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Virtual-Secrets, Week 638

11/15/2020 · kesseret ·

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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.


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  1. RIPCastorTroy says

    11/18/2020 at 11:14 pm

    #24

    I have known DATRIP for years and can honestly say he is an asshole on a personal level and even he will even admit that. I am not his friend and have nothing to do with him or his brand and am not here to defend him as a person but I am here to defend him for what he has created for many in this game over the years because I personally know how hard he has worked.

    • Datrip is one of the very first designers in SL to design great men’s clothing.
    • Men did not even have cool pants in SL until Datrip made them in 2009.
    • He is extraordinarily talented – everyone knows this.
    • He creates all his own mesh,textures and designs.
    • He is the BEST and I believe the only successful UNISEX designer in SL.
    • He has one of the biggest stores in SL and is continuously bombarded with requests.
    • When he has time and available he ALWAYS goes out of his way to help customers.
    • He has created thousands of items – almost 3000 actively listed on marketplace alone.
    • He has worked harder than any designer I know in this game ALONE to achieve what he has.
    • He is so focused when he works that he most likely did not notice your message.
    • He supports new fairs, businesses, clubs and charities and people.
    • The amount of clothing he has given away to people is probably as much as he has sold.
    • His brand and designs and quality have been nothing but consistent in style.
    • The amount of overall releases that he has done is probably more than most designers.
    • He has been one of the most fashion forward designers out there.
    • He is one of the most generous people I have met.
    • He has always supported both the black and gay community in SL since he started..
    • He has spent HOURS upon HOURS for years to create LEGAL INSANITY.
    • He is a 100% self-taught creator who had NO HELP.
    • He has helped so many other creators in game get started.
    • He has stood the test of time as a creator.
    • He has been a tireless supporter of the creative music community in SL.
    • He is a massive sponsor and always has been to other businesses.
    • He is truly one of the best designers and legendary in SL.
    • Whatever you think of him everyone agrees he has earned his success.
    • He has a CSR that can assist you.
    • If you have such issues why not message the group? Someone would respond.

    Imagine being busy at work and someone just walks up to your desk and EXPECTS you to stop everything you are doing to respond to them instantaneously? In a virtual world where there is so much PURE GARBAGE created in fashion why would you attack one of the best, consistent and truly hardest working designers in here? Maybe he has a life? Maybe his world does not revolve around you? When I buy something in RL and I do not like it do I call up the designer personally and am mad they do not answer me? Do I say “Get me Armani on the phone right now!!!” No…I call their reps and complain and then I AM ASSISTED. I am really tired of seeing people on here attack designers.

     ? If you don’t like the item..don’t buy it.
     ? If you don’t like the fair…don’t go man.
     ? Don’t like the ad? Look away.

    People need to STOP harassing designers that are here TO SERVE YOU THAT ARE TAKING THE TIME, DEDICATION AND HOURS TO CREATE FOR YOU. Do you know how much time it takes to design, create and market an item in this game and be successful at it? Do you think they just fart these out for you? They spend days on one item for your 400L.

    If that is too much L for you…guess what? DON’T BUY IT. WEAR FREEBIES.

    Let’s start giving credit where credit is due people and not just go and trash creators in world because we just did not “like” that item or the service or even them as a person. Let’s stop being so entitled and discouraging talented creators that have been here a LONG time working hard to give you a product to make your SL better with your negativity.

    Yes…many of them make a ton of money. AS THEY SHOULD for how hard they work.

    Moral of the story: If you don’t like any of it – F*ck off and go make your own clothes ? 

  2. Truth Hurts says

    11/18/2020 at 9:30 pm

    Boyberry has always sucked. Not only the quality of their clothing, but the way they also use trademark symbols (see their Halloween costumes) and somehow get into events.. Dead ones of course, but still.

    Also the owner is an outrageous prick that’s an admin at the popular London sim. If you’re trying to have a civil conversation about a topic in group chat, instead of just dropping it or changing subject if it offends him, he will just straight eject and ban. “I don’t take kindly to those kinds of things.” When everyone around him was open minded and having a healthy conversation he came in with the ban hammer like some sort of god complex.

    He’s truly one of the creators I wish he’d stop making stuff. Or cutting corners.

  3. Kitana says

    11/18/2020 at 6:06 am

    #23
    Men LOVE to tell women what to look like in SL while wearing the cheapest head shape and skin they can find. It’s laughable.

  4. Leo says

    11/18/2020 at 1:33 am

    #35 Interesting way in talking to your customers. I surely will never buy from you.

    • Fam Please... says

      11/19/2020 at 1:34 am

      I hope you don’t mean the creator kindly giving advice about how to more easily contact for support. Then again, some people really don’t understand the concept of messages being capped and lost.

  5. suffering a separated scroat says

    11/17/2020 at 7:54 pm

    #16 who the F*CK wants to look 12 anyways? stop buying those pedo skins for one thing

  6. suffering a separated scroat says

    11/17/2020 at 7:50 pm

    #3 so stop using appliers on something that is meant for bom, better yet stop using appliers all together you fucking retard noob

  7. Bob, just Bob says

    11/17/2020 at 12:50 pm

    1.) I think I know who this is about. Name starts with a G perhaps? I wouldn’t be surprised. It’s a little suspicious when someone continues to return to a sim that they claim to dislike.

    9.) Personally I love CC regardless. Every sim has ups and downs. I think a lot of us were baffled at the most recent mod choices but as long as they stay out of my way, I don’t put much thought into it. No problems with anyone with the last name Knight though. I’m confused by that part of your post.

    31.) Someone’s age is showing.

  8. pdopolice says

    11/17/2020 at 10:36 am

    #28 you forget to mention Golden Sun (pedo beach) + LOLLAND (pedo beach) + Family Safe Nude Beach (super pedo beach).
    it’s impossible to want to roleplay child in SL without having to deal with this crap

  9. What a meme says

    11/16/2020 at 7:59 pm

    4- lmfao cancel? It’s a deleted message lmfao also… HAVE YOU SEEN HER PHOTOS ain’t not canceling her gorgeous ass!

  10. Lurky McLurkington says

    11/16/2020 at 7:32 pm

    #8 – Not sure why you think it’s your business how we choose to spend our money in SL? Personally my entertainment budget has always been allocated just for SL and I look forward to and appreciate the Black Friday sales every year. Mind your own business FFS.

  11. Bob, just Bob says

    11/16/2020 at 2:45 pm

    2.) It’s not bad. Not my style but I’m sure someone likes it

  12. TeaSipperPopCornEater says

    11/16/2020 at 12:59 pm

    #28 – I was a designer in some events that Bella/Jerrica was in and you came to me to help you get her kicked out! You came to me and so many others to contact these event owners to get her kicked out and banned, now you are caught doing the same thing! What the fuck is this shit? I hope that Salon52, Flourish, WIP, and 2MUCH sees this crap and gives her the boot as well! ◘

  13. Idek says

    11/16/2020 at 12:49 pm

    #29

    FUUUCCCK YOU PUT YOURSELF ON THE MORAL HIGH GROUND, AND NOW YOURE CAUGHT DOING WHAT BELLA DID. LOOKS LIKE THE PUPPET MASTER FINALLY HAD HER STRINGS FUCKIN SHONE IN THE LIGHT. GIRL. WHAT A FUCKIN HYPOCRITE YOU ARE, LOL. I AM IN YOUR SO CALLED GROUP OF MARAUDERS THAT HAS BEEN DOING NOTHING BUT AIMING TO TAKE BELLA DOWN, AND NOW IM STARTING TO THIBK ITS YOU THAT TAUGHT HER ALL THIS. OFF MY FRIENDSLIST YOU GO HOE.

  14. BeenThereDoneThat says

    11/16/2020 at 12:27 pm

    1. So what if she is? Lower prices are always better lol. I hear Cedar has little IN-WORLD roleplay and force people to join the discord server for consistency in roleplay….. which is dumb and defeats the purpose of being in-world for rp. Makes no sense to pay that much linden to be in a rp sim that doesn’t rp in-world.

    • Bob, just Bob says

      11/17/2020 at 12:54 pm

      They do RP in world and in the Township group.

    • Fam Please... says

      11/19/2020 at 1:38 am

      I don’t know shit about this sim but asking people to join a rp discord for easy contact and info is pretty standard fair these days. But oh no let’s scream about the same two/three rp sims every single week.

  15. Why do you care? says

    11/16/2020 at 11:40 am

    18# why are you fucking surprised? That’s what happens when Asians ” White worship”. You get bigots who like to appropriate your culture but don’t like you. Even some anime creators create these white characters with Asian names. What fucking “Pure blood” Japanese person do you know has blond hair and blue eyes unless they are Eurasian? Yall ” white washed” the shit out your culture and now you cry about white people appropriating it and being bigots towards you? That’s because yall let trash bigot white boys like Hitoiro Grey appropriate it. That’s what yall get for Bussy popp’in for the white man.

    • WhatIsYourDamageHeather says

      11/16/2020 at 6:39 pm

      Y’all need to go study the history of anime character design before you try claiming “Asians” whitewashed their culture. It’s made obvious when a character is European instead of Japanese. Hell, they use tells in dialogue and appearance to indicate who’s from Edo and who’s from Hokkaido.

      Two more things. First, saying Asian when you mean Japanese is racist AF. Second, telling Japanese people how to care about their cultural presentation is also racist AF. Sit your gaijin ass DOWN.

      • Tired RPer says

        11/17/2020 at 4:09 am

        backing you up here, and add, the dude in the pic is a Piece of shit anyways. I met him when he trolled around a university RP sim, dude was bipolar as fuck and when called out acted like that. dude is just a shitty persona all around because he swore up and down he was RL japanese.

      • TheDevil says

        11/18/2020 at 6:34 am

        being a complete weeb is also racist af

    • Abfab Hax says

      11/21/2020 at 8:17 am

      One day a therapist is going to make alot of money off of you.

  16. Well, actually says

    11/16/2020 at 11:04 am

    #7 “Know one” hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
    #8 Do you need a hug? lol
    #10 Especially if it’s rezzing only FFS
    #11 You sound jealous AF lol. Go get them Dee, enjoy!
    #13 It’s a virtual world and I can have my Winter Wonderland the whole year round if I want, or my creepy Halloween haunted castle the whole year round if I want. If you don’t like it, don’t look at it?
    #15 Some store owners must be having pixel sex with the right people to get in events while they don’t give a flying f*** about theme or quality smh
    #22 Not even sure wtf this is about
    #35 How can there be “no consent” in SL, pray tell?
    #36 Wait, ur expecting common sense from Karens? Welcome to being a designer lol
    #37 Dafuq are u smoking?

    • egg splain says

      11/16/2020 at 12:12 pm

      22 – Essentially, it’s excerpts from that guys profile. [avatar on the right]
      He’s a boomer that cries over people not wanting to show real life photos, voice, cam, etc.
      Doesn’t want to talk to or date anyone with a ‘mental illness’ – which, apparently not providing any of the aforementioned, is also ‘psychosis’

      I didn’t post this btw

  17. Lord Mew says

    11/16/2020 at 8:05 am

    “Enter Text Here”

  18. Marco says

    11/16/2020 at 7:38 am

    13- You know it doesn’t just snow in winter, right? Real seasons don’t perfectly align with your ~autumn aesthetic~ all the time, it started snowing here last month and will continue on and off into spring.
    28- I went there exactly one time like, 2 years ago, and it was literally all pedophiles, half-dressed kids, and DDLG littles standing around. Reported a bunch of people then left. The fact that it’s still up is a testament to how little anyone in power cares.
    31- Are y’all really trying to make those stupid meme ecards a thing again? That shit is well over a decade old.

  19. U wrong says

    11/16/2020 at 5:47 am

    #6 Another awfully wrong and useless bashing of one of the best creators. As seen before against Maitraya and others. WFT?

  20. Bullshittery says

    11/16/2020 at 1:04 am

    #13 yeah… let me just use the hairdryer and melt all the snow that has been in my backyard since before Halloween as this post pretty much says snow shouldn’t show up till December. Clearly mother nature hasn’t gotten the hint.  ?  I decorate my SL home to my RL weather. People literally decorated their yards with SNOWMEN for Halloween in my city this year. It has also snowed in the middle of May before. Are you really that butthurt over someone taking pictures in the snow right now? Do you just not like winter? *gasp* are you that nut on Facebook who posted about how non-religious people should NOT be celebrating Christmas and pretty much saying its ok you said that because you are Jewish? Whoever you are, go back in your burrow little groundhog.

    • Well, actually says

      11/16/2020 at 11:07 am

      Also this is SL and that’s the point, we can make it winter if we want to whenever we want to ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • Fam Please says

      11/16/2020 at 6:58 pm

      Because the calendar says it’s not ‘winter’ yet I can only put decorations up 4 days before Christmas that I then have to keep up until March? Sure sure sure….

  21. Sophia Graves says

    11/16/2020 at 12:51 am

    #8 I applaud you. I only put L into SL to pay for rent (which is dirt cheap. $5USD for a month)so I have a spot to go through all of the thousands of pieces of clothing I already own. Mixing and matching shit is the way to go during this pandemic because funds just aren’t as plentiful as they used to be. Sure, having the newest stuff would be nice but I like having what I need in RL versus what I don’t need in SL.  ? 

    • Lurky McLurkington says

      11/16/2020 at 7:43 pm

      Black Friday is SALES. You’re not paying full price and a lot of things are really deeply discounted. Good on you if you don’t want to take advantage of that but some of us like and appreciate it.

    • Well, actually says

      11/18/2020 at 8:21 am

      Are you aware that just because a bunch of stores are putting stuff reduced doesn’t mean you are totally obligated to go buy it? Don’t shop those days, let the rest of us enjoy the sales FFS

  22. viking says

    11/15/2020 at 10:36 pm

    #13 Look, I can’t speak for any other country, but in the U.S., we’ve had to deal with Donald Trump for 4 very very long years, and the last year of this election was pure hell. We need some Christmas early this year. Just let us have it. We’ll sort our shit out after January 20, 2021.

    • GTFO! says

      11/16/2020 at 12:35 am

       ?  ? 

    • DumbAssesOnSLSecrets says

      11/17/2020 at 12:37 pm

      What are you talking about? What exactly did you have to ‘deal’ with? The HOAX Russian collusion stuff? Drummed up impeachment by lunatics like Pelosi and Schiff? The COVID shite sent over from China?

      It appears you will REALLY have to DEAL with some shite hitting the fan with Biden/Kamala, et al (Sanders, AOC, Beto) if they wind up actually stealing the election with the whole mail-in balloting fraud scheme and the Hugo Chavez engineered Dominion software vote thievery.

      As is so often said, “You ain’t seen nuttin’ yet.”

      • Lurky McLurkington says

        11/17/2020 at 1:57 pm

        So…”Shite”. Do you even live in the US? If you don’t it’s none of your business. If you DO well…I dunno, cry harder about it. *shrug

      • GFTO says

        11/17/2020 at 3:59 pm

        LOL. So typical! You broadcast your political bullshit all over the World through every social media possible like YOUR Country is the only one that matters and the rest of us should give a shit and then when we have an opinion we’re told to shut the fuck up??? Priceless.

      • Fam Please... says

        11/19/2020 at 1:43 am

        You read the news so now you know everything about a country you aren’t from. But I’m sure those Facebook echo chambers have let you know exactly what’s going on everywhere better than people from there. Ironic, eh?

      • Lurky McLurkington says

        11/19/2020 at 11:51 am

        Believe me when I tell you, we really, truly Do. Not. Give. One. Fuck. what anyone who doesn’t live here thinks. Worry about your own F’ed up country Bruv. CRY HARDER.

      • Blaise Glendevon says

        11/17/2020 at 5:23 pm

        Back to whatever ‘chan spawned your particular Trump Humping Q froot-loopery. Shoo.

      • TheDevil says

        11/18/2020 at 6:42 am

        Trump is like a huge, orange, stupid, cancerous boil with tiny hands…Annoying, painful, and ugly, and full of infection….he is leading people into his spiral of lunacy, even his own attorney is telling him to stop. The man is a spoiled toddler throwing a tissyfit, and has turned the united states into chaos, it is time for him to take his ass home, and concede already. Go ahead and follow him into the abyss, just like all these other sheep that follow him blindly. SAD!

      • Well, actually says

        11/18/2020 at 8:22 am

        HAhahahaha found the troll throwing a trumptrum

      • Biden won get over it Simps says

        11/18/2020 at 4:51 pm

        1. you can’t steal a election that was won by Biden I’m sorry but the Orange asshole and his cronies have lost and have been filing bogus lawsuits in court that have been thrown out.
        2. Orange boi is the only fucker trying to steal a election. He is a facist you are too congrats for outing yourself
        3. Biden/Harris and AOC are the people that are trying to fix what Orange man did.
        4. Your Fascism is showing
        5. Mail in voting is a legit way to vote many states do this already there are no polling stations in the places that do it. so No Mail in Voting is not fraud
        6. again your facism is showing
        7. if some of us want a distraction from the fact we had a POTUS that was trying to kill us with 1/3 of the country because none of you simps want to wear a fucking mask then I say bring on the lights, the santa clauses and the snow.
        8. Fuck you
        9. Fuck you again
        10. Eat my ass
      • DumbAssesOnSLSecrets says

        11/19/2020 at 9:13 am

        Spoken like true BLM/Antifa…

        And you invoke AOC  ?  ?  ?  – does her ‘fix’ involve driving vanloads of ballots with out-ot-state plates up to Philly poll counters at 3:30AM after voting was halted at midnight with a 600-800K Trump lead, so they can catch up?

      • TheDevil says

        11/19/2020 at 9:37 am

        i wish i could like this a million times

      • DumbAssesOnSLSecrets says

        11/19/2020 at 3:40 pm

        You invoke AOC  ?  ?  ?  – does her ‘fix’ involve driving vanloads of ballots with out-ot-state plates up to Philly poll counters at 3:30AM after voting was halted at midnight with a 600-800K Trump lead, so they can catch up?

      • DumbAssesOnSLSecrets says

        11/19/2020 at 4:50 pm

        Whats going on here?. I made a simple reponse without vulgarity to this person’s vulgar post regarding the election and it is awaiting moderation or approval while this “Fuck you” and “Eat My Ass” post is let through. Whats up Kess?

        This is what my response was to @Bidenwongetoveritsimps, “Eat My Ass” post:
        “You invoke AOC  ?  ?  ?  – does her ‘fix’ involve driving vanloads of ballots with out-ot-state plates up to Philly poll counters at 3:30AM after voting was halted at midnight with a 600-800K Trump lead, so they can catch up?”

      • YabbaDabbaDo says

        11/19/2020 at 5:00 pm

        You invoke AOC  ?  ?  ?  – does her ‘fix’ involve driving vanloads of ballots with out-ot-state plates up to Philly poll counters at 3:30AM after voting was halted at midnight with a 600-800K Trump lead, so they can catch up?

      • YabbaDabbaDo says

        11/19/2020 at 5:04 pm

        You invoke AOC  ?  ?  ?  – does her ‘fix’ involve driving vanloads of ballots up to Philly poll counters at 4AM after voting halted at midnight with a 800K Trump lead, so they can catch up?

      • viking says

        11/19/2020 at 5:01 pm

        https://cult-escape.com/help/
        https://www.daretodoubt.org/cults
        http://www.encourage-cult-survivors.org/

      • Wolf Thierhaus says

        11/20/2020 at 3:04 pm

        Special counsel Robert Mueller’s team indicted or got guilty pleas from 34 people and three companies during their lengthy investigation.
        That group is composed of six former Trump advisers, 26 Russian nationals, three Russian companies, one California man, and one London-based lawyer. Seven of these people (including five of the six former Trump advisers) have pleaded guilty.
        Mail in balloting has been a part of our democratic process since the civil war.
        When your beacon of hope is a corrupt, pathological liar with no moral code who has weakened our nations’ most important offices by installing inept lobbyists and has eroded our world standing, its time for some serious self examination.

  23. FartSparkles says

    11/15/2020 at 8:04 pm

    #37 lmao dont lie OP you drew those on

  24. FartSparkles says

    11/15/2020 at 8:00 pm

    #20 LMFAO what fucking boomer did this one

  25. FartSparkles says

    11/15/2020 at 7:58 pm

    well holy shit some people dont like Cedar Crack do they damn lmao

  26. FartSparkles says

    11/15/2020 at 7:57 pm

    #6 if they’re royality free it means there is no copyright you dumbass

    • Sophia Graves says

      11/16/2020 at 1:01 am

      I think the OP means the eyes aren’t original. They’ll have to point fingers are a lot of other creators because it’s rare to find a creator that makes everything they sell 100% original work.

  27. FartSparkles says

    11/15/2020 at 7:54 pm

    #4 no one cares you psychotic dick head lmao

  28. FartSparkles says

    11/15/2020 at 7:53 pm

    #3 I literally have a BOM hair base on my head all the time with no problems. Fuck off back to Genus or Catwat. You only came to Lelutka because of the issue with Genus being falsely reported. Dont come on here crying about it they have customer service for a reason, you big fucking baby.

  29. Model Material says

    11/15/2020 at 7:27 pm

    #2 If you had a better computer and graphics perhaps you can see the boots by Boyberry are pretty nice and have great textures instead of being a douche and tearing down someone’s creations and business.

    • Fam Please says

      11/16/2020 at 8:13 pm

      Yeah I don’t even normally like their stuff and went to demo these shoes. They were legitimately really nice so I’m kinda baffled at someone trying to drag them over this item of all things??? Go learn to make your own shit if you are going to try and drag people over something because it simply isn’t your style. You really just look dumb.

  30. Buttholio says

    11/15/2020 at 7:13 pm

    #13. STFU. 80% of SLers live in the northern hemisphere. Get over it, dumbass.

    • Well, actually says

      11/18/2020 at 8:23 am

      And your point is?

  31. Sickandtiredofit says

    11/15/2020 at 6:47 pm

    #7. Please stop abusing the apostrophe and it’s No one not Know one. #10. Thank you! #12. Agree 100%. #24. He was nothing but nice when I had an issue.

  32. LEGAL INSANITY says

    11/15/2020 at 6:16 pm

    24) DATRIP aka Legal Insanity has amazing customer service. If anything he goes out of his way to provide support if someone needs anything. He probably had real life to deal with and you’re just a whiney cunt who didn’t get your way and acted out. Just like half the customers in SL. You guys are so entitled. DATRIP is one of the few creators that consistently puts out AMAZING products so that our MEN in sl to have nice asses. Please don’t bite the hand that feeds you crybaby. We need more MEN in SL cause half of you cry. – Sincerely a customer that wants more MIU haha <3

    • Sickandtiredofit says

      11/15/2020 at 6:49 pm

      I have to agree. I had an issue and he took quite a bit of time helping to straighten it out and thanked ME for supporting brand.

      • Ian says

        11/17/2020 at 3:26 pm

        Not in my case. He never answered a NC or an IM from me.

      • Leo says

        11/17/2020 at 6:56 pm

        LOL. “he took quite a bit of time helping to straighten it out” <=== bad service !

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        11/20/2020 at 11:56 am

        No, dipshit. That means the issue was time consuming, and he still took all that was needed to resolve it, despite being busy.

        I have never seen someone in these comments that was more like a Karen than you, whether you’re male, female, or something else. Every single thing you’ve said screams “I want to speak to your manager!”. Pull your shorts out of your crack and stop acting like such a little bitch. Your fractions of dollars you spend on virtual goods don’t entitle you to shit- if you get any support after they have your money, you’re lucky. You don’t have any other recourse, yet you still choose to spend money in SL, so that’s entirely on you.

        You still need to read a creator’s profile and contact them per the methods they request like you whined about. You still need to be polite when you report an issue with something you’ve purchased instead of being rude, like you took personally when no one was talking to you. Your pixel purchase problems are never going to make anyone drop everything to help your dumb ass, and guess what; you’ll totally live!

        All you retards throwing “Karen” around to mean literally anything you don’t like should review Leo’s comments. That’s the real deal.

    • TheDevil says

      11/16/2020 at 10:24 am

      fact is, men are seriously lucky anyone creates for them, I have personally spoken to quite a few creators, and…..they say men are the biggest complainers, and huge assholes to work with as a customer base… I’m sure not all, but the loud ones ruin it for everyone…that’s why some creators stopped. or slowed waay down on mens items.

      • Seth says

        11/17/2020 at 3:25 pm

        Maybe the creators who take money off their customers should improve their customer service.

      • Leo says

        11/17/2020 at 3:34 pm

        So, just because I am a dude and complain – this means I am the biggest complainer. Can be only a loser posting this sh*t and its really insulting.

      • TheDevil says

        11/19/2020 at 9:41 am

        idk, I’m not a creator, just relaying what i have been told by several creators that have tried creating for men….it is likely not the complaint itsself, but the tone, or the way the complaint is presented….since men seem to be a bit more rough and not as patient

      • 2005 says

        11/18/2020 at 1:58 pm

        I make for men, and it’s not that they’re complainers, which, sadly, they can be. It’s that most men are cheap as fuck. Buy one item, or two, and that’s all they wear! Not that there’s too much diversity in men’s clothing, even in RL.

        So I get it, one tux, one suit, one pair of jeans. Unlike women’s clothing which have so many variations on a skirt or dress. It’s not fun creating for men, it’s not very profitable (maybe I just don’t make enough normie male clothing – jeans with skulls, shirts with skulls and/or wolves, pants with flames).  ? 

      • Chaos says

        11/19/2020 at 5:03 pm

        Aren’t all the girls in SL really men…?

    • Leo says

      11/17/2020 at 6:55 pm

      He f*cked up with a customer and too badass to say sorry. Perhaps this was to be expected.

  33. Mariselaa says

    11/15/2020 at 5:20 pm

    29.- People say that DJ Lichi Moonwall taught her to “design” in exchange for nudes and phone sex, apparently she didn’t learn well, she needs to repeat the class !!

    Lol Lou Santini, thinking your designs are greatness and you should be more humble!

    • #stopsupportingidiots says

      11/15/2020 at 6:14 pm

      SMH is all I’m doing…….

    • TheDevil says

      11/16/2020 at 10:27 am

      her “designed” makeup was/is a joke…..taking pics off google and cutting out parts of peoples faces and stretching it on a sluv, until its a blurry, pixel mess is not “original art” she needs to sit tf down.

  34. BeenThereDoneThat says

    11/15/2020 at 4:56 pm

    6. Any proof of this? Avi Glam has the best eyes. I can’t even think of a creator on the same level

    27. That’s sick

    31. This. And don’t get me started on creators who don’t have a demo at all

    • TA says

      11/16/2020 at 6:26 am

      Demos at an event with a time limit! A first day Crowded event. Why? #didntbuyit No it wasn’t Avi Glam!

  35. EducatePls says

    11/15/2020 at 4:55 pm

    #36 Manji has no nazi meaning in Japan and is back in pop culture as a sort of ending to a sentance thats popular. If you told the average young Japanese person why theyre constantly texting and hand gesturing a symbol of genocide, they’d be equal parts horrified and confused.
    Not everything is through a western lense.

    https://www.tofugu.com/japan/japanese-swastika/

    • Justanothersheep says

      11/15/2020 at 8:11 pm

      Exactly, I was going to say the same thing, Nicked from wiki – in Hindu and Buddhist cultures, the swastika is a holy symbol. On the holiday of Divali, Hindu households commonly use the swastika in decorations. Many Indian auto-rickshaws feature the swastika to ward off ill-fortune. Reverence for the swastika symbol in Asian cultures, in contrast to the West’s stigmatization of the symbol, has led to misinterpretations and misunderstandings and of course the assumption that your view is the only view.

      • Fam Please... says

        11/18/2020 at 9:35 am

        I would have thought this and was ready to defend this even, but then saw the name chosen. It’s not something eastern and is explicitly a Eurasian word from Old English. The word and symbols are used in ref to north Germany/Norse stuff/western Aryans.

        I do understand wanting to jump to defense as someone who is Buddhist. I def understand the importance here of context and lenses viewed through, but the choice of word is a bit odd. I can hope they just looked up synonymous words for Manji but that seems very odd. I mean the whole thing is lol

    • i dunno says

      11/15/2020 at 9:21 pm

      Manji is one thing, but they didn’t name it Manji. They named it Fylfot, an English word and specifically a different symbol than the japanese swastika. Unless the photo was shopped…
      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fylfot
      I’m not gonna make a judgement either way, it could have been a mistake, but it seems like a really weird mistake to make…

  36. Constance Dogood says

    11/15/2020 at 3:41 pm

    6) Where’s the receipts?

    7) You’re talking about a SL forum regular? That place is full of people that haven’t started using mesh or just started a couple of years ago and it’s an echo chamber.

    10) Agree!

    25) Receipts?

    26) He probably had about 10 women respond to him and banged them all.

    34) I wouldn’t pay 3500 for that, but I don’t see what’s wrong with it.

    35) A lot of people can’t do a shape. That includes creators. Could be the jeans though..

    • Nerdferatu says

      11/15/2020 at 3:53 pm

      Re: 26 That’s exactly what I was thinking. I think it was meant to be a wholesome crush secret but didn’t really pick the greatest post to lead with. Lol.

    • WhatIsYourDamageHeather says

      11/16/2020 at 6:45 pm

      34’s creator clearly stated they wanted a full HUD with the demo if they’re going to be asked to spend that much money on the mega-pack. I agree; that’s half of my monthly tier fee. I want more than a fit demo or one that only has the plain colors if I’m being asked to consider that much of a layout.

  37. Bullshittery says

    11/15/2020 at 3:25 pm

    #35 (35.5? seems 2 posts under #35) I knew that guy. He is a controlling asshat. I didnt message him for 2 days and he deleted me off of everything. then guilt tripped me about it and added me back. He tries to control what your avi looks like. Too short? too tall? too fat? too thin? he will be sure to complain about it. telling you he cant date you with your avi looking that way…. while still dating you without you changing it. not to mention he will complain about what you look like in RL too. Saying hed force you to diet if you are not his body type even though he was aware of your body before. pretending to be accepting to fat people. HA sure. *lists a long and detailed list of medical records and conditions. including years of anorexia that ended up a cause of weight gain instead of loss* “nah you just eat too much” Its fine if you hate fat people. dont pretend to like us. just move tf on. that goes for all of ya.

    • WinTrain says

      11/15/2020 at 6:50 pm

      Thanks for the post MakenaMoon Resident!!! Hell yeah, made it to SL secrets!!!! 🙂

      No, you just fuck everything you see, you are butt hurt I won’t date your ass cause you are a slut. Fact and simple, I talk to you, and the next day you have someone in your profile. You are so butt hurt you come onto SL secrets after your recent hook up dumped you 🙂

      Get over it. Not going to date your ass. Sad bitch, the highlight of your day is being on SL.

      Oh, and who the hell is Patrick Daddy? LOL, get a life you jobless bum.

      Thank you for putting me on SL secrets 🙂 hell yeah!!! Only reason i found out I got posted was someone told me, I don’t even come to this website, it’s for pathetic jealous people like you.

      Anyhow, said what I said, stay jealous. You are worse than Boaty12345 when it comes to men, putting a new guy in your profile everyday and you expect me to date you? Yeah, stay trashy.

      Won’t come back to this post, have a issue, then message me. Most of that isn’t true, except the changing of avatar thing, rest of it is a lie, but then again these jobless weak minded souls have to grasp for straws in some form of fashion given they can’t fit in with society. This website is just for pathetic people who are jealous and want to post shit about others lol, I think the readers know that and we all laugh at who creates these images and posts like this loser.

      Should paste this sluts IMs she sent me wanting me back. Too bad I can’t show the next day with a new guy in her profile, it’s nearly a daily thing. Stay away from her, shes more worse than Boaty123

      Haven’t been to this website since 2016, I’M SL FAMOUS NOW <3 Congratulations to Patrick Daddy too whoever the fuck that is, dude bro, we made it to SL secrets haha.

      • Bullshittery says

        11/17/2020 at 4:40 pm

        Hi, yes. I’m not whoever you just called out ? the original secret sharer maybe, but this comment is not. We were together months. You treated me like shit. You treat everyone like shit and block them when it doesn’t go your way. Take chill pill control freak.

      • Sickandtiredofit says

        11/18/2020 at 5:51 pm

        You seem desperate?
        https://community.secondlife.com/search/?&q=WinTrain&search_and_or=or

      • TheDevil says

        11/19/2020 at 9:46 am

        omg that is hilar!

      • Bullshittery says

        11/20/2020 at 5:20 pm

        So what this tells me is he was cheating on me too ? One of those relationship posts was in the middle of us dating.

        Thanks for showing me this!

    • TA says

      11/16/2020 at 6:30 am

      Mean person! You deserve better.

  38. GTFOH says

    11/15/2020 at 3:22 pm

    #11 wtf has her age got to do with anything ? It sounds like you’re seriously butthurt over her. Jealousy much ? Did one of the guys she takes pics with, reject your ass ? If this is how you behave it’s not hard to see why they would choose a mature woman over an immature crybaby. I’m assuming you’re female because you whine like a bitch. If you’re a male and she rejected you, who can blame her ? Grow the fuck up and get a grip of yourself.

  39. Noturcuppatea says

    11/15/2020 at 2:33 pm

    #14 come on now everyone who know this chick knows she ain’t nothing but a lonely desperate fake and try hard. Even her so called friends hate her..next

  40. G says

    11/15/2020 at 2:28 pm

    9. I never noticed but I think you’re on to something. It’s kind of funny how people living in the cheap neighborhoods are more down to earth. Apartments, the motel, townhomes, log cabins, trailer parks, house boats are the cheap rentals.

    Some corrections for me—-

    The worst mod is that “TEEN” mod. She became a mod not very long ago. She’s cliquey and very very annoying

    The main criminals are try hards and full of themselves. CC needs new fresh criminals. I think I’m starting to see more around

    There’s only ONE good doctor. Older guy that loves to roleplay. I only do hospital rp when he’s online

    Fox Hollow is better but the old CC people there are just as bad and I would recommend avoiding them if you move

    • Bob, just Bob says

      11/17/2020 at 1:03 pm

      I live in a large home but I would like to think that I’m also down to earth. Just keep away from people with bad attitudes and you will be fine.,

      I won’t say her name here but the moderator who is a teenager in RP was a questionable choice. Not because she RPS as a teen but for the reasons you listed. I just keep away from her.

      Fox Hollow is considerably dead compared to CC so I can’t say that I agree.

  41. Nah. says

    11/15/2020 at 2:25 pm

    #16
    You are stupid? The only thing not transfer in this gacha is the SHAPE because well who would want a no modify and no copy shape ffs?!
    I bet you nutter would be also the first to complain and whine here about no copy and no mod shapes ?

    • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

      11/16/2020 at 11:38 am

      Sounds like something that requires a shape doesn’t belong in a gacha machine then; how are people supposed to trade when part of the item isn’t transfer? The creator is still fucking up, trying to make a gacha cash grab on an item that can’t be fully traded, which the whole point of gachas from a customer’s point of view.

    • TheDevil says

      11/18/2020 at 6:48 am

      why cant they offer the shape separate then? like, you can purchase the shape for a minimal price if you want to, so people can trade the other shit?

    • Fam Please... says

      11/18/2020 at 9:39 am

      tf would a shape be the rare??? Sorry that’s just as dumb. Don’t offer it if it can’t be made nt

  42. Uhm says

    11/15/2020 at 2:14 pm

    #6 made me scream out in laughter. Best one ever!

    #29 Well that is what you get from the oh so innocent former business partner of Bella, that called her out about her lying and stealing and claims of her making the mesh after they are not friends anymore and then do the same thing. I would say Lou just turned out to be the apprentice and now she is making money on the profession Bella taught her. And the events are as gullible as always, eating all the lies up and not doing any thinking for themselves. They lost so many clients having her in their events it is hilarious.

    #33 LOL she is a joke, plays the pity card and at the same time bully people in the same post in the comments. Very entitled little girl that buy most her stuff and need to find a God damn rigger as her items show more body than clothes. How is she in events, and how did she get accepted into Equal10? I thought better of their quality, but guess they are going down and desperate if this is how they handle business.

    I feel all the events don’t check anything anymore. Oh only original mesh…sees tons of 3D pages or even full perm meshes. “Oh you know the friend of my distant cousin who I went on a poseball with yesterday in a family I joined a week ago…please come join my event.” Let the real designers of SL wait in line so you can go buy someone else creation online and put that in said event. And they think no one notice…hahhhhh, look at your visitors slowly decreasing in the events you take these shortcuts in. You wondered why but still can’t figure it out?

    • TA says

      11/16/2020 at 6:54 am

      I’ve been seeing that at events also…

    • TeaSipperPopCornEater says

      11/17/2020 at 8:21 am

      @29 I would say that maybe since she was the one that was “gang leader” in ratting Bella out, maybe SHE was the one that taught Bella to do all this shit. Don’t get me wrong, they are both wrong and pieces of shitty people, but it gets me thinking. It could also be a conspiracy theory in which she blackmailed Bella ? Nah they both idiots!

  43. #stopsupportingidiots says

    11/15/2020 at 1:59 pm

    #15 That’s event’s for you these days -_-

    #29 A big LOL at LuLuB, not surprised.. She took the make up before now she takes meshes. My question is how the hell these people get into events? Are there no curators there? Nobody that knows about actual meshes and stuff being sold on 3rd party websites? It’s so obvious this isn’t made by her.

    #33 Their rigging sucks ass big time too, the creator is crazy for asking that much money for faulty items.

    • Uhm says

      11/15/2020 at 2:13 pm

      So agree on everything, by now it is hilarious

    • TheDevil says

      11/16/2020 at 10:35 am

      i agree….omg #33 her shit is so expensive, and seriously NOT worth it. most of it is textured shitty and rigged even shittier….

  44. FunnyRose says

    11/15/2020 at 1:40 pm

    #.13 Its SL who cares in which season a sim is. There are unicorns in SL as well, I din’t saw those in any season in RL.

  45. BeenThereDoneThat says

    11/15/2020 at 1:25 pm

    3. Careful. You’re going to bring out the Lelutka lovers and their tech support by the swarms to call you all kinds of unsavory things. I’ve had this problem too. If you search through the SL help forums, there’s a few people asking for solutions. That might help. Using the applier hairbase instead of the Bom one solves the problem entirely but with Lelutka that’s not an option. It happened with every hairbase and I’m on a good PC and I play on Ultra. I don’t think it’s a Lelutka problem though. It’s probably how the hairbases are being created. I stopped wearing hairbases and buy from hair creators that have nice hairlines already, like Tram. I didn’t know that there were half hairbases out there. Might try it

    • Sickandtiredofit says

      11/15/2020 at 7:00 pm

      True, it’s not the head but the people making the hairbase. I have plenty of hairbases that don’t bleed through the neck like that. A lot of older ones too that weren’t specifically made for any mesh heads.

  46. smh says

    11/15/2020 at 1:10 pm

    #24 first of all Datrip is NOT greedy, when he is online he is working in Maya etc and won’t respond to messages he has a CSR for that, who ALWAYS respond. He does care. most anyone knows that. your just a childish person little crybaby

    • luciano says

      11/17/2020 at 2:51 pm

      He does not care. I have the same experience.

    • Ian says

      11/17/2020 at 3:03 pm

      Apart from his jeans not being shoe-friendly – I think he his clothes are far more expensive than that of other creator. So yes, one would think greed plays a part.

    • Seth says

      11/17/2020 at 3:12 pm

      Lol – if one looks at his SL profile RL – that says it all. He sees all of us as fools – in his own words. This kind of post only happens if you have pissed someone off. Period. Maybe he should learn to respond to his customers.

  47. FunnyRose says

    11/15/2020 at 1:07 pm

    #11. First of all I don’t know her. But serious you need to place that here ? You don’t have the balls to IM her about it or her partner? Din’t he want you? Or din’t she want you? and who cares her age, if he knows all is good right? You sound like a pathetic person. Grow some balls and IM her or him. Instead of a sad post here lol you sound like a little jealous cow.  ? 

  48. lordiesalmightyidiots says

    11/15/2020 at 1:05 pm

    #3 – you are a moron. That is not Lelutka or any other. That is your shitting graphics settings. Stop trying run with on absolute low everything off. Go to fucking preferences – graphics- hardware settings – tick ansiotropic filter. You fuck up mesh map wrapping when isnt checked. Again .. you are the idiot.

  49. Downwithunderboob says

    11/15/2020 at 1:00 pm

    #10: A-fucking-men. I know there’s a workaround for the dinosaur stores who can’t create a HUD delivery package (or refuse to pay someone to script one for them), but it’s 2020. Boxes that have to be rezzed is so 2008.

    #12: Agreed. There is a certain build that many stores are using, and it’s a freaking nightmare. I especially hate this build when a sim has a forced landing point nowhere near the store I’m trying to find (looking at you, Luas). There are so many damn front doors, it’s impossible to tell which door is the front door. I also hate the clothing stores that look like Costco. My praises go out to stores with simple builds and organizational skills (dresses one area, casual in another, etc.).

    #15: Ok, that’s a huge one for me this week. I wandered around Enchantment, and I kept thinking WTF were the Enchantment owners thinking in allowing crap in that didn’t even TRY to demonstrate a connection to POTO. The piggies were a stretch, but at least the rares had masks on. Clover? A mini dress for Victorian era France? Infiniti? Have you ever actually watched POTO? Irrisistible? Granted, dress is pretty, but WTF is up with that tacky framed portrait on the skirt? I might have purchased that, but putting a framed portrait of Gerard Butler on it was just stupid (not to mention probably a copyright violation as it’s a movie still). LOA? Eyes? Just slapping the name Christine on them doesn’t make it POTO-themed. Love? Don’t get that one either. Mythril? Interesting hair but what do unicorns have to do with POTO? Nyne? You didn’t even bother to try, did you? Like they wore their hair that way back in the Victorian era.  ?  Puke Rainbows? WTH do spiders have to do with POTO? Maybe there were some in the underground lair, but it’s not like we ever see them. Rapture: Obviously lame. Romazin: do not see a connection. The Little Branch? I like their stuff, but there’s no theme connection there either. Stringer Mausoleum? That hat has as much do with POTO as my dog’s winter coat. Zoom? As bad as Rapture. I love this theme, but boy, they really dropped the ball on what they allowed in. Word to Enchantment’s owners: Make your stores fit the theme or kick them out. We as buyers WILL quit visiting if all we’re seeing is random shit like this.

    #16: Thanks for letting me laugh at your miserable yet hilarious attempts at spelling copybotter.

    #23: Can’t read. Passed on by. If I need a magnifying glass to see your comments, try again.

    #32: Anyone wanting a fatpack of that poorly textured junk at that price deserves to lose 4k. I can go buy full fatpacks at Ison for less than that.

    #33: Also another one that makes me rageface. I was wandering about for TSS yesterday, and Fashionably Dead really pissed me off. Such a cute coat, but the HUD only changed the sweater and buttons. I wanted to see the freaking coat and scarf colors. I bought some, but I really want to just punch designers who can’t be arsed to put the full colorways in their demos. I’ve lost count of how many times the colors in the ads did not match to the actual clothing article. I don’t run SL on a potato. I can run Black Dragon on this machine, FFS. If you won’t demo colorways, I’m not going to buy. I also have the same beef with some jewelry designers. This past week there were several who don’t offer demos and who don’t actually show the HUD color options in the vendor ad. If I can’t see what colorways I have in a piece of jewelry, guess what? I’m not going to buy it. If you’re worried about copybotting (or coopybooting, lol), timed demos are a thing, but put a freaking HUD in there.

    Man, I am bitchy today.

    Re: Itty Bitty–Is there a rule there about offering an exclusive item? Cuz Salt & Pepper put up an outfit that’s been out for a while.

    Since I don’t have the energy to create secrets, I’ll just say here that I’m so freaking tired of unzipped jeans/shorts where the pubes/labia hang out. I’m also so tired of certain stores (looking at you, Vagrant) who think we all want our nips poking out like we’ve been nursing a baby). Just as I hated the invisible pony riders of the distant past, and the fishlips of the even more distant past, I am tired of the Kardashian look that has overrun the fashion feeds for way too long. Kardashian hair, Kardashian clothes. Kudos to the designers who cater to those of us who don’t want to resemble anyone from that clan.

    • ihaveittybitties says

      11/15/2020 at 4:56 pm

      Itty Bitty designers can put up an older release that’s been updated for petite/perky/flat chest bodies (usually at a discount, too) They don’t have to do brand new exclusives. 🙂

    • Whatever says

      11/16/2020 at 2:25 am

      I love how you shit on Enchantment, but yet when it comes to other events they get a pass? I can understand that some of the items at Enchantment weren’t up to your standards, but guess what if you felt that strongly about the event DON’T.FUCKING.SHOP.THERE. I am pretty sure Enchantment will continue on without you and those that have problems with those items and most of the items you are picking at are really neat and every event that has been around has had items that while even on theme were still not quite up to par. So get over yourself.

    • okfam says

      11/17/2020 at 10:26 pm

      What do you think people are going to make for such a specific theme? You are lucky creators even joined that theme and made something. POTO is such a specific theme, the only thing they can really make that fit are masks. At least they tried.

  50. Fatpackbuyer69 says

    11/15/2020 at 12:59 pm

    #32 and #33. No one is making you purchase the fatpacks these designers provide.

  51. Ty says

    11/15/2020 at 12:51 pm

    Was #32 removed or was it just accidentally skipped?

    • Downwithunderboob says

      11/15/2020 at 1:01 pm

      #31 is empty. #32 is still there.

      • Ty says

        11/15/2020 at 1:05 pm

        31 is there for me, but 32 isn’t. O_O -plays The X-Files theme music-

  52. Meh says

    11/15/2020 at 12:50 pm

    #3
    that’s not LeLutka’s fault, any full hairbase works perfectly, what you are showing is merely a lag issue as the texture isn’t loading properly….
    try wearing your full hairbase when on a low lag sim and on ground level; you’ll be amazed.

  53. Lol says

    11/15/2020 at 12:05 pm

    28 — says the 40 year old role playing as a child

  54. YoMomma says

    11/15/2020 at 12:00 pm

    #4 I like how the individual posted this thinks that “cancel society” is a good thing. “Cancel society” is the most brain dead stupid thing I have ever heard. Let’s “cancel” someone for their words, woo, let’s remove them from society and take away their ability to provide for themselves, ha ha ha….. people like you would fit right in with Mao or Stalin… eager little Stazi you are

    people like me look at people like you and think you must have really been bullied as a kid, for you to turn out to be such a shit that delights in this concept. Good luck to you in life, you’ll need it.

    • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

      11/15/2020 at 12:46 pm

      It can go too far and there should definitely be conclusive proof of the reason for the “cancellation”, but I think holding people responsible for the shit they say is a great idea, personally. If you’re worried what might happen to your livelihood if something you said becomes public knowledge, maybe you should ask yourself why you feel the need to say those things. Refusing to learn better and be better because it’s your dumbfuck “freeeeeduuuum” to be a racist/sexist/homophobic/transphobic/pedophile enabling cunt is far worse than advocating for personal accountability. The fact that you are mocking someone with the idea they must have been bullied as a child, ignoring how traumatic that is, as if that’s a bad reason to stand up for others suggests you’re a pretty shitty person yourself. If people like you have to be “forced” to be better people with the threat of public exposure and consequences, so be it.

      • DumbAssesOnSLSecrets says

        11/15/2020 at 12:49 pm

        @BeLess – OMG your toxic Karen is showing idiot….

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        11/15/2020 at 12:56 pm

        Yeah, because Karens aren’t the ones constantly outed all the time for being racist and shit, literally some of the most common people being held accountable and “cancelled” LOL

        Karens are among the shitty people I’m talking about, you actual idiot. I would love you to explain your logic for how thinking people should stop being bigots is “toxic”; I’m sure it would be hilarious.

        Please, if you’re gonna try to use internet slang, at least look up what it means first so you don’t look stupid as well as wrong. I’m literally the polar opposite of a Karen. Here, I’ll help; the terms you’re looking for are SJW, snowflake, etc.

      • DumbAssesOnSLSecrets says

        11/15/2020 at 2:17 pm

        yes idiot- i have watched you here for weeks and that’s exactly what I meant with you hollering your SJW cancel horseshit- typical toxic Karen shit, a TOXIC Karen, lol

      • YeahWell says

        11/15/2020 at 5:08 pm

        You should have ended your name after the first 7 letters.

      • Sophia Graves says

        11/16/2020 at 12:56 am

        XD

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        11/16/2020 at 11:45 am

        Well, I suppose it’s OK for you to be demonstrably retarded if that’s what you like; I tried to help. SJWs and Karens are two completely different groups of people, but when all you’ve got is buzzwords and no reading comprehension, even someone trying to inform you is pretty useless.

      • TA says

        11/16/2020 at 6:42 am

        I have a T-shirt that says “No Karen, you can’t talk to the manager”. ???

      • Stankfish says

        11/15/2020 at 6:44 pm

        Stop ruining people fun behind the internet. If you cannot stop it from happening why bother to do anything. . If white people arnt considered a race why does the word racism exist. Virtual pedophilia makes people made which is odd. In Japan they don’t bitch about this stuff. People hate anything fun. It’s offered so why say no? Some reason people get mad at this stuff. Which is weird . Cartoons can’t hurt you guy. Pedophilia I’d comedy gold.

      • Bagoflemons says

        11/16/2020 at 9:39 am

        The law in most countries does not care what medium the child porn is on, it is considered illegal and will get you put away. “People hate anything fun?” Is it fun for the child being abused? Every time there are pedo posts you come in here sympathising with these sickos, according to you “Its virtual so its not hurting anyone” NO! Virtual or real its fucking sick, its disgusting and should not be supported at all.

        To those posting the he/she is a podophile, report it to LL instead of posting it up here.

      • George Michael says

        11/16/2020 at 4:38 am

        Cancel culture is the left’s gateway to a dictatorship. Ever wonder why so many people (even those with fame/power/money) are afraid to express their thoughts and opinion if it doesn’t align with the left agenda? The left has been using cancel culture as a tool to -force- their belief on others. I’m not a right or anti-left person per policies, in fact I agree with most of the left’s views, however I cannot ever subscribe to a dictatorship in guise of a democracy and free will.

        I always found it rather amusing that the left is always preaching about freedom, about democracy, about choice, and free will. Yet they will attack and ruin the life of anyone who doesn’t agree with their belief system. Yet …they seem to despise religion….they are literally no different than the extremist religious people they so despise.

      • TA says

        11/16/2020 at 6:40 am

        Wher I live, the term cancel culture was used by teenagers. Nope I don’t despise religion. I despise liars and people filled with hate and racism. I’ve got family/Friends that are Democrats, republicans, independents, non voters, low information voters, etc. The one thing we Do agree on is remove the hate. #removethehate

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        11/16/2020 at 11:53 am

        Yawn.

        I said nothing about making political statements; I challenge you to name anyone who’s been “cancelled” for making a purely political statement that didn’t include anything racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, or victim blaming. Are you saying it’s not possible to make a conservative political statement without being a bigot? Because oof; that kinda self-aware breakthrough would actually be valuable if you could see it for what it is, but unfortunately you’re most likely going to twist all this in your head until you still feel like you’re right.

        I don’t even have any belief systems, unless thinking that everyone deserves equal rights and opportunities qualifies. You’re making that shit up about despising religion. If the churches would stop trying to take people’s rights based on their fairy tale beliefs, no one would care about them one way or another. So yeah, I have no tolerance for those who believe some people don’t deserve the same rights as others based on their religious beliefs, but neither does any decent human being.

      • George Michael says

        11/16/2020 at 2:10 pm

        That right there, anyone who disagrees with the left agenda is a bigot/racist/mysoginist/(Insert whatever else you can think of) and therefore it’s a free for all attack on them. Do you not see the problem with this? This IS your belief system, and you ARE enforcing it on others. You are just too dense to see it. What the left has been doing is no different than the many religion inquisitions through out history. You just don’t call your belief system a religion in name, nor call what you do an inquisition in name. However in reality it is the very same principle. You destroy anyone who doesn’t see the world your way, and pass judgement on them as unfit to live among society.

        There is a good reason why nearly 50% of America is red and that is -not- because 50% of America is racist. That is just what the left likes to portrait in order to elevate their own belief system to a higher moral ground.

      • WhatIsYourDamageHeather says

        11/16/2020 at 6:58 pm

        LOOOOOOOOOOL. The right’s been wielding cancellation like a fricking AR-15 for decades. Now that more people who want to make life easier for the folks your kind wants to silence or worse are speaking up, you and yours go into projection mode. Some of us are old enough to remember how bigoted country music fans cancelled k.d. lang for being a lesbian. How right-wingers cancelled the [Dixie] Chicks for protesting some of your sacred cows. How Garth Brooks almost got cancelled for speaking out against domestic violence. How book after book after book on the annual banned book lists are cancelled off library shelves and school curricula by haters and fascists for daring to disagree with their narrow views of reality.

        If saying, “a person deserves equal rights and freedoms regardless of skin color, gender, gender presentation, or sexual orientation” is oppression to you, I suggest you are a fascist pig. The rest of us who think “liberty and justice for all” shouldn’t exclude people will do our work to make it real. And no, any system of thought that claims to believe some people are less human than others is not equal to one that rejects the idea from the jump. We only refuse to tolerate intolerance. The rest of y’all at least voted for someone who kisses Proud Boy ass and was raised by a Klansman. The shit of his racism lands on you as well.

        No peace for fascists.

      • George Michael says

        11/16/2020 at 7:59 pm

        Here is the problem that you are not seeing nor understanding. You have a set of beliefs and you force that upon society because the left has decided it is the right way to think, it is the right thing to believe and anything contrary to that you slap a racist/fascist tag to it and attack it.

        Vast majority of people are against racism, fascism etc, however every time someone disagrees with a left movement, the left labels them as such, points to a racist person they know of and say “you are same as them” and then proceed to attack.

        Somehow the left has decided they have the moral high ground and anything contrary to what they believe gets labeled and attacked. The sooner you wake up and smell the coffee, the sooner you will realize that 50% of America isn’t racist/fascist, they just don’t agree with you on certain topics and are tired of the left shoving their agenda down their throat in a “accept it or perish” kind of way.

        The left is no different than a religious inquisition of medieval times. That is why you have lost so much support that someone as crass and idiotic as Trump was actually elected as the president.

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        11/18/2020 at 12:37 pm

        What certain topics are those they don’t “agree with us” on? Come on, be specific. You shouldn’t be afraid to say exactly what you mean if you’re so sure those “topics” aren’t exactly the bigoted bullshit I’ve said they are- predicting now we get no clear answers.

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        11/18/2020 at 12:36 pm

        Hear, hear! We don’t always agree, and I’m not generally into whataboutism, but you have a very solid point here.

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        11/18/2020 at 12:34 pm

        If thinking people shouldn’t be treated with discrimination is a “belief system”, then I’ll claim it. If holding people responsible for the things they say and do is a “belief system”, I’ll claim that too. It’s cute how you dodged the real point, ignoring my question asking if you truly believed it’s impossible to make a conservative political statement without being a bigot. I think that’s because you realize that’s kinda true, and you don’t want to admit it.

        My perception doesn’t create the bigotry- the literal meanings of the words those people say does. Are you one of those spineless enablers who insists people don’t actually mean the things they say, even if they say the same things consistently? Because to that I say, maybe being worried about losing their jobs and being shunned for being disgusting will convince people they should be clear on what they’re saying, and think before they speak. I’m not into making excuses for the willfully ignorant, and it’ll be a full time job for you if you keep it up. I suggest a more worthy cause.

      • TheDevil says

        11/18/2020 at 6:56 am

        the thing is, being racist, homophobic ect is also someones opinion, if people hate gays, or black people, or fat people or whatever…that’s their perogative, as long as they don’t get violent with their beliefs, who gives a shit? why stress yourself out because your neighbor thinks gay people are “icky”? or your grandma hates the asians? who cares? like really, people that get up in arms over other peoples beliefs is stupid, even if you don’t agree with it…even if it isn’t PC….too much other shit going on in the world to worry about if someone doesn’t like a certain demographic….

  55. Snow lover says

    11/15/2020 at 11:58 am

    #13 so it’s autumn,so what? I live in Canada and we already have snow,just because google tells you something doesn’t mean anything lol

    • Smh says

      11/15/2020 at 12:31 pm

      Do you suppose they think that arctic locations and mountain snow caps just thaw and melt every April? Imagine…

      • Just Another Lady says

        11/16/2020 at 2:10 am

        Having lived next to a mountain in Utah (SLC) before, the mountain snowcaps do melt, shockingly. Who knew? I don’t know about anywhere else. Where I currently live has had snow on the ground and in the forecast for over a week now (still near-ish to SLC, UT).

      • WhoCares says

        11/16/2020 at 3:15 pm

        In most of the Arctic the significant snow melt begins in late May or sometime in June. Shocking news, but you heard it here first.

    • WhoCares says

      11/15/2020 at 2:36 pm

      I’m Southern Hemisphere so it’s Spring going in to Summer here. Either way I could care less in SL what Season it is. I’m not there for the Snow…or the Rain…or the Sun…or the dumb politics constantly in my face these days lol

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