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Virtual-Secrets, Week 633

10/11/2020 · kesseret ·

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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.


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  1. also me says

    10/16/2020 at 3:14 pm

    10. illegal illegal but instead of promoting anti-racism , some of them just want to swip it under the rug.. guys wake up a lot of people died. anti Semitism is everywhere in the world sadly.

  2. Flu says

    10/15/2020 at 10:50 pm

    6. There’s another club in CC. It’s called O’Mally’s Roadhouse and it’s IC and the owner doesn’t shove her club down people’s throats like the other guy. Start supporting it if you want IC clubs instead. Besides no one in the town goes to the OOC club anyway. It’s always the same few people who are there just to kiss the ass of the fire department head even though he is a known womanizer whose cheated on so many women. Morals out the window

  3. A flabber gast says

    10/15/2020 at 3:26 am

    46 hahaha I nominate you for excellence shown in dildo chomping you TDS having, virtue signaling, scrublord, irrelevant soy ass bitch lmao P S fuck you

    • Blaise Glendevon says

      10/15/2020 at 6:16 pm

      Squeeze one more ignorant Deplorable catchphrase in. I dare you.

  4. tired of your bullshit says

    10/15/2020 at 12:09 am

    #44 I thinks its funny how much drama Varick has and most of his drama he brings on himself by listening to others thoughts on people and then blaming someone for his own issues he has made for himself , now I have tried to be nice to him and stand up for him but not no more i never really ever comment or post on this trash site but since he thinks i put him on here anyways i might as well let me thoughts out on him i think he has some fucking issues he needs to work out with himself and that he needs to look at his beach “friends” realize that they are not really his friends and they are only there to make issues but anyways who i to judge i just hope he gets the help he so needs and i hope him and his many of husbands can see that they are not a fit if he is so unhappy PS. VARICK if you know the owner of this site like you said you do then why don’t you ask her or him to take all those drama posts that you bring on your self and so worried about down oh that’s right course you cant you dont know them

  5. ThatBitch says

    10/15/2020 at 12:02 am

    #16 Let me tell y’all about this bitch , she messaged me randomly acted like she wanted to be friends. I was dating a guy at the time who we magically figured out was her ex. (NGL I was dumb for not catching on) She then befriends me but slowly keeps talking shit about the guy to me everyday. Long story short , I think I’m the girl that was dating her ex that’s mentioned above. him and I broke up and I found out whole time I was talking to her about him she was telling him and using that to try to get back with him. Shady ass bitch so to the other chick dealing with her which I heard she forgave. Sis….. Get away from that girl.

    • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

      10/15/2020 at 12:35 pm

      I’m lucky enough that I haven’t encountered that nasty bitch, but all you have to do is see how everyone’s calling her out for being a literal pedophile and completely disgusting, and not a single word of defense has popped up for her. Like that is unheard of, literally every comment saying the shit said about her is true.

      • BecauseWeHaveActualLives says

        10/15/2020 at 4:10 pm

        That’s because the people that actually, truly know her, know that all this shit is BS. And we’d rather spend our time having fun and not get sucked into a black hole of drama commenting on a hater forum online about a video game. Get a life, and get to know someone before you comment about them. =]

      • lmfao says

        10/15/2020 at 5:53 pm

        Must be one of her groupies. Be sure to let us know how it feels when she turns on you too, dear =]

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        10/15/2020 at 7:13 pm

        Oh sure, that much smoke, identical stories from multiple sources, is just nothing at all LOL

        Tell yourself whatever you want, it’s pretty obvious that many people have experienced these things. I wouldn’t want to know her, or anyone who thinks what she does is acceptable.

      • Bullshittery says

        10/15/2020 at 7:48 pm

        Too bad you guys don’t actually know her like you think you do. I have known this girl years under a different name. Maybe know her longer than 2 months and you will see. Also, is the post lying about her flirting with her dad? Even though her “mother” acknowledges it? Nah

      • ThatBitch says

        10/16/2020 at 9:07 pm

        Not for nothing , but y’all going to need to sit this one out my guy. She ain’t shit and that’s ok! embrace the assholery but don’t piss on someone and tell them it’s raining. Your friend is a snake ?

    • Bullshittery says

      10/15/2020 at 4:39 pm

      It wasn’t about you. The girl she was accusing wasn’t ever sexually involved with the ex she had claimed she was messing with. The accusation came after she saw a picture with the girl and a guy who had the same tattoo. I had the chance to speak to both the girl and the guy in the picture. It was not her ex.

      I just heard that the guy she was caught messing with was actually her SL sisters boyfriend. What a charlatan.

      • ThatBitch says

        10/16/2020 at 9:05 pm

        Not her sister! Sheez that’s tough.

  6. Tired of whiners says

    10/14/2020 at 6:39 pm

    #33 I’m so tired of people crying about this. So what. It’s SL. People can be whoever they want. They can look however they want. Why is it a big deal for someone to use a black avatar when they are not black in rl. How do you even know what color their skin is in rl and why does it matter? I’ve seen plenty of people on fb claiming to be black in rl and using white skins and blonde hair. So what? How is any of this racist? If someone is using a furry fox avatar, are they racist against foxes? It’s dumb. It’s sl. The whole point is that you can be whatever you want. Just shut up already!!!

    • Lame says

      10/15/2020 at 4:18 pm

      Let’s face it, one could say that about anything written in this blog. Why read it if you have that opinion? And the difference with this is a business used a white looking av and threw on Black culture like it was a Halloween culture. That feels like a mockery. If this was a RL business they’d absolutely have to apologize for that or welcome all their white supremist fans (which maybe is what they want). Just google afro on anyone who isn’t Black, even if they are a minority that isn’t Black. But, you are right, this is SL where people can be ignorant and they spend all their time on businesses that aren’t real businesses and misbehave in their fantasy world. This post also didn’t seem like it was whining. It seemed like it was making fun of someone’s ignorance. Everyone else who behaves can still laugh at you for being an idiot, like we do the white people in black stereotypical avs.

  7. PS says

    10/14/2020 at 9:42 am

    @44. Both V and M are whores, which is ok, except for the degree that they at least used to hide it from each other.

  8. Blaise Glendevon says

    10/12/2020 at 9:37 pm

    You do know that trans people can be straight, too, right? Like, trans women who date men. Trans men who date women exclusively. Gender identity =/= sexual orientation.

    And that’s a whole lot of words to say that you hate trans women. Yikes. Somebody get JK Rowling here some help.

    • You ain't shit either. says

      10/14/2020 at 8:43 am

      I don’t understand why transgender even in the LGB community if it’s a gender identity and not a sexual orientation if they are heterosexual. Because heterosexuals are just heterosexual and they aren’t apart of the LGB.

      • Blaise Glendevon says

        10/14/2020 at 6:19 pm

        This is profoundly lazy gender and sexual identity analysis.

  9. AnimeIsLame says

    10/12/2020 at 7:56 pm

    LOL so many karens on the internet no wonder why this place is a snoozefest.

    “Waaa waa he used a nazi uniform” If you don’t like people dressing up as Nazis don’t talk to that person. You crying and appealing to beta orbiters like a Karen makes you look like a complete spacker. Stop LMAO… Also, Topmarts run by a pedophile trans freak pretty sure.

    • Blaise Glendevon says

      10/12/2020 at 9:35 pm

      Uses the phrase “beta orbiter” and defends assholes who dress up like Nazis for funsies. Jesus, the state of the internet. . .

      • AnimeIsLame says

        10/13/2020 at 2:07 pm

        get of this site karen lol.

        You probably haven’t had a god fuck in years.. Prolly a slampiggy

      • some retard says

        10/14/2020 at 5:50 am

        tbh, idrc about nazi uniforms on second life because i know alot of them; there’s no rank insignia aside from the peaked cap and the outfit is clearly not intended y’know to be SS, aside from the tunic and pants. i just don’t get why people get offended over this shit, kinda whacky ngl

      • Blaise Glendevon says

        10/14/2020 at 6:19 pm

        Is this English?

      • AnimeIsLame says

        10/14/2020 at 7:34 pm

        based

      • some smartarse says

        10/15/2020 at 9:53 am

        Name checks out lol

      • Marco says

        10/13/2020 at 7:16 pm

        You learn to ignore this loser if you read the comments often lol, they’re here every week spouting the same internet brainrot buzzwords.

      • AnimeIsLame says

        10/13/2020 at 10:16 pm

        Low IQ individual detected

    • Well, actually says

      10/15/2020 at 9:51 am

      It’s not about dressing as a Nazi, it’s about equating it to being “German”. They could have said, instead, that they were dressing up as Charlottesville protesters.

  10. kthen says

    10/12/2020 at 7:21 pm

    To #43, you sound ignorant about what their problem may actually be, and you can’t say it’s the SLRP community if it’s like, one or a few people who “hate” you. It’s more than likely not because you’re straight, and to say a trans woman hates you for having what she doesn’t is just disgusting commentary.

  11. Anti-Fuckers says

    10/12/2020 at 1:56 pm

    #3 you sound like a big asshole, Can you just pay and spend your l$ without any comments ? If you’re so unhappy, build your own thing or get lost lol.
    #18 another one that think he own the univers, if the creator don’t care of your stupid Black Friday, then shut up and move on, wtf !

    • Kepavi says

      10/12/2020 at 5:17 pm

      And you sounds like one huge entitled SL “creator”. Cmon, don’t be salty, just go buy some model from 3rd party site, import it in SL with huge “100% original mesh” stamp, breaking every single rule on both EULA’s and put it in your store.

  12. Alexander says

    10/12/2020 at 11:43 am

    #10 – I see people still think Germany was the ones who did all the war crimes and whatnot. No, Nazi Germany did. Germany was essentially subjugated by the Nazi Germany, led by Adolf Hitler. Literally ate up instantly. During World War II, it was not Germany, it was Nazi Germany.

    #18 – Not every creator is American. No one cares about your stupid holiday. Grow up. Creators need to stop pandering to this garbage. If they do not want to have a Black Friday sale, they do not need to have one because you are trying to save your government money with sales.

    #41 – Please get back on your medication. You are acting out again. Your boomer mindset is invading. God, how can one person be so cringe? You would make half of Reddit wince.

    #42 – Her profile picture may not match her current avatar.

    • Lmao says

      10/12/2020 at 1:37 pm

      #41 is definitely a painful cringe

    • AnimeIsLame says

      10/12/2020 at 7:57 pm

      No crime in wearing a “:pixel” Nazi uniform just another sycophantic Karen crying for social justice eon the interwebz

      • Well, actually says

        10/15/2020 at 9:56 am

        It’s not about dressing up as nazi, it’s about saying that they’re dressed as “Germans”. Learn to read at least some Anime, I think it got text in it, right?

  13. anyways... says

    10/12/2020 at 10:45 am

    #7 wbk you dont know how to shape ugly so you had to run to virtual secret with your ugly ass to rant chile…

  14. Eye Roll says

    10/12/2020 at 7:57 am

    10- You are not a race. The last time you thought that, we got Nazis. Let that sink in a bit.

    • Spazzo says

      10/12/2020 at 11:10 am

      This one had me rushing for the SL terms of service as I know Germany tends to be quite strict on enforcing their laws regarding banned symbols – this outfit seems to have the swastika and eagle as well as the skull and bones symbols which as far as I can see are illegal in Germany. I’ve seen other games have specifc rules banning Nazi symbols so was a bit surprised SL didn’t. That said google ‘nazi’ in the marketplace and SL is pleasingly short of Third Reich stuff.

      • Jessica Orlando says

        10/13/2020 at 5:59 am

        You think you know everything child just stay quiet let the adults talk.

      • Spazzo says

        10/15/2020 at 11:50 am

        Oh I don’t profess to know much, but I know that knowing I annoyed you made me laugh.

      • Pocketsand says

        10/13/2020 at 3:29 pm

        Nazi stuff is actually not allowed in the market since it falls under community standards against hate speech. The only time I’ve seen the content tolerated is use in WWII accurate sims, but even then, it’s a risky venture since it will still get policed sometimes. A lot of the sims simply choose to not use the iconography to avoid the hassle. You’ll also find uniforms and accessories resembling Nazi uniforms on the market, but many get around the policy by leaving off identifying icons. Reporting individuals with Nazi content on their avatars and profiles seems to be case by case. In general though, LL does not tolerate any non-educational/historical uses. If users are posting the images off second Life however, there isn’t much that can be done by LL until it’s caught in-world.

  15. Lame says

    10/12/2020 at 1:50 am

    7) Can these people just be outcast already? There isn’t any discussion here. Everyone knows this is wrong.
    24) Stop inflating your own ego by trying to be Flickr famous. The system is rigged for what you put into it, not how good you are at it.
    33) Wearing Black hair styles as an accessory when it is hard for Black women to wear them without discrimination is wrong. It is wonderful people want to support causes but that means thinking about the people you are supporting and their feelings when you do.
    41) Is the person who wrote this post a serial killer?
    43) I’ll skip the obvious in this post. And get to the stereotype many believe, the trans community fights for equality and yes things are hard but many in the community excel in the face of the challenge. There isn’t any time for whining or hating. There is only time to take on the battle in front of them. I halfway assume this post is full troll because of how redic it is.

  16. You_need_to_grow_up says

    10/12/2020 at 1:49 am

    41 – I have read a lot of secrets on here and I think this is one of the times that you can see that the poster is the one causing the issues. You can’t get any more childish then writing a poem. Nothing kills a RP sim faster then drama like this. Be the adult, move on, and leave the poor girl alone.

  17. Huh says

    10/11/2020 at 10:56 pm

    3.  “As if you are doing us a favor and giving way for free” is a fragment and needs more information.  “You are acting as if you are doing us all a favor and giving away items for free.”

    4. “Was he worth it, girlies?” We talked about how to correctly punctuate direct address many times last week.

    10. “Which, by the way, that is illegal here.” You were trying to create an interrupting phrase. You can tell because if you read the sentence without the phrase, it should still work. You left out the subject though, so I added it. 

    11. Ah, you need that comma after that dependent clause! 

    13. “Victor, let me teach you a simple example.” Points for using your direct address correctly and “teach” is technically correct but it sounds weird. I would say “show” instead of “teach” here. Also, you have a comma at the end instead of a period. 
    13. “If you say “German” when something is actually “French”, you’re showing your ignorance.” Remember, a dependent clause at the beginning of a sentence gets a comma. 
    13. “Especially if someone already told what it is” is not grammatically correct because of the “especially” and “if”. Those make it a dependent clause that can’t stand on its own. 

    What I would do with these three sentences is put them in a different order. 

     “Victor, let me show you a simple example. If you say “German” when something is actually “French”, then you’re showing your ignorance. Especially don’t pretend you know what is, because someone already told you, so just admit you don’t know.” 
    13. Dumbness technically  means being unable to speak as in mute. It is not really about a degree of articulation or intelligence, so it sounds very wrong in this context. 

    14. 
    Please explain to me how I can directly email the posters who anonymously submit posts about their grammar errors and I will do so. 

    I sincerely apologize if my posts pointing out spelling errors have tarnished anyone’s groundbreaking work in cancer research or have stopped them from raising three generations of decent, law-abiding citizens. 

    Also, you put a comma after “of” in the sentence that says “Or you’ve raised three great kids of whom you’re endlessly proud of, but your mother-in-law makes snide comments about how unkempt your house is, or that your kids need lesson in manners, or they need to dress better, or anything else. 

    Wow, that is a doozy of a sentence. Let’s unpack it! “Or” is the interjection- it is meant to be used here passionately. Taking it out, the sentence would be “ You’ve raised three great kids of whom you’re endlessly proud of, but your mother in law….” The independent clause went first, so there is no need for a comma. Also, your series is incorrect and has become comma slices. It should be “makes snide comments about how unkempt your house is or that your kids need lessons in manners or they need to dress better. These are all comments she is making so they shouldn’t be isolated. I would also suggest a colon here as well “ makes snide comments: about how unkempt your house is, that your kids need lessons in manners, or they need to dress better. 

    16. “ U told people if they liked a skin on someone else to TP u and you would grab it for them.” No comma was needed there. 

    18. “Let people spend their lindens in your store before they have no lindens left to spend, or have an After-Black-Friday sale.”

    21. “Listen, Merce honey, you are ruining your reputation by hanging with Naria.

    As a side note, someone belonging to a certain ethnicity does not mean they have to be a representative of their “people” at all times. 

    23. Oh wow, that really made me think… I realized the error of my ways, I have been cruel and hurt so many doing this, so after this post I will commit myself to a convent. I will spend my days giving back to the poor and the needy, caring for the sick, and praying to God to absolve me of my sins.

    Sike! Please, keep posting pathetic memes that your grandma thinks are dated while I screenshot your shitty posts and show them to my seventh graders as examples of fetal alcohol syndrome in adults. 

    24. Ear doesn’t need to be capitalized, not a proper noun. 
    24. “Can’t they just include pieces of earrings separately in the folder so that I can put on my ears?” Awesome job recognizing that it is a complex sentence. If the independent clause (i.e. the part that is a complete thought and can stand on its own) comes first, there is no need for a comma.

    27.  Photography content isn’t a proper noun, should not be capitalized.
    27. “Your photography content sucks, there are way more talented SL photographers than you.”  The verb tense in the sentence was messed up. You wanted to say there is a plural amount  but you used a singular noun. Your order of adjectives was switched as well. if you’re using more than one adjective before a noun, they are subject to a certain hierarchy. The rule is that multiple adjectives are always ranked accordingly: opinion, size, age, shape, colour, origin, material, and purpose.
    27. I don’t mind the “ain’t” as a word but you wanted “Weren’t” so it reads “Weren’t you banned from Flickr? Do everyone a favor and quit, why don’t you?” 
     
    29. “Man, everyone I know prefers QUALITY roleplay.” Remember- singular subject gets a verb with an “s” on it. 
    29. “That’s why we RP on a sim with only five people on it, MAX, counting ourselves!” Direct addresses can go in the middle of the sentence and are just as impactful.
    29. “Us 5 can keep sims afloat, with our amazing RP skills, which we all only learned from SL, so you know it must be the correct way.” 

    So you isolated “with our amazing RP skills but it is an important part of the main idea of the sentence, so isolating it doesn’t make sense. I feel like this would be better suited with a semicolon. 

    “The five of us can keep sims afloat with our amazing RP skills which we all only learned in SL; so you know, it must be the correct way.” 

    29. “Don’t count RP that makes you have to think to solve scenarios whats that about?” It’s an interruptive phrase so I would add a dash so “Don’t count Rp that makes you have to think to solve scenarios- what’s that about?” 
    29. “Action based” should be “action-based” 
    29. “Don’t count RP that is more action based, and less detailed than Para, so more can get done, especially in crowded (some people call these POPULAR) sims, but we call them UNPOPULAR.” 

    There is a lot to unpack here. Again, there is another unneeded comma and the sentence is another two sentences being crammed together. I think a semicolon will fix it right up. 

    “Don’t count RP that is more action-based and less detailed than Para so more can get done especially in crowded (some people call them POPULAR) sims; however, we call them UNPOPULAR. 
    29. Quality is not a proper noun, so I am not sure why it is being capitalized here. 
    29. Empty should be lowercase because it is a common noun. 

    30. There’s a lot of mistakes in there, but reading the opinion makes my brain hurt. -5

    32.  One entire run-on sentence. 

    33. “Middle aged’ should be “middle-aged” 

    34. “They all need events to reach customers and grow! Learn for once, Lana!” Two sentences shoved together.

    35. “DON’T FADE IT in order to create a nice paint effect.” I think the verbs weren’t quite matching the action. 

    38. “Cypher, just to let you know..” Here is that pesky direct address again, guys! 
    38. Run-on sentence 
    38. “Hell, all of your host” Hell is an interjection- it shows a strong emotion, so it gets a comma. 

    39. I agree! This is interesting because it falls under all sorts of logical fallacies! It could be considered an ad-hominem fallacy. An ad-hominem fallacy is committed when, rather than talking about the actual argument being made, an opponent directly attacks the person making the argument. It could also fall under snob appeal fallacy—i.e., the best arguments are by people who spell all words correctly. You misspelled a word in your argument; therefore, your argument is not a good argument. It also is a very blatant “red herring” or “non sequitur” meaning that their point is irrelevant for the validity of your argument, changing the subject. 

    That being said, that first sentence is missing a comma. It should be “If you are going to discredit an entire argument or person based on spelling alone, that means you are incredibly shallow and not intelligent enough to grasp complex concepts.  Also I would exchange “which” with “this” because it ties better to that person not understanding complex concepts so it reads “This just means that the person you are insulting is probably smarter than you.” You have to make those verbs match!  

    41.  “I will be the one to cut the puppet string, very soon both will know what I can bring!” That is a comma splice, it should be “string, and very”.
    41. There is a comma splice in the next sentence as well. “Thank me later for answering your prayers, and spoon she will see how no one cares.” 
    41. You added an unneeded comma. “Even the “Bliss’ful” bunny can’t save her” is a complete thought.  So that comma in front of “because” is unneeded because when the independent clause comes first, there is no comma between it and the dependent clause.
    41. Another sentence with a comma splice. A semicolon would keep the structural integrity.  “Remember Chan and that crush you had; even he called you hopeless, pathetic, and sad.” 
    41. One poet to another- I suggest workshopping line 11. My opinion? “Just to think she thought she had a chance but she’s really just a joke; now she feels my masterstroke.” 
    41. Nirvana is a proper noun.

    42. Self-awareness needs a hyphen. 

    43. “So we have reached the point in the SLRP Community where transgenders have begun a hate campaign against straight people? -This is a rhetorical question, so it needs a question mark at the end. 
    43. “Yeah, I get it.” Yeah is in an interjection. 
    43.  Fourth sentence doesn’t need the comma before “but” because it is a complex sentence but you started with the independent clause. 
    43. See this is interesting. I am very interested in the etymology of words. According to Conscious Style guide, it seems that transgender is one word while trans men and trans women are two words. So here is a situation where that pesky hyphen is unneeded. 

    That being said, whatever beef you have with this woman, she did not choose to be female. If you know any trans person, the experience of realizing they are in the wrong body and trying to correct it is a living hell they wish upon no one. Her choice would have been to simply be born in the correct body without the need for surgeries or hormones or targeted violence. 

     Your post is surface-level empathic but it clear that you have some real flaws in your understanding of transgender people and don’t really care about them or LGBTQ+ are going through. I’m sorry to kill Santa for you, but there is no place virtually or on this earth where you can escape racism, sexism, or the results of oppression. Where humans go, they will follow just as surely as the sun follows the moon. SL is deeply, deeply ingrained with racism- look at how Black avatars are targeted for abuse in trolling videos, the serious shortage in Black skins, and how many POC players for years went as white avatars as not to be abused. There have been case studies on racism in SL! A very interesting one I think you would like is: https://ispr.info/2009/11/01/the-curious-case-of-racism-in-second-life/

    You don’t have to care, literally there is no law that forces you to care unless you own a business, but if that person is so annoying just block them and stop submitting TERFy bullshit to Secrets. 

    44. “Do this look like one Virrick Husbands?” The verb is wrong here, husband is not a proper noun and the possessive “s” goes on the end of Virrick. it should be “Does this look like one of Virrick’s husbands?” 

    Spelling: 5
    Total Grade: 23/47
    Average: 51%

    • Bullshittery says

      10/12/2020 at 4:46 pm

      *clap clap*

    • Iamwhoiam says

      10/15/2020 at 5:44 am

       ? 

    • 2005 says

      10/16/2020 at 8:18 pm

      Always great to see this  ? 

  18. WhatIsYourDamageHeather says

    10/11/2020 at 10:41 pm

    2 – FFS, WE KNOW. Is your membership day count under 10?

    18 – I’d explain things like countries with different calendars and all, but the key point here is you’re yet another pissbrain who thinks they’re entitled to order shop owners to run sales. If your name ever got out, I’d bet money that you’d be banned from a goodly amount of stores on general principle.

    43 – I almost laughed, then I saw the most recent comment on this secret. Now I really am laughing. You are so typical, it’s pathetic. “Hate campaign against straights!!1!eleventy-one!!1!” Go kiss JK Rowling’s flat ass, would you? Swim there if you have to. PS: Ain’t nobody choosing to take the kind of vomit you’re spewing. You, however, can choose to be a better human. If you don’t try to swim to Scotland, you might want to try getting in touch with reality sometime.

  19. too gay and tired for this shit says

    10/11/2020 at 9:33 pm

    #43 sorry you called someone a tranny and got blasted for it, laura, but try being less of a raging bigot and you might have friends. heterophobia doesn’t exist and you’re just mad we all write better than you

  20. rudebeaches says

    10/11/2020 at 6:26 pm

    Just a reminder that not everyone who got nominated for bloggies, or wins them, gives a shit about the popularity contest or the award.

  21. Concerned says

    10/11/2020 at 5:12 pm

    #16- I worked with her once and I was so concerned. First of all what kind of fucking name is “Cummie”, and second of all why does he profile pic, which she uses on ALL her adboards, look like a beaten and abused child?

    • NotwhoyouthinkIamOrMaybeIam says

      10/11/2020 at 9:06 pm

      Because that’s what she likes to role play as, I’ve heard her say some real fucked up stuff on voice, heavy age play stuff. I’m sorry that you had the unfortunate experience of having to work with her.

      • Dumpling says

        10/11/2020 at 11:09 pm

        She is something else tbh

    • Bullshittery says

      10/11/2020 at 9:42 pm

      She is an age-player. I don’t just mean just the DD/LG kind. She has a child avatar for fucking. I caught her once on it with a guy, fucking around. I had reported it months ago, but she’s still here. She apparently had made this avatar for an ex. Now she’s fucking some ones boyfriend. That’s great.

      • Dumpling says

        10/11/2020 at 11:14 pm

        shes a bad actor of age play

    • Doesitmatter? says

      10/12/2020 at 9:34 am

      I know her too, she is a real piece of work…. Like that girl needs some serious therapy and probably meds. Unsubscribe to your Daddy issues already bitch its not cute anymore. Oh and god help the man who doesn’t want her hahaha she literally throws a fit like a 4 yr old. You know how you can sometimes tell when someone was dropped on their head as a baby? Yeah in her case I’m not so sure she was accidentally dropped. Pretty sure she was chucked at the wall. She really is something to to be pitied. I mean to be someone so pathetic is hard work. I envy all the people who have not met her. Oh to be blissful and unaware of the shit show that is Cummie.

  22. GTFO! says

    10/11/2020 at 5:02 pm

    #4. “Chaoticanarchist” says it all.
    #10. Soverna Gregoire has always been a dipshit.
    #32. Say what?? I don’t understand a word of any of that.
    #43. Social justice isn’t “justice.” It is the avenue where personal issues are turned into communal grievances for selfish motives.
    #46. and Every other Bloggie secret – these people are losers who have nothing else going for them in life. This is their biggest achievement and all that they’ll ever amount to. Way to go.  ?  ? 

    • WhatIsYourDamageHeather says

      10/11/2020 at 10:43 pm

      A few thousand human rights activists would say you’re wrong about social justice. Thanks for the laugh, though.

  23. NotwhoyouthinkIamOrMaybeIam says

    10/11/2020 at 5:00 pm

    #16 – It’s about damn time this girl got on here, though not for the reasons I thought she would, so since those weren’t stated, let me be the first. Her nasty ass voice (How could anyone put up with that for any length of time, she sounds like she spits when she talks and her unhealthy obsession that has most likely lead to her severe obesity with baja blast.) How she blatantly age plays in local voice chat, so it’s not even reportable. I’m curious what ex boyfriend she’s mad about because… I know someone who was fucking her ex boyfriend the whole ass time they were together *OOP* For real though, how are you and nya gonna fuck with Tyler behind crickets back, like that’s some ultimate betrayal, but at the end of the day, look at the way both of you act.

    I also know for a fact she copy bots most of that group does, and they are CONSTANTLY inspecting what other people are wearing to the point my friends and I completely change into something different around any of them because the next time we see them they’ll be wearing the exact same outfit, they don’t even try to change up the colours.

    Disgust and shame.

    • Bullshittery says

      10/11/2020 at 9:51 pm

      There are a lot of things not mentioned in the post. She has a child avatar that she fucks with. I walked in on it once. Apparently made for an ex. I wonder which one. I had reported it with pictures, but she is still here. I am not too sure which ex it was, but it’s well known that she fucks around too. Cricket apparently forgave her. Today, hours after this all was posted, Cricket posts her new socks, tagging Cummie in it personally. How anyone would take back a person after literally fucking around with their partner is beyond me. I don’t understand why she is even complaining about people fucking her exs. Friends we share have literally warned me to not introduce my partners to her because she likes to steal them. She already stole one of mine on an ALT she has no idea about before we became friends.

      • NotwhoyouthinkIamOrMaybeIam says

        10/12/2020 at 1:11 pm

        That’s sickening, I know all about Canon Lyric, unfortunately I’ve run into him, and he regularly tried to send inappropriate pictures until I finally blocked him, and by inappropriate I’m talking cartoon depictions of children. I’m not comfortable with that no matter the legality of it. I’ve had interactions with chubs as well and he seems alright, I mean I’ve never really gotten an age play vibe from him that wasn’t perpetuated by cummie forcing it upon him, like I felt like sometimes he was uncomfortable with the things she said and did but his need to not be alone kept him with her for as long as it did. I never understood their relationship. That’s disturbing that Cricket would forgive cummie over that, lets just hope the dappa guy is a bit more strong willed. What a damn shame. Cricket is a nice person that is surrounding her self by trash.

      • BecauseWeHaveActualLives says

        10/15/2020 at 4:25 pm

        This whole comment is proof that you people have not a single fucking clue what you’re talking about… lol.

      • Bullshittery says

        10/15/2020 at 11:49 pm

        You only know her factitious persona. It’s quite sad.

    • Dumpling says

      10/11/2020 at 11:08 pm

      I had a experience with her she legit told me that “cannon lyric was trolling me” when he told me i looked 14 and he found that hot and he found my voice younger and he said it made him “horny” and he would smash me right away.

      Idk if any 24 year old wants to get the laws to 15 legal to date him aka cannon is who i am talking about. Now tell me how is that trolling? i never understood cummie. she enables pedo behavior like Chubs and cannon lyric and it was so bad that she got banned from a sim called DDLG sim. but i will prob remember but its called that. and karma had to ban her because she would bring him chubs around and cannon lyric even though they fantasize children.

      Im sorry about the experiences you had with them

      • The Captain says

        10/12/2020 at 1:06 pm

        No big surprise about those 2. Canon and Chubz are grade-A pedophiles.

      • Eyeroll says

        10/13/2020 at 12:20 pm

        Dont forget Bishop. he is as well

      • sosueme says

        10/13/2020 at 11:35 pm

        and Pingu; ffs, honestly, who isn’t at this point?

      • Lol says

        10/14/2020 at 9:57 pm

        Pingu here, how exactly am I in this? Lol

      • BecauseWeHaveActualLives says

        10/15/2020 at 4:12 pm

        Because people with no lives like to talk about people they don’t know.

      • Bullshittery says

        10/15/2020 at 11:47 pm

        Again, I, myself, have known her for years. I can verify that the post is accurate. Are you not also insulting Cummie now? She, herself, has spoken about people she didn’t know. Spoken poorly about someone over an assumption she made. Started unwarranted drama and carried on passing false information despite valid and verified proof of the opposite. Doesn’t that also make her a person with no life? By your logic, yes. Cummie is known to steal men/women. She is known to cheat. She is known to use a child avatar for sexual purposes. She is known to start drama for her own amusement. She is also known to copybot. You only know her factitious persona. It’s quite sad.

    • Lmao says

      10/12/2020 at 1:49 am

      I had the unpleasantness of running into her in the wilderness at Love Actually (she was or is related to someone who works there) and she abruptly added her two cents to a local voice conversation I and a few others were having, and her voice physically hurt my ears. Not to mention she creeped the fuck outta me by making really weird comments like, “You’re really hot, I wonder what you look like naked.” Followed up by, “Oh I can de-render your dress and find out. Oooooo!” The noise she made, I can’t even replicate it on text. It was gross as all hell. I especially ultra cringed at the fact that she tried to be sexy making that noise, and kept ignoring the fact that I was ignoring her comments and advances for a reason. I cringe thinking about all of it. Just, no.

      • Doesitmatter? says

        10/12/2020 at 9:44 am

        She really is creepy!!!!! She tries to be hot or something and your just left standing there like ” ok train wreck not your station” It amazes me the amount of utter stupidity encased in that form. She thinks that men want her ( sadly some are stupid enough to) so it gives her an emboldened sense of desire. She simply can not fathom that they dont want her because she is worth something, they want her because she is such a simple slut that she will spread her legs for literally anything that pays attention to her. Like seriously bitch save yourself the trouble and just tie the mattress to your bacon back ass.

  24. Thisshit is funny says

    10/11/2020 at 4:36 pm

    #10 LOL.. This much ignorance doesn’t surprise me. Is there any man in SL that she didn’t obsess over?

    Sorvena Gregore, desperate, dumb and boring hag that probably hasn’t gotten laid in real life a decade. Clings onto any man that gives her 5 minutes attention and completely changes herself to try to please him before he realizes this is one insane, ugly old bag that he really should have let pass by because no man needs that much insanity in their lives.

    • That’s Hot! says

      10/14/2020 at 12:44 am

      Then they are a perfect match!

  25. Creepin says

    10/11/2020 at 4:29 pm

    #7 – i own and use Genus, catwa, and lelukta. they all have flaws when it comes to looks but at the end of the day stop bitching about catwa jsut admit you dont know how to shape it. ive seen catwa heads that i thought were genus or lelukta. you sit here buy a head and expect boom thats it not going to do nothing else to it. Hun BE CREATIVE instead of bitching. LEARN TO SHAPE YOUR HEAD and maybe just maybe you would find peace.

  26. Yesss says

    10/11/2020 at 4:26 pm

    #15 YES!!! THIS!!! The new Doux textures are horrible! Flat and boring colors and the hair does not nearly look as good. What is it with you creators? What is with the desire to mess up a great product and replace it with shit???? Bring back the old textures or at least give us an option to buy the old one instead of your new ones!!

    • Lmao says

      10/12/2020 at 1:51 am

      I feel like Doux is stuck in the past honestly. Their mesh and style has gotten better, sure, not by a whole lot though. Their textures have remained the same consistency for a while, too. This latest one somehow being worse.

    • TheDevil says

      10/12/2020 at 6:48 pm

      the poor man just had brain surgery for his epilepsy, and is slowly recovering….give the dude a break

  27. Bored says

    10/11/2020 at 4:24 pm

    I have a few minutes, why not.

    #1, 4, 9, 13, 16, 20, 21, 26, 32, 37, 41, 44, 45, 46 – Don’t know ’em, TLDR/don’t care anyway.

    #2 – I’m surprised it took this long for someone to use this here.

    #3 – Idk who this specifically refers to but you sound pretty self entitled. I’d look at more as, huh maybe this creator is overwhelmed or perhaps they’re not hitting that creative mark they really want because they feel stuck in a familiar rut. Idk, but they are people too and they are allowed to vent when needed.

    #5, 6, 11, 15, 19, 22, 28, 29, 31, 35, 40, 43, 47 – Don’t go there, don’t know anything about it, and/or I don’t care.

    #7 – Idk will any of you ever simply leave it at ‘This isn’t my style so I’m gonna move on and leave it alone.”?

    #8 – No idea who this is about but I’m almost impressed with the photo quality at least…the clarity and sharpness is refreshing for some reason.

    #10 – Yeah, seems tasteless, glad I don’t know ’em.

    #12 – Someone didn’t get a free gift or credit they wanted did they?

    #14, 23 & 39 – In most areas I agree that I’d prefer to individually help someone as opposed to just smear them because of simple mistakes, but there are some scenarios that this doesn’t apply to in which case…get thicker skin if this is a problem that’s really bothering you.

    #17 – Language barrier, I got nothin’.

    #18 – Here we go being self entitled again. For one thing, no creator/store ever is obligated to provide sales or gifts. For another thing, ‘Black Friday’ isn’t observed everywhere and so some creators really may not be aware. Unless you’re that person you don’t get the right to dictate whether they truly were too busy or not. RL happens, not to mention they’ve usually got 239048234 things going on in SL when they’re not dealing with RL. How about just be glad there are releases for you to buy, even if they’re at full price and not involved with some dumbass capitalist tradition?

    #24 – From what I can see here…not any other website…that is a photo I’d have tossed in the ‘not good enough, either edit more or take another photo’ pile if it were me so I don’t get it either, BUT I can only see the photo quality on this site, I haven’t seen the full photo, I don’t know what the intent was for the creation and maybe it’s just not my taste, doesn’t mean its awful or not someone else’s taste.

    #25 – Ah, where to begin. First of all, if you don’t like something don’t buy it. Second, if you’re looking for a specific set of earrings get looking for them, bet you’ll find them somewhere or at least something similar. If you specifically want this creator’s things, maybe send them a polite NC and ask? That all being said, I DO like the idea of huds I have with other items that allow you to hide specific pieces in a multipiece set. So you can mix and match without having to fight with the ‘only 38 attachments’ limit.

    #27 – Kind of like #24…maybe its just not your taste? Maybe you could give them constructive criticism or critiques in a polite way if you want to see something better. Maybe don’t follow them or look for their images, or just scroll/click past them? I’ll avoid the grammar nazi thing since that seems to have touched a couple of nerves recently but…it’s tempting.

    #30 – But…but…I don’t want to deal with my own business so I borrow others’! JK but that’s probably a driving factor to a lot of these, ijs.

    #33 – Entirely unrelated to the statement…what in the hell is going on in this image? Why?

    #34 – A couple of things here…remember a while back how folks were complaining a lot because it was so hard for new creators to get into events? Maybe that’s why mainstore releases are happening, either on purpose to stop promoting events or as a result of not being able to get in to events. Maybe if less focus is put on events and more to mainstore it WILL be a thing, give it a chance. The last thing I’ll say about this in particular though…does anybody else get ‘Scandalize’ vibes?

    #36 – Ouch, that’s not a good look.

    #38 – Interested to see if anyone comments about this…I don’t know Cypher personally but our circles have crossed paths from time to time.

    #42 – OK that’s just funny lmao

  28. Are You Daft? says

    10/11/2020 at 4:18 pm

    *43 Trans is as little of a choice as cis male or female. We are who we are and even if someone is trans that is not a ‘choice’ that is who they are just as you see your self as all mighty woman the mtf trans are also women and has that right to see them self as women just like you.
    Don’t be a cunt! This thing you wrote show that you hold hate against Trans so tell me how is it wrong for trans to hate you when you hold hate towards them already?

    • Sick of SL's Bullshit says

      10/11/2020 at 7:07 pm

      Like I told someone earlier. The OP was clearly sympathizing with the trans community but also calling them out on their bullshit. Your comment proves them right that you trans folk are all about playing victim against people who haven’t done anything to you. And choosing to go through ELECTIVE surgery to attain breasts and a vagina is a choice. Being born in the wrong body, not a choice but doing something about it, choice. OP said to get over yourselves. They didn’t say to go fuck yourselves. Learn to read, moron.

      • WhatIsYourDamageHeather says

        10/11/2020 at 10:47 pm

        The surgery eases or cures body dysphoria for many people. “Elective” means “it isn’t life-or-death.” That’s all. The necessary surgery people get to ease RSIs or get complex bone breaks pinned are also elective. Did they choose to get those injuries? Neither you nor the secret writer knows anything about being trans.

      • 2005 says

        10/12/2020 at 3:58 pm

        Lmao, yeah cuz wanting to be female or male while you’re the opposite is a fucking injury, Get the fuck over yourselves. Jesus, the crazy is fucking real.

      • Sig says

        10/13/2020 at 2:39 am

        I agree with OP. I really do not understand straight and / or cis people so I hate them. Not because of envy or anything like that. People are in general smelly turds set on fire and running around in circles so I dislike all of them and the queer ones a little less because they sparkle like me. In other words – no idea who OP is screaming about or what you are screaming about but I have no fucks left to give as they ran out in 90s. I assume fellow queer folks are equally tired of fighting wars so maybe it is time for holidays.

  29. Goji says

    10/11/2020 at 3:53 pm

    #18- Get over yourself, kid. Stores dont HAVE to give you a sale at all. Black friday is only really a thing in america, and it’s not even a proper holiday anyway.

    #41- Get help. you legit sat down and made a poem about how you hope someone fails? I dont even know this person or this sim and I think you’re coming across full criminal minds creepy. Find a therapist before the cops find that skinned cat in your freezer or something.

  30. You ain't shit either. says

    10/11/2020 at 3:49 pm

    2: The poster sounds like r/niceguy or r/nicegirl . Maybe if your dumb ass wasn’t online looking for pussy. You wouldn’t have to worry if the person behind the avatar is a man or woman. Log off shit-for-brains.
    4: Looks like you’ve encountered a r/niceguys.
    10: First off to the poster. You are awesome and please excuse the ” American Idiots ” who keeping thinking that Germany is still in the Nazi era.
    11: That type of shit has been going on in every roleplaying sim for years. Mind as well make your own sim or give up on roleplay.
    13: If he’s American.. that explains his ignorance. Majority of Americans are. EVEN after they travel the world.
    22: If you know your good at blogging. You don’t need a contest or judges. You don’t need anyone to tell you how good you are. I’ve always knew those blog contest are full of shit and rigged to the max. Don’t don’t waste your breath. If you got people who generally enjoy your blogs. That should be enough. You don’t need to prove how good you are to anyone.
    21: Stop giving her attention. If you’re generally disgusted with her. Remove yourself from that environment and from her. Go do your own thing.. surround yourself with like-minded people.
    43: Totally agree with that whole post. Well said.
    46: Yea he’s ” shocked” alright. Rigged contest right there.

    • WhatIsYourDamageHeather says

      10/11/2020 at 10:48 pm

      Gods, the trans-ignorant just love to kiss each others’ asses.

  31. Abfab Hax says

    10/11/2020 at 3:37 pm

    #30 – “Get it out of their system”??? Sounds like you need to be dragged behind a truck for a couple of miles ya godless fuck.

    • Iamwhoiam says

      10/15/2020 at 6:01 am

      wow

  32. viking says

    10/11/2020 at 3:29 pm

    Wow! So many this week, where to begin…
    #4 Yes, be the male you were bored as, or the female you were bored as, just as long as you’re bored… of this

    #10 Yes Nazis are deplorable, then and now, but at least back then the uniforms were amazing! But yeah, just because you remove the swastika, doesn’t make it “German”. Now if you were wearing lederhosen…

    #14, 23, 39 Someone’s really bent out of shape about having their grammar corrected, huh? Look, correcting the grammar doesn’t discount the argument. If you make a good point, great. There’s nobody saying that you’re not right because you fucked up a few words. But if your argument is “look how fucking smart I am and everyone else is so stupid”, then yes, fucking up your spelling does destroy your argument.

    #43 But is there really a “war” against straights? I mean, if one or two or even a dozen transgender people get mad at you about something, even if it is just the fact of your straightness, it’s not really a concerted effort on the part of all transgender people, is it? While you’re right that it’s tragic that they can’t live their lives freely, openly, without fear of discrimination or even violence, it’s also true that straight people have NEVER had to deal with anything close to that level of scrutiny or disdain, so maybe suck it up and be an ally instead of whining when you’re not their fucking champion for just treating them like human beings. Ok?

  33. Gross says

    10/11/2020 at 2:30 pm

    #18 No one owes you a Black Friday sale. Can you be any more entitled? All the weekend sales creator’s participate in weekly and your bitching about black Friday?

  34. Anonymous says

    10/11/2020 at 2:04 pm

    #31–I fully agree. She banned me from buying her avatars months ago and then when someone gave me her cat avatar, I realized I was banned and told the person that gave it to me. She chewed me out and threatened to tell staff of a sim she does not own I was “causing trouble” to try and get me banned from said sim. Newflash–they can see right through you.

  35. Nerdferatu says

    10/11/2020 at 1:58 pm

    The Bloggies are bullshit, and no one is really surprised to hear/know that.

    • Avery says

      10/11/2020 at 2:18 pm

      Yup for Douche bags anonymous that allready know them.

  36. Boom says

    10/11/2020 at 1:53 pm

    #44 yep he is a straight-up stay at home slut as someone else commented on here. When i was still friends with him i made a new look once and he was all over me.. He was like “I really wanna get fucked by you, but *Virrick* (he said his real name, which i won’t mention here though.) is not at work yet” … So yeah we didn’t fuck but he certainly did want it XD

  37. karma#1 says

    10/11/2020 at 1:51 pm

    known her a very long time an this girl is the biggest door knob on sl, she will flirt an do any guy who is taken an smile behind your back friend or not. her voice is so annoying an bad sounding aswell. grow tf up an stop trying to be a babygirl that you suck so badly at

    • 2005 says

      10/12/2020 at 4:02 pm

      It’s AND, it’s a three letter fucking word. use it properly. Fucking morons can’t even spell a 3 letter word.

      • Iamwhoiam says

        10/15/2020 at 6:00 am

         ? 

  38. Analytical Asshole says

    10/11/2020 at 1:47 pm

    #44 sounds like a classic case of someone being butthurt here and rejected that they weren’t in the picture. Really? The dudes are clothed?!! Might need to go get you some real action if you got to watch lol.

    • Laughing says

      10/11/2020 at 10:44 pm

      Its called cheating Mr Asshole. If his husbands not giving him the attention he needs, then why he with them? Don’t claim to be closed when they all cheating on each other. If you gonna be a hoe then claim it, dont lie.

  39. Yeah Yeah says

    10/11/2020 at 1:44 pm

    #7 I wear a catwa head and I don’t have a problem, it’s not the head it’s about the shape that gives it a certain look. If you have a sunken in cheek, big lip and eyes shape then it’s going to look like a botox victim.

    #!2 I blog for Belle Epoque and she has been so nice, she likes my photos on flickr and her stuff is so gorgerous, sounds like someone is jealous.

    #22 I totally agree, and every year I see the same person nominated for the youtube category that doesn’t vlog or blog anymore and yet she still gets nominated.

  40. your hater#1 says

    10/11/2020 at 1:44 pm

    #16

  41. BlessedT says

    10/11/2020 at 1:30 pm

    DAVID COOPER has the BEST quality hair by far. He puts out new hair often. Basically gives you the equivalent to a fatpack for HALF the price of what other hair creators would give. Built in hairbases, the entire color hud, the entire styling hud all for under 500. Even dark hair has texture and shine. OTHER HAIR CREATORS ON THE OTHER HAND make you choose which color you want. You get one group of colors for 300-400 on average. Want all the colors? Prepare to pay 1000+ for a fatpack. THEREFORE BLESS YOU DAVID COOPER for giving us everything for half the price and actually making wearable hair with realistic hairlines. The new color hud is fine. The dark colors just have different tinted shine options but all the same old colors are still there. I don’t take up for creators often but don’t ruin what we have with good creators

    • Just stop says

      10/12/2020 at 7:40 am

      You tell them girl

  42. Laughinatcha says

    10/11/2020 at 1:21 pm

    Dang y’all bloggers get even uglier when a pixel award is mentioned. Holy cow… this is why I don’t even deal with blogs……..

  43. SorryNotSorry says

    10/11/2020 at 1:18 pm

    #32 these two are lying people! They conniving idiots! Carlos thinks he is “all that” with his lame youtube channel and Pam OMG the little bitch! Don’t get me started on her. They need to be exposed! They think they are above everyone else! I would not be surprised if she does have copybot items.

  44. Brill says

    10/11/2020 at 1:16 pm

    #15 Doux is as bad as Magika with her brown-ass roots. It makes no sense for most of the colors and is unwearable. Stopped buying from both because of it.

    • Hmm says

      10/11/2020 at 1:41 pm

      I don’t have an issues with Magika I love her hair.

      • Busty St. Clair says

        10/11/2020 at 1:43 pm

        Me too. She’s my go to hair.

    • Lisa says

      10/11/2020 at 4:47 pm

      Magika her colors are nice but her hair is so boring. No styles, no options, no nothing. They used to be nice and different but now they are all the same.

      Exile hasnt put out anything decent in a long time. Most hairs are just insane and not wearable at all and the colors are zzzzz.

      Truth stopped making good hairs long ago imo.

      Stealthic is good, but not enough colors to choose from per hud.

      Doux was my go to for all hair but the new colors are ugly and I stopped buying their hair because of that.

  45. Realistic says

    10/11/2020 at 1:11 pm

    People correcting my grammar and spelling isn’t offensive to me. I’m too lazy or busy to proof read. I fully acknowledge my human fallibility, and it clearly doesn’t bother me enough to do anything about it. I find it interesting that people are so offended by it. Do they not realize they can make mistakes?

    • Realistic says

      10/11/2020 at 1:17 pm

      Oh, I just looked at it’s “proofread”. So I’ll correct myself and save you the bother.

  46. Downwithunderboob says

    10/11/2020 at 1:04 pm

    I’m not going to do a number by number breakdown because I’m lazy.

    Bloggies: Irrelevant, just the same as every other competition/contest in SL. It’s just an opportunity for people lacking in self-esteem to try to pump up their egos or for those who already have overweening egos but can’t seem to fill a vast void inside of themselves. Who even votes anyway? They already know who’s going to win because they pick them (and it’s always the same old boring bloggers). Anyone who thinks any kind of SL voting is legit is naive.

    Naria: Again, you’re letting the woman live inside your head way too much. That long-term, consistent rage you’re feeling isn’t good for your blood pressure. If you’re looking to Second Life to be the guidepost for inclusion and sensitivity and all the happy fee-fees (kumbaya), that train left the station the day SL opened. I’m a bit of an SJW in real life, but even I know it’s a losing battle to try to fight this stuff in SL.

    Grammar police: I’ll admit I stop reading any posts with run-on sentences, garbled grammar, and poor spelling because that stuff gives me a headache. I’m a former college English instructor. If you, as a writer (or in this case bitcher), can’t provide coherency, you won’t get your message across. #32 is a classic example. Maybe there’s a language barrier there, but it’s still a jumbled mess.

    Do people not even know templates exist? FFS, a significant percentage of clothing stores put out are from templates. Most events are full of that crap (I’m so tired of that one formal dress that pools at the ankles. Everyone’s worked that one to death). We all know who the “designers” are that rely solely on templates. I give kudos to those who take templates and make something unique out of them beyond slapping on a texture.

    To those who commented last week about my name, I think #28 qualifies as thunderboob. I hereby give my approval to anyone wanting to use that as their name in SL.  ? 

  47. Smh says

    10/11/2020 at 1:00 pm

    Designers and creators do not owe you a single fucking thing. Stop being greedy and making demands as a consumer. You get what they choose to give you and that’s it. If you don’t like it, go shop elsewhere. Most designers wont be hurt to lose you pretentious, self-absorbed, entitled, small-brained children. Better yet, go open up your own store for a few months and come on back to discuss how you feel about it then. Cry baby consumers like you are part of are why designers stop creating or take long breaks… ya’ll are too much to deal with. How about showing some appreciation or respect for your favorite creators, instead of barking orders and crying because you have to pay full-price. Do you go after RL designers like this? Please tell me you’re calling up Gucci demanding half price/deep discounts and to have their products sold at Walmart!

    • Downwithunderboob says

      10/11/2020 at 1:06 pm

      Even Gucci has stores at outlet malls. Just sayin’.

      • Smh says

        10/11/2020 at 1:17 pm

        Fair point. But outlet stores aren’t always that much cheaper and tend to be older models/designs, and even irregulars. SL consumers seem to demand new designs almost on a weekly basis and at the holidays we’re going to see posts about designers not having free gifts and how selfish they are for doing gift card sales or something instead.

    • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

      10/11/2020 at 1:27 pm

      Very little makes me cringe harder than people begging for gifts or sales, shamelessly in the store groups sometimes even; just pathetic. At least this person knows their sense of entitlement is shameful and posted it anonymously.

    • Bored says

      10/11/2020 at 4:27 pm

      Right on! Like come on, put yourself in the creator’s shoes and then see how you might feel about it. Put your paci back in and quit bitchin (not you, the self entitled folks).

  48. Chad says

    10/11/2020 at 12:50 pm

    #41 STFU Yanna, no one cares.

  49. TeaDrinker says

    10/11/2020 at 12:48 pm

    #43 You need to slow your roll. Transwomen do not hate “straight” women (by which I assume you meant cisgender women). Are they envious? Sure. Can you blame them?

    Being transgender is NOT a choice. No more than being born with grey eyes or kinky hair or breasts prone to cancer or being gay. It is a reality of their existence that they desperately want to change. I am not a transwoman, I am a cis woman who is engaged to a transwoman. I can tell you, without a doubt, that my fiancé would never have chosen to be trans. If she could be cis male or female, she would choose that in a heartbeat. She has known since she was a child that everything about her body was wrong, a prison she was trapped in. No one chooses to be trans… coming out as transgender is a first step to finding peace and freedom in their own skin.

    Please try reading some literature or public forums written by transgender humans so you can understand and not post disgusting things like comparing transwomen to white supremacists.

    JFC.

    • viking says

      10/11/2020 at 3:35 pm

      Exactly. It disgusted me that this person would equate this kind of thing to people fearing what they don’t understand, as if somehow straights are under attack. This makes the same kind of sense as the War on Christmas and persecution of Christians (I mean, after the Roman Empire days when it actually did happen, but not for at least 1500 years, so…)

  50. Yawn-a says

    10/11/2020 at 12:47 pm

    #41 hey yanna, stop hitting yourself.

  51. Lmao says

    10/11/2020 at 12:43 pm

    #35 Step 1 is completely wrong. 9.5 times out of 10 the image MUST be stolen from Google images or Deviantart. I have yet to see something that isn’t stolen, even from popular & “legitimate” tattoo places.

  52. bagoflemons says

    10/11/2020 at 12:35 pm

    Leave NutBusterz alone D:

  53. Jessica Orlando says

    10/11/2020 at 12:27 pm

    #20 Not sure why Genus allows that one of their store managers (or whatever she does, I don’t really care) gets involved actively into harassing/bullying people. Even if it’s a dumb contest/award. Wonder how would she feel if people started a campaign to kick her out of her “job” for this kind of attitude, wich is totally wrong at this point.

    • I Sit and Watch..and I Know Things says

      10/11/2020 at 1:28 pm

      She’s no longer a CSR for Genus. She stepped down due to RL a week or two ago. Definitely within the past month.

      • Jessica Orlando says

        10/11/2020 at 1:34 pm

        She still is admin in their Discord though, so definetely still working for them. But aside that, it’s still not ok to watch people keep with this public harassment.

      • Crymson Marder says

        10/11/2020 at 2:25 pm

        I just want to specify that my professional ties have been cut as of Oct 1, 2020 with everything except my business partner Tristan Careless. (Thank you to “I know things”) You are welcome to call me anything else you would like, but my voice is my own and I use my own platform to discuss it.

        I still show up on the discord for the same reason I show up on Rama’s discord and a few others – because I have helped to build these servers and I am here to make changes as requested for free. Which is precisely why I have kept my tirades to FB.

        Now please, feel free to resume calling me a bully. I will let Tristan know he should prepare for your campaign to get me fired – I am sure his response will be far less polite and objective than mine.

      • Jessica Orlando says

        10/11/2020 at 2:32 pm

        Good for you then, couldn’t care less who you’re working for or not, that wasn’t my point. You’re participating in public harassment and cyber-bullying someone who keeps refusing to engage in a fight a group of you keep having against her. You’re so full of shit if you think anything justifies what you guys are doing.

      • Crymson Marder says

        10/11/2020 at 3:07 pm

        Totally. The people I’ve talked down from panic attacks as a direct result of Naria’s behavior may beg to differ but…yup, I’m a big mean full of shit meanie.

        I know what it’s like to be in a toxic relationship so I am sympathetic to what you must think of me. Know that my IM is open and you are welcome to reach out. I’ll not continue to bore the good people of these forums with my long-winded thoughts – that’s what FB is for. ♡

      • Jessica Orlando says

        10/11/2020 at 3:18 pm

        Yeah, and I guess you’re some kind of licensed doctor/psycologist who has experience treating people under this situations? And oh, on the internet. Sure Crymson… Honestly, I doubt highly Naria has caused panic attacks on anyone. My experience with people on the internet, specially the ones like you who love bullying people is that they over-exagerate stuff and play victims in order to ruin other people’s reputation and twist things the way they want.

        If you want to keep conversations private through IMs, then don’t make public posts on FB for everyone to see. Don’t act like you have some kind of superior morals, when at the end of the day you’re bullying people, you’re part of the problem too, and you should be called like everyone else for your actions.

        Or perhaps we should talk with the ultimate diva… I mean… was it your mom?

        ffs

      • Zephyr says

        10/11/2020 at 8:22 pm

        Ya really need to stop using that word. Calling out Transpobes and racists is not being a bully you just don’t like it when your precious lord and savior is being called out and seen for what she is. There is a lot of people in SL who do not like Naria and the fact you are fighting this hard is hilarious

        Perhaps you have too much time on your hands to simp for someone who doesn’t deserve to be on the bloggies. I mean if you didn’t why make this long ass thread on Secrets and argue with Crymson?

        And FYI I’m not. You part of that Community ? No then you don’t get to deem weather nor not it was blown out of proportion. 🙂

      • Jessica Orlando says

        10/11/2020 at 8:34 pm

        Trying to twist the situation, manipulate and post screens on public, and demonize someone it’s in fact bullying and harassment. Don’t try to turn it around on me, it’s not going to work. There’s a lot of people on SL, you’re right, who also don’t give a fuck about your group. You’re the same people every week trying to start the same fight on FB, and you’re getting nothing.

        I have the same time on my hands as you have to defend Crymson and her gang of bullies and harassers. As long as they keep starting crap in public, there will be people who will tell them to shut up.

      • Pocketsand says

        10/12/2020 at 8:21 am

        I can only hope there are people out there who aren’t literal human garbage that recieve the amount of dedicated energy you devote to speaking the good gospel about Naria. There’s definately a reason she’s on here week after week and it’s not because she’s a delight to encounter.

        I’m sure someday this will all come back and bite you guys in the asses. That usually seems to be the case with anyone who decides to get tangled up with her it seems.

      • Jessica Orlando says

        10/12/2020 at 9:01 am

        No more human garbage than the bullies and harassers that keep trying to stirr shit every week on FB. The only reason “she’s here week after week” is because the bunch of you keep trying to refloat a drama that is done and over since more than a month ago.

      • Pocketsand says

        10/12/2020 at 3:27 pm

        Oh I’m fairly certain this is one of the only if not first time I’ve ever spoken up about Naria on this site ever, so nice try. And if you think people have a gross dislike of her because of this current fiasco only, you’re deluded; because Naria is practically a VS topic standby at this point. She’s been blasted on here for years. You don’t get to play the innocent victim card and act the way she does (she just sends her “fans” or alts to do it for her so she can sit back and enjoy the chaos since it’s the only way for her to stay relevant).

        There’s a handful of reasons she’s disliked among a lot of store and event owners and those reasons usually fall back to her being an absolutely abhorrent individual. She contributes nothing of worth to the SL landscape and if she drops off the grid tomorrow, it would be a boon not to have her haunting the doorsteps of anyone’s sim any longer. One day her inflated ego will catch up with her and she’ll anger the wrong person in SL. When that happens, I’m sure the people rushing to her fabricated defense like you do will be useless.

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        10/13/2020 at 2:50 am

        Damn, I hope that dumbass vlogger twat is paying you to suck her ass on the secrets this week. Otherwise, you’re doing it for fun, and what does that say about you?

      • Whatever says

        10/11/2020 at 3:52 pm

        So where is your proof ? When did u add bully, narcissist and transphobic to the mix of it all Crymson? Why are u describing yourself.
        The only bully is you as you are the only one still posting on facebook : https://gyazo.com/8ea2f991c17df5b4c9e78382e5d6ba15
        Maybe ask Genus for your job back as you have too much time on your hands or maybe ask your husband to get u some good dick as you might be missing some.
        pathetic

      • Jessica prefers racism says

        10/11/2020 at 3:12 pm

        Jessica, what is amusing is the fact you are saying that this person is consistently cyber bullying. The irony in this is that you are saying that one person is saying something about someone apparently you have a connection to or would gladly suck the shit from their asshole if asked. But thing I find amusing is you are upset about this person saying something about this other person but you are not as upset about the fact that it has arisen. In a period of time where racism, bigotry and BLM is riding high and becoming a boiling point you have no view on the fact maybe this is necessary? I can only assume that the person you are all talking about is someone you either respect or feel is correct in the statements they have said. You seem very much on your high horse that cyber bullying is bad, which I don’t think this person is doing anymore then the typical protestor today speaking out on the rights and liberties of any race or person not respectfully getting the same position as another.

        I would like to end on this comment here. quoted from your own stupid pea brain.
        “You’re so full of shit if you think anything justifies what you guys are doing.”

        The thing is, do you feel that BLM is justified? Do you feel that the nation and world fighting for the idea that every one is equal is justified? Do you feel that anything is justified unless you dont agree with it? See Jessica, what you need to get inside your head there cupcake, is that racism is an issue and has been an issue for so long that its be placated and over looked and accepted in society. I am sorry that you are so numb to the idea that you cant see its wrong and that people do need to be spoken out on when they do it. People in the media, movies, tv, radio, public figures and celebrities all have been getting hit with this. I don’t know why you would think that someone as even unimportant and ignorant as a Youtube wana be attention whore would not be on the same list as anyone else. People just are not aware of what they do and they think its fine unless they get caught. Its not until they get caught. *Gasps* Then I didnt think it would ever offend someone.

        Jessica wake the fuck up. We dont live in the 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, or 90s anymore. The people are waking up and seeing the injustice and bullshit. Maybe you need to check your self bitch.

      • Jessica Orlando says

        10/11/2020 at 6:27 pm

        I honestly don’t consider their comments about a digital product racism. I’m sorry if it offends you, but racism is a way more serious thing than saying a 3D product looks bad. You’re so easily offended, it’s sad, really.

        Joke is on you if you think that just for trying to accuse me of something, without knowing me at all, you’re going to turn it into a reality. That’s what cyber bullies and harassers do, you’re just proving me right.

      • TIFRYBFWNSFBWYTMOTMFSWYTDWRABFBOLBABICUTAIGBTFOYB says

        10/11/2020 at 3:34 pm

        She’s really not though…. Bullying would be what Norvampa does, getting her droves of simps, and idiot bigots, to go and attack, flag, harrass, false copy strike and say whatever derogatory comments she and her cult deem necessary to tear others down.. Many are not just tired of her shit.. it’d be one thing if she said from the incident that occurred 2 months ago.. that she’s “racist” and left.. but she chose NOT TO.. and WILLFULLY chose to keep egging things on.. expanding the list of people that she wanted to attack. At this point people are either ignoring her.. or continuing to stand up against her.. and if standing up for yourself is being a bully.. oh fucking well.. she made her idiotic bed.. as did her sycophantic followers…

      • Jessica Orlando says

        10/11/2020 at 3:42 pm

        Perhaps people are ignoring YOU and not her. Because some people don’t want to engage into stupid dramas like this?

      • Zephyr says

        10/11/2020 at 2:47 pm

        How is calling out someone for Transphobia, Racism and Homophobia bullying? I think friend you need to look up the definitions of that word

        Naria is a racist and is a Transphobe and people like that should have no place in anything in SL and in RL her being in a different country or whatever doesn’t excuse her refusal to listen to anyone who corrects and trys to educate her in a respectful way.

        But Crymson is the bully for pointing out how fucked this is.

        Mkay but birds of a feather flock together and anyone who supports Naria is a racist. Full Stop. Naria doesn’t wish to change her behavior. She shouldn’t be rewarded for tearing people down.

        But Idk maybe I am just another hater who wasn’t around for the latest bit of bullshit she has stirred the pot with.

        Oh wait I was.  ? 

      • Jessica Orlando says

        10/11/2020 at 6:10 pm

        You are over-exagerating a situation that happened more than a month ago, that she alredy apologized for. It wasn’t even her making those comments, and you people keep going and going and going every week. You keep posting screens of private conversations to fuel a fight she’s said several times she’s done with. When people try twisting the situations just for the sake of drama, because they don’t get what they want (Which I suppose is making her disappear from SL) that’s BULLYING and HARASSMENT.

        Racism, transphobia, homophobia are very serious acusations you’re dropping on others so lightly. You people are obsessed with flagging people because you have very miserable lifes and need a target to vent and rage about to release some stress. Honestly there’re horrible things happening in the world I wonder why you don’t raise your voice about the stuff that really matters instead of stupid shit on a game on the internet.

        Anyone who supports Crymson is a bully and a harasser then. Sucks for you.

      • DumbAssesOnSLSecrets says

        10/13/2020 at 5:34 am

        Naria isn’t racist, pull off the middle-aged fat white women tropes, stay in your corner/lane with BLM while the rest of us roll our eyes Karen…

        And let me say this: this transphobia shit is too much. Honestly, trans-gender is very very strange and I am not going to hate on a person for being that way but lets be honest here, quit whining if they are looked at askance by some and shrug and move on. This isn’t some civil-rights issue idiot.

        Before you know it, you idiots will all be saying a girl who can’t cum without a dognot in her vagina needs some sort of tribute month against all the ‘bestialphobes’. Or even pedophobia, oh wait, we already have NAMBLA…

      • John Smith says

        10/13/2020 at 3:59 pm

        My dude, what is with the reaching here? No person who is fighting racism or for equality in their right mind is fighting for Bestiality or even pedophilia. We just want Naria to see the light and realize what she did was wrong, and what she and Timm may find as humorous others find blatantly gross and absolutely dehumanizing. You need to chill on your delusions my dude.

      • you guys have an obsession problem says

        10/16/2020 at 6:56 pm

        Good for you, stop watching and paying her attention then. Accept there’re different people in the world with different personalities and ways to see everything, including “humor”. If I don’t like something, I’m not all f. day paying attention to it.

      • Well, actually says

        10/15/2020 at 10:10 am

        And the SL Beaten-To-Death Fallacy of the Year goes to…. YOU!
        Congratulations, you learned your lines well! Here’s your celebratory tinfoil hat. It prevents dem trans people from scaring you. Cheers!

      • Just stop says

        10/12/2020 at 10:38 am

        Listen I don’t know any of these people on a personal level but The thing theI do know is that Naria shouldn’t be awarded when she has a full blown series based on trolling and tearing down people and creators aka bitching at events. This isn’t humor and this is the definition of bulling. She doesn’t have the right to do that and she can be really mean with her “humorous critiques” sometimes. I don’t know how she didn’t see herself getting called out for this but it’s not okayy

      • Jessica Orlando says

        10/12/2020 at 12:43 pm

        https://i.gyazo.com/1396d87c61140c0ee13b626b66374448.png

        Crymson is the one who should stop, she can’t keep Naria’s name out of her FB not a single day. She’s so butthurt it smells from this side of the planet. Not only isn’t enough harassing Naria, but now she’s opening a campaign to boycott brands… She’s ridiculous.

        Meanwhile Naria hasn’t said a f. single thing in public about anyone. But sure, Naria is to blame.You’re all pathetic.

      • Crymson Marder says

        10/12/2020 at 3:27 pm

        So you will screenshot my post but can’t interact with me directly. Is it possible that you are mistaking me for a “bully” because you are scared to confront me?

        As for whomever got banned, I can count on one hand who I have banned from discord that isn’t a bot. If you wish to remain anonymous, you’ve chosen a bit of a silly way to do so.

        In the end, we all know that Naria could make me look like a fool in an instant by actually owning her behavior, and yet – it’s easier for you to denounce me (who is being rather sassy, I will admit) than denounce hate.

        Interesting that all of these people are here to engage with you, educate you, and check on you – and yet, Naria does continue to say nothing except in her safe place (of which I get screenshots delivered to me). Does she not want to support you? Is she so terrified by my “bullying” that she will not stand up for herself or her friends?

      • Naria Panthar says

        10/12/2020 at 3:42 pm

        Jessica Orlando just don’t bother with this people anymore … not worth it 🙂 … come to discord and let’s have some fun an leave this miserable twats alone. Image being so invested into Second Life your pisssed about a virtual award show hah

      • Whatever says

        10/13/2020 at 2:59 am

        That’s the spirit – fuck the Keren’s of Second Life

      • Iamwhoiam says

        10/15/2020 at 6:16 am

        LOL (at you)

      • Just stop says

        10/12/2020 at 8:06 pm

        I’m not defending anybody here I’m just saying that this behavior shouldn’t be awarded.
        And yes some of us might not be invested in secondlife that much but there are others who are too invested in it because it’s all they have.
        If someone was hurt by a comment you made you don’t get to decide if it’s hurtful or not you just apologize and say that you didn’t mean to hurt them and take accountability for it.
        And no I’m not only talking about the victor situation, I’m speaking generally .

    • Dragon says

      10/11/2020 at 4:59 pm

      Crimson is a complete bitch. She banned me from the Genus discord because I dared to say that the new heads that were coming out looked nearly like the existing ones. She claimed I was “spreading bad opinions and negativity.”

      • Jessica Orlando says

        10/11/2020 at 7:01 pm

        Guess she can’t take honest opinions of a product that isn’t even hers. She should step down the throne she put herself on alone.

  54. CAsH says

    10/11/2020 at 12:24 pm

    6. Again CC is not boring to the majority of us there and they have a website where you can send complaints. While I agree the club is open too much and should only open one night a week, I think you should put in a request on the website if you want change. Also I agree that DJ Bull had fun parties that were out in the open and for everyone and was still in character

    • WhoSaysWho says

      10/12/2020 at 4:13 pm

      isn’t the club privately owned? and i believe there is two clubs one IC and one OOC the club is there for you to go have fun, don’t like it? don’t go simple

  55. Constance Dogood says

    10/11/2020 at 12:17 pm

    20) This is the second person I’ve seen have a melt down over the Bloggies. The average person knows they’re rigged and no one really gives a fuck about them.

    24) Flickr has baffled me for a long time. It’s pretty much a numbers game. People that take shitty pictures get hundreds of likes and praise. Edgy pictures and sexual pictures mostly, but it always has to be of a certain type. Edgy usually means a really pale woman with mismatched eyes and a shitload of tattoos, scars and or piercings. Sexual usually means one of the many bimbo bodies fucking a giant muscleman. I wonder are people just liking this shit because it’s popular and they can get likes back.

    30) I was with you until the age play part. I really don’t care about who’s fucking who, I’m still waiting for someone to drop that bomb about Legacy or some good creator tea. I suppose putting pedos on blast has its place, but sheesh.

    33) Pretty accurate. An Afro and the darkest Glam Affair skin and they’re a sista. LOL it’s one of the weirdest things about SL and it never goes much deeper than that.

    • Constance Dogood says

      10/11/2020 at 5:02 pm

      I meant Legacy in general, but perky might be one of the skeletons in their closet.

  56. Myth Buster says

    10/11/2020 at 12:16 pm

    #44 If you wanna be a whore Virrick Just be a whore stop acting like you are in a closed Relationship. We all know Mateo forced you into a 3way Relationship cuz he’s a stay at home slut

    • Atonement Watch says

      10/11/2020 at 4:15 pm

      I fucked Virrick a few weeks ago; afterwards he cried for an hour about how his “husbands” are neglecting him. Very unattractive. Mateo is dumb. Tom is a slut. Virrick is whiney bitch.

      Enjoying sipping this tea.

      • Laughing says

        10/11/2020 at 10:54 pm

        Its really sad that Virrick’s Husbands don’t want him but just put up with him, while they go fuck with other guys. They should all just be friends with benefits. Cause none of them know what the word “Faithful” means. Instead of faith family,, they should all be called the Slut Family lol

  57. Busty St. Clair says

    10/11/2020 at 12:12 pm

    #41. Really? We’re targeting Yanna now? You really are pathetic, secret writer.

    • typhoid says

      10/11/2020 at 12:25 pm

      How stupid do you have to be to recognize that Yanna wrote this herself?

      • Yawn-a says

        10/11/2020 at 1:29 pm

        glad someone else sees it.

      • Busty St. Clair says

        10/11/2020 at 1:47 pm

        I personally have no issues with her. But I do see where you’re coming from.

  58. Lady Lumps says

    10/11/2020 at 12:12 pm

    It’s truly amazing how the word pedo gets thrown around so easily! That’s a very serious allegation you’re making about someone!

  59. Alecks says

    10/11/2020 at 11:53 am

    30. The problem with letting people indulge in their pedo fantasies can cause these people to seek more of it eventually in real life, they shoulk seek help not think pretend adults is fine

    • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

      10/11/2020 at 1:23 pm

      Yeah, and telling themselves “well everyone does it” is textbook low intelligence rationalization, like the opposite of a “hot take”. Actually, everyone doesn’t do it. If you do, you shouldn’t use that to make yourself feel better about being turned on by the thought of victimizing children, animals or any of that vile shit 30 was talking about. There’s no evidence that allowing pedophiles or zoophiles to act out their fantasies virtually makes them less likely to do it for real, and some evidence to the contrary, though it is also not conclusive.

      • too gay and tired for this shit says

        10/11/2020 at 9:46 pm

        ^ see response to op

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        10/12/2020 at 2:46 am

        First of all I’m gonna have to see your citation for the claim that “most actual psychotherapists” would advise that creating a visual representation of a child to get raped, or raping visual representations of children, is effective as a means of “working out trauma”. That sounds like a bunch of rationalizing bullshit. In fact, in some places doing so is actually illegal under child pornography laws.

        Secondly, the SL platform is owned by a company that makes you agree not to do those things in order to use their property, so anyone doing so should lose access to SL permanently. Anyone who disagrees deserves to have their own property used against their express wishes, so unless you’d agree to a bunch of disrespectful strangers in your home fucking your shit up, maybe have some respect for things that belong to others.

    • too gay and tired for this shit says

      10/11/2020 at 9:45 pm

      “pedo fantasies” often come about as a response to trauma, and leaving this sort of thing untreated is what creates cycles of child sexual abuse. most actual psychotherapists(you know, professionals? not you sitting in your computer chair talking out your ass?) counsel people with these kind of urges to work them out in a constructive or non-damaging way, and one such method can be role-playing the traumatic event with a partner, or in a virtual space on second life.

      normalization is a concern in mass media, sure, but this is two people on the internet pretending to bump uglies, sis. this isn’t gonna push the overton window anywhere

  60. Jenni says

    10/11/2020 at 11:49 am

    #38 lmaoooo whoever keeps spreading this shit about me and cypher, you clearly have no life. He is like a best friend. I guess male and female can’t be friends without you jealous bitches thinking other stuff. I hope my name taste good in your mouth.

    • One of his victims says

      10/12/2020 at 4:08 pm

      Maybe you were not, but I was. So was his girl Trixe over at Havoc and 808. Last I heard he was back with the person she was on the outs she worked with @ Havoc as her host at Buddha Bar. Rumor had it from her mouth Varra loved Trixie too and was fully aware of it all. Was gonna move in with Trixie in RL at some point too and he was moving to the US. Of course I don’t know her personally but that’s the rumor you know how that shit goes. It maybe false but, hell it’s his SL get the fuck over it, if these chicks wanna be fucked by him. Their choice. They wanted to think he loved em all. We all know he doesn’t it’s just pixel and voice sex to him he don’t love any of us.

      • Nya says

        10/14/2020 at 5:45 pm

        You can’t call your self his victim with no proof and did you even read your message its very confusing BUT DONT CALL YOUR SELF HIS VICTIM IF YOU HAVE NO PROOF I do not know why people cant leave people alone who are happy like go get ya own happiness stop trying to make others suffer did he tell you no is that why your a victim?

      • One of his victims says

        10/15/2020 at 5:07 am

        No, honey he didn’t tell me no. Just like he didn’t tell Trixie no, and others. He loves them all. It’s ok he can do what he want’s to do. I was dumb and fell for the lines of BS. He loved me like he did Varra etc. etc. It’s all good lesson learned of what his idea of poly is and that I won’t make that mistake again. I don’t need to prove it. I know it happened by posting pictures to appease your need for drama. Trixie knows it happened she fell for the same BS and Varra is fully aware.

      • Trixie says

        10/15/2020 at 12:19 pm

        How about not pulling me into this. I don’t need to be included in your list. I have nothing to do with it anymore and would like it to stay that way. I have moved on and suggest you do as well instead of being petty as hell.

      • Nya says

        10/15/2020 at 12:25 pm

        I know for a fact the only one Varra knew about was Trixie Varra don’t know about anyone else being listed or claiming to been with him and it aint drama if it’s the truth and if he told you he loved you as much as he did Varra well i wonder how much he don’t love her cause as far as I know poly aint there relationship Varra don’t play that I know she loves him more then anything and now I’m rethinking on how he really feels about her so if the shit is true take it to Varra cause the only females she knows about is Kitten and Trixie and trust she was no one bit pleased when she first found out about Trixie

  61. Vilrath Rage says

    10/11/2020 at 11:46 am

    #36 Items come from a full perm mesh store, off course there will be similarities…..

    • Well says

      10/11/2020 at 12:18 pm

      People are just reaching, these shops are doing everything legal. People need to check better before they post things that can destroy someone.

      • Vilrath Rage says

        10/11/2020 at 12:28 pm

        Completely agreed. Deep down, I hope it was one of these store owners who made the secret, how hilarious would that be. All you have to do is search for bunny headphones and instantly see how many of these are out there.. Weird secret!

      • Brill says

        10/11/2020 at 1:19 pm

        Nothing weird about it when it is the exact same mesh. Please don’t comment if you have no idea about those websites selling full perm mesh, or even inworld mesh template sellers. It’s obvious what those creators did.

      • Vilrath Rage says

        10/11/2020 at 1:39 pm

        Uhm, did you not read my first comment?

      • Well says

        10/11/2020 at 2:27 pm

        Uhm did you read what she said. Or….? Omg lol, I just can’t!

  62. lol says

    10/11/2020 at 11:44 am

    #37 who are her alts? JFC she just got adopted by my friends.

    • Ikr says

      10/11/2020 at 7:37 pm

      Right? Like.. why not name the alts?

    • Pepper says

      10/12/2020 at 5:53 am

      Prolly bluffing in hopes to cause drama

  63. Nobody important says

    10/11/2020 at 11:40 am

    Cant believe Dave FINALLY got put on here. Man’s got some serious issues

    • Nobody important says

      10/11/2020 at 6:49 pm

      10

    • That’s Hot! says

      10/14/2020 at 12:36 am

      Dave is a fucking loser!

  64. Cake says

    10/11/2020 at 11:37 am

    What’s with #2 and #43 being transphobic as fuck?

    • there we go again says

      10/11/2020 at 12:33 pm

      There’s a lot of straight men not only in SL, but all over the internet… pretending to be female to troll people or take advantage of other males, or try to get close to vulnerable women trying to act like a friend. It’s not transphobia, that’s a completely different thing. A trans woman/man will always come clear to the front about it. The problem is hiding it.

      • Cake says

        10/11/2020 at 9:54 pm

        You’re ignoring how there are some people who aren’t sure yet, switch gender presentation sometimes, etc. You’re confusing catfishing for an endemic issue, making a mountain out of a molehill and blanketing everyone else with that idea. That’s not how it works.

    • Lmao says

      10/11/2020 at 12:44 pm

      I’ll never understand people being transphobic on SL where there’s a large community of transgender individuals. I’d say it’s just a result of ignorance and bigotry.

      • Aino Yamata says

        10/11/2020 at 12:52 pm

        SL is extremely transphobic. I am transracial and people laugh at me when I tell them, and tell me I can’t be Asian even though I am dressing like one and I got surgery to make my eyes more shaped like them. It’s extremely offensive to my feelings, they don’t consider them at all, they say “what about the Asian’s” and I say “what about me?!” What about my pain??? Deep down inside, I have always known I was Asian ever since I was as little and started reading anime… it just FELT right, you know?? The more I learned about the different Asian cultures the more I realized that I am Asian . Right now it’s seen as “offensive” but more of us are standing up for our rights to exist. In the meantime, I’m just going to keep being a proud Yamato woman and hopefully the rest of you ignorant assholes catch up ??

      • Lmao says

        10/11/2020 at 3:29 pm

        Yeah, no, that’s pretty fucking stupid.

      • Aino Yamata says

        10/11/2020 at 4:48 pm

        I know!! They’re totally ignorant for being so transphobic, just because you do not understand doesn’t mean it’s not real! My identity is as valid as anyone else’s, the fact that I even have to say that shows how much further we have to go. I will continue to advocate for trans acceptance for all my brothers and sisters who were born into the wrong bodies. Sayonara to the closed mindedness is what I say

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        10/13/2020 at 12:20 pm

        There’s no such thing as racial dysphoria because there’s no such thing as different races of humans, on a genetic level. All the differences we use to separate ourselves are either cultural or simple evolutionary response to the climate your ancestors came from, nothing more. You’re being facetious and insulting to people who suffer actual body dysphoria. Not liking how you look is much simpler than that, and I have no doubt someone like you is as ugly on the outside as you are on the inside.

      • GTFO! says

        10/11/2020 at 4:34 pm

        Is this a joke?

      • Lmao says

        10/12/2020 at 2:03 am

        Either a troll or a legitimately stupid person.

      • WhatIsYourDamageHeather says

        10/11/2020 at 10:59 pm

        Transracialism is not a valid psychiatric condition. You’re co-opting transgender issues and language to justify being a weeaboo with more money than sense. You can’t even specify which Asian culture you think you really belong to. That’s erasure of their diversity. I assure you, you are still white as snow and twice as ignorant. Own the culture you were denied by accident of birth and ONLY that culture, warts and all, and maybe you’ll start seeing you’re romanticizing the whole thing.

      • Aino Yamata says

        10/11/2020 at 11:41 pm

        I’ll have you know I was born black, but that shouldn’t matter, as long as I can remember I have identified as Asian — Japanese to be specific. I have always felt like I did not belong, and the moment I began my journey into another culture, I felt finally like I was home inside of myself. I felt like I finally “got” what was different about me. I got my eye surgery done in 2014 and honestly it was the best decision I ever made. I have never felt more like my true self, inside and out. I use skin bleaches I purchase online from Japanese websites, it’s the same products they’re using. I’m not hurting anyone, none of us are, that are apart of this trans racial community. There are many of us, and I find solace in the support groups I find for them. I would have thought someone that claims to stand for trans rights wouldn’t be so bigoted but there it is. Transracialism and racial dysphoria is a real thing, you can talk down to us all you want but you will be on the wrong side of history.
        The fact you think this is a fetish? Makes me sick. All I want is to live my life as I identify myself, it hurts literally nobody, but pieces of trash like you just can’t wait to jump all over someone and tear them down. I hope you feel really good about yourself.

        Mata ne

    • Sippin In The Background says

      10/11/2020 at 12:48 pm

      In the same breath they sympathize and call it a choice that they should just deal with as part of said choice…. are you fn kidding me lol. maybe they should shut their mouth and actually listen to a trans person’s experience instead of crying like a baby that someone didn’t like them. I’m willing to bet whoever in the LGBTQ+ community doesn’t like the poster… probably saw their phobia a mile away.

    • Sick of SL's Bullshit says

      10/11/2020 at 1:15 pm

      I don’t see how #43 is being transphobic by calling trans people out on their shit. They clearly sympathize with trans people in the post or did you ignore that part?

      • Cake says

        10/11/2020 at 9:51 pm

        It was awful and no, there’s no real sympathy there. There’s a person whining and disliking trans people, and unable to separate a person’s actions from their identity.

        If only there were some way to talk to these secret-makers about how intersectionality exists and would’ve applied here perfectly… nah. They wouldn’t listen to me.

  65. Vrooomm says

    10/15/2020 at 10:45 am

    Biker Clubs are below no matter what else in any possible word. But apart from that I agree…

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