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  1. #29. I’m sorry to say I agree 100%. I’ve been a huge fan for years, have a box full of her builds. Not gonna lie, I really *do* like the built in kitchens in the newer ones, but overall, blech. I hate the new design direction and also wish Cory would go back to what made her no. 1 for years. Spending a lot more time looking at the competition lately.

  2. #17

    This woman claims to be a findom??? More like a lonely, overweight, middle aged, bored housewife that is the complete opposite of what she portrays to be online. Gotta love those wannabe’s online with a sheltered rl. Her rl pic in her profile tho…. hahahahahaha let me throw out my line for you CATFISH!

  3. 2- I’ve seen it for myself. These trolls will go into English-speaking groups and sims that say ” English Only”. And they will troll the sim, the sim owners, and residents there. And then when they get asked to please speak English. They start calling the sim owner racist and trying to put them on blast. When they knew it was an English-speaking sim. Most of them do speak English and understand it. Like my friend who’s from Germany, he even said that They teach English in primary school in Germany. It’s usually basic English.. but they do understand English..

  4. I’m going to made a black avatar now… Since its just a game. Loll stay mad karens.

  5. #18 I saw the original publication of the owner of mangula and he only made a conscience call, so that the creators do not make publications that generate discord and rejection towards people who use Kupra, he explained that he is aware that it can be difficult to adjust large sizes when they Creators always make small sizes and gave recommendations that he believes might be feasible for them at the time of making the sizes. He said that he does not pay anyone and that he makes his own sizes and has no problem.

    The image shown in # 19 is an example published by him where he shows one of his designs and reflects that the stretch can be adjusted in the best possible way so that it does not affect the texture and showed how his design looks within the world so you can see that you can’t have problems as long as it’s done the right way. He also called on other designers to create Kupra and to reconnect him for various reasons.

    This publication had to be made by someone with great envy since mangula is a popular brand and did not allude to any drama, everything he said was well said.

  6. #5. HAHA, what a lame! I agree with those lovense jars, they are so cringeeeeeeee! I refuse to work in a club that makes it mandatory to use those things in public. If a client wants all of that, they can hire and take me to private!

    • It’s not mandatory at any club…. I think you never worked at a good one

  7. Aw yeah, votes are back. Now we can see exactly how butthurt people get over being told that they’re wrong.

  8. 18 – Ok, Salt Perry post this secret..It is not a secret who… She did it.. Why dont publish this on her fb? ?

  9. 12 – Collars aren’t wedding rings. They’re tools more than they are jewelry. Learn to throw things away and quit bitching about freebies because you can’t use them. Some of us enjoy coordinating our hardware with our outfits. Deal with it.

    • I agree, collars mean different things to different people. Traditional bdsm/leather communities treat collars like wedding rings, but other people outside those specific sects use collars too.

      • ^ This. I am fairly sure collars in various fashion styles (in modern form) came before the BDSM associated ones (due to implications being still fresh but I could be wrong). Maybe. Still they are commonplace for goths, punks, leather men (they are more of a fetish that is not BDSM :P). As a side note – collars as an external symbol relating to submissiveness in various forms are not for all people either and seen folks pick different things as well.

  11. #1 Those dresses are cringe. And stop glorifying child obesity.

  12. #32 You paying my SL subscription, buying my stuff? No? Then STFU and go play your way, I’ll do mine. Mute and derender, punk.

  14. #17

    —-

    Happy Valentines Day.

    The original idea was to wait till the opening to put the group fee on. 
    After so much negativity we decided do it now. The group Fee is now 2000L 
    This is the price in which many of our sponsors told us personally that they would pay after being shown the new FMD LOUNGE. 

    Personally I was going to go back to 1000L but I feel 100 percent that we are bringing something to SL that does not exist. Sorry if this makes people angry although you are already in it and got here for FREE.

    —-

    Bella what the fuck are you even thinking? Because of the negativity that you caused, you are going to punish new members by doubling the joining fee? You got no fucking clue how to run a club do you? How money hungry are you? People now have to pay 2k so they can come in and be told to tip the dancers for the toy in their yee haw.

    FMD is a true shit show.

    • I’m really curious. What are they bringing to SL that doesn’t exist? What sort of offering do they have that could justify that price by virtue of it being unavailable elsewhere?

    • People already payed for the original group and she expects them to pay again? That’s insane…

      • Well, I had a message inviting me to join for free. The group was free for a week and then when everybody joined she started charging 2K. But the old vips had the chance to join again for free as well as new people.

      • A week is nothing! The club isn’t even open yet, so how does she expect people to pay for something they haven’t even seen? That all looks like a scam. Also, the old group had 4 times the amount of members she has in the new one. She’s just trying to make money. I hope she won’t flee after that lol

      • Multiple messages were sent in the old group, most just sat and whined and didn’t move to the new group. Probably the same morons that made the club go downhill in the first place. They had a chance, they were happier to sit with their thumbs up their arses mourning the loss of their dear departed paedo leader.

      • I have to wonder if this is Bella or Pari who posted this, since they have been saying almost the same thing over on FB, which has turned into a real shit show with those two. Basically, if you say anything they don’t agree with, or tell them to stop spamming the hell out of you, they attack, call you by the R word or a few other words that they seem fond of, along with a big ass post on one person’s post:
        https://gyazo.com/2e86cdbcd5992edd047697ef113fb450
        https://gyazo.com/c359b6a4bc082281ecedbe43c71bf2c2

        Bella also went on a full out rampage on someone else’s post and I guess later, turned around and deleted her comments and did a blocking campaign. The way she is going, she’s going to have most of those from SL who have fb accounts, blocked…

        I’m personally going to just sit back, grab some popcorn and watch this train wreck.

      • That’s probably a lie that a bot got wiped out. 90% of the build on the sim was owned by that said bot. You can just pick the shit up lol

      • You don’t see much from those sidelines, honey, don’t you?

      • Bella, Bella, Bella where art thou BRAIN in that head of yours? You boast constantly about how many members and how much support you have LMAO!! The only reason you have 2000 members is because it was FREE!! Had it been 2k your member count would be next to ZERO minus your staff (who don’t have to pay) and your brown nosers so you would have NO ONE if you had charged from the start. I was in your new group and got EJECTED for no reason but the short time I was in there ALL I witnessed was some high and mighty HO BAG acting like she was the fucking president of SL and a bunch of drama hungry thots… so I’m so sorry to bust your bubble but anyone wanting that type of club drama will go to the multiple other clubs in SL for it that will cost them NOTHING! Your club looks like shit, your avatar looks like shit and your attitude is certainly NOT one that many will deal with for long. Hop off that high horse you’re riding and BE NICE (that costs nothing sweetheart) and maybe just maybe you will be respected a little more but the way you’ve started off this venture I’ll give you max 3mths with your 2k fee and disrespectful attitude before it all folds!! Best DJs on the grid?? Let me tell you something as a DJ myself, the best Djs on the grid will not stick around a club that is infested with drama the way yours is I’d LOVE to know who these DJs are!!

    • I’m sure nobody going to pay 2k waste of money for a stupid ass club that has been failing for a while lmao. that’s like buying her visitors so they can kiss her rotten ass then be ejected later on, so ofc, it is “money hungry” and clearly bella does not know how to run a club better or have any manners for anybody, but she likes to blame others for her own mess for no reason because of the negativity that she caused by her ownself. karen can’t point fingers at others for your own mess bella, you gotta wipe all that cow shit hanging from your own ass that you caused. the place wont last long trust me, there is other club way better with no fee who are so welcoming better than that swamp place. ? 

      • Well I’m sure some might if they’re unfamiliar with the club previously and if FMD manages to make themselves appear to be offering a great deal. It wouldn’t take those poor souls long to figure things out though, it sounds like.

    • LOL FUCK NEW MEMBERS, LETS LISTEN TO OUR SPONSORS ON HOW WE CAN FUCK EM OVER! WHAT A JOKE!

    • Well people not spending the 2k for membership, i’m sure you’ll find out about the new FMD experience in the comments section here, i might pop over occasionally out of boredom and might add to the comments if i see anything. I do really hope we get more drama filled slanging matches in the group chat like last friday though, i also have a feeling Bella is going to a bigger star than Lance was in Virtual Secrets, she’s got off to a great start already, Go Bella!!!!

    • I’ve never heard of or even been to FMD lol, i also would NEVER pay 2k for a group, for what? pixel sex or pixel pussy? would rather go out in to the real world and pay 2k for that haha.

    • I guess I was one of the sponsors that wasn’t asked personally on this matter?? … OR Miss Bella is talking out of her ass to justify her greed. Good luck with that. Oh and btw your “new look FMD” that you’re so excited for everyone to see looks like a gold throwback of shitty textures from 10 years ago much like your rentals  ? 

      • Why am I not surprised this silly bitch takes her cues from the same gauche school of interior design as Trump LOL

    • I mean she’s gotta find a way to make back some of that 600k she dropped on buying fmd right? LOL

    • [22:32] Eᴍᴘʀᴇꜱꜱ BᴇʟʟᴀTʀɪx Lᴇᴛʜᴀʟ™ (bellalethal. alpha): I am the new owner and I am getting a lot of hate, people do not like changes or more someone who comes in and pretty much builds all over again. I am doing my best to make FMD a fun and enjoyable experience with no drama. Those who are dramatic or cause any drama will be kicked with no warning. as for the ejection I sent out notices pretty much a week straight saying i was going to clean house. I had no control over that group as the one who owned it was banned. when lance owned FMD. I have decided to branch off and start over. the strip club is not part of FMD but it is part of the build it’s not even in the same area as the club. What we are bringing to the grid is pure class. Those who are angry can be angry I am not worried about that. my priority is my lounge and the members. those who are for FMD
      [22:33] Eᴍᴘʀᴇꜱꜱ BᴇʟʟᴀTʀɪx Lᴇᴛʜᴀʟ™ (bellalethal. alpha): now if you will excuse me I will be right back

      Bella .. you talk about people with drama everyday .. you keep repeating yourself we know what you doing .. or trying to do. but here you keep hitting the chat like you someone important when you sit in front of a computer trying to run a virtual place where it’s going to fail anyways on your attitude and your managers who don’t know their ass from the ground. FFS just SHUT THE FUCK UP oh I’m going to add this too it’s funny how all these thirsty grown ass boys throwing themselves at you is pretty pathetic too .. cause they know they don’t have any chance with a woman that does have class

    • Wait, so she’s saying that her sponsors would recommend such a ridiculous join price? Gee, wouldn’t it be something if a bunch of people went to her sponsors and let them know that they will be avoiding any purchases from them for supporting such a toxic person? That would be something wouldn’t it?

  15. #5 I think you’re making yourself look pretty stupid with that.
    You got hired for a job, for some reason didn’t turn up. That the person wrote to you seem pretty nice and your behavior seems pathetic.
    Why do you even apply for a job at a club like that if you hate voicing that much?
    Honestly I’m surprised they didn’t fire you earlier if you’re like this.

    • So im a general manager at a club as well, if you don’t show up for your set or you have gone MIA for a while and we haven’t heard or been in contact with you, we will reach out and ask if you are ok or if you still want employment with us. If we don’t hear back from you we assume you no longer want to work for us and terminate you, you are an adult playing an adult game, we are not your parents and shouldn’t have to remind you that you have a job? would you expect your RL employer to do that for you? make sure you turn up for your set? 1 set a week?

      • the thing is… this still sl no rl, some club they just change the tag, if one day want to come back to work again, they give back the tag and there is not drama, If you don’t like to do voice, then why work in a club where you need to do voice?I prefer to work in a club where I have no hours and can work whenever I want or do at least one hour a week, if there are few such clubs, but nobody leaves angry

  16. 26. Oh boy, here comes that bottom feeder scraping the bottom of the barrel to post about his obsession with wrestling again!

    You’d think he/she would choose another hill to die on.

    • You would think but where there is no drama, some slimeball has to be there to create it. It’s ridiculous.

  17. 14 – The fact that this is so true is funny but I’m also wondering if he’s going to bring out the fetish where he likes to fuck on animal avatars. She must be into that too to be with him. Maybe he’s found his perfect match after all! ?

    • His animal obsession is disgusting and she probably is fine with it because she’s just as deranged as him.

      • He’s got a kid avatar now too. That’ll be his next fetish being the deranged freak that he is.

    • He’s gross and so is she. They will probably do that but everyone can see what a downgrade she has from Finnely and Zai. I’m so glad both of them see her for who she is now. They deserve better than trash! Her days of playing victim will come to an end. She will get cheated on if she hasn’t already because this secret doesn’t lie. He’ll get his animal fetish somewhere else if he thinks she wouldn’t be into it.

  18. #17

    I joined the group cos it was free the other day thanks to a friend passing me the group link, I wasn’t stupid enough to join it when it was 1k,was such a lame club whenever I did check it out on the free access events and I never lasted long there. Chamber’s friday free access event killed the FMD one. Anyway everyone should join the group, it’s free and group chat is fantastic viewing, it really is worth joining just for that, especially Friday which was a 30 minutes worth of absolute reading joy, i just wish I had Popcorn.

  19. This week cup of tea is the same as last week yawn have better secrets next time :). For us readers to laugh at

  20. #25 I hate to break it to you but whoever posted this Garbage about Craig is so full of jealous Garbage aww did you get ya little feelings hurt because he didn’t give you what your little whiney ass wanted aww poor baby heres a Tissue for ya issues now go fuck off and cry somewhere because no one believes ya bullshit and those that do need to look in fucking mirror first and Get a life while your at it now good riddance shooo shooo ya fucking idiot !

    • It’s not all garbage. He is a passive aggressive POS. He will lie when he needs to in order to cover up his own fuck ups and has been caught on multiple occasions. His ex was his moneybags. He accuses people of crap and won’t prove it when pushed. The racist and homo-phobic I have not witness myself so I won’t speak to that. He is all store bought in the games he plays so he talks a lot of shit but he truly is a pos loudmouth who when he gets beat down by skill looks to blame others for cheating when all he is, is a buy now to win player. He is a known sexual harasser in clubs where he DJ’s and his mommy covers it up if she is a manager there by telling the girls that it’s their fault because he would not do it if they did not dress like a slut and crap like that.

      Craige is not a saint nor a good person overall. He is an act, he want’s to be in good graces with people for a reason and it’s for either power or sex. He has tried to screw many people over in there DJ or hosting jobs, or in hud games.

      I appreciate trying to defend your so called friend but give him the chance he will screw you over if he needs to, in order to save his ass.

    • who would be jealous of this talentless hack job? nice try cunt. craig had this coming for a long time. persons who know craig know he will smile in your face saying what you want to hear then talk shit about the same person the moment they can not hear him. craig is no victim. dont be manipulated & stop protecting a piece of shit like craig. you look dumb. ? 

  21. 23 – Toby at it again, probably still talk to Paris as well. Speaking of, hes been pretty quiet lately since Edenvale went under.

    • I heard of this guy before my friends say he causes drama at edenvale he was one who posted his own SL secrets.

    • If I were Toby I get new friends. It’s one thing to be on here because of salt, it’s another to be on here through two-faced friends!
      I would ask 0tony0 but you can’t expect honesty out of dishonest people !

  22. #19 Salt Perry lost your time being a fucking drama queen, When she can learn rigging to Kupra ?

    • kupra is a terrible excuse for a body, sking has been making them for years and no one has cared but the overinflated bimbo crowd *shudders* it is terrible, and looks like a toilet paper roll with balls on the top and bottom, because the torso has no shape, and people trying to give it a stomach, with those chub lines on the skins where there is no tummy to back it up….no, it looks bad, and they should feel bad, gross. ? 

  26. #13 – You literally cannot blackface on Second Life. Please, fuck off. Whoever posted this needs to stop spouting ‘supportive’ nonsense and start doing some research. A lot of black people I speak to do not care about this. The thing they hate the most are white people defending them in a mockery.

    If you are going to complain about anything, why not the obvious jazz hand?

    #19 – They do not actually pay pennies. It can cost upwards of $300 for the actual mesh, then another $150 for the rigging. Depending on what they get made, it may not even turn a profit.

    #29 – All personal opinion. The amazing thing about houses is that they are all different. The big thing is that they need to remain similar so that they work in Second Life. Blame the furniture creators. House creators are limited by them.

    • I have to disagree on 29. I own hundreds of furniture items that can fill up a house, no matter what the sizing. Only thing that gets on my nerves is finding a house with rooms. Trompe (as beautiful as their builds are) need to stop making builds that only have one giant ass room and make more that had several rooms.

    • Your alleged Black friends aren’t the final word in this just because it makes you more comfortable. Just saying.

      • “Neoracism” is the word to describe the woke left, assuming that black people can’t think for themselves and need virtue signaling white people to do it for them, or to “defend” them as an oppressed group.

        This image does not in any way portray a black person in a negative light, nor does it denote a mockery of blacks.

      • I never said that they were. The people I speak to are probably a small group in comparison and are tired of it all. I cannot even joke around with them anymore or some white moron will come at me from left field, claiming I am oppressing them and offending them, despite that circle of friends actually laughing about it.

        The whole point I was trying to make is that a white person playing as a black character is not blackface. The picture itself is relatively tame to some of the things I see. Second Life is not real life and people seem to forget that the avatar they are on is not them. It is not like there is a limited number of slots for avatars with a black skin tone available and white people are taking those ‘slots’.

        No, the person who made the secret wants to look like they are all accepting and kind, which they most likely are the biggest racist and bigots in existence, and are looking for a reason to attack someone. They are making a mockery of genuine issues and people lap it up like a dehydrated dog.

    • # 19 It actually costs much more than that, I spoke to a designer to request a custom design for my wedding and he wanted to charge me $ 2000.00 not all brands have the luxury of paying so much money

  27. 29, it’s called modern architecture and in some states, like the one I live it’s normal and costs usually substantially more than old worn out cottages.

    • Trompe has gone down hill, 29 is right every house looks the same. They’re too large and they’re not pleasing to the eye anymore, it’s just another store on my list to not buy from again.

    • Trompe makes beautiful builds, but that one room bullshit is annoying and makes me want to shop elsewhere.

  28. #9 Hadley is probably one of the most pathetic girls I have seen. That girl claims love to a different man every week not every few weeks. Her love is not real so #14 looks pathetic with her if he thinks it’s real love. Give it a day or some and you’ll see her say she loves this guy too.

    • The most real shit! She plays victim and gets everyone to feel sorry for her. She makes up lies about everyone she dates too. Finnely deleted and blocked her after he saw the real her and the games she plays. She’s disgusting and should be ashamed to be the way she is to others on here. She loves to hurt people and that guy Phange is a mate too. They were dating and she dropped him for this ugly ass guy that she had on the side. She really does just have dudes on her pussy 24:7.

      • Lul! I’m glad Finnely deleted and blocked her. That is what she deserves. She deserves to be dropped and alone. She might then see what she’s doing to those around her. No one needs to put her up here for the world to see what she does to everyone. People are dropping from her life like her panties do for different men every week without this site. She just lost another kid too!! They will all see her for the real her soon. The only ones she’ll have left are the pathetic ones who are too pussy to walk away from her.

      • Bruh, fuck, you guys are so worried about Hadley every week. It’s kind of like an obsession at this point. So the girl dates dudes, who the fuck cares. Focus on yourself, damn. There are plenty of people who date in this game. There are plenty of people who hook up with different people all the damn time, I mean shit there are escorts. So fucking what? Get your head out of your ass.
        It also seems to me like the girl has friends and family who love her. She’s not alone, my dudes. She doesn’t seem like a bad chick to me. She seems like she pissed someone off for sure though. Maybe a crazy ex? Ex family member who can’t leave her alone? Someone she offended once upon a time? The level you guys go to “expose” her is yikes. Same shit every week. Crying like tit bags. Lots of people with her name in their mouths. Pathetic.

  29. 13 while i was a blogger i did a lot of black avatars cuz for my opinion they was suit better for some styles of outfites, it calles blackfacing now too? white girls can’t have black avatars? i heard it called 2nd life for you can be wherever u want

    • That makes zero sense. So, black avatars only fit for certain looks?

  30. 32 I get the noises in clubs but why stores? Do you not know how to derender people? And why are you so bothered by a fucking font? You sure you should be playing SL because there are LOADS of people with those super longass names in that exact font. Learn how to derender, mute and ignore and get the fuck over it.

  31. 32 – I have my name in funky letters but you can fucking read it. It’s those that you can’t that are shit ass.

    I use soundless gestures or at least ones that aren’t a fucking bull horn and take up 25 rows of text.

    And you don’t like my dog, derender us bitch. The sound is off right? Yeah. STFU.

    Yeah, I’m old. So what?

    • Would you like to see a manager? all seriousness though, you are right, mute and derender?

  32. #7 – Universals layer between skin/tattoo and clothing. Socks and stockings should be a clothing layer.

    It is true that Universals allow access to adding to the LEFT_ARM_BAKED and LEFT_LEG_BAKED layers so people can create unique textures for each arm, but this would require body creators to use those BOM textures on their respective limbs for the Universals using those layers to show.

    • I agree, clothing layers are definitely best for socks and stockings. Universal would still be better than tattoo layer, though.

    • the left arm/leg layer things don’t work, i have tried and nopesky

    • You do realize that no matter which layer use it shows up exactly same guality on avatar right? Socks using tattoo vs pants vs socks have 0 difference in looks. It doesnt even effect layer ordering.

      • That’s not true. The texture is the same, but not all layers cover the same amount of area- for instance, the sock layer doesn’t come all the way up to the waist the way underwear and pants do; it stops on the thighs. Type definitely affects layer ordering too. All you have to do is look in your edit outfit window; the clothing layers are separate from the tattoo and universals, and will layer on top of them. Tattoos will always go under universals and clothes. You can only change the layer order within their own subset.

      • um no I am using 2 universal now and it is always under everything else as a base just above skin. As for layering your socks on socks vs tattoo .. what is the point in such a fuss? regardless how you do it you either have to pay attention what put on in order or reorder via outfit window. If it makes zero difference to outcome quality sounds like bitching just to bitch to me

      • You’re confused. Universals will always layer on top of tattoo layers, they literally cannot be moved under tattoo layers. Here’s a link to verified LL information that proves it: https://community.secondlife.com/knowledgebase/english/bakes-on-mesh-r1512/#Section_4_2

        “Universal WearablesNew channels aren’t useful unless there is some way to wear items that use those channels To meet this need, a new wearable type called Universal has been added. The Universal wearable has slots corresponding to all 11 of the new and old bake channels. In layering order, universal wearables go above the skin and tattoo wearables, and below all other types of clothing.”

        If you put on a pair of stockings that are on tattoo layer, and you’re using a universal for your actual tattoos so that they stay on top of tattoo layers like freckles and moles, those tattoos will be on top of your stockings. This is a problem unless you’re a sloppy bitch.

        Almost all BOM stockings I’ve purchased are on tattoo layer for some weird reason, and comment OP is correct that clothing should be made on clothing layers. Post OP isn’t technically wrong either, but using clothing layers would make less layer swapping necessary.

        Learn to shut up when you don’t know what you’re talking about and can’t be bothered to check.

  33. #2 I wonder how long SL would continue to operate if people who don’t speak English natively really DID start their own game. Enjoy your ignorant club and hope no one takes your ignorant advice.
    #19 WOW. I could remove at least a third of those polygons in 5 minutes and it wouldn’t change ANYTHING about the final look. So much geometry wasted in flat areas with no detail.

  34. #17

    So I was looking at the rate card for this new version of FMD and I have one question before I login to apply for a job… you are charging 300 for me to shove my lovesense dildo up me hoohaar for some random person to jerk off too for 15 seconds see link. https://www.flickr.com/photos/192136074@N06/50934062707/in/dateposted/

    My question is this whats your cut. Is that in Linden Dollars or USD. and if it’s in Lindens you can jog on honey, I can earn much more on Pornhub.

    • of course thats in $L duh its something you saw in sl why would they pay 300 rl for 10 seconds of your toy..give me a break

      • Love the way the Premature Ejaculators keep voting my comment down, sorry boys 15 seconds is just not enough.

    • Even as a host they want RL information, Age, skype, discord…. a bit toooo much I think.

    • so basically you are making pennies where you could be making 100’s via a website for same thing .. got it lol

  35. #6 Nicky Heartsong aka Calzona2011 aka 30+ other alts
    Player, cheater, compulsive liar, user, uses them to get everything he/she can get out of them in sl & rl, plays the victim & makes out its the ex’s fault & there the bad person & bad mouths them telling bullshit n lies list goes on

    • Let’s talk about how many women he has been through in the last 2 years. He uses them as if they are objects. If anyone knew about Nicky Heartsong in world they would turn and run in the opposite direction. Ivory MF Cage girl if you really knew who you was dealing with you would block and ban him immediately. P.S. Nicky if you see this grow up get a pair of balls and stop playing the victim while you are running around victimizing females and using them for whatever they are willing to give you. How about all the body and clothes females have bought for you. Have you ever just stopped and bought anything for a female that cost substantial. Matter fact anyone that knows Ivory’s SL name should send her a message and let her know.

      Sincerely,

      A concerned reader

      • Its wrong the way he/she treats women then BLAMES THEM & bad mouths them all making them all out to be psycho bitches, stalkers blah blah blah & he/she is the victim to get sympathy.
        Oh lets not forget he/she thinks its ok to flirt with other women & cuddle with female friends even while in a relationship with someone else & doesn’t think its cheating uuummmm THAT IS CHEATING PLANE N SIMPLE!
        Nicky IF your reading this it’s VERY WRONG the way you’ve treated so many women & now its catching up with you. IF this isn’t a WAKE UP CALL then I don’t know what is. Take responsibility for your actions grow a pair & stop treating women like complete shit its backfiring on you now.

      • Shame you played cheated on used & compulsively bare faced lied to GENUINE people who USED to be GENUINELY REAL about you. Maybe one day you’ll realise what you chucked away with your actions

        Karma

      • But yet u cant just comfront him huh …. Sounds about right cause yall rather be petty ….y dont yall grow a pair

      • Doesn’t like being confronted & just makes out we’re all liars & psychos etc when we’re actually the ones stating facts n the truth.

      • And you your the biggest one trying to cuddle with your own brother gtfo here and now you mad cause he’s got a girl, you demeanor changed after he got a girl

      • Lets set the story straight I’ve known him longer than just 2yrs he/she has been doing this shit for a long time & has ALWAYS been a player, a cheater, a COMPULSIVE LIAR, a USER getting everything he/she can out of people in SL & RL, plays the victim making out he/she has been treated badly blah blah blah to get sympathy from people when its actually his/her fault. He thinks flirting with other women while in a relationship with someone is ok & doesn’t see it as doing anything wrong, just like he thinks its ok to cuddle with other female friends while in a relationship with someone else isn’t cheating plays dumb when it is PLAIN CHEATING!! he’s ALWAYS got other women in the background can’t stick to one woman. He/she doesn’t know what REAL LOVE IS!! had more relationships than hot dinners!! And always writes the same things pretty much in profile pics, its love at first sight, my soul mate etc etc about EVERY WOMAN he/she is in a relationship with. ALWAYS bad mouths & slags his/her ex’s out to everyone to turn everyone against them. But guess you think thats ok.
        You might not want to believe it but it’s the TRUTH & HOME TRUTHS HURT.
        But good luck

    • you all that hide behind the computer screen that sit here and write this shit is nothing but drama seeking bitches that need to grow the fuck up and move on with yourselves.. stop acting like this is high school because you are grown ass adults writing this shit get over your selves and move on

      • What cos its the Truth & HOME TRUTHS HURT. He/she has been like this for YEARS & thinks its ok the way he/she treats women & now its catching up with him/her. Guess your one of the many people who has been sucked in & believe the bullshit n lies he/she spreads about EVERY EX

      • Let me set the record straight this is his long time love and it’s funny how can’t no one put their real name on here but use anonymous as your name. Secondly I wish someone would step to me with some bullsh*t and drama cause I’ll shut that sh*t down. Thirdly I’ve known Nicky for the last two years and you can’t tell me that y’all’s lying asses haven’t spewed one lie on this virtual game because for the simple fact my encounter with y’all at a club bullying someone while they are working tells me that y’all are nothing but warrior keyboards and chicken sh*t bit*hes. Fourthly I believe y’all’s noses are in the wrong person’s business so if you would kindly take your noses somewhere else but if I find the need to need your opinion I’ll ask the diaper section aka drama starters. Oh and Angie just to let you know he’s quite happy now so don’t worry he’s not heartbroken over you or anyone else that wanted to treat him like shit it have turned your backs on him ie. family, friends and exes. Ok rant over your being returned back to your regularly scheduled program now.

  36. im not surprised cody takeda wants to do blackface
    that guy was looking all over for the sl revenge porn lol he has no chill

  37. 2 – None of you are in the right though. If the rules of the group ask people to talk in x language and you get kicked for not following that rule, that’s on you. But at the same time saying everyone in america talks in english as if america = USA… it’s a fight between 2 idiots.

    18 – Not only that, the clothes are so high in complexity and the textures look so cheap… It’s a hard pass from me. He comes here to give lessons to people, when he should learn how to do stuff properly to begin with.

    19 – Well I guess number 19 explained it graphically better than me. There you go  ? 

    • Salt Perry lost your time being a fucking drama queen, When she can learn rigging to Kupra ?

      • Ah yes, copy paste the same response. You’re very invested in defending this Mangula guy. Facts are facts if the clothing is not efficiently made for SL. If he’s going to outsource, he may need to find other meshers that are familiar with the optimization he should be expecting. Especially if he’s paying them anything substantial. That is, unless he doesn’t understand or care about such things; then really, the criticism is well-placed.

  38. #28 Grace and Mira are 2 of the shittiest, most garbage people I have ever met in nearly 15 years on Second Life. They both use their fictional power as store and event owners to lord over others and demean them, treat them like trash, and bring them down as low as they can before stomping out any bit that’s left. They’re both psychotic trash. SL would be markedly improved without them.

  39. If only there were actual designers that didn’t make the same template based bikinis and pass them as clothes. Then maybe Collabor88 would be able to actually have a decent slot. But hey everyone wants to make short rumpers, lingerie as clothes, that all looks the same. No one dares to go for different styles because they don’t sell. Bottomline, the consumers in SL are at fault. Even if designers wanted to, they’d be eating cable from all the SL w**res wannabe. It’s like our daydreams is to be strippers or escorts.

    • Pretty much. The clothing that sells the best at events is something that is slutty. The less fabric, the better. You can only make a bra and panties, or a romper so many times before you have seen them all – and they still sell. I know people with, like, fifties of the same panties from different periods. It is the same with hair. The same style sells really well, thus every creator makes it.

      Everyone wants to be a hoe, therefore that is the selling clothing type.

      • Not all of us do. I’m a feminist, and I rather dress seductively (a la a Femme Fatale) rather than someone that’s selling her body to an old man for 10 bucks for a lap dance. Or someone that wears hoe clothes that tends to also look childish as well (which is borderline very weird for me). Then again, I don’t come here for a date. If I find one fine, but it’s not my main mission. Nor is it in my rl.

        And truth is, it’s not just that these styles sell more. They are easiest to make because the designers have to rig less. So they charge 50lindens more for the same rumper and panties per season or year, and you get less sl material and imagination? No thank you, we are being treated as fools and women don’t seem to realize it. Then again, women get ripped off all the time. We just foolishly never boycott. Makeup foundation – 1980 – it used to prim, conceal, and even out complexion. 2020 – you need concealor, primer, foundation, and makeup spray to keep it in place. But we just follow along because it’s trendy rather than actually ask for quality, well made designs, and actual clothes not underwear.

      • And yes, lol I’m a female and a feminist. But I call it like it is. In Sl a large segment of women go for their sexual fantasy look. And it’s one of a woman that is being sexually exploited. Which boggles my mind.

      • She’s choosing to look that way and you accuse her of promoting exploitation? A good feminist realizes women have the right to self-expression that extends into spaces she wouldn’t go. She isn’t dressing for you, so pull up your big-girl panties and deal with it. Actual exploitation of women happens in a wider variety of outfits than you think.

      • No, I’m not saying she’s promoting it. Defining what a good feminist is ridiculous. That’s a judgement call. However, trivializing a sexual worker, stripper, or a porn star, whom for the most part are victims of sexual abuse and disassociate their emotions from sex to the point where they do not feel anything and thus can work in the sex trade is where i’m going at. Most women are abused prior to that, and that’s putting it mildly. Wearing clothes that does objectify a woman is what is relevant there. And it does. Ask most men in private and they will state that they look at a woman dressed like that as a sexual object. Which I guess, if that’s what you want, that’s what you want. But we didn’t fight for equal rights just to be objectified as a sex object did we? I’m not even saying women should dress like soccer moms or professional. Underwear however, is ridiculous. And quite frankly I often have thought that most that wear that type of garb are men, because they fantasize about it.

      • Considering how many men are behind the hoe avatars in SL, it’s not really an adequate description of women’s lives in SL.

      • No! your wrong , Not Everyone wants to be a hoe, Alexander

        I can guarantee you I don’t like to look like a whore, not my style at all. I do think the clothes do create the idea that female avatars are solely here for the male gaze.

        Also when an event calls itself Whore Couture, it’s a sad indicator of how women are viewed in SL, and in case your wondering I do boycott this particular event it comes around, solely based on the name.

        Yes we all have fantasy bodies, but no need to show them off all the time, ever heard of leaving something to the imagination.

    • This is why I rarely shop for clothes at events, but instead go to a few select stores that I know will offer something in between soccer mom and lingerie for clothing. I was thrilled when mesh came in. I thought no more short short skirts, ripped jeans and skimpy tops and lingerie as clothing! Nope, now they just make them in mesh instead. How many pairs of jeans, short tight dresses, super skimpy tops can people make? And wtf is up with the 70s style that seems to be popular at a few events. Sorry but flared pants, pant suits and mullets needed to stay in the 70s. I see the same designers always getting in too, yet I know other designers who do good original mesh and don’t get into top events because they arent the right name or dont have the right “look” to their products.

      • The issue isn’t the 70s as much as the fact that even within the 70s there was more to fashion than bell bottoms. Look at that Wanda Vision show which mimicked the clothes quite well. There were dresses, there were button-down shorts that were pretty. Not everything was halters and bell bottoms.

        There is so much clothes. You can spend hours in fashion shows in youtube and come up with better attire. I miss brands that actually broke with the mold. Even those that did in the past are now doing the same type of clothes as the rest of them. In fact, I hate to admit it… I saw more imagination PRIOR to mesh. I used to wear nylon outfitters, tres blah, luster, SMS, paper couture, surfer store, some mudshake items. I liked bohemian style which mind you, is how I dress in rl. Now a days, it’s just underwear as clothes. With a few creators here and there creating some slightly different variations of that.

        And before some smart alec comes in, but looking at fashion shows is copying. I call bull. How do you think designers get inspirations for their actual collections hmm? You think their design team just thinks the same wrap dress over again from the top of their head? No, they actually are in pinterest, looking at past collections, vintage films, european films (foreign), and shows. Hence why when a huge movie comes out, say Fosse’s Chicago musical the fashion designers started to bring out 1920s style clothes.

        Be more original. I no longer shop at events through the gacha gimmicks, the over use of events, and quite frankly the lack of imagination. And to the consumer, realize that creators only sell based on what is bought. If you find that clothes is unimaginative, buy the fatpack if you can or the max that you can of the items that you do like. That way you send the clearest message there is. Money. If designers would see that their creative, more complex pieces sell more than their easy to make (and frankly overcharge) then they would shift their production to that. Just saying.

      • The best explanation for how RL fashion works was in The Devil Wears Prada. Meryl Streep’s character noticed Anne Hathaway’s sweater color after Anne dissed fashion as meaningless. She then broke down how that particular shade of cerulean blue started on the high-end runways two years prior to it trickling down to the bargain bins at Casual Corner. All of it true. Some ideas don’t flow down to the mainstream from the top-end shows but so many have. They get reduced from avant garde extremes or otherwise imitated on the cheap. SL designers imitating RL designs is 100% normal. It’s when they use trademarked images like the Chanel logo where they’re screwing up.

      • Oh I get that part. I accept the trademark logo because that’s downright copyright. However, some previous virtual secret complaints have stated that some items are copying rl ones. When clearly even in rl some stores are copying each other. Let’s say for context, they state oh SL so and so store is copying the Tulip dinner stable from Wayfair. Well, Wayfair isn’t the original, Lowe’s, Home Depot, Amazon, West Elm, Williams and Sonoma, and Potterybarn all had a version of it (i think it was actually Neiman Marcus or Nordstrom that did). But you get my point. To which I state, immitation is flattery as long as you don’t copy the exact LOGO itself. That is what is trademarked, copyrighted, and if it’s Disney (lawyered up).

  40. #32 I cringed at your complaint. I get the objects with sounds in clubs and the gestures. but really? complaining about the name texts? theres a way to turn off display names. feel free to so that and save yourself from looking like you need attention too.

  41. #28 how is she not letting her healing? The girl is full of people around her, post about having fun and has a lot of supporters. While I haven’t seen mira online much in months. Since she joined the snow family. Feels like she purposely got isolated? Some people are masterminds. Everything is calculated. Not everything that shines is gold.
    What she wrote in her profile seems pretty honest, far from toxic. We all say things we don’t mean from time to time, but not many admit it and say sorry.

  42. #13 Lol this was made by tiddleswiddles aka Zaque hexem.
    Why is it okay for tiddles to make an SL secret about his obsession (paradox) but it’s not okay to expose tiddles about his blatant racist conversation that I still have to this very day?

    Also blackface on SL? give me a fucking break, it’s SL, you can be anything you want to be.

    • Work with me on not using words that start with n. Feel free to ask me about it before or after upload and I will assist you in making a secret that I will post.

    • It’s funny how you submit a secret about Paradox and then blame it on someone else and tout the whole “you can be anything you want to be” line all meanwhile doing “blackface”… ooof

      • I didn’t submit anything today. Why would I submit a negative post about my own self? I don’t know who that person is who keeps talking about T-word, but that’s their issue. T-word is so far removed from my life that I would never bring up his name on purpose. Not even to expose him about anything. I’m so past that drama. I want nothing to do with it or him at all. And it’s not blackface if you are just doing a tribute to your favorite musicians that inspired you, which is what I was doing. I refuse to apologize for it, I did nothing wrong.

      • You didn’t do anything wrong and it’s not blackface. It’s actually offensive to assume a made-up character on a virtual platform has committed some grave social offense as blackface. Don’t apologize ever.

    • I wrote this secret lmao, and I’m not tiddles you can ask him about his weird conversation

    • Yeah, let’s stop with the overly sensitive woke nonsense. It’s not like a black skin was worn in a way to mock black people, or deprive them of work in the entertainment field so white people can specifically earn income as in an actual minstrel show. It’s SL, it’s an avi – chill out. Some people make big, fat avis – is it “fat shaming,” or something else? What about super skinny avis, is it making fun of people with anorexia/eating disorders/some other disease that prevents people from eating, or something else? What about avis that appear to be Asian and hang out on anime sims, but one might have personal knowledge that a white person is operating the avi in RL? Chill the hell out.

  43. #28 are you doing it again grace? Everyone who ever was in your life know how manipulative, deceptive, narcissist, greedy and social climber you are. You use your popularity and your victim play. How can you always be the poor abused little girl?
    I’m sorry for her living this guilt trip while you have no remorse for everything you have done to any of your friends and family members.
    She should just trash you and never look back like you did.
    This secret is your responsability eitheir if you posted it or not. It’s your victim play.
    You were drama and toxic for years on SL and this is why you now wear a mask. But you still are.
    Your nice, happy and popular facade will not save you forever.
    Your new friends may think they are important now, but they will just end up the same way.

  44. the site has been giving me trouble. Lucky I got on today. I kept getting server side message. Must be why there’s only 1 post at the time of reading this.

  45. #12: Collars not solely the property of the BDSM crowd, y’know? Sometimes they’re just a fashion statement. They also come in handy when folks can’t get rid of an obvious neck seam.

    Do I get tired of collars as gifts? Yeah, they can be extremely low effort. But it’s pure snobbery to say that it’s taking something away from D/s couples for non-subbies to wear them. Get over yourself.

    • The BDSM crowd tend to be snubs to be frank. So not surprising that comment came from one of them.

      • And too many of my fellow kinksters think collars are wedding rings. If I sit through another goddamn Christian-style wedding draped in leather and chains I may barf. (Yes, I just skip them unless I really care about who’s in the ceremony.)

    • I feel the same way about stores that sell nothing but rigged mesh offering unrigged things like earrings and bracelets as gifts; not only are they probably ugly crap I’ll delete, but they’re basically useless as self-promotion for them. If they as a creator don’t want to give a gift that will actually show people what they make, just don’t offer any gifts at all. That would be better than the obvious “throwaway just to fit the requirements of the event” gifts.

      • I agree. As a designer wouldn’t you want your gift to represent your craft and creativity to entice the consumer to actually BUY something from your store? It’s called advertising and taking pride in your work.

    • I’m not into BDSM at all and I strongly dislike most accessory style gifts – earrings, collars, bracelets, etc. It’s just so low effort. I trash most of them.

  46. #17 You came for pussy but got a bunch of dirty laundry LOL
    Honestly, I thought FMD is dead, but hey. It’s not dead, it’s a trainwreck on some hot wheels. I wonder who’s gonna sponsor Bella after she was throwing fits like a child.

    • just not Bella .. the twits that are under her whos going to help her run the place. smh, it’s a joke. the rules and music they want .going to have everyone going to in their pj’s ready for bed . just change the name Bella to bedtime with Bella .. and your place might make it oh and get sponsors

      • This group chat was fire though. The “OMG guys! I’m going to make it great” turned so fast into “IDK what’s the hell I’m doing, I regret my decision but I will blame the pervious owner for my own incompetence”. Not everyone wants to live her stupid fantasy. Who in their right mind will call themselves an empress.

      • I’m gonna be super disappointed if no one makes a Bella/Trump mashup meme out of this for next week. I suppose I could do it, but I’ve never even seen this silly bitch inworld, and we already know what’ll happen if we use her first life pic even though she put it out there.

    • Pfft, FMD isn’t dead at all, they have a brand new logo. Speaking of the new logo, lets give the 8 year old who designed it a pat on the back and a participation award for his fine work.

  47. 1. Is that a see through dress for child avatars? The child avatar crowd is so creepy. It’s even creepier that they go to family roleplay sims and live out their sick fantasies without questions. I’m suspicious of anyone who spends a lot of their time with people playing as children on SL

    • I’m an SL mom, I lost my one of my sl kids last year when she died and for us it was never a sexual thing. This is a common myth and why the family community gets such bad rep that people think we’re all pedophiles and we’re not. Some adults choose to be kids because they want to relive what it was like when someone was there for them and took care of them and comforted them when they got hurt or someone was being mean to them. For others in the community they were ripped of their childhood from abuse, neglect, whatever the case may be so they choose to be a child to relive those moments. I am getting so tired of this myth.

      • people need to have a look at themselves accusing people of being pedos for playing in a child avatar. It’s a fucking gaaaame, a RP game where you can be what you want.

      • Aw the whining little school girl it simple stop hanging out with pedophiles when 37% of older people who kids avatars are mental challenge and unstable to cope with their own personal issues because there predators.

      • No Linden 8 you have it all wrong, none of us are pedophiles, this is what the family community has come to. Look I sometimes age down to a teenager, why because I was heavily bullied as a teenager to the point that I tried to kill myself because I was sick of it, so being in SL I get to relive my teenage years. I’m not a pedophile, it’s nothing sexual for me I just like being a teenager and causing my sl mom pain (haha) like some teenagers do. I also rp at a Harry Potter sim (we all know which one they’ve been in secrets multiple times) that’s nothing sexual for me that’s fun. I’m so gosh darn tired of people assuming this of the family community.

        You’re wrong about older people being predators they’re not, like I said some people do it because they were ripped of their childhood or they want to relive those moments.

        Also my sl daughter didn’t die of COVID and the person that mention that should be ashamed of themselves. It was devastating for me because she was a big part of my life and I have felt like I literally lost my actual daughter. I do have another sl daughter (her twin) and I will love her just as much and would be heartbroken loosing her.

        We just need to stop ASSUMING things on the family community.

      • I have three friends who choose to be kid avatars because of bad childhoods and abusive family members growing up and they want to have the experience in Secondlife of just normal childhoods. Nothing wrong with that. What is sad is that there are people that prey on others like Krash Nova from last week’s secrets who went from DJing at clubs to preying on little kid avatars before becoming one himself. A shame all kid avatars gets categorized into the same group of perverts with him.

      • People are still thinking Child avi’s are pedos still? Holy Fuck, I remember shit like this being said prior to myself joining the kid community. It’s 2021, why must people be so thick-headed and assume other’s motives or intentions regarding how they live their own life, or play a game. Yeah there are those in every population that give the rest a “bad name,” but it’s up to everyone else to have some common sense. To whom made the secret – Fuck Off 🙂

      • Sorry to hear that. My SL family recently parted ways on a peaceful note but if one of them would have passed away – I’d have been devastated.
        There are a lot of reasons people choose to be kids on SL. For me, one of them is an escape from sexuality. I’m asexual in real life, I don’t want my avatars to be thought of as sexual or as “fuckable”. Being a kid means I’m free from all of that and can relive a time where none of it existed. Little tired of the “all child avatars are be pedos” when there are things like sexual sims for My Little Pony and no one bats an eye.

    • I play a child avatar because I never got one in rl and because I don’t want to deal with the sex side of SL. Just because you view SL as a place to have sex and dress like a hussy,doesn’t mean the rest of us do as well. This dress is disgusting and a black mark on our commuinty and does NOT reflect us,we don’t claim this dress. Prehaps you should spend some time as a child avatar and actually learn what it’s about before you start judging all of us.

  48. 5. It’s pretty common to have Lovense tip jars in the main area of most strip clubs, where yes *GASP* the escorts are moaning over voice while having their toy set off by the jar being tipped. Are you new dear?

    • That’s ridiculous. Honestly get girlfriends in rl if you need this much stimulation in SL. There’s such a thing as real life call girls. And a club has to state a striper up front what is expected of them. If they claimed that she didn’t need to that when she was first hired, and then they change the rules. She has the right to quit. This isn’t real life people, get over yourselves. I guess you must be the club owner or one of those males that just loves that nonsense.

      • Sure she has the right to quit, but why is she crying about it on here? Who cares how consenting adults get their kicks in a virtual world? If people want to pay someone to hear them get off so they can too, what’s it to you?

        You’re also guessing wrong, but you can try again honey.

      • lmao I think your missing the point of the post. lovense is a new thing id be fucking cringed out too hearing that over mic wtf??

      • Lovense isn’t that new. It’s been in the clubs for nearly a year. If that makes you cringe, then don’t go?

      • Well I’d never heard of it before now lmao, sounds fucking pathetic. fuck off to onlyfans stop making SL degenerate. Huh huh when tf did I say I go? Reaching dumbass.

      • ffs its no wonder you have to be doing this shit online you cant get a real job. Where did i say I am so concerned? I’m not you dumbass lmao

      • Oh yeah definitely don’t have a full-time job. That’s inconceivable. I mean how could I with such minimal intelligence? Duh. All I’m good for is moaning on mic for a few measly lindens. How could I ever build my self-worth, skills, and work history in order to become fully employed like you? Please do share oh wise one ❤️

      • Furthermore, as a text girl, she didn’t have to moan on voice. She just had to listen to it if she was going to work alongside voice and cam girls. Maybe she should’ve done her research before becoming an escort.

      • This guy forgot that porn exists. Boy, let me tell you about this one site called PornHub…..

        At least with SL, you don’t run the risk of a condom breaking or just going raw and getting the Herp.

    • Lovense is literally commonplace in 99% of escort clubs now. If people don’t like it no one is forcing them to go or work there.

  49. #5
    Hey Crystal! Glad to see you’re doing well!
    After you disappeared for a week we were worried! However, after checking all the groups we did see that you left them without letting us know why. We were very sad to see you go!

    Just to clear up some confusion it seems you have…

    1. Lovense is for voice girls. You make your money being on voice while using it! Typically that is how its enjoyed.
    2. We happily welcome dancers, text and voice plus cam employees! We have benefits that fit our text girls to make up for lack of voicing perks.
    3. We do offer a private area too for anyone that wants to have a more secluded, private vibe.

    As for stalking you, I appreciate the thought but I can assure you none of us have the time nor the energy to go to such lengths!

    We appreciated your time with us, despite how brief it was. I hope you find a place that fits what you’re looking for!

    Best wishes L69 Management ♥

    • Lmao did you not read your own message? You literally said you would tell other club owners. Least your less of a cunt in your reply this time.

    • I do not see how the owner’s response insinuated stalking, or was disrespectful in any way. Escort clubs rake up alot of money, girls cash out, it’s a business. That being said, business OWNERS are always going to be connected. An employee quitting like that is disrespectful, plain and simple and I don’t blame this owner for warning others. Doesn’t matter if it’s “Just SL”

    • This is written like a 13 year old trying to apologize to a Principal.

    • Sex lounges in SL = Desperate, overweight, ugly people seeking desperate, overweight and ugly people with money.

      GAG!!!

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