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Virtual-Secrets, week 545

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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.

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  2. #25
    Everything wrote there is true. I never dated or wanted to date this person. I thought of them as a friend and all they did was get into my head so bad that all I could see was my own negativities. He plays the long game. He will be your friend, confide in you, open up and show his loyalty. But any opening to strike he takes it. He ended up convincing me that I was worthless and to the point I wasn’t sure why I was living anymore. He even would make comments about me asking if I was sad I didn’t die- In reference to a RL near death experience. He would then persist on telling me how things probably would have been better had I not woke up. He was so nice and so kind but those words would twist. He knew what he was doing. He plays the long game. He even went in to tell me that it was a shame that he had to share the same air as I. He often goes to voice too, he covers his tracks and gets a thrill out of making others turn to doubt. When I would start to stand up and defend myself he’d tell me I was acting like a ‘cunt’ and childish. He got close to my friends and would tell me how much they hated me, or was using me and drove the wedge between us. He told me of some fast ways to ‘take your own life’ and he’d be ‘happy’ to share them. I will own the fact I was weak. I didn’t hit the mute button fast enough. I didn’t turn my back because I hated myself. I hated the person he convinced me I was. I was crying so much and so sick I took enough pills to knock a horse out because I just wanted the thoughts to stop. The words, his voice. I wanted it all to stop. I wasn’t trying to kill myself. I just wanted to numb the noise and negativity. I took too much and almost didn’t wake up. I am in no way proud of this.. Not at all. But we all go to SL to escape RL. Most I like to think aren’t there for drama, but to have fun. It’s why I was/am there. It’s a place to check out of RL. But everyone that logs on has their own past. They have their own battles and at the end of the day are RL ppl too. I have since got help, I am in therapy and I only human. But I also know to keep to myself, to keep my RL and SL friendship separate. I get nothing out of being nasty to him or anyone else. I don’t care about him or his many alts. ( Which he does have). I am simply sharing my story to maybe help someone else who has been in my shoes and maybe to help keep another out of them.

    Please know you are strong enough to walk away. It’s also ok to take a break from SL… There is no controlling the types of people who you will meet here. My therapist informed me that this man’s behavior was that of a manipulating narcissist. There are people who are so sad and so self damaging that their only breath of freedom is to bring pain to others. It is what in their own twisted ways heals their pain.

    I matter, and so do you. Don’t let ppl like #25 trap your mind.

    • This read made me sad. There are quite a few of these assholes inworld unfortunately. Usually the assholes are able to find the few decent , good hearted people to try to treat badly.. instead of the ones who beg for it in profiles. (strange but there are actually people who WANT to be treated this way as a kink… why not flock to them? ) Anyways I’m glad you got away and are still here. Karma never comes fast enough.. but in due time my dear. ♥

      • Thank you, I kept debating on posting anything or not as I know it opens me up for attacks and opinions, but I really genuinely don’t want my history to repeat for someone else. So I did what I needed, in my eyes to protect others and to stand up for myself too in a way.

      • @wish it wasn’t true i’m usually fast to be a jerk here but your story wasn’t a woe me kind of thing as a typical sl crybaby.. its obvious that you were really distraught. Hope you find happiness in SL.. it’s possible but you have to steer clear of most RP because these people use it as an excuse to be shitty people most of the time because they are too pussy to be 100.. they hide behind something they wish to be and never will.. behind the screen usually if just the opposite and is thats the case you lost nothing at all. ♥ but a headache.

      • I sincerely hope so; someone who just made this vile accusations and uses suicide to guilt trip people will in time have Karma settling the debt.

    • How did the psycho convince poor little Damsel in Distress she was worthless?

      1) He purchased a SIM to expand the RP and gifted it to the admins under 3 conditions (1 – expand the team, 2- address residents role and rentals concerns within 24 hours, 3- required a statue for a fellow RPer he never met but he came to know had committed suicide and was a very active contributor to the community – this is fact; logs and pdf of transactions exist.
      2) Little Damsel in Distress decided the SIM was her playground to build and told The Psycho to literally fuck off as she knew what it was going to look like, the SIM owner had requested The Psycho to build it so he was confused by the little Damsel in Distress’reaction.
      3) The Psycho was leading a frat, running a RP store, building and organising events, one of them in which he invested L$12K to hire live musicians for a Christmas faculty event at Woodcrest – another fraternity, which was around 65% of the regulars at Woodcrest decided to boycott the event (confirmed by the Beanie Rat who is community manager) – The Psycho feels insulted by the low tactics used by that group of people and informs the SIM admin of his intention to leave, he is convinced to carry on and the boycotting group backtracks on their statement.
      4) Simultaneously to 3., Damsel in Distress (or shall we call he IC Virgin since she does a lot of porking but OOC), adds a pall (and known trouble maker) to the fraternity without President and VP consent, abusing her SIM mod rights, the VP ejects her pall and she does it again only for the President (The Psycho) to uphold his VP’s decision.
      5) Damsel in Distress, claims to have left SL and vanishes for 3 days, during this time Beanie Rat attempts to lecture The Psycho on many aspects of his life and field of expertise, Beanie Rat is in his early 20s and hasn’t got a single skill relevant to SL or a RP (he doesn’t even do any RP… oh by the way, The Psycho is 38 and not 56, still old enough not to appreciate an insolent Beanie Rat attempting to lecture and patronise him).
      6) 3 days after the disappearance of Damsel in Distress, she at last returns to Woodcrest, The Psycho is with his partner at the new SIM building site and both greet Damsel in Distress who ignores them and deletes The Psycho from the list – The Psycho asks the SIM admin if Damsel in Distress is OK and learns that she allegedly attempted suicide – here is where it makes no sense; Damsel in Distress is apparently a single mother of 2 children who claims to have many mental issues and traumas (out of respect I will not mention these, since these where told to The Psycho in confidence); also in the US, a person who attempts suicide will not be released from hospital within less than 5 days, most likely to be institutionalised and children sent to foster care – so BOLLOCKS! We have all heard of the people who fake illnesses and all sort of things for pity and attention…
      7) SIM admin tells our friend The Psycho that our Damsel in Distress’doctor told her to cut of the people on SL who were causing her to feel depressed – because he would say, delete and mute instead of LOG THE FUCK OUT NOW… right?
      8) The Psycho travels abroad on holiday for Christmas and has limited connectivity via satellite and a laptop, nevertheless he makes a schedule to carry on working not to delay the opening of Woodcrest #2 – during this time he only maintains regular contact with the SIM admin, his partner and has 2 conversations with 2 other people; one his ex and a friend who he was helping becoming a mod at Woodcrest (and has joined the smear against him after she got it), and a contact from Damsel in Distress’IC mother who RPed at Santa Ramona Valley – here The Psycho learned that Damsel in Distress had been those 3 days at SRV porking every man she could on an alt, also caused a heap of biblical drama causing her IC mother to stop talking to her.
      9) The Psycho sent a Discord message on New Year’s day to the SIM admin wishing her a Happy 2019 – the SIM admin proceeds to insult him and begins to talk about his RL, mostly speculations and making threats (logs exist…); after the heated discussion, The Psycho tells the SIM admin that he is happy to finish the work but will not tolerate such insults again.
      10) SIM admin decides to accuse The Psycho of insulting people and talking internal issues with others… The Psycho only spoke to the SIM admin about internal concerns but the SIM admin claims to have logs and gyazos – The Psycho has enough and feels that it’s time to leave the SIM – at this point a case of ageplay happens at Woodcrest and the poor performance in dealing with it within ToS of SL causes The Psycho not to carry on at Woodcrest – he contacts the SIM owner and explains the events and wants his new SIM back to start his own RP without being connected with Woodcrest, the SIM owner convinces him to stay by arranging a staff meeting to address a list of open points The Psycho believed needed addressing (things like clear covenant for the sims, RP rules, ToS alignment, ban policy and action plan to open the new SIM since the rest of the admin team was lagging behind).
      11) The Psycho is once more insulted by the SIM admin and contacts the SIM owner with his final decision – he receives the payment for his investment back yet Woodcrest had opted to keep the new SIM.
      12) The Psycho visits Woodcrest as non-staff for three occasions and both to be with friends;
      a) a party,
      b) a RP at the coffee shop where The Psycho and his friend got surrounded by OOCers who moved next to RPers to OOC in public chat, in this occasion a semi-naked character randomly called him a ‘n****’ and was banned by a mod, the same mod told the SIM admin that The Psycho was being rude to a semi-naked woman.
      c) The Psycho visits Rush Week with a flock of sheep and German shepherd, pretending to have created a new fraternity called BAH… it was a RP done IC but Damsel in Distress and the local Plastic Cop (dullest dude on earth who fucks around when his partner is away from SL for weeks only to tell the women he fucks that he has to void their RP since his partner is back), banned him.
      13) The Psycho moves to a new RP and continues to be harassed but the SIM admin causing him to mute her.
      14) The Psycho becomes aware that someone posted about the SIM admin on Virtual Secrets and is also told that the SIM admin had posted about him with fake RL information.

      One day when I was an intern and aspiring engineer in a product launch project, a senior engineer approach me with added responsibilities, he wanted me to take over a very critical part of the project and told me; “you know you made it when your name appears written in all the production toilets” – I guess in this case if The Psycho wasn’t such a loss to Woodcrest they would have not bothered with all this smear campaign against him.

      Damsel in Distress = Wish it wasn’t true = Yanna GioVanna (ilysamcbay) – her creative style of RP to its maximum potential… also a mod at Woodcrest.

      • im not reading all that shit.. yes i know in SL a lot of people BS about depression and this and that but something in the way she worded it tells me she was hurt and you my friend are just an asshole. Fuck woodcrest..and all the peds there too.. give it a little time thats going bye bye too. you shall see. Mark my words 😉 and EWWWWWWWWWW@ 56 years old. lol fucking AARP man pretending to be black and young..what a mess .. people in SL get upset about girls playing men.. but its these old creepers you have to worry about.

      • p.s. ur OOC and OOSL so you can talk like a regular person..3rd person is for wackos

      • Fair warning this is long, and I don’t expect people to read it. I apologize for that and the dramatics of this person and even having my part in it. I should be wiser to walk away from this, but this is my final word to him and about the sim and the subject as a whole. This message is for Ruy and is my closure.

        Dear “The Psycho”, aka Ruy,

        Yes I am Yanna. Yes I am a Mod at Woodcrest, Yes I nearly died IRL, No I don’t hook up with ppl IC or OOC. I got close to 1… 1 person oocly, So yes clearly that makes me the world’s biggest ho. Sorry, what’s your number? You think I didn’t know the times YOU were trying to get in my pants. Sorry I never took your bait. Thank God. Clearly you still haven’t learned the difference between IC and OOC.

        Yes, you are a gaslighting, manipulative Psycho who acts on your narcissistic ways. So let’s finally clear the air shall we. You have been playing head games with every person you come in contact with, you tell lies, your manipulate truths to make yourself feel or look better. I am not afraid of you anymore. I will not be your victim anymore.

        As Ruy here stated; my name is Yanna GioVanna, Ruy was someone I considered a friend until he kept getting into my head. He clearly knows who I was by my story only showing the truth to what I say. Esp about “killing myself”, however it was an accidental overdose, brought on by trying to silence you. So way to go Ruy, must make you feel so proud. I will not speak to you or about you after this. I will also be contacting my lawyer, you psychotic fuck.

        Yes you purchased part, A PART, of a sim and made it VERY vocal that you would do so ONLY as a donation and christmas present. It was turned down over, and over because they were adamant that they would wait for the second sim until they could fully purchase it because they didn’t want to have to share ties with it. You swore over and over and over that you wanted nothing to do with the sim. NOTHING. They finally agreed upon it trusting your word, which maybe was their biggest mistake. You came on demanding changes, and taking over and telling everyone what was and wasn’t allowed. Here’s a news flash, they hated your designs, but was trying to be accepting because they didn’t want you to feel unimportant… because they too cared about you. But then you demanded estate rights. The one thing they expressed before buying the sim they wouldn’t want to share and that YOU agreed with being ok. You tried playing each team member against each other and your lies started catching up. You complained about everything; from players, to the builds, to the layouts, to what people looked like. You complained about the sexual orientation of people. You think this stuff wouldn’t get back to us. You treated everyone the same. Also; yes, I am sure you have logs, and PDF of Transactions, so does the owner… From when SHE PAID YOU BACK. She was tired of your complaining and manipulating as she started seeing it too.

        I never told you to fuck off over the build. You got mad because I wouldn’t give you my rez rights. I was told to take care of certain things as well. YOU were convinced you had all the authority and were telling people one thing, then telling others something different. Again it all came out. You can try to manipulate the logs all you want. You have lied and twisted the truth. Nothing you say, or do, will ever be taken serious by us.

        You said you were running a store and frat house.. No you had lead tags, you didn’t lead anything. The person who was President before you DID EVERYTHING… You did nothing and even expressed that you didn’t know what to do and didn’t want to do it and asked me daily for help on what to do. You ended up passing it off on another player and told them lies and left out info you knew they would need. You want to talk about being a lead. You never RP’ed things out with the players and they left the house BECAUSE of you. One even wanted to have his brother ceremony RP’ed out and you just tossed him a tag.. you didn’t care about RP. Just power. Same with the store. You didn’t RP at the store but did feel the need to put out a tip jar – which is not allowed by players, only dj’s- and took SIM PLAYER’S money.

        Yes I am an IC virgin. Yes I had 1 partner.. 1… .OOC in over a year and a half. So don’t try slut shaming me when you can’t keep one for long anyways.. Oh … also should we poke some of your ex’s who you also stalk. Or have tried to manipulate and lie to as well. You were busted cheating and swore the screen shot was photoshopped. Yeah… nice try. As for live musicians, that happened once. Don’t compare your money to others there. You think the players haven’t dished out loads for their own events that they worked? We never asked you to or any of them, but we understand when you love something you have a vision you will create. We have even offered to buy things for people, which they 9 out of 10 times will decline.

        As for leaving; you were asked to leave because you kept making threats, and complaining. Yes I was gone from SL.. IN A HOSPITAL, because I nearly died because of you. You know I don’t even feel the need to defend myself on that, because look how you are talking about the people on the sim there. All because you didn’t get to have your way. Because you didn’t understand the aspects of being a team player, which is why you were never made a team member. You just assumed you were one, and even had the audacity to request staff meetings in which you did nothing but shit on the team’s ideas and work. If the team had voted, you wouldn’t have got a single yes. You are dangerous.

        You clearly think you know everything when you don’t. My children went with my parents, and there is a 72 hour hold. Whereafter you will be released if seen fit. Each state has different rules and regulations that differ by locality. So please don’t assume you know the rules in the states, because you obviously don’t. The other thing is the fact I didn’t aim to hurt myself. I overdosed trying to silence you in my head and I never meant to actually hurt myself. I just was so down and hurting and scared and believing the things you have said to me and about me. How you speak of me now only proves my point of who you really are. I would never fake that shit, and because of my bad choice I put my family through hell, and hurt a dear friend to me. So you don’t get to tell me what is or isn’t real. Try again.

        As for the past, Yes I have been a survivor of sexual and physical violence in the past and suffer from PTSD, something you knew and fully took every advantage to trigger. You must feel like a real man now huh. Proud of yourself?

        The first thing I did when I came back was delete and block you and you were the one who went to them wondering why I blocked you. Then went around complaining to players by bad mouthing me and the sim. Again things always come full circle Ruy. You should know this by now. I haven’t been to SRV in a year, though I have nothing bad to say about them as they are owned by people I consider friends. However, I wasn’t there. I wasn’t “porking”- side note, who even uses that term anymore?! I was in the hospital. I haven’t even talked to my IC mom in months. That is all a lie; the only alt I have is Loti Vesper, because I am too cheap to keep making alts. It’s too damn expensive and I am very loyal to my sim, so again…Nice try.

        The sim admin was tired of you insulting the sim and the players.. I mean what more is there to say. You were making fun of people for being gay, or trans. You were making fun of how well a person RP’ed rather than working with them to teach them. You were always putting someone down. In your eyes it was never you. NEVER you. It was, and will always be, everyone around you who causes the problems Ruy. We are not perfect beings. We all have faults. I don’t like change and it’s hard for me to adapt to. When I care about something I get overly passionate about it and that can rub people the wrong way at times. I too have my own faults, but being a liar is not one of them. Trying to hurt people with mental head games is not one of them. I don’t understand why you do it, or if you even realize you do it. You are a horrible person and just saying that alone makes me feel bad.
        The sim admin can’t accuse you just for the fun of it. We had players on the daily complaining about you and how you treated or scared them. You would stalk their inboxes, even make alts to log on and stalk them. There was no accusing you of insulting, it was facts.

        As for the age play accusation, I personally reported the ones in question to TOS. On every person involved. Surprise, surprise, we handled it exactly in accordance to TOS. I personally contacted LL via Customer Service and email. We did cover out bottoms. The players involved were also banned from the sim and not one issue since. Unless you speak of you coming to the sim on an alt and taking picks with little people and posting them on here to slam the sim because you have verbally vowed to take down Woodcrest by any means necessary. Yeah we know it was you. We also know you are after us, and ready to go to drastic measures. So does LL… Blah blah blah, Same story Ruy. You have been posting on here all the time about Woodcrest. At this point it’s old news and all fake claims. You have been harassing the sim and the players since before you were asked to leave, . And WAS paid back for the second sim. . You in fact were only banned after the constant insults and threats.

        So why not use that money and open the sim like you said you wanted to do rather than waste all of our time on here. As for the admin/mod team. We have not been lagging, we aren’t lagging because you don’t know everything. You didn’t know everything because you are not part of the team. But yes we had a meeting and it wasn’t about you. It was about the current state of the sim rebuild and yes the latest procedures to take place for handling player transgressions.

        I have heard nothing of the naked girl issue and all issues are addressed with team members especially if there is someone being banned. This keeps from showing favoritism and maintains fairness. So.. that one is new to me and everyone on the ban list has been accounted for. So I am not sure what that is all about.

        But you were banned about the sheep because you were griefing the sim and the players and team asked you to stop dropping the sheep on the sim and you kept it up. You can sit there and act like you were RPing, but you TP in – didn’t RP coming into the scene and then were making a scene during a planned RP dropping sheep and causing problems, even AFTER being asked to stop.

        “A griefer or bad faith player is a player in a multiplayer video game who deliberately irritates and harasses other players within the game (trolling), using aspects of the game in intended or unintended ways.”

        The only one with a smear campaign is you. You have been OVERLY vocal about it too. So it’s not a secret. You go as far to keep posting on here to stir up trouble too. The ONLY reason I responded was to make sure people know YOU ARE A REAL DANGER, and to clear the name of the sim YOU keep trying to bring down. So.. I have no other need to respond to you, and won’t.
        You do not deserve the attention. Call me what you will Ruy. I called you a friend and you called me a number of things, all of which your post validated my truth. Stop playing this game. It’s tired and wore out and we just don’t care enough about you anymore to keep going. The more you bash the sim, me, Bliss, Moo, Nspire, Cas, or any other member of staff the more you will be ignored. We aren’t afraid of you, and LL has already been contacted about you for everything occurring in world. We are over you. Keep going on with your lies and pathetic attempts to make yourself look golden and putting everyone else around you down.

        Best of luck to you Ruy.

        PS.. If what I said wasn’t true, it’s pretty neat how you knew it was me when I was talking about someone telling me to kill myself huh. Check out his profile picks where he’s telling me to jump off a cliff. Real classy gentleman here folks.

        Way to show your true colors.

    • ok i can’t get over similarities lol .. post alt names please or even the first few letter of them (resident names) .. im so curious

  4. #46 Linc you know someone that says they are not gay surely has to be, because all i have seen out of on this site is are only three words, Dick, Cock…never mind only two words.. damn dude if you want to be sucking Jay off that bad all you have to do is ask.. you are a cuck, always have been and always will be.. if anyone knows him you have to remember he quit A&D because he didnt get his own horde. he cried about it he is back now but he is still crying about it.. Cherry is a whore she tried to fuck me and i gave her the real big thot NOPE i wonder if she knows that Linc is STILL cheating on her dumbass with their kids

    • Awwww you poor thing; bless your heart for trying. Better luck next time peanut.

      • you can tell you talk to a lot of kids just by that comment. lol another 1 smh

  5. #25 is a legit psycho. Hour long rants, stalking, harassment. This is the person who thinks they are right always, and they can do no wrong. He has stalked various women, and gaslights women into thinking they are the ones at fault. Despicable, and downright terrifying why he’s still allowed to be in SL despite all of this.

    • Stalking and harassment can be stopped by using the mute button and not being where they are. It’s virtual

      • Yes and no. This person has so many Alts and keeps popping up with new ones. I had to eventually get in contact with law officials. But even that gets tricky because of locations.

      • Its virtual but i’ve met a few that will take to new names and have you to the point where you think anyone could be them. lol Totally ruins SL completely.

      • I dealt with a “stalker” early in my SL time, when block wasn’t even working half the time. I get it. But I learned. I dont react to it when they use alts, I just report and block. The more you react to it the more you create the issue

      • true. i still get weirded out if someone even speaks the same as him.. instead i look like the crazy one now.. lol but im ok with that .. god knows i’ve been called worse xD

    • Perhaps because he had not stalked anyone and you are another liar…

      • i have no reason to lie Mr 56 years old with a bite size cock. ew lol just ew

  6. Sees all these jaded ex gf posting on guys. And honestly all I can think is.. WTF these are all some ugly ass outdated hobo looking motherfuckers with obvious Im a wanna be stud profiles that all sound like idiots. Are girls this damn desperate these days? Fuck for real, why are you crying when you dated from the trashbin in first place?

  7. #29 – After reading this submission I can tell two things: 1.) The person submitted this is a man 2.) The person submitted this is also a Mitch. Yeah we get it, 1%’s in RL cannot be women and you want to see that rule adhered to in SL. But more than likely the Mitch complaining about it (that would be you!) is not a 1% in RL either. And don’t say you are either, cause that would mean that between the rides, drugs, criminal activity, jail time……what?..you pull over on the side of the road to open a laptop and log into SL? Or you could be someone who “knows” someone in RL who has a 1% affiliation. If I had a 1L for every MC member who has told me that I would be rich. Hate to say this but it sounds like you dipped your dick into some strange at that MC and it bit you in the ass. It’s SL Mitch….get over it already.

  8. 1 boring
    2 repeat just less morph alright
    3 repeat eegh
    4 bored now
    5 same old bs
    6 typical
    7 know the girl and she is not that
    8 serious issues
    9 boring
    10 A typical letter wrote from same person who posted 7
    11 sort the groups
    12 same posted from 7 and 10 more hater love
    13 cover the gash up
    14 same
    15 grosses me out
    16 nice warning good to know
    17 bores
    18 knew that
    19 lol
    20 true
    21 awwwwwe
    22 prob
    23 yea
    24 ewwwww
    25 ew
    26 looks like she got good taste
    27 fish face
    28 ew
    29 boring
    30 lmao
    31 don’t life would get boring
    32 bored now
    33 unoriginal
    34 boring
    35 seriously boring
    36 ehhhhh
    Was reading rest can only say boring an fuck it i am tired so many times of reading boring shit.

  9. #13-#14 Looks like the DUMBER part (keesie/dana) of Dumb and Dumber is still butt hurt over his recent SL Secrets status.

    • If it’s not about Keesie getting all the attention and him trying to be funny it’s a sad day for him and Stella, only sad for Stella when she don’t have a cock in her mouth.

  10. #48/49
    When you were with me there was no need for you to make alts and fuck whores. Must be Kat is a shitty wife or maybe just stupid. You should’ve stayed with me. That’s what happens when you go from a hero to a zero. Does your wife know you were in my box saying you wanted me back when you two were supposedly in love? If people only knew about all the other alts you have.

    • Post under your own name you wannabe…. you think because I’m not in SL people dont tell me when my name is brought up? Grow some balls and quit trying to be me and speak on my behalf. Let the guy live his SL the way he wants. It’s his SL not yours… Tanner and I are friends, have been since we broke up a year ago. Salty ass shit stirrer. You wish you were Twiz but honey you will never be me because I am not a childish cunt muffin who gets my panties in a bunch over an sl relationship……

  11. #48/49 Glad he is finally on here everyone in the rp community knows he likes to sleep around when the wife isn’t on. He is a joke!

  12. #16. Coming from someone who knew Jaxson very well, your comments are over the top petty. He has strict standards and this clearly sounds like a case of you not being at level. For someone talking strongly about pieces of shit, you may want to look at yourself. Lowering yourself to put anyone on SL secrets speaks volumes about yourself. Get a day job.

  13. 16. Jaxxxxxxxx, you have always been shitty and judgmental how does it feel to be judged, playa? Jimmy John’s? Super Freaky Fast…and easy it seems. Now serving number 182.

    • Careful, your rejection is showing. What a pathetic way to make yourself feel better. Do you not have any integrity or respect for yourself? Jealousy is a terrible disease. Get Well soon, Bitch.

  15. 40. Uhhh. Abril had nothing to do with this person leaving SL. He left because the “good friend” he removed made it difficult for him to be around his friends after he rejected her for the millionth time. She’s also the same person who blamed Abril for it all.

    It wasn’t because she asked his friends if they were dating him or if he had anyone, even people she’d met for only a few minutes, used him to meet creators, let people believe they were together when he was absent due to RL, got angry at him because Abril posted a nice comment on a photo he did and made a male alt incredibly similar to his to take pictures with. She even bragged that the owners of Anxiety shipped them together.

    It made the guy super uncomfortable.

    When she was rejected? Tried to play a victim and ruined his friendships with the people he worked with in SL. Got caught lying about things since people log stuff and she refused to show proof. Used someone to spy on him, treated his friend like an emotional punching bag and blamed Abril for everything that happened.

    Those are just some of the things.

    Since we’re naming people and most people know by now. The ones who ran him off were Setsumi Tamatzui, Holy Highwater and the final straw was the one who did the above, Juliet4456.

    I feel like you should blame the right people.

    • Something was off with Juliet. She’s always tried to be super friendly with me after he left and there were moments where she tried to smack talk Ozymandias. Out of the blue she came and started to act like we were best friends. It was fuckin’ weird. I think she just wants to get close to people who can boost her reputation in SL.

  16. #40 is she still up to stupid shit?? im just confused at this point, cause people still follow along with all her continuous stupidity. sux about czertza tho, i was hype for his store

    • Abril wasn’t involved in this. He left because he rejected a girl called juliet4456 and she blamed Abril for being rejected. Juliet was the reason he closed his store too because she got close to Hayden and Clemmm through him. When she got rejected. All she did was play victim and ruined his friendships.

      So not Abril this time.

      Her part is being his ex and Czertza having spoken to her over flickr which made Juliet upset. Apparently you can be cordial with your ex.

      • messy! i had no idea, i’ll take the L for being wrong then. either way, damn.

    • Yes, since she is who made the secret about herself and is the only one commenting about it.

      She’s old news and needed to be relevant again.

      I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s the one posting about Cerberus with how long she tried to get him to like her by stalking him.

      • Unless Cerberus outright said this, it’s not something I’m going to believe from someone who thinks that just because someone defends another that it’s them.

        From what I’ve learned, they mutually liked each other at one point and they don’t talk anymore. Abril has also openly stated that Cerberus isn’t a woman. She defended him in the comments when it first popped up.

        You shouldn’t comment on peoples relationships when you don’t know about them. As such. I asked Cerberus if this is what he thinks.

        I think you also need to look up the term stalking.

        I’m not Abril but at least Cerberus will know the user behind these comments since I’m now waiting a response from him.

  17. #20 nitro wickentower has been that way since he started and he ain’t all that. lol some people never change.

  19. Thanks for tellin me about the incest pedophile park, time to go there

  21. #30. I can’t stop laughing at this…. because it’s completely true. The man can’t go a single day without either marrying his daughters or marrying his sisters. Hasn’t stopped him before and won’t stop him now.

  22. does #25 have more alts? this is something that sounds familiar.. where is he from?

    • ** actually i went inworld to profile read and the way he speaks isn’t who i think but i’m guessing thats a lot of guys

  25. Lmao salty fuckers this week why y’all so bothered bout alts for anyway. Pretty boring this week. Think the ones from this serenity girl are both her own posts. Lets get some real tea next week guys!!!

  26. 13- Can we please stop the Maxi Pad trend in SL? it’s disturbing

    • they need to cover the mesh snatches lol even though they’re sucking so much virtual dick in IMs it shouldnt matter . shrugs

    • dude… thank you for making this comment!
      i honestly didnt know wtf i was looking at. i thought it was a dumb tattoo on someones arm.

  27. I can smell the “poor” on whomever submitted 57-59. You’re probably ugly too. But there’s no probables when I say you’re a huge fan hun. You want to see a bully? Because we can show you what a REAL bully looks like hun. ?

    • The only insults from you I see are “poor” and “ugly”; we can conclude you’re retarded.

      And why is it that poor people hate other poor people so much???

    • “Hun” a term used by sassy silver foxed & elderly gay men & old bee-hived waitresses who work at truck stops.Either way the it’s mostly elderly people who “hun” others when they feel uppity.Metamucil might help.

      • oh god.. be careful 4y.. they get upset when u call em old. lol.. gunna wake the AARP crowd real quick

  28. 38) Ha! fucking typical. I knew it this whole time. this cunt broke the rules at ROIAF so he could come in and play the Darklyn cunt’s new husband so she could escape consequences. What a fucking idiot. No doubt all the admins were in on it too. So glad that fcukin place is gone. Singlehanded Forgotten/Leyton, Vestige and his dead corpse cunt Myranda/Adeline ruined the sim. now they’re back and gathering like fucking cockroaches at Fire and Blood. RIP THE SIM IN 6 MONTHS

    • HAHA, the real reason ROIAF closed is because of Lyravi and Deziel’s stupid shit with their ooc feelings crap, along with their ooc drama because she got her feelings hurt that Vestige wasn’t putting up with her ooc psycho obsession shit she has done numerous times at ROIAF! Easy to blame the cunts who ended up on top, look at the bottom feeders next time.

  29. #8 Has been in almost every sl family there is. Doesn’t matter who but they all supposedly done something wrong. I hate it when people use their disability as in her case her bipolarness to make people sorry for her.

  30. #8 Kaysha is a trashy little Drama Queen that creates Havoc everyone she encounters!!
    SHE does play the victim alot she talks about how she is faithful to friends and family but uses every convenience to slit their throat and do you wrong!!! She is not Only Pathetic, she is just a sad little Drama whore

  31. To whoever posted 34 and 35 I’m sure if you let know who you are she’d be happy to remove your pathetic ass js, posting anonymously won’t get the job done.

  32. Ya’ll need to leave #1 alone whomever is posting that shit now you resort to just putting her on blast when she is the sweetest person you can ever meet. sounds more like your delirious you cant have what she dont have….hater-aid man. but that cool you’ll get exposed…..should’ve worded your shit differently!

    • She is not sweet, She is fucking two face lier.
      It’s not the first time she tried to get into someone’s Husbands pants. Karma is a bitch!

      • Obviously whoever did #1 didn’t think she looked big enough to honestly call her a cheap whore so felt the need to warp her image. Must be a reflection of how warped their own mind is, I would say I feel sorry for them but I don’t condone people who fabricate bullshit. Show us proof people come on, calling someone a whore without backing it up is kinda lame and shows your grasping at straws.

  33. #28 Idk who you are but thank you for sharing this and bring it to my attention. I did bought the eyes and the texture is indeed mine. All she did was to change the iris colors a bit and paste her copyright over mine, other than that, the texture is exactly the same, pixel by pixel. Sad and pathetic.

    • thats exactly why sl people shouldn’t have fb.. lol i say leave it.. apparently they don’t mind getting in on sl drama on a rl fb so it should be fair game.

      • I posted a fucking article about Ariana grande being sued you idiot, has nothing to do with SL whatsoever and Envi commented I stated Im in Las Vegas (like the artist) and that i have never heard of him so how is this me trying to be in drama? ? find out what the original post is about, also it’s my rl name because people reported me a ton for no real reason.

      • i didn’t even read the secret.. im just saying if ppl comment with a rl facebook on a sl persons fb.. thats on them.. =) i couldnt care less about the secret itself.. just dumb to ask admin to blur something out when they apparently don’t mind being up in SL business on a RL page.. thats all. relax.. all u ariana fans are bananas

    • And here we were all thinking Ivonne Mejia couldn’t really be your real name.

    • Don’t delete, Ariana Grande is a celebrity fool.
      Envi has been running his mouth way too long.

  35. #2 Envi Chanel wrote this.

    He has been complaining about her morphs for weeks now.

  36. 54 – Not Syn’s fault you absolutely refuse to follow the sim guidelines that are clearly laid out when you agree to join the group. Themed parties are ALWAYS dress code required. Oh…and we do have non-themed parties too. You would know this if you paid a little attention instead of smearing someone because you refuse to participate.
    55 – She does NOT treat her DJ’s like shit. In fact she is one of the most (if not THE most) generous managers on the grid. Now, if you had a problem, it’s most likely because YOU caused the problem. If you’re not a DJ (or never were one) and you wrote this secret, I would advise you to mind your own business. Oh…and hosts? We don’t have or need any freaking hosts.

    On a personal note, Elysion is my home. It’s where I have met some of the most dynamic and amazing people. It’s secrets like this that just reinforce my love for Syn and for the sim. This smear campaign is just proof that someone is just jealous of success and desperately grasping at every single straw they can just to bring someone down because they hate themselves. Like I stated before, I am happy to have a discussion with anyone that has an issue with the sim or with the owner or managers. Also, I hate to speak for Syn, but if you have issues, I am sure she would be willing to listen and take anything you say into consideration.

      • I am still trying to figure out #55 I never see hosts there when I attend events there. It is clear the person who posted these secrets don’t even go to that complex of sims, or they would know that. The fact they did two, and was too lazy to even change the font– You silly lazy troll, if you are gonna do it take the chicken wing out of your mouth, get the grease off your fingers and at least try to put out some effort. Geeeezz.

        I think it is time they ask for Syn for her autograph, seems they are fascinated with her. Tosses the poster a sharpie.

      • @me and I suppose you are typing this message while body surfing on some beautiful coastline somewhere, not sitting on your ass somewhere in your house. Because if you are indeed paddling around on a coastline right now in the SALTY ocean do us a favor and pull out the tampon.

      • i never club in SL.. i make things.. when i want to club..they have them where i live but you have to go outside. So i apologize if they don’t where you live. You should move …*kissing your lips* aint SHIT compared to rl kisses . IJS

      • @me What did you just say? is that Second Life babygirl speak? So your typing this then from a club holding your drink AND your phone? got it.

      • go virtual club sweetheart… and let all the ‘virtual dj’s’ who button press know how fantastic they are. lmao douchebag . I’m not for the babygirl shit either but welcome to secrets you really must be new. You’re full of shit by the way.. how are you standing up for this club but 2 posts under throwing FMD under the bus when everyone in SL is indeed everyone else.. and all travel in the same thot spots. I guarantee you they have both tags in the profile.. because SL people are lame as fuck and think because they paid for the group they’ll look rich. lol GO OUTSIDE

      • @me oh I am not new around here, but I can see you are are sniffing to see if I am new around here, so I can be the newest dick for you to fight over hopping onto, because it is clear you are one of the FMD stumps.

        Waves a chicken wing at cha…come get it babygurllllll it is nice and greasy just the way you like it.

      • don’t you wish…again ur the SL clubber not me..lol i dont deep throat chicken wings at elysion and fmd while guzzling down an ensure for strong bones bitch. xD I dont pay for ”elite sl club groups’ full of the same old people on a new name. sorry luv not me.. im just here to make fun of you.. the one who does.

      • @me
        Outside is where these fucked up people exist.. sometimes only knowing some people online is better :p

      • =P they get mad at me but how many weeks in a row i been hearing about FMD and bariatric surgery in the same comments?? lol not exactly club convo.. but have fun . xD

      • @talktothehand I agree ah but alas haters gonna hate, and its rough when you are a complete tosser and get tossed out because of it people get so testy my my. We have to talk to Syn about why we don’t have a well stocked fried food bar like they got over at FMD. I might have to ask for my membership money back. Oh wait. I demand more for my 3 and some odd change USD DAMMIT!

        Until then , I suppose I am forced to head over to FMD, and watch babygirls munch away on all that fried food, as they wiggle their ever so fat bottomed pink cheeked, crumb filled cleavaged selves around on the sparkly dance floor while trying to hook the next grade A cream of crop gentleman.

  37. Kk lets start this shit lmao

    #1 think samr poster as #32 with the morph lmao at the eyes tho.

    #2 why dont you send them a notecard? Lol then you wont have to post bout it for weeks on rnd.

    #3 she might be a loser idk but your a loser who a post like a 4 year old via mircosoft paint.

    #4 proof?

    #5 kk you was cheated on here then and decided to go after the grill kk.

    #6 kk so she a better dj n your jealous.

    #7 not fuckin supprised lmao.

    #8 from what i can read lol your salty cus she not your child anymore n spited her here? Kk.

    #9 so yall ex friends or whys it your business? Idk.

    #10 maybe they wont be your haters if youd shut up bout them? XD go back to the psychic ward dude.

    #11 there isnt two groups you dumb ass lol if you been in their real group in the first place you would of saw a notice that groups closed for updates n the gifts only available for curent members. Genus isnt genesis lab.

    #12 busted lmao

    #13 who cares? Lmao

    #14 nice transphobia dude.

    #15 yea why peeps think its “cool” having a medical condtion in sl idk.

    #16 kk he cheated on you, or you was just shaggin your boss n he moved on?

    # 17 need some proof dude lmao. If yoi dislike so much tho for real just unfriend her you geek lol.

    #18 kk got cheated on.

    #19 where was you going with this?

    #20 kk got used for sex.

    #21 someone vaugely jealous?

    #22 lol a nice orignal personality of patato quote.

    #23 yes someone needed to take notes this week too.

    #24 report it? I smell some attention seekin

    #25 lmao WARNING! ASSHOLE ALERT!!! yea its useless making this fucker relevant though bbe lol your just exposing who he is in sl not what he could do n has done. Aka petty gossip

    #26 she stole your bf/gf?

    #27 jealousy is ugly. She aint. Try getting the pic full side rather then squashin next time.

    #28 proof?

    #29 i dont even get 1% of what this hoes moaning bout?

    #30 kk someone cheated on. Whats with the dribble? Lmao

    #31 couldnt you of just messaged her that?

    #32 so someone pretending to be her? Why even post this lmao obvious who it concerns too with that shitty blur

    #33 there are loads of socks like this you petty twat lmao

    #34 lol i bet your man was with her as you posted this

    #35 yep confirms 34 she stole your man lmao

    #36 wtf?

    #37 jealous lol

    #38 wut? Lmao report it then

    #39 red text dont tho

    #40 got cheated on

    #41 your banned lol get over it

    #42 what a nice friendship you guys have. Unfriend him if he really is annoyin you jus males you look 2faced

    #43 lol

    # 44 thats not fraud dude lol thats copy right infringement or a coincidence

    #45 lmao your crying bout 70L get a job in rl your the one dumb enough to give that to her n keep her on your friends XD

    #46 you are dumb

    #47 it says free font for a reason lmao

    #48 who cares?

    #49 who cares?

    #50 wut? Lmao

    #51 with you? Lmao

    #52 proof?

    #53 this shit again lmao getting a different angle pic doesnt change the fact no one cares dude lmao

    #54 lmao

    #55 prob not dude lol

    #56 why you even postin this? Lmao

    #57 lol makes me laugh the sideways text. Again why yall on friends list?

    #58 kk she stole ya daddy gotcha.

    #59 someone who is usin thw website properly lol

    #60 never had an issue lmao

    #61 yea shoulda been a free update

    #62 idc.

    #63 why post this??? Lmao

    • Huh don’t you know tha genus project is basically the former creators of genesis lab? Nice job knowing what you’re talking about there.

      • Yes i do you melt lmfao notice “former”… Genesis lab staff who are now genus bailed to make their own brand therefore they aint designin or managing genesis lab no more. Genesis Labs still going wjth current n new staff. That ok for you to understand bbe?

      • 16 of the sls posters disliked my comments lmao dont want an opinion dont post n continue ya raspy voice gettin trolled in sl.

      • Lmao nah genesis lab is better i think can actually edit the shape like the designer didnt want anyone to change her genus heads

      • you’re just bad at making shapes. Bet you’re one of those people who don’t check their profile.

      • wait, is melt suppose to be an insult? Your english is so bad. Smh

        Maybe you don’t understand what the post is about since your reading comprehension and writing level is about the 2nd grade level.

        What was GOOD about genesis lab LEFT to make GENUS PROJECT. What’s left is just the name. What made Genesis Lab a good brand was rebranded into Genus Project. Therefore, your whole point of Genesis Lab isn’t Genus Project is defunct.

        Is that easy enough for you to understand, idiot?

      • Melt means idiot lol again tho its just my opinion dont get mad bro

    • There are 2 genesis lab groups AND a genus project now as well. Genus project was part creators team for genesis lab brand but one creator up and dropped off sl. Creators left reformed to make Genus project. However BOTH currently been backed by same people.

      As for groups. Gensis lab had one group then when started going bellyup they added a new group. For awhile after being kept open when other creator left there was gifts actually under both groups.

      Now switched fully to new group while 75% had no idea which group keep or leave. No notices or updates then a sudden group join shutdoen and oh heres a gift but nobody can join fix to right group get it and removing gift moment able get right group.

      Get your info straight

      • Kk calm down bitch its not that serious lmao! In the active group which has been active a long while… There has been notice that the group was closed for updates. Also cus they didnt want people to join the group just to recieve the gift which in my opinion is totally fair

  38. #55 there are hosts there???

    I did not realize hosting was still a thing in Second Life, well except at FMD the place that nobody goes to anymore, because its filled with non moving static sad sacks, who spend their entire day reliving their high school days while eating fried food. What a has been place filled with pathetic babygirls running to fight over which pixel dick to fall onto for the hour. You girls don’t forget to fill out your wishlist for all those “Daddys” of SL that their RL wives refuse to fuck, so they need to come into SL and find something that is too stupid to care how shitty they are.

    • Hosting is still a thing and at a good club that isn’t an empty shell filled with AFKers, the host stirs up conversation while the DJ messes with their music.

      • Looks like someone gets their shopping Ls from hosting, eh

      • i wouldn’t worry about it apparently Elysion is different from FMD.. when in all actuality its the same avis with alts going to all of them

      • @me that could be the only thing that you have actually said around here that makes sense. Elysion is different than FMD. Heaps different. Tosses ya a chicken wing.

      • its not different.. same shit just the hoes are whiskey monday older.. old thots at elysion and trailer park thots at FMD.. go to rl clubs for anything over a 3 on a numbers chart.. since apparently u love virtual clubs lol

  39. #57-58 Lord, who put those two on here again, now they all over fb like they proud, when deep down they bent for sure or wouldn’t acknowledge this shit. Lol, i always found that entertaining, how you “special” because you on here… please for the love of god leave those ass smoochers off next week. Hell, it could of been them who posted for all we know, to stay relevant.

    Reaching for something when she can only grammer check a secret.. lol

  40. #29 – Sorry to break it to you, but literally all SL MCs are a joke; one of the biggest jokes in virtual existence. Everyone else is laughing at you already, so your “1%” was never impressing anyone.

    Hit up YouTube for “SL bikers” if you doubt me 😉

      • Fuck yeah they are; they really need to start streaming again. That shit is epic, no Shapiro.

      • One of my many fave sl troll channels that hasn’t updated anything in a long time. The Cassos also laid waste to a SL “MC” or 2. Sabby B & Pepperchini though, just too funny. They don’t even troll on Gmod anymore.

  41. #9, if someone wants to vent about their frustration about being denied for blogging, that’s their prerogative. That’s what they want to use FB for, then fine. How does this negatively affect you? If it does, you need a life. Delete her. Then move on, it’s simple.

    • Anyone that has an Avatar Facebook is mental, just proves in all facets of life, they do not live in reality.

      • Same could be said about you. You play SL. You do because you know about SL Secrets. So the same could be said about you. You, too, don’t live in reality. Thank you, Next ??

      • OneName i think its what happens when they have no real life fb friends.. so they take to sl fb to make up for the illusion

  42. #17 – If you would do some research yourself, you would see on her page that she has already left to visit her sick father which was posted YESTERDAY!

  43. Fairly weak tea sadly. The repetitive attacking of Cerberus is getting old. Prove the claims of theft or get off the shitter.
    #8 cringy red font AGAIN
    #23 SPOT ON!!
    #29 Who cares? They are all pyramid schemes to fund people’s shopping addictions. If you are that blind you deserve to have your wallet sodomized. No better then Bloodlines clans or any other “get-a-long-gang”

    #fuckhavoc
    #fuckaugust
    #fuckyouaengel

  44. 60 – even some of the Maitreya rigged items suck. There’s an adorable pair of boots they made that you need to have parts of the leg showing (there’s a slit in the back). In doing so, the leg clips through on the side. Most disappointing thing ever. I’ve rarely shopped at Candydoll as a result. The clothing does the same.

    • Her stuff starting to look the same anyway. It’s like she’s not even trying anymore. I don’t think I’ve bought a thing from there in years.

    • you probably say about alaria boots!? anyhow if someone come in world and point out to me about an issue like it i fix right away or when i have a tiny bit of time ? but i DO fix them, when i do my items i tend to go to 100% slides and horrible dances, sometimes i might not see them and sometimes i do, @not a fan , is not that im not trying i actually do but you never know what is in that person life or what is happening as i dont say it in public everything that is going on with my RL… i do try and this might be my best ? my customers know im always wiling to make updates anytime there is need, and im sorry i cant be perfect

      • Oh stfu… Everyone loves screaming rl rl…bitch fix your shit and no one will have room to complain about it

      • Yes, it’s about the Alaria boots. Beautiful shoes, but legitimately unwearable because the leg pokes through the sides and it’s a spot that we aren’t able to alpha out (unless we want a random gap showing on our leg).

        It doesn’t happen on just motion animations. I’ve worn them and even gone onto a pose stand and T-Posed and they cut through. I’ve shrunk leg muscles on my shape…still does it. Some of the clothes do it as well. One of the notable ones is the crop hoodie set released about a year or so ago. The hoodie cuts through and so does the waistline of the pants.

        Simply things that shouldn’t happen and things we can’t fix as customers because again…it’s in spots we cannot alpha out without having random gaps.

        This is said as someone who doesn’t even have a big avatar. Mine isn’t one with huge hips, thighs, and tits with the itty bitty, nonsensical waist. My avatar is actually proportionate and small compared to most and it’s an issue. I can only imagine how much pokes through on bigger avis.

      • Post-update. Wouldn’t still be saying they’re unwearable otherwise.

        And what of your other products? Another person even came and gave a more specific list than I did. You shouldn’t be advertising things as rigged to a body when they aren’t done so properly.

        Your excuse of RL can only go so far. You’re in multiple events throughout each month and again, while the items are cute, you aren’t providing full effort into them. Like someone suggested – hire a rigged if this is something that you’re struggling with. It will not only help the quality of the items, but it takes workload off of yourself as well. If RL is an issue? Drop down on some events.

      • if you know which boots automatically @rebeca.. apparently you know theres an issue.. so why not make these people happy who pay ur bills… and fix it?? If they know there is a problem with them obviously they tried them.. have some fucking class.. customers first.., and to whomever isn’t happy.. please shop around and discover newness. there are lots of people/stores with a customers happiness in mind. Also IF this is hwo you make your rl money… the fix is a rl problem..like any other rl job that may call u in on the weekends.. like cmon now

      • I’m glad I wasn’t the only one to notice that even with my vague mention of “boots with slits in back,” she knew the exact ones…she has a few different pairs that fit that description and she knew the exact ones right away.

      • make sure thats ur LAST purchase. I guess its the only way to be heard is to hit em where it hurts,

      • Like I said in the original post, I pretty much have. I bought those boots originally in October 2017. It’s now over a year and I still can’t wear them.
        The fact that publicly, she announced she fixed them when that Gyazo is taken using what is CURRENTLY in her vendors just proves that she didn’t.
        Shit, had this been Blueberry? She would have fixed the stuff within hours and sent a massively update to all who bought the item. Not Candydoll, though. Which is quite sad considering she charges more for her shit than Blueberry does and the quality and customer attention is clearly on the back-burner for her.

      • I swear some people are just ignorant and there is a little thing called an ALPHA if your damn fat ass peaks thru the clothes then alpha it out and anyways there is a thing called a DEMO!! try it before you BUY IT!!! I swear everyone wants to bitch and moan that they break through clothes I have seen MUCH WORSE than CD.

        They say they are for Belleza but nope can’t be if my TITS or ASS breaks through BIG TIME! So before anyone wants to run their mouth on creators who make the products really well and make more than one mesh and a little breaks thru get over your fucking barbie and and deal with it. and Learn to alpha your FAT ass or WIDE legs.

        Bunch of fucking idiots!

      • you can alpha the shit .. yes.. but for as long as shes been ‘making mesh’ she should have it fucking mastered by now.. there are tons of new people who are able to have transparent clothing..why not her too??? too many events .. shotty product. just stating the facts.

      • no bitch…if there are holes in the clothing, shoes, etc. that require no alpha then it is up to the designer to make something fix properly…stfu

      • The point is that it’s in spots you CANNOT alpha. Before you comment on ignorance, fully read.

      • Smith, you must be an annorexic Maitreya whore. You immediate insult the body or shape someone wears and don’t consider PERHAPS it could actually be shit rigging by Rebeca Bimbo. You see all these people saying that it’s SHEER and thus you cannot alpha. Bimbo even KNOWS what items they’re talking about and has not even updated them. So you did nothing on this thread but insult people who are unsatisfied customers in an attempt to attack a mesh body that has nothing to do with the original complaint. Where do stupid people like you come from?

      • The worst part about Smith’s comment attacking me is that my avatar is a scrawny Maitreya avi. A lot of her sliders are at zero, contrary to her initial rant. It’s bad rigging period. I say this as someone with a scrawny avatar and like I said above, I can only imagine the struggle bigger avatars have with this.

      • Excuse me, I’ve seen one too many whose shape is whacked out and complain about breaking and clippings.

        Also I’m not in maitreya so your wrong there. If I miss read something then my bad.

        So if it’s an issue it’s a pair of shoes it not a shirt or pants. It’s like saying the auto hide doesn’t work.

      • You’ve now missed the discussion entirely. Shoes or clothes, it doesn’t matter. The discussion is the rigging being shoddy for her creations. The point in the discussion is that her rigging is subpar on creations.. *AND SHE IS AWARE OF WHICH ONES ARE EFFED UP*.
        They can’t be alpha’d out. The body part has to be seen for the clothing and shoes, but it clips through the mesh. It isn’t the size of the avatar. It isn’t the mesh body causing it. It’s the creator’s rigging and she even knows that the rigging is jacked up on certain creations (like the boots mentioned that were released LAST YEAR!)…and she doesn’t care enough about her customers to have fixed the rigging.

        For a designer to be aware of a release having an issue to pinpoint it out after a year after the release and the rigging still was not updated and fixed, it becomes clear that her concern for the customer base is minimal and making a quick buck is what matters more.

        It’s clear you haven’t read before you ran your fingers across your keyboard. Next time you jump onto a thread, you might want to do so. In your attempt to call people ignorant and bitch about the customers being at fault for an defect in creation, you’ve made yourself look like an utter imbecile.

      • Listen I already said if I was on the wrong so be it!

        I hear the issue of the rigging and what I’m saying is there are worse offenders than her.

        If she is aware of it then so be it.

      • That’s nice. Was this thread about whether there were others who did worse in rigging?

        No. You jumped in response to my original reply to fling insults and call people idiots when you not only said irrelevant comments…but you didn’t know what you were even talking about in the first place.

      • Your original comment only talks about the clipping so I beg your pardon? So my remark is valid until you corrected your self about the rigging of the item.

        That is when I said if i read something incorrect my bad. It’s like you forcing shit on another person. So before you keep going on i stated what i did and that is all. Now knowing more about the problem it is different. If the rigging is bad it is and like i said before I’ve seen MANY others who have worse items!

      • Actually, my original comment spoke specifically of the Maitreya-rigged items. The body clipping through a mesh? That’s a rigging issue. Plain and simple.
        Not only did you jump in slandering about other bodies in response to me – again, irrelevant – but you’re now trying to state you weren’t aware it was about rigging when it was. The body clipping through happens on a rigging job.

        Again, no one cares if there are “worse rigged items” from other stores. We aren’t discussing other stores. This thread was about candydoll and their negligence.

      • I said I fixed them long long time a go but they wont accept my coment, not my fault tbh

      • Personally I don’t own those shoes but never had rigging issues on anything of CD.

        Think people just wanna bitch, as I said there are worse offenders!!

      • Its not “wanting to bitch”.

        When we spend our L on something, it should be quality. It’s bad enough that the owner uses deceitful DAZ renders as it is. We end up having to demo things just to see how it actually looks. But when someone spends over 1k L for a fat pack of something? It shouldn’t have continuous problems. That’s not wanting to bitch. That’s customers purchasing a product and expecting it to be the quality that they’re paying for.

      • You stated that far afterward. And again, as mentioned on the thread, those boots weren’t the sole example given. That was one. It happens with your clothes as well and I’m not the only person stating so.

      • i use maitreya and didn’t try to make it freya or hourglass (meaning normal proportions for that particular body) and had a few pieces that still poke through.. so its maitreya as well.. its just laziness and rushing out the product. Romper at epiphany too.. while you’re at it label the fucking HUDS .. its nice to know what part you’re changing without fucking it all up
        I find it interesting that full perm creators are able to make correct fitting items though

      • I have a beautiful pair of The Forge bento gloves from a gacha on my adult avatar. They only fit if her body fat is ZERO. If it’s even one point, her right arm starts clipping right above the end of the glove. That’s shit rigging and it needs to stop. People whine all the time about “slider abuse”. Being forced to keep a slider at zero is just as extreme as having it at 100.

      • Agreed! It’s nice to have form-fitting mesh clothing, but not at the expense of having to have everything low on sliders and STILL have issues with clipping.

      • Omg yall raging over this XD

        If you dont like her shit, dont shop there? FUCK ME A LOGICAL CONCEPT ?

      • Clearly, you missed the mention of having stopped shopping her products because she doesn’t rig her items as advertised.

        Perhaps read? Fuck us, that would be a logical concept!

    • The actual post about 60 is constructive., clearly written by someone that just wants to be able to support CandyDoll. I find it relatable and frankly I’m glad to see the secret here. I hope Rebeca can take the critique constructively.

      Some things that I have demo’d and not purchased because of fit issues(issues that cannot be fixed with the alpha because of positioning) are:

      – The gacha with the Lynn socks/boots (they clip at the top of the thighs) – HG
      – Noella sweater (clips under the arms and sides of the waist on HG and Freya)
      – Cara dress! This came out last September and still has zero rigging for Freya breasts. You legitimately should not have written on the ad that Freya is supported because it is not. Also on this dress, in HG size, the butt pokes through.

      So these are just three items that I currently have their demo’s in my inventory to list. I would buy them all as fatpacks if they worked for what I wear, and like the OP I am sure I’m not alone, Rebeca.

      Please just take some lessons from Addams, Blueberry, and RIOT and figure out what your rigging issue is, or hire someone to do it so it doesn’t take up your time. But it is ridiculous. Acknowledge it and grow.

      <3

    • Listen, If someone wants to play a male avi and they are really female in rl then go for it! and this goes vice versa. But when you play these avis and decide you want to be in a “sl relationship ” dont be mad when shit goes bad. You are ultimatley forcing your beliefs on someone else. We can cross talk, and try to justify how its a virtual world and its ok to do so all we want but the truth is the truth. You are wrong. Let’s stop having compassion for some people and have it for everyone. You cant force someone to be with you on the pretense of lies . If you where a female avi , playing a male and hooked up with a partner you later found out was not a female but a male playing a female avi you would flip your shit so please lets stop thinking we are being politically correct with cosigning bullshit . It’s not at all about hate. It’s about someones right to choose and you taking away that right.

      • Yup, lying is lying, and “muh fantasies” is not an acceptable excuse to play with someone’s feelings. If you’re misleading someone while telling them you care about them, you deserve the hate.

      • Then the issue there is being misleading and manipulative, not posing as the opposite gender. I don’t assume anyone on SL is what they portray. It’s literally a virtual world with vampires, nekos and women with ridiculous thigh to waist ratios. People go to SL to be what they are not. I think the real problem here is a bunch of chicks looking for dick, virtual or real, and getting butthurt when they are rejected, then suddenly they want to “warn” other women away from “posers”. Dull. If that’s all you’ve got on someone, move along.

      • It depends.

        If your “sl relationship” is just roleplay in Second Life, who cares? If it matters so much that your roleplay only partner completely shares their RL with you so you can check their gender and verify them then you probably shouldn’t be roleplaying in Second Life.

        If you’re going into real life or are a person who doesn’t do roleplay? Then it does matter and you have every right to be pissed off if you’re deceived.

      • i think thats bullshit.. get off a game.. and get on fucking tinder pr something for real life anything.. forreal.. stop coming to role play clients to find real anything.. dummies.. i bet the nigerian scammers make a killing off some of you idiots

      • SL relationships are just that, SL. IT’s not RL. If you wish to take it RL, then thats when you get into specifics. Most of SL relationships are just role play fun. So at that point, it shouldn’t matter. SL was never intended to be Match.com or Plenty of Fish (I think that is called that?)

        It takes 2 people to be in a relationship. No one knows about you, or the other person. But why are you on SL, trying to hook up. EVERYONE Knows, SL isn’t real

      • they don’t wanna have to go to tinder and those sites because they can’t use their cute avi picture to reel em in. lmao little more facts xD can’t mind fuck them into thinking ur cute with them rl horror pics

    • Its ONLY the women in SL who care to be honest with you..lol i met numerous guys in my time in SL and each and every has said as long as they rp a girl good and they can’t tell..they don’t care. lol ladies learn this.. THEY DONT LOVE YOU HOES. xD

      • This comment is so ambiguous as to make no sense. Correct your punctuation and be clear.
        First sentence can be read either of two ways.
        Second sentence is unclear: Who are “they” ? Males or females?
        Thirdly, i sense you’re full of crap.

      • why is everyone in SL a fucking grammar teacher? get ur head out of the books and go for a jog.. hows that @ myself.. better? lol if ur too old to know that ur<– is your or you're maybe the internet is not for you.. or go read netlingo (dot) com and study that instead of acting like a complete retard lol

      • You sound triggered AF lmao You must be out there cat fishing in them sl streets. LMAO!!

      • not triggered at all.. its an honest question i’ve asked guys.. and like i said MANY have said exactly what i said.. you sound like a girl triggered by clits lol

      • Everyone is screaming catfish and literally 1. Doesnt fully understand what catfishing is, 2. shouldn’t be expecting real life from a virtual online game. SL isn’t a dating service, it’s a role play center. Get out of junior high and grow up

      • amen @respect.. i wonder what tinder people would say if i go on there asking if they have a mesh dick. I bet they’d tell me im in the wrong fucking place lol

      • When someone uses the word “triggered” when obviously someone isnt… usually is the one thats “triggered” and still probably in junior high

  46. 54 – Not Syn’s fault you absolutely refuse to follow the sim guidelines that are clearly laid out when you agree to join the group. Themed parties are ALWAYS dress code required. Oh…and we do have non-themed parties too. You would know this if you paid a little attention instead of smearing someone because you refuse to participate.
    55 – I am an Elysion DJ. She does NOT treat her DJ’s like shit. In fact she is one of the most (if not THE most) generous managers on the grid. Now, if you had a problem, it’s most likely because YOU caused the problem. If you’re not a DJ (or never were one) and you wrote this secret, I would advise you to mind your own business or you can even come to me. My name is above this. I would be happy to give you a proper education.

    On a personal note, Elysion is my home. It’s where I have met some of the most dynamic and amazing people. It’s secrets like this that just reinforce my love for Syn and for the sim. This smear campaign is just proof that someone is just jealous of success and desperately grasping at every single straw they can just to bring someone down because they hate themselves. Like I stated before, I am happy to have a discussion with anyone that has an issue with the sim or with the owner or managers. Also, I hate to speak for Syn, but if you have issues, I am sure she would be willing to listen and take anything you say into consideration.

    • LOL Thanks for approving it after I re-submitted without my name. For a moment I thought I had done something bad….

    • I have to agree with Jadelyn. Syn is one of the nicest people I have met on SL, always has a kind word and a smile for ELY members. She busts her ass to make the sims amazing, the events fun and she employs fabulous friendly people. All this for a one time group join fee. If you paid it, it is not too much to ask to come to a themed event dressed in theme. If it is, that is on you, not on Syn. ELYSION uses hosts very infrequently, because they have excellent management staff who do the work of a host. They greet, send notices, keep the conversation flowing, oh and did I mention she has the best DJ’s? All are different, all entertaining. I have hosted there a couple of times when the staff was unavailable and a DJ I occasionally work for asked for the help. I was treated very well, paid a base fee, and treated just like all the rest of the staff. I know several DJ’s are begging to work there. Tell me that happens at other clubs?? She has a wait list for gorgeous rentals available across three sims. I think this jealousy & smear campaign against one of the best people, builders, and sim owners on the grid is just sad.

      • @Kae prepare for the greasy fingered FMD babygirls, angry dejected DJ’s (though NOT REALLY DJs, because they exist on something that is installed on their computers) and the broke ass troll scrubs so start slapping that thumbs down, because that is all the broke ass scrubs got to do at 2pm in the afternoon when they finally awake from their slumber. #cryinboutjoinfeesinSL

        It is clear who ever posted that does not even know what goes on at Elysion, or they would have known there is not hosts there.

  47. 57 and 58: People like FB drama and I cannot lie. Why take it so seriously especially when it is joking…. Is it hard to tell when someone is joking on FB…. make it fun its just FB.

  48. I am very much humored at the thought that someone is thinking about me enough to make two posts about me. It’s even funnier because I know someone is reading my post with a scowl on their face, but refuse to delete me. Cause they love seeing what I post on social media. So, you’re basically a fan. Hi, come message me and let’s have a meet and greet.

    • Focus on better things. Like getting your shit together. Lol

    • Hey just because people follow trump on twitter doesn’t mean they’re necessarily a fan or a supporter. They just want to see the train wreck aka YOU.

    • You don’t have any real friends. You just have people who follow you or friend you because of your blog and/or because they want to see what the next trash will come out of your trashy, bullying mouth. And obviously, you bullied and went after someone so bad that they felt the need to put you on this gossip rag site. Problem is, instead of being upset that you actually made someone’s life hell and they fought back in this way, you are reveling in it. That speaks volumes for you and your crowd. And I am grateful that I am not part of your little circle. You are a horrible person and really should check yourself at the door.

      • *hair flip* I too am grateful you’re not apart of my circle. The only person who can tell me to check me is my daddy who pays all my bills so I can spend my money at my two jobs on whatever I want. *waves* Hi, fan ???

      • Spend your money on whatever you want. To much pride, daddy pays all, 2 jobs, yet your ass applied for food stamps. Abuse the system much? Then have the nerve to talk about not being in your “tax bracket “. Lmao.. that’s good one.

      • Ahahahahaha wait are you proud you work 2 jobs????????? Ahahahahahahaha. And then to rely on “daddy”???? LMAO

        Aren’t you just a pathetic little soul. God, if it were me, I would be embarrassed to even mention the fact that I have to work 2 jobs and then have a daddy to top it off. Ahahaha

      • @ the ‘princess’ but if i had to place a bet on this thats a dude…im 99.9% sure.. because i know no woman who says hair flip but all my gay besties do so nice try. . no one wants to be you.. and if ur ‘daddy’ is in SL paying your approx $3USD tier.. you should find something else to feel excited about lmao retard

      • If I may… its not exactly a insult to tell someone they dont have friends in second life. Its a virtual world with a really bad reputation.

      • so true @ryanne.. A while back Dr. Phil explored SL and made an avi.. i wonder if he knows sl is the gateway to pedophilia lol i should fill him in on a real good ratings show

      • Every part of the internet is a gateway to pedophilia. There is no place on the internet where they dont exist

      • this is true.. but tell that to these desperate girls who role play kids dressed as whores with a pacifier and say its just dd/bg shit…i hope these sad excuses for women don’t have kids.. they’re the type to move a pedophile right in their own rl house because dick is more important than kids.

  49. 15: Super Kawaii…… One thing that gets me about some of the mesh heads and shapes people are using is that they literally look like toddlers on adult bodies. Then you have the bad shape where the hips are at 100% and shoulders at 0. Then you have the skins being made for kawaii….. I am sorry but I cannot handle that toddler, little girl look being toted to “REAL DADDY DOMS.” Any real Dom would with any sense who is not into pedophelia would steer clear of that. It is just creepy as shit. People can look how they want yeah….. but that look is sick if you ask me.

    • Why anyone would make their hips look like that is beyond me. It doesn’t look sexy, it looks hideously ugly.

      • its how they get away with thot pics and a baby face. LL won’t do anything if you have a babyface and big boobs and are naked… but if ur flat chest with a babyface and nude sometimes they will pull an account

      • most daddy doms are basement dwellers that never had a girlfriend when they were young so they live it out in SL.. im telling u seriously.. guys that do that shit are rl ugly. no one wants to listen. lol real decent looking guys don’t act that way.
        SL doms have a SL screen up and fortnite on the other screen.. practicing the floss while sitting in their rolling chair

  50. #15 just looks hideous. Saw it at harajuku? And ignored it

    #23 they’ll never learn but good attempt

    #33 looks like Cubara posted this one. Sorry noche’s version looks better esp the texturing. Cubara has always been an off brand.

    #35 home wrecker? What, your sl home? Lol. You pathetic fuck.

    #46 did these girls really think that was his RL pic? Come on you can’t have been that stupid and on top of that to post it.

    #56 that’s just a bad shape. Bitch didn’t check her profile whilst making it. Like a lot of you guys.

    • Say it louder for the people in the back about their profiles; some of you have never looked at your own faces from the side, and it shoooows.

      • Good Lord, the horrible deformations I have seen when looking at people from the side.

      • I can’t figure out if “pan face” (usually Lelutka) or “slope jaw” is my favorite, LOL

      • I love me some “my lips are so huge and high up under my nose that I can smell them” faces. Or the underbites that would make a shovel excavator jealous.

    • Did you ever think; Maybe the poster used that photo on the meme in correlation to his RL looks???? I guarantee that is exactly what happened. 😉

      • no i didn’t think that because that picture looks like the account holder put it in his own profile, not edited. Now i’m assuming that it’s edited since you say that.

  51. #1 – The actual message is lost on me … I’m entirely thrown off by those eyes lol

    #2 – Admittedly it is a shame to see someone with talent doing something like this when they could be brave and get by on their own merit.

    #6 – This description could fit many DJs in SL to be honest lol

    #8 – *eye twitches* red…font …whyyyyy

    #9 – I really hope, if she is a blogger manager…that this is not one of her images because… it makes sense why she gets rejected if it is, and is terrifying that she could in any way manage someone else when she needs managing. So here’s to hoping that this was the OP’s image for the other bloggers’ sake.

    #15 – I seriously still don’t get this look and style…considering how overly sexualized it becomes in SL, there is no way to really say it’s just an innocent, youthful look anymore.

    #22 – Personality of a potato … lmao that just made me laugh

    #25 – While it is at least slightly more legible…that’s a whole lot more red font than I ever want to waste time reading, pass.

    #29 – I mean….the SL MC world entirely is kind of a joke, so, there’s that.

    #30 – This image just makes me feel icky.

    Nothing else particularly interesting or new to me otherwise so leaving it at that.

    • 9) Yes , lol it’s her image. I don’t want to degrade her. But if you see all her images aren’t that of expertise. However she brags to be an excellent blogger. Complaing and comparing with other bloggers who got selected for the big events. If you are not selected means you are ofcourse not good as the blogger who did get selected. Please stop acting like a brat.!!

      Oh and little secret: she dont reply to her bloggers even when they ask her for option/help. Like dude you are Blogger manager for help, not just the powder. I hope the stores owners realise why there good bloggers are leaving the group’s.

      • You really must be very bored to be commenting on this shit… also you seem to believe a lot of it.
        Please open the window, get some fresh air!

      • @ The Psycho … you seem to be just skipping along spreading snark anywhere you saw #25 mentioned. It’s freezing outside, so no, I’ll not be opening a window, thanks though. Note, I never said that I even read that atrocious piece…not worth my time with the cringy red font….so don’t worry I’m still not going to bash you or support you, you can go back to your circus over there —>

  52. Syn Beresford thanks you, whoever you are, memberships are up! Life is good! Free advertising is the BEST!

    • Why yall chargin 1500 to join? Lmao not able to make the monies with events alone? Piss takers XD

      • i said this on a different comment.. but its the truth.. they do that because people who join feel sl rich..lol like they splurged the $6USD fee and feel elite. lol they should be embarrassed xD if i had to picture that place using rl images it would be like an AARP office of whiskey mondays foxtrotting around.. xD

      • Welp 1499L more then what Glow Charges, So better sex rates less boring imo. Saw saturday event, get lonely there

      • Lmao seres bypassing the shadow bans again XD OBSESSED MUCH?!

        Fyi Glow dont charge for their group access n you should kno that since you recently got fired n banned lmfao why you even comparing to that place anyway whats a indie pg club got to do with a bdsm place? Thats what your dead give away was along with defending sere XD

      • @nameynameytoopussytotellyournamey

        And I got ONE question for you. What the hell is Glow? never even heard of it. It must be a smashing place to hang out, and no I am not not serious about that comment. I should head over and search the traffic count for it, that will tell me all I need to know

      • Its a new club dude . anyways this post was never even bout them em is serenityflyfire mcmahon who keeps bypassin bans. In my opinion tho traffic dont mean shit with mount of bots at places lol

      • If you’re basing the fee on your ability to get laid, you’re doing it wrong. Re-Evaluate yourself.

      • Why? Because running and decorating 6+ sims for YOUR entertainment is fucking expensive. I think it’s a nominal fee to have access to multiple sims and experiences throughout the year. These sims are super high quality builds that take a lot of time and effort for 1-2 people to build and maintain. So, compared to other sims that charge an obscene amount for only one sim or charge a massive amount for a one time event that only lasts for a couple months, I think you’re getting a damn good deal.

      • @Namenshamewhateverblahblah
        Prob to keep poor trolls such as yourself out. That would be my guess perhaps. Although I could be wayyy off base. I always am amazed at the people in Second Life who just assume they are entitled to everything. Especially the poor people who somehow pay for a computer to get on the internet, pay for internet service to come to this outstanding blog, and then pay for a keyboard to type their responses, then claim they know fuck all about the subject they are even yapping about because they are too much of a broke ass scrub to pay for anything be it land access or content that creators or for anything that anyone does who has more talent than the sea of fucktards Second Life and Virtual Secrets share in common.

        Yet if your not a broke whiney ass scrub you tell those people they are elite. You know compared to you guys– they are.
        lolll and you just prove that over and over every week.

      • Kk calm down i was just wonderin why lol… Think yoi need a lil sun shine boii

      • Fyi hate to break itnto ya but id never even heard of this place that charges a stupid amount to join a group before today… Jus saiyinn

    • And I would like to thank Syn for being absolutely rude when asking for help with no response twice. Ignored! Oh, and the money donated to her sim on one occasion followed with no response either. She has her little circle of friends but treats outsiders like her shit doesn’t stink.

      • It sounds mega lame this club just stop goin XD lmao at 1500 entry tho pathetic even designers who GIVE BACK via gifts etc aimt chargin that shit for their groups shes justa money hungry farting lard ass whore who needs to get a job in rl

      • @namenshamebabaay you poor people get so testy. Geezz My My. And, speaking of jobs, if you maybe had one yourself that involved something more than saying “May I take Your Order” you would have enough money to join the elite groups.
        😀

        Why do all of you care so much what someone charges for access to private land? Nobody forces you to pay, go stand around in some ugly mainland for free, knock yourself out looking at all the eye sores around SL, because there are plenty of those around for people who choose not to support places then whine and bitch when they close. If you have not paid or gone, or have even heard of Elysion as you claim above then you have no clue what you are even talking about, or comprehension with your middle school brain.

      • @wematter
        Aww you need your nappy changed? are you all pissed up? that why you are so fussy. Do designers thank you when you buy their products? Cause wow, I have never had that happen. How many of those answer your questions, or thank you every time you purchase things. Nobody has time to kiss your ass in Second Life, you crybaby.

        And which was it was she rude to you? or did she just ignore a pussy ass message, like the one you posted here? lollzzz

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