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#2 – Is this douchebag not canceled yet? I know nothing about his relationship antics but he’s an horrible character, that I can tell. Please do yourself a favor and cancel him, his staff and his club altogether. It’s just full of his bullshit, bots,ad boards and frustrated old people.
No offense to old people at all, don’t get me wrong. But it is true most are sr citizens and they act like little kids. The gestures are worst than kindergarten. I can’t stand staying around for long it’s truly toe-cringing…
So don’t I doubt anyone is forcing you to stay? If it is not the place for you simply move along. That is what normal people do.
Same idiot, different name, different day. Knows nothing other than what he/she reads here and obviously has an axe to grind. Go touch grass!
LOL nope, sorry. I have no idea who the others are. Unfortunately I know enough and no, it’s not about what I read here. First hand experience, baby. You better smoke that grass one day, too invested to be just an observer.
FYI it’s know not no and I am not your baby and my only investment if you read the other comments is in someone that is a good person and gets blasted on here by a bunch of low life haters. You can keep your grass, but go touch it fool!
My grammar is just fine, maybe you should learn how to read. Apparently you can’t read text nor people. I read your other comments just now and you shouldn’t insult people you don’t know and have no idea what their experience with this dude is about. I’m no fool and he was the hater, not me. Speaking of your comments, he likes himself some minions like you. That’s why he does a good deed from time to time, to please certain people, especially those who need “to be saved”. It’s called manipulation. He’s an exceptionally nasty individual to those who don’t fall for his crap. Luckily I don’t have any demons he could pretend to take care of.
That’s all from me. Have a good life.
So tell us exactly what were you banned for? Yes get a life.
You don’t have a life, apparently. Still defending people like it’s your father or something. And you’re wrong again: I’m not banned.
Yep he sure loves his flying monkeys!
You again FU2
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Also imagine living in 2022 and not understanding that there is a stark difference between mutually consenting roleplay in the bedroom and how people want to be treated – should be treated – in every other space.
Someone who’s into choking isn’t gonna sit there and be cool with a stranger deciding to run up and choke them.
Someone who digs rapeplay isn’t about to fiend after it when an actual rapist shows up.
Plenty of people wear collars and cuffs in the bedroom. None of those people are running up to cops and going, “cuff me daddy.”
Pull your thumb out your ass, you fuckin’ numpty.
Imagine living in 2022 but still leaning into the “it’s not a thing because phobic means afraid and no one is afraid” rhetoric. You’re making a semantic argument against common language that you know as a matter of fact does not indicate fear. Like feel whatever you like about it. Just like… try not to sound like a prime piece of dumbass while you do you. Like… yikes. I know people like this think they’re the great illuminators of common sense but when you break it all down they have a pea-sized brain and the personality of a lobotomised chimp.
Imagine not being able to use your own language correctly.
Imagine not knowing that this is how language, especially English, works. Not askin’ ya to be a linguistics expert. Just don’t be a dumbass.
Oh, the soy guzzlers that scream “sexism” and “muh gender” when someone says “hey guys” suddenly uses common language as an argument? Fuck off lol
Low effort.
This is bait.
#7 You are a fucking idiot..That red car is a old as shell from 2014..Now for billionaire, he is a fucking idiot and Terrance just get his cars from gta5-mods . then they used a program called code walker to unlock the models. There not paying anything for them from the start… Every dipshit that buy from them should be shot…
Everyone out here complaining about people beings sluts….. what’s the big issue? If you like dick/pussy the get some! Fuck the haters
Don’t be a hater Lexi. Just consider it free advertising.
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Virtual-Secrets, Week 699
If Dannikai (Danni for us friends) was a Slut/Hoe/Whore/ I would have fucked her already in the last 3 years, I haven’t… and I can promise you it has not because my lack of trying.
21 – still don’t know who these people are but someone posting for your own attention is pretty pathetic
All of them are. I’d bet this ” be less ignorant” person is half the people here.
It’s cute that you’re that invested in my comments, but Kess calls out people for posting under more than one username, so nope. Never been anyone else; sorry to spoil your fantasy.
lol I’d bet “be less ignorant” doesn’t even know the people they are talking shit about too.
#40 There is worse owners out there. Don’t even get me started on the idiots running places that make them their play pens. First of all a strip club is not your social hangout. You want free entertainment – go to the voice hangouts such as Dirty Talk or Pick ups, etc. Second – Did you pay an entry fee? No one owes you shit, let alone an an explanation. If you get banned you 100% deserved it if you start crying on here about it. Third – Fatphobia? Have you seen half the girls that work there? 🤣🤣🤣 Quit whining and open your own place? What is it? Can’t afford it, don’t know how to staff it or run it? That’s what I thought, moron.
Wrestling community beat the community drama this week! What is with all the secrets about this Danni chick anyway weekly? Someone seems upset they haven’t gotten the virtual goods yet.
Can’t you guys just drop all the gossip!? Leave that lady alone.
#9 Boo fucking hoo. No one is buying your fake victimhood. Get over it.
#24 every fucking week.
#32 This really isn’t a secret.
#39. Every single time
#40. You won’t be fat shamed if you’re not fat. Sliders, motherfucker.
#49 Yes. Yes it is.
Every other number. Who?
You must be a lot of fun at parties and have sooo many friends.
Grown ass people seeing being fun at parties and having as many friends as possible as defining qualities sums up most of SL’s dysfunctional personalities lol
Oh, no! Someone might want to have a social element to their leisure time.
Yet here you are on virtual secrets talking about a game you can’t stand lol
I’m talking about the players, not the game. Try again.
21# what’s the matter? bitter much?
#17 Nothing screams more than jealousy ♥
#9 somehow they still don’t get the difference between phobia and disgust lol
Truth is, I really don’t care. I fully support anyone in SL looking like, or being, whomever, or whatever they please. That’s the beauty of Second Life.
I simply amuse myself by triggering the easily offended. I mean, it would be impolite, to not poke you in the eye, when you ask to be.
Enjoy your day, and thanks for letting me live rent-free in your head for a week! Stay salty!
Oh yeah, you don’t care; that wasn’t you crying in a Flickr group post about how pictures of your boring wife’s completely unremarkable ass got rejected from it? Nah that was definitely you 😂 😂
Your little tirade is mildly amusing, but you’re wasting your time. You won’t get a rise out of me, darlin. Have a great day, oh queen of this miserable little website!
My “tirade” is shorter than your OP, numbnuts; make sure you fully understand those fancy words before you use them, lest you appear even more dimwitted and pretentious.
yet here you are. . still bothered and still lurking to even respond – hilarious
This is #41 by the way.
#13 to the OP of this one this is brilliant and true. Mad props to you on this meme. She so does play the victim EVERY time with every cock she gets her hands on. Any other woman in the picture she fucks up that relationship too then off to the next set of victims. I believe she is at 7th house and Anarchy now. She will fuck that up and play victim there next. Where, will she land next? Bully are you next?
She’s definitely lost a lot of really good, loyal people in her life over the years from what I’ve seen. Maybe one day she’ll get it and she only has herself to blame when she’s finally cancelled completely. I very much doubt it though.
You are right, she will not get it. She has played the victim for far too long and she is far too good at it and people latch on way too quick with the. I don’t care that you are on SL Secrets everyweek and that 7583 people talk bad about you and you have ruined so many lives and its everyone else’s fault but yours.
#18 I know this wasn’t directed at anything I’ve said on here, but just as a reader,
I want to say: as a former fat person I disagree. There are a lot of fatphobic people out there. I am now fatphobic; I totally admit it. I think the problem with your post is that you don’t think you are. You are sweetie, you are.
Why are you segwaying this into politics though?
I think what people really need to do, is to stop worrying about what other people think of them. If you feel like someone’s being fatphobic towards you, then block them. That’s their problem, not yours. Just wipe the toxicity from your life, you’ll feel much better.
#19 Hey can you make the font just a little smaller next time?
#26 whatever happened to Crowley?
I never see drama on Sl anymore. I’ve only logged in a handful of times, but everywhere is dead. How can you all find so many people to hate on? I can’t find any damn body.
The thing is with SL, you need to take the time to sim hop and find the sims that you like that are worth going to that actually have people there and hold events on the regular. And then on top of that some sims are more prone to attract people who love to create and partake in drama.
Goddd no one cares about your fake wrestling drama bullshit
16 Joey, why did you do her like this?
What is up with all the moronic, homophobic trolls?
I wonder what information you have. I have seen lots of people have issue with this family. I would love to know what you all have on them. This family is the biggest joke in SL.
Sai is one of the worst of them.
So many snowflakes on Secondlife..
#7 how can anyone copy billionaire when those cars are made with with pre-fabricated mesh? seems like someone else bought the kit and put the car together. Is terrance really mad over that? in that case he should hire a mesher to make him cars from scratch. Maybe a scriptor too while he’s at it.
#1 Who is this? Please include a name next time
#40 Syndicate’s been the least problematic of successful clubs. Sounds like you’re just salty you got banned for trolling around and being idiots. Get a life
I rarely see this many dislikes on a comment. good job manager, janitor or whatever job you have there
I agree, they must have a bunch of different pcs to do it also.
What do you mean by that?
#9 please stop pretending to be a victim of some kind of vendetta against the straight community. The LGBT+ community only wants equal rights, not special treatment. You can’t swing a baseball bat at someone’s head and then claim they’re trying to crucify you for playing baseball. Keep the hate to yourself and you won’t hear a word in protest from anybody. It’s that simple
To be honest, most of these LGBT+ are posers, the posers like trash talking white people and trying to claim that white-supremacy is a wide-spread thing when that is not the case. Don’t get me started with the posers who take their kids to RL pride parades where a lot of people have either little to no clothes on or are bodypainted, or are okay with exposing their kids to drag-queens in an environment that is not suitable for children.
I’ve seen and heard of plenty of actual LGBT speaking out against this sort of thing, especially when it comes to not exposing your (or others) kids to this degeneracy.
To be clear, I am not homophopic, transphobic, or whatever. I don’t care who you fuck or who you love, as long as its between two (or more if thats your thing) consenting adults. And I am of the mind those trying to push pedo (or MAP [Minor Attracted Person]) acceptance in the LGBT community need to jump into a volcano.
A lot of the sane minded will probably skip pride parades this year, not because of being scared of the jab or “super-spreader” event, but because of a lot of other factors and the sane minded just can’t see themselves going to pride parades any longer.
Those “drag queens” and others at pride parades aren’t wearing any less clothes than a woman on a beach, that’s for goddamn sure; do you rage against the parents who “expose” their kids to that too? Nah, because you think that’s “normal”. Also, no one outside those pedo communities is pushing for inclusion, any more than people are avoiding Pride for non-covid reasons. You’re pulling nonsense out of your ass and really should learn when to shut the fuck up.
Pedophiles have been trying to co-opt the LGBT rights movement since the 70s and they’ve never been welcome, they’re more likely to get their teeth kicked in if they show up. Also anyone who’s spreading the idea that pedophiles are welcome in the LGBT community is a homophobe, because a very common homophobic talking point is “well if men are allowed to have sex and marry other men, what’s next, marrying children and animals?”
LOL. Child grooming is rampant in alphabet land.
Stop taking your news from alt-right droolcups. There is no movement to accept people who have a compulsion to assault minors in the LGBT+ community.
Do a search on youtube, theres a literal ted-talk posted trying to get people to accept pedophilia. And all over twitter there’s people in the LGBT+ community trying to push “MAP” acceptance.
Try harder.
You’re the one who should try harder – to not be a deplorable troll.Get in the dumpster.
WRONG, its actually happening. Here’s some videos to prove it from youtube.
(From various people that aren’t “alt-right”)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=itwotkBzZGQ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VhNBXaVrqt8
And just to specifically piss you off some more, here’s Blaire White talking about it too:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=loj3MxiGd3A
She actually uses example from twitter and other social media of this shit being pushed. Blaire is trans by the way, so if you don’t like her you’re a bigot yourself.
Oh, and here is a literal ted talk trying to get people to accept pedos:
Blaire caters to the alt-right and always has, I wouldn’t use her as an example. She’s quite the fan of hyperbole too, it gets her audience riled up which means more likes and shares.
Taking anything Twitter has to say as legit, true, and factual information about the LGBT+ community isn’t wise either. There is no wide spread movement to allow pedophiles into the community, just a bunch of very loud people on social media insisting there is. Most of them are underage and just clinging to whatever is trendy. Feel free to go look yourself.
I just got around to watching that TED talk you keep claiming is about accepting pedos. It’s not about accepting them as they are, it’s about destigmatizing non-offending pedophiles so they feel comfortable seeking help and recovering from their fixation. I don’t agree with the majority of what she had to say, she seems to assume the best of the pedophilic examples given, but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s not what you’re claiming it to be.
There are two kinds of pedos. The ones who do, and the ones who will. Both get the wood chipper.
This is clearly based on the best evidence-based research in neurology, psychology, and psychiatry.
Blaire White is a desperate pick-me who pals around with bigots like Ben Shapiro. Fuck right on off here.
Also, that talk is not saying what you think it says, lackwit.
Again, pedophiles will try to co-opt any rights movement they can worm their way into, the LGBT community is just the easiest target. Being able to find proud pedophiles doesn’t mean they have support from anyone but other pedophiles or people without basic human decency. There is no wide-spread movement to accept them no matter how much they want you to think there is.
Also, side note, if you actually go and look at “MAP” twitter and do any sort of digging, you’ll see that a lot of the supporters are children aged 14-17 who are being groomed by pedophiles into being accepting of the abuse of themselves and others. The issue isn’t that there’s a huge outpouring of support for pedophiles, it’s that people find the issue ~icky~ and just leave them alone with free access to impressionable children and young adults, and they’re not regulated by social media in any way.
You’re probably a closeted pedophile. Every time there’s a mention of it on this website and I’m convinced people are projecting hard. Always the ones who speak the loudest or obsess over the topic who do it secretly.
Idk what about me saying “pedophiles try to co-opt rights movements for their own gain and aren’t reflective of the larger community” when someone buys into propaganda screams “closeted pedophile” to you, but I think you may need help.
#6 – The look the same because Billionaire motors steals mesh from turbosquid and others and that person did the same thing. lol
I love all the whining about cars in Second Life – 90% of them are ripped from Forza lmfao. There’s quite a few creators who model their vehicles from scratch, but they get buried by the total garbage peddled by “car creators” who just use ripped shit.
what LGBT person hurt you man seriously
#24 Grey aliens, pee, what happens after you eat Taco Bell, Colonel Sanders, the guy who runs the Chinese place in South Park, the dolls in “It’s a Small World”, and Weird Al Yankovic are oppressed in SL?
40 the only issue I have with syndicate is that they have 10 boards at EO all with the same shitty image on them. Like girl….having three+ boards (that look the same) right next to each other isn’t going to make people go to your club.
Yep, they are the new Plush who owned like 12 boards that had the same textures for years.
Tbh if someone pointed it out to Jen she would probably take back some of the boards lmfao.
As I know there is a rule for it that a single club cannot have more than 5 boards regardless of who owns them.
Pretty sure the entirety of this week’s submissions were from three people.
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I didn’t gain weight due to overeating or being lazy. I had cancer and the treatments caused weight gain. I gained 70lbs in under 3 months. You try losing 70lbs after that when you are weak from the treatments and after-effects of a lifetime of medical problems. I am slowly losing weight but comments from people who somehow think that they are “helping” others “lose the weight” and “become healthy” just adds to the stress.
For a long time, I was ashamed of my looks. I felt I was ugly and unlovable because of my weight, all because I have been treated differently from before. I have been treated as less than worthy to be friends with someone because of my weight. I have been stared at, made fun of to my face, and much worse.
The people who did this are the people who are “fat phobic” and fit the definition found in the DSM-5. They are bigots and prejudiced towards someone different than them. In the end, don’t make assumptions about someone based on their looks. You don’t know what they have gone through or why they are the way they are. Living in a glass house and all that…
Prednisone, a common steroid that is used for the majority of people that have AUTOIMMUNE diseases causes both diabetes and obesity. That is a fact. Obesity is immensely complicated and is not just laziness. It is genetics, environment, opportunities, and the new world we live in. People have always existed that were obese, those were actually the rich back then. The rest, had genetics but had to work 40 hours a week in the fields. Which I know for a fact, the majority of you bigots would never work. Because most people now a days are not going to work for peanuts and get skin cancer.
fatphobic people are usually miserable. they are miserable from years of public displays of self flagellation (ie yoyo diets, insane workout routines, and following terrible health advice from people on instagram or tv). they are miserable bc they put so much energy and time and mental space into being “thin” and it grinds their gears to see fat and/or overweight people (or anyone else not into living like that) live happy and fulfilling lives not participating in that depressing cycle like they are.
the whole reason why they lash out at fat people because they think by virtue of being thin, they’re they only ones entitled to happiness (happiness they still do not have btw). they did the work. so they’re entitled to reward. only them.
they could easily just be happier people by developing a personality outside of being thin, getting therapy, and learning to love the body they’re in, but it’s easier to tear people down. tearing people down will make them feel better (temporarily), they’ll still be miserable 10 minutes later and drinking some tea that gives them diarrhea or some under-cooked and unseasoned chicken.
pity them more than anything bc they will spend a significant chunk of their best years competing in a beauty contest no one cares about. 40+ years will go by and realize it was all for nothing. imagine being 30+/40+/50+ with no personality to show for it other than “i’m thin”. who was this for and what purpose did it serve?
Sorry that you’ve gone through that, and yes there are definitely reasons beyond poor dietary habits and a sedentary lifestyle, and there is definitely a lot of misconception in that area because of, and not in spite of, the “body positive” movement and the term “fatphobia”. Instead of educating people, it causes people to be defensive on either side. Defensive people do not communicate well and are not open to learning things.
If you want people to be open to accepting that “fat” is not a simple black and white thing, that there are grey areas, then you also need to accept their view too. Accepting isn’t the same as agreeing, it’s not saying they’re right or wrong, it’s saying that you’re mature enough to understand that everyone has their own views and that like you, they’re allowed to have them.
No one should make assumptions based on looks of any kind. We all have our own stories, struggles, successes, and paths. Even the “bigots” and “prejudiced” have their reasons for feeling the way they do, and you don’t automatically know their reasons either. If we want anything to get better, we need to remember that it’s a two way street.
Congrats on your successes “Piss off”, I hope you have many more in your future.
bigot, prejudiced sure, phobia no … phobia is a mental illness, a fear of … I am not in fear, I simply see it as gross and unhealthy to be so far over BMI are labeled as morbidly obese, I mean literally look at the science term there and what is saying,. And it’s not about being different its sheerly for what it is. morbidy obese see the body dying in front of you. To those willing accept this is bad and actively trying better themself awesome! But most of the comments been directed at those proud of it, telling other should find them beautiful etc regardless. We all have personal likes dislikes and are allowed that. But when medical profession labels something as morbidly meaning deathly.. Being upset at those agree and find it horrid not to want to change is simply blind
The same can be said about the majority of people that are unhealthily slim in order to be a size 000, 00, 0, 1, or 2. Unless you are small in statute at which point the height to weight ratio is normal. Being 5.6 at at size 000, is not normal. That for you it is, because your metabolic rate is faster than the rest may be true, but that is not the norm.
Morbid obesity is a medical diagnosis, the criteria of which is very much up for debate in the medical discourse. Are you claiming to be able to make that diagnosis off an internet pic?
The fact that so many people are down voting this comment that isn’t actually offensive, that’s not written disrespectfully, and that there’s an issue simply because they don’t agree with it being a healthy situation are only making the point of #23.
It is okay for someone to have a different opinion. It is even more okay if they’re expressing that, respectfully. Having issue because someone’s opinions don’t align with yours, especially if they’re not being rude/nasty about it says so much more about you, than it ever will about that person.
Most fat people aren’t even asking to be told they’re beautiful for being fat, they’re just asking to not be told they’re disgusting slobs for simply existing, most just want neutrality. Even if they do want to be told they’re beautiful, is there anything wrong with wanting to love the body you’re stuck with? To feel good about yourself? Most people who are fat don’t choose to be fat, the ones who do are extreme outliers and wouldn’t be changed by being insulted, they usually get off on it. Also, morbid obesity is a very large range of body types, it’s not just the people you see on “my 600lb life” or whatever, who decide to trot themselves out onto TV to be held accountable for managing their own health. “Morbidly obese” doesn’t mean you’re actively dying, it means you’re at higher risk of certain health complications and that risk goes up the higher your weight is. You can be extremely strong, healthy, and active while still being in the morbidly obese range. For example, almost all of the women in my family are in the morbidly obese range because of genetics, have been for generations. No amount of diet and exercise will get them below the obese range. Like my aunt, she’s the healthiest person I know — eats right, exercises all the time, is a full time firefighter, and is still fat. You work with the cards you’ve been dealt. Is health and beauty the only reason you’re nice to people? Do you get enjoyment out of telling people they’re revolting for existing in a way that doesn’t please you? Do you feel good about yourself for insulting people you don’t know the circumstances of, that you have no personal stake in? It costs you nothing to just… Read more »
that is exactly the point I was making in regardless to those that choose to be blind and do nothing to even try, hiding behind screaming fat shaming etc .. “ Even if they do want to be told they’re beautiful, is there anything wrong with wanting to love the body you’re stuck with?” you are not stuck with it, it is choice you are making to not try at all. Is it easy? nobody said it was, but it still takes saying this is bad for me, I do need to actively to try to change it not just for myself but perhaps children , husband , family. So that I am around for them, I am better able enjoy life with them, that I am a positive role model if healthy behaviors. You are right it costs me nothing, but it costs them and those love them everything when everyone simply turns blind eye and praises not giving reality view of it. Nor did anywhere I actually insult or fat shame, I didnt call names, I didnt bully. I gave medical term morbid obese, if that bothers then maybe it is time truely take a deeper self not me. I in fact said I was overweight, I also said I was actively trying to be healthier. There is the difference. I addressed those with thought ” Even if they do want to be told they’re beautiful, is there anything wrong with wanting to love the body you’re stuck with?” that dont try at all.
It is not a CHOICE if you have prednisone in your system and you must take it to survive. It is not a choice if you have a genetic condition that impacts how you burn fat, and how you actually crave. It can be done, but it is through IMMENSE sacrifice. More than YOU can imagine. I have seen family members getting Wegeners, COPD, and having to use PREDNISONE, which swells them up and opens their hunger to the point, that they ask doctors to reduce the prednisone levels when in fact that is keeping their lungs from killing them.
I suggest you actually read Cambridge and Oxford studies on this. There are individuals that have stated that in many it is genetics, any chromosome/gene that impacts how the person’s body reacts to food, alters and increases the tendency for them to eat and gain weight. Just like there are people that can eat a whole pizza and not gain weight, there arethose that do gain with a salad. That is how nature screwed us up.
What they can do, in order to try to combat that is to try to be active. Because the only reason why our forefathers were able to keep their weight was because they were all starving and working in fields for 60-70 hours. Feudal lifestyle you know. And never had cars, or worked from offices.
Nor did anywhere I actually insult or fat shame, I didnt call names, I didnt bully. –I simply see it as gross and unhealthy to be so far over BMI are labeled as morbidly obese–I simply see it as gross– Yeah okay. Anyway, I don’t think you read anything past the first paragraph, if you did you ignored everything I said, besides me saying it’s not wrong for people to want to be comfortable as they are even if they want to change. Weight loss takes time, a lot of time if you’re big enough, and you have to live through it and I’d rather people didn’t hate themselves through the entire thing. I’ll reiterate that I also mentioned that you’re perfectly capable of doing everything “right,” dieting, exercising daily, having an active lifestyle, and still being fat with no other health issues, provable with medical testing. Obesity isn’t a black and white issue of “if you’re fat you’re gonna die a horribly painful tragically early death” or “being fat is perfectly healthy all the time and nobody should try to lose weight ever.” Everyone’s health and needs are different, only a doctor can determine whether someone is truly unhealthy or not, and they’re the ones equipped to help. I think you’re the one who has issues you need to work through if you’re this caught up in worrying about strangers health, without ever stopping to find out what their health even is. The choices you make for yourself about what’s right for your health is your business, and good on you for wanting to do better for yourself and your family, but you have the information about your situation to even be able to make those choices. You don’t have that for anyone else unless you ask, and if you… Read more »
If you care about reality and science, you will have to accept the overwhelming evidence that shaming overweight people does the opposite of inspire them to do better- for nearly everyone, it just makes whatever depression that was keeping them from trying already worse, so they are less likely to make positive changes. This isn’t propaganda, this has been studied and confirmed. So, if you really care about people’s “health”, be caring and supportive. If you’re just a shitty person whose only redeeming quality is a socially acceptable BMI, by all means keeping being a dick.
Overweight shaming works depending on the person, but don’t be outright degrading them… telling them what actually happens when you get morbidly obese works a lot of the time and not feeding them bullshit information like a lot of others do.
Sorry but when someone is morbidly obese, they are high risk for heart problems, cholesterol, diabetes, and other problems.. and pretending like those risks aren’t there only hurts people in the process.
Abuse, and that is what overweight shaming is. NEVER works. Sorry, you just want to rationalize your own thought pattern and nastiness.
And plenty on the medical field are assholes, seemingly you included. Plenty of you ignore patients because they are women, and by the way women do that to other women as patients. Blame everything on their weight, every single thing. And drive patients out of your practices. To the point that if they actually have something that is unrelated to their weight, it gets far worse before it is treated. All because they don’t want to be verbally abused by some doctors that say this on repeat.
This is one reason why I prefer hispanic doctors toward Americans that are obsessed with even 10 pounds overweight.
I said “for NEARLY everyone”; I’m not using any difficult words here. Yes, there is a rare small percentage of people who can be motivated by shaming, but the vast majority are not. You don’t have to pretend like the risks don’t exist, if you are asked about those risks, but you can sure as hell shut the fuck up when no one asked you. If you’re not a doctor, no one cares about your medical advice.
I do work in the healthcare field dickhead as a CNA (Nurses Assistant), I am pretty sure I know what I am talking about when it comes to weight issues and the problems that come along with being morbidly obese.
It may not be my job to cure it, but it is certainly part of my job to know all kinds of information so that way I can alert the nurse or anyone else and provide relevant information to the nurses so the appropriate steps can be taken, especially when there is a medical emergency happening and an ambulance has been called.
It’s not the nurse or the doctor that talks to the EMS, its the CNA’s that do and we have to provide all the information we can on the situation and the person who is having the medical emergency so that way the EMT’s can do their job.
(And before you go off, not all CNA’s or Nurses work directly in a hospital)
So how about you shut the fuck up, because you obviously know nothing on which you speak of.
LOL a CNA is basically a babysitter who’s had some training in lifting heavy people and disposing hazardous waste. That’s not “the medical field”; you’re literally one step above the janitors, and you get paid like it too. I actually know a lot about what I’m talking about, so chill with the self-aggrandizing and go change some diapers.
Keep thinking that, but we do far more than help lift people and clean their bedpans.
Do your research on what CNA’s are required to know and do before opening your mouth and proving you didn’t even bother to do your research.
Then you should have no problem with being told to learn proper use of the English language because many of us find this to be unacceptable and terrible to have to see or attempt to read.
Last time I checked, fat wasn’t contagious. So STFU about it being a health hazard on par with Covid-19.
Also, BMI is utter bullshit. It’s not in the least scientific. It’s a marketing tool, plain and simple. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/is-bmi-an-accurate-way-to-measure-body-fat/
Not only that. I’ll be quite honest. I was 5.9 and 140 pounds once. I was about a size 8-10 (am an hourglass but tend to have bigger hips) so I get a size 10 and tailor it down. When I went to the doctor once, at a relative size 8, that has a BMI less than 23, and was fit. Because I did both cardio, weight, and yoga. I was told by a skinny, and I mean she was no more than a 00 doctor that I was obese. Mind you, I was taller than her, and I probably could carry her with no issue. Because she looked to be 70 pounds. The type of body, that you can see the veins and all of the bones. Similar to Calista Flockhart. To her, I needed to be 120. She drove me bonkers. I had to leave her practice. Pass a few months, I switched to an Internalist that was hispanic and he goes, all is good, just eat more avocados for your triglycerides. That was it. He said I was in my weight range, I had all my levels within range, and my sugar was quite low (I drank a lot of cinnamon tea too, because everyone in my department got diabetes at one point, so I was fearing that). We were even talking about weight, and he was saying that he theorized that much of what is happening in the US is due to stress. He himself had put on 10 pounds with covid at one point. And he understood why. He goes, anyone that lives with uncertainty, and Americans do, have a base level of stress that’s ridiculous. Europeans do not, because if they loose their job, they have a pretty good safety net, and their health… Read more »
You think obese people don’t already know they’re fat? You have to sit there and be THAT PERSON to point and say “Ewwww… mommy, there’s a fat person.” I wish that I could even feel sorry for you. There are a lot of reasons as to why some people are obese. Overeating.. yes, but not everyone. For some, it’s a hormonal imbalance or an issue with their metabolism. We are not all created equal and it’s a shame that instead of being the person to not harass people online about their weight, you are probably a reason why some are going to eat their feelings. Wait.. did you not stop to think that maybe you were part of the problem as well? Perhaps it’s your way of making yourself feel better. Pointing out everyone else’s flaws and calling names. “Fat, disgusting, gross.” Okay.. but in reality, that’s all you are.. A swollen- headed egotistical narcissist that has such a small amount of self-esteem that you have got to call out the fat people to make yourself feel so much better about yourself. How’s it feel to be alone? You feel your confidence dwindling because your personality is the reason why no one else will stick with you long term? It’s okay to cry sometimes, but you have got to realize that the world doesn’t revolve around what YOU think should be normal… go get some help, dear.
You know I was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes about 8 years ago and high blood pressure I was mildly overweight. I stopped drinking and regular coke and more. In my job I log about 5 to 7 miles of walking a day. I do light weights at home. I got high blood pressure meds and diabetes pills not insulin, I was not that bad to get on insulin. I have kept my numbers so good I have not had to go on insulin. However, the first High blood pressure med they gave me caused me such a horrible cough people though something legit was wrong with me like always asking me if I was ok so my doctors changed it, however I and they believe it was the lead to my weight gain as a side effect. I am now very much obese and I am on a strict diet I follow and increased my exercise and for the life of me I cannot lose weight. I eat 1400 calories a day. Tried several diets through a nutritionist’s I paid for, I really just can’t lose the weight. So I just maintain. My cholesterol and triglycerides and all that come back good when I do my blood work every 90 days but my BMI is obese. I am just royally effed. So yes I get shamed and looked at all the time. I talked to them about doing the gastric sleeve but they were like why you do less than 1400 calories now.
#38 I smell photoshop on this, whoever posted this should learn to fake the “name change” text better.
Not that it matters because the post is stupid but if you search that name on the second Life my profile search you can see that those name changes do exist and are real…..so maybe learn to understand better when something is Photoshop and when something isn’t ?
People come here to slut shame by posting photos they found on Flickr? Really?
Wrestling SL is not this deep and both the human and furry side (ESPECIALLY the furry side if you pay attention to Twitter for two seconds) have some of the most embarrassing, stupid, and petty drama on the grid. Please go outside and get a grip. Get therapy. Get help.
I watch both sides, most of the drama is actually human side. The furry groups at least make the “in character” drama look fun
Furries are the actual worse at separating their fursonas from ooc selves.
Humans are the same way, they can’t seperate their SL selves from their real lives. Besides, this is second life right? Who cares if they want to say they are whatever they want to be here.. Second Life isn’t real.
I dont think any humans are any better, in fact.. most of them are the most ugly behaviored people around. I spend MOST of my time on the human side and find a lot more fun on the furry side.
15 – I mean, you have to be an absolute imbecile to try to claim art from a video game as your own, and to offer a tutorial on it when the rest of your feed looks like dogshit.
38 – That’s TristinCrow’s new alt account. He couldn’t hack sl escort clubs so he has moved on to virtual wrestling.
21. literally no one cares, go to therapy
3: Proof that Kess was hired by the Lab to keep the Drama-obsessed on the platform and bitching at each other, thus continuing to come and either directly inject money, or at least keep the internal economy going.
43: Which one are you, sweetie?
I am banned. I stopped playing regularly in 2010. Came back but dumped my sim around 2012ish (I think around then?).
Lourdes and I were banned because of this website. We hadn’t stepped foot inworld in a couple years before our ban.
Proof that Linden Lab can ban you for any reason they want, inworld or out of world.
My husband did interview at Linden Lab in 07ish? He said it was a pretty tough interview but it wasn’t a job he wanted to do. He much preferred fixing bugs and stuff on his own time. Went to San Francisco for SLViews and that’s where he interviewed. I went with him and enjoyed hanging out at the Lab.
Well, we all know the cover story. But you wanted speculation, I gave you speculation. 😏
(Also entirely unsurprised at the number of people who didn’t spot the tongue firmly planted in the cheek.)
Kess said she’s never played SL, or at least she did years and years ago but quit and doesn’t play anymore. Nice try dickhead.
LOL “the Lab” perma-banned her from SL. I doubt they’d hire her for anything.
She wasn’t banned, she quit. You know people can quit without having to be banned first, right?
She was put on hold.
Lourdes who is sadly no longer with us was banned.
Source: – > https://nwn.blogs.com/nwn/2018/09/sl-secrets-linden-lab-second-life-blog.html
If yall are gonna talk shit on a Virtual Secret, then please check your spelling for any mistakes.
#5 … glad someone finally posted about this asshole. He’s lucky any woman would even look is way. Who has their mother break up with their fiancé? How old is he? He still lives with mom? Boy, be glad someone wanted your balding, living at home ass.
He’s trash but so was she. It takes two to make that trainwreck of a fucking situation.
lol she still makes thirsty fb comments about his dick; no we’re not friends but we have some in common. Sounds like she’s super salty about being dumped regardless of how it was done
as someone who is friends with both parties..she doesnt post shit about him. so shut the fuck up.
Oh, I guess I imagined that comment about her “ex’s dick game” a week or something ago. Sure, whatever makes you feel better. 👍
Just cause you have only 1 ex dick in your life doesn’t mean we are all almost virgins
The comment specifically said “my most recent exes dick game” but go ahead and keep playing cover. It’s actually pretty funny.
damn, the butts are hurt this week
ah, i understand now. homeboy posted a bad take last week and got his ass beat in the comments, so now he’s posting a bunch of homophobic secrets trying to make us feel bad with a gun violence threat to boot.
#47-
Can the person who wrote this please let me know what you mean? I’ve been trying to figure it out with Rosa but we are both stumped. Clearly you knew us both on our old avis but I’m not aware of ever knowing her before. Anyway, just curious-comment here if you feel the need to share lol
Just reading your comments, repeating yourself over and over, sounds like you’re worried about something coming out that you don’t want to come out Sol. Rosa should be worried too; she has plenty of skeletons. Did she tell you about them? Careful, she might try to fuck her dad again, or this time it might be your best friend. Who knows with her.
Oh, wait you don’t know Rosa. Well that’s a fuckin understatement; be careful about what you put your pecker in, fella.
I would say it should be obvious, since it’s someone you both screwed over but there are soooo many that you both screwed over. I guess it’s not so obvious, huh?😎
Also I probably didn’t screw You over. If I did, why would you still be stalking my profile
I mean I don’t even know Rosa, so how would I know who she screwed over? How about not being a coward and answering the question
I don’t know any of you but
Can the person who wrote this please let me know what you mean? I’ve been trying to figure it out with Rosa but we are both stumped. Clearly you knew us both on our old avis but I’m not aware of ever knowing her before. Anyway, just curious-comment here if you feel the need to share lol —-then you say you don’t even know Rosa ?????? but you and her are trying to figure it out so i just wonder
I don’t know her well enough to know her whole past lol
2) Lumi, babe. The bitchiness and lashing out is unreasonable, uncalled for, with zero excuses. You’re sitting your old ass behind a monitor drooling, hyperventilating, pissed-you don’t have control in secondlife and over chuck. Tell me… does it make you vibrate knowing someone else is finally pleasing chuck and his man hood, better than you ever did? Do you lay at night losing sleep knowing you do not have any more narcissistic control over him now? Having no games left to play; do you find boredom in your life? Do you hallucinate and roleplay what you could have done better while sweating, what hormones you have left? Do you think retorting to virtual secrets is going to remotely phase him and his beautiful new lady? Tell us lumi; how you’re going to reply trying to convince the audience it isn’t you. Please enlighten us all. Oh wise job attacking the club in a previous comment. That’s the only straw to grasp with shaky hands. So tell us lumi?
Chuck has been featured in VS multiple times for all the women he’s been with and all the drama he’s been involved in. Sounds like you need to go touch grass.
Quiet reader.. You’re more intelligent when you’re quiet. :*
Aww, is someone mad that I called them out? Chuck’s been on SL secrets numerous times over the last 2 years at the very least because of not being able to keep it in his pants and because of all the drama surrounding him.
Any sane person person would stay far away from him if they want to keep their sanity. You sound awfully defensive, bet you think Chuck shits rainbows all the time and is the best thing since sliced bread.
It sounds you really need to go outside and touch some grass.
Quiet reader has been here years and KNOWS THE FACTS. “yOu nEeD tO gO tOuCh GrAsS” it says LMAOOO
Quiet reader I think I’m more concerned you admitted you been watching this site religiously-weekly for years and pay attention to every person on it. LMAOOOO he says “you really need to go outside and touch some grass”. I’m freaking DEAD af. “He’s been on here numerous times for past 2 years but you need to go touch some grass” lmao
Not weekly, I’ve gone months without reading a single thing on this site… but that doesn’t negate the fact Chuck has been on here plenty over the past 10 years of this sites existence. It’s been over a year since I seen anything posted about Chuck though.
At least I am not the one trying to defend a moron who is known for repeatedly causing drama and landing himself multiple times on this site.
You are only making yourself look like a moron, this site has been around for years if you didn’t notice the “week” count and next week is the 700th week. You think you are making yourself look smart but you aren’t, and instead you’re just outing yourself.
Your insult would look better and work better if this site was only around for a year and not 10+ years. And the only reason I’ve even bothered to check this site out again is because of lockdowns and I needed the extra entertainment.
Once this craps over and I can go back to enjoying outdoor activities without being stared at, I’m not going to on here looking for the extra entertainment.
Who is the stupid one now? Go touch grass.
Chuck has been on here yes, but if you knew anything like you say you do, you would know it’s through no fault of his own. As far as drama goes you do realize that is part of second life right? It is rare that anyone can escape it unless you sit at your own home and never interact with anyone. I have known both him and Lumi for many years and trust me, they are nothing like what is portrayed on here. This is the internet so you do realize everything you read isn’t true right? This site is akin to nothing more than the National Enquirer. His drama started because he banned some people and they resorted to putting him on here every week, but you knew that right, because you know him so well? The stupid one would still be you, hope you get out soon to touch that grass!
Ok so maybe to you he is nothing like what is portrayed here, but apparently there are plenty of haters. And I guess they have their reasons for not liking Chuck. As far as I know his reputation isn’t spotless at all and he wrecked a lot. No idea why someone feels the need to stick up for him. We will wait and see….
Oh so you are another one that knows him so well? Do you know that many in second life are not mentally stable and most likely some here, including myself from my own demons. People get angry and retaliate when they are banned and feel it isn’t justified or perhaps maybe they are just jealous, who knows. I am sure he has haters but who doesn’t in second life. I can assure you, he has far more that care for him because of all the good he has done for so many of us. I will always support him and I am someone that actually knows him and yes I said him not her. He has helped me on more than one occasion. I was in the states, alone and stranded right where a major storm was going to hit and he was the one to arrange to get me out of the area and to safety. He has also talked me down from my own ledge. It is clear you and others know nothing about him other than what you read on this site or perhaps your own dealing with him where you were possibly banned or dealt with yourself? Maybe you need to go touch some grass too!
Oh look, another one that kisses Chuck’s ass.
When you can say you actually know him we can talk, but until then keep reading shit and assuming its true smdh
That same troll is back again with their vendetta against LGBT rofl.
Also: I don’t understand the appeal of SL wrestling. Someone explain.
It’s fun, if you like RL wrestling, you’d like SL wrestling. If not, that’s fine, not everything is for everyone. Unfortunately there’s a group of people who take the stuff way too seriously and are unhappy that things didn’t go the way they wanted, because people rejected the toxic.
#2. Chuckles is WAY too busy enjoying his shiny new pussy to even notice his precious club is rapidly going down the toilet. Regulars have already left and more leaving every day. It’s a wild west shit hole now with no rules. Bianca needs to take Big Daddys back, fire Chuckles and make someone manager who CAN manage. Cos he’s fucking useless.
Or did he get the pussy for himself to match his eyelines and nails? Lol. I see all over the internet he is a SHE in rl. Wonder what his new woman will think about that when she finds out!
I doubt it’s shiney, I heard it’s pretty tarnished….
4.
Ugly ass sim
44 & 45 – Dwayne has no payment information on file. Wake up Noelle. He uses you to pay for his place to live and to buy him all the “pretty” things he wears. Which someone needs to tell him her looks stupid and needs a sense of style. He cheats on you all the time, even when you are with him. Don’t think he’s not messaging his “fan club” of desperate women thinking he’s the next best thing since a new release from Lelutka. I would say you both could do better but you both need avatar help and personalties.
Dwayne has definitely tried to hook up with me since hes been with Noelle…multiple times lol. this is all truuuu
We should all message her and show her what a cheater he truly is. Then maybe she will get it! 😂
Could not be anymore correct…He truly uses her for a place to log in and live and for the “fatpacks” of basically the same damn clothes ..then he’s in the IM’s of females any chance he gets. Noelle thinks he’s totally faithful so she’s either blind or even more insecure then he is.
Maybe her partner?