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Virtual-Secrets, Week 657

04/04/2021 · kesseret ·

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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.


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Hahaha
4 years ago

Hells… I need add this… About Sands… I never forget it about his opinions about Obama! Sands run a store called Azuchi, Maitreya Only, very lazy for rigging several bodies and his ads are very poorly.. Maybe this is the reason bc He’s jealous of the creators that redering theirs -Fake- Ads with DAZ Studio… Now after the drama with Entice, I never heard about him… I remember the big drama with Obama, He bother his skin color and throw shit all fucking time. Then I thought maybe He’s very racist. I’m reading the comment.. Hey George, you sound like him… He’s very arrogant, incredibly arrogant. But you need admit that Entice won, She always have release of something. She have more notice in the community that St. Leavitt… While Sands need make drama for get notice. Never get notice for his work as creator, bc nothing like him and his drama, or dont meet him, Who is Sands? LMAO… Oh yep, This guy that always posting in SL Secrets about a creator that They aren’t honest or talent… or said something that sound like racist… The drama with Entice was clarify.. but Sands continue lie about it. Then Sands is liar. Mangula? Maybe He’s liar or not. Who care about him? Who is? Really bored! But It’s so hilarious to see his followers or “friends”, half are creators that use MD, rendering with DAZ Studio or used secretly full perm/template LOL It’s probably He’s talking behind their backs or being hipocrite… Always He throw shit if someone use MD, Zbrush or redering with DAZ Studio… while dont kiss his ass… Literally He’s a drama queen. Well Sands make this all time, harassing to other creators. He never feeling shame or apologize about it.

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Rubbons
Reply to  Hahaha
4 years ago

I have never heard of Sands so had to google and found his Facebook. That was 8 minutes I won’t ever get back of my life. Don’t think he even has a store anymore obviously wasn’t very successful in SL. Seems to be a charscter artist so earning what Max 80k a year. So all the “brands” he bad mouths outpace him in success in revenue by miles. Am sure he really worries people LOL. Don’t know the guy of the other guy he was bullying but either way both seem ridiculous.

He has thrown so much shade at so many’s successful brands. I don’t include the guy he has had a hard on for as his stuff does like like third world hired mesh. In the quick readI had for those who give a shit and most won’t it is probably quite easy to tell who are creators to avoid. Just look at hcackles on his Facebook. Jeez. True colors of creators I thought were quite decent brands are in reality a bunch of mean girls.

Either way it’s entertaining to see the peacock strutting and dumb ass creators and event managers outing their true personalities on public Facebook pages. Hysterical.

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Lurky McLurkington
4 years ago

#24 – Hey Las Almas sim owners: There *are* naturally blonde, very fair skinned Latino people who look so white you’d never know they weren’t unless they told you. A quick google will bring back tons of hits, many of them famous names you might know. Good lord, the ignorance. *head to desk.

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That's all
4 years ago

#24 – While I don’t think this is intentional or racist, it is naive. You’ve got admins that come from GoT sims who are used to the standard of holding people to look a certain way to be part of a certain family (cause genetics). But that is not an appropriate approach for an urban sim where, based on some level of “realism”, means that the world is a melting pot and anyone can look like anything. Re: A prior comment, teens aren’t running the sim, these people are 40+ years.

Las Almas – just let people look how they want, otherwise you look naive and like you’re micromanaging. The people on your staff have a reputation of being gossipy and controlling when they have power. Be better so the sim has a chance.

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FartSparkles
4 years ago

#38 preach they are so boring now. All just prefab copy cats that don’t last 5 minutes these days. Nothing unique, they just die. What even happened to just plain strip clubs too??? Not everyone wants to be an escort. I miss the dys hanging out with the other dancers just having a laugh and friendships. No one has that anymore it’s just about money.

These secrets where as boring as SL has become. It’s dying, no one has an imagination anymore. I cba to even log in. Theres nothing to do.

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Make It Make Sense
4 years ago

#8 You took a photo of your dog’s wiener, and sent it to this guy…because he was in your home, and was persistent? So, you gave in, and then he didn’t pay you the 500L, which amounts to USD 2.10? But, you’re here, posting a secret on him? Make it make sense.

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Reply to  Make It Make Sense
4 years ago

SICK FUCKER

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Lyric Lancrae
Reply to  Make It Make Sense
4 years ago

It will never make sense. Only abusive pet owners would do something so horrific.

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JustAnotherAvi
4 years ago

#38. There is a new spot in the works. Coming this August/September!  ? 

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Configuration Loaded:
Reply to  JustAnotherAvi
4 years ago

How long will this one last? week? 2 weeks? before the drama starts.

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Hey Ho
Reply to  Configuration Loaded:
4 years ago

Another paid group, another scenario, same people, same shit… together we shall stand around doing apparently nothing until the first couples form, the first cheating happens, the alt festival starts and it all happens all over again… *shrugs*

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Ready to get downvoted
4 years ago

37: you sound like a little bitch. JS.

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Configuration Loaded:
4 years ago

Interesting why was the messages about 25 deleted? That was some good entertainment.  ?  ?  ? 

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And I Oop
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4 years ago

It was the greatest tea party ever.

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kesseret
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Reply to  Configuration Loaded:
4 years ago

See the little flag after the name – you can flag a comment for being out of sorts. After a certain amount they are auto-trashed. Sometimes I go through and put them back as they are flagged due to saltiness. Other times there’s a passing mention of RL or something and I keep it in the trash. And sometimes I just don’t care to even go through the trash to bother.

There’s your answer.

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Configuration Loaded:
Reply to  kesseret
4 years ago

Sarcastic Rude Bitch,

My Reply.

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Wut
Reply to  Configuration Loaded:
4 years ago

This has been happening for weeks now lately. Pretty shitty.

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Configuration Loaded:
Reply to  Wut
4 years ago

Oh, so things are being censored on here now?

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RespectYourCustomers
Reply to  Configuration Loaded:
4 years ago

You’ll be alright. Just be an adult and move on

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Sota Beach.
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4 years ago

Because someone flag the comments because they’re so salty they can’t face the true obviously. Why else it got deleted they’re in denial for there bs

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And I Oop
Reply to  Sota Beach.
4 years ago

Stop talking about yourself like that 🙁

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Alejandro
4 years ago

#26 Lol, wtf do there is still people that thinks that only black people has dark skin? XDDD in what world do they live?

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btw im mexican lol
Reply to  Alejandro
4 years ago

brownface is when a white person puts on brown makeup to make themselves look like another race, like Mexican or Brazilian etc

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loll
Reply to  btw im mexican lol
4 years ago

What is it called when a black person uses heat or chemicals so they look like they have the hair of another race?

stfu and drink some water.

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givemetheloot
Reply to  loll
4 years ago

It’s called a protective style when there is weave/bundles/wigs installed.

And having the hair silk pressed is just a better way to maintain 4a-4c hair.

And chemicals were definitely made because YT people were jealous of our hair attracting attention (which is why a lot of the women wore headwraps back then.) then they would bully us into believing our hair was ugly. And there are black people today who damage their childrens hair with the chemicals because of their parents going through that crap.
But then again some chemicals arent as bad and can also be used to better maintain the hair.

But this has to do with skin. Not hair.

You’re welcome.

-answered by a black person.

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M.O.
4 years ago

8) Always get the money first.

9) Is this a test for color blindness?

38) Nothing is stopping you from making the perfect venue.

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The secret is out
4 years ago

We know about your illegal activities you break Tos all the time Toby on SL and other grids. You whine to on discord we know about your groups. And adding traffic bots to increase traffic on a sim don’t help or using your own alternative account don’t work. You are the most pathetic person I’ve ever come across two case close you are now label as ageplayer. Why because there screenshots of you and this random individual you brag about confessing You like to age play with small avatars. There already they already investigating All of your friends and you. Chat logs don’t lie you don’t believe it well look forward to seeing what happens.

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Rosetta
Reply to  The secret is out
4 years ago

What language is this?

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Configuration Loaded:
Reply to  The secret is out
4 years ago

Chat logs don’t lie

Lets see them, post next week.  ? 

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PutUpORShutUp
Reply to  The secret is out
4 years ago

Why does everyone come on here and say “I have chat logs”, but can never produce them? If i had a dollar for every time I saw a threat like this i could buy secondlife!

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thatonetwat
4 years ago

LOLOL I love Sands. Telling it like it is since the beginning of time. Miss being SL friends, haha.

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George Michael
Reply to  thatonetwat
4 years ago

Just message me in world or on discord or facebook! I’m still around! <3

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Bia K
4 years ago

Please. You think I have TIME and ENERGY to post about myself? I’m a very low key person and I don’t have the energy to argue with 30+ year old anonymous people. I have better things to do. I work nearly 120+ Hours every 2 weeks and I’m focusing in my college classes. Lastly, I type in complete sentences. I never type in acronyms or shorten a word (ex: kno and know ; ur and your/you’re) anyways, see y’all next week! I posted something special for the triggered ones?

Ps: I don’t sl date

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tomato
Reply to  Bia K
4 years ago

I don’t even know who you are or what secret is supposed to be about you, but your comment, in and of itself, is you posting about yourself and arguing with thirty-plus-year-old anonymous people.

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Bia K
Reply to  tomato
4 years ago

There’s a few people in the comments claiming I’m “posting about myself” for clout lol. Hence my comment ??

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N.V.M
4 years ago

1. k

2. facts

3. truth

4. lol posting things about yourself to make it look like someone is actually interested whey they aren’t. lololololol

5. let’s hope!

6. oml lol

7. who is this ?

8. why would you send a pic of your dog’s weiner to anyone ? the fact that you actually got your dog to get a boner so you could take the picture for some loser on sl is creepy as fuck.

9. jesus please make this readable. This is a fucking mess.

10. ok

11. lolololol

12. i doubt he saw your message.

13. who cares lol

14. you were dumb enough to give someone 9500Ls … no one owes you anything sweetcheeks. next time be careful who you trust.

15. and yet here you are

16. what if we dont have a llama ?

17. both

18. hey , maybe thats the only sex she can get lol

19. uh. ok.

20. lol

21. theres a special kind of stupid ? lol

22. tristan the social climber lol

23. I looked at his photography.. he’s pretty decent.

24. they are stupid… there are mexicans, in mexico, that do indeed have pale skin, freckles, green and blue eyes, as well as being redheaded or blonde.

25.everything lol

26.lol

27.ewww

28. yup

29. ok then.

30. we are.

31. then dont.

32. ok.

33. then dont talk to her ?

34. what is the height limit ?

35. they wont do anything.

36. lol right ?

37. there is a way to derender shit.

38. same.

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Someoneseemsupset
Reply to  N.V.M
4 years ago

Lol no . I actually do have interest in her (#4) but thnx for the feedback or whateva

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Get Benton
Reply to  Someoneseemsupset
4 years ago

Imagine you reaching out to her now and she realizes you posted this secret. How awkward will it be to actually experience in real time her realizing that you are just a sad simp like all the other sad simps who she turns down on the daily?

womp womp fren 🙁 Next time, just shoot your shot and don’t blow your load on virtual-secrets. Also, don’t be a creep serial killer watching her from a distance. That shit creeps girls out. It’s better to treat them like human beings because that’s what they are.

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Hahaha
4 years ago

Baaaaam… Baaaaaam Morathi: “Sands Leavitt is an *honest* guy”… HAHAHA… Are you new in SL? Bicth Please! He is arrogant, toxic and unprofessional.. We dont forget the f*ck*ng drama with Entice Women’s Clothing (2019), when the artist from Renderosity gave permission to Entice to continue her inspiration LMAO In your face Sands… Anyone remember his obsessive with take down each SL brand, his competitors, that Sands Leavitt was jealous, of course, his insane obsession with Entice’s Owner, two years ago… Now his next victim is Mangula’s Owner from one year ago. He’s dangerously obsessed with this guy. C’mon Sands… Who have more release right now? Entice or you? Sands Leavitt… We aren’t stupid. Two years after your release and nothing LOL

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Hikaru Sulu
Reply to  Hahaha
4 years ago

The truth is never pretty. Much like democracy. Sands may not be Gandhi in his approach but the time for gentle intervention is over. SL is a cesspool of liars and thieves who spew, “Darling,” on social media and want worship for a talent that is nothing more than persona. They lie. They have no talent. Nor ability. And they build a brand on one thing only, their persona. Some in SL may love that, sure, and they will kiss the ring finger of these people, believing them to be the second coming of Coco Chanel (more like the third coming of a Kohls discount rack). But Sands, who has nothing to lose in SL, as he has moved on, still has the courage to come here and make time to expose the rampant lies.

Many of us who do the real work in SL, create with love, by hand, as a cottage industry, can’t afford to stand up like Sands does…because we are condemned to retribution by the majority who lie. So we are quietly grateful for those who can and do say something. It may not change the majority of blind and ignorant ring kissers, but it will at least let people know that there is a fundamental difference between the art of creation in Second Life and the charade of persona in Second Life.

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George Michael
Reply to  Hahaha
4 years ago

What competitors? I don’t even make stuff for SL, do you seriously think the junk Mangula brand releases or the crap Entice was stealing from Daz would be a competition to -anyone-?

I hardly think so, but try again.

Also don’t forget about the time I called out Noble Creations for ripping models from Daz and Renderosity. I can list the rest of the brands too if you like!

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spilling tea
4 years ago

#23 Ken is a very disturbed individual that has an unfortunate habit of complicating and ruining every relationship he’s in because of his bitchy attitude and insecurities. Dude needs therapy

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Configuration Loaded:
Reply to  spilling tea
4 years ago

Has to be some truth in your statement a few people have said this over the past few days.

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ForgotMyOldUsername
4 years ago

I hope you all love yourselves more than you love your avatars. Good grief.

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W/e
4 years ago

#37 Yeah Fogbound is a true SHIT HOLE!

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smh
4 years ago

smh

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Seriously?
4 years ago

#24 What kind of black faction are you expecting? The Black Panthers? Crips and Bloods? Then you’d be posting this same shit, trying to call them racist still for perpetuating black people as violent criminals ya dumb fuckin’ cunt

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Get Benton
Reply to  Seriously?
4 years ago

AGREED. When you go so far into woke territory that you are begging for more black representation in your criminals  ?  That is some next level wokeism. Usually people like #24 ignore government statistics, but they might want to cite some to force that representation they are looking for.  ? 

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Agree
4 years ago

#38 This so true! Everyone is tired of the spa with these snooty uptight chicks without breasts and strange shapes being a bunch of prudes. It’s like the chamber society people took over the spa. All they do is look at people and make fun of those who actually have a good time.

Teqi should stop with these crazy group fee. A place needs new people for members to enjoy, as soon as that stops, the place gets boring.

And yes, Lusthouse killed itself with the non stop changes, the stupid bitching and thinking they were bigger than life. Awesome way to kill your fanbase, I hope you drama makers are proud of ruining a good place because you could not control your ego.

Maui is nothing but males playing females and boring couples that never swing.

Other fun places are still Rosewould (they do a GREAT job for years now), Tryst, Rooftops, Swingaway and Taste.

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Hey Ho
Reply to  Agree
4 years ago

how many of them are the same person behind the keyboard?

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are you stupid
4 years ago

24) Shit if you think this is what FULL RACIST is, then you’re pretty fucking privileged. Go ask those locked up at the border. Go ask those being beaten down in the streets just for being Asian. Go ask those who are being shot because of the color of their skin. And you’re worried about whether a dumb fucking roleplay sim run by a bunch of teens wants someone to look Mexican for being in a Mexican gang. I’m assuming the person who submitted this is a 36 year old Karen with nothing better to do in real life. Big yikes

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That one person
4 years ago

#20 I thought that what Seraphim did as a “April Fools” joke wasn’t a joke at all I really thought they were changing the site and it made me sad and then they said it was a joke and I was like WTF? It wasn’t funny or cool.

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Sick of SL's Bullshit
4 years ago

Boring ass week.

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lee stella
4 years ago

audery the queen is going crazy. she wanting to be queen in second life and drinking beer and threaten people in ehub. be careful when you meet her.

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Get Benton
Reply to  lee stella
4 years ago

Literally who?

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Configuration Loaded:
4 years ago

#7 Got to love Trump and his famous quote. ” YOURE FIRED ”

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Wut
Reply to  Configuration Loaded:
4 years ago

Sounds like you’re sad no ones giving your pic attention OP. Kinda cringey.

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Configuration Loaded:
Reply to  Wut
4 years ago

Not my pic am just a Trump fan.

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spilling tea
Reply to  Configuration Loaded:
4 years ago

“just a trump fan” okay shut up racist

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Stir The Pot
Reply to  spilling tea
4 years ago

Not a Trump fan and even I got to say, ““just a trump fan” okay shut up racist” is a pretty fucking stupid thing to say. You sound no better than Trump. He said nothing bad and you still attack him. Shut up idiot.

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WhatIsYourDamageHeather
4 years ago

9 – My word. You must be so afraid of being ignored, you went for making your secret hard to read with actual effort. I think you’d have been better off masturbating instead.

24 – Because the Castilian conquistadores were never blue-eyed blondes. And there were no African slaves south of the Rio Grande, either. Oh, and the Irish-American regiment of the US Army that rebelled en masse and became the San Patricios of the Mexican Army during the Mexican-American War didn’t exist, either. Yes, this does mean you could create a red-haired, brown-skinned character with an Afro, green eyes, and freckles who has the name of Concepcion O’Leary. Assuming the owners of Las Almas weren’t pig-ignorant.

30 – We are. It’s called dying.

36 – Hell of a long-winded way to say, “I’m not into findom” but okay. Hope that makes you feel better about being passed over for promotion at the car wash again. Try working as hard as people who get paid disability do on being allowed to get it and keep it. It will help, trust me.

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Linden 8
4 years ago

25# it makes no sense I see the comments Quit raging about sl drama your only embarrassing yourselfs. Here a favor just ignore the gossip if it not true don’t respond to it. Stop feeding into this bs matter if it not worth any One time why keep continue replying to this non sense. What Do you truly feel are you deeply offended by what type of confidents you have being hypocrites And drama whores or you like the entertainment. Do your self a favor don’t reply or even acknowledge this it only shows your hurt inside it why you attack each other. Give it a rest you need find something else better else to do with your life’s then feeding into drama you seem to enjoy. It it’s ok to feel sad lonely depress miserable it only shows what your human natures are like. The truth will set you free.

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sorry, not sorry.
Reply to  Linden 8
4 years ago

“The truth will set you free.” is nazi dog whistle. from the nazi death camps… “Work will set you free.” stop using it. it’s cringe and racist. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arbeit_macht_frei

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Get Benton
Reply to  sorry, not sorry.
4 years ago

Does everything have to relate back to Nazis with you people? Let’s be clear and state “by you people,” I mean retarded people. Like you. It’s a Christ “dog whistle”, if anything. Let’s just google this real quick for you:

https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-1-d&q=the+truth+shall+set+you+free

First result:

John 8:31-32

31 So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, 32 and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

To further clarify, nobody is going to care about your response regarding the Bible, or Nazis, or Hitler, or me, or anything else. Your importance (in all of life really) stops at the end of this response because of how retarded you have shown yourself to be. One day you’ll grow up and join us in the big boys and girls world and realize not everything in life is an Internet Hitler circlejerk like you desperately want it to be.

Stop being retarded, it’s cringe and racist.

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Aderpererp
Reply to  sorry, not sorry.
4 years ago

Fail. It’s from John 8: 32. In red letters even ? long before Nazis.

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4 years ago

You are all weird!  ? 

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Hikaru Sulu
4 years ago

Sands is one of the few that is willing to stand up to the idiocy and fakery in SL. I commend him for it. He has the balls to say it, stand by it, and not give in to the animals. Many have tried before and were eaten alive by wannabes, fan girls, know it alls, and thieves. Whether SL is mature enough to ever handle the truth is left to be seen. But it’s time people get a gut check to understand that maybe 10% of so called “creators” are legitimately working within the context of doing just that, creating. The other 90%? They are stroking their egos with darlings and dogma as they send off their Pinterest “ideas” for someone else to make. Or, if next level down on the “designing” chain, just purchasing assets on 3D websites and bringing them into SL.

Thank you, Sands. For defending the little guy/gal. The one that takes pride in their work from start to finish (even when not always perfect) and feels accomplishment in knowing it’s “ours.”

Oh, and want to get to know the real 10%? Easy. They are often the ones who proudly show you via streaming platforms their work flow. Not when asked, but for fun. Why? Because they take pride in it. And because the art is beautiful when done by the hands of a true nurturing “creator.”

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George Michael
Reply to  Hikaru Sulu
4 years ago

Exactly this, it’s easy to tell the ones that do their own work. Everyone talks about hating fake people, wanting honesty, wanting real, literally memes like that gets spammed 250x a day on my FB timeline ….then they complain when someone DOES speak the truth and IS saying the real thing.

No one wants real or honesty, they just want conformity to whatever they wish to be the truth.

The fact that people are upset because I spoke up, not challenging my comments, not trying to prove me wrong, but they are upset that I spoke up. THAT is the biggest indicator of what kind of people are in these crowds.

They thought they could bully me into silence ….lol….oh stories I have to share about “big” name designers trying to bully me into silence. I’m gonna start sharing these stories, one episode per week.

Fuck all these people.

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Theodoric
4 years ago

#25 What is this even about?

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Mother Superior at Our Lady of Blueballs
4 years ago

#9 what in the magic eye puzzle fuckery is this?

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4 years ago

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Right...
4 years ago

#23 it shows you are his friend lmao shade, this dude is a piece of crap all around, and irrelevant for the most part.

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Reply to  Right...
4 years ago

I’ve seen him around, is he one to stay away from?

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spilling tea
Reply to  Configuration Loaded:
4 years ago

Definitely avoid! He’s nice in the beginning but quickly starts drama and will add/delete/add/delete he’s so fucking unstable just avoid him

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too gay and tired for this shit
4 years ago

who even uses skype anymore are yall ok

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Reply to  too gay and tired for this shit
4 years ago

English?

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Wanderer
Reply to  too gay and tired for this shit
4 years ago

What’s good to use now? I’m out of the new technology loop

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LDNSLER
Reply to  Wanderer
4 years ago

Discord seems to be the rage these days.

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Lyric Lancrae
4 years ago

Why cheapen yourself as a findomme in sl? Second life subs are getting away with spending pennies to satisfy their kink and the dumb players who keep prostituting themselves out as findommes should be embarrassed. You bitches think it’s cute for a sub to be spending what is equivalent to a month’s worth of Netflix on your ass. You all are nothing but bargain basement deals.

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Random Person
Reply to  Lyric Lancrae
4 years ago

Maybe some inexperienced ones are, but some of us are clearing $200 or more a day in SL just by doing what we enjoy when many of you are standing around a sim doing fuck all, lol. There’s more to findom than just “Fuck you, pay me”. It’s a legitimate kink for both parties and more than just about money but the power exchange involved. When used responsibly, it can be a very exciting fetish. If it’s not hurting anyone, what do you care?

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Be Less Ignorant, Please
Reply to  Random Person
4 years ago

I would much rather be doing “fuck all” than selling my time to a loser who can’t get attention without paying for it, even in a fantasy world where you can look any way and be any one you can create. I can buy what I want without having to obligate myself to someone I wouldn’t even begin to spend time with for free. They pay you because they know you won’t say no if they do, and that’s it. Men who really get off on spending money on women as a legit kink do it in real life, not SL. What you’re getting is the absolute dregs; bottom of the barrel men. No thanks.

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Random Person
Reply to  Be Less Ignorant, Please
4 years ago

You realize that you don’t have to engage every person that IMs you that’s mutually interested in it, right? I can’t speak for others, but I certainly don’t; I pick and choose who I want to play with. They have to be interesting and have a brain, not just money. As for your high and mighty ideology of ‘losers’ in SL, YOU’RE ALSO in Second Life – What does that say about you? Shouldn’t you be doing whatever you’re doing there in real life? News Flash: People can do whatever they want in SL, including exploring their kinks (whatever they may be). I’m not sure what kind of subs you’ve been encountering, but some are actually decent people that enjoy incorporating findom and other kinks in both worlds. They’re definitely no worse than the generic fuckboys that most girls are fucking in SL and wasting their time with.

Note: I also have my own money, but as I mentioned previously, it’s not solely about that. It’s the power exchange, the excitement and adrenaline involved for both parties. Obviously not everyone enjoys that, but to say, “Lawl, Dommes that enjoy findom r stoopid” is pretty closed-minded.

On the same token, I don’t agree with the “Dommes” that are just looking for a quick buck and have no interest in Femdom outside of getting money. Those aren’t really Dommes, more so just demanding sugar babies/bossy escorts. No need to tarnish us all with the same brush, though.

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Shit I forgot My Name
Reply to  Lyric Lancrae
4 years ago

Right. Most of the ones Ive encountered in the past were clingy as all hell and latched onto the nearest person they could find without even bothering to see if said person was even interested in Findom or not. All they wanted was someone to satisfy their fetishes and they could easily do it as long as they mentioned money.

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Mother Superior at Our Lady of Blueballs
Reply to  Lyric Lancrae
4 years ago

also if your “findom” goes UwU, look else where, that’s a bbg with a wallet drain fetish

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Lyric Lancrae
Reply to  Mother Superior at Our Lady of Blueballs
4 years ago

It’s why these so called subs are nasty to females in game, it’s because they know they have power with their five dollars.

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Kasha
4 years ago

#8 This is Kasha…I quit SL 3 years ago so…hi? Only reason I’m responding to this is cause I’m confused why my name is in your mouth enough to create an sl secret? Clearly you’re irrelevant because I have no idea who the eff this is and because friends who still are on SL notified me of this. But hey, thanks for the thought but I’m enjoying that crazy thing called REAL LIFE.

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Get Benton
Reply to  Kasha
4 years ago

“I quit SL 3 years ago.” First of all, nobody quits. You are just on a break. Second of all, how are you responding to this at all?

Do you still check the website weekly for yourself “just in case” ? 🙂

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Reply to  Kasha
4 years ago

I quit SL 3 years ago  ?  Yeah Right! why are you here again?

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LordFarquad
Reply to  Kasha
4 years ago

you are so full of shit! if you were in REAL LIFE you wouldn’t give one holy shit what anyone says on this site. aaaaaa haaaaaa ? 

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Wake up call
4 years ago

22. I vaguely remember seeing logs of her speaking badly about him being a parent. It’s a cluster fuck from the start since if you look at her and how she gained friends, she just uses people to climb the ladder. Just means it was wise of me to unfollow her when I noticed a pattern.

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Get Benton
Reply to  Wake up call
4 years ago

Who and who cares? You vaguely remember something that probably didn’t happen? Good for you, bro! I vaguely remember us talking one night and you shitting your pants.

Also, what ladder are we referring to and who is all climbing it currently? This isn’t some fancy supper club where you work your way up to the main act. It’s Second Life and it’s full of absolute embarassments and social rejects like you and me. Please draw out this ladder in the crayons you already have on your desk so we can see which rung of the ladder these two nobodies are at. I’d bet if you put all the “social climbers” up there, your name would mysteriously be missing.

You people need to go outside and get some fresh air, honestly.  ? 

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shrug
Reply to  Wake up call
4 years ago

She goes through friend groups like they’re going out of style. Clearly using them for her own clout gain.

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Morathi
4 years ago

It is interesting to see people attacking someone for standing up and speaking the truth about something. The fact is in SL, there is a lot of brands that are now the figurehead, claiming that they are creating the mesh, they are doing all the hard work, the rigging, the sculpting, the texturing, doing the HUD etc. They are claiming work that is not theirs as theirs which is not fair. When you hire an interior designer to come decorate your home, you don’t claim that as your imagination when you know it was not you who designed this home of yours. You don’t walk into a clothing store and then parade around in front of people saying you designed this item you are wearing!? Sands, for as long as I have known him, is an honest guy. He doesn’t go around the bush instead he will go straight through it and be up front. In todays world, no one can really handle the truth. They would rather suck up to the brand and make them feel better than realize the truth. Anyone who tries to defend the person that is speaking up will get attacked by the others followers because how dare anyone speak the truth, right? Going live and using brushes/stamps in Z Brush doesn’t prove that you know what you are doing, in fact it proved that you do not know what you are doing. No one wants to steal your work or how you do things, you are hiding this because you don’t want people to catch you with your pants down because you clearly do not know what you are doing. I would like to point out that I have seen MANY users in Z Brush, so I can tell the difference between when someone… Read more »

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Not A Fan
Reply to  Morathi
4 years ago

Sands, stop speaking about yourself in the 3rd person. We know Morathi is you, you Warhammer lover. Just take this L and go back to supporting Trump. No one gives a shit, we like what we like and don’t care who makes it as long as it’s made well. Get off your high horse and go cry about it in your elitist discord server.

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BS Detector
Reply to  Not A Fan
4 years ago

Your comment proves that you have absolutely nothing to contribute except word vomit. Thats why you bring up supporting Trump. You have nothing of merit to say so you think that mentioning Trump will somehow validate your words in hopes that a flock of haters will come to your defense. You are a petty simpleminded person. It must suck to be that full of misplaced anger. You dont have the intelligence level to even understand the concept of “real vs faux” designers. Yet you call the real ones elitists? If elitism means taking pride in your work, then true designers should wear that as a badge of honor. If you have a problem with people taking pride in THEIR work yet not those that claim someone elses work as their own, then you are the perfect example of whats wrong with people today. If you had half a brain cell and were capable of reading comprehension, then you would know that no one gives a crap if a person hired out…just be honest about it! No ones bashing his items, its his lying about his work that is the issue. You are nothing but a blind sheep. Simply following because you do not know what it takes to lead. In the meantime the faux designers pay pennies to true creators to do all the work and yet they claim the fame and take your money more than willingly because you are incapable of seeing or hearing anything related to the truth. Real designers earn their money, faux designers steal your money and the person that actually created the item most likely doesnt even know it!

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Morathi
Reply to  Not A Fan
4 years ago

It isn’t him. And this is what I meant by that no one is allowed to defend someone, because that is just crazy for someone to do that.

The fact that you are only basing it off a game that he plays, doesn’t mean he is the only one that plays it.

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MissHeylin
Reply to  Morathi
4 years ago

Ok Sands, clearly most of us already know you typed all of this, quit pretending you’re another person cause this is honestly too tragic of you to pull off

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George Michael
Reply to  MissHeylin
4 years ago

This is Sands, if you don’t even get the George Michael reference …I don’t know how else I can make myself more clear.

Amazing huh? I’m not the only person who thinks Johnny Perez and the rest of the catfish artists are just a bunch of clowns in the community.

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Morathi
Reply to  MissHeylin
4 years ago

As I said above, not him.

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PettyBouvier
Reply to  Morathi
4 years ago

My dear anyone can make alts on this comments section with the same email….see I’m doing it right now pretending to be another person (this is MissHeylin btw) you’re not fooling anyone, quit pretending please because this looks completely and utterly sad

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George Michael
Reply to  PettyBouvier
4 years ago

Kess doesn’t allow that and will block you if you continue. It is pretty well known around here Kess doesn’t like people using a different name to pretend to be a different person. She always says one name per week lol! You can ask her directly if I’m making ALL the comments here.

Because you know, you lying, catfish, fake artists are angels on the planet. Not a single person other than me could ever not like you. I mean how could that even be a possibility????

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NotYourAlt
Reply to  Morathi
4 years ago

We need a TL;DR warning on this

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Morathi
Reply to  NotYourAlt
4 years ago

I should have said that, sorry!

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kesseret
Author
4 years ago

So please use the contact form or report a comment that has doxxing. Sometimes they get through. I just caught one. Thank you to the person who alerted me.

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Yawns
4 years ago

#38 I been to FMD a few weeks in a row now it has a great vibe. But the new owner does events on the weekend Fri and Saturday nothing on Sunday least not that I’ve seen. But I would recommend taking a look. Chambers used to be a good spot so was teqis but seems they are deserted too. Most people just park at exhale or clubs with music no idea why ?‍♂️. Hopefully you get some help.

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Shit I forgot My Name
Reply to  Yawns
4 years ago

Is there anything else to do in SL besides dance clubs, shopping and RP?

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LDNSLER
Reply to  Yawns
4 years ago

Chamber has free access events on Friday’s upstairs that is rammed with 60-80 avis, and Saturdays at Chamber they have themed events that are also quite popular for 4 hours that have a DJ couple who spin for 4 hours, Corruption also do events Friday and Sunday that get good traffic that are also free access.

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Reply to  Yawns
4 years ago

Exhale is SHIT and the owner is a CUNT, i go there once in a while and its just going down hill fast the sooner it shuts the better.

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Mother Superior at Our Lady of Blueballs
Reply to  Yawns
4 years ago

is Luna still involved? If so, nope, not going there.

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Reply to  Mother Superior at Our Lady of Blueballs
4 years ago

Who?

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GTFO!
4 years ago

#4. Are you blind?
#9. Now I’m blind. And having a seizure.
#24. You’re one of those woke people who gets triggered by the truth. Sad.
#26.That is pretty bad. A blind creator.
#36. LOL
#37. And yet here you are, posting a secret about the incident.

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WhatIsYourDamageHeather
Reply to  GTFO!
4 years ago

ROFLMAO. You think all Mexicans look like Danny Trejo or someshit, don’t you? ROFLMAO.

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Common Sense
Reply to  GTFO!
4 years ago

Next thing I hear from you lot: wanting to not be slaves is being woke. Grow up.
Maybe the fact is, life is more complex than actually generalizing whole batches of humans because you need to feel superior.

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lel
4 years ago

I want to be a grouch and tell whoever is posting the inspirational quotes to quit it, but they are refreshing to see just the same.

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A-Kid
4 years ago

#9 – Ow. That hurt.. but I’m guessing it’s about something sugary that might have a following.

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Definitely not an idiot
4 years ago

Sands is so hot. I wanna have his babies and we will name all of them Kylie.

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lollipoperoo
4 years ago

#18
Is this news? Everyone knows this guy is just a mentally off fuckboi on second life,also people still use skype? lollz

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And I Oop
4 years ago

#9 Can anyone read this?

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GTFO!
Reply to  And I Oop
4 years ago

Not after having a seizure.

Last edited 4 years ago by GTFO!
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And I Oop
Reply to  GTFO!
4 years ago

LOL

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A-Kid
Reply to  And I Oop
4 years ago

It’s painful but it says:

gotta love how you only block people for being rude to artists when you sit in your store’s discord being a shithead and bullying your customers with your artist friends clique. then banning them when they defend themselves. good job shitting on the people paying for your home and water. it’s a good thing you got so few people there, god damn I hope someone blows your ass out someday

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And I Oop
Reply to  A-Kid
4 years ago

Thank you for this, it was very painful.

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Get Benton
Reply to  And I Oop
4 years ago

I think you need special 3d glasses that should have come with this week’s VS XD

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And I Oop
Reply to  Get Benton
4 years ago

LOL

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OMG SHE THREATENED ME
Reply to  And I Oop
4 years ago

Yes but it’s painful to look at.

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Major Yikes
4 years ago

#22 Well, that’s an instant unfollow for Juliet. Was getting tired of those filler lips, anyway. Figures she’s a nasty cunt.

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OneOfTheMany
4 years ago

#33 Ming just admit your shit, stop playing victim and stop the drama. We all know its you. So why bother with hiding it?

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NotAnApostate
Reply to  OneOfTheMany
4 years ago

An anonymous poster claims something was said by someone else and you take it as fact? Someone needs to sit and think about what they did wrong on the Lord’s Day.

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George Michael
4 years ago

Here is something to consider. You can tell who are real artists and who are fakes. When someone’s avatar in the ad looks so obviously out of proportion, or when they paste a SL head on a DAZ render but can’t even align the neck properly, they look at it and go “oh yeah this looks rightm, let me publish it”.

You don’t have to be an experienced artist, or have any anatomy training to be able to tell when something looks so obviously wrong. There is no way you are an artist of any level and creating art when you can’t even decipher basic shapes. Yet so many of these so called “artists” publish ads with pasted heads that aren’t even aligned properly, avatars with legs 3x longer than their torso, torso that is 2x longer than the legs etc.

This is one of the first signs that gives away the fakes to real artists.

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Iroquois Pliskin
Reply to  George Michael
4 years ago

Hahaha George Michael! ❤️

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dont bully
Reply to  George Michael
4 years ago

Dont attaq designer for use daz avatar. Even blueberry use daz avatar, it don’t change quality of the cloths.

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Yeh Okay
Reply to  dont bully
4 years ago

Yes but clothes that were made in DAZ are obviously going to look a lot better in the image than how they’ll look in SL. It’s why I shy away from buying anything of the sort unless the creator provides a demo.

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knowingly
Reply to  dont bully
4 years ago

well said, Blueberry and Man-Culo are on the same level. Congratulations, while thinking you were defending Johnny, you ended up outing Blueberry. Muwahahahahahahahaha!

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LDNSLER
4 years ago

#38 i feel you Bruh,

The Spa gets old fast and seems to be the only hip adult hangout spot these days, i remember the days when FMD was a decent hangout spot before it turned into a full on club, Chamber upstairs was always busy and a great hangout, Teqis is on life support that she recently opened up a new group for non members to get free access for 6 hours a day, Monica’s/Cassie’s/Indecent affairs got ruined by Cassie’s ego. Only places that cater to the adult crowd that are full of avis are the multiple events during the week at the usual places.

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JustAnotherAvi
Reply to  LDNSLER
4 years ago

There’s a new adult spot opening in a couple months!

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Get Benton
Reply to  LDNSLER
4 years ago

Right there with you. Gone are the days of just hang outs, really. You’ll get the occasional social hub rejects forming some new place that lasts for a few months before it crumbles and dies. Most adult places people are listing are mostly event based, and with that, you have to time your RL calendar around SL events to hang with any decent number of people on weekends.

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Reply to  LDNSLER
4 years ago

How the fuck is FMD a full-on club? it’s open during the week and only has DJ’s on Fridays & Saturdays, that’s not a full-on club muppet.

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LDNSLER
Reply to  Configuration Loaded:
4 years ago

Well it only seems to be rammed when it gets in club mode, other than that the sim is dead, so yeah i call it a club, like in RL that seems to be busy during the weekend and dead or not open during the rest of the week

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Reply to  LDNSLER
4 years ago

STOP talking out of your ass.

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Mother Superior at Our Lady of Blueballs
Reply to  LDNSLER
4 years ago

Tequi’s join fee is what killed og tequi’s. Anyone charging that much for club access will find their numbers dropping

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Hey Ho
Reply to  Mother Superior at Our Lady of Blueballs
4 years ago

charging a fee to just give access and standing around is what everyone is doing, unless the places are made for different crowds you will always have the same issues just going from one to another

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LDNSLER
Reply to  Mother Superior at Our Lady of Blueballs
4 years ago

Yeah i agree there, the group needs to be reduced to get new people in, at least she realised she needs new blood going there by creating a free access group for limited hours every day.

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Yeh Okay
Reply to  LDNSLER
4 years ago

If you’re into cyberpunk RP, might want to check out insilico or Cocoon.

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Circle8
Reply to  LDNSLER
4 years ago

I’d love for people to come hang out at my venue and just relax. It’s adult that doesn’t “look” like an adult place. Wear what you want and just have fun.

Last edited 4 years ago by Circle8
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LDNSLER
Reply to  Circle8
4 years ago

Cate, your place looks great, but your events are far to late for someone in my timezone.

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Reply to  Circle8
4 years ago

SL Secrets advertising your empty sim. desperate much?

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Circle8
Reply to  Configuration Loaded:
4 years ago

My venue is not a sim.

Just reaching out to someone who said they were looking for some place new. Not desperate at all. ❤️ I enjoy my place and the people there and I also enjoy The Bay, Vetted, Corruption (when I can make events), Tryst, Vargas and many other places! Check them all out. They are adult and awesome!

Last edited 4 years ago by Circle8
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