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Virtual-Secrets, Week 651

02/21/2021 · kesseret ·

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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.


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  1. Okayyy says

    02/26/2021 at 4:00 pm

    ……………..#33 leaves a comment about self not being racist (huge down votes) and is roasted, flags to have their “anonymous” shade removed  ?  ?  ?  we see you  ? 

  2. lee stella says

    02/26/2021 at 9:07 am

    I saw a group of ladies and man geng bang sex in the cage and in her hub. jen feel like this hub is an adult but it is not. The hud is moderate. we need to be careful. many people raped my buddies and family members theres.

    • JustAnotherSheep says

      02/26/2021 at 7:36 pm

      Tp Button ????????

    • TheDevil says

      02/26/2021 at 7:47 pm

      you cant be raped on SL. it is literally impossible unless you are on a poseball, or give someone permission to animate you, and even then…you teleport out, log off…whatever,,

  3. Nocturnal Starlight needs to be MAC banned says

    02/25/2021 at 6:44 am

    #26 Jen, you may not see this and that is fine, but the sad truth is that you probably check this every day – because you are ADDICTED to drama. You feed off it because your pathetic excuse for a real life is so bland and sour. You’ve been on this game for so long, changed your name several times to escape the tsunami of drama and accusations against you. Changing you name makes you look really guilty too. Your employer (if its even real) would fire you so fast even if they only knew a quarter of the things you’ve done online.
    How do you live with yourself knowing how toxic you are on the internet, allowing children to suffer the abuse of adult men on your parcel. How can you call your parcel a safe place for everyone, when you are allowing known pedophiles to seek refuge on your sad excuse of a money making “buisness”/piece of virtual land. On that note – asking for donations on a parcel you pay for every month, just to pocket the profits – or dump that money into upgrading your 100 size head.
    You’re a modern day snake oil salesman. People come to your hub only because they know they can get involved with drama with no repercussions, unless that is, it’s directed at you. Advertising your hub as a safe place for everyone, but its actually the most toxic place on the grid.
    The fact that you haven’t been banned is beyond me. The only thing I can think of as to why you haven’t been banned is because of how much you stimulate the virtual economy.
    Your store is *trash* not an ounce of quality is produced from you. It’s another sad excuse for you to feel like you are successful, something to fill the void of your pathetic and meaningless life.
    It’s unfortunate that you will probably be on SecondLife day in – day out for many many more years to come and I only wish you would find some real help to figure out why you are so angry, why you need to feed the trolls, and why you cant be satisfied with creating meaningful relationships with people beyond what they can do for you, or what you can take from them.
    Lastly, quit making up stories about people, stop CREATING false drama for other people who don’t want to be involved with you. Get over yourself, no one cares about you -that- much. You insert yourself where you aren’t wanted and its obvious when you should shut your mouth and leave.

    (PS: Replacement for Aubrey?? Who cares – Jen is far more a toxic and disgusting human)

    • John King says

      02/25/2021 at 10:20 pm

      You sure do know a lot about Jen. Jelly maybe?

  4. WhatIsYourDamageHeather says

    02/25/2021 at 5:36 am

    15 and 41 both check in from the “if you don’t like it, ignore it or derender it” zone with 15 adding a pathetic level of prudery. Get the rolling fuck over yourselves. Your tastes and sense of humor are not the benchmarks everyone is required to follow.

    42, though. You made the damn list worth scrolling through. Sweet bit of work. “Les Nouveaux Kevins” is going to make me giggle for days.

  5. Anonymous says

    02/23/2021 at 9:06 pm

    Does anybody know why the Virtual Secrets Discord server shut down?

    • kesseret says

      02/23/2021 at 9:15 pm

      Because I was tired of dealing with it. It’s season is gone.

  6. coremax says

    02/23/2021 at 3:49 pm

    #20 – I know bro, a payback to us both!

  7. Sera says

    02/23/2021 at 3:13 pm

    How ironic is it that you put bully content on your page and also the suicide hotline number. Wow. You need some nerve to be disgusting like that and believe you’re doing good… Nice cognitive distortion.

    • kesseret says

      02/23/2021 at 9:16 pm

      You must be new here. How can I assist you?

  8. Yodaddy says

    02/22/2021 at 5:50 pm

    #18 Seth is just a little pussy who loves drama as much as his gal. Whoever posted #18 shouldn’t even bother being upset. He did you a favor. Hell, it was probably Seth who posted it! Free advertising!

  9. Bruh says

    02/22/2021 at 4:32 pm

    #31 Chuckie Ferragamo is stupid and she will manipulate him easily. He is a perfect target for a person like Disa. While he believes everything she is saying, she is just doing whatever she wants behind his back  ? 

    • Mary Mary says

      02/23/2021 at 12:21 am

      I agree fully. She is well known with us creators to take and not produce a single blog post.

      • Bruh says

        02/24/2021 at 11:17 am

        You should kick her. No reason to keep the spot for a person like that!

        She is well known on the grid. Saying to one guy she is sleeping, while she is having fun with the other one on one of her alts 

  10. Why do you care? says

    02/22/2021 at 1:18 pm

    41: The Habsburg chin

  11. BunchOfSnowflakes says

    02/22/2021 at 10:27 am

    #18, Is so true. He even bans you if you join another federation. Petty much?

  12. Tired of seeing the same lame ass girls says

    02/22/2021 at 10:04 am

    35 – Kess just picks her friends to make them feel good. So it’s more about popularity over talent. She picks the same every month for the last two years, Rina, Hara, Cataleya, Wicca, Sady, Danna and all the usuals we see. They must have been doing some good ass licking to be your top girls, Kess. Might as well change the name of your blog to ‘Feeding My Friends Egos” if you’re not going to start broadening your calendar girl picks.

    • Salt-blinders on says

      02/22/2021 at 3:37 pm

      Lol which planet did you fall off from

      • Tired of seeing the same lame ass girls says

        02/26/2021 at 4:23 pm

        Obviously, you’re not on the same planet as most of us if her ego-boosting blog doesn’t bother you, I’m going to guess that you are Kess posting anonymously or a friend of hers that is posted on there monthly. It is like she doesn’t even go through her own Flickr group to pick photos but straight to her friend’s Flickr feeds. Let her keep feeding her friends egos if it makes her feel wanted by them.

    • SL Blogger says

      02/22/2021 at 7:23 pm

      I agree. The favoritism is so obvious at least some people you name have talent but her sister Sady? A photograph of hers always shows up and her photos are ugly and the same with her son. Every month his photograph is there and they look like raw shots on low graphics. Her husband stopped taking photographs maybe all his try hard “thirst” photos finally had Kess put her foot down.

  13. I am hot like Tori Brixx says

    02/22/2021 at 7:23 am

    #26 – You should be ashamed. broke dicksuckin bitch with ya big ass head all you do is suck off harri and bugsy on your sim like a thirsty ass thot and disrespect every other women that shows up at ya bullshit fuck outta here hoe. cheche brought all the traffic to ya dead ass sim and her friend was the one that dumped L$50,000 into ya tipjar but you a greedy broke ass bitch went and cleaned that shit out immediately. next day u get into a split boxing match with zoiberg because he partially owns the rights to the sim and u tryna exclude him from the group and do som shady shit?

    LOL! you perma banned cutie banana because she started dating som Meat Carver guy you were so interested in? talk about petty.. you so fuckin ugly which dude would ever want you? all you do is envy other bitches and talk shit behind peoples back. but everybody been talkin shit bout ya big head ass since back at korea1 and now I see why.. And then you send tantric to crash telephone and jaypac’s sim because nobody goin to ya dead ass sim nomore? Bitch you are fuckin STUPID.

    You ever try to put my friends in ya bullshit timeout jail I would slap the shit out of you hoe. DON’T EVER FUCK WITH MY FRIENDS, I WOULD FUCK YOU UP HOE.

    You don’t live too far from me irl hoe. don’t get abducted.

    • Zoidberg Goon 4 Hire says

      02/22/2021 at 4:55 pm

      First off tantric did not crash telephones sim or jaypac’s it was me and jaypee that have been doing the crashing, second tantric has never bought or recived any of my crashers so get that right. third jen stole 90k lindens from me and booted me from the sim that i helped start because she did not like how things are going also she allows people like lawlypants to have a skybox but won’t let meat carver have rez rights everything that has been said about jen is true she is a thief and she knows it also the fact jen works with kids irl yet lets pedophiles stay on her sim says a lot about her morals she is willing to find people to entertain lawly,boyd and harrison 3 pedophiles on her sim as of this moment she also paid me to have someone hacked btw so if you don’t believe me ask her yourself she has said she was glad he was hacked and she would pay money for it again

      • Jen Loves Pedophles says

        02/23/2021 at 2:32 am

        Jen Created a skybox for emolife1943 Resident to strip nude for boyd and harrison she was up there tonight getting tummy licked by two pedophiles and Bugsy Gallardo (xxmaxpaynexx) was saying how much he likes his ageplay why am i not surprised Jen is Now running a pedo bdsm sim if she really does work with children irl i think someone should let her employer know about her online activities regarding Sl and her pedo sim

      • John King says

        02/23/2021 at 9:56 pm

        Jen made the sim so emolife can get away from jaypac Taggart who spent the last 14 months trying to fuck her underage pixels

      • TheRussellCobaShow says

        02/24/2021 at 1:28 am

        jen paid me to also crash jaypac’s sim on an alt and i will keep doing it every time she pays me also yeah zoidberg gave me the crashers to crash that retard telephone as well

      • lee stella says

        02/26/2021 at 1:42 am

        she(jen) keep all her man in one jail cell and try to rape them now. she try raping my guys friends. if i did not come in time the guys will all get rape by her. we need to let jen get ban as soon as possible. pls i am scared that my guy friend get worst. Jen also wanted to call the police on my friend in rl.

      • TheDevil says

        02/26/2021 at 7:52 pm

        you….smh it sounds to me like its some dumb roleplay with you all and her, gtfo with your bullshit

      • lee stella says

        02/26/2021 at 10:13 pm

        it is not role play. my friend suddenly im me to come see. how the fuck i know it is role play when he is screaming like a mad person let me go let me go. okay. i was hearing he was getting so mad in the jail cell.

      • lee stella says

        02/26/2021 at 10:12 pm

        guys we should a do a petition online and sign it and send it to the ceo about e hub. Pls contact him on twitter: https://twitter.com/ebbealtberg

        there are too many harassers and sexual abuse in ehub. those who want to write a letter and call him pls do it. it is bad for new user who come and visit the sim.

      • John King says

        02/23/2021 at 9:04 pm

        you sold crashers to boyd doghouse five years ago and now we can’t have info hubs anymore

  14. It’s me Jen#26 says

    02/22/2021 at 3:14 am

    #26 it’s me, Jen. Guys I’m sorry I’m such a fake slag. I mean have ya seen me irl tho? You’d be a bitter shrew if you had yo look at this mug in the mirror daily too. I sound like a whiny air horn. My only chance of having any life is virtually but even here I know I’m a joke. I’m 30 and hang out with children because they’re the only ones who I can impress. Oh and I cyber Boyd and he pays my tier. Irl I look like a fat 50 yo Karen. But sl … I can make my avi look 16 which keeps all the pedos happy at my hub. High school sucked for me. But sl has allowed me to pretend I’m a supermodel psychiatrist irl. I even paid to change my sl name 3 times in one year because I’m a dumb ho that never learns. Oink I’m hungry for food and attention. Send lindens! Thanks, Jen

  15. alwaysatthelusthouse says

    02/22/2021 at 1:54 am

    #1 OMG. I think I’m in love. Howard, find me inworld!

    • What doing cuz says

      02/23/2021 at 1:53 am

      We can tag team!. Howard hit me up inworld. I’m not that feeble-minded to think you’re to blame for my terrible choice in friends, and I accept responsibility for my own actions rather than lay blame somewhere else.

      • alwaysatthelusthouse says

        02/24/2021 at 12:20 am

        Back up!. He’s mine. I don’t share. Never have, and never will.
        Howard, if you see this, you don’t need a “cuz” you need a woman who can devour you, and make you feel like a great north god.

  16. My 50 Cents says

    02/22/2021 at 1:12 am

    • Manipulation is more effective on people younger than you, but for a limited time it can work on older people too.
    • If you always have dramas, you bring the drama.
    • If you want to be accepted, accept first.
    • If you want for your private business to stay private, stop gossip about other people private business.
    • Your actions must follow your words.
    • You can’t blame people for things you have done yourself.
    • If you are afraid of being watched, you have something to hide.
    • You never mean what you say. You want just to prove everyone else but you is the problem.
    • If your “friends” ignore all the red flags, it’s because it’s just convenient for them. They will turn around when the benefit gonna end. Just like you do. So watch your mouth.
    • If you are seeking for real, stop play a fictional character.
    • You get what you give.
    • The only one obsessed is you. You are obsessed over the thought everyone is obsessed with you. Typical narcissist.
  17. Stir The Pot says

    02/22/2021 at 12:40 am

    Hey. Kevins are asking for just 462L. It’s not enough to buy ANY of those things. LOL! Doubt all the Kevin’s get together and pool their money together. Or do they? Hmmm……..

    • Lyric Lancrae says

      02/22/2021 at 7:38 am

      Fun fact: Kevin from sl is a active resident that frequents active social sims on an alt account. How do I know this? We spoke on voice before and he’s named off a few old acquaintances of mine pretty precisely. He has also told me that his hustle is to gather enough Lindens to cash out to gift cards which is a way to not be taxed by the irs. He is a one man operation. Stop giving this guy Lindens.

      He also enjoys reading about his exploits on websites like this.

  18. NotEvenRemotelyClose says

    02/22/2021 at 12:34 am

    #33 … Racist, really? Sorry, no, thats a BDSM term. Submissives, slaves, Doms, Dommes, etc. Know what you’re talking about before opening your mouth.

    • WhatIsYourDamageHeather says

      02/25/2021 at 5:42 am

      Wait. You want secret writers here who actually know what BDSM is? It’d be nice, sure. I get tired of the “it’s all abuse and you should hate yourselves” shtick. But the deliberately ignorant will continue to whine about what they don’t understand. More’s the pity.

      However. Slave as a term predates BDSM. And attaching that term to a Black person is an automatic echo to some of the worst shit Europeans and Americans committed in the name of cheap labor most people can think of. A white dominant owning a Black submissive is playing with a Towering Inferno’s worth of fire. Call the same sub a slave, and you may as well dress like Col. Sanders or Scarlett O’Hara.

  19. UnicornPrincess says

    02/21/2021 at 10:38 pm

    Wait, is dying your hair pastel colors tacky in general if you’re over 30 or only because it’s that person doing it and they’re over 30? I mean I really like pastel colors… asking for myself.. ? 

    • Why do you care? says

      02/22/2021 at 12:58 pm

      It’s not tacky to dye your hair at any age. I can’t stand when folks gaslight others to act their age. I mean if people weree to act their age. There wouldn’t have been 40+-year-olds going to prison for breaking windows, throwing feces, and pissing in the halls of the U.S.capital.

  20. Welp says

    02/21/2021 at 10:27 pm

    #39

    You talk like over 30 is someone that should be sitting knitting blankets all day with one foot in the grave lmao we’re not all just out of high school on SL sweetie, being over 30 doesn’t mean shit… I’m over 30 and still got eeeet!! 😛

  21. Sick of SL's Bullshit says

    02/21/2021 at 8:20 pm

    #18 That’s what happens when you annoy the sim owner. You get banned. Oh well, cry about it.

    • BunchOfSnowflakes says

      02/23/2021 at 1:59 pm

      Try and pull another one. We all know that is not the real reason why he bans people.

  22. WSS says

    02/21/2021 at 7:49 pm

    #26 it’s not a surprise jen ended up on Virtual-Secrets given her history with stealing lindens from people, also if she is keeping permabanned residents on her sim she is violating tos the two people she has on her sim that are underage are klubb leeder and Jᴜʟᴇs (emolife1943) two 16 year olds on an 18+ sim that is not good if you have permabanned pedophiles like boyd doghouse and harrison digfoot and Lawlypants1890 around and letting people like samango resistance who was banned for passing child porn around in the safe hubs but the thing that i feel is not good for sl is allowing hackers and doxers like jaypee/sldox to have a place to stalk and harrass others with no restrictions. if LL is watching her sim they should ban her for all the stuff she has allowed and passed to permabanned residents she has been passing boxes filled with crashers to people she sends to other sims to crash and redirect traffic to her sim. her sim is nothing but a haven for griefers,trolls,doxers,hackers and pedophiles its almost like mage only worse with the doxing that is going on in local chat and the owner of the sim is friends with someone that admited to cyber bullying amanda todd let that sink in, Is that someone you really want to give traffic to someone that befriends people that have actually cyber bullied people to death. i for one will never go to her sim and i think LL should do the right thing and ban her for allowing doxing and cyberstalking on her sim.

    • thee klubb leeder says

      02/24/2021 at 8:58 pm

      thanks for the shoutout xxx

  23. Please, respect my Queen says

    02/21/2021 at 7:28 pm

    41 – I’m just here to say I’m a big fan of this woman. I see all her pics and shapes enjoying how each time her chin keeps getting bigger and bigger. Don’t talk shit about her, or she will stab your back with her chin when you look away.

    • Why do you care? says

      02/22/2021 at 1:01 pm

      Yea, The lady Chinth.

  24. Not surprised says

    02/21/2021 at 6:34 pm

    #26 – not surprised so she Jen in here. She’s super rude accused almost every female in the game they are a homewrecker stealing her “e-boyfriend.” Seems like your friend but will talk shit behind your back, very toxic person.

  25. tay says

    02/21/2021 at 5:49 pm

    #6 Hey guys! I’m not quite sure what drama people are referring to unless it was with a certain person that told me to walk off a pier. Anyways, we have an amazing group of girls that make Afterhours as great as it is, we also have clients that frequently come and get involved in our events. So again not too sure what some are talking about.
    #10 We let someone else use our build to help them with their clubs. We support anyone and everyone as much as we can and giving a build that we no longer use shouldn’t be an issue. Also Hi Aaron!
    We are pretty chill people which i’m sure you would know if you took the time to actually talk to us. The only reason I am really commenting this is because Afterhours isn’t just Dani and I. It is made up of a lot of great girls that work to make their money.
    Hope this clears anything up!

    • Aaron says

      02/21/2021 at 9:44 pm

      I know this might come as a surprise Tay & Dani, but I had nothing to do with those posts. However, it doesn’t surprise me some ex-employee of yours got tired of your shit. Maybe if you weren’t pissing off your former employees, they wouldn’t be posting shit about you on here. I got better things to deal with then to waste my time on two of you. Get over yourselves. Kindly move along, own your own shit, and stop pointing fingers.

      • haha says

        02/22/2021 at 5:05 pm

        HAHAHA yeah better things to deal with like posting on SL Secrets.

  26. Cry us a river BRITNEY! says

    02/21/2021 at 5:46 pm

    3. Wait so did she wreck another car then cry all over the book? She whines and cries more then my 3 year old niece. My man left me ?  My job hates me? Boohoo bitch get over it.

  27. Dontplayslhereforthedrama says

    02/21/2021 at 5:39 pm

    First of all, all the posts talking about fucking and dating: Lets stop pretending as if you all got game. At the end of the day you old fucks are just roleplaying with barbies and making love to ur own hands on an outdated game.

    And to 34 about suicide: yes suicide is a serious issue but to expect strangers online to give a crap about ur problem is also a problem. Even if you did kill yourself you will be nothing but a post here that will be forgotten next week. You cant expect random people to hold you here or be responsible for your mental issues. All you will be doing is further isolating yourself because people in general dont like to be around negative people. Seek professional help in real life. Get out of this tiny online bubble you are in.

  28. Haha says

    02/21/2021 at 3:58 pm

    Hahaha you just broke your arm with #33. What a reach. You guys that stupid?

  29. Ugly Girl #2 says

    02/21/2021 at 3:41 pm

    Heya, Poppy Lemongrass here aka Ugly Girl #2. Just wanted to say thank you so much to whoever posted me. I’m honored to be up there next to other bloggers I admire. The best thing about Second Life is people can create avatars that represent so many different sides of themselves. I personally love all the variety of Second Life! Sure there are always going to be trends just like in RL, but I don’t think it’s wrong for people to subscribe to them; it’s just part of fashion and creative expression. Again, thank you for recognizing these great artists and taking the time to promote them. <3

  30. Bumbum says

    02/21/2021 at 3:25 pm

    #40 Agree.There are a lot of nice women out there but it depends on the types you choose to associate with. If you seek out the bitchy “bad girl”, drama queen types you know what you’re setting yourself up for. It’s not like men make great friends either unless they want to get in your pants.

    • haha says

      02/22/2021 at 4:12 am

      aha maybe she should use her therapist degree to figure out why she can’t keep a group of girlfriends instead of bitching about it on FB.

  31. Dani says

    02/21/2021 at 3:07 pm

    #6 hey Arron, a little salty you got put in your place by my gf? It happens, take your seat and stay there.

  32. How many have you done this to already? says

    02/21/2021 at 2:54 pm

    #18– He’s just a controlling ass who can’t get what he wants RL so he comes to SL and places tons of expectations on her. Marries her in secret. Then bolts like a coward? *shrugs* Karma will be evil to you son.

    • Sick of SL's Bullshit says

      02/22/2021 at 4:54 am

      Dude, what? Are you talking about #18, or someone else? Expectations on who? Marries who in secret? Maybe proof read or scroll up to make sure you’re posting about the right secret before clicking “POST COMMENT.”

  33. Look in the Mirror says

    02/21/2021 at 2:41 pm

    #1- I agree with the other comment that said this is 80% of men in SL. I know Howard and yes sex is his motivator in SL. But have you ever heard of telling someone no to sex but trying to be their friend? I mean “no” is a legitimate response. Also, I’m going to go out on a limb here and assume you take erotic photos of your half naked avatar and get offended when a guy assumes you’re DTF. Congrats, you’re now part of the 80% of women in SL. Sounds more to me like you wanted to tie him down and get him to commit and when you found out he didn’t want anything from you beyond getting his dick wet you ran to SL secrets. Take a look at yourself and your expectations and see who is the real problem here.

  34. Wouldn't You Like To Know says

    02/21/2021 at 1:45 pm

    #4 Your Indian and poor spelling is showing. Is the town you help manage aware of your bullshit postings here, or that you help harbor a double timing lowlife?

  35. Morty Milk says

    02/21/2021 at 1:20 pm

    #15 Why is this a secret? This is basically the embodiment of SL; why do you think it’s banned from Twitch? The community is just an ongoing dick joke and I’m pretty sure that’s not exclusive to just second life.

  36. Nah. says

    02/21/2021 at 1:09 pm

    #15
    Really? There are still people in SL that are offended over giant d*cks?
    Where have you been the last decade?

    • Dontplayslhereforthedrama says

      02/21/2021 at 5:43 pm

      Honestly riding giant dicks online like a mount and spewing cum at ur friends seems like a much healthier way of playing this game than all these highschool dating drama roleplay people seem to be participating in.

  37. LDNSLER says

    02/21/2021 at 1:05 pm

    #41. Is masculine jawlines on female avis the new thing, Just wait till we see a female head with a masculine jawline on top of a Kupra Body.

    • okay... says

      02/21/2021 at 3:25 pm

      Already seen it. Who cares…

  38. You are scary says

    02/21/2021 at 12:35 pm

    #24 GasLighting
    “It didn’t happen like that!”… ‘You’re imagining it!”… “That never happened”… “I didn’t say that!”

    Sound familiar?

    Essentially what gas lighting is, is brainwashing. Slow and deliberate psychological manipulation that results in the victim questioning their own reality. The ultimate aim of gas lighting is to disorientate the victim so that they begin to doubt what is real and what is not. It is far more effective than people generally understand and if used over years and years, can lead to all sorts of poor mental health outcomes for the victim.
    Narcissists will use denial, misrepresentation, lies and contradiction to slowly trap the victim in this distorted reality and to maintain control over them. By making the victim feel ‘crazy’ the victim is less likely to ask for help, reach out to friends and family for support or, leave the relationship.
    Isolated, the victim will be also accused by the abusers unaware friends that will join the gaslighting. The abuser will manipulate the more people they can to believe the victim is crazy / is the one abusing them.

    Projection
    Toxic people such as narcissists are masterful blame shifters. They will literally stop at nothing to avoid accountability. They will often blame the other party for all the things they themselves are doing, or have done. Think the cheating spouse.
    The husband in the play subtly fiddles with the lighting in their flat over time and when the wife raises her concerns about the lighting problem, the husband convinces her she is imagining it and in fact, that she is going crazy. Of course the lighting wasn’t the only issue. The woman was also beginning to think she was a thief when in fact her husband was taking and misplacing things himself and then trying to convince the wife that she had done it!
    This defence mechanism plays out in many ways but ultimately aims to distract the other party and make them carry the emotional burden. By shifting the blame the argument then becomes about the other party proving their innocence, thus allowing the narcissists behaviour to slip past.
    If you bring out evidences, they will probably say ‘it’s in the past’ and refuse to be held accountable.

    Triangulation
    This tactic can be extremely destructive to a person’s sense of self. It can involve all sorts of scenarios but what it basically means is bringing in a third party (literally or not) to back the narcissist’s case or to make you question your own abilities, worthiness or sanity.
    For example they will get a new friend or partner just to show you how wrong and unworth you were.
    They will say you are ungrateful and throw at your face everything they have done for you (probably nothing, just normal things like spending time with you) and blame on you everything in their life that is going wrong. Perhaps they are the ones not appreciating everything you have done for them and their life is the result of their own actions, not yours.

    • Finally says

      02/21/2021 at 2:00 pm

      I’ve warned you all for years about Grace and she went around yelling I’m crazy lol who is crazy now manipulative biiiiiiiiiiitch

  39. Frumentarii Vulpes says

    02/21/2021 at 12:29 pm

    #26 Nazis is an understatement she allows people that have done doxing and hacking of other peoples account Jaypee Aka SLdox there i have recorded proof that she had someone hacked because their sim traffic was better then hers, she also allows two pedophiles to harrass people on her sim a boyd doghouse and a harrison digfoot two permabanned people as well as the nazi( kevan777 banned resident) who used to spam his white pride stuff at Barbarossa a hub that no longer has voice thanks to boyd and his crew. Jen does not care about other peoples safety what so ever she even has underage people on her sim being harassed by two pedophiles she also has hired people to go out and crash any sim that gets better traffic then hers. she’s not doing sl a favor harboring permabanned residents if anything she is doing it to be queen if your kingdom consists of permabans,doxers,hackers and pedos your doing it all wrong. Never forget jen the walls have ears we know you are having sims crashed and you were behind the hacking of that one person someone that is a much better person then you.

    • youreallmental says

      02/23/2021 at 2:13 am

      I don’t think people on SL really understand what hacking is. Jaypee isn’t hacking shit. I also don’t think you understand what pedophiles are. I’ve said before and I’ll say it until I’m blue in the face: A bunch of you get on secondlife and call people pedophiles but you never do ANYthing about it. If they’re pedophiles, why aren’t you reporting it to the police with evidence? If you think people are a real danger, why in the fuck do you let it go on without reporting it to the goddamned police? All of you from the infohubs are complete and utter morons. All of you on SL, if you suspect someone of being a pedophile and you have evidence to suggest such, report the shit to the authorities.

  40. Major Yikes says

    02/21/2021 at 12:20 pm

    #41 The new “babyface” of SL. Just another wave of clones.

    • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

      02/21/2021 at 12:53 pm

      Pretty sure those are all the same avi with an ugly fetish, but frankly it would be a relief if it was the new trend; all those childish faces on bimbo bodies are way more gross and the women who have them are pathetic

      • Major Yikes says

        02/21/2021 at 4:02 pm

        Agreed.
        And it might all be the same person in this post, but that kind of face is the newest trend, and I’m sure we’ll see tons of them now, and get just as tired of them, soon. Yay, people with no imagination.

  41. LOL says

    02/21/2021 at 12:20 pm

    10 – Brownnosing Dani pays off.

    • cutsbothways says

      02/21/2021 at 3:19 pm

      10- for LOL: I guess that ripping off other club’s builds is somehow also related to “brownnosing” Dani, who btw -engages in fair play with all of those at her club. Yeah, that’s rhetorical for those of you who don’t understand the concept. You don’t Dani- at all. She does not play favorites with her staff and she has been the best person to work for in Second Life, overall I have worked for! This woman is in her early 20s and she runs circles around women who are supposed to be mature with life experience! Stop being so butt hurt because you cannot take her down. People with good intentions will always win but you don’t have enough life experience to fathom that.

      • LOL says

        02/22/2021 at 2:10 am

        Yeah, thank God that I don‘t Dani – at all. Keep licking her ass, its getting cold.

  42. real tea says

    02/21/2021 at 12:08 pm

    #41 Nothing wrong with choosing to be ugly in SL, Oakley did a whole career out of it, but that chick Inferia sucking the teacher in her school uniform is freakin gross, girl don’t even try sayin “omg they are both adults” ’cause we all know what the message is Evening classes. | This cheezu – heena outfit is soooo cute,… | Flickr

    • griss says

      02/21/2021 at 2:51 pm

      Oakley is so ugly its called creative lolol ijs

    • Major Yikes says

      02/21/2021 at 4:03 pm

      This is so on point. Love it.

  43. Me says

    02/21/2021 at 11:59 am

    #1 Congrats, you just described 80% of the men in SL.

    • YouKnowIt says

      02/21/2021 at 4:05 pm

      true… but he pretends like he isn’t and that’s a problem.

      • Bruh says

        02/22/2021 at 12:26 am

        the majority dont even know who he is…

  44. OkayKaren says

    02/21/2021 at 11:50 am

    6 – Was about time that Dani, Tay, the Afterhours management and their sorry excuse of mean girls circle of club owners Discord gets called out. They go around saying how professional and drama-free they are, while it seems like they are the ones causing the drama. They deleted their comments from last weeks secrets, trying to look less bad LOL

    • Idiot says

      02/21/2021 at 2:47 pm

      You can’t delete sl secret comments moron

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        02/21/2021 at 10:00 pm

        Kess can, or if they get reported enough times they’ll be automatically removed apparently. But you’re correct that people can’t delete their own comments.

      • OkayKaren says

        02/25/2021 at 8:06 pm

        As I know you can, there is an option to delete all the comments you have ever made. It will delete the responses too.

    • Word says

      02/21/2021 at 2:58 pm

      They are two of the most trash humans ive encountered on sl lol about time they got put on here

      • WellAreYa? says

        02/23/2021 at 11:40 pm

        Yeah, but aren’t all of the WHINEsmiths trashy?

    • tay says

      02/21/2021 at 5:54 pm

      What drama are you talking about and What secrets did we delete exactly?

    • kesseret says

      02/26/2021 at 5:04 pm

      I’m pretty sure you can delete all your comments. It’s not easily found.

      Most of the time if a comment disappears it’s been reported off.

      Hope that helps

  45. vinur says

    02/21/2021 at 11:47 am

    People with Maitreya and Catya can feel great about their avatars and just anjoying sl))

  46. Springchicken says

    02/21/2021 at 11:46 am

    #17. Facts. In my entire life I have never come across anyone who uses their own mental and physical disabilities to manipulate anyone as much as this person. She has burned all rl bridges and comes to sl to play the victim. Own up to your shit and grow up. Be better.. do better.

    • DarkwingDuck says

      02/21/2021 at 1:39 pm

      Playing the victim is easier didn’t you know? Her and her friends are all the same. Don’t trust them, steer clear and your life will be much more peaceful.

      • The Ahren Family is a Joke says

        02/22/2021 at 7:00 am

        Trust me the “sister” or head of that family is the biggest manipulator of all of them and their leader. She has them all sorts of messed up and it’s more like a cult of misfits and mental and physical disabilities to get things from people to get by. It’s no wonder when I was in Labryinth. The Heavenly’s wanted nothing to do with them and the Lavielle’s turned a blind eye and/or covered for the master manipulator.

    • Holly says

      02/22/2021 at 5:34 am

      I guess I made you mad and made you cry so you had to make a post about me here. Nothing about me is fake and I’ve never stolen anything from anyone, if anything I give to people when I can. Its too bad I’ve been in SL almost 10 years and those that know me know I’m blunt and honest even if it hurts. Sad you have to hide behind a pen name and can’t come to me on your SL names. So sorry you didn’t get what you wanted and karma bit you in the ass. Sucks to be you. Go spew your lies to someone who cares. Oh wait, that’s no one lol! Thanks for making me SL famous! I’ve gotten more friend requests in one day and people who want to get to know me. I know I’m awesome and so are my friends andy family. Oh and btw way to go making fun of someone with disabilities. At least I’m honest and upfront about mine and getting help for them. And for anyone who wants to know anything about me, I’m an open book. Just send me an in world message. I have nothing to hide. Your friendly neighborhood Demon Spawn Pixie!!

      • Springchicken says

        02/22/2021 at 3:26 pm

        You are delusional, Holly. I never made fun of anyone with disabilities. I said you use yours to manipulate people. Go seek a different doctor yours isn’t helping. I could name off at least 30 people who have bought into your sob story bullshit, invested time, energy and probably money with the go fund me bullshit you had out there. But we won’t go there right now. Just fix your shit. Period. “Demon Spawn Pixie”. Ha.

      • Holly says

        02/23/2021 at 5:50 am

        Still waiting for all the people to come out of hiding from behind their pen names and talk to me face to face instead of posting in a website. When you can do that, then we can address your so called allegations and my SL family and friends.

      • The Ahren Family is a Joke says

        02/23/2021 at 6:06 pm

        Ding Dong, there is a reason your family does not show up to Heavenly events. It is not what Laura wants you to believe that they don’t like her because they are afraid of Laura being a strong independent woman. The opposite is true. When she is backed into a corner she runs to the Queen of the clan and has her do it for her. Stop doing Laura’s bidding and drinking the Koolaid and if you give her Lindens have those dry up, do your own thing go out on your own she how long she cares…promise you she will drop you faster than you can say Holly. She has a long reputation on this server most of it is unflattering. Get over yourself. There not going to discuss it with you because they already know because of dealing with your family.

      • Holly says

        02/23/2021 at 8:08 pm

        I was actually talking about the allegations in my picture, but thanks for the reply. When your life is perfect you can come talk to me on your real avi name too then we can talk.

      • Holly says

        02/23/2021 at 5:53 am

        Again come talk to me on your real name and we can talk about my disabilites.

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        02/22/2021 at 9:52 pm

        You realize all those people added you because they’re bored and want a front row seat to the drama, right? Most of them are probably making fun of everything you say and do behind your back, just waiting for the next episode.

  47. Dark Secrets says

    02/21/2021 at 11:44 am

    #15 Oh my, thank you for believing in me, it you want it you can pick it up here 😉 https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Dark-Secrets-D-Ride-with-a-Surprise-Light/21297284

  48. A Fellow Blogger says

    02/21/2021 at 11:38 am

    #35 – yes, yes, and yes. I have been trying for months to get on this list but to no avail I guess they don’t think my work is good enough. I feel like that list of the same 20 people are just the original posters friend circle is all. Not really recognition of good art when it’s literally the same exact people just in a different order every month.

    • Ms. Me says

      02/21/2021 at 12:26 pm

      Agreed, and it seems the more skin you show the more likely you are to get in it. Or in some cases, just your back shows. I’m so confused by this list, especially when I have seen some super amazing photos that I thought should have made it in there, and then don’t. The year end calendar was a hoot…(in a bad way) I was like wait a minute…who puts a horror picture down for December? That made NO sense. Maybe someone should start a new page and truly pick some cool talent and maybe do like a best of the best for the month and that person could tell people how they did their photo so that people wanting to learn and improve can!

    • Unstable says

      02/21/2021 at 1:23 pm

      I agree. They are all the same people and it seems to be she only picks ones with higher numbers. There are a few amazing ones on there and some very talentless. Been looking on there each month and yes totally the same people. The only ones that really stand out to me that are “WOW” are Lavarock and Jost.

      • TheDevil says

        02/21/2021 at 8:16 pm

        even lavarock most of the time has baby hands and bad proportions,

      • Facepalming hard says

        02/22/2021 at 1:45 pm

        Jost?? you gotta b fuckin kiddin me, that guy is fugly

      • SL Blogger says

        02/22/2021 at 7:25 pm

        Basic and lazy all his photographs.

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        02/25/2021 at 11:41 am

        Nah. He’s masculine. It’s a breath of fresh air in a SL full of hipsters and other skinny femme men. I don’t know him but I enjoy his photos.

    • Ditto says

      02/21/2021 at 5:32 pm

      Sadly this is true of this site now. It never use to be. It use to show such a diverse selection of SL talent, now its the same ones with the same look , over and over.

    • SL Blogger says

      02/21/2021 at 9:44 pm

      All true. There is some talent but most are boring and low quality. Favoritism too. Their are always photos by her sister and her son and neither have an ounce of talent. All about who you know. The list is just joke.

    • Don't get it says

      02/21/2021 at 10:12 pm

      What list are you talking about?

      • Ms. Me says

        02/23/2021 at 9:13 am

        The SL Calendar Girls, Boys, and Home and Garden. https://theglamoursauce.com/2021/02/16/sl-calendar-guys-january-2021/ – look at photo titled I am wolf…….THE HANDS….WTF
        https://theglamoursauce.com/2021/02/08/sl-calendar-girls-january-2021/
        https://theglamoursauce.com/2021/02/10/sl-home-garden-calendar-january-2021/

  49. Facepalming hard says

    02/22/2021 at 2:09 am

    People normalizing pedophilia and trying to make all kinds of excuses for it, there you have it folks! SL at its best.

    FIRST OF ALL she could have blogged this in SO many other ways and yet she chose to infantilize herself by wearing a school uniform while giving a blow job in the classroom. How do people even find that sexy? paste all the links you want but that won’t make the fact that sexualizing a teenager is right when it is WRONG.

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