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Virtual-Secrets, Week 581

10/13/2019 · kesseret ·

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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.


Welcome to Virtual-Secrets, week 581.

I wasn’t sure about talking about this because it hurts too much. My partner in crime, Lourdes Denimore, has passed away. I will not tolerate any comments regarding her. I’ve already seen some come in and I’ve deleted them. Lourdes would have delighted in them (as she always did) but I cannot handle it. No matter what you think about her she was very important to me. I spent the better part of 12 years speaking to her on a daily basis. When I was too sad, due to the loss of my Mom, she took over posting secrets for me. When she wanted to focus on personal things I took over posting. This secret was submitted last week, but I wasn’t ready to post it.

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I love you, girl…

 

 

 

 

 

 

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  1. Siren says

    10/18/2019 at 1:12 pm

    The Red Car Secret for those who want to know was in short, some guy trying to say he got this great red sports car to people in SL. Truth of the matter was he google images searched it and it was BS.

    I think I may be missing a few things on it but I can not find the week that secret was in.

    There is my random for the day.

    • me says

      10/18/2019 at 2:29 pm

      lol ty … i tried to find the comment but ended up getting busy and forgot about it.
      good lookin out xD

    • Just saying... says

      10/18/2019 at 2:35 pm

      That was the Crow guy one, wasn’t it? Maybe we should have Sam meet up with that idiot. They can keep each other busy, seeing who can tell the biggest lies.

    • ihaveoneofthosetoo says

      10/18/2019 at 5:57 pm

      Thank ya for the 411 ?

  2. me says

    10/17/2019 at 8:31 pm

    random .. i just have a feeling the blank posts are trying to accumulatively add up to the red car secret. xD i could be wrong but all added up its getting close.

    • Ihaveoneofthosetoo says

      10/18/2019 at 12:50 am

      What is the red car secret?

  3. me says

    10/17/2019 at 8:19 pm

    i hope she saves all these blank posts.. for when you decide to call the cops on yourself for harassment, Loca.

  4. A Girl Has No Name says

    10/17/2019 at 1:08 am

    #6- I want too laugh at this but I can’t because clearly whoever made this is salty af. Let them be happy and keep living their best pixel lives if that’s what it means to them. The thing is if all of this is true then Katie will either see it herself at some point or she’ll pretend not too see it in order to prove a point.

  5. Slingshot says

    10/16/2019 at 8:45 pm

    Samantha, Donald Trump called. He wants you to join his Twitter Team.

    • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

      10/17/2019 at 1:18 pm

      There is something seriously wrong with you. There are more blank comments from you than real comments from any other single person this week. You need the kind of help only a doctor can provide.

    • me says

      10/17/2019 at 2:36 pm

      xD
      stop blindly flirting with grandpa Sam..please.

    • Slingshot says

      10/17/2019 at 6:01 pm

      I feel a certain emptiness in your comments. To me they lack substance and clarity. Can you be more specific?

  6. me says

    10/16/2019 at 5:04 pm

    lmao i love that you answer your own questions xD

  7. Just saying... says

    10/16/2019 at 11:18 am

    Seriously?? Still?! No one can see your comments, they are totally blank, so you have no voice here any longer Sam. Just go away, rant on your demented blog about us with all your silly little lies and stop coming to this site. Or you can go back to Reddit, as Kess mentioned or, if you didn’t get banned, SL forums, since you did so well over there, getting your crazy ass roasted on the weekend.

    • Just saying... says

      10/16/2019 at 11:57 am

      Poor, sad, crazy, mentally deranged Sam. Your comments are blank, as I said previously, you lost your voice here. Now be a good little wakadoo and go toddle off into a deep dark corner where you belong and leave the nice people here alone.

    • Horror Gallery says

      10/16/2019 at 1:24 pm

      You keep allowing yourself to get carried away, time and time again. Geezus. Let it go. Stop this insanity. You will not be heard at all, ever, if you keep going on the way you have. You really are not, helping yourself. Drink wine, chill, watch a movie, something other than this.

    • Pocketsand says

      10/16/2019 at 3:46 pm

      Gosh, I hope she does. I had a laugh riot with some mates after I gave them the link to the thread. Everyone was picking their favorite quotes. One of them was in disbelief it wasn’t some elaborate troll until the rest of us assured them it wasn’t. One of them and their partner had a minor run-in with her insanity in the past. Another mutual acquaintance of ours is a bit of a lech, but even he wanted nothing to do with her when they’d met because she’s nuts.

      They’re all part of the rp community and it’s a fairly well-known bit of trivia globally that Sam is Looney Tunes. Yet she’s unconvinced she’s the problem and why she’s banned usually or even pre-banned.

      The irony is, it has nothing to do with VS, or if it does, it only has to do with how she’s conducted herself on here. Sim owners typically don’t give a rat’s ass about the actual secrets posted here between players; it’s usually dumb petty stuff. She, on the other hand, ruined herself.

      • ihaveoneofthosetoo says

        10/16/2019 at 4:46 pm

        Obviously, Sam P has some issues that if you have flipped some of her writing. Mentions of not taking medication, etc. Justifying stalking (her words) and now stating she’s the Jeffree Star (did I spell that correct) of SL. Aside from being rubbernecker-staring-at-trainwreck-cause-I’m-human fascinating & dumbfounding it’s scary to see her struggle with the reality of her actions.

        No amount of reasoning seems to puncture a hole thru her thought process. She can’t see that it’s really not everyone else in her battles (tho I think there’s likely those who like to antagonize her). It’s not the multiple sims or websites she’s been banned from. When that sort of approach comes towards her she begins shouting in all caps and stops proofreading her posts before responding. It becomes a diatribe of emotions and thoughts smushed together and expelled.

        I don’t know what her diagnosis is, I have theories based on people I’ve known in my past- but maybe someone connected to her RL with influence will somehow come discover some of these situations online and convince her to seek help again.

        Sam if you read this- you’re not going to find happiness online. You’ve been trying, by your own account- for two decades.
        You seem to have artistic interests in art, and writing. The energy you have been putting into these other endeavors (fighting and concentrating on bad situations) could be redirected to your creative side. Time that goes into the forum posts, and here- reddit and blogs, imagine how you could flourish focusing that power to something aesthetic?

        Anyways. If anyone reads this far, love your loved ones, be kind to those who are cruel- you never know the darkness others are living in.

      • me says

        10/16/2019 at 5:09 pm

        she needs to be taken off the whole internet.. im not sure how that would be done.. but where did all of this even come from? no one posted a secret about her that im missed or anything. so strange

      • Pocketsand says

        10/16/2019 at 5:29 pm

        Probably bored and because she sees certain people she dislikes still posting on here so she assumes she needs to be here too so she can defend herself from future slights. She also can’t stand being told she’s barred from someplace even if she doesn’t like it there. Being kept out is maddening to her.

      • ihaveoneofthosetoo says

        10/16/2019 at 5:34 pm

        She went off this past weekend on the forums & it was a rollercoaster of some supporting her, some asking her to get off the computer, others confronting her with her past behavior, and it just continued on for several days till the lab locked it. There were a few attempts to derail the thread, but she’d always be led back to putting on an emotional exhibition. She somehow justifies her behavior- admits it with the word “stalking” and “harassment” and doesn’t seem to comprehend that it’s not healthy behavior.

        Since she’s been silenced her and banned from you-know-where again- she’s created a new blog to I guess make herself heard and its astounding how much writing is there, already.

      • Icantbelievethedipshits says

        10/16/2019 at 5:47 pm

        That thread has been deleted .. or it is hiding.

      • Just saying... says

        10/16/2019 at 7:44 pm

        It’s been fully deleted and I got the feeling it might have been LL that did it, since it did get very messy in the end there.

      • Icantbelievethedipshits says

        10/16/2019 at 8:30 pm

        I think so too. On her page I read on her page about Liyah that she is suspended. So it is possible LL did not like her interactions on forums and said fuck it and put the girl in a time out…

      • Siren says

        10/16/2019 at 5:41 pm

        No one did. She tried to post 2 secrets this week and Kess refused. She then went off with comments that none of us can see, the only one who can is Kess.
        So to be a ripe annoyance she kept going. Post after post.

      • Just saying... says

        10/16/2019 at 7:42 pm

        Actually, according to Kess, she did try to post a couple of secrets about herself but Kess wouldn’t do it.

      • Siren says

        10/16/2019 at 8:12 pm

        I thought that is what I said lol

      • Just saying... says

        10/17/2019 at 11:41 am

        I didn’t see your comment in time. Sorry about that. lol
        Btw, her blog page where she went off with more of her brand of nuttiness is now down. She appears to be at the erasing stage of her meltdown now.

      • Pocketsand says

        10/17/2019 at 4:52 pm

        Also looks like she deleted the bit on her blog calling herself the “Jeffree Star of SL.” Nothing like trying to convince everyone you’re not sure why you’re drowning in drama than by trying to compare yourself to one of the most over-dramatic and controversy laced people on YouTube.

        Sam, I know you’re lurking. Don’t look to the YouTube makeup community for any type of role model, it’s all cancer.

      • me says

        10/17/2019 at 8:28 pm

        so shes mad because she can’t post about herself? for herself to overreact at? and say that the internet (herself) is against her (herself)? and im on meds?? lol pshh

      • Pocketsand says

        10/16/2019 at 7:02 pm

        She’s stated a few times exactly what her disorder is, though I’m not sure if it’s appropriate to air that specific information here. I’ll just say that it’s genetic and that it makes one prone to a slew of issues.

      • Just saying... says

        10/16/2019 at 7:48 pm

        I have seen her mention the condition she suffers from, though I have also seen her expand it to other issues that are not known issues with that condition. (No, I’m not going to say what it is, since that could possibly be RL information and despite her doxxing her own ass, I’m not going to compound that further.)

    • Horsemask says

      10/17/2019 at 1:32 am

      Horsemask finds it funny that you keep trying for your comments to keep not showing up, horsemask things the men in white coats needs to take yo crazy ass away

  8. kesseret says

    10/16/2019 at 10:51 am

    Are you done ranting? Because this is the 7th ban evasion. Have you considered posting again on Reddit? They seemed sympathetic to you.

    • Siren says

      10/16/2019 at 11:38 am

      Oh my she still keeps trying! How cute.
      Btw thanks for the blog post, I am glad(not)you think I had a crush on you or wanted in your pants. I really don’t. I think personally you are disgusting and foul.

      As for the rest. You admitted on FB(which many of us now have those screen shots) that you are stalking me. You admitted you are not on meds.

      You want to say I slept with everyone and their brother, cool. I have a healthy look at sex and not repressed about it, I actually enjoy it. As for my husband, well he had a bigger sex life than me in SL.

      Call me all the names you want. All of this you keep spewing I do not need to edit or photoshopped, you are going publicly with all your insanity. Community forums SL, Your own blog, etc.

      You keep getting banned not because of me, you are being banned for you. You are harassed not because of me,I haven’t really been in world or online, so love to break your bubble, but this is all… you.

      Now as for thinking people who i care about are telling you that I am obsessed with you, aww how cute.

      I would tell you to stop, but you won’t. Though least do the community a favor, leave Kess alone. She lost her friend and your nonsense has consumed enough of her time and all here. Be the person you think you are and bugger off for a while.

      Kess, thank you again for the great conversations. Honestly you are refreshing to talk to. I can see why you had such a loyal friend in lourdes. And sincerely I am sorry for your loss.

      • Just saying... says

        10/16/2019 at 3:35 pm

        A quick update for you Siren. It turns out that the thread that someone was roasted in and was closed by a Linden, due to her going batshit in there, has been erased. It’s no longer available for viewing.

      • Siren says

        10/16/2019 at 3:57 pm

        Just saying thanks for the update! Still have the screen shots thankfully.

      • Icantbelievethedipshits says

        10/16/2019 at 4:54 pm

        Somehow her crap always gets “erased” . When she went off on reddit, when she went off on Twitter tagging a whole bunch of busy people and celebrities about stuff. She deletes everything after she makes a stink… heck even her first rant about vs then deleted after.

        She won’t ever keep anything up, for a long period. She justifies and says she can do what she wants…. can say what she wants harass whomever she wants because she has reasons… completely forgetting everyone has reasons for doing what they want too, no one wants to listen to her, no one has too…. just like she won’t listen to anyone here…

        She needs to get that thru her head. No one wants to get to know her, here… and soon enough most of the rp community at least on forums…. that read that crap… wont either.. and people talk…just saying

  9. Someone says

    10/16/2019 at 6:21 am

    Rest in peace, Lourdes. I’m sorry for your loss, kesseret. Hugs.

  10. me says

    10/15/2019 at 1:16 pm

    i can comment…. you can’t . xD

  11. Ihaveoneofthosetoo says

    10/15/2019 at 7:28 am

    ?#29 &#23 what’s your point? Dollars to donuts if you Google long enough the real world inspirations can be found & the later sets from 220 were cuter….

  12. Ihaveoneofthosetoo says

    10/15/2019 at 7:20 am

    I am sorry for the loss of your friend. May Lourdes be the stuff of the brightest, twinkling stardust in every night sky, & the warmth of the sunlight, making you smile- always with you.

  13. yousippedyourowntea says

    10/15/2019 at 4:08 am

    call the suicide number on your website. This site has caused pain to so many people, now you feel it and want empathy? You have no idea how many people have suffered, nor did you care until you suffered…you don’t know what folks are going through..you just laugh at their pain. Horrible person.

    • kesseret says

      10/15/2019 at 8:18 am

      @yousippedyourowntea and @stupid @ohmy: Few things: 1. use the same username. 2. I bet you are someone who talks about how they are so inclusive, kind, and a empathetic human being but what you really are is human garbage. Total human garbage. And I don’t say that about people. Except you. Human garbage.

    • me says

      10/15/2019 at 9:26 am

      if this site bothers you so much.. why come to it? No one forced anyone to be here.
      and note to the haters..
      IT IS VERY VERY VERY POSSIBLE TO NOT SHOW UP ON THIS SITE.
      nobody i know has ever been on here (a few stragglers i’ve seen while sim hopping but no friends)
      Do you know why that is?? Because i don’t associate with idiots..thots..losers..jealous chics..etc
      Prefer to hang out alone.. until you find people worthy of your time.. or end up here dealing with the trailer park bunch.

      * If you end up here stop blaming the site for it.. 99.9% of the time its your own fucking friends and fake family submitting the secrets. The guy/girl you’re so in love with that is fucking your SL bestie when you log. Downvote as you must but its because you can’t handle the fucking truth. No good people end up on this shit..lol none. Stop the blame game and take a look at yourselves. dumbasses
      * start directing your hate towards the people who are actually hating you… because if it wasn’t posted on this site it would be on facebook.. flickr.. discord.. or a number of other sites they make fun of you on… even while your standing right next to the person and they IM the person beside you to hate. wake up.

      Its crazy when the site trolls have more class this week than the cry babies who get caught up here because they were fucking household pets and their sl kids.
      Keep being trashy so we can laugh… every single week…of every single month… of every single year… at you. =) (because u morons don’t learn)

      • Siren says

        10/15/2019 at 10:01 am

        Well said!

      • Siren says

        10/15/2019 at 1:33 pm

        It’s the best damn tabloids there are! So yes @me seriously! 😀 And somedays we get Jerry Springer!

      • me says

        10/15/2019 at 1:42 pm

        you know whats funny.. growing up i was taught that springer is such a fake show.. but SL has proven that theory wrong xD

      • kesseret says

        10/15/2019 at 2:09 pm

        My friends were on Springer back around 1995. The story was based loosely on fact but exaggerated for a free vacation together. My friend was also made fun of on Talk Soup and my friend spent 15 years being angry with Greg Kinnear over it. You are right, Springer seems so fake but it is reality. The uninhibited kind of reality, same as with online interaction.

      • me says

        10/15/2019 at 2:24 pm

        mhm its what the world looks like under all the kardashian fakeness that doesn’t really exist as we’re fed it today.
        My brother was on Ricki Lake… we’re all a lil cray.

      • Siren says

        10/15/2019 at 5:28 pm

        I miss watching Jerry, especially when they did the weddings and cake got thrown!a Awe the days of side splitting cake throwing! Nostalgia.

      • me says

        10/15/2019 at 7:15 pm

        you know whats strange he now has a show as a judge. lol that dude is epic.
        or you can watch the guy from my neck of the woods.. caught in providence. Mr Caprio is everything.

      • PLEASE! says

        10/15/2019 at 9:46 pm

        I miss the Springer Dysfunctional Family Thanksgiving dinners, when they’re whacking each other with turkeys and whipping mashed potatoes in each others faces. Reminds me of my own family during the holidays. XD

      • PLEASE! says

        10/15/2019 at 9:52 pm

        It was no surprise to me when one of the neighborhood tramps showed up on Springer as a stripper wearing a wig in the late 90s to announce to her boyfriend that she was a lesbian in love with one of her stripper colleagues.

        A friend of mine’s mother was on another show in the audience, telling off someone on the stage; the guest got back at her by pointing out her egregrious lack of teeth. ?

    • Abfab Hax says

      10/15/2019 at 11:09 am

      “This site has caused pain to so many people” Sounds like the people who ALLOW this site to get under their skin need a “helper” human. You know a human that just stands by you and tells you what to look at and protects you from the bad guys on the internet. If would be ideal if adults could contain their own emotions and have control of their own actions, but based on what you stated they are too stupid to think for themselves. You should offer your services to those idiotic, crying adults. Be their internet “nanny” and protect them from all the bad guys in the world. Oh also….you are posting on this site. You do realize that right? So more than likely you are coming here every week and reading it. If you weren’t then you would not have not made that comment. That is how common sense works darling. Maybe you need a helper human too.

      • me says

        10/15/2019 at 2:50 pm

        love this

    • A-Kid says

      10/15/2019 at 4:37 pm

      Yeah. No.
      I’m not a fan of everything posted here and I don’t agree with everyone but I’m not human garbage and I’m not going to laugh about something like the death of a friend.

  14. Whatever says

    10/15/2019 at 3:52 am

    Sorry for your loss Kess!

    Lourdes will be missed.

    It is all fun and drama every week as we forget there are real people behind those names. So at least this week, lets all try to be nice! And next week we will continue with usual!

    • stupid says

      10/15/2019 at 3:59 am

      there is no fun in the drama these bitches caused..yea there are real people behind those that are slandered here too..forget about those? nope..kess hurts..fuck everyone else that this page hurt..karma

      • kesseret says

        10/15/2019 at 8:18 am

        @yousippedyourowntea and @stupid @ohmy: Few things: 1. use the same username. 2. I bet you are someone who talks about how they are so inclusive, kind, and a empathetic human being but what you really are is human garbage. Total human garbage. And I don’t say that about people. Except you. Human garbage.

      • Whatever says

        10/15/2019 at 8:43 am

        Its a game its not that serious Stupid. The page is here for entertainment nobody should take this as serious as you try to make it be. Just relax. How can you be so nasty and wish ill on someone who actually died? are u mental?

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        10/15/2019 at 7:58 pm

        Death isn’t karma you dumbfuck piece of shit; it’s just a fact of life. The fact that you think anyone should die for exposing you or anyone else’s fuckery- because almost no one innocent is slandered here, and the innocent ones don’t really care anyway- you are by far the most fucked up, hateful garbage person in these comments this week.

      • A-Kid says

        10/15/2019 at 8:44 pm

        Seriously. Thinking someone should die because they ran a site where virtual drama got discussed has got to be the sickest garbage I’ve heard. Karma would be drama turning on them, not death.

  15. welp.. says

    10/14/2019 at 5:56 pm

    How ironic, you have let people suffer on this page for years..never any facts, just all slander. You join in and add to peoples pain. Now your dear friend is dead, and you can’t even handle a single comment posted about it. Hypocrite much? What about all the people that are/have been falsely slandered on this page? hahaha so funny right? They didn’t have an option to turn commenting off. All these years..all’s you have done is enable small minded people..now I see why..you are also small minded. protect yourself and fuck everyone else. Ever thought that maybe this page isn’t good for anyone? I mean being as you can’t even take one comment?

    • Annie says

      10/15/2019 at 7:14 am

      No excuse to mock the dead, you evil pieces of trash don’t care about anyone.

      • Um.. says

        10/15/2019 at 7:41 am

        I don’t think they’re talking about Lourdes but about Kesseret. Also since when does being dead absolve you from any wrong doings? I’ve never understood that. That’s like saying “What about all the good things Hitler did” Now while he did a lot of amazing things, the bad things trump that by a landslide. Now I’m not equating Lourdes to Hitler, that’s just silly and not even close to being comparable. To some, especially those with a more delicate disposition (nothing wrong with that) Lourdes was a bully, and helped foster other bullies, and bully type behaviour. To some, they can’t quite grasp the fact that at the end of the day, SecondLife doesn’t matter. People’s opinions in here, don’t matter. We can all just log off and walk away. That doesn’t mean their feelings aren’t valid, but we are responsible for our own feelings and how we react to things, it’s also best to stop caring what other people think of you.

      • me says

        10/15/2019 at 9:35 am

        you do realize that Kess doesn’t create the secrets right???? are you that retarded???
        blame the site as you wish.. but the site didnt submit shit.. your friends do.

        and stop using the fucking word bully… you pathetic trash bags …. there are little kids in the world going to school who arent old enough to to know how to deal/cope with shit yet.. 50 year old ladies (using ladies as loose as their vaginas) can’t be bullied. ughh some of you are an embarrassment to the earth lol

      • OhMyLanta says

        10/15/2019 at 10:11 am

        Me, sweetheart, if you think bullying pertains to a specific age group, well, you’re far dafter than I thought.

        Yes, a person of a more mature age should have the wherewithal and common sense to be able to log off, but this is SL, where people aren’t the highest functioning of people. Most with some type of emotional disorder, who don’t exactly think clearly.

        Try leaving your own vapid head-space for a second and think of other people.

      • me says

        10/15/2019 at 1:25 pm

        it does pertain to a certain age group unless you’re disabled.. if you can’t handle your own as big kid you’re a fucking big baby.
        grow up.. i’ve got my own issues we all do.. the world doesn’t stop for any of us.. walk into reality.. if the site bothers you.. dont open it… if no one wants to be your friend in SL.. find another fucking game.
        I just can’t feel bad for fucking excuses… i have more fucking diagnosis than you can believe…and i still dont give a fuck.. i dont blame everyone else.. if im not happy somewhere.. i find a place i am happy..
        whiney fucks need to stay in bed all day. seriously

        only in SL you have fucking grown adults crying bully… the same adults who get mad at the site because someone posted a screenshot of them fucking a dog.. or dressed as a toddler daddy banging.. some of ya’ll need to be shamed.
        You can always tell the people who didn’t grow up in the hood.. fucking cry for everything.

      • Namenshamebabaay says

        10/15/2019 at 4:05 pm

        Ah shut up u 2 faced dick heads! U probably all posting here every sunday lmao. Soz for ur loss kez. Ignore lame asses.

    • kesseret says

      10/15/2019 at 8:23 am

      @yousippedyourowntea and @stupid @ohmy @welp: Few things: 1. use the same username. 2. I bet you are someone who talks about how they are so inclusive, kind, and a empathetic human being but what you really are is human garbage. Total human garbage. And I don’t say that about people. Except you. Human garbage.

      • OhMyLanta says

        10/15/2019 at 10:17 am

        Dafuq did I do? I’m am very much not yousipped, stupid, or welp.

        *so confused*

      • OhMyLanta says

        10/15/2019 at 11:39 am

        *hugs* It’s okay. You’re going through some stuff.

        Again. Sorry for your loss.

      • kesseret says

        10/15/2019 at 11:40 am

        Samantha,
        I’ve banned your IP 4 times today. When will you stop coming back? I’m doing you a favor because you clearly cannot handle life right now. Log off.

      • ihaveoneofthosetoo says

        10/15/2019 at 3:07 pm

        @kess – She won’t. She can’t. She can not stop herself. She’s been on the forums this past weekend, seemingly pretty happy with the responses she received until they started asking her to step away from the wifi, and then it turned into caps locking tirades of paranoia. I did find it humorous (so sue me) that she was making claims that this site doxxed her, when she’s had links to her RL FB up on her SL profile in the past (i peeked, sue me again). Finally a Linden came along & locked the thread.

        Until something bigger comes along for her to obsess over, she won’t be able to move on.

      • kesseret says

        10/15/2019 at 3:10 pm

        She also feels this site doxxed her because she posted her ID on this site. She took it upon herself to scan her state ID and post it on the Internet. I told her to remove it because she didn’t properly redact a crucial piece of identifying information. When I decided to scrub it from my site she got pissed off about it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯

      • Siren says

        10/15/2019 at 3:32 pm

        She posted her RL name, full name here! On VS. I was shocked when I saw it. And she has no qualms messaging people on social media with her real name. She willingly posted that information for the SL world to see. But VS people get blamed for her willingly posting that on a gossip site.

        And FB. Using her real FB to go off on the VS FB page. Calling her family members out, her real family, to go after people.

        Doxxing, suuure…..

      • me says

        10/15/2019 at 7:23 pm

        lmaooooooooo shes blaming the site??? she even posted it on reddit..i wouldnt have believed it if i didnt see it myself. freakin coo coo clock.

      • A-Kid says

        10/15/2019 at 8:49 pm

        She doxxed herself and people tried to warn her but she wouldn’t listen, just babbled on about crap no one but her understood.

      • Siren says

        10/15/2019 at 9:08 pm

        A lot of people have tried to warn her. FB. Here. Inworld. Reddit I recall was vicious! LL even 24 hour banned her. People on the forums this weekend tried.
        Unless she is getting sympathy she goes into tantrums.

        As for all the places she has been banned, that I don’t know. With how her story changes from post to post there is not a good way to find out.

        There is that great saying that I feel Fits her “it is best to keep ones mouth shut and allow others to believe you are an idiot, than open it and remove all doubt.”

      • Pocketsand says

        10/15/2019 at 4:19 pm

        There’s nothing to feel guilty about when the human three ring circus puts on a public show and people watch. It’s entertaining.

    • Siren says

      10/15/2019 at 9:12 am

      Jesus christ are you dense? It’s a game,/or virtual world/social platform whatever you want to call SL,but for gods sake someone is dead in RL you mindless mouth breather!
      This is a tabloid page. Few take it seriously and those that do need mental help. But to mock the dead and those grieving her is outright blasphemy! Go back to your mommas basement and go be cruel elsewhere.

    • Abfab Hax says

      10/15/2019 at 11:15 am

      “They didn’t have an option to turn commenting off” Was the power button on their computer broke? Were they handcuff to their chair and had their eyelids forcible opened to view the comments? Grow the fuck up already and get a clue.

  16. Reese says

    10/14/2019 at 11:43 am

    Chris is a nasty, manipulative, back stabbing, lying POS
    He will screw over anyone to get what he wants, minced about being virtuous all while lying to everyone he knows, and worse things is, he does it to people loyal to him. Most of times finding things to cause trouble and make peoples hate them.
    He closes club, gets attention, reopens.
    He lie and cheats and Turns people again all he exes when they ALL do nothing, that on BOTH he Avis
    Awful man and only matter of time before he ended here.
    I pitys the friends he has cos won’t be long before he turns on you too. He need to go get a job and go offline for a while to reflect

    • Jane says

      10/14/2019 at 1:24 pm

      You really need to get a life and stop trying to hide behind your pc and be a coward. Chris really is the strongest and most honest person I know. You are wrong. Your hateful words will not be seen by him, as he has vowed not to read any more of these stupid messages. He does not need to get a job, he has a good life with the money he deserves and was owed for being made very ill by no fault of his own. This place is for the mentally unstable and ill-minded and that is exactly what you all are. He can close his club as many times as he wants because it is SL and not real life. He is not paying anyone a real wage, so try again with those comments. Reflect? he has reflected more times on the shitheads who really are worse than what you are saying about him. Stop being bitter and grow up and go sell yourself for pennies that you are worth. He will not be ended, he is going to stay on SL and keep his club. so you are not going to make any difference to his life by writing little words on a website. The power is his, to ignore you all and that is what he is doing already. Nice try little people. As for his ex’s well, you think they are perfect? come on now you and them have probably cheated so many times, we cannot count on fingers. POS getting down with the kids with your text talk, so adult of you. Have a great day or evening.
      peace.

  17. LOL says

    10/14/2019 at 11:13 am

    #8. LMAO

  18. OhMyLanta says

    10/14/2019 at 6:40 am

    1. This always made me chuckle.

    7. Honey, you’re not fucking anyone. You’re masturbating.. alone.. probably far away from this other person. They’re doing the same. You might be doing it together, on voice, even on cam, but you’re still alone. Lovense toys helps numb the pain a little, seeing as they’re interactive by your e-friend.. but you’re still masturbating.

    8. Why are you so concerned with someone else’s pretend life? Anyone’s RL =/= SL. We’re all here as slightly (or highly depending) dysfunctional humans. Why make it worse?

    9. 11. 14. 21. 24. 25. I really hope someone shows the original photographer her images and explain the profits she’s making. This deserves a major DMCA file.

    13. “Social climber” No one knows who the hell any of us are outside of these tiny virtual walls. There is no “social climbing”. We’re all slightly to highly dysfunctional humans. Some of us have been smarter to make money off of the rest of us. That’s it.

    17. Oh ffs.. not more events. Please. They’ve mostly been diluted to rubbish now that there’s so many.

    18. Because there’s too many events.

    20. I feel the same man, I feel the same.

    22. Nice free advertising.

    23. 220ml did it better imo.

    26. Is this from the next season of RuPaul’s Drag Race?

    27. I’m not sure if ESL, but I can’t understand any of your secrets. I am however extremely concerned about that dude’s hair. That’s not even a fashion mullet. WTF is that?

    29. Again 220 mls is better.. but file a DMCA against them already.

    Sorry for your loss.

    • Namenshamebabaay says

      10/17/2019 at 2:45 pm

      The images might be royality free dude if they are DMCA dont make a difference

  19. LOL says

    10/14/2019 at 12:30 am

    #7 LMAO

  20. Alexander says

    10/14/2019 at 12:13 am

    Normally I would make a list of each secret, talking about them, but not this week. I do not want to jump on the clout train as I never knew Lourdes, but I feel like we can all offer a moment of silence and some words.

    So, rest in paradise, Lourdes. Your journey on the planet Earth may have come to a close, with you leaving good friends, family, and kindred souls, your memories and the memories you provided others with will continue to nurture and thrive, giving us all a little smile when we think back to them.

    To fellow trolls, never disrespect the dead as that is beyond trolling and is nothing more than being a twat. That is crossing the line and is the lowest of the low. You can hate Lourdes with all your heart, but now is not the time to express that hatred.

  21. KT says

    10/13/2019 at 10:36 pm

    All of this stuff this week, Who cares it’s secondlife as a whole we are talking about, so it’s already at the lowest bar possible.

    • Blaise Glendevon says

      10/15/2019 at 12:37 am

      And yet, you’re here!

  22. IForgotMyUsernameImSorry says

    10/13/2019 at 10:14 pm

    Everyone,

    Follow your dreams.

    Lourdes,

    Enjoy your wings.

  23. Nicky says

    10/13/2019 at 9:59 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss Kess. You are an amazing person, so even though I did not speak to Lourdes, she had to be equally amazing for you to love her so much. I am sending you hugs and prayers through this difficult time. ❤

  24. St. Justice says

    10/13/2019 at 9:11 pm

    I didn’t know Lourdes very well,but ever since I happened upon this site, I’ve been hooked! Mainly because I’m just nosey lol. Kess,even though the posters on here are generally messy and toxic, you and Lourdes always left a positive impression on me, so thank you for sharing this,when you didnt have to,Sending lots of love and good vibes to you and her loved ones as you celebrate her legacy ?

    On another note: 28 is fine af. Lol

  25. Elle Couerblanc says

    10/13/2019 at 8:12 pm

    Kess,

    I am at a loss for words right now. You are in my thoughts.

    Love,
    Elle AKA Elizabeth

  26. kEk says

    10/13/2019 at 7:44 pm

    Tres Beau Poster:

    Yes, we get it. Submit something different next time instead of plugging Kesseret’s box full of your insistent bitching.

  27. Kayleigh says

    10/13/2019 at 7:43 pm

    Kesseret, I am truly deeply sorry for the loss of your dearest friend.

  28. PLEASE! says

    10/13/2019 at 6:52 pm

    Kesseret,

    I am truly sorry for the loss of your good, longtime friend. I have not been here that long, I don’t know you or anyone here really, but I am touched reading your announcement, thinking about what you must be going through. In light of this, I can’t make any other comments on secrets this week… but I will say this: friendship doesn’t end when one passes away; you found each other, and it was meant to be forever. When you miss her the most, think of her, talk to her. She will be there.

    May your heart be filled with comfort and peace in your happiest memories of Lourdes. ♥

    • ohmy says

      10/14/2019 at 11:35 pm

      no one cares..these bitches added so much hate to sl..kess needs to die too..all the hurt that she helped spread all these years and laughed at it..now she hurts..and we are supposed to care? get the fuck out of here

      • kesseret says

        10/15/2019 at 8:18 am

        @yousippedyourowntea and @stupid @ohmy: Few things: 1. use the same username. 2. I bet you are someone who talks about how they are so inclusive, kind, and a empathetic human being but what you really are is human garbage. Total human garbage. And I don’t say that about people. Except you. Human garbage.

      • kesseret says

        10/15/2019 at 8:22 am

        @yousippedyourowntea and @stupid @ohmy @Welp: Few things: 1. use the same username. 2. I bet you are someone who talks about how they are so inclusive, kind, and a empathetic human being but what you really are is human garbage. Total human garbage. And I don’t say that about people. Except you. Human garbage.

      • Siren says

        10/15/2019 at 9:18 am

        How dare you! Its SL you piece of trash not real life and to even say Kess needs to die is beyond despicable it’s out right, I honestly do not have words for your vileness. Don’t like what’s here, go away. It’s a tabloid no different than the star. So bugger off.

      • Just saying... says

        10/15/2019 at 12:05 pm

        @ohmy, just from your different responses here, and the vitriol that your piehole keeps spewing, you have obviously been here previously. Your own vitriol shows why you have been here and it was obviously deserved. If you didn’t like being here, then maybe you need to reflect on your personality and behavior because just from this comment alone, I can say with certainty, that you will be here again and you deserve it.
        As for Wingnut Sam, you have claimed on your different media platforms that you are over this site, and you claimed that you were bullied and that we lied. 1. It was probably someone you know who posted those secrets about you..look to your friend list. 2. If you act like a twat, expect to be treated as such. 3. Get over your insane obsession, you nutbar. I do believe all those secrets about you were true and your own actions have proven them right, over and over and you get the picture. @ohmy and @Sam P., both of you need to get a life.

      • Anonymous Content says

        10/15/2019 at 1:42 pm

        @ohmy: I’d call you a cunt, but you lack both the warmth and depth. Your comments are nothing short of purely disgusting. Go take a long, hard look at yourself in the mirror and think about just what you’ve said. Would you want those comments made about you? You’ll claim that you don’t care, but you do, because below the skin, we all care what people think about us.

      • Namenshamebabaay says

        10/17/2019 at 2:56 pm

        @ohmy wat a cunt u are. U get the fuck out of here n get a job u pig faced sweaty mong. U look like a fuckin tramp in ur profile LMAO. U got ur saggy tits out on cam through SL that’s on u the hate u get no one here. Ur a sweaty little.. wait no WIDE slut. Get off Ur chair if it ass isn’t stuck n get a life dude. U are in no right to tell someone to kill themselves n its completely shameful u can be that heartless to say that to someone who just lost someone. U are a dirty pig. ??????????? U need a shower, possibly with bleach. ???

      • Namenshamebabaay says

        10/17/2019 at 2:58 pm

        @ohmy wat a cunt u are. U get the fuck out of here n get a job u pig faced sweaty mong. U look like a fuckin tramp in ur profile LMAO. U got ur saggy tits out on cam through SL that’s on u the hate u get no one here. Ur a sweaty little.. wait no WIDE slut. Get off Ur chair if it ass isn’t stuck n get a life dude. U are in no right to tell someone to kill themselves n its completely shameful u can be that heartless to say that to someone who just lost someone. U are a dirty pig. U need a shower, possibly with bleach. ( o o )

  29. TalkToTheHand says

    10/13/2019 at 6:50 pm

    I am truly sorry for your loss. Lourdes will be missed. I am sending you good healing energies to help you through your loss. This site won’t be the same without her. Through all the drama from everyone every week this site has always been a great anonymous outlet for us all. If you ever need help or anything just reach out.

    • welp.. says

      10/14/2019 at 6:14 pm

      she’s not going to be missed..next week it will be forgotten about just like this weeks secrets

      • kesseret says

        10/15/2019 at 8:23 am

        @yousippedyourowntea and @stupid @ohmy @welp: Few things: 1. use the same username. 2. I bet you are someone who talks about how they are so inclusive, kind, and a empathetic human being but what you really are is human garbage. Total human garbage. And I don’t say that about people. Except you. Human garbage.

      • EyeBeeLurkin says

        10/16/2019 at 3:28 pm

        Not even garbage with actual substance really. You’re like that mystery garbage juice that pools at the bottom of the bag just hoping a sliver of cardboard will poke holes in your prison so you can get that slow drip all the way to the dump. For real though, f**k you.

  30. Spazzo says

    10/13/2019 at 6:40 pm

    #22 The word ‘ladge’ was created just for this!

  31. Yowza says

    10/13/2019 at 5:00 pm

    I am so sorry for this loss kess, RIP Lourdes.

  32. Really? says

    10/13/2019 at 4:15 pm

    I don’t understand why there is a second post with Lourdes wishing Kess a happy birthday if they passed? Not trying to harp on em. but if they did pass, my condolences, they may’ve sent it before. I still don’t believe anything this site says. You shouldn’t either.

    • kesseret says

      10/13/2019 at 4:26 pm

      She made that for me for my birthday probably 4, maybe 5 years ago. I was at a gunshow and sent her a pic of this ridiculous pink camo scarf. I bought it and sent it to her. When the world was ending she was to bring me Pantene and wave the scarf so I wouldn’t snipe her from my rooftops. We had a thing about pink camo.

      • Really? says

        10/13/2019 at 5:04 pm

        I’m sorry for you’re loss then. I don’t joke about death. at all. I may have my own problems with you personally running a site like this, but I refuse to make death into a joke. We all have our demonic issues going for us and at a time of loss, grieving is needed.Life isn’t a laughing matter. Nor is it funny . Death happens to be one of the more serious issues someone can go through and loss isn’t a joke on someones mind either. it sends them into a panic. PLEASE DO NOT let other people make a joke about this. it’s damaging to YOUR SOUL Personally, and as much as I dislike you, I refuse to see you suffer.I don’t want people hurting. and I hope to goodness sake, you don’t go through life with out knowing Lourdes is in a better place now. that she’s watching over you, and that people come in your life for a reason, to teach, care and love. I’m sorry for the battles we’ve had over the years. But I won’t make death a mockery, and I hope you can rest in peace yourself via you’re pain. Please accept my condolences respectfully.

        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvWfHIo5-kU this song helped me get through a painful loss. I hope it’ helps you honestly.

      • Really? says

        10/13/2019 at 5:23 pm

        There is too much pain in the world. too much loss as it is. instead of hate Id like to see people being kind to one another. especially at a time like this.<3 . Being able to remember who they were, that's special.

      • kesseret says

        10/13/2019 at 5:29 pm

        Thanks. But since you don’t like me or this site why are you even here? Consider yourself npc status.

      • Really? says

        10/13/2019 at 10:53 pm

        Because I’m sick of the rumors spreading that i’m even a bad person due to this site. please just do me a favor and take the time to realize there’s no reason to hate me but the person who put up false claims? Thanks. Ps. THERE IS NO REAL FE SABLE EVIDENCE I DID ANY OF THOSE THINGS EXCEPT STALK KIRO. due to this site Iv’e been harassed, tormented, and hated. I’ve done EVERYTHING To get people off my back, and I MEAN What I say when I said” I DO NOT MAKE DEATH A JOKE.” I’m someone who got put on this site because”SIREN.” Aka LIYAH got Jealous over me. if we’re calling out names here. She’s the one at fault. NOT me. go blame her, stop asking me about the drama I have NO CLUE in even.wanna fight me over something? How about the attacks on my name for TWO DAMNED YEARS for no real reason? that’s an argument I wanna discuss. Liyah has NOT ONCE told me WHY I was put up here actually in the first place, NOR does she have legit claim. YES I am Sam. but if you ban me, what’s the point? I figured out how to hide myself. YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND I AM NOT THE PERSON YOU HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT. just let me be and I’m a reasonable member until ya out me.

        IN SHORT: BACK OFF OF ME . LIYAH YOU AS WELL. DO NOT EVEN RESPOND BECAUSE I SURE AS HECK WON’T. Go a head call me cray-cray. GO A HEAD AND INSULT ME. you ALL Allowed SOMEONE who was MINDING HER OWN DAMNED BUSINESS in world, to GET SLANDERED, HARASSED OVER AN ISSUE I AM NOT EVEN BLOODY AWARE OF! NONE of the secrets are true! Only reason I stalked Kiro was to get HIM Off my back. it worked.why can’t the rest of you!?

        I MADE MISTAKES. LOTS OF THEM. I’m DEEPLY Regretful of them, and I AM SORRY for them. BUT I DO NOT DESERVE MY NAME HURT.OVER.PEOPLE.WHO.DON’T SHARE THE REAL ISSUE.

        Liyah Deloncroix IS A LIAR and has lied SO MUCH she’s banned in MORE SIMS then I have EVER BEEN. because WHY? SHE Slept with others. SHE Did the things. I am just a by standing escape goat and people aren’t realizing those photo’s aren’t even liable because THEY WERE EDITED. Uh, ask MM if ya got logs of me at the time. ASK THEM. THEY DON’T. NO ONE HAS LOGS OF ME IN NASD BECAUSE I WASN’T THERE. THEY ARE WRONG. WRONG.WRONG. AND I JUST WANT MY NAME CLEAR. Kess, if someone slandered you’re name you’d want it clear in real life? Right? LET ME MAKE MINE CLEAR AND I’LL GO AWAY.SIMPLE!

        ps. what the hecky hey did dragons have to do with anything? all I’ve ever done was Help Liyah and she betrayed my trust, online or not there IS people behind the dang screen. LIYAH IS SCUMMY. she’s slept with entire sims and THAT CAN BE PROVEN. it is HARD to get into my pants due to trust issues. YA HAPPY NOW? Im SORRY for making ya’ll go crazy about me. but I’ve been TRYING SINCE DAY ONE TO GET FACT OUT! LET PEOPLE PUT UP DEBUNK. I’m LONG over due.

        the site would be liked more even with the debunker. I KNOW I seem crazy right now even. BUT I AM SO SICK OF THE REAL PERSON NOT GETTING BLAMED FOR EVEN STARTING THIS. Liyah Deloncroix IS THE REASON I WAS PUT UP HERE.

      • Really? says

        10/13/2019 at 11:12 pm

        I just want left alone. I don’t want asked for proof she’ d have to edit. I DO NOT WANT INVOLVED. go blame her for the headaches. stop banning the person who actually does enjoy the website design a lot.All I’m asking for , is something to give with this. because I should NOT be on here. ps. I really do think Kess needs to re-evaluate her decision on making it unfair for those who have secrets to not debunk. PLEASE LET OTHERS SHARE THEIR SIDE. SO THE RIGHT PERSON WHO IS A LIAR CAN BE FOUND AND THE OTHER CAN BE AT PEACE. that’s the ONLY reason I’ve done the whole” I WANT CLEAR.” If the site actually allowed the person to debunk no one would be sending KESS hate mail! DMCAs ! ect! LET people tell their side.

      • Really? says

        10/13/2019 at 11:18 pm

        The only reason you had this escalate so far Kess, was I was never allowed to debunk my claims because LIYAH submitted false reports to you. she edited my notecards, and she KNOWS I DO NOT TEXT SPEAK. I find it rude to use”US.” in sentences unless poking fun at it. SORRY WRONG PERSON TO BAN! Try banning the crazy lady with a temper worse than mine over her getting told to change. NOT ME. I do not told to change because UNLIKE HER WEARING SILKS ALL THE TIME, SEE HER FLICKR. I DO ACTUALLY TIME PERIOD DRESS. compare our flickrs, I may have a few naughty shots up, and am working on one now, BUT I AM DONE DEBUNKING FALSE CLAIMS. I seriously will go away after this, if you keep the dang comments up. LET ME TELL THEM OTHERWISE, let others debunk false ones. DON’T JUST FEED INTO THE DRAMA.

        the site is fantastically made, try to be more fair to both parties. that’s all I want ! seriously, and LIYAH grow up! You have a FAMILY if anyone deserves to put anyone up here out of jealousy its ME TO YOU. I Don’t DO this though, WHY ? BECAUSE I AM NOT PATHETICALLY PETTY LIKE YOU! I may have issues, but clearly you have more than I will. I have been hurt in the past two years. LEAVE ME BE.

        ? ? ? ?

      • Really? says

        10/13/2019 at 11:24 pm

        ps. I’m a website forum coder. hence why I can appreciate at least the clean site design. AND How I know how sites work. I am not an idiot. I am tired of being treated like one because ONE girl couldn’t keep her panties in a damned bunch online on a virtual game when SHE HERSELF IS MARRIED AND IM SINGLE. you’d expect me to be humping bunnies but NO. I am old school. it takes a LOT to get me into bed. and still wonder what the hell my love of Dragons has to do with this?

        I also can count only about three men I’ve actually slept with in world, while I actually have had multiple men say they slept with Liyah.some rumors like that are probably false, but others like Alren Resident have also been actually CAUGHT by other women as well. Liyahs the scum. not me. not I. I am just trying to debunk. let me.

        because it physically destroyed me to hear people say that stuff about me in real life, I at least deserve to keep my name clear and off the drama site unless I DO DO actually stupid. the second I do, believe me, ILL GLADLY PUT MYSELF UP. I know you feel I’m screaming “VICTIM.” I AM NOT A VICTIM. But I AM someone who will smack a ho so to speak, if she dare talk about me the way she did.

        one more thing.. on the topic of escorting. I left escorting and C.R.E.A.M on my own. mostly. Why? because it’s nothing but ” BITCH BITCH NAG NAG!” it’s not worth it now that I can upload my own L. DO YOU NOT KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO UPLOAD L WHEN YOUR LIVING AT YOUR PARENTS HOUSE -AT THE TIME- ? VERY. I had to work for it ! I ran EIGHT ESCORT JOBS,dancing, doing cam to run those sims and NOT ONCE was I THANKED. it was give me more, more more! YET I NEVER COMPLAINED BE CAUSE IM A NICE PERSON!

        Instead they go do this. they treat me like I didn’t matter and expect to have me WALK AWAY FROM IT? NU UH NOT HOW I PLAY. I’m from Detroit originally. IF YOU DID THIS YOU GOT SMACKED IN THE FREAKING FACE. believe me. I’ve had to do that. I also brought a fat guy down for attempting to touch me. I am a FIVE FOOT NINE WOMAN. it is NOT incapable. DO NOT involve me in drama because I DO NOT care.only reason I cared this time was because I GOT FIRED OVER IT WITH JOBS AND POSITIONS I LOVE. I’m an ADULT. I expect BLUNT AND LOGICAL RESPONSES.

        leave.me. alone. let me be a normal goddanged member and LET KESS GRIEVE HER DANG LOSS. And Finally, I’d like to add one more debunker. I have worked for several places, ran several moderations where as Liyah has NOT ONCE but twice been fired for infidelity and more, infront of my own friends and LEFT sims un happy because SHE didn’t get a lead spot. I STAYED at the sim I was in until it shut down. I wanted a lead, yes. but I STILL want to earn my spot. I DO NOT SLEEP WITH OWNERS.

        why? because (gestures) this happens!

        Im a roleplayer. I am SOLOLY a roleplayer now. PLEASE LET ME DO WHAT I WANT TO DO AS LONG AS IT IS LEGAL. I am seriously not breaking the law by defending myself. I am not breaking the law by being single I MEAN COME ON GUYS HAVE A HEART! leave the woman (ME ) alone ! I REFUSE to have false claims on me because of the fact that I’m so NOT that, for one and FOR TWO I LIKE HAVING A DECENT REPUTATION. Liyah DOESN’T CLEARLY WANT ONE FOR STARTING *AND * STUPIDLY OUTING HER SELF. DING DING DING TROLL ALERT! NOT ME. HER. thanks for reading my rants/ long posts! KINDLY BACK OFF.

      • Really? says

        10/13/2019 at 11:39 pm

        also please stop assuming that you know if I’m angry just by the way I am typing. I USE CAPS TO EMPHASIS MY WORDS. I talk with my hands in real life so much I’ve broken glasses before :X . I am not angry. I am not even pissed off. I am

        CONFIDENT in who I am. I am HAPPY as I am. DEAL WITH SOME OF US BEING HAPPY and stop acting like snow flakes ! GOOD GOD !the tea culture is dead anyways, Jeffree star bloody killed it !

      • Really? says

        10/13/2019 at 11:43 pm

        Down voting my stuff just means you are immature and illogical and don’t realize that i’m just trying to get people to leave me alone and attack the person originally apart of this site. or at last DROP THIS.either way. LEAVE ME ALONE. Ps. I CAN actually provide witnesses to my claims. ask anyone in the roleplay community about her, vs me. they rarely knew me before this.

      • Kesseret says

        10/14/2019 at 11:03 am

        Samantha just fucking stop. You email me crying about how you want to be done with this site. It’s easy. Stop visiting it. You submitted 2 secrets this week and I trashed them. I am not going to post anything about you, and I won’t post your shitty secrets too.
        Stop coming here. Stop going inworld and immediately bringing this site up. Stop whining on the forums about being banned places. I have absolutely no influence inworld (never did I was always C list) so consider that the issue is you and your behavior.

        I keep banning you to assist you yet you keep coming back. Why? The problem is not me. It’s you. I don’t force you to come here!!! I go out of my way (which I’m tired of doing) to make sure you don’t have access to this site which you have a clear obsession about.

      • Horror Gallery says

        10/15/2019 at 8:59 am

        You crave negative attention, at any expense. At first, I felt bad for you, but to continuously see you, back on this site, even after you’ve said, you wouldn’t be back..yet here you are, again with your tantrums. Just stop it already. :hmm:

      • Just saying... says

        10/15/2019 at 12:10 pm

        Someone appears really triggered today. Might be time for Sam to adjust her meds?

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        10/15/2019 at 8:01 pm

        Someone needs to send this to her therapist.

      • Namenshamebabaay says

        10/15/2019 at 4:10 pm

        Lmfao how many blanks u Gona spit guuurl

      • EyeBeeLurkin says

        10/16/2019 at 3:15 pm

        https://gyazo.com/ee485343f0b3cd01deebda017098d396
        This is all :3

      • me says

        10/16/2019 at 5:12 pm

        lol is that real? getting hitched rodman style xD

      • EyeBeeLurkin says

        10/16/2019 at 6:31 pm

        Lol yes. Simply google her name and it’s like the 5th thing down.

    • Siren says

      10/15/2019 at 11:48 am

      SP you are making now an even bigger fool of yourself.
      You did on the forums with your malignant fallacy of mindless drama and hysteria with your derailed post about banning people that are emotional. Blaming this site, and everyone that dares to tell you no, blocks you, or won’t respond to you, or doesn’t do exactly as you psychotically demands. No one had to do a thing. You were doing all this long before this site, me, or anyone, because you have no grip on reality. You will never get what you want either it be an apology, forgiveness, unbanned, whatever. You will never be unblocked, send as many notecards proclaiming your lies, your heartless renigged apologies, people will keep reporting you, here, to LL, the admins of sims. I will never apologize, forgive or unblock you.

      People are here to support Kess, not to hear about you and your narcistic obsession with this site and people and the unfairness of your delusional world.

      You are a liar, a troll, a narcissist, a vile human that is attacking another during the grieving process.

      @Kess, your crown has slipped a little, straighten it and please keep being the bada** you are. 😀

      • Just saying... says

        10/15/2019 at 12:20 pm

        I keep hearing people mentioning about a forum. Which forum, may I ask? Also, you should see her up on FB..she’s claiming that she has had to haunt someone to get them “off of her back” for a year. Don’t you mean stalk, harass and hound them until they blocked your delusional ass, Sam? She then goes on to justify her stalking, claiming that all she was doing was “defending” herself.

      • Siren says

        10/15/2019 at 1:43 pm

        Community forums for SL you can’t miss her post its 14 pages of her mindless circle talk to absolve her so called name.

      • Siren says

        10/15/2019 at 3:52 pm

        Just Saying : so she finally admitted to stalking? Wow wish I could have seen that. Not like it matters I have the proof in my trash weekly that she is.

      • Just saying... says

        10/15/2019 at 4:46 pm

        Yup, she is on her FB rl one and mentioned how she has been stalking people because she has to defend herself…seriously??

        Btw, I did screengrab it, in case she does decide to erase it and claims it wasn’t there.

      • Siren says

        10/15/2019 at 4:50 pm

        I wish there was a way you could get that to me.

      • Siren says

        10/15/2019 at 5:14 pm

        Nvm got a kind soul to post me it. And going after my flickr on that blog of hers. *smh laughing* I logged in Saturday to talk to a friend and had time to read her mind to copy her shit. Yup! Sure! Lordy.
        The world at the tips of my fingers picture:
        Nadine Skin
        Nadine Shape.
        I bought them!

        Taken in Tagus Enchanted Forest.

        Also the whole matching outfit from We <3 Roleplay and the mask too! I am positive other people have done the same.

        Thanks just saying I did too and just smh.

      • Just saying... says

        10/15/2019 at 7:34 pm

        I saw what she said on her blog and she really is a twisted soul. I also noted that her comments are not allowed on that post, which is no surprise since Samantha is not able to really deal with the truth. She had a whole truckload of truth up on the forum and that sent her even more over that cliff of hers. I would not be surprised to find out that her behavior over there got her the ban hammer…again. How many places have banned her crazy ass now? That has to be quite a list now and in each one, she claims that SHE is the supposed victim, each and every time. Seriously, someone needs to take her wifi from her and keep her from ever coming back on the internet.

      • Pocketsand says

        10/15/2019 at 1:18 pm

        You may as well stop Sam. No one can read anything you’re posting and you just look like a desperate, unhinged little girl throwing a highly inappropriately timed tantrum. You can’t always be the center of attention. Go rant someplace else since we all know that telling you to let things go falls on deaf ears.

  33. Jon says

    10/13/2019 at 4:05 pm

    RIP Lourdes!

    #16 Stop making posts about yourself, Chris. You aren’t that relevant.

  34. Jeez... says

    10/13/2019 at 3:53 pm

    Ugh.. so much Tres Beau. Please filter it a little next time maybe, if you can? it’s so repetitive. But I understand now after seeing comments why this week was messy, it’s ok?

    • kesseret says

      10/13/2019 at 4:27 pm

      I filtered out a shitton. These said different things. I felt they were the best of the collection of like 10 sent in.

  35. Kai says

    10/13/2019 at 3:24 pm

    Well, If your not a slut then why did you cheat in the first place?There No need to lie bout things when you cheated plenty of times that people already got sick of your lies and to be honest it seems like you do take plenty of drugs i’m not talking about prescribed medication for your mental but the one that makes your mental a lot worst which is Cocaine . It seems to me like the one who needs plenty of help in his life is you Noah instead of posting sympathy crap on social media that no one even cares about. Don’t try to play roles here trying to be the “innocent one”like you did nothing wrong or trying to get people to feel sorry for you. when basically you did cause too much drama that made you got label as the dramatic drama queen who want to be heard and seen like your better then anyone else,let’s see how much Botox will fall out of your face for “LIEING”, which made you closed down remix reload club that you started to blame everyone for your own problem even the staff who didn’t deserve that at the club for nothing. because you lost your crappy boyfriend, when you already have got caught cheating & kicking out all the staff from the club, which is not as professional as i thought, soo… if you can’t fix what has been said or did then sorry not sorry. i mean let’s see how far the club will run. i hope it suffer very much, But Don’t try to sugar coat many things sweetie because once you do it will always come right back to you, so congrats loser for making it to SL SECRET thank you next.

    • Annie says

      10/13/2019 at 5:42 pm

      Ugh, what a privileged ass you are. Mental illness is not a joke, neither is poverty, your over-bloated ego is disgusting.

    • Koi says

      10/13/2019 at 6:17 pm

      U’re just a wannabe and a drama queen Chris / Noah or whatever your name was/is/will be, you’ve always been like that and you know what? only liars and fake ppl like manu/alex (the same person) and a few others can pretend to sympathize, you’re making such a big and stupid fuss of every little thing is happening to your life, do you really think that ppl are interested in your shit? we all have problems so just stfu and quit busting everybodys balls, you’re nobody mr.

      • Cooper says

        10/14/2019 at 9:20 am

        Leave Chris alone you idiots you have no idea what he is dealing with in real life. Stop this vile and disgusting witch hunt. When you have been through what Chris has then you would not be even half the man or woman he is. He is not a drug addict he takes medication to keep him alive, and he is not a drama queen he is expressing his feelings, more than any of you ever do. Oh, wait until your behind a pc acting the big I AM. Keyboard warriors and thinking your superior. Well, I know Chris for many years and he always owns his issues and his problems. So now go back to your sad little lives and stop doing this to someone who genuinely ill in real life and does not need this. Bullies are nothing but weak individuals who hide behind their pc screens. You are the ones with the issues, not Chris. Fake, small-minded and you will not get the better of Chris, so try again. I am supporting him all the way. No need for this stop it or law enforcement will be contacted in real life. Chris has already told me is going to report this and mark my words, things can be done, no matter what this website says it cannot. IT can. Be very careful. STOP.

  36. tay says

    10/13/2019 at 2:35 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear about Lourdes kess .

  37. Bri says

    10/13/2019 at 1:32 pm

    While I don’t really support some of the drama this site causes… I’m very sad to hear of Lourdes passing. I never really got to speak with her but she she seemed pretty cool. My thoughts are with you in this time and I’m so sorry ?

  38. Pocketsand says

    10/13/2019 at 1:21 pm

    Thank you Kess for having the strength to share this with us this week. You didn’t have to do it, but it gives us a chance to send our love. We might all be randoms on a gossip site, but Lourdes made an impression on so many of us; she is dearly missed and it was a privilege to have had the chance to know her. Take it easy on yourself Kess, and hang in there. We’re rooting for you!

  39. A-Kid says

    10/13/2019 at 1:01 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear about Lourdes. We didn’t always agree but most people in life don’t, she was a part of this site and has been missed. It’s always a shock when someone you spoke to online has passed away. All I can offer are my condolences and wishes for you to to get through this hard time. Take care of yourself, Kess.

  40. A friend says

    10/13/2019 at 1:00 pm

    I know Hadley, zaidons “friend” is going to come for anyone who talks shit about him. But what they are saying is true whether you are self aware enough to admit it or not. He strung me along for months. He told me you two were “just friends” and be only hung around you because you were lonely and desperate and he felt sorry for you. He told me that he was worried about your mental health and what you would do if he cut you off for good. This is the person you are defending. You can say he “has only dated two people” but he is and has fucked around with a lot more, promising them the moon and lying to each and every one of them. He still contacts them, flips out at them when they try to move on. He’s still trying to control them while playing the nice guy with you. The fact that you are sitting here saying “they’re all crazy” is sad. You need to wake up. He’s doing the same thing to you. That’s why he will never claim you publicly. He will never make it official so he can keep lying and fucking around behind your back.

    You can come for me all you want. But I was smart enough to cut him out of my life and wake up to what a fuckboi he is. Someday you will too.

    Zaidon, you might me “well liked and adored” but that’s because you have mastered telling people what they want to hear and pretending to be a decent human. A truly decent human would not do this to Hadley or any other of the girls youve fucked over. I hope some day you do some serious thinking and become the man you pretend to be.

    A real friend would call you out on your behaviour and demand better. Not blindly defend you when you are absolutely 100% in the wrong.

    • Karma is a bitch says

      10/13/2019 at 1:21 pm

      You took the words right out of my mouth. Thank you. <3

    • A Real Friend says

      10/13/2019 at 2:21 pm

      Lmao do you really think anyone in their right mind would believe everything you just typed? You’re delusional and just a jealous thot who Zaidon probably turned down. Strung you around where? Unless you have proof of your claims keep being the jealous thot you are on your different names just becos Zaidon wouldn’t choose you and keep your mouth shut.

      As we’ve said before Hadley is a grown ass woman and can make decisions for herself. She’s not a child and you care way too much about people you don’t even know. If you knew anything then you wouldn’t of just typed what you did. Goes to show you’re not a friend cause all her friends know the real deal. Maybe you should wake up and get your information before making secrets about innocent people.

      A little information for you too, Zaidon and Hadley don’t care what any of you hating thots say. If they did they’d be here instead of their actual friends. You won’t break them or get a reaction.

      You still accomplished nothing. Tata! ?

      • Turd Ferguson says

        10/13/2019 at 3:25 pm

        This is just sad. Over explaining and over defending just makes him look that much shittier. I feel like my brain melted just reading this trash. Are you sure you aren’t fucking him too? You seem real invested. News flash people can think he is a rollling dumpster fire and not “ just be a thot” he turned down. It’s called having an opinion. If he would stop being trash bag to people that would be super great.

      • nova hadley's daughter says

        10/15/2019 at 11:55 am

        @ At a Real Friend and anyone else commenting about zaidon , I’m Sure At Some Point Zaidon May Have Slept With You
        And When He Refused a Relationship with you then you got all bitter but how about you all grow the hell up
        and move on already. he is where he wants to be and zaidon and my mom hadley do not have to have labels to their relationship because they are not 12 yrs old in middle school drama anymore . they can have whatever type of relationships they wish and by you guys posting this shit about him makes you look like sad overly obsessed crazy bitches that are still swooning over zaidon. so do yourself a favor and just stop because he doesnt want your ass. if he did he is grown and will tell you but dont be bitter because you couldnt force it on him thats your problem not his and im not afraid to put my name or my email and no prob to give my inworld name either ..i mean no disrespect here but reall you guys are grown ass adults even my rl teenage son doesn’t do shit like this ..and that goes for everyone on this site just always cutting people down and bullying constructive cristsim and offering friendly advice is fine but you are all mean af im ashamed to know you all are adults even as rp dont be a bully stop hurting people ..the things they do or whatever zaidon does or doesnt do it does not concern you any longer . if he isnt sleeping with you right now and you dont have proof of it you just sound pathetic ..he can do what he wants he does not answer to you or anyone else here. also if you guys stop sleeping with him you wouldnt have to be on here tryn to call him out when that situation takes 2 people to tango my friends so maybe look in a mirror . have a nice day 🙂

      • Name says

        10/15/2019 at 7:25 pm

        I don’t think anyone is salty or jealous of Hadley. Nor because Zaidon “didn’t want a relationship” he doesn’t like Hadley like that, label or not they won’t be anything more than friends. At least according to Zaidon.

      • A Real Friend says

        10/15/2019 at 8:05 pm

        I agree with your sweetie. I’m not against them at all. I don’t think they’re meaning he’s sleeping with anyone tho. They’re just trying to make a bad name for him like most do here. No one is perfect and people can hurt another person just by simply not being their friend anymore and still point the finger to make it a bigger situation than it is just to have a reason to put them up here. They listen to the he said she said and it all must be true right becos someone who doesn’t get along with him said it? ? The net is great for that. You’re right tho, what he does or doesn’t do isn’t anyone’s business. Who knew so many people care about another person this much whether they’re gonna date someone or not. There is worse guys out there sleeping with two girls a night and then going to lay with their married partner in SecondLife later that night but their priority is someone who’s not dating. ? People come here and forget others are grown and can handle themselves. There isn’t a need to put someone up here to bully them just to get a reaction they won’t ever get. Maybe they will get help for their obsession over Zaidon and Hadley one day. ?

      • One of Zaidons Fuck toys! says

        10/16/2019 at 6:31 am

        Funny how so many of you are quick to judge Hadley as anything other than someone who just cares for the wrong person. She clearly cares for him deeply or else she would not have stuck around as long as she has with him because he has fooled her to believe that she is more important to him than she really is. Sometimes people who are in abusive situations can not see it for themselves and therefore stay in that abusive situation. Zaidon has in fact spoken about her having mental health issues before, I have heard this myself, several times, so he knows that what he is doing to her is wrong but he just laughs about it. Zaidon you need to let that poor girl alone and let her get on with her sl life, nobody deserves this kind of abuse from anyone, not even you. My advice to Zaidon is this.. If you want to pretend to be a man, then act like one and do the right thing and stop stringing this poor girl along and talking shit about her behind her back, why have you not once even stood up for ya girl?. She being called out being called names as bad as the word cunt, you should be ashamed of yourself for not defending her honor in that situation, you really shouldnt even be her friend because you do not act like a true friend, It has also been said that you yourself have not left her as a friend out of pity that she was unstable, if she is unstable then why would you constantly keep her on a string, do you want her to crack or do you like for the girl to suffer, man. She has plenty of people who would pick her up, she certainly does not need you for emotional support when you are one of the factors of her mental illness to begin with. Hadley I do not know your past or if this person calling you a cunt i even valid, because as I see it you really are a victim and I hope that you get the help that you need in order to let go of Zaidon he was and is toxic for me and he is toxic for you. #UnitedWeFightAgainstAbuse, #MeToo

      • p funny says

        10/17/2019 at 3:40 am

        you must not remember how torn up your mom was those first few times the truth came out

    • Ron Duvall says

      10/13/2019 at 2:26 pm

      Most people in the SL LGBTQ community know about Zaidon and the way he treats women. Although I understand that the intention behind posting about him on SL Secrets is to let people know so they won’t be abused by him, I really think it’s giving his VERY loyal friends reason to come out guns blazing in defense of him. All that does is make his overly inflated ego even bigger, and reinforce to him that he can do no wrong. I don’t want to be a victim blamer, and I do not think ANYONE deserves to be lied to, controlled, gaslighted, and pitted against other women, but women keep going for him after all the warnings, repeatedly forgiving him, and letting him back in only to be abused again. STOP that shit. Stop thinking that even though he has a long, confirmed history of treating women like shit, that it’ll be different with you. It won’t and it’ll break your heart. He is not going to change, because he thinks he’s just perfect, so do not allow him to hurt you!

      • A Real Friend says

        10/13/2019 at 3:10 pm

        Treating what women like shit? Let’s see some names becos I’m curious. You’re one of those he said she said people. Zaidon has had two relationships in SecondLife so how is he treating woman like shit if he’s not dating anyone? You’re the only person who says this. Stop switching your user name and email to make it look as if you’re another person who was supposedly hurt by Zaidon. There is more fucked up people in life and you’re worried about someone else’s life who barely even plays this game.

        People aren’t perfect but everything you’re try to claim is far from the truth. Zaidon would have nothing if that were true. The people he has in his life are the people who saw with their own eyes what two of the people he dated did to him and they chose him over long term people. It’s not anything he said to manipulate. People make their own decisions on their own so know your facts becos you sound just as dumb as the rest who have accomplished nothing here.

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        10/13/2019 at 3:26 pm

        Kess pays attention and calls people out for changing usernames on this site, and deletes duplicates after the first. You’re the delusional one if you think one person is doing all the posting and agreeing here.

      • AnameHERE says

        10/13/2019 at 3:27 pm

        clearly u dont hear him blasting bout how much hes not with hadley. so if anyone thinks its jealous thots cause he picked hadley, your completely clueless

      • Oh ok. says

        10/13/2019 at 3:30 pm

        These aren’t his “very loyal friends”. This is clearly Hadley clutching at straws. Her attitude and defensiveness is evident of how deep in it she is. She’s literally the only one who can’t see it. I have no doubt that zaidon himself has made an appearance in these comments as well. Zaidon is a good friend but even we, cannot defend his behaviour with women. If it’s not true he’d either commit to Hadley or let it go. And I’m not going to name these other women because he IS abusive. And judging by Hadley’s messages here, so is she. What kind of grown woman calls another woman a Thot. You two are not the teenagers you role play. Wake up and grow up. Now let’s all stop talking about that two, they clearly deserve each other..

      • Concerned Friend says

        10/13/2019 at 4:31 pm

        Definitely not Hadley. Anyone who knows her knows how she talks and calling someone a thot is not how she rolls. Cute though. The blaming going on is ridiculous. Let it go and let them be happy. Dang.

      • Ron Duvall says

        10/13/2019 at 3:31 pm

        You sound a lot like Zaidon, throwing accusations at people who stand up to him, writing them off as delusional, saying no one will believe them. That is exactly the way he talks to people who call him out on his bullshit.

      • Annie says

        10/13/2019 at 3:38 pm

        Weh, weh, weh!!!
        Just because you use alts to make comments, doesn’t mean everyone else does.

      • p funny says

        10/13/2019 at 3:46 pm

        zaidons only had two relationships in SL because he’s only chosen to claim those two people. there are countless girls he has or has had in the past, on the side that he keeps around to feed his ego, hadley being one of them. you kind of feel bad for them at first but after they take him back for the 5th time after being manipulated time and time again, you kind of just have to let them ruin their own life. i hope she will realize hes a trash bag but i think the manipulation claws are just too deep and its really unfortunate

      • A Real Friend says

        10/13/2019 at 3:51 pm

        @p funny

        List names I’m very curious ?

      • Most Palone says

        10/13/2019 at 5:03 pm

        When you have your ex of over 2 years ago that everybody knows hates you, in your profile… there is clearly something mentally wrong. If that isn’t a red flag for these girls, I don’t know what is.

      • haha says

        10/15/2019 at 12:41 pm

        Too bad all of this is irrelevant cause zaidon’s a girl in rl.

      • A Real Friend says

        10/15/2019 at 1:07 pm

        I agree it’s irrelevant but I’m confused on why someone’s gender matters in the first place?

      • kesseret says

        10/15/2019 at 1:43 pm

        Can we all agree to disagree that people’s RL gender doesn’t really matter. When it does matter it’s usually between the person who they hurt and them….. and obviously Virtual-Secrets LMAO

      • me says

        10/15/2019 at 1:47 pm

        im glad you laughed. xD everyone should be laughing… we’re all stuck in this fucked up world together.. just laugh people.. it helps.

      • haha says

        10/15/2019 at 10:44 pm

        It’s relevant because none of you people want HER in rl.

        Because Zaiden is a girl.

        That’s why all of these comments regarding her relationships are irrelevant.

    • Turd Ferguson says

      10/13/2019 at 3:16 pm

      This dude is a garbage person. I know someone who I’m close to that he has fucked over numerous times. He lies and manipulates. Oh and before I’m accused of being someone he turned down, I wouldn’t touch this asshat with a ten foot pole. I just wish he would stop being a douche canoe to my friend.

      • A Real Friend says

        10/13/2019 at 4:36 pm

        Waiting for proof you don’t have. He said she said. Move along. None of you are accomplishing anything. ?

        Everyone is grown and can handle themselves. If Zaidon was such an abuser he would have no one, asshat. Let it go. He’s made it clear he doesn’t want to date anyone and so has Hadley yet here you are claiming other shit you have no idea what you’re talking about.

        It’s clear anyone can see that if they’re his friend online and on Facebook that he is barely online ever but he’s fucking with so many people he’s not even around. Lmao

    • Yeetus Deletus says

      10/13/2019 at 3:27 pm

      Not only girls he fucks over tbh… he was putting his SL dad on this site for months and acting like he didn’t know who it was ?

      • A Real Friend says

        10/13/2019 at 3:47 pm

        No one can defend anyone without it being Zadion? Lmao I’m Hadley’s friend who met Zaidon through her as I have said already. I’ve defended both of them becos I know them both. None of you know wtf you’re talking about. All you can do is put his picture up and claim false shit. No actually proof of anything you’re saying. You’re making me want a nap. Nothing you do or say is changing anyone’s minds.

        For Yeetus, you know exactly who put him up there so let’s not point fingers with no proof. I know Zaidon stuck by his side through everything when no one else did and when he treated him like shit but still came back apologizing when he chose his user ex over him a lot of times. There’s nothing no one doesn’t know. Your name is even a Mikey name to begin with becos yes I know him as well as we have flirted while he was with Ella. ?

      • Yeetus Deletus says

        10/13/2019 at 4:33 pm

        Ok Zaidon.

      • Ron Duvall says

        10/13/2019 at 5:06 pm

        You keep saying to give you names and show proof. There is a long list of names, and there is a lot of proof, but no one is going to throw their friends under the bus to give you proof Zaidon. They’ve been through enough already, and it wouldn’t change your behavior. You know who they are anyway, because you were there for the emotional abuse and manipulation of each and every one of them. You can shout ‘give me names!’ from the rooftops all you want. You could have proof for days and you’d deny, divert blame, and use threats to keep people quiet. There are a finite amount of people in SL, and you’re running out of people to manipulate. People know this is you Zaidon. No friend of Hadley’s is going to put themselves out like this to fight tooth and nail trying to discredit people who stand up to you.

      • Yeetus Deletus says

        10/13/2019 at 5:22 pm

        I really like you Ron.

      • Karma is a bitch says

        10/14/2019 at 11:52 am

        I love RON!!!

      • A Real Friend says

        10/13/2019 at 5:35 pm

        Typical always saying the defender is Zaidon lol how sad for you I’m not Zaidon. I doubt he is even reading your irrelevant comments sweetie since I see no reactions anywhere from him. He’s not afraid of people on the net lmao you’re all hiding behind fake names but are somehow trying to be relevant? LMAO

        Ya’ll have nothing. You don’t have names. From what I know and anyone has ever seen the only people who’s no longer in his life is two ex’s who don’t play SecondLife and old parents who chose their relationship over their kids. Holy cow that’s a lot of people lost lmao you’re so dumb.

        Again everyone is grown if Zaidon was doing this he’d have no one. People know how to walk away if things were bad. Not everyone in life is perfect but not you or this site will change a persons opinion. Go find something better to do cause you’re still accomplishing nothing. Zaidon hasn’t lost a person to this and I don’t see him talking about it. Irrelevant and will stay that way. Tata! ?

      • Yeetus Deletus says

        10/13/2019 at 5:58 pm

        Literally everyone knows this is you Zaidon. Stop it lol, kinda cringe.

      • PettyBetty says

        10/13/2019 at 7:34 pm

        So, why aren’t these girls in Hadley’s box at least if there is something going on with Zaidon and other girls? Sounds to me like people are just trying to stir the pot and get a rise out of these two judging from their recent interactions, they are still just as close as they ever have been. Anytime I see them around they are always so flirty and coy with each other they both enjoy privacy clearly plus, they are ALWAYS together. There is never one without the other. What is so amazing about the relationship that a hundred people feel the need to tear it apart? You can’t have all of these people conflicted on a relationship without there being a relationship.
        Zaidon & Hadley aren’t going to snuff out just because Zaidon is being targeted. Someone is just really salty.

      • Turd Ferguson says

        10/13/2019 at 7:49 pm

        We will all be here with a big fat I told you so when they end up on Secrets after their big break up..that is once or if he ever claims her, until then…..we will all just continue to hear how much he doesn’t want to be with her as he is emotionally abusing other ladies making promises he can’t and won’t fulfill. IF he claims her now it’s only because he will feel force to prove everyone wrong. For the record people he considers close hate on him constantly and he is a joke. Have fun figuring those people out, they wont ever admit it.

      • P funny says

        10/13/2019 at 7:50 pm

        People have gone to Hadley. She cries. Cuts him off. He manipulates. She goes back. It’s a cycle and I think the people trying have given up because it’s really just hopeless. She’s too far gone.

      • Yeetus Deletus says

        10/13/2019 at 8:18 pm

        Idiots will be idiots.

      • InsertNameHere says

        10/15/2019 at 11:41 am

        That’s because she plays the victim all the time. “Boo hoo, I’m Hadley, pity me” She need to grow up, yo. She’s married in RL and she still fucks around in SL. What a cunt.

      • Karma is a bitch says

        10/13/2019 at 7:43 pm

        That was definitely Zaidon ^ lol

      • PettyBetty says

        10/13/2019 at 8:28 pm

        Jeez, you are really quick to point out who was Zaidon. It definitely wasn’t. I don’t think any girls have came to Hadley and told her that Zaidon was flirting with them and saying awful things about her. If they did, she would tell me. All she has to say about Zaidon is good things. OCCASIONALLY they will have spats, but what relationship doesn’t. She’s very happy.

      • AnameHERE says

        10/13/2019 at 9:00 pm

        minus the elephant in the room that they are not a relationship

      • PettyBetty says

        10/13/2019 at 9:11 pm

        Maybe not publicly.

      • Turd Ferguson says

        10/13/2019 at 9:16 pm

        I mean…..isnt that convenient?

      • AnameHERE says

        10/13/2019 at 9:22 pm

        because they are not a couple pettybetty. you are in just as bad of denial as hadley

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        10/13/2019 at 9:43 pm

        There’s no honest reasons to keep a relationship secret; no matter what excuses a guy uses, it’s really just because he wants to keep his options open. Anyone committing to someone who won’t claim them publicly is a desperate fool.

      • Oh ok. says

        10/13/2019 at 9:21 pm

        It’s funny how “Hadley’s friend who knows zaidon through her” knows his entire dating history. Y’all are too stupid to even lie convincingly. Stop calling for names when you don’t give yours. You’re actually doing more to hurt their reputation than you are helping it. You’re making them look like even bigger pieces of garbage. You don’t know shit because he’s not going to reveal to “you” or Hadley (one in the same) all of the girls he’s lying to so take a seat the adults who have actual experience with this abusive pathologically lying garbage human are speaking. Don’t like that? Then don’t date him. Shouldn’t have to defend your man this hard.

      • A Real Friend says

        10/13/2019 at 10:41 pm

        Lol just becos I know Zaidon through Hadley doesn’t mean I don’t talk to Zaidon myself lol we have talked plenty of times. Hurt their reputation to some idiots on a bullying site tho? Lmao no one is hurting anything especially not you sweetie. You’re accomplishing nothing as I’ve said over and over. All your comments are irrelevant and guess who’s still happy living their life not giving you the attention you attention seekers want? Hadley and Zaidon. If Hadley or Zaidon did any of the things you’re claiming guess what? They’re still better human beings than you pieces of garbage doing nothing but bullying others on this site acting like you’re any better in life. Grow up and move on already. Nothing you’re doing or saying is working in your favor and it never will.

      • Turd Ferguson says

        10/13/2019 at 11:34 pm

        Because*

      • Turd Ferguson says

        10/13/2019 at 11:35 pm

        See you again next Sunday <3

      • AnameHERE says

        10/13/2019 at 11:37 pm

        you should really reconsider putting so much of their info out there especially when you are putting out false information and just making yourself feel stupid they r not together zaidon does not want to be with hadley and will never make it public because he doesn’t want to be together with her

      • A Real Friend says

        10/13/2019 at 11:54 pm

        The real questions are, why do you care so much about two people who could give two shits about you or anything people say on this website? It’s getting you no where but it’s clear you people have no life so go ahead continue next week and for a thousand weeks after. You’ll still accomplish nothing. No one cares but you lmao. It’s sad all you’re trying to do is get a reaction from them and you can’t. Whether Hadley or Zaidon date or not it’s still none of your business. Go stalk someone else and let it go.

      • Turd Ferguson says

        10/14/2019 at 12:11 am

        And yet you keep responding…Yet we all have no lives.

      • AnameHERE says

        10/14/2019 at 12:15 am

        ?

    • Siren says

      10/13/2019 at 10:10 pm

      *sarcasm* This Zaidon guy sounds like a peach! Bless his heart!

    • InsertNameHere says

      10/15/2019 at 11:38 am

      You clearly have no fucking idea who Hadley is. She is a fucked up cunt who always play the victim card. She lost her previous family and more if she keep doing what she does but hey, she can’t help that she’s a cunt. She will manipulate you to think that you’re actually at fault when she’s the fucking problem. We’ve caught her when she lied and she all she will do is cry wolf and blame everyone else for her shitty behavior. As for Zaidon, don’t know who he is but if he’s an ass like this secret says, they deserve each other. Oh, not to mention how she talks shit about her RL husband who she claimed she “loved”.

      • PettyBetty says

        10/16/2019 at 2:27 am

        LMAO you can fuck RIGHT off! Hadley is one of the sweetest people, and her support system of all the people she has had in her life for years is proof of that. Don’t drag her in this, because her actions prove she is anything but the accusations you have made. ?

      • Concerned Friend says

        10/16/2019 at 11:08 am

        Hmmm, I have known Hadley for years. If you knew her at all, then you would know who Zaidon is. The fact that you don’t probably means that you are someone from her ancient past who is trying to stay relevant when in fact you are very much irrelevant. I have personally watched her make some great strides in her life. She has so many people that love her to bits, and have been loving her for a very long time. So, please when you start throwing around the cunt word like it’s the only word you know, make sure you know what you are talking about.

      • InsertNameHere says

        10/16/2019 at 1:19 pm

        LOL you made me laugh. I wish you all the best with her. I’ve known her for a while and I’m one of those people she would run to when she had issues with her relationships and no matter how much we all tried to help her, she fucked things up herself. We caught her in a lot of lies and even when it was blatantly obvious, she lied to our faces. So yea, I do know her and yes, she’s a cunt because it fits her well. I don’t know if shes pulling a front on you but from my past experience with her, she’s a fucked up individual who will use you as long as you stay by her side. Again, have fun getting fucked by her. ?

      • Concerned Friend says

        10/16/2019 at 11:39 pm

        Yeah, okay. You seem to have known her from years ago and nothing recent. So keep grasping at your straws to try and make people see her any differently, because it’s just not happening. She’s loved immensely.

  41. Coffee Break says

    10/13/2019 at 12:24 pm

    Dayum what a way to wake up to with my coffee…@Kess even though I didn’t know her very well I’m deeply saddened to hear the news of Lourdes’s passing & as much as I always hoped to see her back with her comments & quips here; she has moved on to bigger & better things in her next life or her final resting place. Much hugs & support, Lourdes will be missed!

    Well lets dive into one of the things Lourdes delighted in… Weekly Gossip!

    Soo many secrets on Tres Beau this week… Ok ok we get it, the store morphs their advert pics & apparently pissed that other people are doing it as well. Personally I think Any and All Morphs are shoddy lazy work that is Art Plagiarism… instead of complaining about it here someone needs to contact Tamara Williams with the evidence so she can take legal action if she so chooses to.

    And, really why is Tres Beau even making any kind of money or allowed in events with such blatant plagiarism… not only is the creator stealing but is showing us all that she can’t even make a picture with her own skills…. what does that say about her skins? Is she cutting corners & stealing other’s work there as well?…Most likely yes!

    • meh says

      10/13/2019 at 6:24 pm

      The Ads aren’t just the morphs. The entire skin applier is a morph itself. She made zero skins just uses the texture base of other brands bodies and slaps a cutout face from Tamara or whatever photo finds on it.. I think the scandal being posted is about her screaming stole her stolen work. Honestly shocked nobody called her on it till now and event owners allow it.

      • Coffee Break says

        10/14/2019 at 10:12 pm

        @meh … yeah I know the gist of the scandal but for me the bigger issue is the Plagiarism. But, dayum the whole skin is a morph? And, here I was trying to give her the benefit of the doubt that she put some kind of effort into her skins at least. Kinda glad I’ve never once wasted the effort to even demo them it’s really sad she does that.

      • meh says

        10/15/2019 at 1:55 pm

        Yeppers, whole skin. Ain’t that some shit?

  42. Anonymous Content says

    10/13/2019 at 12:08 pm

    Gonna miss Lourdes… Always here for you Kess x

    • Annie says

      10/13/2019 at 3:40 pm

      What kind of monster downvotes condolences and RIP’s? ?

      • Anonymous Content says

        10/13/2019 at 4:50 pm

        Pure scum, that’s who.

      • Annie says

        10/13/2019 at 5:45 pm

        Worse than scum. If they didn’t want to be called a monster, they shouldn’t act like one, but there they go and downvote people for calling them out on their scummy behaviour. F*cking cowards.

      • A-Kid says

        10/15/2019 at 4:50 pm

        You know.. I’m gonna say it. There are like four people on this earth that I will feel no remorse for when they die because they’re pieces of human excrement. I won’t be going to their memorials to harass their friends and family because what kind of asshole does that? Is that going to hurt the dead person? No, it just fucks with their grieving friends and family and if I do that then I’m no better than they were.

        Maybe these folks need to take a moment to think about that before coming here to mock the dead ang giggle about downvoting.

      • Abfab Hax says

        10/14/2019 at 11:54 am

        Trash Mammals. The bottom-feeders of the human species.

      • welp.. says

        10/14/2019 at 6:17 pm

        everyone on this page is a bottom feeder

      • kesseret says

        10/15/2019 at 8:22 am

        @yousippedyourowntea and @stupid @ohmy @welp: Few things: 1. use the same username. 2. I bet you are someone who talks about how they are so inclusive, kind, and a empathetic human being but what you really are is human garbage. Total human garbage. And I don’t say that about people. Except you. Human garbage.

      • welp.. says

        10/14/2019 at 6:17 pm

        Lourdess didnt give a shit about you, and neither does kess….shut this cunt rag page down

      • kesseret says

        10/15/2019 at 8:22 am

        @yousippedyourowntea and @stupid @ohmy @welp: Few things: 1. use the same username. 2. I bet you are someone who talks about how they are so inclusive, kind, and a empathetic human being but what you really are is human garbage. Total human garbage. And I don’t say that about people. Except you. Human garbage.

  43. InTheKnow says

    10/13/2019 at 12:03 pm

    RIP Lourdes x

  44. Siren says

    10/13/2019 at 11:30 am

    Kess,
    I am so sorry for your loss. From how you spoke of her in the quirky comments, she seemed like the greatest person. Remember those great times!
    Thank you for sharing this with us readers.

  45. Potato/Potatoe says

    10/13/2019 at 11:30 am

    Rest in peace, Lourdes. Thank you for your part in SCD/SLS. My thoughts are with you, Kess.

  46. Matchbook says

    10/13/2019 at 11:20 am

    I’m so sorry, to everyone involved. Be gentle and kind to yourself, wherever possible in the coming days, weeks, months.

    You are loved.

  47. Sierra K. says

    10/13/2019 at 11:17 am

    Aww look at the butt hurt person going after tres beau over morphs. Now we know you’ve got nothing better to do then to obsess over something so petty and small.

    Need a paddle to navigate through that river of salt? ?

    • InTheKnow says

      10/13/2019 at 12:04 pm

      If the skins where any good why morph them, fake ass shit

    • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

      10/13/2019 at 12:43 pm

      Pretty sure every one of those excessive posts says it’s because they accused other people of stealing their work, so pointing out how they stole it themselves is relevant af… need a tutor to brush up on that reading comprehension?

    • Coffee Break says

      10/13/2019 at 12:47 pm

      Plagiarism “petty and small”? I think not… Artist have brought legal charges and won against thieves for less than that. I wouldn’t be surprised if Tres Beau goes out of business if Tamara Williams gets wind of what is going on & decides to pursue it in a very RL court of law.

    • Salty says

      10/13/2019 at 12:54 pm

      Why are you so stupid?

    • Aili Panthar says

      10/13/2019 at 2:38 pm

      Morphs are creepy and stupid. I also hate ads that show how clothes look in a 3D rendering program. You’re selling me a product for use in SL, I want to see how the product actually looks in SL.

      • meh says

        10/13/2019 at 6:29 pm

        It sorta is how looks in SL. The skin itself in the applier is a morph. She cuts the face out of the photo then pastes and “tones” it to whatever skin brand base claiming working with for bodies. Everything she makes is just stolen photos. I doubt she could PS her way out of a box in 2009 quality.

    • Annie says

      10/13/2019 at 5:47 pm

      Tres Beau accused others of plagiarism when they stole someone else’s work. You really want to defend someone that pathetic, then go ahead, but don’t pretend that others are petty for pointing out Tres Beau’s hypocrisy.

      • Okaybars says

        10/13/2019 at 7:01 pm

        Not to mention Lory accused Moccino beaute aka. Xaron for “stealing” a skin when they simply had the same references. Now what if Moccino store got taken down from these accusations. Lory forgets to mention that case, but they always go on these witch hunts on other skin creators who do morphs. Ultimately, I think tres Beau makes wonderful skins, but the constant bullying of other stores should stop.

    • Abfab Hax says

      10/14/2019 at 11:59 am

      What the fuck are you talking about “so petty and small”. This world is about creation and you are backing up someone who completely rips off shit from someone else. And it’s not a fucking morph anymore when the highlights are the same. Anyone can fucking line up the copy on these. It’s stealing plain and simple.

  48. Mira says

    10/13/2019 at 11:16 am

    I’m so so sorry to hear about Lourdes i very much loved the witty banter in comments she posted. She will be missed, love to you and her family ❤️❤️❤️

  49. Thoughtful says

    10/13/2019 at 10:53 am

    When someone has passed away, all of the pettiness seems really inconsequential and small-minded. It is a reminder that there are bigger things out there – bigger than copying skins, bigger than imitating someone’s photo compositions or polaroids, bigger than who is sleeping with who this week or next. Sometimes, loss of a person puts things, the important things, into perspective. Maybe it can remind some people to be bigger, kinder people, and a little less petty, jealous, angry, or vindictive.

    Kess, so sorry for the loss of Lourdes, your good friend.

    • whocares says

      10/13/2019 at 2:20 pm

      Perhaps its good reason for Kess to think well and stop helping people sharing shit giving them this platform

      • Be Less Ignorant, Please says

        10/13/2019 at 7:29 pm

        Alright, someone has to say it after this trite bullshit- why? Because people die? We’re not any more aware of that today than we were yesterday; we just like to put it out of mind. The truth is that she enjoyed this website while she was alive, and enjoying your life is literally the only thing worth living for, so the logical response here is to stop coming to this site if you don’t enjoy it. Leave it for the people who do- including the recently departed, who refused many times to take this site down. How dare you suggest that would be a proper way to honor her memory? What a load of hallmark greeting card nonsense.

        Does it stem from some kind of self-loathing, like you can’t control yourself and have to look at it even though you hate it? Do you need someone to remove the site because you can’t stop on your own, like a drama junkie? Is it FOMO? Not a good excuse for fascist bs, imo.

      • Kesseret says

        10/14/2019 at 11:10 am

        The more people beg this site to be shut down the more I want to keep it up. Perhaps I will consider it if there was an anonymous donor. Lourdes and I wanted to go on a cruise together so we encouraged people to consider that option.

        We always wanted to cruise from Egypt to Greece….

      • Siren says

        10/14/2019 at 12:05 pm

        Kess, keep it up. In Lourdes memory.
        Tell us more about this cruise? Tell us who care about this great lady who liked Pink Camo. Why Eqypt to Greece?

        The reason I am asking, is haters will try to drive you crazy, hell some make a hobby of it. And your friend has passed. Remember her and those that speak I’ll of her, will get a swift kick in the butt by Karma.

        Hugs!

      • Siren says

        10/14/2019 at 12:10 pm

        @whocares how dare you. Kess is grieving and this is the shit you throw. You are a pathetic mouth breather for speaking ill against the dead. Move along peasant.

  50. me says

    10/13/2019 at 10:50 am

    I’m sorry for your loss Kess. ♥

  51. Skyler Constantine says

    10/13/2019 at 10:41 am

    #5 – Maybe its the lack of coffee but your post doesn’t make sense with the “must be funny see someone stand in the middle of them as they go at it?” … what exactly are you implying here, go at it in a fight? in bed? in the street?…. Please more info is needed.

    • Lola Savage Thriller says

      10/13/2019 at 10:14 pm

      I like to know who it is … each week they hide behind unknown but they take time and effort to go through so many pictures just to find. If you enjoy stalking Kerli so much why not just come out to her and confess the love you have for her cause you are clearly in love with her.

  52. Skyler Constantine says

    10/13/2019 at 10:38 am

    RIP Lourdes, You will be missed.

  53. Former Soviet Republic says

    10/13/2019 at 10:37 am

    Lourdes and SCD gave me one of my first chances at writing in SL outside of my tiny blog. I may have not written many articles, but I’ll forever be grateful for the chance. Having my work published there gave me a huge leap in confidence and helped propel my writing forward. SL blogging changed my RL in ways I could have never imagined. Rest in peace, L.

  54. Curiosity Killed This Kat says

    10/13/2019 at 10:23 am

    RIP Lourdes </3

  55. Bobby Trivia says

    10/13/2019 at 10:22 am

    Just here to pay my respects. Sad to hear.

  56. NotABrotherFucker says

    10/13/2019 at 10:21 am

    Rest in peace Lourdes. Fly high <3

  57. Just saying... says

    10/13/2019 at 10:21 am

    I’m sorry Kess. Lourdes is going to be missed. Prayers to you and her family.

  58. TeaTime says

    10/13/2019 at 10:15 am

    RIP Lourdes, Thank You for the original Shopping Cart Disco (now Virtual Secrets).

  59. lovesthegossip says

    10/13/2019 at 10:14 am

    Sorry to hear, may she rest in peace.

  60. Static Ghost says

    10/13/2019 at 10:13 am

    First off, I’m flattered. Secondly, I like to consider myself less than average so I appreciate your compliment and I’m glad that I can make others laugh at me as much as I laugh at myself! Happy Sunday!

    • observer says

      10/13/2019 at 2:21 pm

      ive seen your cock. THAT is def below average. Does Katie know you and marissa are fucking? and that girl is next lol.

      • 2hot4ukthxbye! says

        10/13/2019 at 3:00 pm

        He is a pathetic irrelevant mommy’s boy that takes pride in being a womanizing fuck boy!
        He ran through all the whores in Gor and all the other RP sims and has now been seen frequenting fuck sims to feed his insatiable pixel sex thirst. Katie why the hell would you wanna be seen with his nasty ass much less be partnered to him. He flaunts that he is fucking xxMariisaxx aka Screw Kroll and shes just as nasty as he is!

      • Static says

        10/13/2019 at 3:09 pm

        I mean, outside of the Mariisa shit you ain’t lying.

      • observer says

        10/13/2019 at 3:47 pm

        hah okay. the only reason this is happening is cuz we want katie to see what a piece of shit you are. she deserves better. WAY better. just be single and stop fucking with that girl!

      • Slsecretsismyboy says

        10/18/2019 at 3:45 pm

        Are we all just going to ignore the fact he’s a peado? Which is strange, considering Katie is an old married woman rl. She can always pretend, right?

      • 2hot4ukthxbye! says

        10/13/2019 at 3:39 pm

        Pretty sure there was a genital wart on the pic I seen of his cock. That or a herpes break-out.

      • Static says

        10/13/2019 at 3:41 pm

        Both, and a fucked up circumcision.

      • Yourpartnerwantsme says

        10/18/2019 at 5:30 am

        I thought his cock was quite lovely

    • trippin.oodles says

      10/13/2019 at 4:28 pm

      Obviously the fucktard that made that pic doesn’t know you at all!! I just wish all I had to do all day is think of ways to insult others to feel better about myself… Get a life, get off the computer mfr’s and leave the judging to God!! Oh and stop being pussies put ya avi name instead of some lame ass username!! Or you scared you gonna be in next weeks gossip?

      • paisley says

        10/14/2019 at 2:59 pm

        do u have broads in atlanda?

    • Le Oodles says

      10/14/2019 at 10:03 pm

      I was genuinely surprised to see you on here, lmao. Someone is maaad.

  61. Abfab Hax says

    10/13/2019 at 10:11 am

    I am so sorry to hear the news on Lourdes. My thoughts and prayers are with you and her family.

  62. Laughs about you says

    10/13/2019 at 10:10 am

    #8 salty much? That’s the second time you are trying. Get a life and stop stalking her. Pathetic

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