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virtual-secrets: Week 508

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Before we delve into secrets…
ā€¢ If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
ā€¢ Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
ā€¢ Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
ā€¢ Make your secrets legible.
ā€¢ Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
ā€¢ Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.

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  1. #48 – That’s cause Pupito is a dick. It was a good event once upon a time but it’s a shame his foul attitude has ruined it for us all. With that said, there are other better events out there, the only problem is they ONLY accept the same designers rather than giving newer talents a chance, kind of what Premium Only Event did if anyone remembers that one and Cosmopolitan.

  2. FRAUD update : vanity plurk

    When you guys talk about anxieties and feelings that you all have, I’ve always wanted to lend a hug and a kind word – let you all know we’re all here for you as we all do, ya know? I had never really felt it for myself but I think I’ve gotten a small taste of it if that makes sense. I’ve sometimes felt like my thoughts and feelings weren’t normal for me
    and it bothered me that I couldn’t figure things all out the way I usually do. You guys are really, really strong to feel such things all the time and continue doing what you do and being who you are in the face of what you deal with every single day. Thank you for being you ā™„
    I’ll be doing another cash out of the funds left from what I didn’t cash out last month, and then maxing out my cash out limit again, which I hope will help LL get on board with upping my limit. I can only hope that along with the back and forth with the lawyers, this helps some.
    Focus will be to getting back into the house once the situation is taken care of, and processed. Cleaning up and airing it out since it’s been a bit and getting groceries. That will be once we get back there, but that’s the plan. If anyone has questions/concerns, even advice of any kind as far as LL I’m open to it and again, thank you. Truly. For everything

  3. chapter 4 person got hooked on ESO and stopped working on sl stuff . Any game is better than SL so good for them!

  4. Ay! I support what Seres saying. SL or not, don’t forget people behind their screen have feelings. There are real people controlling their avatars – unless they’re bots, then yeah not really lol.

    If you want to dissociate yourself from taking things serious, that are serious, that’s on you – your own ignorance. When someone is supporting someone else, and quite rightly so, don’t try drag them down with you. It’s a really petty thing to do.

    We’re all adults here, or supposed to be. Have some compassion, it wont cost you nothing.

    In response to whats happening with Morgana, that’s really fucked up. The bitter individual should be ashamed of themselves and saying sorry, not gas lighting.

    I agree not to take things too seriously – when its appropriate, there’s some occasions when you’ve got to face the reality of some matters. That is one of those because it’s turned really nasty and just gone way out of line.

    ~ Steffani.

  5. @FunnyFace….

    I know exactly what happened and i have known Morgana for Several Years… You see my arse isn’t new on sl i have been in sl 11 yrs+… never had an issue with Morgana and believe me over the years there could have been if we both didn’t have morals, respect, empathy, or understanding or the ability to act like grown arse women. But hey Both me and Morgana bothĀ  have all these abilities.. You see when you act normal this crap does not happen.Ā  But hey believe an ex family member that has a vendetta against her. That wished her farther died of cancer and told Morgana to go get raped. Morgana is a Fantastic Blogger, always professional and nothing wrong with being capable of normal feelings instead of forcing someone to stay silence. The only ones bully and bashing is the ones against her which are sick in the head for the vile abusive things they said to her. A blog is used for someones form of venting/talking. You cannot dictate what someone used in their own blog. If you don’t like it. Simple.. Don’t watch or read and move along. As women we should be building each other up not ripping each other apart. So stop trying to play the victim… You did this not her. Does she go posting names and shaming people? No she is to busy moving forward with positivity and kindness towards others which she has always shown. Move along and let go of the hate. Because trust me. They say any publicity is good publicity… keep posting about her.. her subscribers are growing. However i refuse to let you lie about her.

  6. why would anyone want to chase a pedo off a video game? let them rot in sl, getting more fat and stuff, lessens the chance they can get close to kids in rl.

  7. This is too funny!! I can’t believe people get so worked up with pixel family! I mean…. uninstall SL… seriously.

  8. Hot damn, I look at this site after so much time to see Lourdes banned from SL for doing things that isn’t even his own fault, I didn’t realize he had so much time posting all of this every week, you need to get a life Lourdes you weirdo. I’ma report you to the BBB to get you banned from the interwebs next cause it’ll make you commit suicide[logic]

    I’m starting to remember why I stopped playing this POS. Bunch of sensitive women[anyone not everyone] inside of it and if you don’t cover yourself in brown you’re some pathetic loser/beta.

  9. šŸ™
    i wont lie im kinda bummed,,,
    ya just cant get us excited about revealing secrets about the fat phedora chick Nikki and not tell,,, what a teaser lol
    truth,, ya cant be that big of a cunt like Nikki with her woe is me life without trying to hide a few secrets

    we need them juicy secrets pretty please o sweet secret whisperer :>

    • Calling people fat just shows that you’re a shitty person! A person who’s “fat” (as you call them) can actually lose weight, but I doubt you can become a better person you Shithead!

    • Obsessed much bruh? I believe this is Lance or one of his minions. Get a life already. This shit is getting boring.

    • Omg are you serious now, didn’t you learned from last week. We all know that you are eather one of those who tried it last week or got sended by them, because besides them there are actually not that many people who are against Niki. Idk if you didn’t noticed, there are alot of people who know her way better then any of you do and they like her, love her and value her for the person she is. By calling people fat or anything like that you are attacking all of those who have the same issue or struggle with the same thing and we are talking about second life here, I am sure even you know people who have the same issues, tell them how you think about them and let’s see how they think of you then, besides that i doubt you have ever seen her in rl so shut your shitty mouth.

    • I have to agree with TheSlap 100%. Calling someone (and it doesnt matter if it is about there weigth, health, friends or family) names who you probably dont even really know even less ever seen in rl just shows what a stupid and lowlife Person you are. I get it you are jealous and want your 5 minutes of Fame but you should try to remember that those you call your friends maybe have some of the same issues behind the screen you are trying to put a person through the dirt for here. Tell them how you feel about what they have and see if you still have friends after that.

      • Excuse me? Who is jealous of a cartoon avatar??? I think the point people are trying to make is that some women have lost touch with reality By Living in second life for hours and hours a day. They do not workout or live a productive Rl, therefore the weight piles on. I would Never log on a game until I have worked and exercized (run 5 miles) every day or I would not feel productive. It is more a health wake up call some need!!!

      • You know some people work in sl right? or work on their computers? do you know if and when she works out or not? some people even leave their avis online. You are seriously retarded . Mind your own life before you run your mouth talking shit.

      • Oh please excuses excuses! One day SL will close, so be prepared to get a real job. Secondly, only addicts leave an avatar on all day. Third, in last weeks secrets someone said this Niki had weight loss surgery.. hence sitting on her ass all day. Lmao

      • Oh boy they are right, you are retarded! I bet she makes more than you and that’s why you’re being a bitter bitch . everybody knows she has a job in rl. Are you stalking her to know when she is online or not cause mate that’s sick! If she had a surgery or not it’s her problem not yours. You’re judging and acting like you’re better but face it your just a mean piece of shit who does nothing. You just sit on your ass all day being a bitter bitch commenting on other people’s lives. Well done.

    • agree with other comments u shouldnt be name calling just cause some one is obese that shows you be a shallow dick or bitch but i do wanna see those secrets about her tho kinda got me excited & then this week nothing hope they just got busy and will post them next sunday

  12. Thanks to whoever put indulge up there, we thank you for putting the club on sl secrets it makes our day to see others helping out. Come on down to the club and have a blast the girls are funny and we love to have a good time. The late hours are different than the day hours but thatā€™s okay we will make it work. Spoke blunts, pop the molly, blast the booze we know how to have fun at indulge. Again we would like to thank the fellow customer for promoting indulge we hope to see you come visit. Every Wednesday is HUUUUMMPPP DAAAYY so be sure to benefit from the event. LGBT is welcome with open despite the hate we get for it. We know we can not please everyone but we do our best to do so. SO COME ON DOWN TO INDULGE AND SEE FOR YOURSELF.

    • Wow, you’ve really grasped on to this “Pro-LGBT” thing haven’t you? What a happy little accident – I imagine that’s not what you thought you’d be rallying behind when you opened (and then re-opened) Indulge. Make it your armor so it can never be your weakness, I guess. This is like the 8 Mile final battle rap – may as well play all your cards.

      Question, though: Does this mean you will be abandoning the current reputation of Empty Club (Unless All of Phedre The Linebacker’s Dumb Second Life Family Are Hanging Around and Not Spending Money) and instead becoming The LGBTQWXYZ-iest Friendliest Club in All Of Second Life?

  13. 39) ~

    You know…. going by just the fact that i saw two other guys who called your this person a Catfisher in to comments. i tend to believe them more then i believe those defending him…… You may know someone personally “Now” but you might not know there past. and if that person did try and tell you about there past they might have lied. due to that fact that they might have done something Suspect and Deceitful. Like being under age during those Events Explained.

    If this young man really did do this to a lot of men on SL. then i don’t pity him one bit and he should be feeling bad about what he did. i may not know who this person is but at the same time. but I’ve been in the same shoes as the other two men who commented on the other post and talked about how they were Catfished by this person. and that’s worst part about it. its not about the Age ( well in this cause it was. ) its about the fact that those men where looking for a relationship and this Teen lied about who he was. in turn caused two men to waste time out of there life to playing this kids Cruel and childish game. rather then actually finding someone meaningful. now these guys probably have there guards up because they think that every women on SL is a Guy or a Kid trying to Punk them again. I can attest that its how i was.

    Hopefully this Kid gets the help he needs or he needs to just stay off SL.

  14. Welp, there has been one final update on the Hope for V website.
    https://www.hopeforv.com/

    Notice this part:

    We have done all that we can to help Jenni access the funds raised for her. We have all provided Jenni with every assistance we were able to give, despite a lack of timely communication and updates from her. At this point, we have exhausted all of our efforts for several weeks and have mutually agreed that the only person who can take care of this now is Jenni herself.

    • haha. So when is the next fundraiser? I cannot live without more testimonials!!! TESTIMONIALS!!!!! LOL

      • HA! The testimonials have disappeared from the page too, guess the fundraising team is really washing their hands of it now. Hope they are hanging their heads in shame for duping the community while trying to look like hero’s.

      • Aww they took the testimonials down already! Guess they didn’t want their “good names” attached to this clusterfuck anymore.

      • The name of one of the organizers, who also manages a major brand and event, disappeared from the site right after the event completed. Guess she wanted to be associated with it while it made her look good but not once it was over and people would be expecting to see follow up and confirmation that everything was above board. Considering who it was, it’s not surprising because she herself is a crazy-pants scammer who buys friend in SL to give her life meaning.

      • If you are talking about who I think you are, we won’t mention names. That person is a friend of mine and I told her to remove her name from association with that event because I smelled shit from the start. Her name was removed within the first 2 days of the website going up.

        As for the rest, 2 people can have different experience with the same person. I just wanted to clarify when her name was removed and why it was removed.

    • I have a strange feeling by reading this. When I think of this fundraising for a name who was threatened with eviction, who had 10 minutes to leave from her home with her autist child. She had close friends at this time there, even real friends! Friends who helped her to collect funds, spamming everywhere. Meanwhile no concrete proof on the gravity of her situation and she do not answers anymore to her”friends”. People gave around 8000$ to her, to help, far to think it was a fraud.
      Are they happy to fool people ? Are they laughing about ?! I expect only 1 thing now, is VANITY MIRROR banned perm from SL, because she used virtual game to a fraud. To people who donate, be carefull in the future, if the person has really rl issues, expect more RL infos too, not only pics and words.

    • omg its hilarious that none of the organizers want to be associated with it at all anymore. there used to be a listing of who they were, and now it just says “hopeforv team”

      even those bitches know they were scammed but don’t want to admit it. she will roll back in after she’s exhausted her attempts to get the money out of linden lab, with another pity me story.. and just say that she couldn’t contact them because her computer was locked up in the house.

    • https://www.plurk.com/p/ms0fdl

      lmao.. vanity did an “update” too. whined about how she still cant get the money out, the attorney can’t do shit for her, and was like.. oh hey sorry no updates, im just SUPER BUSY rl hope you guys understand! got shit to do, moneez to spend.. you know how it is!

      • What is she goin on about there towards the end about how she tried to do what was asked of her, but she couldn’t due to hers and her son’s schedules? (I assume she means her son). Does she mean she didn’t do what LL asked of her? Her supposed lawyer? Or the fundraiser organizers & that’s why they’e removed their names from the mess?
        What ever it is, after setting herself up to such scrutiny, you figure she’d do what was needed too work to get those funds released, or it really is just the latter, and she didn’t give timely updates to the organizers, and that’s made them feel silly….

      • Why does she keep acting like she is disappointing some expectation of her? Does she legitimately think the reason people are upset is because she isn’t getting the money that was raised for her out fast enough? Sounds like shes ghosting out now too…

    • Not to repeat myself but…any of those creators that put that fundraiser on could have PayPal’d her that money. Pass the Linden to almost any of those creators that were in support of this scam and they could have simply cashed it out and passed it over via a simple email through PP. It is not a tax issue except for Vanity. It is really curious to me that they were willing to put this thing on but their generosity stopped cold at the point of actually facilitating her reaching those funds. And now none of them want their name on it? I also have to wonder what kind of broke ass lawyer this woman has who would take on a case over a 5 thousand dollar payout. Any real lawyers fees would cut into that deeply….makes me wonder if her intention is to sue LL for more, in which case…it makes sense her friends are pulling their support now. Food for thought.

      • @get woke think about this woman walks into lawyer office gives her spiel, gives 1500, lawyer knows one letter to LL to earn that amount of money because the lawyer doesn’t care its billable hours, bottom line lawyer did what any lawyer would do laughs all the way to the bank

  15. #10 Seen that one hanging round Teqi’s, looking ugly as fuck like in that picture, and totally empty profile. Should be banned for being an alt. Nobody who looks like that should be allowed near normal avs rolf

  17. Haha did you guys see the ā€œhope for Vā€ update about vanity? ā€œWe have done all that we can to help Jenni access the funds raised for her. We have all provided Jenni with every assistance we were able to give, despite a lack of timely communication and updates from her. At this point, we have exhausted all of our efforts for several weeks and have mutually agreed that the only person who can take care of this now is Jenni herself.ā€

    • ā€œThe Hope for V website will stay up until May 31, 2018, and then we will take it down so as not to incur any additional expenses.ā€

    • Have been a long time friend to Morgana Hilra. Who runs So Hawt Sl. So easy gor people to bash an immensely strong woman who has been through a lot. Keep stoning women back to the stoneage. She feels, cares deeply and is good at what she does. She has been an immensely great friend to me too.

      • oooh trust me Sere your day will come when you do something wrong or dare to speak up then her true colors will show. never seen a blogger whine as much as she does and really a lot of us have been through just as much or more but we do not use a blog to whine about it for 18 minutes or more. Its fine for her to bully, bash others is that what you are saying because no she won’t mention names only to the extent she rather not let the real story of what took place

      • lmao@funnyface. You not such a “Starr” yourself ~ bitch. We are all laughing at you.

  18. #35) Looks like a powerpoint.. its literally just text and a background. I really hope someone didn’t actually pay for this commission and it was paid for by the currency of ass kissing.
    I liked Bea’s meme response though – especially her bandwagoners telling her to “laugh all the way to the bank” because I’m sure she had a nice big laugh cashing out your lindens whoever paid for this powerpoint.

    • Out of curiosity I found the original mentioned in the comment, dusted off my rusty Sony Vegas skills and played around.

      This took me 15 minutes, if that – and I’m not very good at the program! I sincerely hope this artist is not charging a hefty fee for using a YouTube video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X6dJEAs0-Gk for those of you playing at home) as a background for text with some Powerpoint-style effects.

      Bobby Trivia’s Video Editing Emporium!
      https://streamable.com/rgkoq

      • Glad you were able to recreate it using the effects on iMovie, same as I did hahaha. But hey, why so curious about how much it was? You made it for free just to prove a point? lol
        I don’t understand, but I appreciate it. I mean, if you dont want dont pay for it.
        My inbox right now is: Hey Bea, I saw you on SL Secrets again, you got some time to do a pic for me?

      • “Wooooow Bea is such a scammer!” Its plain simple: If you have no clue how to do even a simple video on iMovie with free fonts and a stock background, you will have someone doing it for you. I’m not sure where did I write I claim myself so great at it? Actually, I’m not sure if you understand that I’m not forcing my business to anyone, I offer and whoever wants, pays for it.
        Screenshot of my iMovie project: https://gyazo.com/e3bde8684227766e5317b0b0437edc40
        So much bother over such a simple thing lol truly simple, right?

      • It’s not even a case of being curious about how much it is. It is pointing out how simple and quick it is to create what you delivered to your client, which you have also subsequently admitted.

        I just sincerely hope that your client paid a price that is aligned with the simplicity of the service that you are offering. You’ll notice people get called out for ripping others off on here quite regularly, and someone cared enough to make a secret about it. So clearly I’m not the only one hoping that.

      • Everything okay over there, Bea? I noticed you stopped responding when I mentioned that I hope the price the buyer paid was reasonable.

        For someone so quick to fire back before, you’ve gone noticeably quiet. Something tells me you *definitely* ripped them off and charged them way too much for what you gave them. That’s a shame. I hope they see this.

      • Never knew who Bea was till I heard about the gawdy pictures. I guess there must be a market for cartoon sluts with cum pouring out of their jizzhole pictures. Keepin it classy Bea eh?

  19. #24 – OML which one of her or his exes posted this lame shit… oh lemme guess… probably skylar… AGAIN … as per usual. Look, I dont care for alot of shit jax does either but trying to fuck up his relationship is no one’s place. If it’s meant to fall apart , it will.. if it’s not, it won’t. Tend to your own backyard psychopath.
    #40 – Yar is an awesome person, I knew them once upon a time. If he fucked around on you chances are you were probably fucking around on him to begin with. Lots of luck with your drama . šŸ™‚

    • You all still flapping your gums about Skyler? Maybe its you lot that have the obsession with her not the other way around because is all anyone ever sees or hears is all you little basic bitches blaming her for your problems yet shes barely even around. Move on for fuck sake and find someone else to blame or perhaps it’s you lot that are so pathetic in your dull as lives you can’t even bear the thought of her actually being happy.

    • LAWL, Pot calling the kettles black? what has he gone through you all now and shits starting to hit the fan? Oh wait no that’s still all just bull shit blubber you all dumped outta your cum holes last week. Go do what you whores do best and beg for a cock to ride. You all know that alt is your own fucking friend right? Dumb slut couldn’t get attention so she had to make some drama up to get some.

      Bye thundercunts.

    • He’s a nice guy for the most part but he is so much drama (Yar) don’t see why everyone is so shocked that he’s attracted this kind of negativity when he can’t even wait a matter of days before jumping in with the next girl after telling the last one they’re his everything and he doesn’t want to date ever again… It’s not a way to treat people or himself for that matter. He’ll know who I am from reading this. I’m not perfect either but for his own sanity, he needs to slow down. He’s with a nice looking girl now, hope it sticks, I really do, because as I said before, for the most part, he is a nice guy and it would be great to see him settled and happy.

  20. Okay everyone needs to back the fuck off of indulge once more, do you have proof they hire dudes? If so show us the proof otherwise keep your little ass shut ā˜ŗļø And FYI trans girls and not dudes ?

    • And you just giving us traffic. When I was on here I got all new clients and such! So thank you SL secrets! ? we appreciate you for giving us guys who love all kinds of women as for you ā€œdudesā€. Oh honey donā€™t get mad cause our dicks were bigger then yours and we had you bent over in a second #eatyourcake #indulgesiren #transisequal ??

      • Lol PeachesIsTrans comes home after a long day at work (if you work), gets changed, grabs something to eat, then scurries to the computer to quickly log on SL to attach a virtual cock and jump on some pose balls to dance for the “computer customer” such is the day of a virtual cockster…..

      • Okay but I donā€™t have a cock on SL XD Iā€™m transgender in rl and SL Iā€™m a woman. Transgirls are girls no matter what. Your comment made no sense. Your saying Iā€™m a transgirl only on SL XD

    • “And FYI trans girls and not dudes” will you be applying for maternity leave when you get pregnant?

      • “Transgirls are girls no matter what” so you therefore can do EVERYTHING a girl can right?

      • Seriously Theodoric. Transgirls are GIRLS. Period. Even if they don’t have a period. In fact woman with vaginas sometimes don’t have periods and can’t have children. Therefore they won’t ever apply for maternity leave. Your logic is ridiculous.

        Here’s my not really worth 2 cents on the issue. I’ve dated mostly straight men (there was 1 in the closet in HS, but we didn’t last but a few weeks) and everyone I have dated probably wouldn’t get so angry if they voice sexed (because let’s face reality here, I know it is hard, but keep with me) if you have sex within Second Life – it is just basically text or voice sex. Your physical bit parts NEVER touch.

        Therefore:
        If you have text/voice sex with someone who you discover is transgender later and you didn’t like it then try telling the person simply, “I am not into you” and moving on. Although, I would say almost every one of the men I know wouldn’t get the level of ridiculous upset people are getting over this person if this happened to them. They also wouldn’t care. I can pretty much figure that most of them wouldn’t bother stopping if they were in the physical with someone and it got to sexytimes.

        Anyway, my TL;DR is: Don’t be an asshole.

      • i disagree with that completely. most straight guys i know are horrified at the thought of possibly virtual with a rl dude. for whatever reason, it makes them feel like they are a little bit gay. they want to know that the person they are stroking it to has the parts they are attracted to, even if there aren’t going to be any rl physical bits touching. i know three or four who have been catfished and found out that they’d been with someone with manparts.. and they were very grossed out and angry about it. just putting that out there.

      • Obviously the people I hang around with, and also my buddies from college, all were pretty open minded and didn’t care.

      • Or they were cagey about how they feel. It isn’t like society encourages men to open up about their feelings in the same way that women can. Society encourages men to hide their feelings, not bare them out for the world to see. As I mentioned earlier, you are a female and it is difficult for you to understand how we think and process things. I don’t expect you to understand us, and quite frankly trying to understand us is likely to end up in misconceptions. The inverse is true too. I do not know what it is like to be a woman because I’m not one, so I wont go around pretending that I understand how a woman thinks. You’ll find out that there are a number of straight men are in fact grossed out at being catfished like this. They may not say it, they may even brush it off, but they are grossed out.

  21. #39- Well I can tell you , I know her personally and “HE” doesn’t hide the fact he is a male behind the avi. Hell he even goes on voice so you can hear. Get the stick out of your ass and leave him be. He isn’t 16 years old, nor catfishes. He’s the most realest and brutally honest person I know. We know who made the secret, but come on ? 16? That would of made him 10 years old in rl and I highly doubt his parents would let him join Secondlife. He is fixing to graduate college and achieving things, so how about you take your lying petty ass somewhere cause all you did was just made us laugh at this than anything. STACY I LOVE YOU BOO!!!!

    • Just setting this down here: You don’t need (and shouldn’t use) “most” before “realest”.

  23. #17 i have had the unfortunate pleasure of knowing this guy, not only is he ‘pedo’ he’s been called out for that before. He has a number of alts i think i counted at least 7 two of whom where child avi’s. He claims to be a singer in SL & RL, claims to have performed on stage with a number of famous people when in actual fact he just simply steals others work from youtube then ‘performs’ it in SL. of course due to his disability it is pre-recorded with his *band* hahaha. He claims to have lost a child in RL and will happily show you her photo when in reality it is a very much living daughter of one of his relatives (how sick can you get). He claims to have cancer, be almost dying blah blah blah, yes he is disabled in RL that is about the only truth in all this sick guy says

    • It is so true, He has more issues and more stories than Walt Disney, Not only a pathological liar, but a scumbag, It’s like every other week, his daughter died, then his son, then his mom, oh then his son again, Must be one of those Pixar movie affects coming back from resurrection over and over. Claims to be a singer, which he is not, the REAL singer was found! The singers voice is NOT remotely close to his. Any musician will know the pitch and temper of the voice is so off and NOT the same person, So yea, he is busted like the used condems found in a soiled bathroom in a poor neighborhood. Karma is a bitch my friend and your caught! He is a liar and stay away from him like the plague, Who knows you may catch something! Oh and shoutout to his sister Acey Lockheart, another troll under the bridge and story teller. Scumbags stick together like pond scum so it’s a great match. Have a lovely day!

  24. 46: I find her pretty rad actually.
    48: They choked on their own nasty, toxic, shitty, dumb, disgusting arrogance and died?

  25. The only thing we need to do now is make this site bigger and better than ever!!

  26. I’ll never get why some people love to come and whine like the little crybaby bitches they are.
    If you don’t like a certain spot can you not simply just stop going there?
    Girls and boys try to suck it up maybe? Get over the dick that Lance rejected you maybe? Dude’s clearly not interested in you or your asses.
    Sounding like a broken record week after bloody week bitching about Lance and FMD just makes it obvious that you’re just salty and butthurt.
    But you stalk his flickr, his profile, who he partnered, his club, his events, themes, what he typed, what he said on voice; then you run to SL Secrets to post about it like you’re breaking news. Wake the fuck up. No one gives a fuck about your FMD “secrets”.
    It’s a sex club not a hospital. You’re only helping make FMD and Lance more popular.

  27. While I don’t want anyone to leave this planet, and I love and care for each of you … Killing yourself over Second Life is like killing yourself because your character didn’t get a job promotion in The Sims.

    Each week there’s a certain amount of negativity, shit-slinging and he-said-she-said bullshit (Limp Bizkit represent!), and sure – lies told about you may be hurtful. But remember, anything spoken against you is spoken against your VIRTUAL CHARACTER, unless you allow people into your real life as a choice. If someone is talking shit, they’re not talking about the real you. Getting called a pedophile in a videogame doesn’t mean you’re a pedophile. Being called a two-faced cock-jumping slut in a video game doesn’t mean that’s what you do in the real world.

    If you are that concerned about the reputation of your Second Life avatar, and are truly impacted by rumors and innuendo and shitposts and nonsense like that about someone that is not REAL, maybe it’s time to turn the computer off. Go out in the sunshine. Go play with your kids. Take a walk, ride a bike, have some fun. There’s more to life than a virtual world once it starts impacting you like that.

  28. Oakley is the only individual i know on sl that if i hear she got hit by a bus and died my reaction would be “ehh” and just keep on sipping my coffee.

  29. One thing about SL Secrets, other than it’s funny to read and I still ignore most of the relationship drama that most bring onto themself… is that the comments sections, 99% of the comments are by people I am very glad to not know. Just saying. The behavior is like listening to a bunch of junior high students fighting. Thus why, I like standing on my platform and not go around to other locations much.

    Thank you Lourdes for showing me who to avoid! I’m sorry your not barely logged into SL anymore avatar got banned, People are silly

    • You are an idiot. You’re commenting in every thread and you dare to use the word ignore?
      lol
      You’re the junior high student, you clearly love drama that’s why nobody hangs with you in that platform.
      Stay there forever

      • You obviously didn’t read what I said properly. No one hangs out on my platform because everyone is banned from it. Go read again. Comprehension seems to not be a skill you’ve acquired. When you read what you want out of it instead of what was said, the only one that looks silly here is you

      • You just keep proving my point about you, I am embarrassed for your parents

      • @RespectYourCustomers….yes…lmao is certainly proving that they cannot actually read. There is a big difference between reading words and comprehending the words you read smh

    • “The behavior is like listening to a bunch of junior high students fighting. ” because honestly that’s what this website is… lol

  30. #39 – I’ve only known her for a short amount of time, but there’s no way in Hell she’s 16. She also doesn’t hide the fact that she’s actually a male? Her Facebook has pictures of herself on it? I’ve heard her voice? Get a life, lol. Leave innocent people alone.

  33. Linden Lab can be so retarded at times, how come Marie2 Cisse, the biggest cancer of Second Life hasn’t been banned after conning, blackmailing and copybotting hundreds of designers throughout the years but you’ve been banned, like, lol, what’s the logic

  34. So yea about #43 & 44

    I haven’t a clue who this lance guy is and don’t really give 2 squirty shits about him! However, I do hope that the pixel dick is so good that he shoots a load full of inspiration up her ass or wherever and however she likes to take it because her clothes are drastically vanilla and boring as fuck. Not to mention she took a dress from 2015 that she made and sold it in this past April’s Black fair event. All she did was change the name of the dress, how lazy and pathetic! That shit should have been up on the walls at the Freeby Dove right above a pair of free sparkling shoes. So yea I hope this lance guy fucks her long & strong and oh so well & very swell. Pffff

    2015 Dress
    https://gyazo.com/80f3ebe3229e4a7fc5b858958a4c4bac

    2018 Black fair recycled Dress
    https://gyazo.com/566ba0a7874ce03d68fde6c00ee06910

    If you’re a designer and you do this shit at least let your customers know so that they’re aware that they’re about to walk around looking like a step above the noob in the pink polka dot noob dress if they decide they wanna buy that shit.

      • Oh yes I stand to be corrected!
        The 2015 version is wrinkled as fuck while the 2018 version looks like it had a Black&Decker ran over it really fast before the polyester burned, my bad pffff.

        So with that being said, same unimaginative shit with the same boring ass texture minus the church lady wrinkles in the 2018 version. I guess she needed a do over so that you kaithleens fans will look crisp the second time around.
        Point proven, yet still unproven!
        Next case!

      • Well well what to expect from a semi professional “designer”, the clothes are boring and often remind me on the full perm stuff you can get at MP.. be sure to demo it first, you will have a laugh..

        And 3000 L for a shape?!
        https://gyazo.com/d20330f6d845ae0efb170f5b30d7a30a

        Yeah sure you don’t want clones, too bad that shape looks exactly like 90% of the catwa users..

      • I can recall a time of her whining on Facebook about not being accepted into events and how she works sooo hard. But now that she’s made it into the “BIGTIME” she does this whole recycling thing. I always thought the goal was to go forward and not backwards once you’ve made it but hey then again what do I know?!
        I’m just a spectator looking in making sure that I don’t buy that shit.

    • I wonder why the 2015 models’ faces needed to be hidden. It’s the commenter’s attention for their privacy I’m sure

      • The models face is hidden because it isn’t meant to bring attention to the model, but to the designer and the designer’s lazy work. But if you’re really that curious about the model then all you have to do is do your research. The picture is obviously still available on Flickr for all to see and something tells me that the model probably hasn’t gone back to edit a picture and it’s background from 2015 between yesterday and today. It really isn’t rocket science at all sir’mam.

    • I don’t know who this Lance guy is but he has tattoos on his hair.

  36. #7 Only person that’s stupid is the person who believed this was a man in the first place. You really asked for it yourself. Any time a person won’t get on voice or cam… there’s a reason. You’re just gullible and posted it on SL secrets for all of us to laugh at just how gullible you are.

    • And sometimes the reason is they don’t want to get on voice/cam in a virtual world that is supposed to be pretendy fun time. I know I feel asking for those things is demanding I drag my real life into a hobby I have to get away from real life and I don’t really like it. I’m insecure about how I look.

      Then again, I don’t do relationships or sex so no reason TO see my RL self.

  37. This is the Fox News of SL. #33 Fake news. I know her personally and she is not transgender, but wouldnā€™t matter if she was. She happens to be a very smart, educated and lovely young woman with a bright future outside of SL. Suck it, Haters! Kthxbi

    • She shouldn’t worry about it, or he. Doesn’t matter what gender they are, people are just dramatic and bent out of shape over something minor. Thus, our society is this way all over and it’s seeping into SL big time. Majority of female avatars are male and vice versa. It’s SL, you do what you want. Same with MMO games, most of those females are males too. Who cares? The people upset over it, need to grow up… they aren’t in junior high

      • Down votes make me sad for society, because there must be something wrong with you when you respect people for who they are when they aren’t abusing others. Good to know. Society in SL, seems to be going downhill and fast. It’s disturbing how hateful people are these days. Downvote more, you just prove my point.

      • I’m hurt by it? Nah, it just shows how a group of people will gang up on something like a bunch of girly cheerleaders helping the captain because her boyfriend left her for someone else. Petty. I saw the downvotes all over this site today, I dont care if I get them or not. You need to find your adult card, probably in that back dumpster.

        Btw, it’s not me that looks bad here, your attitude is juvenile.

  38. The 1st price has to be for thay guy that breaks up by notecard genious at least he makes sure they get the message haha
    Also who is Lance and why so many girls are feeling always so hurt I think Lance should have used the notecard system mentioned before lol

    • I am that guy…for fucks sakes haha.. this shit was brought to my attention froma friend. I was like holy fucking butt hurt.

  39. 7.) Your totally right. I’ve heard her on voice and she catfished a friend.

  40. #34 As a previous employee of the club I can say that honestly you posting something about it brings in traffic. So kudo’s to you for getting people in the door! As for the ‘dudes’ you mentioned all I can say is that while MOST HOMOPHOBIC and TRANSPHOBIC asshats are going to be against this, people like Phe are setting a standard of the ladies being clear in their profile and ratecards about being trans. So omg get a tissue cause you had an orgasm to a transgender female. Shame on you for making this the issue when everyone around SL is slow! Shame on you! Now get your fucking cake and eat it, yummy! #BitchEatYourCake

    • According to the secret, at least **something** is bringing in traffic!

      As a side note, you want to know how I immediately know someone is dumber than a box of rocks? They use hashtags in scenarios where they serve no purpose.

      • Funny its a joke on the person who posted the original secret.
        ….but thanks for trying bobby.

      • My apologies for not understanding in-jokes from what appears to be a washed-up, passĆ© escort club.

    • Preach bitch #peachesstilllovesyou #letthemeatcake they are just jealous cause transgirls are hotter then their rl girls they try to fuck XD

      • hahahhaa, yeah Peaches? Is that why for most of your escorting career you were pretending to be a RL woman? Then when it came out that you’re just a dude with a female avi, you became SO proud to be trans. And save the bullshit blah blah – about a month ago we went over your previous ratecards at other clubs (although you denied working at them until I offered receipts and you vanished).
        I’m sorry that you jumped on the Indulge bandwagon and paid for so many photos just for the club you’re so proud of to fail. It has to sting when you’re standing around an empty building but at least you made lots of friends… which seems to be about all you made because making money wasn’t an option.
        #thegirlsatIndulgeatetoomuchcakeandshouldtryasalad #menandmenopauseatIndulge #stupidpeopleloveusinghashtagsonsitesthatdontsupporthashtags

      • I don’t understand why the fact I support the LGBTQ community in my club and hiring policies is such an issue. The sad fact is many trans women in sl feel that they have to lie about who they are to be hired in many clubs .. not all but Many.. At Indulge we just allow them to be themselves and make sure its out in the open for ethical reasons so guests know exactly what they are purchasing… I have gotten a lot of flack for this policy but really in the long run we all know that all over the grid in strip/escort clubs with men (not even trans women but actual men) behind the avies.. at Indulge because I personally verify each girl MYSELF.. I guarantee you are getting exactly what they claim to be. All my girls are female and as for our Trans Sirens they are required to have it posted on their profile as well as their rate card. I can’t speak for other clubs but this is how we do things at Indulge. I am sorry Brothel you had such a bad time in my establishment that you feel the need to bash it and my employees on such a regular basis… I would love the opportunity to get some feedback from you about the time you spent at Indulge so I can see where perhaps we can improve. Please feel free to reach out to me in world as you know name I should be easy to get in touch with. We work hard at Indulge to constantly improve.. recently a few things weren’t working so we changed.. I hope you will give us a chance in the future to change your mind .. And as for the person who posted about us yet again when all we seem to be doing is minding our business and being on our Hustle as per usual.. Please move on and find something else to occupy your time .. It’s just getting sad now…<3 Phe

      • You can say all you want but Iā€™m on SL for friends and fun, Iā€™m sorry your life is so pathetic you canā€™t say this to my face in world itā€™s truly sad that you think any of this affects me at all, while I have 12 rl sugar daddies and everything paid for me, and Iā€™m a woman, get over it sorry my dick must have been bigger then yours cause clearly you have a cock up your ass as I always say to bigots and pathetic lowlifes like yourself sir your little ass down and drink you apple juice xoxo… oh and by the way Iā€™m always in world so feel free to inbox me..if your actually a girl running a club šŸ˜‰ ? watch what you say sweetie

      • Not that you were responding to me, however a few notes on your little rant:

        1. Saying this to you “in-world” is not saying it to “your face.”
        2. You don’t have 12 RL sugar daddies. You wouldn’t be whoring for shekels in a videogame if you did.
        3. Quoting yourself is obnoxious.

        Try harder, work harder.

      • Actually I do. So…I have all my bills paid like I said I go on SL for fun and entertainment.

      • With those 12 sugar daddies, how the fuck do you have time for SL? Someone be tellin’ lies

      • Good grief, so much aggression! So this is what happens when you mix Testosterone with hormone replacement therapies

      • Yup Iā€™m a fucking cunt and Iā€™ve always been like this, hormones make it more classier to say Iā€™m allowed to be a cunt ?

      • You aren’t classy at all, you aren’t a cunt either. Just not an adult, and bragging about obviously false information of “12 sugar daddies”.

    • I don’t get the paranoia men have over a virtual sex partner being trans. I mean.. there’s no real sex going on, just words and pixels.

      • Because, they aren’t really men. Real men on SL don’t exist 99% of the time anyway. Maturity and attitude make males more of a man, and going through all the comments on here… there aren’t any that are responding for the most part. Just kids

      • Of course you don’t get it, you’re a woman. It’s just like we don’t get why you females get so emotional all the time, or why you say stuff you don’t really mean.

      • It’s the fact that these guys did not do their homework when they needed to wank and ended up with a trans is what got them bothered. You guys are so hung up on having internet relations with a transgender you forget no one pulled that cock out of your pants but you. You chose to have pixel sex, you chose to not to get to know the other person better. All of it is your fault. It would be entirely different if you guys had a long relationship with plans of meeting up and having actual sex. If not then move on. Porn is eveywhere on the internet and if you need some human interaction when you jerk it use chaturbate or chat roulette but please…DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH.

  41. #15/16 – I understand the instinct to defend people who are in a place where their fragility puts them at risk to hurt themselves. That being said, is this really the place for it? It’s a site that peddles in secrets and mud slinging for everyone to enjoy who derives entertainment from participating as a bystander. It’s not a site to build people up. I can guarantee that those gestures of good will are falling on deaf ears and are just being scrolled by. If you’d like to be helpful to individuals who are pushed to suicide then help them directly. Kindness and good words delivered to the effected parties matter more than a half-ass attempt on a gossip rag site.

    Though in total fairness, nothing is stopping you from submitting. There’s also the (very) small consolation that it’s not more pedo secrets. Can we pick a new thing? I’m voting for “flasher in RL”.

  43. We should set up a go fund me for the site to keep it going to help out.

    • OMG what a brilliant idea and we should tell everyone in SL hold a fundraiser at least it would be going to a REAL cause and not a fake one ~

      • But but what about all the blank spots and silly lies? You can easily find a cost of specific domain and hosting plan … that would make it a real, real thing and no one wants that šŸ™ .

      • huh? you don’t think this site is free, do you? There are costs in maintaining this website whether it is on a monthly basis or yearly it is not free.

      • And here I thought Lourdes projected all the secrets straight from her brain… No one would give money to a reasonable and proven cause… (on serious note: I doubt she needs help with hosting funds but plenty websites do run on donations when it comes to user based contribution communities and that fact makes it a potential and rational fundraiser unlike all others mentioned in last weeks).

      • If anyone is curious how much this site costs to run – feel free to ask. I’ll happily tell you since I pay the bill. What can’t be put in the cost, though, is the Linux administration that is required.

        There’s been a few requests for things that I will need to purchase (emojis for example someone has requested) that cost 20-50 bucks a piece (emoji’s are 20 bucks addon) and depending on what my bills are during the month depends on if we get that feature.

        All in all there’s 85 dollars of features I want to add onto the comments that must wait a while. For example – flagging and reporting (like craigslist had), being able to tag and alert other users if you mention them in a comment, emojis (already mentioned), advanced like features (giving users reputations/badges/etc), and maybe comment searching (not included in the price, but something I’m interested in looking into).

        Anyway, the order of how these are implemented depends on if we agree on implementation. Somethings sound good (like flagging and reporting) but then we think it would be a pain in the ass too.

      • some of those features sound really nice and I’d love to see them here… dayum on the prices though so yeah if you do some kind of thing where we can make donations to help improve the site and get little things like that I’ll be there to donate what I can. šŸ˜€

      • Thank you! We are planning maybe a donation thing. The cost is not the issue, you can’t host a site like virtual-secrets on some 5 dollar a month dreamhost plan, it’s not possible with the amount of traffic. I learned this the hard way as I used to run Metavirtual which was a categorized blog aggregator running about 1900 blogs when I shut it down. The debate is purchasing plugins means you are married to the comment system. I need some time to think, I’m very commitment phobic. šŸ˜‰

      • Now if we can only get the comments to go under the actually secret ,,that would be awesome!!

      • Is it possible? Maybe/probably. I don’t think I will be able to do that without redesigning the whole layout. But food for thought, because I either invest with cash into this comments plugin I’m currently using or do something else.

      • I really like this idea a lot. Or maybe a way to flag the starting comments in a comment chain with the secret number in a sort of header on it or something.

      • would make it easier to keep up with all the various conversations

  44. 19.) Awww IGNO (ignotuspevereli), you are finally famous FMD. I will have to remember to get your autograph next time I see you in world. Perfect picture of the FMD finest loser’s. Lance you should hang this one in the club, oh wait you dont even know how to decor you hire people for that. I personally know everyone is this photo…Funny I will defend them with the fuckboy comment tho….None of them have game….NONE….So old news!
    Would love to see Lance’s ugly ass on all 4’s and throw him a bone. What a cute lil puppers he would make.

  45. @26
    Oh no a booth for FMD! That’s going to affect all the people who still shopped here anyway

      • That’s how the clusterfuck Keely Mistwood got hired as the blogger manager, way to go to make it worse.

      • She’s probably fucking that waste of space Romina Godde…which amuses the hell out of me considering she once said Keely was the biggest whore in SL and that she could not stand her. But then again, Romina is a using, manipulative, lying whore herself, so Keely will end up fucked up and fucked over like everyone else Romina has used and abused over the years soon enough, and karma will return the favor and bite back soon enough.

  46. #6
    really sucks that ppl like Lourdes get banned from sl and the nasty ass people and the pedophiles of the world like Danno get to roam free and wreak havoc.
    in my mind i renamed him to Denno so it rhymes with Pedo. neat huh? xD
    wish you didn’t have to lay low so we can laugh at ur pitiful comments screaming “IM INDEED A PEDO!”
    then again your probably busy being your good ‘ol pedo self. when you should really be locked up with the other pedos.

  47. #39 – This is completely false and idiotic. Stacy is not 16. Lets do the math y’all. 16, been in sl 6 years would mean he started SL at the sweet young age of 10. I don’t think so. He’s a college student, last I checked, 16 year olds were still in high school. Stacy is one of the most real people you will ever meet, 100% honest about who he is, catfishing no one. Frankie, Ryan or whatever sad name you go by these days, yeah I know you and Isaiah did this sad bullshit. I think the problem here is you are just trying to justify your actions over your time with Stacy’s family and the fact that Stacy rejected your advances. Now, you are screwing his ex… so tell me , dear , how do those leftovers taste on your overplumped fake lips?

    • Don’t bring my name in to this bullshit again. its bad enough that i even had to go through this the first time. when i found out he was a 16-17 year old boy in high school who robbed me of 2 years of my life. 100% honest ? Pfft i think not… besides this was 3- 4 years ago….i’ve heard he was older by now… still doesn’t make shit right ! I’ve moved on and always said Karma would come back to bite him in the ass for all the shit.

      • Correction. he was 13-14……doesn’t make me feel any better to say this because its just so fucking wrong. and i was in my mid 20’s! grosses me out to know that a Child Catfished me and wasted 2 years of my Life and Money. as for the left overs your talking about. yeah that’s my Fiancee! he tried to catfish her too a year after me and she saw through him and his Lies. that’s how We met and now were in RL and Happily living together.

        Do don’t give me that 100% Honest crap….. we all know you and Stacy are 100% bullshit. there is no defending the actions of someone who has wronged so many.

      • one would think that there would have been some red flags and clues to the fact that he was a child in RL??? I am really wondering how a child could successfully catfish for so long…. wow is all I have to say. Sorry, it happened to you but still…. smh.

      • Yeah sadly he had friends who lied for him. -.- …..every time i asked people who knew him questions when i got weary. about things….. they would be like. ” Oh no Stacy’s a Girl! shes 27! ” or towards the end when i found out… “.. Well i can’t tell you! “…. Thats SL for ya right? people will lie for others!

      • Yo this is frankie, I donā€™t know why youā€™re commenting as me. I would like it if you didnā€™t when Iā€™m the REAL Frankie and nor would i post to virtual-secrets about someone. Nor would i say anything about Stacy.

      • Apparently there is more then one of us who he messed around with. are you dating one of Stacy’s Ex’s as well? if so this is some twilight zone Bullshit. XD

    • Frankie seems to make a habit of dating “famelies” exes

    • I was about to say…ummm that is Sims4. I wasn’t sure if maybe they were trying to put a picture “like” him and not use his actual picture of they actually think this is someone in SL….

  50. I do want to commend both Lourdes & Kess for keeping this site going, which is not cheap. And hey I would donate some RL $$$ to help them out financially as it would not be much but am not sure how many people do read this each day, week or whatever would give least 2$ that would help them with their costs for the site. Just let us know how, please

    • We need a Plurk and a gofundme, and an autistic kid sleeping on the floor with a dog or something.

      Hope for Lourdes! Woohoo!

      As long as the dog isn’t a pedo, coz that would be a bit weird.

      • In the interest of transparency if there is a Free Lourdes GFM, the funds will be used for a vacation for me and Kess. We’ll post receipts and vacation pics as proof.

        Oh and a new fridge for Kess. Her fridge is dying.

      • I love it as am cracking up laughing at that but wait no new purses, bikinis or luggage?

  51. Lance is posting secrets about himself…1 true post and 50 fakes so everything seem fake…real post =lance like dog sex stuff……no more secrets about this guy please..he isn’t famous, skilled or popular he only own a club for emo “daddies”..we want some spicy “real” secrets not everyweek this shit…

    • kinda easy to guess whos posting all the hate about fmd and Lance all you gotta do is take a look at the fmd ban list lol

      • What if I told you… plenty of people who would never spend a single Linden to go to FMD still know what garbage it is? Would that surprise you? It shouldn’t.

    • He isn’t famous yet you found the need to post about him! Its the bitter, rejected cunts- male and female- posting this worn out bullshit. No one in their right mind would want their name on here, so to insinuate he is self- posting…try again…you just failed!

      • Not saying he is or isn’t doing it since I don’t know or care who he is, but just wanted to correct you that it does happen sometimes that people make posts about themselves on here. It could be to stir up “drama” they can use as fuel to make themselves more talked about, or sometimes people post it to make them look sympathetic to others because someone is “attacking” them.

      • people self-post on here all the time to try to make themselves seem relevant. hell, there was even one a few weeks ago where the person accidentally screen shot their own facebook. oakley has been doing it forever, the owner of teqi’s has done it a few times, and i’d be willing to bet money that lance does it all the time to try to bring in traffic for his club.

        no one has to “insinuate” anything, it’s quite obvious.

  53. Morning All… Wow 54 secrets this week it’s like a salty snow storm.. guess today’s Sunday brunch menu calls for some porridge with all the fixings to get some sweet into the mix.
    (Just gonna throw the by numbers commenting out the window this week, yes)

    ~ Now where did I put my damn reading glasses all this small print is making me squint so much I’m gonna be looking like #46 in no time.

    ~ Oh look more Lance and FDM drama 6+ posts worth…. I have yet to actually meet Lance or visit this FDM place that is talked so much about. But, over the weeks I feel as though I’ve become quite “intimate” with all the the things… I might need a shower now >.>

    ~ Who is this Morgana person I didn’t even know she existed till last week so is she really that important or somehow the “face” of all bloggers? I get the distinct feeling that she is just some random nobody with horrid pics that has convinced a small number that somehow she is bigger than she really is… can we move on and make fun of somebody worthwhile instead of a whiny nobody?

    ~ Somebody pass the eye bleach my poor innocent eyes have been defiled by the likes of #37, 38 , & 41 + some… #ForeverTraumatized !!!

    ~ What?! only 1 accused pedo post does that mean we finally get to see the end of that shit!… lets all hope so!
    I tip my hat to #20 though that made my sides hurt from LOL’n too hard I want to see more of those with maybe bigger print next time.

    ~ Yes… Where is the 411 on the Dannoman lawyer thing it got almost dead quiet after that was brought up… most likely because there was much laughing at the face when the Lawyer saw what all that was “Really” about and told him not to waste his time.

    ~ The Chapter Four has been dead for months and you are just noticing?

    ~ 3000L for a shape! ROFL anyone stupid enough to pay that much for one deserves to be scammed.

    ~ Plurk Coins?… who even bothered to get those to begin with? … Who ran out? was it Rose? does she need more luxury items?

    ~ Natalie Wells good luck with that Bumping… I foresee in your future much loss of followers.

    ~ Last and most likely least of my cares is this whole thing on Ingrid being Trans…. so what? If it’s true or not I don’t know don’t care but I would like to point out that maybe you (the poster) need to look at how such things were received when Jeff Varner outed Zeke Smith as Trans on Survivor last year.. .*Hint* Jeff was the one who was shamed and disgraced in the end even though it was true. What you are doing no matter if true just isn’t Classy so please take a seat and shut that mouth of yours.

    • Morgana is one of those bloggers that has been around forever just on the edges of making it and might of if she stopped with being who she truly is and that is a “C” as for some of the rest I agree with you about ppl paying 3K for a shape and being stupid. Natalie Wells is a store owner for Deees Boutique that I never heard of. Again who cares what gender someone is in SL unless they are skanks, liars and cheats as long as someone treats me kindly honestly who cares if they are a member of LGBT

      • I never understand why people get upset about someone being a different gender than their avatar, it’s silly. Most females i know, are males on RL. I treat them on SL as if they were female, because it’s who they play. I just don’t care I guess. I’ve been through “friend” drama over it in the past because I wouldn’t choose sides when someone else found out. I just don’t see why it should matter

      • Seriously. Unless you were pursuing a real life relationship or they were maliciously using a fake identity to garner money and support – why exactly does it matter? A person in my life did actually catfish men to date by pretending to be a young disabled woman when he was a 50+ mentally ill man. That was absolutely wrong but just having an avatar of a different gender? Who cares.

      • A lot of people on SL are petty, immature and hypocritacle of others all the time. It’s getting worse.

        I never ask anyone what gender they are in RL. I don’t honestly care. I also don’t go around SL screwing anything you can to a wall, looking for relationships, expecting everyone to be what is in my head they should be. Unfortunately, the outside RL fucked up side of society is seeping into SL and will eventually cause more people to leave. Society is a hateful mess.

    • Oh … Morgana is not the face of all bloggers. But she is self-centered and woe is me. If she is on anyone’s list in SL just go do a conference IM and see how long it takes for her bitch at you about her self-importance and shit going in and RL and to not ever add her to your conferences anymore. WTF… She is not in SL to be friends at all and will treat you as such. Moreover, if you friend her she will IM you and say ” who are you?” even though you have spoken before…. she thinks she is some sort of elite blogger.

      • so true as I was one of those that felt that wrath years ago as for the “elite” she has very little friends anymore and most are her relatives that have to hold her up

    • Morgana is a bit more ‘known’ than some bloggers who are better than her because she’s been around since before the ‘great blogger boom’ where everyone and their sister decided they could be a blogger. When bloggers were actually fewer and farther between. But she certainly isn’t the face of them, no matter how much she tries to think she is.

      • yes because what an image bloggers would have if anyone based their opinion on just hers

  54. ooh, again Morgana Hilra has made it in secrets YAY! now it seems she stopped voicing in her vlog at least I do hope it is a permanent thing. for me if someone is a man or a woman in RL and they are playing another gender so be it as a lot of them are upfront about that fact either on their profiles or when you speak to them, the ones that bother me are the liars and won’t admit it even when they are busted they still make up excuses why either their voice sounds so high or low and there are some well-known people that after being outed still lie about being a female in RL and portraying themselves as a gay man in SL. whatever floats your boat I guess. still, a shame that Lourdes got permanently banned by whoever.

    • Some well known people like Ms. Hikaru Enimo? I have heard her on voice, and so have others I know, and she is definitely a woman and she doesn’t even seem to be trying to lower her voice at all to sound more masculine either. And yet her avatar is considered the ultimate male role model and sex symbol in SL. I don’t get it. I also don’t get how Marcus”gay” can be with her knowing that, unless I guess they never intend to take it to RL. But the fact Hikaru has a fake male name on facebook just shows to me that she must still be hiding it even if she’s open on voice around models in Miss SL agency such as myself. It’s so delusional or something, not sure what it really all is. Consider me confused by it all.

      • Where does Hikaru say he is a woman? I really ask as I only know him through photos and he always said he was a gay dude and never seen him state otherwise. Not that I care but even if he is dodgiest guy on the planet – basic human respect is to well … respect those you hate even. If he said he is not a dude – fair enough.

      • That’s my point, he claims to be a gay man, but I ‘ve heard him on voice and it’s clearly a Japanese woman’s voice. High-pitched, feminine and all. There is no way that’s a man’s voice, and many others have confirmed to me that had dated him in SL in the past that he revealed he is a woman to them eventually and they felt hurt that he was never honest.

      • She’s not even Japanese. She let’s people believe that but she can’t speak the language. I believe she is Malaysian.

      • @saltysally: If he is a woman and wishes to identify as such then fair enough but would only consider this if seen it from him (not that I see beyond what most do as I just have him on flickr feed). My point just was that we should give people dignity to say it themselves even if they are our enemies. I get it might be weird if someone changes suddenly in middle of relationship so this doesn’t take away any hurt caused. I get if it was deliberate hiding with intent to cause harm. It just always gets me skeeved when people aim lowest when arguing and claw away personhood and I get it is anger that does it.

        On the other hand – voice is veeeery false indicator of anything as easily changed. Had to do it for work. Even with that – voices are misleading – try testing it with a whole family and I guarantee some will sound same regardless of gender.

        I would write about anyone in this way and someone above is saying they are not a trans woman so it is dodgy to me to wave it off even if we have legit reasons to believe someone is lying about things or misleading people.

        That sounds too long and too anal but ugh.

      • Hmmm ask kalli (ex she catfish for sl fame)who by mistake Shekaru sent a pic of herself middle age woman

      • @saltysally uhm Hikaru isn’t by any means considered “the ultimate male role model and sex symbol in SL.” he just happens to be a popular blogger with some connections… he is the last person who should be any kind of “Icon” but some are sheep and he’s one they choose to look up to when there are so many better choices while people who can think for themselves pretty much laugh at him.

      • @Coffee Break .You are right in your statement. Second Life revolves around sheep, that in order to be someone you have to be seen as a subservient fan and admirer. To the point that your credibility as a thinker has to take a nose-dive in order to be socially acceptable. I have seen a lot of these “icons” and in most cases the personalities leave a lot to be desired. Talk about you should never meet your idols or you be disappointed.

        I don’t care for them TBH, they give the whole gay family personage a bad name. Look at the kids they have? Arrogant and imperious boiwhores and well known for it too.

  55. 15/16 – I am going to share a little story about my life with anybody feeling like they don’t feel like they belong, or want to disappear. I may be outing myself possibly but I truly believe that absolutely anybody can work through the darkest pit of depression and come out the other side stronger, better and wiser.

    Sometimes it feels like there is absolutely no way out. I was raised by my mother; beaten every single day, shy at school and bullied. I felt like I had nobody. I was isolated in the middle of nowhere with no friends for most of my teenage life. When you’re in a situation like that you most certainly hit rock bottom. Every single night I would stare at the rafters in the storage shed I slept in and wondered if they’d bear my weight if I hung myself.
    I literally had nothing to live for, I amounted to nothing; I had no achievements but all the responsibility of my family while my mother got drunk and high.
    It pays to be selfish though, and it pays to be the most important person in your world. If you’re stuck or held back by anybody, friends, family, work; you do not deserve to be stuck in that. Humans are adaptable and can change in any situation.
    Use your depression and turn it into frustration. Be frustrated that you feel that way, be sure of yourself that you can change; have faith in the knowledge that you CAN get better and you can change your life if you take risks.

    The night I decided I was going to hang myself; I also packed a bag. This bag had my most precious belongings and important information such as birth certificates, passports etc. I gave myself a choice – and while I stepped up to the rafters to put my head through the noose in that final moment I grabbed that bag and I ran as far as I could. I was 15.

    I will not say it has been an easy journey, I’ve reached the same rock bottom at least another 3 times since then; but each time the pain and frustration fuels me to make a 100% selfish decision to better my life and it has always worked out. Don’t be scared of the unknown; identify the cause of your pain and eradicate it. Do the riskiest shit you can think of; pack up and drive as far as you can and set up somewhere else?
    What do you have to lose? You were thinking about ending it all; so when you think about that; taking a huge risk just in case it works out is nothing.

    And FYI. The risks always worked out in the end for me. Stay selfish and never settle for a situation that makes you feel like you can’t survive in this world.

      • I see you’ve never struggled a day in your life, but that’s fine; I envy that you’ve never had to feel like you’re not worth anything.

      • Oh “Deary” it’s not that… we all struggle, we all have days where it seems like too much and quite frankly, I have enough stories to make yours look like a stroll in the park… but you know what I put a smile on my face and remember I’m not the only one and there are people out there who have it worse off than me . I don’t go out and tell people I hardly know all things because it’s kind of a TMI pity party. Did you want an “Awwes that’s so sad come cry on my shoulder.. poor poor you” ? Sorry but not Sorry, welcome to the cold hard world where people don’t care that you had it hard and are way more concerned with what is own their own plates.

      • So you mean to tell me that because this person shared their story as words of encouragement and telling people to keep going they’re asking for a pity party?

      • No, call it a personal pet peeve of mine that got the best of me & Kess already called me out on it and I already admitted I was in the wrong to say anything.

      • @Kesseret you have a good point and I probably shouldn’t have said anything at all to begin with. But, damage done I guess.

      • I have pity for you Coffee Break that you are so phucking miserable in life. <3

      • Awwes Thanks Kess <3

        @Wah Wah cynical and jaded yes… "phucking miserable in life" not really so don't waste that pity.

        @Next nobody pissed in my coffee yesterday … it was just a simple insert foot in mouth moment.

      • I would think she expects nothing, other than to hopefully help that one person who needs it. You never know what could help or hurt someone. A person could be so close to the edge that one word could send them tumbling over. So, watch your tongue and choose your words wisely. Your words could save or destroy a person.

      • I don’t want or need a pity party, that wasn’t my intention. I just wanted to give some encouragement for anyone feeling similar.

      • I have worked with many suicidal people and have certainly had my share of ups and downs, but I have never heard anyone propose anything quite like your suggestion, @Iloveyou. I can tell you that if I ever find myself that close to that edge, I hope I remember your words and choose to do something insanely risky just to shake things up rather than stepping off. As you said, at that point, what is there to lose? Interesting advice…and appreciated. Thanks.

    • A great story and very inspiring (as well as so true) . Taking risks are not easy but its a step to becoming the person you are and not what people deem you to be. Thank You for sharing !!

    • Thanks for sharing. I know we can all get pretty jaded here but sometimes, it’s good to hear things like this too.

      Be excellent to each other.

  56. #48 – So, What happened to The Chapter Four??? I just TP there to see what was going on, thought it might closed or something, aaand then I realized WTF So many gifts all around? Seriously, if thats what happened, how great!

    • Seraphimsl.com won’t cover it on blogs anymore because of drama with a owner. It’s still around but less likely to get traffic.

    • If you have been following virtual-secrets and ever noticed posts about Pupito or something like that- and what a twat he acts like- that’s the “owner” of chapter 4, and yea it’s still there, but if it’s blogged anywhere like Seraphim used to, I can’t find it…

      • Yea Luoisus is actually Pupito he’s desperate cuz his event wrecked like a 17th century pirate ship
        “so many gifts all around” “how great!”
        lmao dead

  57. For V event update here: https://www.hopeforv.com/transactions
    Hmmm, a lot to unpack here. What kind of lawyer gives you a retainer ā€œreceiptā€ written in green ink? A fake one.
    The letter is written by… a secretary?
    Even the people who ran the event know itā€™s too much BS now that itā€™s A TOTAL scam at this point. They seem to have washed their hands of it and direct all questions and comments to to Vanity herself now.
    Donā€™t donate to personal fundraisers in SL!!!!

    • the TEAM who ran the event got their lindens to buy new bento head and skin so for sure their hands are washed …

    • So is it just me that noticed that letter from the attorney didn’t mention shit about dealing with her housing situation. It’s all about getting the money from LL.

      Notice we haven’t seen anything about what she has done with the money to improve her housing situation?

      It’s all about getting that money from LL pronto.

      Also I think LL has themselves covered legally regarding cashouts. Why pay that much to a lawyer just to send a strongly worded letter asking to raise the limit. Wouldn’t that money be better spent establishing a more stable housing situation?

      But hey, what do I know…

      • Right on the money there. Itā€™s my money and I need it now!!!
        Still no notarized note from the landlord and I doubt weā€™ll ever see that.

      • @Lourdes: A lot of legal matters on that are area specific so you probably know more but it strikes me weird she needed a lawyer at all. In UK, when you rent a property (removing the whole subletting things as new contract would be her and landlord without third party) the landlord has a solicitor or agent who acts as one and they sign every legal form. You as a tenant have a witness and if anything goes wonky – you contact landlord’s solicitor / agent or find your own. Same goes with any fundraising matters – solicitors are the ones who make documents legal (I assume your area has something like that as the lovely landlord letter mentioned it not being approved by one yet). However …. she definitely would not need one with Lindens as … uh … approving bigger transfers is routine? Sure, she might have waited but you do not need a lawyer to … do any of this. Not that “law firm, llc.” seems legal at all.

      • Every state has different housing laws. Overall you don’t need a lawyer to sign a lease to make it legal. Only the parties involved have to sign. You can go an extra step and get it notarized, which proves that all parties are who they say they are and the notary is the witness.

        But as I said last week: Pennsylvania is squatter friendly, meaning even if it was an illegal sublet the landlord still had to serve notice and go to the District Judge to evict. Yes she would need a lawyer to fight an illegal eviction. But the letter she supplied makes no mention of that, just all about the cashing out bit.

        Also if she is homeless and got evicted illegally those agencies whose assistance she turned down could help her with legal aid which is free or income based.

      • It appears that the firm is real http://karolyfirm.com/ (matched the image on the letter) I’m surprised she didn’t put them on retainer to help with her living situation first since they deal with civil litigation. Then again, is it really a surprise?

      • because there is nothing wrong with her living situation all she wants is that money and right away so possibly she has reservations at some resort in Vegas as her mentality on what to do with that money was so well spent hiring a lawyer. again the lawyer is probably laughing his/her ass off and telling anyone who will listen about his latest case with this dumb bitch who gave 1500 to see if she can get the rest of her monies where he will bill her for the rest. Totally pathetic and you go lawyer grab the rest and bill her accordingly

    • I had to look twice to make sure I wasn’t mistaken. So she’s received $2,500 already? And she supposedly is wasting a good chunk of it on a lawyer!??!?!? That makes me ill. I mean really pisses me off and I had no hand in giving her a penny. So she’s basically saying she couldn’t fucking start over elsewhere with that money? FUCK! I stayed Sept, Oct and Nov of 2017 in a motel 6 after moving 200 miles away from everyone I knew for hubby’s new job before we bought a used mobile home that we’re rehabbing (we paid 1,200.00 for that) The Motel 6 included cable and internet and the dinky free breakfast donuts and maid services. It even had a kitchenette with a full sized fridge and laundry on site and an indoor pool. You know what we paid monthly (and of course it covered water and electric? It was less than 1,200 a month. Yea it wasn’t the Ritz, but I never felt unsafe and it sure as shit beats having your child (yes I have one) (and 2 dogs and a cat *kinda had to hide the cat when the maid came in XD) sleep on the friggin floor. What a complete waste of flesh this person seems to be.

      • Tell Vanity that as you have described her on point as a waste of flesh and I love that btw hehehe Just remember it was her pride that couldn’t accept help from state or government yet as we are finding out she cannot figure out her life. Being homeless or couch surfing is not fun and if anyone set up a gofundme or did a personal fundraiser having a roof over my head with whatever the monies were raised would be my first concern. Then making sure whoever helped knew how much the money was appreciated. First I do think I would have enough brains not to set in front of a lawyer and God knows what story she came up with but again lot of lawyers will take your money gladly without blinking to contact a corporation that states clearly about money being taken out. How entertaining that must of been listening to her explain that story just like the phone call to LL.

    • OMG, The whole point of the **Scam** fundraiser was to assist in helping get housing because she was homeless, living on the streets with an autistic child. Yet first thing she does is take 1500, which in my lowly opinion could have been used in rent, utilities, food, etc. Looks like the letter was written in the title was correct by a receptionist and am not doubting the validity of the receipt or the letter but her actions that is beyond stupidity on the fact she is hiring a lawyer when money could have been spent again on more important things as she got over 1500 $$$ why in the hell would you not just take that, wait for when you can take the rest and deal with it instead of being like a box of rocks. I bet that attorney is laughing his ass off at the easiest money he has made in his lifetime. He will direct his secretary to write a letter to LL or conduct a phone call that will result in getting the same results that too bad his client will have to wait, then he will, in turn, write a fuck you letter to Vanity stating oh sorry but LL does have rules and if you like us to continue to pursue your case it will be another 1500. This for me is even worse than Rose taking funds to pay her stupid purses and whatever because the next thing will be Vanity will be crying that the poor lawyer took all her money and did absolutely nothing for her boo hoo. Still, no one questions this action just writing that summing up her latest action speaks volumes about how stupid whoever put that on the website. What is wrong with these people that are advising her this crap to okay spend 1500 on a lawyer.

      • I was thinking the same thing when I was typing my other reply. This is worse than the Rose crap. It’s just throwing bad money after bad money and nothing is getting better.

    • so shes wasting the money on getting a lawyer so she can get the money?!?! seems her situation was soo soo dire..lol what a fucking loser. I guess the pose store wasn’t being used to hlep pay her bills either hence why her limits are so low as it is. Hopefully she doesnt have anymore kids because thats the ones that really suffer.

    • not everyone associated with that auction was innocently duped – Vanity has a shady ass circle of friends. one of them added event blogger group access to the auction list and didnt bother consulting any of the creators in said event OR giving the event owner the full story in order to convince them to approve it. another of her friends wrote that bait and switch sob story about the dog thinking that of the hundreds of people reading it, not one would pick up on the fact that it had nothing whatsoever to do with her getting evicted. yet another one used their popularity to advertise the event knowing their zombie eyed followers wouldnt bother checking the facts before throwing lindens at it because it came with their seal of approval.

      • @undecided for this reason i think her “circle of contacts with benefits” (not friends) got some lindens too. they dealed it before the fundraising. Could be nice to see the transactions history of her “team” after the event or the hopeforv avatar ?

      • but two of the ones i spoke of already have lindens coming out the wazoo (aforementioned event manager gobbles up high paying jobs in sl like candy – and doesnt do any work for half of them, just lists them in their profile like a proud resume) and the other one also has rl money coming out the wazoo which begs the question – instead of ordering their zombie followers to funnel lindens their way why not just send Vanity the couple grand she needed fr her rent? trick question- because they are greedy af

      • also i would give my left nut to be able to log into that hopeforv avatar just to read the conniving conversations and out them all

      • id name names but something tells me theyre watchig because eyes and ears everywhere is the only way to maintain control. oh that and they have no life. every time something is even remotely mentioned about one or the other, not matter how buried in social media comments it is, it always gets back to them. creeps me dafuq out to be perfectly honest.

        but clearly i like to toy with them since virtual-secrets is their crack lmfao

      • i wondered the same about that.. seems like they are all secretly making out in 1 way shape or form

      • yuh and one person is behind a whole slew of stores [see ‘parent company’] via their huge mesher/rigger/etc team and just keeps raking in the lindens. apparently being a top selling brand on their main isnt enough they always have to have more. meanwhile new stores no matter how hard they work will never be able to compete. watching them all stroke each others egos on plurk and other social media is painful to watch too bad we dont have oversight committees for businesses in sl

      • To be fair that is the best way to make money as a store in SL now. You need a team if you want to offer one than mesh body as an option. If you don’t then you get the secrets you see here. WAAAA!! Why you don’t offer Belleza, or SLink or Big Booty Mesh Body? Smaller stores have to limit to one or 2.

      • ive read the talks creators have ahd on social media about the mesh body thing and i get why stores have teams working for them. but what i dont get is why they feel the need to open 2nd and 3rd and 4th stores etc when theyre already making enough lindens to support 3rd world countries with their parent company or why they are not honest about it

      • What do you mean by “parent company” ? the companies out sl working for them ? About their 2nd 3rd 4th… stores maybe its because the trends time are short ? 1 shop today can be the best seller and next month not (and this is because they do always same style of stuff), having many names and with diferent stuff can be a garantee to keep their milionar rl (lol)

      • i dont understand “the companies out sl working for them ?”
        but parent company in this case has been one of the top selling brands in sl for a few years and shows no sign of slowing down. then another store comes out of nowhere brand new (with no past history of making clothes) and instantly gets put in all the top events and sells like mad right out of the gate. their products, ads, store, vendors etc are all super polished and resemble the alleged parent company to ‘T’ all except for the style of the clothes. the alleged parent company uses all the clout at their disposal to promote new store. could be a coincidence but members of the alleged parent store’s team are pulling all the strings for them to make sure they get ahead of stores which have been around for a while and have proven themselves to be very talented capable and consistent. you be the judge.

      • Looks like their top selling brand does not sell much ? (i do not know about their business to be honest). Personnaly i like new shops and small ones, their stuff is always diferent and not “barbie” style or “new virtual barbie porn star” style. I miss a lot wonderfull creators who left sl when mesh era started. Be diferent and you do not have to compet with anyone. People with good tastes will find your shop ā¤

      • I guarantee you their top selling brand has made them a millionaire in real life. personally i dont blame you for prefering smaller and/or newer shops. in world where you can look anyway you want why would you want to look like everybody else

  58. #39.. seriously, 16 years old and playing second life? That is a kid. Thanks for that info, next time I get on SL I will report him.

    • 16 year olds are allowed in SL ever since they shut down the teen grid many years ago. They just aren’t allowed on adult sims. Reporting won’t get you anywhere.

    • He is not 16. He is in fact a legal adult. As far as catfishing, he’s 100% honest about who he is.

      • I know he’s not 16 Now but he was a few years ago. he cat fished me and he admitted it to people for a while. and thats 100% Truth~

  59. 1. obviously a couple people will read it and those are the people involved in said secret which means 99% of people will scroll on by. if this site becomes too flooded with these kinds of secrets they’ll just lose followers which i dont think they care about any way

    2. huh?

    3. lol

    4. oh ffs

    5. lol right?

    6. who?

    7. while its terrible and fucked up that someone got catfished the picture makes me wonder why anyone would be interested in interacting with someone who says shit like “if you’re important i’ll find you”

    8. you lost me at “your latest flavor of the month”. personal feuds are boring af

    9. šŸ™

    10. zzz

    11. 2008 called…

    12. why not reveal his griefing before he dumped you?

    13. oh look, another bitter breakup.

    14. that…is just sad if its true

    15. a lot of people want to kill themselves. its sad af

    16. apparently the number is 7,000,000,000

    17. ewww

    18. who?

    19. bitter much?

    20. wut?

    21. zzz

    22. lol

    23. anyone who plays a child in sl needs professional help

    24. haha you make it sound like real life

    25. wow um…have you guys been outside recently?

    26. not sure i get it

    27. oh look, another bitter breakup

    28. zzz

    29. BURN

    30. wut

    31. amen

    32. bitter much?

    33. grow up ffs

    34. lol oops

    35. oh look, another rivalry between two store s ive never heard of

    36. good point

    37. that poor woman. what horrors her rl must be.

    38. wut

    39. he’s not the only one.

    40. oh look, another bitter breakup

    41. *shudder*

    42. who?

    43. ok?

    44. zzz

    45. ohhh this is the guy who posts “secrets” about himself to stay relevant.

    46. zzz

    47. PREACH

    48. isnt that the event that had a major douche nozzle running it? if so, its probably being boycotted by the bulk of the reputable sl community

    49. what the actual fuck

    50. ive been meaning to check this out but i just dont care.

    51. BURN

    52. thats just sad.

    53. lazy ass mofos

    54. oh look another petty rivalry

  60. We donā€™t care about FMD.
    Boring place.
    Boring vulgar people.
    Itā€™s time to stop submitting your own face please thank you.

    • It’s going to be funny when the people who go there fully realize that literally the entire rest of the grid thinks they’re a joke. Could be wishful thinking that they would ever be that self-aware, though…

    • weeks of hearing of FMD and Lance so what do i do ? a week ago i picked up my self and went to FMD. found out its a nice place and Lance himself personally welcomed me . a decent humble guy it turns out. and no i dont wanna fuck him ! šŸ™‚
      lesson learnt dont listen to all the bullcrap you read here .
      now I believe that those saying all this bull are people who never met him or are bitter because he either banned them or didnt fuck them . js

      • Yeah, cuz it’s so easy to know how someone is on sl after a week of knowing them lmao. Not saying he is or isn’t a bad guy, I don’t really care either way. But that was the most naive thing I’ve ever read.

      • Why do you defend Lance? Did I talk about him? No.
        I said FMD I need general. This place is boring and people vulgar yes.
        With all the comments that talk shit about him mine wasnā€™t and you say he isnā€™t humble after one week.

  61. Hi kiddo if you read this. I’m not gonna hide who I am. I know #12 personally as I am his mother in SL and I knew he would end up here eventually. He has a habit of meeting some very nice women, and then he gets with them and the later says that he had to leave them because of something he told me was a problem as they first met. things like living in other countries, having multiple children already, being married already. I’ve told him again and again “if you don’t want to be with someone that has these things as part of their life why do you keep dating women who are foreign or have kids etc etc.” i’ve also conversed with him on the fact that he is NOT ready for a committed relationship and I have told him more than once that he seems to run whenever it gets serious and use any excuse even things he found ok before, and that he shouldnt be with anyone for a while. he agrees but then keeps doing it. I’ve told him that if he continued I would have to do this he would have issues eventually and well….I’m not surprised, though it saddens me that he has hurt another person. and I’m sorry kiddo but i have to be honest here, you also told me that the girl you are currently with is a temporary thing and that you have no intention to be with her at all, you’re just with her because you dont want to be alone while waiting until you can be with this other girl that you cant be with right now and you claim both women are aware of it, though im not sure i believe that… if they aren’t aware they will be now. and I’m sorry to “blast your business” but it’s not a nice thing to do kiddo. honestly.. i hope he learns from this but i have a feeling that won’t be the case.

      • eh i cant have kids in rl so i roleplay it. fills a need to mother since i cant adopt right now and people need parents darnit! XD i dont take it too seriously but its a thing i do *shrugs*

      • That’s actually a really cool response. Thank you.

        Don’t tell ’em B-Triv went soft on ya, okay?

  62. #48 – TCF went under becauseof the event ownerā€™s disgusting treatment of designers and customers. Heā€™s also been caught countless times scamming the people in his event. #TheMoreYouKnow

  63. It’s pretty obvious the patrons of a club are trying really hard to stay relevant for internet points but alas here we are. Best thing for long time readers of this site is to ignore it and comment on other things. Is there a way to donate to this site? Edit to add : without having to buy advertisement space.

  64. #23

    I find it odd that you even have pictures of David in a soiled diaper… Is that not a little weird since you didn’t plan to post them?

    • You guys know that pic is from ā€œThe Simsā€ game right? Itā€™s not an actual SL kid avi.

      • I’m pretty sure its from Sims 4 as I recognize the items in it, though to have a kid sim wearing a diaper you need to have a mod in it. As both toddlers and kid sims have underwear not actual diapers, so this secret poster modded their game to have their sims wear diapers. I think the poster has a problem.

      • I know itā€™s from The Sims 4. If you notice from the picture itā€™s also not a soiled diaper. My comment wasnā€™t about that particular picture, but of the text below it stating the would post a picture of his soiled diapers but it would be in bad taste for the website.

      • I have to agree, it takes a special type of sicko sl secrets submitter to go around collecting photos of people in soiled daipers.

        Stating he has a photo of them, and just the fact he clearly knows about this Sims4 mod (what the actual fuck?), well, I’m going to guess the submitter truthfully has a secret fascination with daipers and does the “me thinks he doth protest too much” bit to divert attention from their secret dirty desires.

        Clearly has an established photo collection to draw from when he gets salty at someone.

  65. lence is submitting all the sl secrets up by himself got this from a save source…
    he is doing everything to stay in the topic even buying a stall at the ultras event to promote fmd
    too funny!

    • Just sad. For people like Lance SL is the bane of his existence, I wonder what he’d do if LL suddenly pulled the plug.

      • Your comment makes me wonder if you even understand what the “bane of his existence” means…

    • You are all morons. Why are you so obsessed with what Lance is doing? First off… he isn’t a “dog fucker” or in to bestiality. Secondly, what makes any of you think his relationships are ANY of your business? Are you paying his internet bill? I highly doubt it. For all of you saying FMD is a cesspool, blah blah… where are you hanging out? Chamber? Teqis? Granpa’s Basement? Elysion (because its “classy”). Pfffffffft…. you ALL come to FMD, or have been banned at FMD and are bitter, or wanted to be with Lance… and he simply didn’t choose you. Everyone has their niche in SL. All the judgey, vindictive, mean internet bullying is stupid. Grow up!

      • LMAO never been to FMD and the rest of loser clubs. Some of us party in rl instead of shaking our virtual pixels and feeling like B List SL Celebs. Get a grip!

    • yes this fmd stuff starts to be boring… everyone knows they are all simulating lol nobody is able to get a 24/7 moaning nor erection ?

  66. #26 reminded me, I bought a shirt fatpack from bishes yesterday because it was $75L on the saturday sale. It came with an application to be an escort in their club in the folder lmao.

    Classy.

  67. #23 It’s kind of sad that you are picking on David Thurman considering he is hardly the youngest child avi that wears diapers. I too hate diapers with a passion and they gross me out big time, but call out all those Toddledoos who wear them and not just one. This is just a silly personal vendetta and it’s pathetic.

    • Do you hate diapers even when you wear em?

      You got no prob with adult avis wearing diapers then, but you want to “call out all those Toddledoos”? Interesting

      • @Vainypoo Call out adults wearing diapers too, in fact ESPECIALLY call them out because that is some gross shit right there.

    • The younger the person wearing diapers, the less squicked I am, tbh. At least a toddler wearing them is somewhat realistic, but roleplaying an incontinent elementary school kid sounds to me like the opposite of fun. Like, did you not GO to school?

      The same goes for binkies, if you were wondering.

  68. #33 Ingrid von Paine, Pentacles666, Penty, Penty Sakurai…whatever you want to call me. I totally am not a transsexual but really have no need to defend myself. Whoever wrote this is some sad, jealous loser whose probably angry I fucked their ex. Take a chill pill and relax

    • Even if you were, Ingrid, as Observer below says. It’s none of anyone’s damn business.

      The Poster of the secret is a sad and disgusting individual. I agree with you, a jealous loser felt the need to sprout their hate to make themselves feel better. Clearly, it backfired and if what you tell us is true, I can see why they are an ex!

      Shout out to the Secret Poster = You’re a cunt.

    • You are a fugly bitch, who partnered her own alt . Nothing to be jealous about.

      • Well, everyone. We’ve found the poster of the secret, is in fact ‘MewMew’. Painfully obvious at this point.

      • Shhhh, MewMew it’s fine. Your low IQ makes you think that I’m ‘Oakley’ so, to prove a point that you’re not getting, I think that you’re the poster.

        See what I did there?

    • Ing, it is fairly obvious to anyone who knows you that you are not trans, and even if you were no one would fucking care. So yes, to confirm, the poster of the secret is clearly 100% literal garbage. Obviously jealous or envious for whatever reason, and pathetic enough to use SL secrets instead of being an adult and dealing with his or her own feelings in a way that isn’t totally destructive and psycho.

    • Ingrid! You never told me you were that awesome! Goddamn it. I thought we were friends! I love your sarcastic face lady. Yep a lady cuz I know she’s not trans. Though she’d be 100% cooler if she was cuz There ain’t no shame in life about being trans. Get with it folks, the lgqtb hate is so last millennia. But sadly, Ingrid isn’t part of the trans grouping. -.- She’s not that cool damn it. It’s okay I’m not trans either, we’re in the same non cool boat. I’m sorry Ingrid. Love Aengel. <3

      • What the actualy fuck, Aengel? I just lost my last bit of respect for you. Trans people are superior to non-trans people now? Do you ever think about what you put out there?

    • Can Pentacles666 please stop begging her VERY LIMITED group of sl friends to come up and comment on her behalf so she can keep hiding her tiny tranny penis?
      Who cares btch, we know you’re trans
      Stop hating on yourself and labeling everyone that says shit about you as jealous and sad
      Look at your MEGA male chin irl, who the f*ck is going to be jealous of your wretched tranny face?
      Look at your self deprecating profile, what can be more sad than that?
      Look at you begging for cock in a game, btch.
      Even if OP was lying you’re still the loser. Case closed.

      • Iā€™m so sorry I bother you so much. I have a ton of fun in SL, you should try it sometime ā¤ļø

      • That’s the same rhetoric you use EVERY TIME lmao
        Btch you only bother me when you stop making us laugh
        so please never change <3

      • Also – this is the last comment I’m making to this thread…you have way too much time on your hands to be so concerned with me and writing anonymous paragraphs. You can call me whatever you want, at the end of the day I’m still going to be me, so I guess you’ll have to keep hating

      • That’s cool though it’s all we asked! You keep being you tgirl!
        Thank you for keeping the joke alive šŸ˜€

      • Speaking as Ingrid’s longtime friend I can say that her transexuality is NONE of your goddamn homophobic business!
        Trans girls are beautiful and Ingrid is no exception!
        Xx

      • im confused on why it would be ur business if she was trans? like so what?! if she isnt its fine and if she is.. get off her dick

      • So, this person is trans? So what? So far, whoever she is, I’m starting to like her better than the rest of you right now

      • hi5 nothing like a bunch of jerks trans bashing..they should be ashamed of themselves..i really can’t imagine how it must feel to have to live your life in hiding or feel you can’t be yourself because ur physical body isnt lined up with ur heart/soul. I like to trash talk with the best of them but its equal to making fun of someone handicapped in my eyes.. and even i have standards.

      • no one is trans bashing you retard
        it’s FINE TO BE TRANS what they are saying is IT’S NOT FINE TO BAIT PEOPLE REGARDLESS OF GENDER AND SEX
        dum fuck LMAO

      • No issue with being trans, stupid
        the issue is with BAITING
        Respect yourself for a change and learn how to read
        OP even wrote Nothing wrong with being transsexual so why the lies

    • I’m one of the many people who caught this girl in her lies and was conned by her. Here are few facts, some of which have been mentioned already:

      -She has a history of scavenging at the outskirts of major SL social circles. She never actually finds her way in, however because no one wants her after the red flags pop up.

      -She tries way to hard to get the SL D. Anyone who puts that they’re a “horror whore” and that they love to be “pounded” in their profile is trying way too hard.

      -I personally know that her stories don’t line up and I’ve got some interesting logs as proof.

      Obviously, this girl is a mess. T-girl is an over the top accusation though. What proof do you actually have, or are you just here for the lulz?

      • what a red flag is.. is a person who cries on sl secrets that they didnt get the ONLINE pussy they thought they were.. lol do u people not realize how pathetic u sound?? ok she has a reason to not be out in rl doing all of that.. but whats ur excuse?? id like to see ur rl pic…. i bet ur a site for sore eyes

      • @The Walrus
        she’s transsexual it has been confirmed, don’t be fooled by her voice
        there are actual rl pics of her sporting a dick… and that’s not a strapon
        and also people that found her RL information, she was born male
        now that’s what i call a red flag :p

      • I am by no means white knighting this girl. Honestly, I think its both gross and telling of the SL community at large when they’re willing to forgive someone’s disgusting personality just because they claim to be non cisgender. It smacks of Kevin Spacey coming out as openly gay just as soon as he was caught diddling kids. With that said, however, your evidence is weak. Where are these pictures?

        With that kind of he said, she said evidence I can only suspect you’re here for the keks. In that case I honestly commend you. You threw gasoline on this dumpster fire and it was hilarious to watch.

      • What is a “major SL circle”? Last time I remember popularity mattering, I was worried about which lunch table I was gonna sit at.

      • Sounds like those circles so far, are ones that no one should be in. They are a group of horrible people.

  69. This Lance guy keeps popping up week after week. So he has a lot of women riding his pixel cock, plenty of men in SL get loads of women to ride their cock. Why is Lance so damn worthy to keep spouting off about? Shut up already, no one cares.

    To the one outing someone as a real life trans, that is not your right to out them like that. If they haven’t told people and want to hide it, its because they feel scared. Trans people are killed for just being trans, you are a terrible person for doing this to them. None of your damn business who they tell and don’t tell, they want to hide it that is their right specially if it makes them feel safe.

    • what happens when said trans people keep baiting rl straight men that don’t like someone with a dick?
      Is that suddenly okay just because they have a tough life?
      can I lie and bait someone if I have it bad?
      Naaah… baiting is awful, no matter what you identify as, female male trans, etc
      it’s just f*cked up

      btw Lance is posting about himself to keep his club relevant so just ignore it lmao <3

      • Ingrid Von Paine is my friend and she is not baiting, she was born in the wrong body (male) but she IS a woman!
        Trans people can have “dicks” and still identify as female.

      • This isn’t my actual friend Teena commenting and I’m not fucking Trans. You’re also insulting real Transgender people making it sound like its some sort of a disease by using it as an insult. Get a fucking life.

      • What difference does it make if you are or aren’t? You’re still the same person either way. That’s all that matters in the end.

      • on a game it really shouldnt matter since ur also ‘baiting’ with a fucking catwa head that im sure ur rl 1 isnt as nice

      • I don’t know if they are baiting or not, personally I don’t think anyone’s real life gender is anyone’s business unless its going to be a serious relationship that will go in to real life. I also believe no one has a right to out someone as trans, that’s up to the person and how they feel on the subject.

        If Lance is posting about himself he needs to stop making his cock sound like its god’s gift to women, mostly it just sounds like he stopped banging a bunch of chicks and they’re still thirsty for him.

      • If rl straight men are gonna be traumatised by swapping sexy IM’s or hopping on poseballs with someone with a rl dick may I respectfully suggest that they refrain from doing that stuff in sl? Because, while I hate to break this to them, it has probably happened already.

  70. 46 – To the poster, personal opinions and all that. However, my thoughts on the image is as follows.

    Holy shit, the detail on that model/photograph is outstanding, from the skin texture and lighting to the line appliers (if they are indeed those) to the makeup. Truly, damn fantastic! The entire vision from the eyes, colouring and especially that green glow is brilliant. Clearly they’ve went for a characteristic look and blown it out the water. Anyone know who this person is?

    52 – Sounds like the landlord is an asshat. Unfortunately, Second Life seems to breed those constantly.

      • Hello MewMew, I can tell that you’re a bit thick from the above statement. IF It was myself, why would I be asking who it is so I can then go question them about their model you dumbass. As you will notice, I creep out to point out moronic SL Secret Posters and moronic commenters. You fall in the later. I need the account NAME not ‘Oakley’ That doesn’t help me contact them in SL.

        However, as you have responded like a teenager to the issue on Ingrid being ‘outed’ as a transgender. I can only assume, since you’re so good at it, that YOU are the disgusting individual who felt the need to sprout their hate bullshit about someone’s personal business.

        Thank you for your response, you can put your padded jacket on and head on back to your cell.

      • Oh pwease, i didn’t insult her because of her gender . but because shes a nasty whore. Its funny to see how you bitches overreact here. Goal reached LMAO

      • It’ll do basics, that I know. You trigger them with the text for them. I can look into a picker for emojis but finding one that doesn’t slow the site down is my goal.

      • Hm looks like i struck a nerve?! Fame hungry people like Oakley could easy pose as stranger on this site to ask about her credits. So your explanation is pretty much invalid. Nothing would surprise me LOL Keep on stroking your EGO, Oakley. We know its you.

      • How do I put this to not hurt your feelings.

        You’re being laughed at by me and everyone else who has an IQ above 10 to figure out that I’m underhandedly trolling you and with each response you give. It’s working. I’m starting to understand the good old phrase “You can’t reason with stupid”. On that note, I’m done with my entertainment of you MewMew, I will let the rest of the viewers, especially Coffee Break because I know that they will have a great gif for this conversation, enjoy the show. (Loved the bird and the popcorn last week).

    • #46 is Oakley Foxtrot. Her avi isn’t my style personally, but she rocks it.

      • Thank you Creeper, I was starting to loose hope with all the 6 down votes and no name. I want to see where she got those face lines from!

      • Oh yeah, she rocks and kills that Flickr… puhlease… cartoon avvie pics are lame as fuck, but my beef with Joakley, is that she is a main scammer of the vanity heist. Scamming hundreds out on a fradulent story. Joakley is nothing more then a fat overweight woman who LIVES in SL.

      • OneNameOnly, please tell me more about the vanity heist. I’ve missed this gossip. Is it the same as Rose/Olive?

      • apparently she made some poor choices and got kicked out of her apartment but luckily she had friends in high places who forced a bunch of content creators into contributing to a charity auction.

      • Thanks for the clarification, guys. It’s very disappointing that so many people leer towards the general fundraising events and those who donate have no clue that it’s a scam. Or what makes it worse, the person of which the money is sent to, continues to sit back and allows the flow of guilty cash. Going to assume that’s why the woman is disliked, can understand, pretty shitty thing to do.

      • The problem with this particular charity event was that certain people with certain connections included ‘prizes’ of event blogger groups without getting permission from the creators in the events. That was dirty pool.

      • they dont need permission undecided. These people really think the virtual business turns around their virtual name and avatar

      • well in a sense they do revolve around them. every time this person puts out a new outfit thousands of girls wet their pants no matter how much it looks exactly like 5 other outfits in the store that are less than a year old. and the knock down drag out fights that ensue when they cant get onto the sim to buy the fatpacks its like black friday at walmart

      • killing it on flickr… yesss!! loll and her avi is busted. just saying xD

      • @DERP IS OAKLEY FOXTROT i believe it because she starts off her paragraphs like that god awful fucking vlog .. hey guys.. bout to tell all my business like you care..

    • Derp is clearly Oakley lmao
      Very eloquent of you lady but you can’t fool us.
      BTW we know you rip off textures using SLCacheViewer to wear all of your tat appliers and to mix & match skins
      pretty sure that’s ILLEGAL
      <3

      • https://78.media.tumblr.com/9c5050eee364de4e80e40dd6ce613016/tumblr_inline_o1adkkeaWA1r1vzvk_400.gif

        Ok so from what I understand so far:

        Derp is allegedly Oakley even though he says he is a guy when Oakley is a girl? This accusation is because he happened to like the pic made by Oakley because OMGah liking a picture is the ultimate sin & proof of being Oakley… (oh and since nobody gave the link to find the original pic/artist here you go Derp https://www.flickr.com/photos/muterach/ )

        MewMew changed their handle to “DERP IS OAKLEY FOXTROT” for some stupid reason and possibly changed it to “CONFIRMED” as well?… what’s with all these damn name changes! When the debate with Derp started I wasn’t on anyone’s side but now I’m questioning the mental stability of MewMew with the changing of names like a pair of underwear.

        lmao seems to be rather gif happy this week and is plastering giffy insults and accusations all over virtual-secrets in several threads like a puppy with a new chew toy… and from what I understand that is something the “real” Oakley would be doing… don’t really know who lmao is because I’m just kinda laughing at how last week I place 1 well timed gif and now this week I see this particular “peach” going around with gifs like a keyboard warrior to troll anything that moves.

        Did I get this right? did I miss anything?… this is like one of those Spanish dramas so I’m waiting for somebody’s 3rd cousin twice removed on their mother’s mother side to come in stage left to make an interesting plot twist.

      • I’m DERP IS OAKLEY FOXTROT.
        I’m not MewMew or CONFIRMED or lmao
        Oakley is morbidly and she’s busy eating lard and screeching at comments šŸ™‚
        and with this level of white knighting, maybe you’re Oakley. Or a friend of hers.
        Enjoy

      • Your next comment that ends up in moderation gets trashed. You are posting under 3 or 4 different names. Stick with one of those others.

      • I changed my name for another thread but I’m neither MewMew, CONFIRMED or lmao.
        Np, Lourdes. Ty

      • Well… Nope not Oakley… don’t know her…don’t even like her that much from seeing her in passing. But, whatever for you at this rate everybody and their mother is Oakley…. look a horde of Oakleys!

        Love how Lourdes outed your name changing ways šŸ™‚

      • Thank you, Coffee Break.

        This is why I enjoy your comments there is common sense and intelligence. Correct, I am a guy albeit a sassy Londoner who roleplays an equally sassy woman inspired by Olenna Tyrell at various Medieval sims. When I see fantastic photography, I don’t particularly care who it is, but rather, the work that’s gone into it AKA the customization because it allows me to be as equally brilliant in setting up my RP characters. I asked for her account name to get the mesh lines between the eyes – those wrinkles.

        We need to start a fundraiser for MewMew in the hope that she finds the correct, psychological therapy to deal with her paranoia. We can begin by messaging all the creators in SL who want to donate.

        @LMAO didn’t you rush to the Scammer ‘Rose’ a few weeks ago, in support of her robbing everyone and how those pointing how much of a dick she was here were.. morons? Think you can speak to Rose for us again and get something sorted out for our ‘Protect Mew Mew’s Sanity’ fundraiser?

      • Awww Thanx Derp.. I do try to at least be witty.

        I remember my Other Half swooning over an applier with wrinkles a few days ago like those in Oakley’s pic but sadly I was much to busy laughing at his much excitement over an angry face to remember the product name . So, sadly I can’t help you there atm. Hope you find them though šŸ˜€

      • Hey dude, the applier is from izzie’s, either the sick face or age yourself. Good luck.

      • I think so, Coffee, except I’m going to throw in something that makes me believe that Derp is not Oakley. If you read Derp is friendly towards Lourdes and I. Oakley would rather shit on a cracker and eat it than even acknowledge the fact that we exist. So this means 1 of 2 things. 1. Derp is not Oakley or 2. Oakley is such a good actor that she’s willing to overcome her hatred of Lourdes and I to fake that she’s someone else.

        I believe in Occams Razor – so it’s probably #1.

        Anywho, my 2 cents.

      • @Kess damn are you trying to kill me I about choked on my coffee with “Oakley would rather shit on a cracker and eat it than even acknowledge the fact that we exist.”… the LOL was worth it though.

      • @coffee sorry!!! Next time I’ll throw in a trigger warning…. šŸ˜‰

      • Hey Kesseret, your 2 cents are greatly appreciated. I may come across a tad bitchy to some ‘special’ commenters but as a devout follower of RuPaul (best gifs) and …SL Secrets, I love me some drama! That and both yourself and Lourdes have done absolutely nothing towards me, for me to be rude to either of you.

        Afraid I don’t know Oakley at all other than the Flickr information kindly provided and the comments from others. But I’ve been given a great first impression as to the sort of person she is and why people dislike the woman. I’m on UK time so I don’t always catch the latest gossip, that and conflicting work times means I miss out. SL Secrets is like my work break magazine.

        @Coffee – I sent her a message but she’s not responded, I will hunt the Marketplace in hope!
        @Mew Mew – I’m still trolling you, honey but I’m sort of bored now. Until next time.

        Thanks again and I look forward to next week’s secrets.

      • Wow you are so dense. Lourdes can actually see our IPs and what not so she knows i am not posting under other names.

      • Hey MewMew is my name Lourdes? Do I have some mind reading power to know such things? Nope & Nope! Sorry to inform you but as someone just reading a thread it sure looked like you were changing your name left & right . Thanks though for clarifying šŸ˜€

    • Oakley is mentally unstable. She lashes out at people for no reason and her life revolves around SL. I keep seeing comments that she’s “Killing it,” on Flickr and by DJing big events in SL. Why do people even brag about that shit? Go try to kill it in RL once in a while. Have you ever noticed that all these people who “kill it” in SL popularity are the biggest RL losers? They’re still in the same shitty RL situations they were in years ago cause they spend all their energy chasing internet popularity. In a game. Unreal.

    • It looks like an 80s double “glamour shot” of someone with a raging migraine, or a gorgon. I’m not saying it’s not a good, well-constructed photo? But I never want to see that “new faise” again.

  71. When your life revolves around drama in a game you aren’t allowed to play in

  72. Woah Lourdes am shocked that LL banned you was there a given reason for this ban ~ really sorry to hear that even though we never met in SL still it is shocking when so many others should and need to be banned.

  73. First of all this is ridiculous. I want you all to take a quick step back and take a good look at this situation. Lourdes got banned; yes. But was she supplying this site with direct content? No. She only posted it and gave people a way to vent their frustrations anonymously.
    Would you blame Susan Wojcicki (Youtube CEO) for the uploads of people like DaddyoFive beating their kids and uploading that shit? Of course not – it’s user driven content.

    While it is true that Lourdes does have a hand in accepting and denying content – that’s a HELL of a lot better than someone who does not. I will admit that SL Secrets is pretty toxic, but in some cases it does help make us aware of things that we may not have known about previously (Pedos, Creeps etc).

    If you want to point blame at someone, point blame at the people who made the secrets. You do not shoot the messenger.

    I’m sorry Lourdes; you probably had at least a little bit of money invested in your account; and I don’t believe you deserve this ban.

  75. Sorry to hear about that Lourdes… LOL though because really? they thought that getting you banned would do anything?… Even IF you had to take this site down or you just decided to call it quits on your own accord someone out there would pick up the torch and make a whole new site to continue this entertainment. When are people going to learn that virtual-secrets is going to stay one way or another no matter how much they dislike it.

  76. The reason people reported you is probably something you would not have suspected but somehow made for an easy ban. I might not agree with you a lot of times but from what I seen of you online – nothing really accounts for a ban. Whomever reported you probably picked something not needing much evidence. Or just had people spam reports and one Linden just acted upon the amount.

    You can log in with other MAC address or other device (unless they uses your router or modem number as MAC) if it is hardware ban. Soft one just blocks one account or IP (or both) so another one with refreshed IP or VPN would work.

    Still, if you have time or will and you are bothered – you should petition it as sounds like someone just being ban happy.

  77. OMG some of these people are PETTY. Getting you banned from SL does NOTHING to this blog. Those petty Jelly Ho-Nuts have no idea how things work. It’s actually kind of funny though. But seriously, it should not have led to you being banned from SL. I don’t know how that was even possible. WP has nothing to do with SLs TOS.

  78. Lourdes is the literal embodiment of “Shake it off”. The haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate, and she just shakes it off.

  79. Love you Lourdes & Kesseret. Thanks for SL Secrets each and every week. Some of us really do look forward to them.

  81. I’m fascinated by how serious people take SL. I’m sorry you got banned even if you do not care, it’s a silly situation and should never have happened.

  82. You just know that there’s a celebratory circlejerk happening right now, people poseball-dancing on the rooftops loudly yelling “the witch is dead!”

    Never mind that SL Secrets continues, or that these same geeks and losers will continue to be called out for their nonsense – goddammit, they’ve WON! They got her!

    A small victory for the hard done by and downtrodden of SL. Keep the dream alive, ya weird bastards.

  83. I must confess a complete and utter fascination with the banning of Lourdes from Second Life and what may perhaps be a ā€œquid quo proā€ towards the recent surge of SL Secrets. After all, we are but victims of our own success.

    Please indulge me. This site has existed for quite some years without much in the way of notice or concern. Clearly that has changed as of late if one might simply analyze the number of comments trending upwards This, even when considering our dear Funnyface and her accounting for 10% of all weekly comments. As the accusations rise and the bitterness grows we are seeing far more engagement here that borders on viral inside our tiny bog of wetness.

    SL Secrets seems to be leaving the realm of cottage and moving to a new and much larger estate requiring far more upkeep. If I may quote Shakespeare, ā€œWe know what we are, but know not what we may be.ā€

    Clearly, Lourdes, you are making an impact. Yet, within this you are now seeing a cost. While I am sure a banning from SL is the least of your concerns – the taste of success is now upon you. This is the feast I believe I warned you of.

    Why did the Lab ban you? Follow the money. Always follow the money, dear lady. This site has great impact on the well being of Second Life as your numbers rise. While you feign an innocence to the idea that itā€™s ā€œall in good funā€ you are, in fact, costing money to forces much larger than you imagine. Forget the common people that may be impacted (bless them). Itā€™s money.. And when money becomes central, oh dear, what is it you all say, ā€œthe shit starts getting real?ā€

    I doubt very much that there were complaints. I would even question that there was any one direct complaint. I would suspect you have been on the radar for quite some time as being one of a number of compounding factors that accounts for a loss of residents in SL and a negative impact on the community. That translates to one thing. Oh my, MONEY.

    As well, do not discount the brands and shops this site continuously questions. Some may be justified. Most probably not. While you certainly do asterisk your presence with the fail safe of ā€œtake it with a grain of saltā€ you can not argue that these posts, for which you pull the proverbial trigger, may in fact be causing the innocent worker’s suffering as a result. And if they suffer, LL suffers.

    Oh but how real the money becomes despite your argument that the avatars are not. I can almost hear the trickling now in “real life.”

    Let me congratulate you on your success. It will be most intriguing to see you swatting at the bees of this forthcoming battle. But take heed in that The Lab started with a ban. I would assume that this was a warning shot across your bow. Please do remember that the entity that is bigger and richer than you is the foremost threat. Especially when you start pilfering their cookie jar.

    As always, godspeed.

  84. And the people who abused a Second Life reports system are calling the people who create this site as disgusting people? Just shows are even more disgusting they are to go as far as that. Not to mention Linden Labs accepting an abuse of their own abuse system. Dishonesty and duplicity at its finest.

    I am glad you girls are not going away , I am sure its pissing people off you are staying. You don’t have Linden Labs as your anchor, they have nothing on you. Go to town and use it to your advantage. My dying fridge salutes you!!

    https://media.giphy.com/media/pC2uCDXAYDLVK/giphy.gif

  87. The person who owns this site should go away for assisted suicides. Anyone that promotes this kind of bullying and hate is worse than any of the people they make fun of on this site.

  88. LoL I wish my life revolved around SL Secrets. I wish I could sit at home all day stirring up these secrets. Or AFK at a club or on a poseball with someone else’s man. Then come up with the occasional con to get my associates to rustle up a fundraiser to pay my bills. The good life.

    Sadly working full-time and working on my MBA and JD concurrently is what my life revolves around. Keeping bitches salty every Sunday is side entertainment. The amazing part is we do it without being in SL.

  89. Nothing could be further from the truth when it comes to Lourdes. And also…..you are at this site right now….looking at it. Pot met kettle.

  90. Lourdes we need a laugh button lol. I love your educated smart ass comments, they are the highlight of the secrets in my personal opinion.

  91. Exactly and so agree when ppl make negative comments about this site then why even come here they are the lurkers LOL

  92. Yes they cited 3 sections of the TOU including the catch all we can terminate your account for any reason at anytime. But they gave no specific details and I didn’t ask.

  93. Well.. I mean… I’m not surprised given how LL is, this site’s purpose, and how people can react. It was sort of like painting a target on herself. Eventually, enough people would fire at it and LL tends to react to anything with a volume of reports. I don’t agree with the decision but I understand why it happened.

    When this place started up, I knew what was going to happen because I saw it happen in journal secrets – it turned into personal attacks naming people and pumping out personal info (as well as pedo-gate). That isn’t Lourdes fault but I’m sure LL took a look and decided that since she ran the place, she was responsible because she owned the site. Again, I don’t agree with it but there you go – LL logic.

    And.. uh.. I can’t agree on the opinion about suicide. I’ve seen people in journal secrets who had secrets posted and were harassed to the point where they lost their online business, had to change their name on their FB, had their private posts where they talked about their rape and how they were coping screenshotted and posted “for the lulz”, were doxxed and had things left on their porch, and had to cut all ties with their friends and all their online hangouts. I’ve known a few who were harassed so bad that they did become suicidal, many were mentally ill to begin with but still – don’t fucking harass others. Some people go real life and do not leave a secret online to gossip about and then forget the next week. Don’t be those twatwaffles and don’t enable them by being flippant. And to the people reading that – don’t be a twatwaffle. Giggle over the gossip and move on.

  94. lourdes banned from sl after many reports about virtual-secrets and vanity + olive not, after the big frauds….. no coment

  96. yeah whats up with that shit maybe it is time to complain about those 2 for fraud bet no one has complained about them

  99. A-Kid I want to thank you for being a regular and putting up with all the vitrol thrown at people who RP child avatars. You’re a good advocate for that group and there are some good people who chose that type of RP.

    I think we are having a misunderstanding regarding the suicide deal. Kess and I have have a very well defined line when it comes to RL vs “not RL”. I use the term “not RL” to include online games, virtual worlds and social media where you can be 100% anonymous to other users. My comments are purely about “not RL”. I know that people can share their RL in levels that can be foolish if not dangerous which can lead to the crossing the line. When that line, which is very well defined is crossed, then it becomes an entirely different issue.

    The rules here on SL Secret are to make sure the line is not crossed on this platform. Even if someone has a secret posted here and someone doxxes them on another platform and they come to us. The first thing we say is contact law enforcement and have them contact us, we will do everything we can and give all information available to law enforcement to help solve the problem. It has happened in the past.

    We are not two dumb asses running this site by the seat of our pants no matter how much you all wish to that to be true. We are also very firmly grounded in reality. That is where our misunderstanding stems from.

  101. I had L$2000 Lindens when I was banned. I didn’t have that much invested. I was a fashion blogger. I rarely bought things and when I did buy Lindens it was to pay tier on my land when I had land. I’ve been a squatter on a friend’s land for about 2 years.

    I honestly didn’t feel a huge loss. 3 to 5 years ago when I was an active blogger yeah it would have more of an impact. Now it’s just, yeah whatever.

  102. @Devil’s Advocate: You made me remember Daddy o’ Five but that is a good example – extreme and rage worthy one but his explanation of “all the abuse is staged because it is funny – here, have kids say it themselves :D” did run a long way and no one probably could give Youtube other evidence. In Lourdes’ case – she probably will never get to the point where there is a real life, legal criminal case forcing her to react and if yes – readers would most likely never see it.

  103. Quite honestly it’s how I feel about my main account: I always use my own linden to buy what I want and get what I pay for. A dollar dress or three dollar shoes are there for my enjoyment and then I move on after I get my fill of things. Land I did have was always paid on a weekly basis so nothing was fully committed. I play the game for a month or so at a time and then take a long break to do other things in rl or even other games.

    Over the last seven years I have a collection of things I paid for in a inventory that I don’t even care to organize with items I never wore or used again. They are just virtual goods for a internet Barbie doll. Treat the game as a hobby that you spend small amounts of dollars on. Second life is a hobby that can be replaced and will be replaced. Everyones precious time in this world is not replaceable.

  104. I posted to let our readers know. I was told that those that reported me figured that me being banned would means SL Secrets will go away. I’m letting them know SL Secrets is not going away.

    I post all the secrets every week and I don’t really care about the people mentioned in them. I posted the numbers to the suicide hotline but I don’t really care if people chose to commit suicide over virtual world drama.

  107. Honestly? It’s a hard truth. Some people do not care and that’s ok. Not everyone should be forced to have empathy for every single thing and act on it. That’s the beauty of free will.

  108. I do want to clarify on the suicide thing. I feel this way. If a person is driven to suicide by what is said/done in and/or regarding things in a virtual world that does not even affect RL; then you will never be able to handle RL struggles. Online you can log off in RL you can’t.

    This is why keeping an anchor in reality is important.

  109. A person that is going to commit suicide, will even if they aren’t upset with something on SL. If something on SL is going to push them further, there was an issue already before they started SL. It would be like blaming a video game for a lot of things on the news these days

    Did suicide intervention and crisis hotline for nearly 10 years, learned a lot.

  113. umm dumbfuck can you even read? she hasn’t gone anywhere. she wasn’t in sl in the first place, and this isnt going away.

  114. Now how in the hell did she effect you inworld. You people need to get a life. This site is awesome and apparently everyone that comes here thinks so too. Just because you get caught doing your sicko stuff and people call you out here you get butthurt and blame her. Grow up you little bitches….

  115. “Whomever reported you probably picked something not needing much evidence.”

    Oh, that one is super easy. They likely ARed Lourdes for Ageplay.

    There you have it readers, Like all of the sumbissions, like all of us, like all the world (according to the number of pedo submissions here…) Lourdes is a…. *giggle* pedo TOO!

    ((For those bereft of humor, it’s a joke.))

  116. @Noctis: Going with the submissions, my fridge probably is a pedo (some do deserve side-eying) and while joke applies – you are right on the money on what would be easiest ban. Not sure if this is a case in US but you are obligated to report and ban any users who seem suspect or you are noted about if you are an admin (you could be held accountable if you do not). Since it is internal issue and not anything you can appeal to – it is probably easiest ban to defend. However, never seen anyone overuse it so most likely not related. Curiously – most chat networks and scripts have a special ban form or code for this occasion. Small, private ones might not but SL definitely cares about that. But then again – they do not need to explain their ban at all just would be … nice.

  118. It is the best site. Even though may not agree with some. Still love reading this site ans all the hard work they do

  119. We appreciate you. Due to the ante being raised, I’m already thinking of ways to bring on more tears. Stay tuned.

  120. Bobby Trivia the only witch is you buddy, you’ve been in SL for what? 13 years now?
    Lourdes laughing her ass off irl while you’re dancing in a pixel rooftop and calling that a victory
    LMAO dead

  121. Never mind that SL Secrets continues, or that these same geeks and losers will continue to be called out for their nonsense ā€“ [and continue to check virtual-secrets every Sunday even before they have breakfast] goddammit, theyā€™ve WON! They got her!

    Fixed that for ya :p

  122. I, uh… I think you missed the point.

    Evidently sarcasm (and reading comprehension!) doesn’t translate well via text.

  124. @lmao….you are probably the only idiot who didn’t properly comprehend what Bobby said…js

  125. Yet, within this you are now seeing a cost.

    LoL you are new here. When Shopping Cart Disco, the precursor to this site, was around it caused as much of a stink at its peak. I was in then. There has always been a cost. This is nothing new. The cost is the same. It’s not tangible.

    Thanks for sharing your weekly mental masturbation. I do enjoy reading it. Also thank you so much for thinking we have that much of an impact on LLs bottom line.

  126. @ blimey you are sooo right ! finally someone who has balls to say the truth . sad truth but same is SL lately… SAD

  127. aaah yes am sure you expected a comment from moi about all this so please enlighten the ones that their minds are so muddy about how this site impacts money in Second Life. Because she is the keeper of the site and not a commenter for 99% of the time you will blame the messenger? As far as bans go how and why would LL have Lourdes on their radar unless it was brought to their attention by possibly a premium member as the others below that actually have no real say so in SL. Who would she be taking money from Vanity or Rose? both are con artists and complaints should be lodged against them, which truly surprises me they both get away with whatever and not one person has the balls to step up and comment on their vile actions. So @Blimey entertain us how this site is slowly taking money out of LL’s finances, am sure everyone is waiting on bated breath for your reply

  128. “Top earners” are unable to think banning Lourdes will not close virtual-secrets ? WOW ! top earners without costumers earn NOTHING. so can we expect the LL “angels top earners” will try to put virtual-secrets down ??

  129. why because 2 idiotic vile people that scammed honest people with the fundraisers were called out, or what is your answer that why SL is so sad and Lourdes is the cause of all this. Cripes what truth did blimey truly have the balls to say because from where I am sitting and others it is far from truth.

  130. I was actually kinda impressed to think that little ole me could be cutting into LL’s bottom line. This little site is costing them money. Oh it can’t possibly be all the sex sims, age play sims, bad business decisions, the mainland eye sore, not offering sims at affordable prices etc…

    Its me. I’m beaming with pride.

  131. Dearest FunnyFace, I am quite certain that at the Wig Shop you frequent for Saturday village gossip you have grown quite versed in the vagaries of causation and risk within the corporate world. One can only imagine the instincts and knowledge that you have gained and that for which guided you here to Sl Secrets to boldly express each week this fabulous bravado. Fueled of course by the power of Tesco boxed wine and bags of crisps.

    Lourdes is quite intelligent, if oddly misguided, and while I feel she understands what I am saying – I fully respect that she may not agree. She knows exactly the line in navigating well the murky waters of degrading people for a laugh. Thus far at least. And therein lies my earlier point.

    The larger this site becomes the less controls in posts and comments there are for two people. Risk goes up. The bigger the house the more pipes to burst. And I imagine the hiring of quality staff for a venture like this is difficult at best. One must imagine that a resume consisting of ā€œA former purveyor of schadenfreudeā€ rarely gets you in the door, unless of course you are applying to The Sunday Sport.

    With that comes risks. Lourdes, who is working towards a law degree it appears, is most likely very cognisant of this ā€œsocial studyā€ and where those risks reside. That is if she can control it.

    Are there tangibles as she pointed out in response to me? Rarely. Vaguely. I have perhaps too often rambled on about our fickle friend, justice, who is rarely blind – so you get my point by now. Money assures this. It does not necessitate examples or tangibles. Just as you bully countless people in SL with your vast knowledge of virtually anything (I am waiting for you to next start touting your encyclopedic knowledge of 17th century naval warfare) money can bully you back in ways that are far more difficult to ever recover. My instincts are that Lourdes received the first and gentle warning shot to just that. And that ā€œtheyā€ are watching.

    If you recall, at no point did I disagree with the idea that fundraisers in Second Life are, at best, a scam. Of course they are. But do you feel that this venue of Secrets, with its vigilante wig shop patrons like yourself ranting away with village gossip actually creates change or a charge of doing what is right? Of course not. Want to do something? Want to do something other than babble cringing noise as an anonymous nobody? Lead a real charge. File real complaints. Clearly Rose is doing just fine from what I can see. You in turn have done nothing but scratch the chalkboard.

    No one does anything here. That would actually entail work rather than late night bits and bobs of senseless banter. Or as Lourdes calls, mental masturbation. TouchƩ. Though I think of myself to be more a mental flosser.

    Interestingly enough, while you cite this example, I see your vitriol, Funny Face, as being far more than just fundraisers. Your entitled nastiness (letā€™s blame your cheap wine habit) extends to many others. You shoot at the wind whilst blindfolded hoping to kill a grouse when in fact you hurt anyone else in proximity. Perhaps for attention? To feel accepted? Such a sad waste of bullets, dear lady. The bandwagon is your blindfold and your weapon sounds eerily like a crow.

    Forgive me. I digress. You asked a question. What ā€œlossesā€™ could this wig shop create for far more powerful entities like Linden Lab?

    Imagine the first tier of loss. Linden Lab is looking for an influx of investors and finds an angel group to help it develop new improvements to the platform so as to grow the user base. Those investors begin their process of due diligence and stumble on this site wanting to gain more perception of Second Life user bases.. They are led at this point to believe that SL is full of pedos, scammers, perverts, and questionable sex clubs. Of course, this is real to an extent, those things do exist, but if one would see Second Life through the eyes of SL Secrets you would imagine ONLY a cesspool overflowing with perverts, cheats, criminals, and catfish. This does not sit well with a conservative group of investors. Even if smart and taking it at face value, or as Lourdes promotes, entertainment. They see instead a sick underbelly of SL that does not make their billfold feel comfortable coming out.

    Of course, to be fair, Lourdes is not here to show the talent, creative, love, or good that those who are actually inside SL and healthy and happy see every day. That would go against the primal instinct of scorched earth warfare against the grid. Lourdes is here to promote a twisted hate so as to give solace and shelter to those also misguided and lost in SL. And to destroy everything in her way – even as she retreats. She comes by it honestly. So did Stalin. Why? I have no idea. I am not a mental health professional. Nor do I know her real agenda.

    My time here now is one of fasciation. As new legal precedents have arisen and advancements like GDPR become law there is soon to be a battle waged. A battle for which I am intrigued as to the outcome from a legal and social standpoint. We have seen it with recent Facebook issues and we will continue to witness the unraveling of this chaos over time. Being the great optimist I am I foresee a much better future. In the meantime I shall witness history as it changes. Inshallah.

    I am sure that Lourdes has nothing to worry about though. She has received your generous pledge of $2.00 you mentioned in an earlier comment for which she will most certainly embark on a lofty wig shop expansion. Perhaps this is, as you Yanks often say, ā€œgiving your two cents?ā€

  132. I know, right?

    I understand why they used LL logic and did it but I still think it was stupid. The kid community would have rather seen the maker of all those dodgy sexual kids clothes banned tbh, not someone who runs a cheeky gossip site.

  133. Your posts, while I’m sure you believe are well thought out and impressive, ramble for a really long time, and causes ones eyes to glaze over about one-third of the way thru….

  134. pointing out people that scam or con good-hearted people are not bullying in the least as I am not bringing secrets about pedos, perverts or whatever else that roams SL. I mentioned that amount of money for example that if there were 100 people that come here each week x $2 that would help with their costs. your spin on my words truly is entertaining especially the description of me. better to change your tagline to blah, blah, blah instead of blimey

  135. Somehow I was able to get through all that and as I did so what came to mind was an image of a rather snooty schoolmarm who forgot whilst shaming us for being “chatty hens” in a wig shop they too are right there with us being the chattiest of the hens.

    You talk about how we should be doing something about the injustices that plague SL instead of talking about it . But, apparently you have forgotten that the real drama usually revolves around those that have the power (and army of their mass followers) to lay waste for any of those that dare speak against them which in turn could make our SL lives a living hell. So you go ahead and lead that charge and be the 1st to have your head on the chopping block…. I’ll be there to scoop up your head and tell you “Told you so”.

    Since you want to view this site as a “wig shop” where one can go on about the latest idle village gossip let me paint you a different picture and since I’ve gotten the whole schoolmarm thing now stuck in my head I’m going to use nursery rhymes as an example…. Back when those were created it wasn’t bed time stories for children but actually a way for adults to communicate about things like the injustices of the times in their local pub without the risk of having their head on a pike the next day. Look at “Mary, Mary, Quite Contrary”… as much as it sounds like a rhyme about a garden one of the big theories is that it really was about Mary Queen of Scots and her many executions during her reign….

    So for many of us this site is a version of a way to safely talk amongst each other without having to worry about a “SL public execution” of our Avi. Now, you can argue “what’s the worst that can happen?”…. well a lot can such as being Banned from events, stores, sims, and SL as a whole. Getting harassed wherever you go and even a flood of IMs telling you that you are a horrid person. And, in some worst case scenarios someone might go as far as to hack ones account to cause havoc and make everything worse.

    So, instead of staring at us in “fascination” like you were watching a circus freak show why don’t you go practice what you preach and see what happens? We’ll all be here to laugh at the aftermath mKay thanks.

    (oh oops I rambled >.>)

  137. Like RespectYourCustomers was writing somewhere above, reading is in fact overrated

  139. @any….i think it’s hilarious that you people think you have the upper hand because she was banned. She doesn’t use SL anymore so being banned literally has no affect at all. All LL did was roll their eyes and ban her just so you whiny cry babies would stfu up already.

  140. I probably did. Slander on pixels is such a horrible crime.

  141. Slander would require it be against a person in the real world with real world information and reputation, since generally none of us know the real world information of another person… there is no slander. That’s like saying I could sue every MMO person on a video game too… but I can’t. Because they are characters without real world information for the public to see

  142. Who cares if she is or isn’t trans? I know lots of straight men that wouldn’t be insulted. You choose to be insulted, because you can’t be an adult.

  143. @M who cares.. go outside and get laid for real … people that get mad about sex in SL all need to stand up… brush off the fucking crumbs…and go outside and find something real to fuck…whos worse? her if she has a dick.. or u for being turned on by cartoon characters with pixelated tits? ur retarded .. “real men’ find REAL pussy .

  144. @M unless you fucked irl moaning on voice isnt sex.. and if you do that on a regular basis i bet you’ve fucked a few lmao

  145. @M
    I wouldn’t rage, I know better than to try to hook up with people I don’t know online. It never works out well. I know people are not who they play on a virtual world of roleplay. I learned my lesson the first time. A lot come here just for roleplay, you fall into it more than once then it’s your own fault. You don’t know a person here from someone you meet on the street. You put yourself in that situation.

    I know better, I know most females are male and most males are female. I know people have lives different than RL here. I’m smart becuase I learned after the first time years ago when I had less understanding of people. If you don’t realize by now, that people are mostly not who they are in RL on SL, that’s your fault. MAJORITY of SL people “catfish”, if you want to use that term, you should know that by now. Not all intentionally, most think others are on here for the same thing.. roleplaying someone they are not.

  146. @me
    it takes two to tango, Ingrid likes fucking pixels too so you’re basically calling her retarded lmao
    <3
    go outside and find something real to comment about
    aaaand yea, she is a Tgirl

  147. @LMAO but who cares??? she said herself she goes on SL to have FUN.. thats what SL is for.. its not match.com like most of you toothless enormous walmart shoppers believe…T girl or not its not real life.. i think hes just mad because someone with a dick got his lil dick hard. Thats something he has to take up with the mirror not people playing a game as a cartoon character…. does this dude tell his rl boys of the chicks he bangs on SL???? i bet he doesnt.. lmaoo.. you know why?!?!?! because they’d laugh at his no pussy getting ass. I bet he’d believe he’s really talking to 1 of the girls from the ‘we are 18’ late night commercials too if he calls.. lol retarded.. keep catching real feelings and hardons from a video game ya lames

  149. @lmao iwill say this i’ve seen a lot of really pretty trans girl RL pics.. i can’t say the same for the others lol so go follow the rest with the gifs use that 1 to fan the D next time it gets hard when its not supposed to. lol Looosahhh

  151. i had a feeling you were some fat hoe that no guy wanted.. lmaoo jealous jealous jealous girls.. smh… go jog or something.. goodnight

  154. imma girl u moron.. thats what ur friend M looks like 25 chins in his moms basement

  156. im far from triggered love…i wasnt the man crying on SL secrets that i mistakenly sucked a dick or 2. LOL So have fun with ur Gifs i can see why you have yet to see a pussy that isnt from marketplace or pornhub. or some greasy nasty girl jealous as fuck that a chick with a dick gets more dick than you. toodles. =)

  157. you keep coming back so you care šŸ˜€
    yea we all know you’re reeeeeing on your chair Ingrid, we know this is you
    are you gonna come back later on to comment with your sl name and play dumb?
    cuz we know you can’t keep off this thread bitch
    https://media.giphy.com/media/MvcFBdiNww4gM/giphy.gif
    my gifs are great btw <3 just like your fine skills on catfishing

  158. umm @lmao… welcome to sl secrets. this is def not my 1st week posting.. so have fun with ur gifs..try a few sit ups instead tho =)

  159. I know it isn’t you’re just depressing like that Ingrid lmao
    <3
    welcome to getting BTFO luv
    buh bye now, have fun faping your tiny cock to pixels

  160. Respect has it down.

    People come to Second Life to pretend and to roleplay. You shouldn’t use SL as a place to sexually “get off” unless you have embraced that. So what if Ingrid is trans? Does this dude think it makes him gay? Is that what this is about, a dude paranoid he’s now gay and claiming no one “respected” his sexual preference to hide his homophobia and embarrassment?

    Please. It’s cartoon pixels. It’s roleplaying. It’s words. People have sex with six boobed dragons here.

  161. @A-Kid
    You can’t get through to these people, they are the non-adult part of SL. They talk and group like hateful little junior high school cheerleaders, trying to bully others to their level and get a laugh out of it. They group together like they are the “popular crowd”, when in fact they are just juveniles ganging together.

  162. Now, I might be a bitch- I did look over my posts/responses this week and noticed I’m overly cranky- but alas, nope, no dick sucking going on here. I just find some things humorous and point them out. Just like last week when I pointed out someone said something about someone enjoying “the finer things in SL”. I also find “major SL circles” funny.
    So bless your heart J… but you’re mistaken on this one.

  164. How did you fuck her exactly? Genuinely curious. If you mean in SL it wouldn’t really matter what she had or didn’t have. Unless you guys were planning on hooking up for real, this really isn’t that big of a deal.

    Then again ive seen a large number of people on here hung up over what people are/aren’t/look like in RL when they’re not taking any steps to move whatever connection they have into RL.

    It’s just kinda strange.

  165. Trans women are women and their genitalia is none of your fucking business. Trans women don’t owe you shit

  166. Actually in that situation it still wouldn’t matter, though your comparison doesn’t add up. If they’re trans and they identify as a female, you’re complaining about the only aspect that has absolutely no impact on your digital hookup (their actual RL body). Mentally she is a female. She’s presenting herself exactly as she sees herself. In your example, you’re still a straight guy baiting girls.

    At the end of the day however, it still has 0 bearing on someone getting their digital genitalia wet either way. People trolling for booty on SL have a weird sense of entitlement when it comes to watching pixel paper dolls bump uglies. If you’re not trying to hook up for real and they’re not specifically trying to trigger you then its time to build a bridge and get over it. You got pixel sex, so you got what you bargained for.

    Unless like I said, you were trying to take that hook up further into RL somehow. Then sure, be upset.

    Also no need for paranoia, I have no idea who she is. So rest easy buddy.

  167. It’s SL. If you expect every female to out who they are in RL, you are ridiculous. What’s better is, apparently whoever this person is.. is more grown up and adult than you are. What grade are you in?

  168. @M why don’t you go outside and find real pussy instead of virtual fucking?? Whats ur ailment?? lol gotta be a reason that u turn to cartoon snatch over a real hole so shut your trap. xD

  169. Oh I just enjoy debate and I’m commuting right now so I am just throwing things out there for kicks. Calm down kid.

    Now we could launch into a huge debate about straight men and traps and the psychology involved with it but let’s spare everyone else. My argument still stands however since you didn’t fuck anyone. At all. Perspective is lacking for you I think. If you’re feeling like your masculinity was somehow threatened, rest assured in telling yourself it was pretend avatar sex and it has no bearing on you as a person. You’re gonna be ok I promise and you’ll move on just fine. I hope that helps you find some peace in all this.

  170. @M
    You take SL way too seriously, go outside a bit into the real world. We don’t need your type of hate screwing up SL. It’s bad enough as it is right now. Your adult card probably fell out

  171. M. Unless you are hooking up in RL? Doesn’t matter. You had sex with pixels. If you are so paranoid about RL appearance and avoiding transwomen, then don’t have sex in Second Life. It’s very simple and will protect the sanctity of your heterosexuality against the evil penises.

    Either that or be sure to ask for webcam footage of their genitals. That’ll sure go over well, we women love men insisting we prove we have a vagina before they’ll even treat us like a friend. /sarcasm

  172. so yea PocketSand joining the debate here
    You’re saying that we should respect Ingrid’s mind and feelings as a female even though she isn’t but in M’s case, which is something that happened in his mind as well as on his body (bet he had a hard on for Ingrid before knowing she was trans), is lacking perspective? COME ON lmao hypocrisy is strong with you
    If we are to respect that Ingrid can be a woman in her mind we are also to respect M’s feelings. Both of them are human beings and deserving of it.
    The baiting and double standards has to stop. btw if ya ask me to calm down, remember that i’m Canadian we’re all calm here

  173. Had he not seen a picture of her, not a single thing would have changed for him because their interaction was limited to a virtual hook up. They weren’t trying to date or become intimate partners(Unless there’s more to this than he let on). In fact, this holds the same weight as if you jumped into chat roulette to get your rocks off and you do it with someone who lies about their gender and has no camera on.

    Nowhere at all was I discussing respecting a female’s mind or feelings. Her mind was only brought up to point out she wasn’t employing the kind of duplicity he was using in his example and that his hang up rests solely on something that has little to no bearing on their sexting. You read an awful lot into that.

    Its not a double standard in the slightest if one is literally asking why anyone’s RL gender or body or whatever has to do with virtual sex if its only that. Had it been flipped and he was a FtM and she was losing her mind I’d have the same questions. Heck, if it turned out he’d been a girl pretending to be a guy it still doesn’t matter. The two of them were looking for sexual gratification on a virtual platform and it was delivered. This sort of thing happens all the time. Had two of them actually been trying to connect beyond simply providing eachother erotica, then sure, yeah, go ahead and call foul.

    I think that’s what you’re more leaning into here, and its sounding like that’s not the case. Unless it is what was happening and he never clarified.

    And not everyone in Canada is calm friendo, that’s why we have people driving vans into people in Toronto. Lol

  174. @PocketSand: Precisely that. Unless you hook up with someone and they deceive you with malicious intentions – it is completely irrelevant, after all – do you wonder deeply about gender of every shop clerk or not close friends (even close friends could be not out to be fair)? If you do – whelp … that is creepy.

  175. i’m with you M
    it’s not up for debate and everybody is deserving of respect
    i hope other straight men read this up and come forth because this is plain wrong.

  176. @RespectYourCustomers
    fuck you don’t jump inside a bus when you don’t where is heading every reasonable adult knows catfishing is fucked up so back to you, what fucking grade are you in? SJW?

  177. Throw some punctuation in your words there, so it’s at least easier to read and I’ll come back to it.

  178. “SJW” is the lame retort of someone out of ideas. So is snowflake so I’ll save you the trouble of that one too.

    But seriously – what do you suggest is the solution here? That all of us women get “vagina verified” even if we aren’t interested in SL sex to satisfy straight men paranoid that they might bump pixels or express interest in someone who is transgender or male in real life? If Ingrid is a transwoman then she is a woman and even if she’s not, who cares? I’m just going to say again that unless you are planning to hook up in real life or are interested in a romantic relationship that it doesn’t matter. It’s words. It’s pixels. It’s fantasy. Most women find strange men online pressuring them to send RL pics or get on webcam extremely creepy and invasive.

    If you don’t like the fantasy element of Second Life then maybe Second Life isn’t the place for you to have sexual flings.

  179. @me oh look if isn’t her brain dead partner commenting here and trying hard to turn the shame on M
    lmao
    dude you been catfished by a tranny
    <3
    stfu and take the L like you take her cock

  180. I’d feel rather cheesed off and slightly dirty too if I discovered I was having a cheeky wank to a tranny rather than a woman.

  182. @Theodoric
    You take SL sex way too seriously then. Most people don’t care, they are just looking at the avatar and not about the person in RL.

  183. What are you talking about? Most guys I know, meet the women first and want to see her in real life on skype BEFORE any type of relationship. There are too many older women who lie about their age and weight, and now more men wanna see the real deal first.

  184. @RespectYourCustomers I don’t have sex on SL, I’m just saying if I did I would be grossed out if I found out I was getting off to a tranny. Not that I actually have to explain myself or justify myself to you.

  185. Too many men lie about the same thing, what’s your point? It’s SL, most SL relationships I know of, are only SL and most of those don’t care what the other looks like. I guess they are less shallow people than yourself. Kind of why I don’t care to date anyone on SL anymore, men are just as shallow as women and I prefer better minded people.

    I knew someone too, that apparently was pretty good at faking who they were, with photos and talking too. I personally don’t care. MOST people however, don’t come on SL looking for someone to date. Most people that do, aren’t trustworthy to begin with. I prefer being a reasonable adult, not like a lot of the high schoolers commenting on here who sound like their relationships would be a bunch of emotional and verbal abuse, who needs someone to make THEM feel better about themself.

  186. No one said you had to justify yourself Theordoric… lol

  187. Shhh, you are going to upset the shallow people who haven’t gotten to their adult stage yet

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