Welcome to virtual-secrets, week 514.
virtual-secrets: Week 514
· Lourdes Denimore ·
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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.
(taps fingers on the glass windows)
sunday, sunday, sunday…
I know I’m ready for the posts about Catwa/Akeruka. It’s gonna be interesting.
I have met jade personally in real life. Her and her three boys have welcomed me into their family with open arms.
Jade does a lot of charity work in real life and is a devoted loving mother to her kids.
I love her aditude of being on this stupid sight and the positive way she has looks at it as publicity.
I know for a fact that jade may have her account logged in but is often away from the computer dealing with the needs of her children. She is a remarkable woman and mother and I’m proud to be part of her life not just rl and sl
hey i think it so funny how she making certain people come on here to take up for her . listen no matter what is postive on here about her . im going to be here knocking it down cause you know your ass is lying . or wait or you fucking her too cause if you are that will only last a couple of weeks . wait a min lol is the charity work devoting her child support to voodoo ? i guess thats her childrens needs ? give me a break . jade is a piece of work . lies about everything just like you are do too and i feel so sorry that you consider her to be a devoted mother when you know she isnt . keep posting this postive posts about jade i need my laugh for the day . anyone and everyone knows who she is and what she is about . bravo but hey thanks for the try tho 🙂
Seems to me that your that hung up on her that deep down you 1 want to be her 2 inlove with her but what ever makes you feel good
oh doctor who . thats your name right ? are you that doctor who jade needed for her kids . if so do me a favour and go check on them they ready do need you lol just saying the truth hurts . why would i want to be in love or want to be her when i cant afford to be that pathetic.
If you knew jade as well as you say you do, Then you would have known who I was straight away but since you do not this just prove a you don’t know her as well as you make out that you do, Hahahaha
why im suppose to say who you are so you can look pathetic like she does on here or ? that you both do on your own ? or noone gives five shits on who you are plus is that suppose to scare me that i should know you ? give me a fucking break jade starts shit . thinks is so funny to run her mouth about people real life , second life or anything else its ok for her to do it. plus make fun of her workers at voodoo.which is sad cause everyone there is clueless. dont relize how much shit she talking about them . or jade wants to bully people . but when its coming back on her like it is . she crys and whines to anyone and everyone . plays the vitcim whoah is me . rofl . “plays the violin for both of you “.. is a sweet sound sounds like her kids crying . i wonder how much she paying you to take up for her cause she doesnt have any money her pockets are empty .. maybe its once a month check that makes her rich or you fuck her if so i feel so sorry cause you fell in
Your the one who can’t let it go
please for the love of god if you are to post something at least learn to spell. Its Lying. Not Lieing.
#26 Someone puts Caiti on sl secrets and no one hardly comments because she is an actual nobody. Just because you’re dating “Roman” means you only get his sloppy scraps. LOL
I wish yall could understand how little it really matters to me that someone is sad or mad enough to post my irrelevant ass up on this site.
People who don’t care, don’t respond.
So little that you had to come here to post? Ok Boo. #staymad #staylumpy
I LOVE JADE AND VOODOO
and how many times you been fired ? lol
27 I think Jade is a great caring owner, I have been on voice with her when she has been at work, She also goes afk a lot to deal with her children. I do not think that you know her if you had to say this. I think your just jealous. If she treats her staff so badly why does she have staff parties with gifts for all of her staff?
I love working for her and I love voodoo
thats so sweet you going to take up for her . we did too .tell her to stop being a vitctim to you right now . if jade would stop pissing people off and treated her staff right than maybe you would be telling the truth right now . she has treat her friends and staff like shit. thats why she cant even keep anyone working for her or have friends thats
loyal . one day she will fuck you over like she did all of us . then you see what the big picture is . fake ass club for a fake ass club owner .. also us jealous why would we be for a mom who dont take care of her kids and being a ho ? wise up
You know her personally? You met her face to face in real life? If not you have no right to judge. What sort of people bring kids into a virtual world? That shows your no better then anyone
actually do you know her ? I’m guessing that you dont either or if you do let me break this down for you . jade is the one who brings her real life to secondlife .. mostly anyone who she fucked or work for her knows . she does it to her own self . if she not crying about funds for her club which she uses her child support which “BELONGS TO THE KIDS” i might be wrong on thinking that way .thats what a true mother does. is to make sure her kids are not sick or looked after. for which jade chooses to take her kids to the hosptial and not a doctor . or stays at the second life club the whole time . wait uses her kids as excuse so she can make other stay there so she go fuck a random or cheat with another lol .. she cant keeps her friends or guy candies of the week cause they cant deal with her lies . and stays on skpe calls laughing at workers . working their ass off for her . so before you saying im judging jade . oh wait putting her business out there like you call say .. go work for her or be her friend ? or fuck her . then you will see why people standing up against her . also if you know her im guessing u do . cause you took up for her . tell her stop spreading her legs like she does her rl info and maybe noone will know 🙂
of course i am . the truth hurts dont it ?
#18 Lance’s box sure won’t be empty for long if Harlow has her ass kissing way LMAO she is all over trying to get that D. Seriously that women has no self respect and loves acting like some “tough” girl now when she’s the most insecure person you’ve ever met.
That didn’t take long – do you happen to have the winning lotto #s too?
HARLOW AND LANCE HAVE PARTNERED LMAO.
you can tell the girls that hang around that guy are gross.. lol because they’re just waiting on their ‘week in his box’ lol all of em need some class.. i cant imagine waiting for it to be “my turn”.. go on a diet or something learn to feel better about yourselves lmao nasty asses
Is there no other sim in sl? Laughs ( there reall isn’t) so everyone!! If you can’t beat them! JOIN US. Get a static pose and come actually hang at FMD.
1. You took my name. It is a good one though, so I don’t blame you.
2. It’s woman. Not women. Grammar is a wonderful thing. You should try it sometime.
3. Punctuation is also important.
4. Jealous much?
Nah not jealous, just amused.
I agree with the content being really weird, fetishy and offensive when applied to a transgender woman – but the title is far from it. it says femboys AND transgirls, not femboys/transgirls. No one thinks they’re interchangeable, and I doubt the owners are implying that trans women are the same as femboys or even remotely the same category, not to mention every trans person is different. If you did your research you’d know there are transgender people within the staff of the event, as well as creators in the event itself.
Also its SL, everything becomes fetishized – its outright sexualization of everything is very separate and different from the real world. If something similar was happening IRL, then you’d have cause to “boycott” and smear organizers.
TL;dr Just cause you, one trans woman, is offended by how the event is laid out – doesn’t mean the many other that buy, support and shop at the event were too. Get off your high horse and stop trying to find hate speech everywhere to make yourself feel more oppressed than you are. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
#21 You’re right, we shouldn’t support ignorance, we should correct it when we can. So I gotta tell you, you sound like a real big ignorant, bitter, vindictive drama queen. One who can’t support your own because you’re to busy being a nit-picking shitbag. It’s people like you that keep our community bickering with each other instead of coming together to put who we are in a positive light. Nah, instead you gotta insult the event, the content creators, the coordinators. I bet in the same breath you’ll bitch that there are no events that represent who you are. No one said transgirls and femboys were the same but you. All you’ve done is let everyone know that you can read but lack reading comprehension. Dummy, the word “and” is like…what word can I use that’s easier to comprehend than AND?
She should use spell check.
showing a critical or disrespectful attitude.
“she tells me I’m fat and is always making derogatory remarks”
synonyms: disparaging, denigratory, deprecatory, disrespectful, demeaning.
Diragatory – no spelling found.
do you look up every word? lol so annoying.. at least you could figure it out.. and thats all that really matters on a slam site
#21 – I was kind of happy to see such an event being held. However, I am always cautious of those who are just not as aware of the difference going into it. Guess all there is to do is educate, spread awareness, and try to melt ignorance away a bit a time.
If there was anything I might not like about the event, it must be the name. I know the name “something extra” is meant to be a positive about celebration of these kind of bodies. But I wonder what someone would name an event focused on the direct opposites of femboys and transgirls.
It’s also true that almost everything in SL gets taken to the next level and fetishised strongly. Sex just sells. People buy a whole lot of it!
Now speaking of events that represent people, I’m curious what events there have been for the opposite side of the spectrum? I think I’ve seen some “tomboy”stuff before, androgynous things. But how about some super masculine guys that happen to have the other plumbing instead? I wonder what kind of content people could create for that. Is there underwear for men’s mesh bodies without the bulge? I should look and see… Been a while since the last time!
29. lol you mean lance is the one that supposedly shut the latter down? the only thing that isn’t quite clear rn is if lance is sldox’s bitch or if sldox is his. or perhaps they take turns… depending on the monetary situation.
Sldox is still a thing? That punk hasn’t found a RL yet?
What is sldox?
Guy who would hack accounts, change shit in their profiles to say hacked by him, often put their rl info in there, and had a blog where he’d post all nude pics he found on said accounts.
well thankfully with so many catfish in the world most pics were merely just found throughout the net lol
#27 is a gay basher too, down right rude and doesn’t support anyone that isn’t in “her clique”. I worked at her club once, was a manager there. She down right disrespected her management team and always complained that her children needed to see doctors and they were sick but yet she spends the $300 a week on a full sim… most of the avatars that sit on the dancefloor are bots too…. Fake traffic for a fake club run by a fake ass ho!
Sims were $300 usd a month, not a week. Jade always has been full of shit. She does use her kids as an excuse for everything, seems like they spend more time in the hospital than a nurse, yet she always has time to be on SL. Also when people found out she was married in RL, she’d say how unhappy she was, that they just live together but aren’t really “together” anymore, and she’d divorce him but she’d get thrown in jail because they’d think she only married him so he could become a citizen. Then after all that, she has another kid. Because you keep having more kids with a guy you’d love to divorce and aren’t really with anymore.
wow she sounds like a gem
Are you talking about the Blarney Stone? That is how the staff is there too!
#30 She not only jumps into relationships after relationships with any guy who gives her attention but she’s nothing but a pretentious cunt. She’ll turn on you the moment she thinks she can’t use you anymore. She likes to act like shes sweet and friendly but really all she cares about is herself. If it ain’t about her she’ll make it about her. One of those #foreveravictim- Stop using your fucking mental disorder as an excuse for your bitchery. You’re not poly. You’re just another whore, Embryo.
#30 Embry hasn’t had a sl kid she hasn’t hit on or a social ladder she hasn’t climbed. Her rl isn’t great at all along with her looks so I see why she needs her sl to be the way that it is. I think poly relationships are just another way of not being commited but still have someone in those lonely moments you can just call up while your main is being a door mat doing things in life. People usually don’t stay in her life long and that’s a big red flag. Screw whoever put this sl secret because now we’ll all be hearing about this for months and I’ll have to unfollow her on FB.
@8 is Kunt still trying to keep himself relevant by making his own secrets to share? He must be due for a new release in his shitty arse store
Run chloe run
ok only gonna focus on number 15 .. basically Joselyn From the moment I met her I had a bad feeling about her. I first met her on her little. She thought she was so cute and adorable. But she was a manipulative two faced bitch then. Then she went on her teen and her need for control began to show. She began pitting family members against each other while playing such an innocent lil victim. She seemed to have unlimited lindens. Buying things for everyone in the family. She stated she was deaf and showed us pics of her rl. I couldn’t even feel sorry for her because I saw right through her. Then the family split up and some of us joined another family. She immediately became the princess. She was always drunk or high when she came on mic .. yes she came on mic. She stated she could “hear” male voices because of the bass that would cause her speakers to vibrate. She again started pitting family against each other , playing the victim. She caused so much drama and bullshit. When she finally left, it was relief. But some of the family members decided to go with her. Now this is what’s so funny .. the ones who went with her are the same ones comments on roman’s fb how they always knew it and blah blah blah. These people were Jocelyn’s minions. I’m sorry for the actual good people who got played and scammed by her but for these people .. karma is a bitch. You people are just are pathetic and two faced as she was/is. The only difference is her her shit was found out and made public. She was a lying, manipulative, two faced bitch and i am so glad her… Read more »
#27 some people thinks its a stupid post about you .but if you wouldnt stop being a whiney fucking bitch and dont fuck people over than maybe just maybe club voodoo would be as popular as you think it is ..you treat your staff like shit or fuck them and keep them for a week or two than throw them to the side . also that you got to use your real life money thats your child support to keep that club up and running .shows how a shitty mother you are . . you never open your real life to anyone? stop your lying almost like you saying you dont open your legs anyone . all these lies . also stop trying to threaten your staff about closing your club .. if you ran it fucking right . they would step up
30. Lord, she literally plays off polyamorous but forgets that she is just an attention seeking hoe with a clapped out vag.
If it ain’t always about her she isn’t happy
=D@clapped out vag lol
If she had a bento pussy it would be set to 100. Like punching smoke or throwing hotdogs down a hallway
#21. Thank you but no thank you. I don’t need the white knight brigade telling me what I can and can’t do within my own community. And no where does it say they are the same. I for one am glad there are people and makers out there making things to fit into both categories. Regardless of the already fetishized names and slang we all deal with and ignore daily because of the way SL is. Why draw more attention to it. And have all these lemmings talking about “ignorance”? No thank don’t need any protection. Don’t need your dumb ass words to make you feel better about your neckbeard selves. Talk the talk or get the fuck out. If you are so concerned about our rights and feelings then actually do something about it rather than prattle on these fucking clickbate words and high horse shit.
Don’t hate on something you can’t relate to. I am proud of this event. I think this is a great idea. If you don’t. Then don’t show up. Simple. This does not need to be something political.
Hey dumb shit. It’s me. The author of that post, an actual living breathing transwoman. First of all, fuck off with your stupid self indulgent attitude, god knows I would NOT and DO NOT give a shit about you. I would not be your white knight for anything, I’m being one for myself and the likeminded women who are offended at the fact that we went to this stupid event with an open mind – actually happy to be included in something for once and all there is are sales for cocks and bulged panties. THAT is fucked up. Not to mention many of the other dumb shit that makes 0 sense to be there in the first place. You are certainly welcome to do whatever you please within OUR community, but you don’t have a right to assume that you’re the only person involved & not offended so therefore I’m the asshole “neckbeard” (Which by the way has been, hm, 12 years since I’ve had anything of the sort thanks laser treatments!❤️!) who must be some woke guy trying to score some LGBT points by white knighting poor helpless transwomen like yourself. Get off your high horse you dense mother fucker. I and a large number of other trans women do NOT like that event because A) there is no such thing as “transwomen clothing” it’s just wormens clothing, you should fucking know this. B) Transwomen and femmeboys are COMPLETELY DIFFERENT, and you should know that. It’s comparing apples to oranges. “Ohh hurr they’re similar because they’re round” how stupid does that sound? That’s exactly what you’re doing. There used to be actual good events that supported the trans community without all of this ignorant bullshit. Remember Gen Neutral? THAT was the proper way to do it. Anyway, just… Read more »
You pretty much proved my point with your reply. Finding something out of nothing because “you”‘ were offended. Name calling gets you taken seriously. I would like to point out I did not call you anything, I generalized since you were anonymous. by saying neckbeard SJW it was a generalization of this kind of behavior. Nowhere did I call you a dumb bitch, a moron, neither did I openly try to offend you, I was explaining that the Secret was a ridiculous. However seeing your reply, I see that you are a person that looks for anything to be offended by and lashes out in a spew of hateful vitriol. Not only that but you lack common sense & proper communication skills. I guess being anonymous gives you the power to be as such. You can troll all you want, but in all honesty that’s all you are
Wow you are scary! You really put a bad face on LGBT. I feel sorry for the rest of the community because of people like you.
You’re labouring under the misapprehension that all trans women are post op, or have the same level of body dysmorphia as you seem to suggest. This is a very narrowminded view. I too am a trans woman on the other side of the screen and guess what? I still have my junk and have zero intention of having any lower surgery because my level of dysmorphia about my body is different to others. What a shock, eh?!
Also, I happen to know that the event has had close to 3000 unique visitors so far, so I’m guessing that those who are opposed to it are somewhat in the minority.
I also happen to know that the organisers are indeed taking steps to curb the derogatory terms used by some vendors, which was THEIR policy, not the event organisers, so stop bashing one person for what someone else has done. If you want to spew your hateful vitriol at smeone, focus on the creators who use such terms, not the event organisers.
And lastly, you seem incapable of grasping the fact that despite it saying on the signege and several others here pointing it out, no one but you is placing trans women and femboys under the same umbrella, banner or other such metaphor for a collective group. So please, stop trying to pick fights where there aren’t any. And if you don’y like the event, you and your “large number” of trans friends don’t have to go back there for the next one, do you!
Can you two just kiss and make up?
I don’t know what is wrong with me then, I have been trying for years and she won’t fuck me.
I know many other male and females who have tried I always thought she was fridget, maybe I need to start going to voodoo to get laid
…or maybe just learn to spell. Frigid, not fridget.
You just admitted to chasing a single pixel vagina for years. How exactly do you keep trudging through every day of a life that sad?
i swear if those mf’ers fall for that vanity shit again and try to get more money for her.. ugh!
hey vanity, it’s been MONTHS and you had the money to pay the $3k that your landlord was supposedly asking but chose to spend it on a lawyer to try to cash out faster instead – how long do you expect the landlord to store your shit and go without rent? i would have tossed your stuff to the curb a long time ago, especially if i found out that you’d blown money hiring a lawyer instead of paying rent. where was your concern for your kid when you prioritized a lawyer over i dunno.. finding actual shelter for him other than the floor? unbelievable. you really are a piece of work.
27# hey what ever works lol
This was so stupid it made me laugh.
# 12 wouldn’t surprise me
My biggest wish for SL Secrets is that people would actually use spellcheck… it’s “lying” not “lieing.” “Lieing” is not a word in the English language. Some weeks I have more laughs at the haters who can’t spell than I do at the actual secret…
Oh my gosh, I know! This week’s is so full of typos and bad spelling!
Well… if you wanted to read quality material… you should not come to this website, in the first place…
I know right? … Shit. Like its cool to look like an illiterate git. I hate the lazy spelling like … “U no u wnt me…”
it’s… but yes, I agree with you both.
#8 LOLOLOL the love of his life…..again…..how many loves of his life can he have? Does it reset every time he doesn’t die from his terminally fake cancer? It’s truly fascinating.
Wait. Is it over already? Not seeing that pick in his profile.
dont be fooled, chloe knows exactly what shes doing, shes a broke ass fat ass middle aged housewife with no life that latches onto dollar signs. shane gives her money to make him feel important and like he owns her, she gives him fake devotion to keep the cash flowing. theyre meant for each other. EVERYONE knows what shane is all about, living his fake fantasy of being a Daddy dom when in reality he’s a sad fat man who is completely submissive in rl. watch what happens when they break up, he’ll suddenly have ANOTHER terminal illness so that he can gather his sheep to dote on him or have another fundraiser so he can take his rl family and WIFE on another vacation.
“All the hardship that we had to go through as a couple, in some SHORT weeks” (gigglesnorts)
“love that runs threw my veins was destined to find you” (whut?)
“now back the Fuck off” (much romance! many cajones!)
I smell jealousy. Whoever took the time to create this doesn’t have anything better to do other than sitting behind the screen writing lies about someone just to make yourself feel better. Bet your fatass won’t dare to say this straight to his face. I wonder who is actually acting like a 13 year old, or are you actually disabled for real? Grow the fuck up, kid.
What you mean “whoever took the time to create this…” he says it right there, his name is David…
Anyway, I agree, he should grow up.
Something rustle your jimmies? The irony behind your comment kills.
straight to his rl face or avi face? lmao.. u just sounded so dumb
whomever keeps making the #3 pink velvet posts needs a psychological evaluation..do you not realize that you are THE only one who cares?!? keep that shit to yourself. write it on a piece of paper and snail mail it to urself it you want to read it over and over.. because we dont.. #4 would it really be any different if he cheated with another girl? Him banging shemales doesn’t say anything really bad for him.. but it does say you can’t offer as much as the other person. #5 ugh she still hasn’t learned…i don’t do fool me twices.. fuck your cop pics. #12 is pretty true.. really not much else to add. lol #13 i dont care whos a guy or girl to be honest..a lot more people these days are open to both so i think that post may have just opened up more options.. lol dummy. #20 was my personal fav… nothing like a sweet compliment before the storm below lmao ^5 #21 i think was taken way wrong.. i too saw nothing stating they were the same thing…stop reading that far into shit..i agree with another comment below that anyone can have an event.. even the trademarked anime club. lmao that was golden #23&24 when i started reading secrets more regularly i stopped frequenting events as much..i shop at most via seraphim 1st and lately most things are the same shit new color or different ‘designer’.. original mesh.. tell that shit to hucci i think VK and maybe reign around the same time(dont quote me on exact 3 designers but there were quite a few ) with the fenty pumas. May as well start letting in templates #26 blah #27 made me laugh@ fucks her VIPS to keep her traffic up and heard they pay… Read more »
I’m glad you like my boyfriend’s flickr pictures.. but this is news to me that I’m sleeping with anyone.
real talk i dont like skye as a person, i think she is too concerned with what everyone thinks of her and is always trying to people please everyone but at least i make money at her events. rewind was off the hook and my highest event this month. its ashamed blush is shit now
#16 I’m not sure what she stole or what she is trying to save. If thats about #23 & #24 she stepped down from that a couple rounds ago. It is all the other one now. Maybe she has no time to actually do something for her events because she is too busy out spending all the money she gets now off all the designers plays at the arcade. Empty spots and same people at c88 and blush. Who cares right? Long as pizza gets paid.
#21 – Knowing the organiser of this event, I can assuredly say that they do indeed know the difference and are in fact attempting to cater for a minority of people in SL, both trans women and femboys, which as you pointed out, are not the same. Thing is, no one was ever claiming they are the same, so that invalidates your point.
As for the use of fetishised, derogatory terminology, sadly that is something that I don’t think we as trans people will ever stamp out and you will always have those people banking on certain terms to show up highly in searches. I too wish that these terms weren’t used, especially at this event, but the usage is so rife to describe trans people in any platform or media that it’s probably easier to ignore it at this point in time, although I have drawn attention to this with the organiser.
Personally, I for one am glad of this event as it means that I get representation just like all the others do. There are fairs for those who enjoy trademarked anime, those who are grown adults representing children in SL, so why not trans women and femboys too? If the way this event is organised outrages you so much, get off your arse and organise your own!
Re: 11 Seriously? “Mongoloid?” How is this okay?
Also, whoever this guy is, maybe he can’t spell imagination, but you can’t spell copyright.
pretty sure u missed the entire point
I think you’ve missed the point completely there.
10: HEY I want some of number 10 but I Can’t even read or see what it is even when I click on it. LOLOLOL…..
17- does monti know you had me bent over just a few weeks ago? You’re a player
I think he’s had a few people bent over a few weeks ago. Cracks me up that he had in his profile how he loved some girl a few weeks ago and now he’s back with his ex whom he dragged just before that. Guy needs to stop dipping his dick into every girl that shows him a bit of attention, him and Monti won’t last again and then we’ll all get a good laugh out of it. Would say ‘poor girl’ but honestly, she’s an idiot for going back.
wait he also had u bend over damn okies lmao
First of all, cupcake, why not sign your artwork? You went through so much trouble to put together that bullshit story, so own that shit.
Kota has NEVER denied that behind the screen, he is female. If that makes him “catfishing” then his most recent ex is also but, I noticed you didn’t mention shit about him, here.
Drops people like flies, eh? Well, that’s what one does with trash people. I’ve known Kota a very long time and have never seen him drop any decent person “like a fly”
Maybe YOU are the one with some daddy issues, OP.
alright cupcake, apparently you haven’t seen his first life tab.
i have a theory that he drops people when he realizes their immaturity doesn’t match his own, so maybe that’s why he kept you? trash tends to stick with other trash, honey bun
i think you’re severely misguided on the definition of “daddy issues”, cookie, but regardless of that, the best and most creative way of insulting someone is using the same insult they just used, amirite, pumpkin pie?
enjoy your long and endearing friendship with someone who has the competency of a prepubescent child, mmk cheesecake?
idk but i love your name lol
For knowing #13 as long as you claim you really don’t know shit about your friend, but thats ok, you’re biased anyway, “cupcake”.
I know a whole lot about him. Maybe I am bias, but jumping onto a page like this to shit talk someone in secret is pretty pathetic. That doesn’t change the truth. Kota never denies he is female, in RL. Even had a RL photo on his profile for awhile.
I’d say, out of the two of us, you’re the one that doesn’t know shit.
Come on, now… sign that post 😉
Definitely not OP of any of these posts, just glad to see someone got fed up with his childishness. You also realize there’s way more people on this site than the two of us, right? Dakota has personally never done anything against me to make me want to put effort into putting him on blast. However, him introducing himself as “male” directly to me and refusing to go on voice for what’s seemed like the longest time, even in a setting surrounded by people who he’s claimed to “trust with his life” making up silly little excuses. Finally when he got on voice he explained his gender identity, which was, at the time, female. Then much later he explains that he thinks he is a transgender male to being certain that he is a transgender male. But you all are saying female? His first life tab says differently, though. I personally don’t care if you identify as a green giraffe, but the way he went about it wasn’t very truthful on his part. Are you also aware of the large amount of money people spent on him to bring his avatar up to date? He would sit there and pout about not having this or that, making snide little comments until someone or somebodies finally bought him his shit. Glad I wasn’t guilted into that mess. Though truthfully I came close. But surely, his best female friend of however many years knows everything about him, right? In fact, I know exactly who you are. The one “fucking annoying” friend he bitches about when he starts seeing new dudes because you get insanely jealous, wanting to spend time with him more and preventing him from “being with people he would rather spend time with” right? Oh, I forgot. You know all… Read more »
I don’t know anyone involved in this situation, firstly. Secondly – why do you feel entitled to know everyone’s RL gender? This is a Secondlife and people can be whatever they want to be, so for somebody who supposedly doesn’t care what a person identifies as, you’re awfully triggered. This has been a big theme in SLS lately and I’m not sure why. It’s a second life – you aren’t taking these people out to a fancy restaurant in RL with the intent of taking them home afterwards. Don’t take your pixels so seriously.
Hey man thanks for trying at least. Like I’ve stated. I don’t care. The OP of that post cares, so take it up with them. What I care about is honesty, considering I, handful of other people, and the person involved were open an honest about a lot of my / their own personal shit with this individual that relates to this.
But thanks for putting your nose where it doesn’t belong, Dr Phil.
Wrong friend, honey. Who said I’m female, even? I could be a green giraffe… I also have a really good idea who you are.
I doubt both highly considering your response. But nice try. ❤️
#22 and 23, please educate yourself before posting rumors or lies. The Blush applications have always been open to almost every creator. It’s just being ran badly now that it’s under new management.
How the fuck can you say #22 is a lie?
Men’s events are without exception tattoos, static poses and a few tracksuit pants. Maybe something with a poorly done (and mostly circumsized) boner outline made for the Gianni only.
These events are so sparse of male suitable mesh they have started taking furniture and women’s clothing to fill out the spots.
How’s #22 a lie? It looks like an opinion that seems pretty valid and factual if you wanna get technical. There’s not a lot of different men’s clothing, and at the few men’s events that there are, there have been stalls for women which kinda sucks, because it could have gone to another creator / more menswear. The clothing for men is pretty sparse compared to women’s clothing. In fact, on my male avatar (that’s about 6 years old) a large proportion of my clothing, my other male friends have too. We could all wear the same outfit (sometimes in different textures, sure.) without even trying to.
You must have hit your head a little too hard. Men dont make mens clothing because they dont sell. Event organizers can’t force men to make mens clothing. They invite men brands into events and then the men events make womens clothing because it sells more lol If your mad about that, talk to mens brands, not event orgs
You must have forgotten to read. Because the post talks to both event owners AND designers.
23 & 24-Merchants complain events won’t take new stores, there’s lots of empty spots but unless an event is run by one of the “big names” they won’t bother joining it. Smaller events that don’t care if you are just starting or established for years get ignored. Stores are far too good to join them and shoppers won’t shop there because it’s small stores, not one of the big ones that everyone already shops at. When you would rather spend hours trying to get into an event that has dozens of empty spots instead of going to a small event with no wait time, only makes those elite events keep doing what they are doing and it makes the small ones that accept all stores go out of business. Just because it isn’t on Seraphim doesn’t mean it’s a bad event.
If it’s *not* on Seraphim, they’re going to have to work a lot harder on promotion- especially if they don’t have any big name creators. This is just logic, that people have to actually hear about the event before they can go.
i’m agreeing with BeLess here..promoting it is everything..and seraphim is a lot of peoples go to.. to check for new events…. I will say this just from my shopping point of view do the gallery thing.. i know some adult events cant but have a link to a gallery website.. but if ur not an adult only event make sure you go with that option.. i can only speak for myself but even if the ad catches my eye if theres no gallerygallery link i prob wouldnt bother
I’m not sure where you got the idea I’m a blogger. I own a store and organized events. Did them for three years. Each one had a new theme, no prefab. We kept it to 5 bloggers and only they got packs, IF the merchant wanted to send them. We did not require that and it was less than 400L to join, which helped pay for the land the event was on.
I think one of the issues with small events, is that there’s not enough traffic sometimes. You said it yourself – shoppers won’t come. There are designers that would join events to give them a try, but if you spend hours of work and only cover fees in the end, it’s just not worth it sadly.
it is not a difference of big or small or elite. it is people want to push the camera icon and take a picture in sl and suddenly its “i is blogger”. it does not stop there, then they go to mp and get prefabs and its “i makes event pay me” . then it is is a case of oh its small no one comes and why is that? because its work. people don’t do work you can see it like #23 and #24. we can see who did the work there. Then these ” i is blogger” sort end up stealing from everyone and leaving then coming back and doing it all over again like cutie-loot and illuminate. lets wait 2 weeks and see what they come back with and rename themselves.
Because all you shitty bloggers wont to throw up prefabs and charge people to do events and dont know the first thing about running events just so you can get blogger packs
#15 Can we all move along from this Roman thing?? Every damn week it’s been the same shit who gives a fuck. Block him & move on!!
#20 brutal but honesty is the best policy!!!!
#21 YUP! Take that dumbass event down. Whos idea this was making it to begin with needs to be educated.
#22 it is well known within the SL LGBT community how nasty this guy is RL and SL. He is truly THE biggest liar so it doesn’t surprise me that he stole the plot line of a show or movie or whatever and made it into his life….. lol @ the motorcycle thing he is also dating or sleeping with #13 but 13 JUST got married and I guess the whole flies thing is true based on actions. Their AVs both look as shitty as their personalities best of wishes to u both
#23 & #24 was thinking the same thing and its sad cuz there are so many good up and coming designers but event owners like this place wanna make stuff exclusive or whatever the reason be – but theyre only hurting themselves. this place should shut down already smdh
#25 ROFL you have no room to be speaking, fix ur face, you look like a fucking fish
#30 no idea what this is about? someone fill me in??
30: she is a whore. Will fuck anyone who gives her the slightest bit of attention. Emberylnne thinks by saying she is poly she can just bed and relationship hop. Shes just a nasty piece of early 20s still living at home with her parents cos she can’t afford shit
in all fairness most of SL is.. basement dwellers and poly because having to share is better than being alone.. i guess?! lol
No idea who made #20 up, but it’s not true, just like most of these posts by these people.
Don’t deny it Zain I told you if you didn’t tell Jason about us I would do this & you agreed this was best way for him to find out I LOVE YOU ZAIN
lol, thank’s for the laugh.
Truth always comes out
#14 – No..,. YOU should find something better to do with YOUR life than than live it around Second Life gossip. You’re here, week after week, way beyond your shelf life, feeding the trolls and becoming more desperate. No one actually cares about your drama as much as you think they do. Just stop.
You spell the name wrong, it is Thruman.
This comment was a joke referencing a previous week, guys. Jeez.
I think we are at the point where we don’t care if his name is misspelled.
I don’t care that you don’t care.
P.s. Did I miss something? Why is Blush being dragged this week? I thought that was the “IT” event? #16, #23, #24
barely an event, more like a skeleton of an event lol
Let’s get the facts straight. Secrets aren’t related. The owner of Ghoul is mad because her stuff got returned for having copyrighted art on them, thus Skye secret. Skye quit Blush two months ago and let the creators know she would no longer be managing it. Octagons Yazmioto/Pizza owns it and hired Jenkel Corksoaker to manage it and this is the outcome.
so speaking of stealing can everyone wave their photoshop / maya/m.designer/zbrush etc receipts in the air?!? lol how is it more of a crime stealing from deviant art than photoshop or any other pirated programs?? everyone steals.. why point out 1 thief when i bet no one has receipts .. lol
I pay 20 bucks a month for photoshop and couple other programs through Adobe, it’s cheap by the month. Can even get fully supported photoshop with free updates and support for as little as 10 per month.
I use maya, but its licensed to my roomate who uses it for his own company. He’s got 3 licenses, I use one, he uses one for work, uses one for home.
I has mine! :p
Photoshop 3 was once free from Adobe, a lot of people have that still but you can’t get it free anymore I don’t think.
The only one I would think was mostly pirated, was Marvelous Designer. It’s what’s used major often for clothing creation. It’s not exactly cheap to even get by the month… like 50 bucks or something? Per month.
u can get avastar..sparkles..all mesh body kits (the body kits are kind of a good thing imo) pirated.. trust me you may be the only 1 with legit programs lol i will say though the newest gimp (2.0 i think) is finally much closer to photoshop and not too bad
lol why do people downvote the truth?? oooh cause it hurts thats why. lol
Maybe they just dont like you, your comments get down voted a lot I notice. I wouldn’t worry about likes or dislikes, because a lot of times these days even on social media… they don’t always mean much. Today’s society is full of ridiculous juveniles, you can see them all over this page :p
(No offense to real underage juveniles who are usually much more mature than most adult aged people)
Gimp isn’t bad, but it annoys me to try to learn it for some reason. So, I stick with the 20, besides, I use photoshop for a lot of different things outside SL too
@respect previous versions drove me crazy.. certain tools just werent there .. but check it out sometime
I laugh when someone wants to call out one creator for copyrighted stuff but you have creators like Fapple stealing artwork from RL artists and putting it into a mesh frame and calling it “original.” Fact is, I constantly see stuff in SL that is a direct copy of RL fashion, furniture, art, etc. There’s very little truly original and unique work in SL these days. Either everyone gets hit for copyrighting RL things or no one does. Let’s stop this picking and choosing.
It appears she is not the only one mad @Ghoul, especially if the entire event is almost empty.
I really enjoyed the last few rounds of Blush but this round was so empty and I was wondering why. Thank you for the clarification
That Ghoul chick isn’t almost all her stuff stolen off deviant art some how? we shouldn’t be surprised because even her name is an copyright problem. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tokyo_Ghoul if its not nailed down ghoul will steal it lol
Ghoul is also taking from full perm items and demos from the MP and distributing the content as her own after a few changes.
I love you !!! Lol … finally someone saying something against all those “original” brands that straight out steal from anime and manga cuz it’s “cool”.. half the things they do is a clear copyright issue .. it’s one thing to be inspired by all types of tv or rl designs, but they copy it exactly. Someone call Japan and tell them all to sue xD
@those anime ^5 thankfully im not the only 1 who thinks like this
LOL that’s like plain calling your brand Sailor Moon, how creative is Ghoul
The word Ghoul is a legit word.
Very creative, if you’ve tried any of her original meshes. If we started dragging every creator who stole a name, half of SL creators would be on here weekly.
they all steal so why X 1 person out.. everyone goes ape shit over garbaggio dolls but Ok something similar by someone else.. its gotta be a NO for all to do
Well garbaggio was probably a bad example. I mean if she named her brand disney and opened the sleeping Beauty princess shop then can compare her to ghoul. Hers are inspired or renamed. Some of those tattoo artists might have been a better example who directly rip work off deviant art like ghoul does.
But what is getting ripped directly? She makes original mesh. I am not a fan of hers, especially after that nasty rant she had about maitreya’s mesh body but, this just sounds like she is being targeted ( for whatever reason ). There are many other creators who would love to be a part of Blush. If Pizza knows what she is doing, maybe she will start marketing blush again. That’s too bad, it seemed like a cute event.
Why did Sky stop managing it?
Hmm I think the issue with that ghoul shop is that they used original art by other people- copyrighted art!!! In their items. With all due respect to making your own mesh, if the design or texture is a blunt copy of someone else’s work it’s an issue. Especially when you name your shop after a trade marked anime. It’s like you try to open a store irl and call it “Nike” …
stealing is stealing is the point.. but in SL u people make loopholes.. kinda dumb
Because TP in there. It’s empty as hell.
Skye does not run blush anymore. She quit months ago and now Pizza is running it alone, aka, running it into the ground.
For the love of Christ, if you’re posting shit on Secrets, ask someone to proof-read it for you!
David, how do we know your butt-tattoo doesn’t look Photoshopped in RL?
aint nobody got time for that
#28 And Mistwood pops up to defend that frightful man of hers again and generally moan about how she is attacked despite being such a good worthwhile person in 3…2…1…
#12 yes! Always looking to ‘drag wigs’ and shit talk.
21 ~ I thought the same thing. Completely disrespectful. The creators are clearly uneducated or just plain ignorant, whichever, maybe both.
23/24 ~ This..so much this! Why not stop the ass licking and let some other talented designers in to fill the empty slots, or continue to lose out on money for your pocket..whatever works for you *shrugs*
26 ~ Salty as a salt mine, that one. Don’t dare try to share your opinion around her, unless of course it matches her own.
#18 (Lance and his designer girlfriend) and #26 (Caitlyn Mirabella) are the only good posts.
Come on, you let me down, SL Secrets.
Well, at least you didn’t post anything with hate speech this time, SL Secrets. Good job.
Just because you can’t relate or don’t understand someone else’s post doesn’t make it a bad post.
I know right? Lourdes needs to start making more diverse secrets since she creates them all herself ( Sarcasm ),
Seriously, blame those who send these “secrets” in, like Lance. We are tired of seeing his fake “secrets’, This is a sorry attempt to keep FMD alive. We all know in a few years, it will just be another N/A location. Who cares if he is cycling through girlfriends like the spin cycle on a washing machine, by 2018 standards, his avatar is quite outdated. He seems like an attention seeker, going by all the secrets he has been sending in about himself for the last 3months. What’s the big idea?
Lance if you’re reading this, you’ll be the death of your club if you keep at this. Idk about other people but, I am the first of many who will be avoiding your club like the plague because of your secret “spam”.
Stop sending secrets in about your boring avatar’s life, nobody cares.
Nothing is more amusing & entertaining each week then reading all the hilarious Lance hate. You follow his every move, stalk his profile, comment on his avatar, and look for any dirt you can find on him. The jealousy is unreal. He treats those he cares about like fucking royalty, but has plenty of haters because he caters to no one, and doesn’t put up with people’s bullshit. Your comments about him only bring him humor each and every week. Plus it’s free publicity for FMD. So keep it up haters! He’s happy & successful in both lives. Handsome as fuck in both lives as well. Keep on stalking & trash talking all you Lance “haters”… there’s quite a bit of new tea surrounding him, if you are paying any attention. <333
“He treats those he cares about like fucking royalty” …What does that entail? Does he send out fruit baskets or cheese of the month memberships? I mean it’s second life. The champagne ain’t real.
lmao@stormy its true! … what these inbreds fail to realize its all part of being in business…u have girls who can’t buy their own clothes in sl that find the Ls to join the group…he HAS to be nice so you can invite all your “i need attention” friends too. People that fall for the he treats us well thing are beyond stupid. Hes a smarter business man than the slow ones are smart as they look for their next mink shawl and panty outfit (you can tell when a chic is old as fuck when they are naked with a piece of fur around them.. that just screams old ass lady lmao)..I find it hilarious that the cheerleaders actually think its about him when the joke is on them. in Dubai they would call you broke hoes peasants. … so if the shoe fits
@Tea Time.. and he still wont fuck you. lol
I don’t know this Lance guy, nor his club, above and beyond the seedy reputation it has in Second Life and what’s posted here. I don’t have a horse in this race. I will, however, say that any dude who poses for these “artistic” photos of virtual partying and fucking women in Second Life 100% does not get laid in reality.
Oh, and the secrets are tiring. Who gives a shit?
So the million dollar question here is; Who is sending all these “hateful” secrets about lance every week? You cheerleaders are doing a terrible job at boosting his fragile ego because, clearly… the man can’t stop sending slanderous posts about himself every week!
Not all publicity is good publicity. Glad I could ruffle some feathers. Now tell him to stop taking up space with this self-slander on virtual-secrets. It’s stale and worn out now, just like the damp chair he has been airing out his bare-hairyass on in real life, since the day FMD opened it’s doors.
And for the guy with the traffic screenshot, 1k linden question for you; HOW MUCH IS LANCE PAYING YOU TO STAND AROUND IN HIS NO-SEX “FUCK ME i’m DESPERATE” SIM?
I bet they dont stand actually.. that whole club is a ho-ho away from a heart attack
I’m not a guy to start with and no one paid me a dime to stand around I just do so because I think the place looks nice and the people are sexy and friendly. Lance and I are not even friends but my comment was to show that as a regular way before Lance took it over I’m glad you decided not to show up because who wants to hang around annoying whining bitches?
This is to OHH-Lala oh no please come back to fmd! As a regular who goes there and find absolutely nothing wrong with the place I implore you to reconsider. The place lacks shallow, avatar-judging cunts like you rofl. https://gyazo.com/6713afe2248e9a4242d8d9f336406e9a
@zoid 50k people who use the ocean as a bathtub
“cycling through girlfriends like the spin cycle on a washing machine”. I love this comment right here. As for the rest of the “Just saying” people..wow my name sure got popular for some reason. Hey, I’m SL famous finally! haha
Is this where all the fat jealous haters come to unload their hate on Lance? Thing they don’t realize is he loves this lol
Maggie, I’ve actually heard your “Fuck me Desperate” king is built like a whale though… any thoughts on why you’re selectively body shaming ?
OHH-Lala Asking others not to body shame while you’re avi-shaming is on a whole new level of cray.
lmao@avi shaming.. only broke hoes say avi shame..lol since ur avi has no emotions.. person behind may.. but ur avi is infact just ur personal taste,..land if someone doesnt like it.. they really dont have to.. lol
If you think that someone’s avatar that is 100% customizable and chosen by the operator, is the same as their physical body about which they had almost no choice at all, you might want to stuff your face a little more slowly in the future- the oxygen deprivation is really showing.
so remind us why exactly you care that he cycles through girlfriends like the spin cycle on a washing machine?
Because it was a funny comment. That and the fact that suddenly so many people seem to be copying my name. Now that part is hilarious.
Funny you should bring up “psychosis” considering how obsessed you’ve suddenly become with my little comment. Why are you so defensive? Why are you spamming the comments like this over a little statement about Lance?
I can’t speak for others but, I’m over the whole idea of FMD and Lance. Can you send him a special request? Please tell him to stop sending these “secrets” in on a weekly basis. We get it, everyone is after him, we’re all so jealous of his expensive sex club with no sex, blah blah blah.
And yes, his avatar is out dated and extremely underwhelming. Frankly, on a game where the main focus is avatar customization, he could do a little better than that. He needs to catch up with the rest of us. If no one else will say it, let me be the first to make the announcement; LANCE HAS A BASIC, UNDERWHELMING AVATAR for this much attention he is trying to focus on his SL Life, you would think he would at least do a better job at customizing his virtual representative.
Now please have a rage party, I’m enjoying this.
@OHH-LaLa Lance has a fan club in secrets longer than his aeros luv… its not even worth fighting with these bunches of tards here over it lol they sweat the fuck out of him because i guess they’v e never seen a rl hot guy or something.. who knows.. maybe live on farms and shit…hottest thing they know of is the town hog.. so when they hear some guy has money they drool like a buncha broke asses like they’ll one day get the time of day.
Lol love your comment @me and town hog kills it lol. It is funny you mention them as farmers because I saw a RL pic passed of one of his baby girls … identical for an adult Honey Booboo. Chubby, frizzy hair plus a bonus of a missing tooth. Chub on baby girls, chub on!!
@OneNameOnly i was shown a page before that had peoples avi pics along side the rl pics and i shouldnt have been so shocked but i was it was like a mama june a thon.. lmao They all sound extra country too.. personally that accent annoys the fuck out of me…I can’t imagine voice sexing someone who sounds like the fuck their brothers or tips cows lmao weird.. and omgee@missing tooth.. lmao noooo
It’s really weird, you would think they were getting paid for this.
@Ohh-LaLa its true.. they hear Lance is single and all come on secrets being a cheerleader.. if they just took a second to realize he doesnt want a pathetic bitch who has to ass kiss for an outfit.. he rather bang the ones who can make their own bank.. the ass kissers should take up a hobby other than wishing on something you’ll never get…lol losers learn to create maybe he’ll let you give him a blow job
For someone who dislikes Lance or FMD this much I see you’ve paid a great deal of attention to every little freckle on his butthole. Lol.
How do you know his butthole has freckles, Zoid? Do you people who spend your entire lives at FMD crowd around every orifice on his body to count the freckles? Seriously, where is all this talk about buttholes coming from anyway, I sense some pent up sexual frustrations from spending so much time at Fuck Me Desperate. All that time there and still no lay. #foreveralone.
I’m sorry did my comment get to you? Because I say you ALL CAPS RAGING like you’ve missed a pill or two. Look moron, I’m one of the girls who love his avatar and don’t think it’s outdated at all. At least he doesn’t look like every other schmuck you run into on SL. And what is an updated avatar anyway? Can you support your nonsensical claims with a screenshot of what you think an updated avatar is compared to Lance’s? Please educate all us ladies *laughs*.
Wow, I can’t believe you admitted to liking that ridiculous shape and bad soap opera hair LOL
You can’t even spell basic English words to save face, maybe you do need to be educated. Just sayin…
Whoever sends them in, it is working. You may choose to avoid it, but it seems like everyone else in interested in seeing what all the gossip is about. I’ve watched the average traffic for that place go from 17-25 to 40-50…during non event times. Publicity in any form is still publicity.
Probably only busy now cause its summer and all his fan girls are out of school
lmao you think the fat diabetic crusty housewives that he has sl sex with are in school????
Of course not,,,but like so many in FMD and SL their RL tabs all say they between 19-21 .More like add 20 ++ years to that!
OHH-Lala the psychosis is real if you’ve set “2018 avatar standards” lol someone needs to stop taking SL too seriously and remember they are cartoons.
Someone obviously cares 😉
#2 was posted by a bitter bitch with a victim mentality who is now trying to make stuff up about others to further cement her role as a victim. None of those people are bullies,. You literally said making and wearing pineapples was a form of bullying cause you personally don’t like them. Get over it and yourself lol
I bet you’re somehow related to #2 and her family. Welp., they are all whack jobs. Kenz is a manipulator & a bully. She also needs to get over the fact that her ex boyfriend (named Jude or something) has moved on and doesn’t want to be with her. She’s pathetic to think otherwise. And I know that first hand. Sorry to say that the “bitter bitch” was on point about this post. Too bad that some people are loyal to a fault.
Rayleigh not even lol, I’m a 3rd party who was witness to your tantrum on Facebook. I’m also pretty sure Kenz is over her ex, seems like you aren’t though 😉
Saying she’s “pretty sure” she’s over her ex doesn’t mean she IS over her ex. Not sure who Rayleigh is but kinda like that name. Funny you think I’m this Rayleigh person. Anyways, like I said, people are loyal to a fault.. especially when they play the victim and people around her eats up all her bullshit with a spoon. I knew Kenz and I knew who she really was. I knew certain people who knew who she really was and had known her for a long time. Not my place to make people believe what I said but I’m glad someone made this post. She’s toxic, her family’s toxic. Period. If you don’t like what I said, well frankly my dear, I don’t give a fuck.
All of this is circumstantial at best. One thing I actually don’t get is why the makers of all those child speedos get a free ride. Now there is a story.
Rayleigh, Layla Bug, Benji, whatever name you want to be called, it’s down to technicalities. Let it go already and stop with the false attacks.
Lol. Poor Rayleigh, Benji, Layla Bug being blamed for posting this comments. But kudos to Rayleigh, Benji, Layla Bug for posting this post (maybe).
Apparently you kiss her asshole and let yourself be manipulated by her. To you it seems like false attack but to the people she’s manipulated and bullied, its not. Not their fault that your nose is so far up her rectum you literally opened your mouth while she shits down your throat with her lies. *shrugs*
Rayleigh, we all know you’re butt hurt over your ex mom, but we also know you left her yourself, not like what you say. Stop with the vulgar imagery as well, it’s nearly as sick as you are.
Again, not sure who this Rayleigh is. Funny how people assume that I’m whoever that “Rayleigh” is. News flash, not everyone thinks that world of that Kenz the cunt. Apparently, she’s got other people who hates her fucking guts. So yea, she’s not perfect and the world doesnt fucking revolve around her. She needs a rude awakening if she thinks that. So does the people who “worship” the ground she walks on. Obviously, you’re her lap dog and you’ll defend her. People like you don’t deserve respect.
To the real Rayleigh: Sorry you got dragged into this but if you are the one who posted this secret, I applaud you!
Regardless of who you are, the fact that you’re still here posting paragraphs about someone days later is only proving my point that you need counseling. Seriously, seek out a therapist. You’re only embarrassing yourself.
Nah, I’m good 😉
It’s truly a shame when such kindhearted people are attacked by vicious ones. The people in this post are some of the best I have ever known, and they’ve touched many lives for the better. Anyone bashing them clearly have issues and should seek counseling for their own projected self hated.
17) Chris and Monti are the two dumbest mother fuckers on secondlife lol
In your case, I guess that makes you a world class dumbass since you’re bashing 2 people. Don’t contradict yourself pal, its bad for you
Hahahaha they put eachother on sl secrets then gets back together. Is this a first for sl secrets? They won’t stay together everyone laughs at them
Re. 22: THISTHISTHISTHIS.
Also, there are TWO Signature bodies now. If you just label something ‘Signature’ I’m just gonna assume it’s for the Gianni and pass you over.
Oh god yes. This labelled as “Signature” thing and then the demo is just the Gianni. *screams*
There are nice people and total assholes in every community, with every shade in between. Why would you think that just because a group of people like a cute looking aesthetic, that they would automatically be nice and inclusive to everyone?
Some of them are super bitchy, some are incredibly nice, and some are nice but cautious about opening up to new people… Sounds like a summary for any community on SL.
Only somewhat related PSA: Just because someone associates with an asshole doesn’t mean they share every opinion with that asshole.
that is very true nice people and assholes everywhere. I think that one might of been people realizing they are supporting a group and event that has an organizer named herve who is part of it who likes to berate, harass and stalk women apparently. I mean they must be into that or be just like him.
Herve is a narcissist that surrounds himself with kawaii girls that lick his asshole.
Who is Herve?
He is just the person who builds the sim each year. As far as I know, he’s a hired gun for that task alone and isn’t a part of the management at all, lol
Nice try, but putting down other events doesn’t make your event better…
is the kawaii secret about bunnerz
#6 et al. why anyone gives a shit about this disgusting slander site that only brings out the worst in people, is beyond me
Sims just got a bit cheaper as well take a look.
private regions are 250.00 a month USD-
Everyone’s focusing on how terrible Roman is and how much people should feel bad for the girl because she was suicidal.
Honestly why is no one speaking up about the random girl who’s entire identity was ripped off by an unstable SL user? She’s the one I actually feel most sorry for in all this because she was an innocent bystander. Can you imagine someone doing that? That’s like next level creepy.
I didn’t read past the RL information. You come down on her for all of the horrible things that this person did to others in SL and then you turn around and do something worse by revealing all of her personal information. You have location information without address but you added her RL name in there. Anyone with a computer could find it. TBH, SL secrets should remove this comment as it links up to RL information and puts some at real physical risk. You, in all honestly, are the piece of trash…and that’s from someone who doesn’t know these people from Adam. Hopefully, Karma will have a field day with your ass in the future…Have a wonderful day!
Wow that is some serious stalking. No one is safe on the internet.
They did. Roman and Jocelyn are mentioned in this week’s secrets
Wooo that’s some serious documentation.
Be careful who you trust online, kiddos…
Or maybe cause the girl actually did try to kill herself . Regardless of what has happened and what she did to Roman. She is a girl with serious issues and a human being. Documents have been seen about her release from the hospital. The fact that Roman went through so much stalking to get that information is kind of scary in itself. She lied, to a lot of people, she did a lot of horrible things but to be in a position to want to die, shes going through some shit. People can sit back and point fingers saying she did this or that but I don’t know ONE person on SL who hasn’t lied about SOMETHING. So you better be pretty god damn perfect to judge someone who is obviously ill. Roman on the other hand, for years and years has been catfishing women. And now is some how the victim, funny….
Probably because of the sheer amount of personal docs included in that.
Call me stupid if you must. But that document put the “victims” more at Risk than Jocelyn did considering I knew none of their info before it was made. So if the goal was to protect them, all Roman did was give their information out. Good plan that was?
She stole photos not an identity, two different things. The only thing I see identity wise is she stole the first name of this girl and photos. Which btw happens often all over the place. This isn’t the first time we have seen in here and it won’t be the last.
She made up her identity, which isn’t cool but it means she’s sick. Sick with some sort of mental illness, which in part means she can’t help it. I feel bad for everyone who got hurt in this situation. I knew Jocelyn well. There is a level of sadness I feel because she isn’t a bad person. Anyone who knew her knows that. She was very generous, kind, to many of her designers (me included) this personal situation got meshed into her business. She hurt people close to her (me included) but I honestly do not think that was her intention. She has an illness. SHE WAS IN THE HOSPITAL. And yes that was her brother online because he cammed with anyone who asked at the time of the incident. People will speculate, for awhile. Sure, that’s normal. But let it be for fucksake. People need to heal and I have no doubt she has paid for what she has done by almost losing her life. We can’t sit here and judge people if we have not walked a day in their shoes, even Roman, who seems to be a sociopathic crazy person. Jocelyn if you are reading this, please know that ALOT of people are still wishing you well and hope you get better. You are one of the kindest people I have ever met, and I know that part of you is REAL. Hang in there.
It wasn’t just pictures though. She used the girl’s name with small adjustments and copied aspects of her life like the sister’s name and having her pet. This is a step beyond googling someone’s picture and using it. That’s what makes it worse.
Suicidal or not, none of that is okay.
“Oh she’s not a bad person. ” Good people don’t parade as someone else when what they’re involved with could come back on the person they’re pretending to be. What if that girl had someone look her up and found all this mess with Roman ? How is she supposed to prove none of it is hers?
You’re right that this sort of thing does happen online, but it doesn’t make it okay. Stop defending it through bias because youre her friend. Just call it what it is: A very poor decision.
It’s so incredibly disingenuous to pretend “mental illness” is an excuse for blatant lying and identity theft as well. Who the fuck *isn’t* mentally ill these days? Are we all just absolved of our decisions because we’re depressed or anxious? Nope. If you’re so mentally incapacitated you can’t tell stealing someone’s name and pics and pretending to be that person is wrong, you need to be in a supervised home and not in SL at all.
No one said it was okay! I plainly said that it’s not okay. If anyone put anyone’s shit at risk it was Roman. And apparently in life we have all forgotten the small phrase that 2 wrongs don’t make a right? So she adjusts the name and uses a persons sisters name and a dogs photo. Yet it was alright for them to get all of the information (victims REAL names included) tidy it into this nice little document and pass it around to thousands of strangers? Thanks okay?! On what planet is one okay than the other. A tiny group of people saw that girls photos! Tiny! Was it wrong, YES! But was exposing other people’s names and photos the solution? Probably not! Not one person is okay with what happened! I stated it! But compassion is what humans have and she is a sick person. With a mental illness. So because of this, let’s just stone her forever! Are you fucking kidding me? What she did was sick, but people berading and pulling an obvious mentally ill person down is disgusting! Don’t blame me for showing favoritism because I show mercy and compassion. It was all fucked up! I cried over things she lied about. But that doesn’t mean she isn’t sorry, it doesn’t mean she’s not getting help for her obvious issues. I am calling it what it is. It was a horrific thing. But like stated earlier. Everyone needs to be god damn perfect if you are going to continue to point fingers. If any of this came back on any person, blame Roman and his bullshit crusade on NEEDING to expose someone. She is a good person cause I choose to believe that under all the fucked up shit, there is the person I got… Read more »
Mercy and compassion only go so far. Then it becomes enabling. I’m not saying she should be stoned (wow that was a reach by the way), but you’re contradicting yourself left and right. “Two wrongs don’t make a right.” Then why do you keep throwing up how you think that Roman guy did ‘worse’ to make the girl seem less at fault? Either it’s terrible like you said just now or it’s “just some pictures and small details” as you turn around and describe it. Pick one. What you’re doing here is minimalizing and that’s a form of enabling (depending on how close to this girl you are). Every decision we make in life has consequences that may not be desirable. Trying to convince her (and us by proxy) that the consequences aren’t deserved or not as bad sets her unrealistic expectations. That’s not ok if you’re not in a stable place as it is. No one needs to be perfect to state facts. I think any person here would be upset to be in the random person’s shoes and find out what your friend did and I’d wager no one is perfect. Does she deserve to be a pariah? Probably not. But it doesn’t mean people are not allowed to have realistic reactions. I honestly hope she is getting help like you say she is; but to be honest, I have no pony in this race. Roman and this girl both sound like hot messes in their own ways. If you really want to help your friend, encourage her to keep seeking help and stay off virtual-secrets to minimize her own exposure. A break from SL could also be helpful. If SL is the source of toxicity contributing to her condition, then she needs to find other ways to… Read more »
I totally agree and I doubt she is reading any of this. She is working very hard to get better. It’s a struggle for her daily. There is much she has gone through to get to the point to where she is now. That lead her to do these things. And do trust, SL is in her rear view mirror. She has said she has no plans on returning which is a relief. I just hope people can let it go and let everyone heal. She knows what she has done was terrible and trust she suffers from it daily.
oh god stop taking it out on the messenger… if bitches told the truth or kept sl .. sl… none of this would be happening..
Dear anyone using SL, or thinking about it..Don’t tell your real life business if you don’t want it to get passed around just as it would in RL… all the horror shows come to SL because of the tos shit of not sharing chat logs.. lol well guess what everyone in SL happen to be the same people in everyday life.. so why think gossip wont circulate??? and in sl fashion?!?!?! lmaoo god every gossip mag/site rl is all surrounded by entertainers/fashion…. in case you weren’t aware the internet was created for sharing information…best way to keep ur name(rl info) out of shit.. is to keep ur name(rl info) out of shit…and if ur so ballsy to put all ur info on the net at least be truthful and stop using depression as a fucking cop out.. how in the actual fuck are you going to lie to everyone and ur the one who ends up depressed?? lmao thats crazy..depression isnt a disorder from doing dirt to people.. stop with the excuses for just being a shitty person
Actually I linked to it in the comments in last weeks secrets. Also I am so sure you didn’t read past the RL information. You were so shocked and appalled. Get the fuck outta here with that bullshit. So picture it SECOND LIFE FASHION COMMUNITY 2010-2011 or so. (Kess can correct me on the year this went down) Someone in the fashion community was outed for doing a huge huge con artist and catfish. The first thing people ask for when you make accusations like this, is proof. WE WANT PROOF!! Proof always, ALWAYS, in these cases, involve RL information. That is what gets these people caught up. So anyway when this person in the fashion community was outed their RL info was revealed. Way more than this. There were names of the entire family, addresses, court payers, tax forms, RL business papers, all kinds of shit that was involved with the proof. All this information was posted on a webpage for all to see, with the sensitive information barely blurred out. So after it was found how many people this woman took advantage of, there were still some in the community who didn’t believe. But many had the nerve to be appalled by the amount of RL information that was exposed to prove that this woman was a con artist. In the end its a no win situation. If you make the accusation without proof, proof will be demanded. If you try to say well I can’t provide proof without revealing RL information, people will think you are a liar. If you provide the proof and by default reveal RL information, you are a monster for posting RL info. Personally I think its better for the community that these kinds of people are exposed with proof. The RL information… Read more »
@Ellie i dont even understand why people down vote this.. because its a sad truth about sl.. just like that that lady or whatever who had the roleplay sim and took everyone for their Ls the olrich person..i heard something about her and cancer too..idk whats true but i know on the internet everyone uses ailments because most people wont be so rude to question it to the person…there are real people with real ailments yes.. but they usually dont use those ailments as excuses for the dirt they do.. its getting sickening
Pretty much what you said Lourdes. 2012 was the year of the Jori.
This information provided was mostly given to them and they did a cursory google/fb search.
The only lesson from all this is : TRUST NO ONE.
but you know what everyone will read all this and still continue to say ‘it will never happen to me’ .. i just cant feel bad for idiots
OMG I agree. Serious stalking there. Really scary! And posting such personal information on this website is horrible.