have similar shapes because they’re all human, duh
peach body has a ton of support already and is going to grab the market by the balls btw, spider knows what he’s doing
shading is a texture has absolutely nothing do with it. They have also apparently already admitted to cxopying Maitreya toes so chances are hands are too. On a side note shitty ass designers all using same bad premade full perms while every store with original mesh, quality mesh and texturing and bigger stores ignores it, is not ton of support. Its trash simple and true.
#42 Louder for the ppl in the back 😚
LOL You must be the one who made the secret. No one here knows about any anime sim and its drama 😂
15 – was so disappointed by this sim. Beautifully decorated but very little rp unless you’re one of the og crowd. Where is even good for family rp anymore? taking suggestions now I’m homeless lol
#1 Ok we know you wrote this Aislinn Hexem it’s almost identical to your farewell post on Flickr, also SL didn’t make you gain 300 pounds…YOU did…. probably whenever you sat around and spammed 12k+ people to follow you on Flickr….good riddance!!!!!!!!!
#1 We know this is obviously you Aislinn Hexem…..good riddance
44. Catfish mazemyth resident is a woman in rl and known as treble on Flickr. The other one is cocoay resident. Her Flickr is c. Ache. The best part is she has no idea she’s being catfished by a woman. Lol have fun with that train wreck.
I doubt she was catfished,wasn’t she just few days ago with Roman Godde,just another lesbian drama.They swaping like swingers.C with Treble and right away Roman with A Frith,all in big love and all just revenging to their exes,looks like pre-school for me.A.Frith and Red on and off for years,in meanwhile they play a little bit with others,big show off for Flickr fans (just pathetic knowing these are adult people)
^_^ AGREED ^_^
Circle jerk is what this whole scene is. Though I must admit the shade done by Cocaay. This female literally was giving hearts in comments to Ange (trebles gf) while “falling for him behind the scenes” LMAO. How conniving and fake can you be darling? RED photo friends/soon to be partners have a shelf life of a month max. Give/or take , RED and AFrith will be back together, Treble will be in someone else dm’s, Cocaay will be left looking dumb (already does imo), Roman hell who knows. lol
44. Catfish mazemyth resident is a woman in rl and known as treble on Flickr. The other one is cocoay resident. Her Flickr is c. Ache. The best part is she has no idea she’s being catfished by a woman. Lol have fun with that train wreck.
Ya’ll 50+ and splittin’ ends, did you know ALL bodies and I mean ALL bodies use modified versions of the system limbs? Keep it classy trolls. xD shits gonna happen and you know it.
no, they are not.
look at the topology in the devkits and then look at the topology on sl default ruth avatar, then try and tell me how you’ll turn one into the other.
you’re either willfully ignorant (i.e. dumb as fuck) or are justifying theft by implying they come from the same source.
Don’t be surprised when the Peach body creator gets slapped with a DCMA complaint and shut down.
#18 aaaand this is why most to sims ban dragons, because most are laggy and shitty…
Aaaand they wonder why all of the big fantasy RP sims “Mysteriously” keep having frequent sim-wide crashes that they “can’t explain.” Nobody ever stops to consider the 500k-1mil dragons, eh?
#26
Truth. What a dipshit.
#2 I wish this woman would get off my FYP when I’m just trying to browse TikTok. Her god awful avatar shows up and she’s twerking her BOM covered body that’s shaped like a cartoon that matches her face with the cheapest looking flexi hair. It’s best to assume if she’s live on Tiktok she’s “streaming” which is having her phone face her monitor. I’d say if you see her in public, run. Her lives include her acting like her avatar is a whole person doing their own thing acting drunk and getting “wild” like she’s not behind the avatar, right clicking add to the liquor and play on the dances. She says she’s playing the metaverse to people who ask in the comments, when clearly it’s secondlife. I’m all for showing off SL and getting more people to play (if they want to learn SL’s non new user friendly setup. I think she lives at Luxe or whatever that place is called, just based off of what I’ve seen in the background on her lives. If you know her, please do her a favor and show her the shops and fix her avatar, because she looks like she’s raided Freebie Planet. If you see her, run. #5 This person looks like a 15 year old boy. Gross. #11 Originally adults using binkys stemmed from the late 80’s, throughout the 90’s and even early 00’s in raves because when you pop a molly it felt good to have something to chew on. But now a days with these people and their… God I don’t even wanna say it. Let’s just drop the whole binky as an accessory thing because people are gross and weird. #17 Besides SL being a shop and sell economy I have to agree. I haven’t found… Read more »
Hey Aser
#38 Megz is a member of the Brutality family. What did you expect? The whole family is drama. Megz is a hoe, Crickett is in love with her best friend even though they are “Broke Up” but listed him as baby daddy after the breakup was a couple months old. Still called him Baby and never told the family because it was none of their business.
Hope is just drama, even before being in the family.
When we already know this comment came from aser lmaooo dont be salty because you’ve been caught cheating and have been called out multiple times for it in public it’s great hiding behind a keyboard aser when all you do is get exposed publicly huh I would hide too
LMAO, you’re reaching there. Next.
Since you posted this as Aser, and you’re accusing a female of being Aser, Dunno who that person is. Since you’re accusing that person. Post your proof?
Bet 1000% you don’t have any and you’re in that family just talking more shit?
There is no need for proof he’s the only one who knows cricketts business lol it’s so obvious if you’re bent on proving this isn’t aser then tell us who you are who posted this comment I’ll wait
That is because you are talking out of your ass. Your just trying to defend. Lol
As I thought your full of crap.
I was a lot closer to you all than you think. So glad I am no where near you fool.
Come back when you can back your shit up.
If you were legit you wouldn’t be posting under that persons name now would you?
I got a bigger vag with more balls thank you can bring.
Keep trying.
if you are so bent big and bad then show us who you are! LOL
stop hiding under secrets give us a hint and im glad you arent near us because it’s so obviously you are the drama starting toxic ass person clearly you got kicked out of the family or salty because you had a crush on someone in the family
ill wait for you to tell me your name
LMAO the dudes in your family are a joke. People know your the real drama and I removed that name because it pours out of you all.
I’m not the one accusing someone else of cheating with out proof. It’s a clear indication that you all are lying and using numbers like a little girl gang lol.
It’s ok sunshine you just spread your little accusations to make you feel better.
I know I’m right. I am gonna find out who Aser is and congratulate him on NOT being with Cricket.
He made the right choice.
Keep posting nonsense
I’m still waiting for you to back yourselves up.
Hey Aser
Who? Keep dreaming. Keep projecting.
Lol
don’t blame this shit on the brutality family because those two girls are want to be hoes and hope isn’t drama lol she just speaks up for what she thinks is wrong when she see’s it consider that drama because some of you cant handle the truth clearly thats mostly what gets her in trouble is the fact she can’t ignore things
And when hope is 100% wrong and keeps going on and on and on. It creates unnecessary drama because she won’t admit it.
#36. SP can’t even bot properly, somehow the mesh clearly lost some detail in the process lol
#44. Lately I feel that way too, for example I was bothered by seeing more than once she highlighting that photographer named Phophet, who IMO is far from being something special. Actually untalented and lacking of artistic personality, if you ask me.
Then I go to check her Flickr and I find out he’s a friend of her.
Really Strawberry?
Promoting your *friends* just because they are is quite unprofessional, and it’s unfair if you consider that all those truly talented photographers don’t get the spotlight just because a cheesy, boring Linden advisor decides so.
Well, considering she licked LL’s ass for ages before landing her job, we are not even much surprised by her practices.
are you actually fucking kidding me ? First of all there’s a secret about her being self obsessed and not promoting people then when she highlights good, talented bloggers like prophet (who did a lot of work promoting the BLM campaign in SL), like boston blaisdale who has tirelessly produced content freely to help other residents with no other agenda than to help people, it’s a problem ? The only special person in your post, is you and we’re not talking about the nice kind of special too. You sound saltier than the atlantic maybe you should stop crying more tears and try looking in the mirror before criticising others
youtube, flickr and FB are free to everyone regardless. he doesnt create content other than videos and blogs which is at least 60% only about him and his flickr so lets get bit more realistic. Also every single thing promoted say LL or community has strawberry right in the center focus. Primarily he is just a blogger like 1000s of others and quite abit more than average are more active than he is. Stop blowing smoke
Not sure why #1 is getting hate. For some people, SL isn’t healthy for their personalities, and hearing a story about someone who is doing better without it is nice to see. And you have to admit, there’s a lot of people on here that let SL get to them too much, or a lot of us wouldn’t be on this website. Some self awareness is okay. And a success story of moving on from something that didn’t help you is great. VS is a good place to anonymously let yourself be heard of a truth you might not have anyone to say it to, so, I think it’s fine that it’s here, and If you feel pressured by that post to leave or feel like you’re being called out, then maybe you took that one a little personally because it rang a little too true for you?
1 – Learn to spell. Also, it wasn’t second-life that made you fat.. YOU made you fat.
2 – WTF is that ? >.>
4 – He’s literally a walking , talking , poster-child for incest.
5 – Fix your avatar ffs and learn how to shop. Your avatar looks like a dumpster fire.
6 – Sam, everyone knows you’re all bark and no bite. Sit the fuck down bald ass mfckr.
9 – Dj Avalon .. more like dj sets her shit to auto dj and doesn’t know how to live mix so technically shes just a jukebox. Also… those smile filters make her avatar look creepier. It was already shit to begin with but that smile filter makes everyone look a billion times worse.
10 – why did Sienna put shit like a question… “im still here ?” we don’t know.. are you ? “Still good ? ” once again.. we don’t know.. are you ? “Still shining ? ” no, no you are not shining.. btw diamonds dont shine dumb-ass…they reflect.
12 – We don’t like you either Raja… that’s why you were cleaned off my list ages ago. Get rekt hoe.
13 – the peach body looks like shit.
14 – he needs to get a new everything. including a new face. js.
23 – Damien…the well known pedobear.
24 – Maitreya thighs dont get thicc… they just look disproportional when made big.
25 – the owner of N-Core doesn’t give free updates when she updates her shoes to the latest body sizes. She makes you pay all over again just to get shit you already have.
As far as #25 goes, yeah fuck her. If I fatpacked a shoe at full price, I don’t give a shit whether you’re offering a discounted fatpack for the update or not- I should not have to buy again. She deletes comments on her Flickr that call her out for it, too.
#24- Y’know, you can ask creators (politely) if they’d be willing to release an item for your body of choice. Show people that you’re still interested in what they have to offer and their time won’t be wasted on rigging and adjusting for maitreya still. At worst they’ll say no, at best you might actually see more maitreya releases.
#46- Of course they’re going to promote her stuff regularly, she works for them. It’s not favoritism, it’s marketing. Again, if you want that to change, show LL that you’re interested in seeing more community content being featured and they might just do it.
#51 Ok I haven’t even heard of this body. I need to know who created Peach so I can see the trainwreck myself. 😂
Peach looks a lot like their furry body they released in 2020, mixed with a bit of Kupra. It really isn’t good, especially for the price point. I tried it and wanted to make the ass a TAD bit smaller, and it made the sides go out. So weird.
It’s grotesque.
Spider Productions- when I first started SL, he was the go-to guy for spiky leather biker gear and random neat gadgets. I thought he fell off the grid because I heard nothing for years, but after I saw Peach and looked at his Flickr, it appears he had turned his attention to furry mods and it made sense I didn’t hear about any of it. I was actually interested in the body at first, because I like that the ass doesn’t angle up by default in defiance of nature and gravity, but everything else about it is ugly. I have no idea why bad implant tits are a thing anyone wants. I’ll consider it a better alternative to Kupra, purely for that slight nod to realism, but as the posts this week show it’s barely different.
It really is barely different. I put on a few of my kupra outfits. They fit pretty well. Aside from the breast popping out the side, which im unable to fix. But i could alpha out my body a fair amount and have it fit kupra outfits. But, i wasn’t wanting to use the breasts of the peach, just the ass. So I’m using the SB&Bork mounds with it. Doesn’t fit it seamlessly, but I’ve made do on it and like the look i’ve gotten. Just have to use oversized clothing for it XD
why not just get a better damn body
Oh I 100% agree. Kupra is trash and the angle of the ass doesn’t really make Peach much better, but it does at least have that, was my point. They both have extremely ugly implant looking boobs, but at least Peach ass doesn’t look like like it was inflated with helium.
#49
Nobody:
Not a single soul:
A special snowflake that didn’t get to talk about their made up gender identity for 3 mins:
Guess what, precious: all gender identities are “made up.” That’s why they’re called social constructs. You refusing to accept reality does not mean they fake theirs for attention.
He was literally targeted in last week’s posts, buddy. Try harder, Transphobe. Or don’t, and do us all a favor.
“Us all” as in “the 3 people I begged until they upvoted my post”?
Can someone direct me to the Peach Body pls? Thanks!
you probably already have it by now but
Spider productions
Just follow the gigantic misshapen ass and the copybotted hands and feet
This is the wrong place to be looking for help, friend.
#31 The only thing that reeks of desperation even more than guys simping on women’s flickr is women simping on men’s flickr.
#25 Long read ahead, but it does need to be said and people really need to know. Happened 6 months ago or so. I met one of the staff by just hanging out on the sim, and he started to flirt rather quickly. Right of the bat, I told them that I wasn’t looking for anything, and that if.. anything would happen I’d like to take my time. But you know how is it right? If you are ever feeling down IRL, and are in a shitty situation.. any kind of “sweet attention” feels right, and you do kinda hold on that edge. And we became close, and started dating. Thanks to that person, I’ve met the other members of the staff who were pretty friendly and all of them agreed that I should join the staff. So I did an app. The owner, always had something negative to say about me. A kind of passive aggressive attitude just because she’s a creator and does feel empowered by it. She didn’t liked what was on my profile, so she asked me to.. basically rewrite everything (while the others members of the staff had far worse). And NOTHING was always right with her. To help her and her brand, I’ve suggested to create a twitter account, and also an useful notecard for one of her product that is displayed on her sim (that has a lot of customer asking informations about), along with a fer other suggestions, but she declined saying that she was focusing on Flickr and that they didn’t needed that while also complaining about my attitude to the person I was dating (who defender her, by saying that my attitude wasn’t ok). She made a drama about anything I had to say, and pretty much gave up trying… Read more »
“A bunch of narcissistic people that do love to treat badly people, pretending to be friendly when they aren’t, and will gaslight you when you do point out that what they’re doing isn’t ok.”
Yup, that sums up a lot of people (creators and their close friends) here. lmao
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You act like people cannot stand you because you are an Afab person who prominently plays gay male characters. You know how many Afab ppl play gay dudes? ALOT. You are so far off the mark, dude. That is not why people have animosity towards you. And while you /do/ make embarassing gay male characters, there is so much more to people’s hate.
Instead of actually addressing any of it he screams in ‘discrimination’ and recruits his friends. Just have a little accountability or shut up about it? The person keeping this going at this point is him and his need to have the last word.
Identity politics being exploited by bad faith actors to do whatever they want, and call anyone who calls them out -ists and -phobes? Imagine my shock.
Agreed, negative attention is still attention.
I know you want to be the center of it but is this really the type of attention you want Ash?
Accept personal responsibility, learn from it, and be better or keep denying it privately. All Ash is doing now is putting fuel on the fire they started by being disingenuous.
4 – who’s gonna tell op that sl family isnt real? lol 6 – the text and the screenshot make no sense together. but ok. 8 – if its a fantasy, then the Dom gets fantasy fulfillment too. Daddies are generally just a soft Dom, and a soft Dom is basically any man who likes to be in the dominant role of a relationship while still being caring and nurturing to their partner. Simple as that. 17 – you’re joking right? there are hundreds of different communities in SL to look at and become part of. Hundreds of clubs, rp sims, art community, music community, live music, dj’s, motorcycle interests, the list goes on and on. try broadening your horizons and just go to new places until you find one that you like. check out the events tab or just sim hop and be social. 21 – lmao you left for 4 years and expected to pick up where you left off? are you high?? 26 – i did not cosign this. Be Less is usually on the same page as me in the comments. Stop hating bcs they don’t sugar coat shit on here. 29 – oof but LMAO @the ghostbusters 30 – big yikes. who thought that was cool? 33 – yes 37 – get a security system and use a group to limit rez rights. problem solved. 39 – is this supposed to be a knock off copy of their rl work? news flash, most people would not know it. 45 – their sim, their community, their rules. simple as that. its crazy to see people who think they have some kind of “right” to be anywhere they want to be and do anything they want to do, regardless of posted known rules or guidelines. 50 –… Read more »
45 – I’m sorry, what? Are you saying that sim owners have the right to allow pedophilia and other illegal shit? I think you need to read up on Second Life’s TOS. Doesn’t matter if it’s your sim, LL and any other platform with half a brain will ban pedo content ASAP.
So I don’t have proof right on me right now, but I can tell you I have personally witnessed bestiality and underage characters in Spira in the past. Spira is a very sex focused sim that in infamous in the furry community for what it allows.
It’s closed once under the weight of its own drama and many of the admins reformed into Permia, which also closed.
Seriously that place is a cesspit.
how does your arm feel after that reach? lol. I didn’t mention anything about pedo or child or anything. the OP screenshot doesn’t either. They made their own claim and provided zero backup to it, so I fully disregard that portion of the post. MY comment was in regard to the bulge sizing issue as shown in the moderators statement, which show that they clearly were given multiple chances to adjust and fall within whatever rule they clearly have about that. the person chose not to, and might have even flagrantly tried to bypass and even mock the rule by doing the opposite of what Mod requested. So I say again…. their sim, their rules. tow the line, or find another sim to have a ridiculous and likely unnecessarily huge dick on. 😘
That isn’t the point, tho. The point is them throwing a hypocritical hissy fit over one thing but allowing TOS breaking content (child avs) and other repulsive crap. I mean, it’s super weird. Personally if it was my decision I’d ban hypers AND child avatars and whatever the fuck else, because if I wanted to see speciality kinks, I’d go out and look for speciality kinks.
again, OP has not given anything to prove that they’re allowing those things so I’m not going to just assume that they are and I’m not going to voice any kind of thoughts or opinions on it. yes sometimes it’s true, but also I’ve seen plenty of people throw false accusations on here or social media or really anywhere they can be heard, just because they were mad at someone for some other infraction or misstep that got them punished in one way or another.
#44
apart from that (and also the fact that he has currently one of the most handsome male avatars around lol) this asshole has bad eyesight as well/not to mention the bad taste… he only date the ugly ones !!!! XD
His AV looks like all the other black-and-white male bloggers who heavy-handed the blur tool. I would not be surprised if they were all the same person. 😂 Your last comment seems like you may be bitter that you were not picked for a date so if this man only dates the ugly ones, what does that make you? 😂
#44
apart from that (and also the fact that he has currently one of the most handsome male avatars around lol) this asshole has bad eyesight as well/not to mention the bad taste… he only date the ugly ones !!!! XD
#38 I cant wait to see the posts the family will make defending megz. It’s sad they can’t see her for what she truly is. The hayes girls the older ones are all users, desperate, hoes and if you want to have a good time recently single take your ass to envy Megz and Nova will pass you around to eachother and give you a lot of attention. Brutality family watch out these two are only using you for the tips you bring their club but at this point it’s too late you are all brainwashed and won’t believe it. I feel bad for the new members of the hayes family the type of rep you have to carry around because Megz and Nova are known as hoes. Tell their family to watch out these two only use people.
Lol I got a lot of hate for my post on this. Sucks the truth hurts.
who are you though? lol inbox me yo im curios
#9 – It’s a known fact that Avalon has alts everywhere. She has her hands in lots of places. Bots are everywhere at Muddy’s. All those random people in the back sitting on bar stools and couple dancing but never saying a word? Plus DJ’s bring their own bots to their sets. Bridget loves traffic. It’s more important than the staff she uses or the people she hurts. Nearly all their staff have an ego complex including hosts. They believe they are better than other people. There are some very talented DJ’s in SL but I do not believe they are at Muddy’s.
To the person who posted the Strawberry Singh secret are you aware that she is a full time employee of Linden Labs??? Not to mention she works for the marketing and community team, so that is why you see her so much.
Yes. This is how you know when someone hasn’t touched grass in a while. Imagine being cyberbullied for doing your job. This is why many don’t bother promoting secondlife, and it will die out eventually because some adults cannot control their jealousy.
47: This woman created so much drama in the GOR sims, glad shes gone but feel sorry for anyone else that gets her
#22 – Can critics of these sims please find a different meme to use already? This one has been used at least 10xs this year. We get it.
31: I feel very called out… but it’s kinda accurate, even though I’m sure it’s aimed at one particular person (not me). But I mean, come on! What’s so wrong with supporting someone’s artistic endeavors, even if they are mediocre? You’ve never had a supportive partner? It’s kinda nice, honestly. You should try it.
44: when, oh when, will people learn to include names?! This picture could literally could be any of a hundred couples in SL. I’ve seen this pose on Flickr dozens of times in the last week.
50: I don’t even follow this person/know her, but I’ve seen her name come up on Twitter and she is not hiding. She announced the name change like it was a gender reveal party. I can’t speak to her character, but she’s the James Bond brand of spy if she announces her name to everyone
ALSO WHILE KUPRA CAMP ARE Crying and Bitching about Peach. Stop being hypocrites and firing people from your blog teams and ejecting and banning them off sims for wearing Peach. How can you be such damn hypocrites when you have a MANAGER SIBILLA that supports Peach? LMAO Why haven’t you fired her ass too?
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I think its quiet sad how when someone actually creates a legit body that people actually like KALU,SIBILLA,PHYKA AKA Kalu and all of his minion are so threatened by Peach being successful you are literally desperate enough to go to events to message customers purchasing the body telling them not to. It is childish and shows that you really are threatened by another body having better features then yours. Everyone who has the body including myself know damn well the bodies look nothing alike and so do you but you’re so but hurt over kupra not being the best anymore you’re literally willing to go out of your way to dry and bring down another designer instead of figuring out ways to make your own shit better.. Grow the fuck up ALL OF YOU SORRY ASS SORE LOSERS IN THE KUPRA CAMP and get the fuck over it. There is another shapely body that competes with yours. And I applaud Spider for not responding to any of you hating ass Kalu minions. Kalu you have way to much time on your hands and aren’t you like 60 plus in real life? Grow the hell up. The Hands and Feet on Peach DONOT LOOK LIKE MAITREYA AND THEY ARE INFACT BIGGER Get the fuck over it already.
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She was his SL/RP mother, they broke off the mother/son roleplay as they seem to like each other so much that they even have contact in RL.
Where is the incest here? I think you need to get back to reality, RP characters are not real people.
49 – strawberry singh is strawberry linden so she can promote herself if she wants to
#38 CLAPS FINALLY SOMEONE POSTED THE MOTHAFUCKING TRUTH
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Things Ash are not being called out for: Their gender identity
Things Ash are being called out for:
– Defending and empowering a member of their admin team publicly posting pedophilic memes
– Accusations of inappropriate/pedophilic behaviour towards child avatars on Cedar Creek
– Disruptive and attention seeking behaviour so prevalent and consistent they were ejected from group events on Convergence
– Deliberately, publicly and consistently misgendering a member of their own staff for their entire tenure, despite repeated equally public corrections
– weaponizing their roleplay community by posting announcements encouraging them to raid another discord
– creating alt accounts to revenge poach players from rival sims
– building stereotypical straw gay characters that damage the lgbtq community
– virtue signaling and using social justice language as a shield to deflect responsibility and distract from the above
Yes, please defend and encourage members of the lgbtq community for being brave enough to live an authentic life. Ash, good for you for working towards gender euphoria and being brave enough to self identify. Unfortunately, that’s not at all what we’re talking about, and yes, some of us are really angry at the hipocrisy visible in your statements.
1. When I am called a gayfishing woman who only creates shallow characters because they are genderqueer and do not hold to strong lines of stereotypical masculinity, yes, it becomes severely transphobic. It becomes a personal attack on my gender. That is absolutely correct. You don’t know me though. You don’t know that “woman” is not my identity nor the depths of characters I roleplay. So I can understand how my voice would cause such assumptions. I’m used to it. At least your phobic accusations have done one thing for me, they’ve opened up some conversations between me and members of the community about why someone might jump to those conclusions and how I can be more proactive with people in the future. So even though you meant this for absolute harm, I enjoy the oppertunity to learn more about myself and others around me. If you’re of the boomer generation, well, I can see where your miscontrued opionions on this whole topic come from. I hope you can grow too some day. 2. The meme in question was dealt with quickly and the staff member spoken to at length, again, if you weren’t the person that came to me and I spoke with at length about dealing with it, then you really wouldn’t have the information to know how it was handled. If you were the person who came into IMs to speak to me, then you’re certainly no longer anonymous. You’re going to focus on clapping back at me on this for not firing the staff member outright, because this is probably the only thing on this list that you’ll have much ability to dig into me for. I made a judgement call in the moment, I did not glorify nor sweep this issue under the rug, and… Read more »
I was going to stay out of this but since you’ve invoked my name I’m compelled to appear, like the dark, eldritch beast you’ve been smearing me as. I’m Avery. I am the individual Ashe is being accused of maliciously misgendering, despite his staunch insistence that he is a pristine advocate for trans rights.
The message he posted above is a nearly two-page treatise on his innocence in which he misgenders me again:
I’m here to tell you it is not at all cleared up, any apologies he’s offered are obviously disingenuine seeing as he’s still doing it even now, and this is at best gaslighting and at worst an intentional attempt to have the community target me with hate. Since it was posted seven-ish hours ago, it has been upvoted a nice round 45 times. Comments about things that actually matter, like shop creators and avatar bodies, are not that heavily interacted. I would posit that there aren’t 45 people who even care about this.
The message he’s posted here will tell you everything you need to know about Ashe. Witness it and come to your own conclusions.
obvious vpn abuse on this whole argument. Someone cares enough to spend money altering just the look of opinion. Laughing rn. Touch grass.
Lmao
“Before we get started, I’d like to thank our sponsor, Nord VPN”
There it is! No downvotes on any of these comments at all, and then suddenly a red wave in the span of 30 minutes.
I like to imagine he’s crying while rotating through every vpn gate he has.
Downvote me, vpn daddy. My body is ready. It feels so good!
Also Avery them*. Just wanted to make that correction because my 6am brain fucked that one up.
I can’t interject on any of the other points but “Accusations of inappropriate/pedophilic behaviour towards child avatars on Cedar Creek” is not true. Those rumors were started by Lucy Drake (lucyinthesky3) in Cedar Creek after she was reported for trying to poach staff and she wanted to chase Ash out. Lucy is a liar and terrible person herself. She’s the reason that a lot of us left Cedar.
Amen
Is this a joke? You are still misgendering them even in this post, Ash. What the fuck?
Mic drop
39: lmao what??
#9 – It’s a known fact that Avalon has alts everywhere. She has her hands in lots of places. Bots are everywhere at Muddy’s. All those random people on the bar stools and couple’s dancing but never say a word? They are in the back. Bridget loves her traffic. It’s more important than the staff she uses or the people she hurts. Nearly all their staff have an ego complex including hosts. They believe they are better than other people. There are some very talented DJ’s in SL but I don’t believe they are at Muddy’s.
7) you sound entitled. Is Dreem supposed to help you at your request? Who he chooses to help is his prerogative.
On the subject of Dreem, he’s the most egotistical, arrogant, boastful person I’ve ever encountered here in SL. Did you expect him to give a shit about helping anyone out on the grid?
1) LOL @ “found” a boyfriend. You give me settle vibes. No one cares about your SL story and you’ve convinced no one to leave. Nice try though.
38. Can’t wait to read all the comments from Meg family saying omg not my daughter not my cousin no she’s not like that 😂 when she’s even using her own parents for selfish club needs just like nova the Hayes family are all toxic thirsty females the old ones at least the newer ones aren’t like that sucks they have to carry such a toxic shitty name all Meg and nova are users they only want to see their club do good be warned brutality family but I think it’s already too late they managed to fool you all
#5 – why you thirsty bitches gotta keep complaining about shit that doesnt even happen? makes me laugh a little tho that you are STILL thinking of me many many weeks later after calling you out on your babyish behavior, so let me answer your question and call bs… once again might i add… you asked “why do you keep hanging out at exhale and 511” ??? well simple answer is… I dont , but you seem to be regulars there to notice who is or isnt going… so let me just paste this… 2 ever visits to 511, and one to exhale in the last 6 months… you really have nothing going in your life that you have to pick at others? its really pitiful …you do you boo and let others worry about what they are doing
and heres the reference, just to call you out…again
https://gyazo.com/3862d643065b8d0057f5b17309884f7e
24: Because Maitreya is badly designed, badly modeled, and badly rigged, the creator is an absolute ass and it’s a nightmare to work with. Neither Reborn or even Legacy gave me any problems with obtaining the devkits or rigging, but dealing with anything Maitreya is hell. Also? It’s not worth it. Reborn & Legacy are way more popular in body polls. They are the fits that sell.
You couldn’t pay me enough to support Maitreya.
it’s shitty they are crying about this now, when this is what every other body wearer has been saying for years about maitreya. Time to buck up buttercups and stop wearing such an ugly, outdated body like maitreya.
Maitreya will always be that body in my inventory that rots there. I refuse to support a body were it’s own creator doesn’t even give a shit about her customers. Literally abandoned her own creation for years until she had to come back and fix her issues and update the body… At least with Reborn they’re always good about handing out updates and more quality of life shit. It will be at least another few years before Maitreya gets any new updates. Also… It’s been years… Where’s the male body that was promised? 🌝
she never promised a male body not once. That was a rumor hope she would by users.-
actually current polls and store polls still show Maitreya at top, with Reborn beating Legacy out switching it to 3rd place after Reborn.
Not entirely true, it depends on the store. Some stores have Maitreya on top of their polls, some have Reborn or Legacy. Maitreya isn’t constantly on top of store polls anymore.
Just use the body you like and enjoy your SL. If makers stop making things for Maitreya then one day you can switch it up. I used Maitreya for years and I’m just as happy with is as I am my Legacy. It’s all good, stay cool people!
People seriously needs to give up on maitreya its been almost 10 years people, c’mon, CHANGE
Moron, my favorite designers do not create for these other new bodies. I’m not switching so I can go from having hundreds of outfits to having three. Reborn, Peach, and Kupra are not my aesthetic (Reborn is the only one my favorite designers create for). Legacy is a crap/lag fest. I actually have that body but quit wearing, just like I quit wearing Freya. I have Reborn on an alt, but I won’t use it for my main.
I’m swapping between Maitreya and SLink Physique Original. I’m not the only one, either. Change? When Legacy is a nightmare on ARC and none of the other bodies let me look like I want to? Hell, Legacy sucks for what I try to achieve. The only two bodies with any market presence that work for me are SLink and Maitreya. Period. Get back to me when anyone else with respect for av complexity creates a body that allows me to look more like Jane Russell than Megan tha Stallion. (FYI: No dissing intended on the latter market. You want it, you got it, you rock it as you see fit.)
Ya, sure. You gonna pay over 10K L$ for new bodies and wardrobes for all of them or wut?
why should they if they like it and it suits them? It is not outdated or missing any features. Has everything all the new release bodies have just a different shape, with tons of support and choices. Leave people to choose what they like best.
And before start the rant. I use Reborn personally.
No.
51. WHOEVER POSTED THAT IS ALSO BITCH MADE
YOU KNOW JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE THAT THE KUPRA IS traaaaaaaassshhh
ITS BEEN TRASH FOR THE LAST 3 YEARS CAUSE IT TOOK THE SAME AMOUNT OF TIME FOR KALU TO COME OUT WITH A ALPHA HUD AN BY THE TIME THAT HAPPENED THE PEACH WAS OUT AN NOW THEY CHASING
Shit slow your roll you don’t need to type in all caps to defend an equally shitty body.
Kupra may be “trash” to you, but it’s not copybot like Peach. So you were saying?
8. I know a lot of doms that like things like DDLG because they like the humiliation aspecet – not being attracted to a child, or the childlike behavior, but rather the humiliation involved in an adult willingly acting or being forced to act childlike (tho that’d be specifically sado doms, more often). There’s also elements like being into caring for somebody, or the illusion of control.
For a lot of doms this can also relate to trauma, or relate to having a loss of control in their lives. And in the same way that kink can be recovery for the sub, it can be recovery for the dom. — There’s a reason that dominants need aftercare, too.
There are also dominants that may want it for the exact same reason and perspective the sub wants that kind of thing, but aren’t able to let themselves experience the vulnerability of being a sub, so instead have a play partner to experience it vicariously.
Still included in all of the above, though, MOST doms I’ve met have had a mindset of doing things for the sub, or doing things the sub wants.
Some of that last may still be tied to a desire to be nurturing and loving but finding no outlets for it or fearing they’d be judged as unmanly for it without some kind of cover story. We have a lot of sadly broken men out there because they don’t get taught how to be loving. That said, the number of subs who’ve mastered the skill of topping from below and the dominants who accept it as normal gets kind of scary to me. Which isn’t the same as keeping the sub happy, but it can turn into a fine line. I realized DDLG would make a fantastic findom schema for the LG. Think Veruca Salt.
Half the secrets super blurry/fuzzy to anyone else or is it just me?
It’s you.
26 is 100% full stop accurate, period.