Welcome to virtual-secrets, week 505.
virtual-secrets: Week 505
· Lourdes Denimore ·
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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
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• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.
#2 and #3 are true. Had my wedding with them too….and that planner and it was so disorganised and the planner was rude. The owner thinks she is so great but it was all a little sad
Can’t wait for the morrow. I am hoping I can enjoy the bliss and love of Coffee, Blunt and others more. Lets all just indulge in a big ole fat group hug and start all over again and sing ‘Sailing’ by Chris Cross….
“Well, it’s not far down to paradise,At least it’s not for me…and if the wind is right, you can sail away, find tranquility…”
I’m so ready for tomorrow.. this fundraiser shit is mentally draining even to those who wouldn’t spit on her house if it were on fire. .. or someones house.. where ever the cold floor is that never existed.
Wow, a fundraiser that isn’t warranted from a Second Life avatar?
Who would have thought.
ooh pullease another designer scammed/conned good people outta money is this not making anyone angry. My wish that LL never gives her the money as her poor ass is not homeless, is not stuck on the streets and is not sleeping on a bare floor. She has a lawyer yeah right? Are designers thinking SL Residents are that stupid to believe all this horse shit, probably since there was how much raised for her pathetic lies? Please do not give me explanations, rationalize why anyone cannot get their life outside of SL together. Yes am angry that it seems like an ongoing trend and pretty much fed up with some of a *cough well-known designers who’s egos are bigger than their brains. Honestly, if I knew exactly the correct designer that started this fiasco yes I would speak directly to them because it does not take a rocket scientist to observe to see this was total lies. Sad that good people who probably struggle with day to day, a lot of residents have disabilities, handicaps but you do not see fundraisers for possible new wheelchairs, or meds that help with the pain. Wonder how many truly would help that individual or how many designers would throw out primo items for donations. Oh and one last point someone probably bought it to her attention that she never said thank you as that was dated how many weeks later? Disgusting
It seems as though people are indeed believing it. As they did for the last lazy cunt who had a fundraiser. Therein lies the issue.
That is because she is trash. A low breed of a person who has no shame or feels no guilt over what she does. She sits on her fat ass making pose balls for a game. How proud she must be over that life. Even if it was the excuse of no car, she could work from home for any call center, travel agent, and so on. She is the new entitlement trash that feels others should pay for her bad choices in life. On the coordinator, it would not surprise me if it was her overblown ego “ginger” friend Oakley Fattrot. Another fat ass in reals, who uses people and is so delusional she thinks she IS her avatar. Just read those tacky AVATAR testimonies as she is a hot headed ginger! When the lawyer sees that one as well, he will be convinced they are all unstable. Lol
TRASH? In MY Second Life? How very well DARE you!
@OneNameOnly Have to agree with most of that but spare the poor “Real Gingers” from being grouped with such egotistical trash. Hair color has nothing to do with her personality type and I’m willing to bet if Oakley is sporting RL red hair it came out of a box.
No lol what I meant was, on her Avatar testimony she spoke the words coming from her Avatar, describing her sl avvie, and using her avvie to speak on real world things. The woman thinks she is actually her avatar .
@OneName I sincerely doubt if there is even a lawyer because any intelligent person would be asking questions checking facts and getting more involved. Again no questioning about that statement “giving 10 minutes” from the police. All evictions must be posted on the door as well and if an individual cannot see if they are 100% blind. On most eviction letters they will give a number of Landlord-Tenant Affairs to assist or try to stay the eviction. Am not in SL to put my monies towards any type of personal fundraisers after being burned from the very first one. Way too many designers think they are so entitled, with their egos running over their brains.
#2 and #3 Orchard Heights sunk to a new low with this one. Aidentigra just loves drama
Seems there is a new scammer thats not rose on the block..
10 – I hope she/he came up with that “shut the F*ck up:” thing on their own. I’m going use that one day lol
28 – Wow, just… LOL. Can’t get that out of my head now!
#30 I remember this bitch use to resell bodygossip skins
@ 36 If I would have kept the logs before I updated to the new firestorm I would been able to plaster the proof I had to confirm this. I think Admins need to have everyone following the same rules, the rules they created. Clearly states that Aemon should not have been allowed to app in as Aelyx as well as Aemon whether that be on alt or not. Two feature roles seriously, someone could have applied as Aelyx and actually showed up instead of being not around. That’s what made it obvious,or the fact that they next logged in at the same time, or the fact AElyx logged in later than Aemon on most occassions. I wasn’t saying shit to no admin because he made it that far the admins knew about it and I’m not getting banned. People are sensitive even with proof against them, they will ban you just because and I actually enjoy rping there. You think I’d ruin that for some 40 year old who can’t just play one role and the admins back him up. Sike. Glad Aelyx is dead tho, shows he wasn’t supposed to be playing that role anyway and follow the damn rules. Stop trying to manipulate the system and the dice gods might be on your side.
I also was accidentally messaged by Aemon when he was asking about stuff pertaining to Aelyx… really really suspicious and I have logs of such but I didnt want to start any shit….
I really do suspect the admins knew and also they had planned this all along. Somehow they got the dice to kill him off i dont know how but it could be rigged for all we know
ROIAF has been playing this game with their players for so long..
# 32 … if you ARE who I think you are … get over yourself you f*cking cunt … you watched him do it to your supposedly ex best friend , who helped you through many shits , who you used as a pawn to get your romeo back when he wasnt even interested in getting back to you… you badmouthed her like the hoe you are and framed her for the criminal infront of everyone , you sold her out , you even put ideas into his mind to do it .. and now you are shocked and griefing that he threw you away ? its karma bitch , you reap what you sow .. and dont blame your sad miserable evil ways on depression .. truely depressed people .. dont harm other people .. they dont character assasinate people nor throw them under the bus .. they are too carried away with thier own pain .. they dont engage in anything … but you would sell out anyone who isnt part of your plan anymore … bc you are so selfish life sucking leach…. all you will ever be is a needy af attention whore .. go f*ck yourself miss piggy … karma is served !
if you ARENT who i think you are … i apologize but really dont blame your life choices on depression .. being depressed and being dumb are two different things
Vanity posted an update on plurk – thoughts? https://www.plurk.com/p/mqwix0
How embarassing it must be to have a lawyer to handle her online Game funds. You just know he is thinking..what a fucking lowlife!
This is where the money is going by the way
What are “back bills”? Also I don’t believe an attorney would talk to her if she had no money so she obviously had some extra cash or someone was able to lend her it. I think its pretty perfect that she can’t get the money out all at once. Drip drip drip, this is what you deserve.
Looks like funds raisings are the best business in sl …. ! free cash
@suchashame…..right? Why work hard creating when we could just sit back and throw a pity party for ourselves.
So we spent the day working on an Excel spreadsheet?? lmao
@bonbon i doubt she even talked to a lawyer because ur right they would definitely charge to decipher her bullshit story a job in itself.
back bills are like the fancy term for bitch dont pay her bills. lol i saw that on the site earlier and made myself log off. Thats a great picture for the IRS though.. so detailed.. smh
I think it is for certain expenses not covered. Just today a friend told me oakley fattrot is going to have another pity party event for her. This is disgusting already.
Show us this conversation you had about a second event. I think we would all love to see it. Oh wait, you don’t have anything to show because it isn’t true LMAO.
@Hmm show me the cold floor ur friends kid slept on. SCUM
omg@another 1…….. for what????????????????? she said herself it wasnt even as bad as she claimed or the site claimed..lol i think the IRS idea another poster originally had is a great idea now since she has a job and should be paying taxes (as she says) make sure she pays them ALL
Another event for her? She can’t even cash out the money she has now. They dumped the avatar on her with the $6k and let her fend for herself in getting it cashed out. LL is not raising her limit. Its going to take 3 months to get the money out.
holy fuck 8k isnt enough?!?!
she wasnt literally on the streets??? lol which is what fundraisers are for.. Id like a bigger place myself.. im done with all of it and the sellers in the event. Use people to pay your bills??? If she works why hasnt she? and why is she not sueing the guy she gave her money to… the letter said the landlord was.. i dont believe any of it..at all. so cold floor with bronchitis wasnt real??? smmfh
i guess we know why she couldnt get RL help.. because it was RL obvious she didnt need it.. what a scumbag
Well of course she “embellished” such things otherwise all those heartstrings wouldn’t be pulled. Any good Con Artist knows how to play the crowd and make them all go “Awwwes”. There is a Sucker born every minute and it usually takes being scammed big time for them to learn to check the facts before opening their wallets.
Yes for sure this person will not ask for money saying it is for her/his summer holidays….
LOL, actually by this point I wouldn’t be surprised if one of them was brazen enough to do just that
id have far more respect for someone saying i need a fundraiser because i want to get my nails done and with authentic Swarovski crystals instead of cheap imitation lmao as long as they didnt try to bullshit a bullshitter. She totally downplayed the situation that that website and i quote said was DIRE . smh and i find it super pathetic to pull the heart strings of the animal lovers too lol because a lot of those people are super passionate about those causes.. so that was all brought up too just to make her not look like a trash bag… #EPICFAIL
still a fraud ! so no more 10 minutes to leave ? she/he has a rl job ? Where he/she is living now ? situation was not so desesperate ?!!
guess not after reading this https://gyazo.com/83cc897877b657e8114c526972b1fc42 i guess to some people its the dog story and to the real world help people its the dog story.. and to the landlord its pay your fucking bills.
mentally prepared is another word for lies to make up
Wow they were going to put the dog down?????
true and no talk of car issues so ‘i’m guessing not really just 1 bag was taken with uniforms and AUTISM papers.. i HATE when people add in the pity me, fucking words… cold floor/bronchitis…uniforms/autism… i’d personally like to just slap her. I hope someone is around her that has more sense and class because kids learn from what they know, its very sad very very sad.. and all she knows is how to bullshit people.
she isn’t saying shit about what the funds are going to be spent on. she hasn’t explained why her back bills were so expensive. she hasn’t explained why they gave her 10 minutes to get out instead of at least 30 days. she hasn’t explained why it’s her responsibility to pay the back rent if she can prove that she paid it to the tenant that sublet it to her. she hasn’t explained why she couldnt get her computer and things out of the place. she said she talked to a lawyer, but didn’t say jack shit about what the lawyer said other than that they were going to talk to the property owner. any lawyer should have told her that how everything went down was not legal – unless it didn’t actually go down like she says it did. and her explanation for why she didn’t ask for rl assistance is bogus as well – she made it sound as tho she was practically homeless, sleeping on a floor with her son. now its like “oh my situation isn’t that bad, so i couldnt qualify for assistance” when she apparently said that she didn’t want to ask for help because of her pride.
whatever, glad i didn’t donate to her fat ass or buy anything at her event. i feel sorry for all the suckers who did, and for the creators who were volunteered to donate without even being asked when the event owners auctioned off blogger group invites.
sorry, just annoyed by all these lazy ass people expecting everyone to pay their way all the time.
all of her pretend “grr im so mad at you guys for doing this but i love you hee hee” is hilarious too. *eyeroll*
staaaaaahp! jk, send moneez now thanks..
im with you
I agree totally and in some point i hope LL will keep the sl money how long they can
Thank you for posting the info… Not sure what my feels are because she isn’t really explaining anything or where the funds will go and personally I don’t think she deserves a single penny. All I can hope is that anything that she doesn’t use for what the fundraiser was for she gives to an actual charity organization. But, not gonna hold my breath for that.
#29 – Did someone get a little cut… Just fucking tell her you dumb arse instead of putting this on here… Fuck some people are just attention whores… wait it looks like you were the whore in this case… my bad.
I don’t care who’s a whore or not, I wanna know what’s being said! – This is fucking interesting. I hope they post shit. If someone wants to ‘out someone’ or ‘throw them under the bus’ infront of everyone? What a fucking awesome way of doing it.
As far as #13.. if you don’t like a product created, don’t buy it. Others may like it even if you don’t. It’s like going to a grocery store and demanding that something isn’t sold that you personally don’t like. Don’t like it, don’t buy it. Don’t tell people what to create. I actually like some of these signs in particular. They are cheap too. Stop worrying about it
Normally I just ignore and scroll by the relationship drama ones, because that’s all it is… drama. I come on SL, trusting no one. You can’t see their real life, just like if you met them in a grocery store and started dating, you don’t know them. Why would you trust them on here? A lot of people are RP from the time they log on until they leave, they don’t expose themselves outside of it. Be less trusting and stop falling for a guy/girl over text so easily. I see it so often and then people complain about being lied to. Assume every story is a lie until you know facts. I learned from experience the first time, turned into an abusive online situation that would have likely become an offline RL abuse situation. Protect yourself, be logical, stop wanting this to be like the Bachelor. People lie, especially online.
Wow, some sure got their panties in a twist this week. Suggestion for those that keep feeding into the dude and his drama is don’t just stop commenting and he will finally get the hint that whoever the hell he is no one cares but each time that you go on and on and on. Again Coffeebreak you need to switch to decaf as your responses are turning into mini-series. You keep saying you are not going to comment yet it is like a sharkfest with you. Some people cannot handle breakups and need to seek professional help as they get obsessed and just won’t let go at that point am surprised if all his friends have muted and blocked him.
@Funnyface You might need to take your own advice here… You have made a whole new thread about the topic that he can air his stinky drama yet again on. I said I wasn’t going to comment/respond to Him that doesn’t mean I need to ignore everyone else as well. And, who drinks evil Decaf that stuff belongs in one place only….. the garbage!
It was never about breaking up. It was about her lies. People lie all the time but to lie about cancer should be a cardinal sin.
I know people on SL that have genuinely had cancer and an elderly cousin that had it, of which I took care of in her last days. One of the SL ones unfortunately died and the other survived it luckily. So I agree wholeheartedly, when someone fucking lies about cancer for attention in this case? It boils my blood. Fucking horrendous behaviour.
37 – next time, better photo, whole body
42, Is it me or does Thalia and Brandon look eerily like Jessa Duggar and her husband Ben? Lol
funny that plurk is dead silent about the whole vanity thing. no updates. no discussion of the valid questions that people are asking.
the handwritten note from the landlord said notarized to follow, but nothing else posted about that.
maybe these people just dont want to admit that they were suckers again?
You think? Sadly it will happen again and again like the energizer bunny and the designers will be bullied, shamed into participating because god forbid someone stands up to the bigger designers. It’s disgusting that people get away with this am thankfully got burned once to learn my lesson about personal fundraisers as they are absolutely nothing but scams. If the designers cannot manage their finances then stop and get a job outside the home that will make money and stop depending on the residents of SL to finance your business and life.
What gets me is that people approach some of these same brands for REAL fundraisers, to organizations that are well-rated on independent charity sites, organized by people who post their receipts and are completely transparent… And yet these GENUINE people can’t even get a reply, positive or negative. Even the ones that say they’ll get back to you, never do. And then they jump at stuff like the Vanity situation, get taken advantage of, and turn around and bitch about being taken advantage of. You could have prevented this by partnering with real charities instead of circle-jerking your friends!
I have stopped shopping at those stores and the ones that initiate these fundraisers because no one does their homework or research. They would rather believe all the lies and rationalizations that each person has given. Truly would have thought a couple of these bigger designers would take a moment and go huh but nope they just think with their egos and that everyone in SL is stupid.
Sure and the thing is those people are really good on manipulation to grab money… when they are hunting money they are so smart, sweet etccc with people, so so nice, with creators too , just adding people everywhere, and of course they avoid the noob ones, they are only attracted by nice avatars ^^ (because means people have money) . After awhile, they start to complain about shits in their lives, can be their health, can be dad or mom issues, can be childrens issues etc… And there starts the fund raising “project”. When they got the money , they forget their “friends” pretending they are busy, they are not online anymore 😉 maybe buying a sim or 2 in sl with another names or doing many another alts for free (with the money of fund raising) preparing already the next fund raising. They dont mind about frauds, because they are hidden behind false names and identities so… nothing to lose 🙂 and yes it is sad….
Nailed it girl
#29 Next week better be good because now we’re expecting some juicy receipts from your former Zaddy Daddy.
#06- Not body shaming at all but does her butt look SUPER big in that profile picture? Just me?
#42- 5 months, 6 days, 10 hours, 9 minutes, 46 seconds
#28- Hi loudmouth, glad you could join us in 2018
the amount of bullshit people will believe is outrageous, let’s just throw the word “pedophile” out left and right shall we?
“oh no! i can’t think of anything other than pedophile, that seems popular right?!” can’t hide your homophobia
Hahahahaha, it’s funny how you skipped over the part where his daughter has 3 avatars, and one of them is an adult who sucks on a binky, and carries around stuffed animals. Adult avatars need to stop doing that shit, it’s disgusting. Calling it homophobia, when really you’re just deflecting that you’re probably one of his kids, and not so anonymous.
One week we have an issue with child avatars. Now we have an issue with adult avatars who decide to be DDLGs DDLBs. Who cares if an adult wants to have a binky and carry around stuffed animals. How about we mind our own business and stop trying to dictate how people should be living their lives. It’s not harming anyone in or out of the relationship. She isn’t the first Little or Babygirl on the grid and she won’t be the last. In fact, most of the adult female population is in some sort of DDLG relationship.
Most Babygirls are fat wheezing housewives looking for some kind of daddy attention. Did you ever hear them on voice out at a store or whatnot? The attractive women in reals (are the ones who do not have to put out this little girl, let me walk around naked with my daddy and show my princess parts. )They usually have their real life picture in their profile and are girl next door gorgeous. Babygirls need to stop leaning on a daddy and go lose weight !!!
Those a lot of those girls next door gorgeous pictures you see in real life tabs, are usually stolen pictures. If they are real pictures, then there’s something else wrong with them that may not show in their appearance.
@TryMinding You’re quite the scholar… tell us a few more things we already know… and according to your logic most of those girls are…………… AARP Overgrown Babygirls (women). I don’t think i’ll ever be able to fully wrap my head around 40, 50, 60+ year old babygirls, and 40, 50, 60+ year old people playing kids in SL especially the ones that babytalk. People need medication.
@me I don’t get it either but at the end of the day it’s none of my business so I figure let them do what they want because it’s not like it effects me…. though the moment they try to Babytalk me that is where I a line and it’s an auto “Talk like the adult you really are or get the hell out of my IM box”… I have yet to meet one that didn’t say sorry and quickly change their way of speaking to me so I have no problems with any of them as long as that keeps up. Each to their own really.
i hear you @ coffeebreak i just added it in because automatically Trymindingurbusiness had to throw in if you’re pretty and on SL that u have issues.. lol we all have issues in 1 way or another.. some people handle them quietly other people join sl just for pity parties.. a few of them have fundraisers.. i guess its all in how u manage it
#10 & #24
Laughed like hell at how these were written. I know one of these people personally but lawd you cannot help but laugh at how these are just comical at the end of the day if they weren’t directed at anyone anyhow.
#6- It’s kinds sad the person who made this is the same person who once claimed to be friends and love these two. You talk about them using people but who have they used?? Who cares what is going on with their RL as long as they are truthful with the people they believe need to know what’s going on it doesn’t matter. I’ve known these two almost a year now. And they’ve never used me. And has been nothing but honest. So why you sit here and try and dog people out. Let’s give a little insights. 1. You can’t let go of Jax, so you try and ruin everything for him. 2. Your so jealous of Lola and what she has, you try and make her look bad for everyone. When honey you are the one who can’t hit that X to save her rl marriage. You know the one where your husband is so unhappy with you that he broke his dick?! Or how about the nudes you are constantly sending and posting of yourself. Get a grip already be an adult and just move on. We all sit and laugh about your crazy behavior. I’ve never seen someone so miserable and unhappy. That you have to be so bitter. Skyler work on yourself already and turn off secondlife and get your real life together. The one you claim is so great!!!
Let me set the record straight about the whole finding out about her rl address because apparently shes been telling her friends thats stalking. She didn’t think it was stalking when that stuffed unicorn arrived at her house…because I bought it for her as a Christmas gift to help her sleep at night because she fell asleep on me one night and I could hear she was having trouble sleeping….she even posted a rl picture of her and it up on her fb sl profile tagging me in it saying she loved it….but now she thinks i was stalking? Thats what shes telling people now apparently. Thats what she made her friends think of me. This is BS.
Is it really that hard to ASK, instead of stalking? “I have a surprise for you,” so it’s not like you have to give away what it is. My friends do this all the time. It’s not the intention that people think is fucked up. It’s the methodology.
Considering I showed it to her on Amazon and told her I was getting it and sending it to her when she knew I already had her address, yeah no, that’s NOT stalking. This is why facts are important and rumors need to die.
give us the tea about lance!!!
its so fun to watch it all!
You really love LAnce? Scale of 1 to 10?
Is this more of a “lance is a great guy” love or you have romantic designs on the Fuck Me Daddy Daddy???
I hear Lance Paid 50k for the Fuck Me Daddy group :O
I hear that jos starsmith his newly attained fuckboy friend likes putting plastic toys in his ass :O
Its okay Annabelle if its a woman though. Totally not gay.
6000 people at 500 a pop nice!
fuck no. lance fucking sucks
I am trying to set him up with this girl I hate, she needs bad drama
I WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN
The only drama I see comes from two faced anonymous salty bitches like you. I dare you to say that to Lance’s face or at FMD? Nope. No chance, pussy. :>
The *entire grid* except FMD thots and thirsties thinks you are all jokes. Seriously. You are the laughingstock of all of SL.
The most real statement about fmd. The place is populated with posers and alts of alts of alts just circle jerking each other constantly. It’s embarrassing to seen at that club.
Place is damn nauseating…..
I personally find it amusing that people actually post to this site to. they must be really invested into secondlife XD . just heard about this site. and this website is full of losers and drama just like sl. so happy i quit sl 2 years ago. toxic people like all of you makes me stay away. but i will come to this site for a good laugh at all the people with no life . xxxxx
Welcome loser, glad you could finally make it to the party. You are now officially a drama whore and can have a good laugh at your own posts 😀
Being toxic about people being toxic. You are just as bad as the people you are looking down on
Thanks for the Bingo Square!
i doubt you just heard about this site js. u seem bitter for no reason lol
Hmmm–been two years? Not sure where you are mesh wise but you may need to get yourself a mesh bod and maybe a catwa head. Those are two must have upgrades. Don’t worry. you’ll be back inworld. Nipping around the fringes, dipping your toe back in the water is first step.
@24: Not fooled! You did not even try OP! Come on, we all know that text must be unreadable, at least try asking your family doctor to write it.
@36: That is rather hilarious as to me it is obvious as seems to be same guy in both just changed first name a bit.
@37: From this angle, the guy just looks short and we do not know what is height of others. Someone said that LL considers kids as under 4″ (I am 4″2′ and almost 30 but that is spine issues. No one ever confused me with a kid and dude appears similar minus spine as hard to replicate in SL) but also shape would be looking a bit different if he were (unless his clothes are not fitmesh but I think those are). Not that there is lack of avatars looking like kids and doing very adult stuff.
Number 41 is actually pretty hilarious if you ask me. I was never the one to honestly “praise” anybody on Second Life, but the fact that I see people do it is hilarious. I really don’t know the extent of Frankey and Anna’s relationship, however, I do know from what I’ve seen, the tea that has been spilt, holding onto that relationship just isn’t worth it. Be careful who you lay with honey, and the foundation you try to build with people, because what you’ve been doing in the dark with the person you claim you “love”, is the same man (or woman) showing all your “business” to his/her close people and we all know SL people can’t hold water. Don’t be Kanye in your Kardashian world.
#6 – that was made by jax’s alt Skylar … who just so happened to make an alt called iseeyou65559 resident … she made a few others … but shes been harassing him ever since he broke up with her literally ages ago. im also one of his exes but you dont see me having a conniption. Skylar just doesnt like that jax has a different gf now… which btw… id love to see jax and lola throw up the pics that skylar sent jax of her windtunnel asshole and vagina.. that shit is blow out to the max.. oh and btw … skylar’s own rl man broke his dick because he was jacking off too much in their shed to avoid having sex with her .. she was the one who told people that btw lol
#33 and 34 Ha ha ha couldn’t have happened to a nicer person … although she isn’t such a nice person. Let me remind myself of her advice to a friend of hers who had the same thing happen … oh yes, here it is … you can’t be friends with them if they come back, because they hurt you so badly.
Let’s watch and see if he comes back … and if she can be friends with him, or was she just being hypocritical in giving that advice to her friend?
12) I was with her for a year and a half. We met on facebook and then met in world when I ran a club. We got along great and the first few months were perfect. We talked alot on Skype and voiced. We shared eachothers accounts. She sent me a bunch of pics of herself that turned out to be fake. When I confronted her about it, she apologized. She did it again a few weeks later and I finally made her send me rl pics of herself with my name written on her body as proof she was who said said she was. I suppose alot of you would call that “controlling”, huh? She also told me she didn’t have very many friends so I told her to make some. That she needed friends. I never once actually met any of the friends she had. She never brought them around. Never told me about them. She was always with me everywhere and I would not have minded if she told me she wanted to hang out with someone else or invite them over but it was never brought up. Ever. I guess she abandoned her friends while with me and blamed me for it. She threw a big hissy fit over one of my oldest friends in SL that I have known since my first days though because she thought I had feelings for her since we roleplayed a marriage years ago. She made me believe she would break up if I didn’t block that friend and remove her off my list…which I did. So all this talk about me being jealous is a lie. We had a family too after we became partnered. She became close to our daughter and we all had some great moments together… Read more »
3 days later and this thread is still alive…*eye roll* I thought it was already decided this dude is psycho and he needed to stop? Don’t answer this… just this be the comment that kill the thread and stops the bitching.
You complain on SL, Facebook, and on here. Who knows what other social platform you are using to tell your story. Dude! Stop! What is with your need of trying to obtain sympathy? You need sympathy – okay. ‘Awww poor baby. You were done soooo badly. What a horrible person this chick is. I’m sooo sorry you had to go through this horrible situation, however will you recover from this? ‘…..do you feel better now? Can you stop now? You just make yourself seem pathetic. Your relationship is over. Deal with it. Just stop already.
People are horrible on SL. The game really does bring out the worst in humanity. Its all about how much you can screw someone else over. That is what Second Life is. Yeah, she played me like a fool for well over a year. She lied about this and that and having cancer. She got her pity money and her SL life very well funded by me which is why she kept coming back, lol. But heres the thing, when you play with emotions…thats a whole different ballgame. Its alot harder to walk away from and simply forget. No, I don’t talk to her anymore and I’ve moved on. But if I can convince ONE decent guy to stay away from her I’ll be happy because honestly she doesnt deserve nice guys. She plays with emotions and hearts too much to deserve someone like that. Its just a game to her like it is to alot of people in SL. I’m hoping she changes, I really do. I put alot of my real life into her under false impressions she gave me. I don’t want someone else making that same mistake but if they do, they will learn the same way I did.
I’m willing to bet the next guy she gets with though her cancer will conveniently and magically disappear until its needed again.
@stopthelies…..all I read was blah blah blah. I didn’t even bother to finish reading because you’re a broken record now. Move. On.
@Bluntasf Oh he hasnt “moved on” cause he reported her MP gacha stuff
Man, screw this. I haven’t bothered her or reported any of her stuff on the mp. You all think it’s me but it’s not. I don’t know who did but no, they shouldn’t do that unless they got an empty box or whatever. People report stuff on there all the time so why tf you think it’s me? Get over yourselves.
I understand why she got scared when a unicorn popped up at her house.. lol You are a few fries short of a happy meal buddy. I met someone inworld similar to the point i would feel sick when logging in because it was always something.. i agree with the other poster LET IT GO BRO.. the best way to show u dont care,… is by NOT CARING
@me LOL “a few fries short of a happy meal” that is a good way to put it! I think we all have met someone like him inworld because it’s very easy, specially if you don’t have your priorities straight, to get sucked in and let it consume your RL as well. I think he’s in massive denial about his addiction. He isn’t the 1st nor the last person to forget what is real and what isn’t. He will probably have to hit rock bottom before the realization really sinks in and the advice of taking a break from SL becomes understood.
… oh wait according to Funnyface I’m not suppose to be commenting on anything; even your posts >.>. But to bad because I do what I want *sips on my caffeinated coffee* .
@Coffee…..yep I have met a couple men like him. They seem so nice at first and then you start seeing the nonsense. Long story short…..I made up excuses and other bs just to get away from them….and of course the stalking and drama followed…which resulted in them being blocked and reported by multiple people.
Now I won’t even consider a relationship….just…fuck no.
@Bluntasf Don’t blame you one bit, I got lucky with my SL significant other and how we are on the same page with everything and are all about making sure we stay that way. The Sad thing though is this doesn’t just happen in SL but in RL as well….
(Sorry to any Guys/Gentlemen out there who were raised well and treat women with the upmost respect for what I’m about to say. Consider yourselves excluded and that I’m talking about the Bad Apples)
….The mentality that some men have for women is the reason many fear to walk alone at night; upset a male stranger or even the BF/Husband; change their mind when they want to, and in general have a backbone for their “No”. Why, because women can get stalked; beat up; raped (date rape included), and in general abused in one form or another by these guys. This is so common place and people ignore even the red flags because of this idea that “Boys will be Boys”. And then to make matters worse there is usually victim blaming/shaming if somebody speaks up.
Nothing is going to change any time soon even though I wish it would… Women just have to be careful no matter where they are… including online!
*side note- yes this can happen to guys, there are psycho chicks out there as well, but the majority who exhibit such behavior happen to be male
Wow, this is getting stupidly ridiculous. I’ve been mentally, emotionally, and even psychically abused by a rl ex. Yeah sure, men do it most but don’t ignore it when a woman does it. And that’s exactly what’s happening here. Whether it’s in sl or rl, it can have the same effect. That’s why I keep saying not to play with peoples emotions…leading them on, making them think something is real. Faking this or that for whatever reason. It’s a form of abuse. Especially to someone who’s already gone through it in real life.
Just because it’s sl and a game does NOT make doing it an OK thing.
we know it doesn’t make it ok. But i guarentee you’ll be here until next Sunday complaining about her. You do the 1 thing that makes me cringe in a guy and its .. BITCH. You must have been like the woman in the relationship … a cry baby guy who has to cack like a chicken and i dont personally know any girls who like that shit.. to be honest thats as annoying as the cuckolding crew to me. just say no to whiney guys
Could have fooled me with that first sentence.
@stopthelies what you fail to realize is its YOU who made yourself look insane… we read YOUR words about passwords and NOT a tracker an “”online indicator”” .. you sounded crazy even before trying to make your point. You make a secret to trash someone shows your still acting INSANE.. and u came here using 500 names just proves u do it inworld. lol
@me So so true… Many of us would be way more inclined to believe his side (myself included) if he just acted like a normal person about it. Breakups suck but making all those alts to stalk and harass her then make an slsecret to publicly shame her because she changed her mind about meeting in RL and said “No”? I don’t care if he was at the airport with his bags packed and a non-refundable ticket in hand when she changed her mind because she has every right to do so at any time. It would suck big time and anyone would be irked to hell and back if that happened. But, normal people just don’t act the way he has been. Most would have been more along the lines of Damn that fucking sucks balls and then move on to find somebody who is more on the same page with what they want in a relationship. Many here are all up in my hair about how I’m siding with her about stuff and believing “lies” but that isn’t the case at all. She is far from innocent.. it takes two to tango; She should have done thing way differently also; but I have yet to witness her making a total ass of herself over all this. Usually I stay far away from this kind of drama because someones relationship woes has nothing to do with me… except for this one time, and why? Because I’ve dated his type once in SL many a year ago and by the end of it I was stalked & harassed so bad I had to change my RL address, phone#, email, the whole 9 yards. Even took an “extended vacation” from SL & almost had to get a RL restraining order to… Read more »
@me….you forgot to mention the alts….but ya I agree with you on this….he made himself look crazy which caused a backlash. Sometimes it’s better to keep what you have to say to a minimum…get your point across and leave it at that.
ok ok pity party… next time i come to this site ill even bring you a balloon.
You act as if women are innocent. Both men and women do it. She seemed nice at first too…
@stopthelies…..where in there do I say I am female? Nor do I say women are innocent. However, I have not met any women who have pulled that same shit….not saying it doesn’t happen but it hasn’t happened to me.
*sips on my caffeinated coffee*
Well you know, when you literally make plans to meet in rl, that generally means youre dating in rl too and not just in sl. People just need to be more straightforward with their intentions but apparently thats a really hard thing to do. Most prefer to play head games and fake illnesses that people actually die from.
She wasn’t scared. She got a Christmas gift she already knew was coming. If you’re friends with her on Facebook you would have seen the pic she posted of it. But go on, lie more.
i dont know either of you THANK GOD and i dont do sl facebook.. when im not inworld im back to my real self.. try it some time
Uh, no I didn’t. I haven’t been on the MP in forever. You need to stop thinking that whenever something goes wrong it’s my fault.
OMG, seriously you are still on this rant. Wow, you have some serious issues with letting go of people. Wish there was a mute/block but the best thing is to scroll past any comments you make from now on. Give it up already dude
@funnyface….I can’t even make myself read anymore of his nonsense lol it’s like background noise….it’s there but you’re not really paying much attention to it.
Didn’t I just say I moved on? LOL. But OneNameOnly makes a fine point. Ive already blocked her on everything. Phone number blocked, skype blocked, discord blocked, sl blocked, facebook blocked. From a rl emotional standpoint, its hard to fully let go when you rl loved someone that much and for that long. That was a first for me so people have to understand that. Too many just think SL is a game where the end goal is how much you can screw another over. THAT mentality has to stop and sadly thats all she brings into every relationship she has ever had.
Drama drama drama! Clearly you have not moved on if you still sitting on this thread waiting to comment. If you had moved on you wouldn’t give a shit about what she does or who she does it with. You also wouldn’t keep feeding people who are clearly NOT on your side. Let the next dude she’s with deal with her, it’s not your place to ‘warn’ anyone. I think what your doing is actually keeping people away from you. She’ll find love, but all the chicks will stay away from you now that everyone knows that you act like a pathetic child when you get done wrong. Handle it like an adult.. Stop airing shit that don’t belong to you and get on with your life before you cause more unneeded drama.
I could care less whos on my side or hers. I could also care less if im screwing myself over in this and people stay away. Its just a game so why should I give a sh*t? She won’t find love. None of you who “play the game” even knows what that is. Especially her. Her “love” is pretty much getting into your wallet and telling you she has cancer so you give her more stuff out of sympathy. Telling you she wants rl and crap so you stick around. But hey, its just a game. xD
Karma will get her for faking cancer, but you have two choices the way I see it. If you want to stay on SL, mute and block and toss the bitch like a bad habit or 2, just leave the game for awhile. Guys will find out what a pathetic loser she is on their own, no need for you to warn them. Stop being a hotel and letting her live in your head rent free.
@Poor you… Several of us have been trying to tell him the same thing. But, alas he’s on a personal mission to make everyone be on his side and he is like a pathetic dog with a bone about it all.
Dude you just need to seriously move on ~ sorry you got dumped or dumped her or whatever, but gawd enough already just let it go. All you are doing is coming off as a stalker and a douche just leave it alone. This is SL we are talking about as breakups happen and people turned into assholes, but seriously seek counseling as you continue your rants about someone that has obviously moved on.
I dont care if shes moved on. I care more about the lies she been spreading about me for over a year. She didn’t ever want to discuss any of it for the whole time we were together so here we are. Yeah, getting together with her was the biggest mistake of my life but I want to know where this lie originated from about me pushing her friends away.
@stopthelies…I find it really sad that you are going to such lengths to defend yourself to a bunch of strangers…. say what you want but from just reading your comments…it is quite obvious that you are obsessed and maybe should consider getting professional help.
No one here is siding with you… and you can explain your situation until you are blue in the face but it will not change anyone’s mind. You have said what you felt you needed to more than once…so as others have already said…move on and be done with it. The more you try to justify yourself the worse you look. Do yourself a favor and let it go.
A vast HUGE majority of us reading have zero clue who you are- so let it go. Whatever lies your ex is or isn’t telling- because face it, how many fingers are in your drama pot at this point, adding to the mix- really has such little impact on your SL- those who are true friends will let it go as well. Those who don’t- do you really need them? Log off for a week or twelve. Come back and make a new set of friends and lay off the SL romance- it very rarely ends in a happy ever after, hopefully you’ve figured that out by now.
WHERE IS THAT SECRET FROM A FEW WEEKS AGO WHERE SOMEONE WAS SAYING THEY DONT DO SL RELATIONSHIPS AND YOU GUYS JUMPED DOWN THEIR THROAT?
Yeah, because that is so relevant right now
Wow are you trying to write a novel here?… My eyes kinda started to glass over by the 2nd paragraph and to be honest I’m really not interested in hearing your Loooooooonnnnngggggg sob story when you have already shown that you are full of it in your past comments today.
Really? Which comments are those? I would love to know. Why dont you post them.
Well that’s easy…. every time you open your mouth here so go back & look at every comment you have made & there you go. 😀
Lol, nonsense. My side has remained unchanged the entire time. Not my problem if you only want to believe one side of the whole thing. Kinda sad, though.
Oh but I have heard your side of the story over & over because you can’t seem to stop talking… And each time you do you seem to admit to one thing or another that was said by the other party and then dig that hole a little deeper by adding some more “less than classy” actions you have done… You made that bed so suck it up & lie in it!
Ok, Amiec. My side was posted. The whole thing you refuse to read. Maybe you should actually READ it before typing out another nonsense comment.
Oh I read maybe a sentence into it and then realized it is the same crap you have been changing for almost a week. And you only want people to believe your side even tho you said it wasn’t your problem if we only believed one side, yet here we are having to listen to your bs ever changing can’t keep a story straight story. Also what is up with you bringing random names into this like we know who you are talking about but seeing how you love alts we don’t know if these people are your alts too that you are using for your lies.
Which “random names” are you talking about?
Really? Mind showing me what exactly Ive changed? I dare you.
Really? You are “daring” me? How old are you? I don’t have to prove anything to you or show anything either you have been doing it all on your own stumbling over everything you have said and you just ignore key points. You are not the victim you are the idiot who just wont stop. You do realize all the people seeing your so called side are just seeing how much you are just making yourself look bad. It is like talking to a brick wall with you because you don’t see it, you need all these alts to stalk someone now you just made yourself look like the crazy psycho ex that people will want to avoid from now on.
Yeah, I’m daring you because I know you don’t have anything. I’m well aware youre just here to “defend” her and nothing else. Thats fine. I already admitted to creating alts. Go look up her name in sl and you’ll see them. I’m not hiding that. But the lies youve been spewing about me because youre too stupid to listen to anything else has to stop. Its obvious shes got you wrapped around her fingers so much you won’t even bother looking at the other side of this. I was just like you. Do not fall for her crap. Look at the whole picture, not just half of it.
Ok only one person has me wrapped around their finger and it is not Monti. I do have my own mind and no we are not alike for one I know better then to fall into the Virtual World known as Second Life and two I am not stupid enough to stay with someone when obviously there were signs not to. There is no lies spewing from me, you are the one who is showing me how you really are and yes Monti is a friend of mine and I have known her longer then you have known her but I don’t involve myself in her personal stuff she tells me what she wants and I don’t push it. Through this whole ordeal the only thing she has even said about you was the fact you were harassing her with Alts and I told her to save every convo you sent her on all these alts and file a harassment report. Others have told me you started messaging them to warn them about her when you had no right to do so. You and only you have proven to me you are a psycho ex, not her not anyone else. You are just upset because she is done with your nonsense and frankly I don’t blame her one bit. You are the only one talking crap over and over.
Did she ever want to hang out with you while she was with me? No idea who you are but I want to know where this lie originated from that I kept her from her friends and that I was controlling.
“Others” have told you I messaged “them”? Thats funny because the only person I messaged was Ricky. Just him. Just one. So who are these “others” and can I see what “I” sent them?
There right there is the proof and this is the last time I am going to respond to you because you just proved that you indeed are digging yourself a hole and showing every one that you yourself are shady and salty.
@enough already and coffee break- you two come off as complete bitches and need to run back into plurk and carry on with your silly selves and leave this guy alone. I’ve read through all of this and the guy has made good points and I can see where he comes from without sitting on some high and mighty toilet and letting the shit fly….
@ImWithYa…..hmmm are you him perhaps….or one of his buddies? Either way, you sound like him…blah blah blah…..lol
Its not proof of anything. Yeah, I messaged Ricky. But just him. No idea who these “others” are you speak of. Theres no law against warning someone about someone else. I’m not afraid to admit to what ive done. But its alot of pent up emotions that no one seems to understand. I was betrayed by someone I actually loved in real life…was never told by her that her love was only confined in sl…and made to look like a controlling anti-friend bf. Yeah, I’m coming apart at the seams and I just do not care anymore. Maybe she shouldn’t be playing with people heads and try being truthful and honest about what she really wants from people.
You really need to let this go dude. You got used on a game, it happens. You seem like your whole life spins around this game though. Go on YouTube and look up second life game documentary by Yuta something..it is a documentary about how it ruins peoples real lives if you obsess on it. Second life should be like a break time. Log in, do what you want and log out. Focus on yourself and real life.
I don’t suppose she ever told her friends how she hurt her own little daughter when she left? Did she ever talk about the pain and hurt she caused her? Probably not….because she didn’t care. Its all just a game right? Why should anybody be hurt by what people say and do to others in sl? Its just a f*cking game, right? None of her friends knew the pain she caused because her friends only knew the things that made her look good.
Take a few deep breaths and say to yourself..
Sl is a computer Game
40 year olds are playing children
You cant really have a relationship
You cant be physical
You are addicted and addicted bad to the game.
You really need a break from the computer. Get a second job, get a hobby, just get on with life.
lmao her little daughter thats prob like 40 a game daughter right? you people are sick.. sick. sick. sick!!!
@all above: I do not even know who this girl is nor probably most people here besides someone who mentioned it. She did not leave her daughter behind but an online friend (or offline as well but I assume not due to her being yours) and probably due to the mess. Breakups are crap but no point in giving random internet people all the details on private matters and going “he said, she said”. But. If you do talk about a little kid like that – it does show you’re not best with roleplay and rl distinction. True – players can be close and am certain someone out there got adopted as an adult by some other sl player but in most cases it is not so. Just step back and hide internet connections for a week and have a break to go be sad or such.
Who plays avatars in sl? You’re all real people right? With feelings and emotions and sh*t like that, right? SL… RL… It doesn’t matter. If someone was your friend, whether adopted as a little or not, and you screwed them over in a bad way and never even apologized for it…they are gonna be hurt and just resent you because no matter how you look at it, there’s a human being behind every avatar. It doesn’t make what Monti did right. It makes her a really sh*tty person.
not everyone who logs in is looking for a rl commitment though. You said she lied about cancer or something did u ever think maybe she was trying to make you slow down? if knowing that was done and you kept on talking to her.. whos the crazy one? how far does someone have to go for you to give up? i mean not everyone in SL is looking for real life love.. and if things start to become overwhelming i can see someone being hurtful just to have you back off. (not you per say but anyone crossing the line) second life needs a box to check for rl or game… game or not i know you shouldnt treat people bad but if someone wanted my passwords and had online indicators on me i would tell them where to go and how to get there in the meanest way too.
who plays mario in mario cart??? how dumb do you sound?
There’s this mentality in SL that the people behind avatars have no feelings at all and can be used and abused in every way at any time and monti is part of that mentality.
You keep changing the story every time you tell it. Dude no one is going to feel sorry for you especially since you have been harassing her since you broke up with her and tried to get back with her and she told you no. As for you telling people she lied about her cancer the only so called proof you claim is that by your own admission is you stalk her through alts she has on her friends list and you know she’s online past 2 am. Just because someone is sick doesn’t mean they have to follow what you think they should do. She might be set as online but like I said before she is like tons of others who just stay logged in. So while you are over there throwing a tantrum and the oh woe is me blah blah blah crap just remember you could have left the relationship at anytime and it’s not her fault you can’t remember that second life is a computer game.
Um, my side has always remained the same without changes. Yes, I tried to get back with her after breaking up out of stupidity and she said she was willing to give me the benefit of the doubt and wanted to take a week long break. She didn’t tell you that, huh? She never said no.
As for the stalking, we have already discussed that. You sound like a broken record.
And even though Second Life is a computer game, just remember theres real people and real emotions behind the avatar. Thats not a right to go and mess with peoples emotions for whatever reason. Be honest because thats what people respect the most.
Why don’t you just leave her alone and move on? Oh she messed with your emotions? Secondlife is a role play game you forgot to not take it serious. As for you spreading this cheating stuff about her those are lies and who the hell would be ok with bringing an ex back even as a so called little? Have you not been following sl secrets? You also say she didn’t like one of your friends who who role played being married to once? At least you understood that was “roleplay”. You also say that she’s talking bad about you and all this other stuff where is your proof and where is your proof on everything else you have said? Let’s see some proof that’s not from your massive collection of alts or “friends”.
@Enough Already Oh there is “proof”… If you scroll down I made a little compilation of all the times he’s admitted to stuff over the course of his numerous commentary when “trying” to defend himself.
You mean that?
Why are you ignoring what I said about the tracker? There was no tracker. It was an online indicator.
And about her password…ive already discussed that too. In my long post I said we had eachothers passwords when we first got together. I would log into her account after she fell asleep to do photos for flickr when it was up. At the time, she loved the pics I took and would surprise her with.
You’re just picking and choosing what to believe and ignoring the actual facts. Youre choosing to believe one side. Thats fine, but dont come to me calling me a liar when you know nothing.
Yes that… Thank you for linking it now it’s much easier to find for those who didn’t see it … and oh yes later on it was decided it was stalking vs tracker which FYI is worse. And, as far as the password it was pointed out that she had every right to change it at any time and not give it to you so stop whining about that. And I’m not picking and choosing you are just “choosing” to admit to things that prove her side that is all. Though I’ll give you much clap and clappery for being tenacious… most by now would have chosen to be quiet and leave the conversation with at least a sliver of dignity.
lmao- diude you need to stfu and leave this guy alone….you have no idea what is going on
@ImWithYa… why don’t you stfu and go back to sucking his ass. He put his bs in here so he asked for it.
omg yur so BLUNT! asf! Now stfu and go back to sucking cock after your white knight bullshit….
@imwithya ……lol sticks and stones bitch…though it really makes me laugh when someone has to use my name in the process of trying to insult me.
You came in here on your own free will insulting someone in every comment. I love how you can dish it but can’t take it lol
The butt-hurt is strong in this one….what’s the matter sweetie…did I hurt your precious feelings? Awwww….sorry, not sorry lol
I call it like I see it….and you are either him or a buddy. Next time try not to be so transparent mmkay?
lol shut up bitch- not a friend, don’t even know him but I’ve seen your type before. Get back in your bitch cabal wth ya girlfranssss….oh myyy…..BLUNTASF- omggggg….see you walk down one side of a street, I cross over and tuck myballs BLUNTASF….
@imwithya….you do realize that you type like a complete retard and don’t make a whole lot of sense right? I mean were you trying to insult me through that gibberish or do you just like typing my name?
You know what…never mind…I prefer to ignore those who are illiterate.
Feel free to reply since I know your type always need to have the last say.
@Bluntasf I had to read what he said a few times to even understand just a little of what he said. He isn’t the sharpest tool in the shed so yeah not worth the effort to respond to. Really, who thinks it’s even “cool” to talk/type that way these days? I just don’t get it, but whatever it gave me a good chuckle at the stupidity.
@coffee…ya I had a good laugh too…but now it’s just old and stale lol
What part didn’t you understand love? the word ‘cabal’? Cabal is a noun that describes a group of like minded individuals, what some may think of in conspiritorial terms. The rest of what i said was mock fear at Ms BluntAF, so much that i had to go to other side of street when i saw her walking towards me on same side of street. You understand a little better you fucking loser plurk/shit bitch? lol
Oh so you Are able to speak with some form of intellect! Good to know because I was starting to worry for you that your IQ score was under 50 if not well under 35. Though it’s still debatable if you are above 70 because really, you can’t come up with better insults than that? Either way I have better things to do than bother with you after this so good day.
Actually in high school I was tested twice – once at 142 and once at 161….
That explains how he/she was able to actually read and comprehend what I was saying and come to his/her own understanding of it. 161 is nice lol
@imwithya why are you so upset?? lol You’re taking it very personal.. thinks to myself you’re him.. work pc maybe?? so you dont get called out for more than 500 names?
Noo- same one 🙂 Lourdes will confirm- same email I always use, different than this dude ‘stopthelies’ you seem to dislike after Coffee sicked yur plurk ass on him….lol
Lourdes, do most of these fucks come out of Plurk?
@Imwithya Sorry dear i dont have social media for a game.. You need to relax a bit and pay attention to crossing that imaginary street you’re crossing to avoid being laughed at by Blunt. You sound just like the other guy because both of you kumquats need confirmation for basic shit. and if you don’t know one another yet you should link up inworld and hang out and make excuses up with eachother and trade passwords
@bluntaf AMEN ♥
“You can make the excuse that “you can’t control the actions of another” which is in some ways true because yes you can’t… but don’t use that to distance yourself from this because you are still just as guilty! if “your friend” had raped or murdered someone or did some other heinous act would you sit there and say “whelp I can’t control your actions” and still be their friend? I’m going to assume that would be a No and you would probably be more along the lines of “What you are doing is wrong I can not condone such things so therefor we can’t be friends anymore”. Now, you can argue that “stalking” isn’t as bad as that but *cough cough* stalking behavior leads to such things >.>”
Did you really just attempt to link rape with an ONLINE ACTION (something no one can really control because its…ONLINE???” WOW!
I never said I was still friends with them but you know what Amiec? Youre a real pos for even attempting to link rl rape with an online action. Rape can be stopped. Just wtf is someone supposed to do when another is using a online indicator on someone? Block them? Defriend them? Yeah, that will stop them from continuing to use it. You’re an idiot and what you just said is offensive af.
well touchie aren’t Yah! I used all those things, not just rape, as an example not to compare (though Stalkers are known to rape & murder their stalking victims which can start online so it’s not so far of a stretch). And BTW I’m not Amiec…. last I checked you were calling “Enough already” that and unlike you there is no multiple names 1 commenter here. Also, if you are no longer friends with the said stalker or probably your alt… why did you call them “a Friend”? All I said was you were condoning their actions by still being friends with them so you couldn’t remove yourself from their actions as you are an enabler.
Now as much as I enjoy watching you deep throat that foot of yours and try to get the last word in I do have other things I want to do today. But, before I bid you adieu I would like to bestow some words of wisdom the pertains to you quite well by this point…. “If you don’t want to be perceived as a Fool, don’t open your mouth and remove all doubt.”
As far as everyone else I’m sure later on I’ll be commenting on way more important matters like the Fundraising scandal and if not I’ll see you all same time, same place next week as I Lol with my coffee on what is the drama of the week! 😀
Woah coffee think you need to back off on this thread its like yikes maybe switching to tea might help ya
@FunnyFace Oh I know… it’s just that Psycho Douchebags are a pet peeve of mine and I let this particular one kinda get to me. Don’t worry though, I already switched to that tea yesterday and I’m no longer responding to him. I don’t really like that he brought out a nastier side of myself but it happens sometimes.
@coffee…just ignore him…he clearly won’t shut up unless we all stop responding to him. But who knows…maybe he may continue the conversation by himself…lol
@Bluntasf Yep! I’m on that Ignore Train and sitting comfy there. If only the sounds of silence from him came true that would be awesome but oh well ignoring & scrolling past will just have to do.
You let someone on the internet get to you? You mean real life emotions were actually involved?
just fell in love with ‘deep throat that foot” xD
lol but whyy? or do you just see ‘deep throat’ and snakrkle and chortle?
@me I so do “aim to please” so you’re welcome 😀
omg hahaha- Coffee i am so blowing a load over here about you aiming to please!
Because they were a friend at one point. I removed them days ago when they wouldn’t stop. And how would you know what “her side” is if she hasn’t talked about it? (from what others here have said). You’re honestly digging yourself a hole here.
“Why are you ignoring what I said about the tracker? There was no tracker. It was an online indicator.” o.0 dude you are insane and sound paranoid my friend. if you need any of that stuff in a relationship you should seek help
sighs…again….I wasnt the one who chose to do that. I dont understand why people are missing this point. I never personally put a tracker or online indicator on her ever.
I have left her alone. And second life isn’t an excuse to be a twat. Its not an excuse to play games with people. Its not an excuse to lie about who you are. I was shown proof from josh about how she wanted her joker and crap. He sent me screenshots of their fb chat convos.
As for the ex being a little…lets be real here. You and a bunch of others are saying its just a game, right? Its all roleplay, right? Then why would she be be mad at me if her feelings and love she kept telling me about were just confined to the game? Who cares if my ex was in little form? She got along great with our daughter and they are STILL really good friends.
The proof is that theres a bunch of people calling me controlling. I mean, do you not read comments? YOU think I am controlling so how did you find that out? How did people find out I’m controlling and been saying I have been pushing her friends away and all that nonsense? That had to come from somewhere…SOMEONE…
Where’s Nev & Max when you need em?
Nev is with his child bride and Max is with his mail-order bride.
Stormy, your comment is gold ahahahahahhaaaaaaaaa
You learned a big lesson in a hard way. Never think a relationship on SL is anything else but a game relation. Also, the hotter and sexier a woman sets up her avatar, the uglier she is in real life and Will send fake RL pics.
Is that what you tell yourself because you can’t get an attractive woman in either world? Aww.
I have an attractive woman. Way better than that ugly lying bitch.
@stoptheLies…………….. Stop The Lies.. lol does your attractive woman know your on here crying about some other bitch for a whole week?
Yeah. She’s an actual cancer survivor. You can stop being a piece of shit now and quit supporting those who fake it.
I guess the reason I’m so mad and stuck on all this is the fact she was with me when my rl aunt died of cancer last year. We voiced the whole time I was down there in FL for her funeral and I told her how I felt…my pain….everything. So when she told me she had cancer too I just wanted to be there for her so badly no matter what. I never wanted to believe someone could lie about cancer but thats what she put in my head and I could never really talk about it with her. The whole not knowing if it was true or not…its a horrible nightmarish feeling and nobody should be put through. But whats done is done…
Lying about cancer shows mental illness. No normal person with feelings would do such a horrid thing. You are better off without this pos. Learn from it and move on and find a Real woman who you have chemistry with outside of the game.
I need to rebuild my trust in people again before that ever happens. And that might take a seriously long, long time. I didn’t come here for pity. I came here to tell my side of the story since apparently everyone thinks of me as some control freak who pushed her friends away when that wasn’t the case at all.
#42 if BT doesn t stop flirting with SidRiler i m sure crazy Thalia will have spat
Sid is a man in reals
#37 Just… the level of betrayal – Secret Maker, you suck. Going to someone’s private birthday party just to take a pic to insult them on SL Secrets? I am not a fan of pedophilia but where’s the proof? Just leave these guys alone please. They are sweethearts.
My opinion on this is simply this: Why target these two when there are a couple dozen kid couples on Facebook posting pictures together, nude or almost nude laying on one another on beaches? I’m calling serious jealousy here. Looking on their Facebooks I see them both as adults and kids. This pointing fingers week after week with no proof is getting annoying, post something juicy or gtfo.
check there FB pages / flickr. More than enough proof. U can stop sympathizing lol ! I wuldnt be shocked at all of secrets came out that there having 3-somes with there buddy Neil lmao! ! ! seriously though,,,,, id luv to take credit for these last few weeks but it seems like i have ppl doing the dirty work for me.lol ! !
Well actually please do check their FB and flickr and while your at hit check their fashion blog that is on like 10 SL fashion feeds since Cedric blogs for like 5 sponsors. All your find are some really nice photography with the most scandalous of them being the 2 or 3 of them standing next to each other. Abel Resident is clearly a deranged poor fuck who can’t produce any proof whatever outside of empty baseless accusations and pics the he/she steals from peoples FB pages. There’s no scandal here, no violation of the TOS, nothing to see but some really nice photography so by all means please do check out their work, it’s very popular.
Abel is Colby, so deranged goes hand in hand with him.
With ColbyDark it’s always jealousy of what families he hasn’t been allowed to troll yet. He has all these sick fantasies of what goes on, and he can’t stand not being included. You can never believe a word he says anyway. His whole existence is to mess with people and make “trollish or non valid” shit up. His words, not mine…
So, where are the true secrets, people ? I only read bullshit, complaints and some “see ! i am here, more you talk about me and more i am “famous” !” Come on ! tell us TRUE secrets
truth was last week and hopefully next week. lol
# 46 Anyone who’s against her will be on her blacklist! Better you think twice about staying in her way or even say anything worse about her. Sofie finds ways to destroy you! Placing gossip around in sl about the worst you could ever imagine.
How can she destroy someone on a damn Game? Just mute and block dude.
some people are just way too invested mentally i think. or just mental xD
Making up not existing alts, or existing alts and let other people think it’s true. Using her “voodoo” business to prove they are true. She gets over her sl business on our IP’s. That’s wonderful being private, just not to Linden and Voodoo/Sofie??
#29 Ohhh Lance’s “thirsty bitches” will now start spilling the T. #burn
Hmmm I wonder were YOU are hanging at? Hmmmm
They are trying to call him out for being a man whore… but being a side bitch would make herself a whore?
#13 = Srsly tired of those, so i agree
#17 = LOL
#24 = Meh why the hell not LOL (sarcasmmm)
#28 = i just LOL’d for no reason
#32 = Okay now, don’t wait on someone to make you happy, i’ve been there tho i have some moments still. Make YOURSELF happy. You won’t be happy with someone else if you’re not happy with yourself. Again, i may sound wise but i make myself cry cuz i’m unhappy and still believing someone else will make me happy.
#1 Someone has an Abel boner lol, the same person harassing Abel for years now. It’s getting old, move on. They’re happily married and share their real life.
Yeah, some salty person repeating the same stuff…. Abel Viagra is strong stuff. Noone believes this shit.
theres nothing to have to believe, ask her yourself. true its old, but so many peeps heard about this. its a sad shit when catfishes get protected, js
Proof of this? Anyone can post rumors and lies on here, js
Can we all just agree to STOP with the fucking fundraisers?
After the whole olive situation I find it hard to trust anyone anymore.
i think it was only done for humour, it’s obviously not serious
I was referring to the actual fundraisers, not the secrets pertaining to them. 🙂
I’m apparently out of the loop… but whatever happened with the Olive/Rose situation? I never knew it was a scam.
People still buy her stuff….
They raised 6k (I think?) For hospital bills and funeral costs for her mom that died but it turns out it was all already paid for and the money was just going to go into her personal savings for stuff like “driving school” and “car payments” but there hasn’t been any mention of that stuff since she snagged that money. She deleted her old plurk and made a new one because of the aftermath. P.s. she’s still plurking about needing more money through SL sales.
something in my mind right now : rose and jenni V can be the same person ?? (i mean same rl person behind diferent names) someone knows them in rl, voiced with them in sl ? I am really curious now
No, different people just the same manipulative scamming personality that thinks good hearted people of SL is their personal piggy bank to tap any time they feel like coming up with some sob story.
She got what she wanted cash. All the rest was just to appease anyone that was still interested in where the money went. She will be heard again and again she will pull another sob story out of her ass and again the designers will forget and throw another fundraiser.
I have at a feeling people are done with her shit because she’s getting a lot less hug emotes posted in her Plurk responses (that’s how you can tell who will support your poor choices)
i agree@bonbon she most likely blew through it since she had a fatpack sale on seraphim pretty recently
#11 Millenials or “Generation Y”: People who are born between 1980 and 2000. So yes, it it possible to call yourself a “millenial” if you are around 38 years old.
People born in the late 70’s and early 80’s are a micro generation – Xennials. It’s possible to be 39-40 and be a Xennial.
Now the confusion is complete lol!
“Prominent US think tank Pew Research Centre has announced that they will only apply the term millennial to those born between 1981 and 1996 meaning that if you’re not currently aged between 22 and 36, you’re out.”
There is various cut off dates and the maximum brackets I seen were for 1975 to 1999. But … oh yes, a big one – that is only for US xD . Did hear it applied to UK few times by media but it never sticked while mainland’s media tend to use it for those born in late 90s and entering work force. Same thing can be said about any other generation because they share same labels and keep being redefined. Only “baby boomers” are easy as US was the only one with those. Most countries got chucked into more poverty thus no babies happened after WW2. UK had some name for same period but forgot.
So … OP of 11 could be both right and wrong depending on location of the person. It’s all just media gibberish anyway.
That means if you are born before 1981, you are “Generation X” and after 1996 “Generation Z”. Ty for info. German Wikipedia should update then.
#17 is on point.
Best one yet.
#24 I LOVE IT
Millenials are people born from the early 80s to the early 2000s. Hate to break it to you, but the older millennials are approaching 40.
You’re thinking Xennials.
Xennials are the ones close to 40, i know, i am one (sadly lol) [mix between millenials and generation X]
Most people born in the early 80’s don’t self-define as millennial, because the term wasn’t around when they were teens and by the time you get to your thirties you don’t care about this crap. So yeah, somebody in their late thirties labeling themselves a millennial probably does have more in common with a teenager than the average person their age, but you can’t blame younger people for finding this slightly tragic.
she sounded that way for sure in the profile lol
i think the older millennials are in their early 30s
for giggles https://gyazo.com/16a06c8934a247aae9e941a1f2073cba
Now I am trying to remember when the breakout from using generation y as term happened (as yep – most grown up with that and the general trend for everyone is to say ‘but I am not Millenial!’).
I cannot help but wonder what weird stereotype is behind eating washing detergent things but probably similar to ones about X and Y in mainland Europe. We were more hardcore! X ate window insulation because poor and lacking minerals while Y (*waves*) ate … wall concrete because overworked parents and poor and lacking minerals. Maybe Z evolved into “overworked parents, poor, lacking minerals and not having a house”. Not sure why we got changed to those weird Millenial things as avocado is not as badarse as walls! I hate avocado 🙁 .
Mornings All! Get your coffee & pastries ready lots to LOL over this week… 1~ That is old news that Peach has been “outed” several times for years… my fav was the drama it cause what was 3 or 4 yrs ago. 4~ Could you make your print any smaller & more boring? really, I tried reading that a couple of times and just couldn’t bring myself to finish either time. 17 & 24~ Just too funny ROFL!!! 21 & 37~ When are we all gonna learn that a short avi is just a short avi and not a child? Height is a preference not a requirement! 38~ Oh Heaven forbid we use the freedom to be anything we want to be that SL offers… unless you are dating the person it’s nothing to concern yourself with… MALTs are perfectly acceptable specially for blogging. 12 & 20~ Wow so much relationship drama this week! most I just mind my own business with because I really don’t care when it comes right down to it. But, these 2 about Monti I’ve been hearing much about this in the last week; and since the Ex (definite poster of 12) has been so “kind” to make such things fair game…. Story Time! From what I know…. the spurned Ex is throwing a hissy fit because he dumped her when she said No to them meeting in RL but when he wanted her back later she refused. So, he decided the only “logical” thing to do was make alt after alt (16 was the last time I heard the count) to harass all day and every day about how she was a bitch and has to give him the $40 that he sent her months ago when she didn’t even want the cash and… Read more »
You need to get your story straight. She wasn’t dumped because she wouldn’t meet him in rl. She was dumped because he didn’t trust her. She would purposefully give him wrong passwords to her account and then get mad at him when he would confront her about it and get suspicious. They were together for over a year and during that time she said things like she loved him and wanted to meet him and just planted alot of stuff in his head that wasn’t true. That $40 he gave her was because she didn’t have money to cover stuff she was using for her so-called cancer. He never had a tracker on her while they were together either unless you’re talking about her giving him control of her collar. He wasn’t controlling at all. He was just fed a lot of BS and believed it.
Why would you need passwords to her account? Controlling much?
Let it go Elsa..just let it go
when i hear about sl love stories i see this
id so give wrong passwords too
Wow, the mods here are biased af. Lets IGNORE the FACT that she GAVE him her pw at the beginning and that he HAD her pw for a long time until she CHEATED. Mods, you gonna post the facts or just the stuff you want people to see?
@stopthelies aka the real story aka whatever name you choose next…. stop changing your name maybe if you want your comments posted quicker… and really maybe just stop talking all you are doing is digging that hole nice and deep… oh wait keep going; watching you do this is amusing.
Seriously they are both stupid. She’s stupid for leading him on he’s stupid for stalking. She told him to delete all his female friends he’s ever liked or been around. He did the same to her. They are both toxic and full of shit. Let’s not play the pity party card. Both of you should log the fuck off and quit crying
@Oh stop lol… I have to admit you bring up a good point… personally I think they should have broken up ages ago. Them dating for a whole year wasn’t good for either party involved.
Um, I never told her to delete anybody except for the one she cheated on me with. Josh.
Chris seriously how can you post that she kept giving you the wrong passwords an hour ago and now you are saying you had her “real” password at the beginning of it? The only person here that seems shady is you.
Early on in the relationship last year we had eachothers passwords. Later in the relationship just before she cheated and broke up the first time (also last year), she changed her password and didn’t tell me. She actually told me when I asked her about it that LL must have blocked my access to her account lol. This was all last year.
Well if that is true then she had every right to change her password at any time and not give it to you. And her coming up with some off hand excuse like that sounds reasonable as well since she probably didn’t want to have to deal with your confrontational controlling ass by telling you she just didn’t want you to have it
I wasn’t controlling at all. Thats another lie being told. Sure, she has every right to change her pw at any time for whatever reason she wants but she should have communicated better and not lie when I asked her about it. Lying ALWAYS makes situations worse. But this whole control thing….where are people getting this from? I never met her friends. Never talked to them. She told me she didn’t have very many friends and I was the one who told her to go and make friends so how is that controlling???
Since we were on the topic earlier of people ‘ignoring’ things, I have another issue with this story…
Now, again, I don’t know either of you, so I’m going on what I’m reading. However, I have a deeply personal issue with someone who would go through the trouble of MAKING alts to harass/communicate with someone. It infuriates me.
You’ve conveniently not addressed this point/accusation @stopthelies/@the real story/whoever-else-you-are…
Yes, I made alts. I admit to that. I was pissed and shouldnt have done that. I guess I wanted to let her know how I felt. I was wrong, ok? However, the other things such as putting a tracker on her was not me. Ive never put a tracker on her. I told some friends and they did all that and let me know her movements and who she was with and such even though I did tell them to stop and not do that. I cannot control what other people do.
Oh so you are admitting to things finally and one by one everything I heard & posted is coming out to be true in one form or another… So lets visit this tracker issue that you just stated she was in fact “tracked” whether it be by you personally or your “friends/alts/whoever” why didn’t you make sure to help her get it off then if you are innocent in this?
Its not that kind of tracker. Its an online/offline indicator. I saw what it was when he was sending me pics.
Oh ok let me rephrase that then… she was “Stalked” and you allowed your friend to be a stalker! Which I might add is illegal in both RL & SL >.>
I DID tell my buddy to stop but again, I can’t control what other people do. Got any suggestions other then saying, “just stop?”.
I don’t know if I can because I actually make a point to not associate with people who think that is OK so I’ve never had to be in that kind of situation.
Well, thats a good suggestion. Not associating with people like that. Point taken. But do not assume I “allowed” that to happen. Thats impossible as I’ll say it again…nobody can control the actions of another.
You can make the excuse that “you can’t control the actions of another” which is in some ways true because yes you can’t… but don’t use that to distance yourself from this because you are still just as guilty! if “your friend” had raped or murdered someone or did some other heinous act would you sit there and say “whelp I can’t control your actions” and still be their friend? I’m going to assume that would be a No and you would probably be more along the lines of “What you are doing is wrong I can not condone such things so therefor we can’t be friends anymore”. Now, you can argue that “stalking” isn’t as bad as that but *cough cough* stalking behavior leads to such things >.>
The only time things don’t get posted right away in the comments are if you’re constantly changing your name and email address associated with the comments, then they go to Moderation for approval. If you post consistently, with the same name and email, they go through automatically.
So perhaps if you want your comments to go through, stick with a name?
(Full disclosure: Not a moderator here, so not making an accusation. Just… you know, common sense and stuff.)
Edit: Also, the only time I’ve seen the original post be edited is if there are LEGITIMATE reasons to do so. Not, “Oh, someone in the comment section said that this insignificant person from a secret had this girl’s password to begin with, which has nothing to do with either of the secrets posted about her, and only shows up in the comment section, but let’s make an edit to toss that random bit of information in there.” Like… that makes zero sense, please take your meds.
Not entirely true. I have never changed my name or email address, it’s always been the same. One week I posted a comment, and after 24+ hours of the comment not going through, I assumed maybe I forgot to actually submit it. So I wrote another comment that was very similar, and a few hours later BOTH comments ended up getting posted at the same time*shrugs* Not sure why it took so long for either to go through, but it is what it is. Sometimes there is delay.
When you post and your comment is moderated there is a message that appears thats says “awaiting moderation”.
It took so long because I didn’t check the queue. RL happens, I forget to check sometimes during the week.
@stopthelies are you the fly on the wall??? or a crab on the vag?? like c.mon now
We post whatever people submit. No one submitted her side of the story. I have no horse in this race nor do I know the parties involved. I do find it amusing that the intricacies of their relationship is public knowledge.
I’m personally confused why this ‘he’ felt he had a right to her passwords at all. “She would purposefully give him wrong passwords to her account…” Hell, I would too. That’s no one’s business.
maybe because he already had it once before? Hell, he told her he wanted to do pics with her on flickr. She always fell asleep on him around 11 or so it made sense. But why give fake passwords to begin with? Why not just say not right now? Why be all shady about it?
@stopthelies but who the fuck is he to ask? its against TOS #1.. #2 if u dont trust someone THAT much u shouldnt be together. stop making excuses for people acting stupid.. i bet they are the AARP crowd too huh?
People saying its against TOS to share passwords are wrong. Its advised against but its NOT against the TOS.
“Should you give another person access to your account, you do so at your own risk; that is, if you permit someone to access your account, you are responsible for what that individual does while using your account.”
@stopthelies so him or her?? whom are you? im going with him since ur so mad about the passwords
i love when a “3rd person” is sooo involved in someone elses relationship.. lol it just SCREAMSSSSSSSSS ur 1 of them
why hello “the Ex”… I never said I had all the facts I said “From what I know….” but do go on and dig your hole deeper all that talk about wanting to have her passwords is a huge red flag that you are a Nut! She in no way needed to give you such info in fact it’s strongly advised against to do so by LL and anyone with 1/2 a brain would have done given you jack squat.
They actually gave eachother their passwords when they first started dating. He did pics on flickr with her until she started doing them herself. They had eachothers passwords for months….before she threw a hissy fit herself over him allowing an ex (who was in her little avi and playing with their daughter) to be considered for adoption into the family….all because shes super jealous herself. After that, did you know she cheated on him then left him and screwed over her own daughter in the process without any explanation and never apologized to her for it until months later when he had to tell her to do it? Yeah, she seems like a great person to be around…
There’s quite a difference between a “short avi” and being waist high on an average adult avi. Obviously this is true, or most adult sims would not have height requirements. In those cases, you’re either a child or a little person, and there are proportional differences to discern the two.
Below four feet (on an actual prim height meter, not the ones that use your ‘eye level’ or agent height as measurement – using agent height will give you a lower number than you actually are) and not a chibi, petite, or other type is deemed a child avatar. I’ve been told by some that it’s under 5’4″ but no, it’s not.
https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Shape-Tools/1835986 is a good kit to use for an accurate height measurement stand. Also damn good for proportions.
My problem has always been that I prefer my adult avatars to be about 5’7″-5’10” and that’s a sure fire way to be called a kid next to these 8 foot glamazon/muscle men monsters. I do look tiny next to most men on SL as an adult avatar and I kind of find it funny all these secrets about “PEDO” due to height never ever address the fact that the dude is usually the one out of proportion.
so much Yes right there A-Kid Preach on! \o/
Consedring that this SL user uses a tween body a nd is plasterd all ove r Meshmerized store, it’s clear he is a child.Stop sympathizing! He has a taller avatar and chose to to be a child this day and dance around with half naked men. U can stop now lol! ! !
@Abel Well considering the stupid “measurement” people use to decide what is a child avi that would make my RL body type considered a child based on them even though I’ve been an “Adult” for quite a long time… No I will not “Stop” Anything! Sorry, but Not Sorry… I will always fight for peoples right to be whatever they want to be in SL. Whether it be Size, Age, Gender, Species, and whatever else somebody’s imagination comes up with… It’s no ones business to tell anyone that they have to fit their personal standards! I find it more appalling that people go around SL like half dressed $5 street corner hookers and/or plaster their flicker with porn shots of their fugly avis. But, that is none of my business so I judge hard silently and let them do their thing while I do mine.
Ah, the LOL… Hi Colby!
@Abel considering you’re a salty slut, you’re the last one who should comment on kid stuff
I think most people forget