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virtual-secrets: Week 505

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• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
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  1. #2 and #3 are true. Had my wedding with them too….and that planner and it was so disorganised and the planner was rude. The owner thinks she is so great but it was all a little sad

  2. Can’t wait for the morrow. I am hoping I can enjoy the bliss and love of Coffee, Blunt and others more. Lets all just indulge in a big ole fat group hug and start all over again and sing ‘Sailing’ by Chris Cross….

    “Well, it’s not far down to paradise,At least it’s not for me…and if the wind is right, you can sail away, find tranquility…”

  3. I’m so ready for tomorrow.. this fundraiser shit is mentally draining even to those who wouldn’t spit on her house if it were on fire. .. or someones house.. where ever the cold floor is that never existed.

    • Wow, a fundraiser that isn’t warranted from a Second Life avatar?

      Who would have thought.

  4. ooh pullease another designer scammed/conned good people outta money is this not making anyone angry. My wish that LL never gives her the money as her poor ass is not homeless, is not stuck on the streets and is not sleeping on a bare floor. She has a lawyer yeah right? Are designers thinking SL Residents are that stupid to believe all this horse shit, probably since there was how much raised for her pathetic lies? Please do not give me explanations, rationalize why anyone cannot get their life outside of SL together. Yes am angry that it seems like an ongoing trend and pretty much fed up with some of a *cough well-known designers who’s egos are bigger than their brains. Honestly, if I knew exactly the correct designer that started this fiasco yes I would speak directly to them because it does not take a rocket scientist to observe to see this was total lies. Sad that good people who probably struggle with day to day, a lot of residents have disabilities, handicaps but you do not see fundraisers for possible new wheelchairs, or meds that help with the pain. Wonder how many truly would help that individual or how many designers would throw out primo items for donations. Oh and one last point someone probably bought it to her attention that she never said thank you as that was dated how many weeks later? Disgusting

    • That is because she is trash. A low breed of a person who has no shame or feels no guilt over what she does. She sits on her fat ass making pose balls for a game. How proud she must be over that life. Even if it was the excuse of no car, she could work from home for any call center, travel agent, and so on. She is the new entitlement trash that feels others should pay for her bad choices in life. On the coordinator, it would not surprise me if it was her overblown ego “ginger” friend Oakley Fattrot. Another fat ass in reals, who uses people and is so delusional she thinks she IS her avatar. Just read those tacky AVATAR testimonies as she is a hot headed ginger! When the lawyer sees that one as well, he will be convinced they are all unstable. Lol

      • @OneName I sincerely doubt if there is even a lawyer because any intelligent person would be asking questions checking facts and getting more involved. Again no questioning about that statement “giving 10 minutes” from the police. All evictions must be posted on the door as well and if an individual cannot see if they are 100% blind. On most eviction letters they will give a number of Landlord-Tenant Affairs to assist or try to stay the eviction. Am not in SL to put my monies towards any type of personal fundraisers after being burned from the very first one. Way too many designers think they are so entitled, with their egos running over their brains.

      • @OneNameOnly Have to agree with most of that but spare the poor “Real Gingers” from being grouped with such egotistical trash. Hair color has nothing to do with her personality type and I’m willing to bet if Oakley is sporting RL red hair it came out of a box.

      • No lol what I meant was, on her Avatar testimony she spoke the words coming from her Avatar, describing her sl avvie, and using her avvie to speak on real world things. The woman thinks she is actually her avatar .

    • It seems as though people are indeed believing it. As they did for the last lazy cunt who had a fundraiser. Therein lies the issue.

  5. #2 and #3 Orchard Heights sunk to a new low with this one. Aidentigra just loves drama

  7. 10 – I hope she/he came up with that “shut the F*ck up:” thing on their own. I’m going use that one day lol
    28 – Wow, just… LOL. Can’t get that out of my head now!

  9. @ 36 If I would have kept the logs before I updated to the new firestorm I would been able to plaster the proof I had to confirm this. I think Admins need to have everyone following the same rules, the rules they created. Clearly states that Aemon should not have been allowed to app in as Aelyx as well as Aemon whether that be on alt or not. Two feature roles seriously, someone could have applied as Aelyx and actually showed up instead of being not around. That’s what made it obvious,or the fact that they next logged in at the same time, or the fact AElyx logged in later than Aemon on most occassions. I wasn’t saying shit to no admin because he made it that far the admins knew about it and I’m not getting banned. People are sensitive even with proof against them, they will ban you just because and I actually enjoy rping there. You think I’d ruin that for some 40 year old who can’t just play one role and the admins back him up. Sike. Glad Aelyx is dead tho, shows he wasn’t supposed to be playing that role anyway and follow the damn rules. Stop trying to manipulate the system and the dice gods might be on your side.

    • I also was accidentally messaged by Aemon when he was asking about stuff pertaining to Aelyx… really really suspicious and I have logs of such but I didnt want to start any shit….

      I really do suspect the admins knew and also they had planned this all along. Somehow they got the dice to kill him off i dont know how but it could be rigged for all we know

      ROIAF has been playing this game with their players for so long..

  10. # 32 … if you ARE who I think you are … get over yourself you f*cking cunt … you watched him do it to your supposedly ex best friend , who helped you through many shits , who you used as a pawn to get your romeo back when he wasnt even interested in getting back to you… you badmouthed her like the hoe you are and framed her for the criminal infront of everyone , you sold her out , you even put ideas into his mind to do it .. and now you are shocked and griefing that he threw you away ? its karma bitch , you reap what you sow .. and dont blame your sad miserable evil ways on depression .. truely depressed people .. dont harm other people .. they dont character assasinate people nor throw them under the bus .. they are too carried away with thier own pain .. they dont engage in anything … but you would sell out anyone who isnt part of your plan anymore … bc you are so selfish life sucking leach…. all you will ever be is a needy af attention whore .. go f*ck yourself miss piggy … karma is served !
    if you ARENT who i think you are … i apologize but really dont blame your life choices on depression .. being depressed and being dumb are two different things

    • Thank you for posting the info… Not sure what my feels are because she isn’t really explaining anything or where the funds will go and personally I don’t think she deserves a single penny. All I can hope is that anything that she doesn’t use for what the fundraiser was for she gives to an actual charity organization. But, not gonna hold my breath for that.

    • she isn’t saying shit about what the funds are going to be spent on. she hasn’t explained why her back bills were so expensive. she hasn’t explained why they gave her 10 minutes to get out instead of at least 30 days. she hasn’t explained why it’s her responsibility to pay the back rent if she can prove that she paid it to the tenant that sublet it to her. she hasn’t explained why she couldnt get her computer and things out of the place. she said she talked to a lawyer, but didn’t say jack shit about what the lawyer said other than that they were going to talk to the property owner. any lawyer should have told her that how everything went down was not legal – unless it didn’t actually go down like she says it did. and her explanation for why she didn’t ask for rl assistance is bogus as well – she made it sound as tho she was practically homeless, sleeping on a floor with her son. now its like “oh my situation isn’t that bad, so i couldnt qualify for assistance” when she apparently said that she didn’t want to ask for help because of her pride.

      whatever, glad i didn’t donate to her fat ass or buy anything at her event. i feel sorry for all the suckers who did, and for the creators who were volunteered to donate without even being asked when the event owners auctioned off blogger group invites.

      sorry, just annoyed by all these lazy ass people expecting everyone to pay their way all the time.

      • I agree totally and in some point i hope LL will keep the sl money how long they can

      • all of her pretend “grr im so mad at you guys for doing this but i love you hee hee” is hilarious too. *eyeroll*

        staaaaaahp! jk, send moneez now thanks..

    • still a fraud ! so no more 10 minutes to leave ? she/he has a rl job ? Where he/she is living now ? situation was not so desesperate ?!!

      • true and no talk of car issues so ‘i’m guessing not really just 1 bag was taken with uniforms and AUTISM papers.. i HATE when people add in the pity me, fucking words… cold floor/bronchitis…uniforms/autism… i’d personally like to just slap her. I hope someone is around her that has more sense and class because kids learn from what they know, its very sad very very sad.. and all she knows is how to bullshit people.

    • she wasnt literally on the streets??? lol which is what fundraisers are for.. Id like a bigger place myself.. im done with all of it and the sellers in the event. Use people to pay your bills??? If she works why hasnt she? and why is she not sueing the guy she gave her money to… the letter said the landlord was.. i dont believe any of it..at all. so cold floor with bronchitis wasnt real??? smmfh
      i guess we know why she couldnt get RL help.. because it was RL obvious she didnt need it.. what a scumbag

      • Well of course she “embellished” such things otherwise all those heartstrings wouldn’t be pulled. Any good Con Artist knows how to play the crowd and make them all go “Awwwes”. There is a Sucker born every minute and it usually takes being scammed big time for them to learn to check the facts before opening their wallets.

      • Yes for sure this person will not ask for money saying it is for her/his summer holidays….

      • LOL, actually by this point I wouldn’t be surprised if one of them was brazen enough to do just that

      • id have far more respect for someone saying i need a fundraiser because i want to get my nails done and with authentic Swarovski crystals instead of cheap imitation lmao as long as they didnt try to bullshit a bullshitter. She totally downplayed the situation that that website and i quote said was DIRE . smh and i find it super pathetic to pull the heart strings of the animal lovers too lol because a lot of those people are super passionate about those causes.. so that was all brought up too just to make her not look like a trash bag… #EPICFAIL

    • This is where the money is going by the way
      https://imgs.plurk.com/QuV/ohK/9QdtlcWxs3ngVR4923L5MCh6xOB_lg.png
      What are “back bills”? Also I don’t believe an attorney would talk to her if she had no money so she obviously had some extra cash or someone was able to lend her it. I think its pretty perfect that she can’t get the money out all at once. Drip drip drip, this is what you deserve.

      • I think it is for certain expenses not covered. Just today a friend told me oakley fattrot is going to have another pity party event for her. This is disgusting already.

      • Another event for her? She can’t even cash out the money she has now. They dumped the avatar on her with the $6k and let her fend for herself in getting it cashed out. LL is not raising her limit. Its going to take 3 months to get the money out.

      • omg@another 1…….. for what????????????????? she said herself it wasnt even as bad as she claimed or the site claimed..lol i think the IRS idea another poster originally had is a great idea now since she has a job and should be paying taxes (as she says) make sure she pays them ALL

      • Show us this conversation you had about a second event. I think we would all love to see it. Oh wait, you don’t have anything to show because it isn’t true LMAO.

      • back bills are like the fancy term for bitch dont pay her bills. lol i saw that on the site earlier and made myself log off. Thats a great picture for the IRS though.. so detailed.. smh

      • @bonbon i doubt she even talked to a lawyer because ur right they would definitely charge to decipher her bullshit story a job in itself.

      • Looks like funds raisings are the best business in sl …. ! free cash

      • @suchashame…..right? Why work hard creating when we could just sit back and throw a pity party for ourselves.

    • How embarassing it must be to have a lawyer to handle her online Game funds. You just know he is thinking..what a fucking lowlife!

  12. #29 – Did someone get a little cut… Just fucking tell her you dumb arse instead of putting this on here… Fuck some people are just attention whores… wait it looks like you were the whore in this case… my bad.

    • I don’t care who’s a whore or not, I wanna know what’s being said! – This is fucking interesting. I hope they post shit. If someone wants to ‘out someone’ or ‘throw them under the bus’ infront of everyone? What a fucking awesome way of doing it.

  13. As far as #13.. if you don’t like a product created, don’t buy it. Others may like it even if you don’t. It’s like going to a grocery store and demanding that something isn’t sold that you personally don’t like. Don’t like it, don’t buy it. Don’t tell people what to create. I actually like some of these signs in particular. They are cheap too. Stop worrying about it

  14. Normally I just ignore and scroll by the relationship drama ones, because that’s all it is… drama. I come on SL, trusting no one. You can’t see their real life, just like if you met them in a grocery store and started dating, you don’t know them. Why would you trust them on here? A lot of people are RP from the time they log on until they leave, they don’t expose themselves outside of it. Be less trusting and stop falling for a guy/girl over text so easily. I see it so often and then people complain about being lied to. Assume every story is a lie until you know facts. I learned from experience the first time, turned into an abusive online situation that would have likely become an offline RL abuse situation. Protect yourself, be logical, stop wanting this to be like the Bachelor. People lie, especially online.

  15. Wow, some sure got their panties in a twist this week. Suggestion for those that keep feeding into the dude and his drama is don’t just stop commenting and he will finally get the hint that whoever the hell he is no one cares but each time that you go on and on and on. Again Coffeebreak you need to switch to decaf as your responses are turning into mini-series. You keep saying you are not going to comment yet it is like a sharkfest with you. Some people cannot handle breakups and need to seek professional help as they get obsessed and just won’t let go at that point am surprised if all his friends have muted and blocked him.

    • It was never about breaking up. It was about her lies. People lie all the time but to lie about cancer should be a cardinal sin.

      • I know people on SL that have genuinely had cancer and an elderly cousin that had it, of which I took care of in her last days. One of the SL ones unfortunately died and the other survived it luckily. So I agree wholeheartedly, when someone fucking lies about cancer for attention in this case? It boils my blood. Fucking horrendous behaviour.

    • @Funnyface You might need to take your own advice here… You have made a whole new thread about the topic that he can air his stinky drama yet again on. I said I wasn’t going to comment/respond to Him that doesn’t mean I need to ignore everyone else as well. And, who drinks evil Decaf that stuff belongs in one place only….. the garbage!

  17. 42, Is it me or does Thalia and Brandon look eerily like Jessa Duggar and her husband Ben? Lol

  18. funny that plurk is dead silent about the whole vanity thing. no updates. no discussion of the valid questions that people are asking.

    the handwritten note from the landlord said notarized to follow, but nothing else posted about that.

    maybe these people just dont want to admit that they were suckers again?

    • Sure and the thing is those people are really good on manipulation to grab money… when they are hunting money they are so smart, sweet etccc with people, so so nice, with creators too , just adding people everywhere, and of course they avoid the noob ones, they are only attracted by nice avatars ^^ (because means people have money) . After awhile, they start to complain about shits in their lives, can be their health, can be dad or mom issues, can be childrens issues etc… And there starts the fund raising “project”. When they got the money , they forget their “friends” pretending they are busy, they are not online anymore 😉 maybe buying a sim or 2 in sl with another names or doing many another alts for free (with the money of fund raising) preparing already the next fund raising. They dont mind about frauds, because they are hidden behind false names and identities so… nothing to lose 🙂 and yes it is sad….

    • What gets me is that people approach some of these same brands for REAL fundraisers, to organizations that are well-rated on independent charity sites, organized by people who post their receipts and are completely transparent… And yet these GENUINE people can’t even get a reply, positive or negative. Even the ones that say they’ll get back to you, never do. And then they jump at stuff like the Vanity situation, get taken advantage of, and turn around and bitch about being taken advantage of. You could have prevented this by partnering with real charities instead of circle-jerking your friends!

      • I have stopped shopping at those stores and the ones that initiate these fundraisers because no one does their homework or research. They would rather believe all the lies and rationalizations that each person has given. Truly would have thought a couple of these bigger designers would take a moment and go huh but nope they just think with their egos and that everyone in SL is stupid.

    • You think? Sadly it will happen again and again like the energizer bunny and the designers will be bullied, shamed into participating because god forbid someone stands up to the bigger designers. It’s disgusting that people get away with this am thankfully got burned once to learn my lesson about personal fundraisers as they are absolutely nothing but scams. If the designers cannot manage their finances then stop and get a job outside the home that will make money and stop depending on the residents of SL to finance your business and life.

  19. #29 Next week better be good because now we’re expecting some juicy receipts from your former Zaddy Daddy.
    #06- Not body shaming at all but does her butt look SUPER big in that profile picture? Just me?
    #42- 5 months, 6 days, 10 hours, 9 minutes, 46 seconds
    #28- Hi loudmouth, glad you could join us in 2018

  20. #4 hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

    hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah

    the amount of bullshit people will believe is outrageous, let’s just throw the word “pedophile” out left and right shall we?

    “oh no! i can’t think of anything other than pedophile, that seems popular right?!” can’t hide your homophobia

    • Hahahahaha, it’s funny how you skipped over the part where his daughter has 3 avatars, and one of them is an adult who sucks on a binky, and carries around stuffed animals. Adult avatars need to stop doing that shit, it’s disgusting. Calling it homophobia, when really you’re just deflecting that you’re probably one of his kids, and not so anonymous.

      • One week we have an issue with child avatars. Now we have an issue with adult avatars who decide to be DDLGs DDLBs. Who cares if an adult wants to have a binky and carry around stuffed animals. How about we mind our own business and stop trying to dictate how people should be living their lives. It’s not harming anyone in or out of the relationship. She isn’t the first Little or Babygirl on the grid and she won’t be the last. In fact, most of the adult female population is in some sort of DDLG relationship.

      • Most Babygirls are fat wheezing housewives looking for some kind of daddy attention. Did you ever hear them on voice out at a store or whatnot? The attractive women in reals (are the ones who do not have to put out this little girl, let me walk around naked with my daddy and show my princess parts. )They usually have their real life picture in their profile and are girl next door gorgeous. Babygirls need to stop leaning on a daddy and go lose weight !!!

      • Funny thing,

        Those a lot of those girls next door gorgeous pictures you see in real life tabs, are usually stolen pictures. If they are real pictures, then there’s something else wrong with them that may not show in their appearance.

      • @TryMinding You’re quite the scholar… tell us a few more things we already know… and according to your logic most of those girls are…………… AARP Overgrown Babygirls (women). I don’t think i’ll ever be able to fully wrap my head around 40, 50, 60+ year old babygirls, and 40, 50, 60+ year old people playing kids in SL especially the ones that babytalk. People need medication.

      • @me I don’t get it either but at the end of the day it’s none of my business so I figure let them do what they want because it’s not like it effects me…. though the moment they try to Babytalk me that is where I a line and it’s an auto “Talk like the adult you really are or get the hell out of my IM box”… I have yet to meet one that didn’t say sorry and quickly change their way of speaking to me so I have no problems with any of them as long as that keeps up. Each to their own really.

      • i hear you @ coffeebreak i just added it in because automatically Trymindingurbusiness had to throw in if you’re pretty and on SL that u have issues.. lol we all have issues in 1 way or another.. some people handle them quietly other people join sl just for pity parties.. a few of them have fundraisers.. i guess its all in how u manage it

  21. #10 & #24

    Laughed like hell at how these were written. I know one of these people personally but lawd you cannot help but laugh at how these are just comical at the end of the day if they weren’t directed at anyone anyhow.

  22. #6- It’s kinds sad the person who made this is the same person who once claimed to be friends and love these two. You talk about them using people but who have they used?? Who cares what is going on with their RL as long as they are truthful with the people they believe need to know what’s going on it doesn’t matter. I’ve known these two almost a year now. And they’ve never used me. And has been nothing but honest. So why you sit here and try and dog people out. Let’s give a little insights. 1. You can’t let go of Jax, so you try and ruin everything for him. 2. Your so jealous of Lola and what she has, you try and make her look bad for everyone. When honey you are the one who can’t hit that X to save her rl marriage. You know the one where your husband is so unhappy with you that he broke his dick?! Or how about the nudes you are constantly sending and posting of yourself. Get a grip already be an adult and just move on. We all sit and laugh about your crazy behavior. I’ve never seen someone so miserable and unhappy. That you have to be so bitter. Skyler work on yourself already and turn off secondlife and get your real life together. The one you claim is so great!!!

  23. 12)
    https://virtual-secrets.com/virtual-secrets/virtual-secrets-week-505/#comment-17746

    Let me set the record straight about the whole finding out about her rl address because apparently shes been telling her friends thats stalking. She didn’t think it was stalking when that stuffed unicorn arrived at her house…because I bought it for her as a Christmas gift to help her sleep at night because she fell asleep on me one night and I could hear she was having trouble sleeping….she even posted a rl picture of her and it up on her fb sl profile tagging me in it saying she loved it….but now she thinks i was stalking? Thats what shes telling people now apparently. Thats what she made her friends think of me. This is BS.

    • Is it really that hard to ASK, instead of stalking? “I have a surprise for you,” so it’s not like you have to give away what it is. My friends do this all the time. It’s not the intention that people think is fucked up. It’s the methodology.

      • Considering I showed it to her on Amazon and told her I was getting it and sending it to her when she knew I already had her address, yeah no, that’s NOT stalking. This is why facts are important and rumors need to die.

    • You really love LAnce? Scale of 1 to 10?

      Is this more of a “lance is a great guy” love or you have romantic designs on the Fuck Me Daddy Daddy???

      • fuck no. lance fucking sucks
        I am trying to set him up with this girl I hate, she needs bad drama
        I WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN

      • The only drama I see comes from two faced anonymous salty bitches like you. I dare you to say that to Lance’s face or at FMD? Nope. No chance, pussy. :>

      • The *entire grid* except FMD thots and thirsties thinks you are all jokes. Seriously. You are the laughingstock of all of SL.

      • The most real statement about fmd. The place is populated with posers and alts of alts of alts just circle jerking each other constantly. It’s embarrassing to seen at that club.

      • I hear that jos starsmith his newly attained fuckboy friend likes putting plastic toys in his ass :O

  25. I personally find it amusing that people actually post to this site to. they must be really invested into secondlife XD . just heard about this site. and this website is full of losers and drama just like sl. so happy i quit sl 2 years ago. toxic people like all of you makes me stay away. but i will come to this site for a good laugh at all the people with no life . xxxxx

    • Hmmm–been two years? Not sure where you are mesh wise but you may need to get yourself a mesh bod and maybe a catwa head. Those are two must have upgrades. Don’t worry. you’ll be back inworld. Nipping around the fringes, dipping your toe back in the water is first step.

    • i doubt you just heard about this site js. u seem bitter for no reason lol

    • Being toxic about people being toxic. You are just as bad as the people you are looking down on

    • Welcome loser, glad you could finally make it to the party. You are now officially a drama whore and can have a good laugh at your own posts 😀

  26. @24: Not fooled! You did not even try OP! Come on, we all know that text must be unreadable, at least try asking your family doctor to write it.

    @36: That is rather hilarious as to me it is obvious as seems to be same guy in both just changed first name a bit.

    @37: From this angle, the guy just looks short and we do not know what is height of others. Someone said that LL considers kids as under 4″ (I am 4″2′ and almost 30 but that is spine issues. No one ever confused me with a kid and dude appears similar minus spine as hard to replicate in SL) but also shape would be looking a bit different if he were (unless his clothes are not fitmesh but I think those are). Not that there is lack of avatars looking like kids and doing very adult stuff.

  27. Number 41 is actually pretty hilarious if you ask me. I was never the one to honestly “praise” anybody on Second Life, but the fact that I see people do it is hilarious. I really don’t know the extent of Frankey and Anna’s relationship, however, I do know from what I’ve seen, the tea that has been spilt, holding onto that relationship just isn’t worth it. Be careful who you lay with honey, and the foundation you try to build with people, because what you’ve been doing in the dark with the person you claim you “love”, is the same man (or woman) showing all your “business” to his/her close people and we all know SL people can’t hold water. Don’t be Kanye in your Kardashian world.

  28. #6 – that was made by jax’s alt Skylar … who just so happened to make an alt called iseeyou65559 resident … she made a few others … but shes been harassing him ever since he broke up with her literally ages ago. im also one of his exes but you dont see me having a conniption. Skylar just doesnt like that jax has a different gf now… which btw… id love to see jax and lola throw up the pics that skylar sent jax of her windtunnel asshole and vagina.. that shit is blow out to the max.. oh and btw … skylar’s own rl man broke his dick because he was jacking off too much in their shed to avoid having sex with her .. she was the one who told people that btw lol

  29. #33 and 34 Ha ha ha couldn’t have happened to a nicer person … although she isn’t such a nice person. Let me remind myself of her advice to a friend of hers who had the same thing happen … oh yes, here it is … you can’t be friends with them if they come back, because they hurt you so badly.

    Let’s watch and see if he comes back … and if she can be friends with him, or was she just being hypocritical in giving that advice to her friend?

  30. 12) I was with her for a year and a half. We met on facebook and then met in world when I ran a club. We got along great and the first few months were perfect. We talked alot on Skype and voiced. We shared eachothers accounts. She sent me a bunch of pics of herself that turned out to be fake. When I confronted her about it, she apologized. She did it again a few weeks later and I finally made her send me rl pics of herself with my name written on her body as proof she was who said said she was. I suppose alot of you would call that “controlling”, huh?
    She also told me she didn’t have very many friends so I told her to make some. That she needed friends. I never once actually met any of the friends she had. She never brought them around. Never told me about them. She was always with me everywhere and I would not have minded if she told me she wanted to hang out with someone else or invite them over but it was never brought up. Ever. I guess she abandoned her friends while with me and blamed me for it.
    She threw a big hissy fit over one of my oldest friends in SL that I have known since my first days though because she thought I had feelings for her since we roleplayed a marriage years ago. She made me believe she would break up if I didn’t block that friend and remove her off my list…which I did. So all this talk about me being jealous is a lie.
    We had a family too after we became partnered. She became close to our daughter and we all had some great moments together in world and on voice in skype until one of my sl exes came around on her little and Monti got very mad at me when I considered that we should adopt her since she got along great with our daughter. I saw nothing wrong with it at the time but she did. I tried to discuss things with her and sort stuff out but she never wanted to talk about anything….which was her right to do so but on the flip side, not talking about problems can lead to bigger ones.
    Which lead to her talking to a “friend”…venting to him and apparently telling him secrets that only I told her because I trusted her at the time. He wanted her for himself so he told her alot of things and convinced her to break up with me and date him. One night in December of last year, she told me she loved me and we hung up like we did every single night. I had no clue what would happen next. Unknown to me, she blocked me on everything right after hanging up. Thats what I woke up to the next day. Our daughter was messaging me demanding to know why Monti had left the family without a word and expressing how deeply hurt she was because of it. I was both heartbroken and confused since I didn’t know what the hell was going on. This “friend” of hers sent me screenshots of her saying how she had left me and wanted him instead. I received messages how this “friend” had called me an abusive sickly f**k and how she agreed to it. This “friend” of hers also publicly exposed on facebook a secret about me that only Monti knew about. And even through all the emotional trauma I was enduring I still stupidly believed her when she told me she didn’t tell him and that he must have edited the screenshots he sent to me.
    After that, we tried to work things out while she told me she wanted me to apologize to our former daughter for what she did because she refused to do it herself. I found that to be wrong on all levels but she refused to even talk about it.
    Then she finally told me she had stage 4 ovarian cancer that had spread to her back and she was on home chemo treatments and given 12 weeks left to live. This was back in Jan/Feb of 2018. Yeah, I tried to make arrangements to go down and see her because I cared about her and wanted to support her but she would have non of it and I was told it was because she didn’t want me seeing her like that. I eventually respected her decision but still had some doubt in my head. She started telling me she loved me and that I already had her in real life meaning she wouldn’t be looking for anyone else. She went into the hospital some time later and thats when her cousin apparently took over her facebook and sl accounts (you’re all saying thats going to be against the TOS too, right?). Her cousin apparently pretended to be her which caused alot of confusion and when Monti finally got back home, she took her accounts back and eventually wrote on her facebook page detailing what happened with her cousin but also throwing in that she only came online to be with me (something I never told her to say).
    And yes, I gave her $40 because she couldn’t afford to pay for what she needed for her cancer. I did talk her into it but I didn’t do it for her. I did it so she could be with her rl family for a bit longer. Thats called doing whats right and having a big heart but having a big heart can also get you screwed over.

    The entire time we were together I was told by her how much she loved me and wanted me in real life. To someone who loved her back with everything he had, that meant only one thing. People must understand that. When someone says they want you in real life or already have you in real life, that can be viewed as dating in both sl and rl. Apparently I was wrong to believe that and she should have been more open and honest about what she wanted instead of leading me to believe something that ended up not being true.

    Ive done alot of screwed up things such as making alts and I admit to that, but what she did to someone who truly cared about her and spent money to help her is equally wrong. She never seemed to really appreciate the things I did for her and thats ok. But to lie about me to her friends, tell people things that I trusted her with….thats messed up.

    20) I didn’t send that in and honestly it just verifies my distrust for her. She was a nice person at first and I honestly don’t know what the hell happened but it just goes to show that no matter how long you “know” someone here, backstabbing is almost always going to happen. Everyone is just in it for themselves in SL. Thats how its always going to be.

    • You learned a big lesson in a hard way. Never think a relationship on SL is anything else but a game relation. Also, the hotter and sexier a woman sets up her avatar, the uglier she is in real life and Will send fake RL pics.

      • I guess the reason I’m so mad and stuck on all this is the fact she was with me when my rl aunt died of cancer last year. We voiced the whole time I was down there in FL for her funeral and I told her how I felt…my pain….everything. So when she told me she had cancer too I just wanted to be there for her so badly no matter what. I never wanted to believe someone could lie about cancer but thats what she put in my head and I could never really talk about it with her. The whole not knowing if it was true or not…its a horrible nightmarish feeling and nobody should be put through. But whats done is done…

      • Lying about cancer shows mental illness. No normal person with feelings would do such a horrid thing. You are better off without this pos. Learn from it and move on and find a Real woman who you have chemistry with outside of the game.

      • I need to rebuild my trust in people again before that ever happens. And that might take a seriously long, long time. I didn’t come here for pity. I came here to tell my side of the story since apparently everyone thinks of me as some control freak who pushed her friends away when that wasn’t the case at all.

      • Is that what you tell yourself because you can’t get an attractive woman in either world? Aww.

      • @stoptheLies…………….. Stop The Lies.. lol does your attractive woman know your on here crying about some other bitch for a whole week?

      • Yeah. She’s an actual cancer survivor. You can stop being a piece of shit now and quit supporting those who fake it.

    • You keep changing the story every time you tell it. Dude no one is going to feel sorry for you especially since you have been harassing her since you broke up with her and tried to get back with her and she told you no. As for you telling people she lied about her cancer the only so called proof you claim is that by your own admission is you stalk her through alts she has on her friends list and you know she’s online past 2 am. Just because someone is sick doesn’t mean they have to follow what you think they should do. She might be set as online but like I said before she is like tons of others who just stay logged in. So while you are over there throwing a tantrum and the oh woe is me blah blah blah crap just remember you could have left the relationship at anytime and it’s not her fault you can’t remember that second life is a computer game.

      • Um, my side has always remained the same without changes. Yes, I tried to get back with her after breaking up out of stupidity and she said she was willing to give me the benefit of the doubt and wanted to take a week long break. She didn’t tell you that, huh? She never said no.

        As for the stalking, we have already discussed that. You sound like a broken record.

        And even though Second Life is a computer game, just remember theres real people and real emotions behind the avatar. Thats not a right to go and mess with peoples emotions for whatever reason. Be honest because thats what people respect the most.

      • Why don’t you just leave her alone and move on? Oh she messed with your emotions? Secondlife is a role play game you forgot to not take it serious. As for you spreading this cheating stuff about her those are lies and who the hell would be ok with bringing an ex back even as a so called little? Have you not been following sl secrets? You also say she didn’t like one of your friends who who role played being married to once? At least you understood that was “roleplay”. You also say that she’s talking bad about you and all this other stuff where is your proof and where is your proof on everything else you have said? Let’s see some proof that’s not from your massive collection of alts or “friends”.

      • I have left her alone. And second life isn’t an excuse to be a twat. Its not an excuse to play games with people. Its not an excuse to lie about who you are. I was shown proof from josh about how she wanted her joker and crap. He sent me screenshots of their fb chat convos.

        As for the ex being a little…lets be real here. You and a bunch of others are saying its just a game, right? Its all roleplay, right? Then why would she be be mad at me if her feelings and love she kept telling me about were just confined to the game? Who cares if my ex was in little form? She got along great with our daughter and they are STILL really good friends.

        The proof is that theres a bunch of people calling me controlling. I mean, do you not read comments? YOU think I am controlling so how did you find that out? How did people find out I’m controlling and been saying I have been pushing her friends away and all that nonsense? That had to come from somewhere…SOMEONE…

      • @Enough Already Oh there is “proof”… If you scroll down I made a little compilation of all the times he’s admitted to stuff over the course of his numerous commentary when “trying” to defend himself.

      • https://virtual-secrets.com/virtual-secrets/virtual-secrets-week-505/#comment-17802
        You mean that?

        Why are you ignoring what I said about the tracker? There was no tracker. It was an online indicator.
        And about her password…ive already discussed that too. In my long post I said we had eachothers passwords when we first got together. I would log into her account after she fell asleep to do photos for flickr when it was up. At the time, she loved the pics I took and would surprise her with.

        You’re just picking and choosing what to believe and ignoring the actual facts. Youre choosing to believe one side. Thats fine, but dont come to me calling me a liar when you know nothing.

      • “Why are you ignoring what I said about the tracker? There was no tracker. It was an online indicator.” o.0 dude you are insane and sound paranoid my friend. if you need any of that stuff in a relationship you should seek help

      • sighs…again….I wasnt the one who chose to do that. I dont understand why people are missing this point. I never personally put a tracker or online indicator on her ever.

      • Yes that… Thank you for linking it now it’s much easier to find for those who didn’t see it … and oh yes later on it was decided it was stalking vs tracker which FYI is worse. And, as far as the password it was pointed out that she had every right to change it at any time and not give it to you so stop whining about that. And I’m not picking and choosing you are just “choosing” to admit to things that prove her side that is all. Though I’ll give you much clap and clappery for being tenacious… most by now would have chosen to be quiet and leave the conversation with at least a sliver of dignity.

      • Coffee Break
        “You can make the excuse that “you can’t control the actions of another” which is in some ways true because yes you can’t… but don’t use that to distance yourself from this because you are still just as guilty! if “your friend” had raped or murdered someone or did some other heinous act would you sit there and say “whelp I can’t control your actions” and still be their friend? I’m going to assume that would be a No and you would probably be more along the lines of “What you are doing is wrong I can not condone such things so therefor we can’t be friends anymore”. Now, you can argue that “stalking” isn’t as bad as that but *cough cough* stalking behavior leads to such things >.>”
        https://virtual-secrets.com/virtual-secrets/virtual-secrets-week-505/#comment-17840

        Did you really just attempt to link rape with an ONLINE ACTION (something no one can really control because its…ONLINE???” WOW!

        I never said I was still friends with them but you know what Amiec? Youre a real pos for even attempting to link rl rape with an online action. Rape can be stopped. Just wtf is someone supposed to do when another is using a online indicator on someone? Block them? Defriend them? Yeah, that will stop them from continuing to use it. You’re an idiot and what you just said is offensive af.

      • well touchie aren’t Yah! I used all those things, not just rape, as an example not to compare (though Stalkers are known to rape & murder their stalking victims which can start online so it’s not so far of a stretch). And BTW I’m not Amiec…. last I checked you were calling “Enough already” that and unlike you there is no multiple names 1 commenter here. Also, if you are no longer friends with the said stalker or probably your alt… why did you call them “a Friend”? All I said was you were condoning their actions by still being friends with them so you couldn’t remove yourself from their actions as you are an enabler.

        Now as much as I enjoy watching you deep throat that foot of yours and try to get the last word in I do have other things I want to do today. But, before I bid you adieu I would like to bestow some words of wisdom the pertains to you quite well by this point…. “If you don’t want to be perceived as a Fool, don’t open your mouth and remove all doubt.”

        As far as everyone else I’m sure later on I’ll be commenting on way more important matters like the Fundraising scandal and if not I’ll see you all same time, same place next week as I Lol with my coffee on what is the drama of the week! 😀

      • Because they were a friend at one point. I removed them days ago when they wouldn’t stop. And how would you know what “her side” is if she hasn’t talked about it? (from what others here have said). You’re honestly digging yourself a hole here.

      • omg hahaha- Coffee i am so blowing a load over here about you aiming to please!

      • lol but whyy? or do you just see ‘deep throat’ and snakrkle and chortle?

      • Woah coffee think you need to back off on this thread its like yikes maybe switching to tea might help ya

      • @FunnyFace Oh I know… it’s just that Psycho Douchebags are a pet peeve of mine and I let this particular one kinda get to me. Don’t worry though, I already switched to that tea yesterday and I’m no longer responding to him. I don’t really like that he brought out a nastier side of myself but it happens sometimes.

      • You let someone on the internet get to you? You mean real life emotions were actually involved?

      • @coffee…just ignore him…he clearly won’t shut up unless we all stop responding to him. But who knows…maybe he may continue the conversation by himself…lol

      • @Bluntasf Yep! I’m on that Ignore Train and sitting comfy there. If only the sounds of silence from him came true that would be awesome but oh well ignoring & scrolling past will just have to do.

      • lmao- diude you need to stfu and leave this guy alone….you have no idea what is going on

      • @ImWithYa… why don’t you stfu and go back to sucking his ass. He put his bs in here so he asked for it.

      • omg yur so BLUNT! asf! Now stfu and go back to sucking cock after your white knight bullshit….

      • @imwithya why are you so upset?? lol You’re taking it very personal.. thinks to myself you’re him.. work pc maybe?? so you dont get called out for more than 500 names?

      • Noo- same one 🙂 Lourdes will confirm- same email I always use, different than this dude ‘stopthelies’ you seem to dislike after Coffee sicked yur plurk ass on him….lol

        Lourdes, do most of these fucks come out of Plurk?

      • @Imwithya Sorry dear i dont have social media for a game.. You need to relax a bit and pay attention to crossing that imaginary street you’re crossing to avoid being laughed at by Blunt. You sound just like the other guy because both of you kumquats need confirmation for basic shit. and if you don’t know one another yet you should link up inworld and hang out and make excuses up with eachother and trade passwords

      • @imwithya ……lol sticks and stones bitch…though it really makes me laugh when someone has to use my name in the process of trying to insult me.
        You came in here on your own free will insulting someone in every comment. I love how you can dish it but can’t take it lol
        The butt-hurt is strong in this one….what’s the matter sweetie…did I hurt your precious feelings? Awwww….sorry, not sorry lol
        I call it like I see it….and you are either him or a buddy. Next time try not to be so transparent mmkay?

      • lol shut up bitch- not a friend, don’t even know him but I’ve seen your type before. Get back in your bitch cabal wth ya girlfranssss….oh myyy…..BLUNTASF- omggggg….see you walk down one side of a street, I cross over and tuck myballs BLUNTASF….

      • @imwithya….you do realize that you type like a complete retard and don’t make a whole lot of sense right? I mean were you trying to insult me through that gibberish or do you just like typing my name?
        You know what…never mind…I prefer to ignore those who are illiterate.
        Feel free to reply since I know your type always need to have the last say.

      • @Bluntasf I had to read what he said a few times to even understand just a little of what he said. He isn’t the sharpest tool in the shed so yeah not worth the effort to respond to. Really, who thinks it’s even “cool” to talk/type that way these days? I just don’t get it, but whatever it gave me a good chuckle at the stupidity.

      • What part didn’t you understand love? the word ‘cabal’? Cabal is a noun that describes a group of like minded individuals, what some may think of in conspiritorial terms. The rest of what i said was mock fear at Ms BluntAF, so much that i had to go to other side of street when i saw her walking towards me on same side of street. You understand a little better you fucking loser plurk/shit bitch? lol

      • Oh so you Are able to speak with some form of intellect! Good to know because I was starting to worry for you that your IQ score was under 50 if not well under 35. Though it’s still debatable if you are above 70 because really, you can’t come up with better insults than that? Either way I have better things to do than bother with you after this so good day.

      • Actually in high school I was tested twice – once at 142 and once at 161….

      • That explains how he/she was able to actually read and comprehend what I was saying and come to his/her own understanding of it. 161 is nice lol

      • @coffee…ya I had a good laugh too…but now it’s just old and stale lol

    • Wow are you trying to write a novel here?… My eyes kinda started to glass over by the 2nd paragraph and to be honest I’m really not interested in hearing your Loooooooonnnnngggggg sob story when you have already shown that you are full of it in your past comments today.

      • Really? Which comments are those? I would love to know. Why dont you post them.

      • Well that’s easy…. every time you open your mouth here so go back & look at every comment you have made & there you go. 😀

      • Lol, nonsense. My side has remained unchanged the entire time. Not my problem if you only want to believe one side of the whole thing. Kinda sad, though.

      • Oh but I have heard your side of the story over & over because you can’t seem to stop talking… And each time you do you seem to admit to one thing or another that was said by the other party and then dig that hole a little deeper by adding some more “less than classy” actions you have done… You made that bed so suck it up & lie in it!

      • Ok, Amiec. My side was posted. The whole thing you refuse to read. Maybe you should actually READ it before typing out another nonsense comment.

      • Oh I read maybe a sentence into it and then realized it is the same crap you have been changing for almost a week. And you only want people to believe your side even tho you said it wasn’t your problem if we only believed one side, yet here we are having to listen to your bs ever changing can’t keep a story straight story. Also what is up with you bringing random names into this like we know who you are talking about but seeing how you love alts we don’t know if these people are your alts too that you are using for your lies.

      • Really? You are “daring” me? How old are you? I don’t have to prove anything to you or show anything either you have been doing it all on your own stumbling over everything you have said and you just ignore key points. You are not the victim you are the idiot who just wont stop. You do realize all the people seeing your so called side are just seeing how much you are just making yourself look bad. It is like talking to a brick wall with you because you don’t see it, you need all these alts to stalk someone now you just made yourself look like the crazy psycho ex that people will want to avoid from now on.

      • Yeah, I’m daring you because I know you don’t have anything. I’m well aware youre just here to “defend” her and nothing else. Thats fine. I already admitted to creating alts. Go look up her name in sl and you’ll see them. I’m not hiding that. But the lies youve been spewing about me because youre too stupid to listen to anything else has to stop. Its obvious shes got you wrapped around her fingers so much you won’t even bother looking at the other side of this. I was just like you. Do not fall for her crap. Look at the whole picture, not just half of it.

      • I don’t suppose she ever told her friends how she hurt her own little daughter when she left? Did she ever talk about the pain and hurt she caused her? Probably not….because she didn’t care. Its all just a game right? Why should anybody be hurt by what people say and do to others in sl? Its just a f*cking game, right? None of her friends knew the pain she caused because her friends only knew the things that made her look good.

      • @all above: I do not even know who this girl is nor probably most people here besides someone who mentioned it. She did not leave her daughter behind but an online friend (or offline as well but I assume not due to her being yours) and probably due to the mess. Breakups are crap but no point in giving random internet people all the details on private matters and going “he said, she said”. But. If you do talk about a little kid like that – it does show you’re not best with roleplay and rl distinction. True – players can be close and am certain someone out there got adopted as an adult by some other sl player but in most cases it is not so. Just step back and hide internet connections for a week and have a break to go be sad or such.

      • Who plays avatars in sl? You’re all real people right? With feelings and emotions and sh*t like that, right? SL… RL… It doesn’t matter. If someone was your friend, whether adopted as a little or not, and you screwed them over in a bad way and never even apologized for it…they are gonna be hurt and just resent you because no matter how you look at it, there’s a human being behind every avatar. It doesn’t make what Monti did right. It makes her a really sh*tty person.

      • There’s this mentality in SL that the people behind avatars have no feelings at all and can be used and abused in every way at any time and monti is part of that mentality.

      • not everyone who logs in is looking for a rl commitment though. You said she lied about cancer or something did u ever think maybe she was trying to make you slow down? if knowing that was done and you kept on talking to her.. whos the crazy one? how far does someone have to go for you to give up? i mean not everyone in SL is looking for real life love.. and if things start to become overwhelming i can see someone being hurtful just to have you back off. (not you per say but anyone crossing the line) second life needs a box to check for rl or game… game or not i know you shouldnt treat people bad but if someone wanted my passwords and had online indicators on me i would tell them where to go and how to get there in the meanest way too.

      • lmao her little daughter thats prob like 40 a game daughter right? you people are sick.. sick. sick. sick!!!

      • Take a few deep breaths and say to yourself..
        Sl is a computer Game
        40 year olds are playing children
        You cant really have a relationship
        You cant be physical
        You are addicted and addicted bad to the game.
        You really need a break from the computer. Get a second job, get a hobby, just get on with life.

      • Ok only one person has me wrapped around their finger and it is not Monti. I do have my own mind and no we are not alike for one I know better then to fall into the Virtual World known as Second Life and two I am not stupid enough to stay with someone when obviously there were signs not to. There is no lies spewing from me, you are the one who is showing me how you really are and yes Monti is a friend of mine and I have known her longer then you have known her but I don’t involve myself in her personal stuff she tells me what she wants and I don’t push it. Through this whole ordeal the only thing she has even said about you was the fact you were harassing her with Alts and I told her to save every convo you sent her on all these alts and file a harassment report. Others have told me you started messaging them to warn them about her when you had no right to do so. You and only you have proven to me you are a psycho ex, not her not anyone else. You are just upset because she is done with your nonsense and frankly I don’t blame her one bit. You are the only one talking crap over and over.

      • “Others” have told you I messaged “them”? Thats funny because the only person I messaged was Ricky. Just him. Just one. So who are these “others” and can I see what “I” sent them?

      • There right there is the proof and this is the last time I am going to respond to you because you just proved that you indeed are digging yourself a hole and showing every one that you yourself are shady and salty.

      • Its not proof of anything. Yeah, I messaged Ricky. But just him. No idea who these “others” are you speak of. Theres no law against warning someone about someone else. I’m not afraid to admit to what ive done. But its alot of pent up emotions that no one seems to understand. I was betrayed by someone I actually loved in real life…was never told by her that her love was only confined in sl…and made to look like a controlling anti-friend bf. Yeah, I’m coming apart at the seams and I just do not care anymore. Maybe she shouldn’t be playing with people heads and try being truthful and honest about what she really wants from people.

      • You really need to let this go dude. You got used on a game, it happens. You seem like your whole life spins around this game though. Go on YouTube and look up second life game documentary by Yuta something..it is a documentary about how it ruins peoples real lives if you obsess on it. Second life should be like a break time. Log in, do what you want and log out. Focus on yourself and real life.

      • @enough already and coffee break- you two come off as complete bitches and need to run back into plurk and carry on with your silly selves and leave this guy alone. I’ve read through all of this and the guy has made good points and I can see where he comes from without sitting on some high and mighty toilet and letting the shit fly….

      • @ImWithYa…..hmmm are you him perhaps….or one of his buddies? Either way, you sound like him…blah blah blah…..lol

      • Did she ever want to hang out with you while she was with me? No idea who you are but I want to know where this lie originated from that I kept her from her friends and that I was controlling.

    • WHERE IS THAT SECRET FROM A FEW WEEKS AGO WHERE SOMEONE WAS SAYING THEY DONT DO SL RELATIONSHIPS AND YOU GUYS JUMPED DOWN THEIR THROAT?
      Yeah, because that is so relevant right now

    • Dude you just need to seriously move on ~ sorry you got dumped or dumped her or whatever, but gawd enough already just let it go. All you are doing is coming off as a stalker and a douche just leave it alone. This is SL we are talking about as breakups happen and people turned into assholes, but seriously seek counseling as you continue your rants about someone that has obviously moved on.

      • I dont care if shes moved on. I care more about the lies she been spreading about me for over a year. She didn’t ever want to discuss any of it for the whole time we were together so here we are. Yeah, getting together with her was the biggest mistake of my life but I want to know where this lie originated from about me pushing her friends away.

      • A vast HUGE majority of us reading have zero clue who you are- so let it go. Whatever lies your ex is or isn’t telling- because face it, how many fingers are in your drama pot at this point, adding to the mix- really has such little impact on your SL- those who are true friends will let it go as well. Those who don’t- do you really need them? Log off for a week or twelve. Come back and make a new set of friends and lay off the SL romance- it very rarely ends in a happy ever after, hopefully you’ve figured that out by now.

      • @stopthelies…I find it really sad that you are going to such lengths to defend yourself to a bunch of strangers…. say what you want but from just reading your comments…it is quite obvious that you are obsessed and maybe should consider getting professional help.
        No one here is siding with you… and you can explain your situation until you are blue in the face but it will not change anyone’s mind. You have said what you felt you needed to more than once…so as others have already said…move on and be done with it. The more you try to justify yourself the worse you look. Do yourself a favor and let it go.

    • You complain on SL, Facebook, and on here. Who knows what other social platform you are using to tell your story. Dude! Stop! What is with your need of trying to obtain sympathy? You need sympathy – okay. ‘Awww poor baby. You were done soooo badly. What a horrible person this chick is. I’m sooo sorry you had to go through this horrible situation, however will you recover from this? ‘…..do you feel better now? Can you stop now? You just make yourself seem pathetic. Your relationship is over. Deal with it. Just stop already.

      • @Poor you… Several of us have been trying to tell him the same thing. But, alas he’s on a personal mission to make everyone be on his side and he is like a pathetic dog with a bone about it all.

      • People are horrible on SL. The game really does bring out the worst in humanity. Its all about how much you can screw someone else over. That is what Second Life is. Yeah, she played me like a fool for well over a year. She lied about this and that and having cancer. She got her pity money and her SL life very well funded by me which is why she kept coming back, lol. But heres the thing, when you play with emotions…thats a whole different ballgame. Its alot harder to walk away from and simply forget. No, I don’t talk to her anymore and I’ve moved on. But if I can convince ONE decent guy to stay away from her I’ll be happy because honestly she doesnt deserve nice guys. She plays with emotions and hearts too much to deserve someone like that. Its just a game to her like it is to alot of people in SL. I’m hoping she changes, I really do. I put alot of my real life into her under false impressions she gave me. I don’t want someone else making that same mistake but if they do, they will learn the same way I did.

        I’m willing to bet the next guy she gets with though her cancer will conveniently and magically disappear until its needed again.

      • Karma will get her for faking cancer, but you have two choices the way I see it. If you want to stay on SL, mute and block and toss the bitch like a bad habit or 2, just leave the game for awhile. Guys will find out what a pathetic loser she is on their own, no need for you to warn them. Stop being a hotel and letting her live in your head rent free.

      • OMG, seriously you are still on this rant. Wow, you have some serious issues with letting go of people. Wish there was a mute/block but the best thing is to scroll past any comments you make from now on. Give it up already dude

      • Didn’t I just say I moved on? LOL. But OneNameOnly makes a fine point. Ive already blocked her on everything. Phone number blocked, skype blocked, discord blocked, sl blocked, facebook blocked. From a rl emotional standpoint, its hard to fully let go when you rl loved someone that much and for that long. That was a first for me so people have to understand that. Too many just think SL is a game where the end goal is how much you can screw another over. THAT mentality has to stop and sadly thats all she brings into every relationship she has ever had.

      • Drama drama drama! Clearly you have not moved on if you still sitting on this thread waiting to comment. If you had moved on you wouldn’t give a shit about what she does or who she does it with. You also wouldn’t keep feeding people who are clearly NOT on your side. Let the next dude she’s with deal with her, it’s not your place to ‘warn’ anyone. I think what your doing is actually keeping people away from you. She’ll find love, but all the chicks will stay away from you now that everyone knows that you act like a pathetic child when you get done wrong. Handle it like an adult.. Stop airing shit that don’t belong to you and get on with your life before you cause more unneeded drama.

      • I could care less whos on my side or hers. I could also care less if im screwing myself over in this and people stay away. Its just a game so why should I give a sh*t? She won’t find love. None of you who “play the game” even knows what that is. Especially her. Her “love” is pretty much getting into your wallet and telling you she has cancer so you give her more stuff out of sympathy. Telling you she wants rl and crap so you stick around. But hey, its just a game. xD

      • @funnyface….I can’t even make myself read anymore of his nonsense lol it’s like background noise….it’s there but you’re not really paying much attention to it.

      • @stopthelies…..all I read was blah blah blah. I didn’t even bother to finish reading because you’re a broken record now. Move. On.

      • @Bluntasf Oh he hasnt “moved on” cause he reported her MP gacha stuff

      • Uh, no I didn’t. I haven’t been on the MP in forever. You need to stop thinking that whenever something goes wrong it’s my fault.

      • Man, screw this. I haven’t bothered her or reported any of her stuff on the mp. You all think it’s me but it’s not. I don’t know who did but no, they shouldn’t do that unless they got an empty box or whatever. People report stuff on there all the time so why tf you think it’s me? Get over yourselves.

      • I understand why she got scared when a unicorn popped up at her house.. lol You are a few fries short of a happy meal buddy. I met someone inworld similar to the point i would feel sick when logging in because it was always something.. i agree with the other poster LET IT GO BRO.. the best way to show u dont care,… is by NOT CARING

      • She wasn’t scared. She got a Christmas gift she already knew was coming. If you’re friends with her on Facebook you would have seen the pic she posted of it. But go on, lie more.

      • i dont know either of you THANK GOD and i dont do sl facebook.. when im not inworld im back to my real self.. try it some time

      • @me LOL “a few fries short of a happy meal” that is a good way to put it! I think we all have met someone like him inworld because it’s very easy, specially if you don’t have your priorities straight, to get sucked in and let it consume your RL as well. I think he’s in massive denial about his addiction. He isn’t the 1st nor the last person to forget what is real and what isn’t. He will probably have to hit rock bottom before the realization really sinks in and the advice of taking a break from SL becomes understood.

        … oh wait according to Funnyface I’m not suppose to be commenting on anything; even your posts >.>. But to bad because I do what I want *sips on my caffeinated coffee* .

      • *sips on my caffeinated coffee*

        Well you know, when you literally make plans to meet in rl, that generally means youre dating in rl too and not just in sl. People just need to be more straightforward with their intentions but apparently thats a really hard thing to do. Most prefer to play head games and fake illnesses that people actually die from.

      • @Coffee…..yep I have met a couple men like him. They seem so nice at first and then you start seeing the nonsense. Long story short…..I made up excuses and other bs just to get away from them….and of course the stalking and drama followed…which resulted in them being blocked and reported by multiple people.
        Now I won’t even consider a relationship….just…fuck no.

      • You act as if women are innocent. Both men and women do it. She seemed nice at first too…

      • @stopthelies…..where in there do I say I am female? Nor do I say women are innocent. However, I have not met any women who have pulled that same shit….not saying it doesn’t happen but it hasn’t happened to me.

      • @Bluntasf Don’t blame you one bit, I got lucky with my SL significant other and how we are on the same page with everything and are all about making sure we stay that way. The Sad thing though is this doesn’t just happen in SL but in RL as well….

        (Sorry to any Guys/Gentlemen out there who were raised well and treat women with the upmost respect for what I’m about to say. Consider yourselves excluded and that I’m talking about the Bad Apples)

        ….The mentality that some men have for women is the reason many fear to walk alone at night; upset a male stranger or even the BF/Husband; change their mind when they want to, and in general have a backbone for their “No”. Why, because women can get stalked; beat up; raped (date rape included), and in general abused in one form or another by these guys. This is so common place and people ignore even the red flags because of this idea that “Boys will be Boys”. And then to make matters worse there is usually victim blaming/shaming if somebody speaks up.

        Nothing is going to change any time soon even though I wish it would… Women just have to be careful no matter where they are… including online!

        *side note- yes this can happen to guys, there are psycho chicks out there as well, but the majority who exhibit such behavior happen to be male

      • Wow, this is getting stupidly ridiculous. I’ve been mentally, emotionally, and even psychically abused by a rl ex. Yeah sure, men do it most but don’t ignore it when a woman does it. And that’s exactly what’s happening here. Whether it’s in sl or rl, it can have the same effect. That’s why I keep saying not to play with peoples emotions…leading them on, making them think something is real. Faking this or that for whatever reason. It’s a form of abuse. Especially to someone who’s already gone through it in real life.

        Just because it’s sl and a game does NOT make doing it an OK thing.

      • we know it doesn’t make it ok. But i guarentee you’ll be here until next Sunday complaining about her. You do the 1 thing that makes me cringe in a guy and its .. BITCH. You must have been like the woman in the relationship … a cry baby guy who has to cack like a chicken and i dont personally know any girls who like that shit.. to be honest thats as annoying as the cuckolding crew to me. just say no to whiney guys

      • ok ok pity party… next time i come to this site ill even bring you a balloon.

      • @stopthelies what you fail to realize is its YOU who made yourself look insane… we read YOUR words about passwords and NOT a tracker an “”online indicator”” .. you sounded crazy even before trying to make your point. You make a secret to trash someone shows your still acting INSANE.. and u came here using 500 names just proves u do it inworld. lol

      • @me….you forgot to mention the alts….but ya I agree with you on this….he made himself look crazy which caused a backlash. Sometimes it’s better to keep what you have to say to a minimum…get your point across and leave it at that.

      • @me So so true… Many of us would be way more inclined to believe his side (myself included) if he just acted like a normal person about it. Breakups suck but making all those alts to stalk and harass her then make an slsecret to publicly shame her because she changed her mind about meeting in RL and said “No”?

        I don’t care if he was at the airport with his bags packed and a non-refundable ticket in hand when she changed her mind because she has every right to do so at any time. It would suck big time and anyone would be irked to hell and back if that happened. But, normal people just don’t act the way he has been. Most would have been more along the lines of Damn that fucking sucks balls and then move on to find somebody who is more on the same page with what they want in a relationship.

        Many here are all up in my hair about how I’m siding with her about stuff and believing “lies” but that isn’t the case at all. She is far from innocent.. it takes two to tango; She should have done thing way differently also; but I have yet to witness her making a total ass of herself over all this.

        Usually I stay far away from this kind of drama because someones relationship woes has nothing to do with me… except for this one time, and why? Because I’ve dated his type once in SL many a year ago and by the end of it I was stalked & harassed so bad I had to change my RL address, phone#, email, the whole 9 yards. Even took an “extended vacation” from SL & almost had to get a RL restraining order to just get away from that Nut who did everything +some that this one is doing all because I wanted to breakup.

        So, to all those who think I need to shut up even with my comments to me & Bluntasf… I guess I just can’t because I know how scary & bad this situation can get! Nobody deserves to live in that kind of fear just because the other doesn’t want to let it go and move on like a reasonable adult.

    • 3 days later and this thread is still alive…*eye roll* I thought it was already decided this dude is psycho and he needed to stop? Don’t answer this… just this be the comment that kill the thread and stops the bitching.

  31. #42 if BT doesn t stop flirting with SidRiler i m sure crazy Thalia will have spat

  32. #37 Just… the level of betrayal – Secret Maker, you suck. Going to someone’s private birthday party just to take a pic to insult them on SL Secrets? I am not a fan of pedophilia but where’s the proof? Just leave these guys alone please. They are sweethearts.

    • check there FB pages / flickr. More than enough proof. U can stop sympathizing lol ! I wuldnt be shocked at all of secrets came out that there having 3-somes with there buddy Neil lmao! ! ! seriously though,,,,, id luv to take credit for these last few weeks but it seems like i have ppl doing the dirty work for me.lol ! !

      #MakeSLGreatAgain
      #DrainTheSLwamp

      • Well actually please do check their FB and flickr and while your at hit check their fashion blog that is on like 10 SL fashion feeds since Cedric blogs for like 5 sponsors. All your find are some really nice photography with the most scandalous of them being the 2 or 3 of them standing next to each other. Abel Resident is clearly a deranged poor fuck who can’t produce any proof whatever outside of empty baseless accusations and pics the he/she steals from peoples FB pages. There’s no scandal here, no violation of the TOS, nothing to see but some really nice photography so by all means please do check out their work, it’s very popular.

      • With ColbyDark it’s always jealousy of what families he hasn’t been allowed to troll yet. He has all these sick fantasies of what goes on, and he can’t stand not being included. You can never believe a word he says anyway. His whole existence is to mess with people and make “trollish or non valid” shit up. His words, not mine…

    • My opinion on this is simply this: Why target these two when there are a couple dozen kid couples on Facebook posting pictures together, nude or almost nude laying on one another on beaches? I’m calling serious jealousy here. Looking on their Facebooks I see them both as adults and kids. This pointing fingers week after week with no proof is getting annoying, post something juicy or gtfo.

  33. So, where are the true secrets, people ? I only read bullshit, complaints and some “see ! i am here, more you talk about me and more i am “famous” !” Come on ! tell us TRUE secrets

  34. # 46 Anyone who’s against her will be on her blacklist! Better you think twice about staying in her way or even say anything worse about her. Sofie finds ways to destroy you! Placing gossip around in sl about the worst you could ever imagine.

    • How can she destroy someone on a damn Game? Just mute and block dude.

      • Making up not existing alts, or existing alts and let other people think it’s true. Using her “voodoo” business to prove they are true. She gets over her sl business on our IP’s. That’s wonderful being private, just not to Linden and Voodoo/Sofie??

      • some people are just way too invested mentally i think. or just mental xD

  35. #29 Ohhh Lance’s “thirsty bitches” will now start spilling the T. #burn

    • They are trying to call him out for being a man whore… but being a side bitch would make herself a whore?

  36. #13 = Srsly tired of those, so i agree
    #17 = LOL
    #24 = Meh why the hell not LOL (sarcasmmm)
    #28 = i just LOL’d for no reason

    #32 = Okay now, don’t wait on someone to make you happy, i’ve been there tho i have some moments still. Make YOURSELF happy. You won’t be happy with someone else if you’re not happy with yourself. Again, i may sound wise but i make myself cry cuz i’m unhappy and still believing someone else will make me happy.

  37. #1 Someone has an Abel boner lol, the same person harassing Abel for years now. It’s getting old, move on. They’re happily married and share their real life.

    • Yeah, some salty person repeating the same stuff…. Abel Viagra is strong stuff. Noone believes this shit.

      • theres nothing to have to believe, ask her yourself. true its old, but so many peeps heard about this. its a sad shit when catfishes get protected, js

  38. Can we all just agree to STOP with the fucking fundraisers?
    After the whole olive situation I find it hard to trust anyone anymore.

    • i think it was only done for humour, it’s obviously not serious

      • I was referring to the actual fundraisers, not the secrets pertaining to them. 🙂

      • I’m apparently out of the loop… but whatever happened with the Olive/Rose situation? I never knew it was a scam.

        People still buy her stuff….

      • They raised 6k (I think?) For hospital bills and funeral costs for her mom that died but it turns out it was all already paid for and the money was just going to go into her personal savings for stuff like “driving school” and “car payments” but there hasn’t been any mention of that stuff since she snagged that money. She deleted her old plurk and made a new one because of the aftermath. P.s. she’s still plurking about needing more money through SL sales.

      • i agree@bonbon she most likely blew through it since she had a fatpack sale on seraphim pretty recently

      • She got what she wanted cash. All the rest was just to appease anyone that was still interested in where the money went. She will be heard again and again she will pull another sob story out of her ass and again the designers will forget and throw another fundraiser.

      • I have at a feeling people are done with her shit because she’s getting a lot less hug emotes posted in her Plurk responses (that’s how you can tell who will support your poor choices)

      • something in my mind right now : rose and jenni V can be the same person ?? (i mean same rl person behind diferent names) someone knows them in rl, voiced with them in sl ? I am really curious now

      • No, different people just the same manipulative scamming personality that thinks good hearted people of SL is their personal piggy bank to tap any time they feel like coming up with some sob story.

  39. #11 Millenials or “Generation Y”: People who are born between 1980 and 2000. So yes, it it possible to call yourself a “millenial” if you are around 38 years old.

      • That means if you are born before 1981, you are “Generation X” and after 1996 “Generation Z”. Ty for info. German Wikipedia should update then.

      • There is various cut off dates and the maximum brackets I seen were for 1975 to 1999. But … oh yes, a big one – that is only for US xD . Did hear it applied to UK few times by media but it never sticked while mainland’s media tend to use it for those born in late 90s and entering work force. Same thing can be said about any other generation because they share same labels and keep being redefined. Only “baby boomers” are easy as US was the only one with those. Most countries got chucked into more poverty thus no babies happened after WW2. UK had some name for same period but forgot.

        So … OP of 11 could be both right and wrong depending on location of the person. It’s all just media gibberish anyway.

    • People born in the late 70’s and early 80’s are a micro generation – Xennials. It’s possible to be 39-40 and be a Xennial.

  42. Millenials are people born from the early 80s to the early 2000s. Hate to break it to you, but the older millennials are approaching 40.

      • Now I am trying to remember when the breakout from using generation y as term happened (as yep – most grown up with that and the general trend for everyone is to say ‘but I am not Millenial!’).

        I cannot help but wonder what weird stereotype is behind eating washing detergent things but probably similar to ones about X and Y in mainland Europe. We were more hardcore! X ate window insulation because poor and lacking minerals while Y (*waves*) ate … wall concrete because overworked parents and poor and lacking minerals. Maybe Z evolved into “overworked parents, poor, lacking minerals and not having a house”. Not sure why we got changed to those weird Millenial things as avocado is not as badarse as walls! I hate avocado 🙁 .

    • Most people born in the early 80’s don’t self-define as millennial, because the term wasn’t around when they were teens and by the time you get to your thirties you don’t care about this crap. So yeah, somebody in their late thirties labeling themselves a millennial probably does have more in common with a teenager than the average person their age, but you can’t blame younger people for finding this slightly tragic.

    • Xennials are the ones close to 40, i know, i am one (sadly lol) [mix between millenials and generation X]

  43. Mornings All! Get your coffee & pastries ready lots to LOL over this week…

    1~ That is old news that Peach has been “outed” several times for years… my fav was the drama it cause what was 3 or 4 yrs ago.

    4~ Could you make your print any smaller & more boring? really, I tried reading that a couple of times and just couldn’t bring myself to finish either time.

    17 & 24~ Just too funny ROFL!!!

    21 & 37~ When are we all gonna learn that a short avi is just a short avi and not a child? Height is a preference not a requirement!

    38~ Oh Heaven forbid we use the freedom to be anything we want to be that SL offers… unless you are dating the person it’s nothing to concern yourself with… MALTs are perfectly acceptable specially for blogging.

    12 & 20~ Wow so much relationship drama this week! most I just mind my own business with because I really don’t care when it comes right down to it. But, these 2 about Monti I’ve been hearing much about this in the last week; and since the Ex (definite poster of 12) has been so “kind” to make such things fair game…. Story Time!

    From what I know…. the spurned Ex is throwing a hissy fit because he dumped her when she said No to them meeting in RL but when he wanted her back later she refused. So, he decided the only “logical” thing to do was make alt after alt (16 was the last time I heard the count) to harass all day and every day about how she was a bitch and has to give him the $40 that he sent her months ago when she didn’t even want the cash and tried to give it back several times. This guy is a “special cookie” from what I’ve seen… He even put a tracker on her before they were even dating because he wanted total control and she wasn’t allowed to hang out with her SL family even. To me, it’s like as soon as he sent her the $40 he assumed she was his personal 5 dollah Hooker who had to do whatever he said or else.
    as far as the #20 post don’t even know that that is talking about but assuming it’s made by the Ex as well, or one of his “friends” so whatever…. Hope you all enjoyed the extra info on some juicy drama of the week. 😀

    • There’s quite a difference between a “short avi” and being waist high on an average adult avi. Obviously this is true, or most adult sims would not have height requirements. In those cases, you’re either a child or a little person, and there are proportional differences to discern the two.

      • @me LOL nah i’m just fine commenting here on virtual-secrets

        @Be Less “whatever” as I’ve stated in comments other weeks I’m a proud short avi but never a child… and, I’m sorry but the only reason I’m considered short is because I choose to have a realistic height and not be 8ft fuck’n tall. This notion that people have to be giant sized is outdated stupidity!

      • This!! I’m 5’7 in world, and I only come up to waist height on quite a few male avi’s.. I’m not a child, and not a little person

      • I think most people forget that LL has a height standard, LL says if you are four foot or under you are considered to be a child avatar. This doesn’t include avatars like tinies or petites.

      • @ Observer Well that isn’t the prob here…. what is the prob is that people accuse others of being a child avi because they look short compared to those that are outrageously tall then in turn make an even more sinister accusations of things like pedophilia.

      • Some of the comments are mentioning that sims have height requirements, I simply pointed out that LL itself has a height requirement for adult and children avatars. Yes I agree people can’t tell the difference between small adult and child.

      • Hmm well good point then… It’s just a touchy subject because people take the height thing and then run with it like a pair of scissors.

      • Below four feet (on an actual prim height meter, not the ones that use your ‘eye level’ or agent height as measurement – using agent height will give you a lower number than you actually are) and not a chibi, petite, or other type is deemed a child avatar. I’ve been told by some that it’s under 5’4″ but no, it’s not.

        https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Shape-Tools/1835986 is a good kit to use for an accurate height measurement stand. Also damn good for proportions.

        My problem has always been that I prefer my adult avatars to be about 5’7″-5’10” and that’s a sure fire way to be called a kid next to these 8 foot glamazon/muscle men monsters. I do look tiny next to most men on SL as an adult avatar and I kind of find it funny all these secrets about “PEDO” due to height never ever address the fact that the dude is usually the one out of proportion.

      • Consedring that this SL user uses a tween body a nd is plasterd all ove r Meshmerized store, it’s clear he is a child.Stop sympathizing! He has a taller avatar and chose to to be a child this day and dance around with half naked men. U can stop now lol! ! !

      • @Abel considering you’re a salty slut, you’re the last one who should comment on kid stuff

      • @Abel Well considering the stupid “measurement” people use to decide what is a child avi that would make my RL body type considered a child based on them even though I’ve been an “Adult” for quite a long time… No I will not “Stop” Anything! Sorry, but Not Sorry… I will always fight for peoples right to be whatever they want to be in SL. Whether it be Size, Age, Gender, Species, and whatever else somebody’s imagination comes up with… It’s no ones business to tell anyone that they have to fit their personal standards! I find it more appalling that people go around SL like half dressed $5 street corner hookers and/or plaster their flicker with porn shots of their fugly avis. But, that is none of my business so I judge hard silently and let them do their thing while I do mine.

    • You need to get your story straight. She wasn’t dumped because she wouldn’t meet him in rl. She was dumped because he didn’t trust her. She would purposefully give him wrong passwords to her account and then get mad at him when he would confront her about it and get suspicious. They were together for over a year and during that time she said things like she loved him and wanted to meet him and just planted alot of stuff in his head that wasn’t true. That $40 he gave her was because she didn’t have money to cover stuff she was using for her so-called cancer. He never had a tracker on her while they were together either unless you’re talking about her giving him control of her collar. He wasn’t controlling at all. He was just fed a lot of BS and believed it.

      • why hello “the Ex”… I never said I had all the facts I said “From what I know….” but do go on and dig your hole deeper all that talk about wanting to have her passwords is a huge red flag that you are a Nut! She in no way needed to give you such info in fact it’s strongly advised against to do so by LL and anyone with 1/2 a brain would have done given you jack squat.

      • They actually gave eachother their passwords when they first started dating. He did pics on flickr with her until she started doing them herself. They had eachothers passwords for months….before she threw a hissy fit herself over him allowing an ex (who was in her little avi and playing with their daughter) to be considered for adoption into the family….all because shes super jealous herself. After that, did you know she cheated on him then left him and screwed over her own daughter in the process without any explanation and never apologized to her for it until months later when he had to tell her to do it? Yeah, she seems like a great person to be around…

      • I’m personally confused why this ‘he’ felt he had a right to her passwords at all. “She would purposefully give him wrong passwords to her account…” Hell, I would too. That’s no one’s business.

      • maybe because he already had it once before? Hell, he told her he wanted to do pics with her on flickr. She always fell asleep on him around 11 or so it made sense. But why give fake passwords to begin with? Why not just say not right now? Why be all shady about it?

      • i love when a “3rd person” is sooo involved in someone elses relationship.. lol it just SCREAMSSSSSSSSS ur 1 of them

      • @stopthelies but who the fuck is he to ask? its against TOS #1.. #2 if u dont trust someone THAT much u shouldnt be together. stop making excuses for people acting stupid.. i bet they are the AARP crowd too huh?

      • People saying its against TOS to share passwords are wrong. Its advised against but its NOT against the TOS.

        “Should you give another person access to your account, you do so at your own risk; that is, if you permit someone to access your account, you are responsible for what that individual does while using your account.”

      • @stopthelies so him or her?? whom are you? im going with him since ur so mad about the passwords

      • Wow, the mods here are biased af. Lets IGNORE the FACT that she GAVE him her pw at the beginning and that he HAD her pw for a long time until she CHEATED. Mods, you gonna post the facts or just the stuff you want people to see?

      • We post whatever people submit. No one submitted her side of the story. I have no horse in this race nor do I know the parties involved. I do find it amusing that the intricacies of their relationship is public knowledge.

      • @stopthelies are you the fly on the wall??? or a crab on the vag?? like c.mon now

      • The only time things don’t get posted right away in the comments are if you’re constantly changing your name and email address associated with the comments, then they go to Moderation for approval. If you post consistently, with the same name and email, they go through automatically.

        So perhaps if you want your comments to go through, stick with a name?

        (Full disclosure: Not a moderator here, so not making an accusation. Just… you know, common sense and stuff.)

        Edit: Also, the only time I’ve seen the original post be edited is if there are LEGITIMATE reasons to do so. Not, “Oh, someone in the comment section said that this insignificant person from a secret had this girl’s password to begin with, which has nothing to do with either of the secrets posted about her, and only shows up in the comment section, but let’s make an edit to toss that random bit of information in there.” Like… that makes zero sense, please take your meds.

      • Not entirely true. I have never changed my name or email address, it’s always been the same. One week I posted a comment, and after 24+ hours of the comment not going through, I assumed maybe I forgot to actually submit it. So I wrote another comment that was very similar, and a few hours later BOTH comments ended up getting posted at the same time*shrugs* Not sure why it took so long for either to go through, but it is what it is. Sometimes there is delay.

      • When you post and your comment is moderated there is a message that appears thats says “awaiting moderation”.

        It took so long because I didn’t check the queue. RL happens, I forget to check sometimes during the week.

      • Chris seriously how can you post that she kept giving you the wrong passwords an hour ago and now you are saying you had her “real” password at the beginning of it? The only person here that seems shady is you.

      • Early on in the relationship last year we had eachothers passwords. Later in the relationship just before she cheated and broke up the first time (also last year), she changed her password and didn’t tell me. She actually told me when I asked her about it that LL must have blocked my access to her account lol. This was all last year.

      • Well if that is true then she had every right to change her password at any time and not give it to you. And her coming up with some off hand excuse like that sounds reasonable as well since she probably didn’t want to have to deal with your confrontational controlling ass by telling you she just didn’t want you to have it

      • I wasn’t controlling at all. Thats another lie being told. Sure, she has every right to change her pw at any time for whatever reason she wants but she should have communicated better and not lie when I asked her about it. Lying ALWAYS makes situations worse. But this whole control thing….where are people getting this from? I never met her friends. Never talked to them. She told me she didn’t have very many friends and I was the one who told her to go and make friends so how is that controlling???

      • Since we were on the topic earlier of people ‘ignoring’ things, I have another issue with this story…

        Now, again, I don’t know either of you, so I’m going on what I’m reading. However, I have a deeply personal issue with someone who would go through the trouble of MAKING alts to harass/communicate with someone. It infuriates me.

        You’ve conveniently not addressed this point/accusation @stopthelies/@the real story/whoever-else-you-are…

      • Yes, I made alts. I admit to that. I was pissed and shouldnt have done that. I guess I wanted to let her know how I felt. I was wrong, ok? However, the other things such as putting a tracker on her was not me. Ive never put a tracker on her. I told some friends and they did all that and let me know her movements and who she was with and such even though I did tell them to stop and not do that. I cannot control what other people do.

      • Oh so you are admitting to things finally and one by one everything I heard & posted is coming out to be true in one form or another… So lets visit this tracker issue that you just stated she was in fact “tracked” whether it be by you personally or your “friends/alts/whoever” why didn’t you make sure to help her get it off then if you are innocent in this?

      • Its not that kind of tracker. Its an online/offline indicator. I saw what it was when he was sending me pics.

      • Oh ok let me rephrase that then… she was “Stalked” and you allowed your friend to be a stalker! Which I might add is illegal in both RL & SL >.>

      • I DID tell my buddy to stop but again, I can’t control what other people do. Got any suggestions other then saying, “just stop?”.

      • I don’t know if I can because I actually make a point to not associate with people who think that is OK so I’ve never had to be in that kind of situation.

      • Well, thats a good suggestion. Not associating with people like that. Point taken. But do not assume I “allowed” that to happen. Thats impossible as I’ll say it again…nobody can control the actions of another.

      • You can make the excuse that “you can’t control the actions of another” which is in some ways true because yes you can’t… but don’t use that to distance yourself from this because you are still just as guilty! if “your friend” had raped or murdered someone or did some other heinous act would you sit there and say “whelp I can’t control your actions” and still be their friend? I’m going to assume that would be a No and you would probably be more along the lines of “What you are doing is wrong I can not condone such things so therefor we can’t be friends anymore”. Now, you can argue that “stalking” isn’t as bad as that but *cough cough* stalking behavior leads to such things >.>

      • @stopthelies aka the real story aka whatever name you choose next…. stop changing your name maybe if you want your comments posted quicker… and really maybe just stop talking all you are doing is digging that hole nice and deep… oh wait keep going; watching you do this is amusing.

      • Seriously they are both stupid. She’s stupid for leading him on he’s stupid for stalking. She told him to delete all his female friends he’s ever liked or been around. He did the same to her. They are both toxic and full of shit. Let’s not play the pity party card. Both of you should log the fuck off and quit crying

      • Um, I never told her to delete anybody except for the one she cheated on me with. Josh.

      • @Oh stop lol… I have to admit you bring up a good point… personally I think they should have broken up ages ago. Them dating for a whole year wasn’t good for either party involved.

  44. For 12 & 20 Those were posted by her ex who has been stalking her since he broke up with her. He ended up making 20 alts to harass her even found a way to track her down and find out where she lived in sl. He is stuck in this delusional fantasy that he is the only one to have ever been through a breakup and it should be against the law how much “she hurt him”. He was with her for over a year and since that time he was extreamly jealous of any guy she talked to and he ended up keeping her from her friends and went all controlling crazy. He will not stop going around making all of these accusations and telling people anyone who will listen “how bad of a person she is”, while she is in the whatever mode and not really saying anything bad about him but he’s just afraid she will tell people all his dirty little secrets. Dear Chris get over yourself everyone has had enough of your whining let it go.

    • You know when you join a group it shows up in your profile automatically? Thats not exactly “tracking down”. Thats called bad timing. The whole jealousy thing is just not true. She alone decided to stop talking to them and hanging out with them once she hooked up with him. She actually made him remove and delete one of his closest friends hes known since his first days in SL all because they rp’d being married once. She was actually the overly jealous one and he lost friends because of her. It wasn’t there other way around.

      • You do realize you do keep digging a hole for yourself right? You just told everyone here you are stalking her, not to mention you are telling people she doesn’t have cancer because she stays up later at night then she did when she was with you, hate to break it to ya buddy but shes like tons of other people who fall asleep while still logged on. You just can’t accept the fact she doesn’t want you back, and no one blames her for that. You keep lying over and over, stumbling over your own words, changing your story constantly and the bit about her video Skyping with people is a lie. How about you tell everyone how you found her rl address without her telling you or the fact you kept pushing her to take the 40$ you kept sending her back through paypal and she never asked for it. Maybe you should also tell people about stalking her sl house and messaging everyone who goes over there to hang out “warning” them about her? If you arnt stalking her or “tracking her down” then tell me how would you know who has been to her sl house and who to message?

      • I really don’t even care anymore. I put everything I had left into her and was treated like crap for it the entire time. I stood up for her countless times but that means nothing. I only sent her $40 ONCE after I finally talked her into it. That money was to help save her life because I believed she had cancer. Maybe she does. Maybe she doesn’t. People will believe whatever they want, honestly. I told her a secret once and she told other people about it and it went public and I STILL was stupid enough to defend her through all that because I stupidly loved her. Its hard to let go when you love that hard. You wouldn’t understand that. Very few will. I didn’t post that video one, only the first one. Honestly, I no longer care if she did that or didn’t. I just want to set the record straight about everything once and for all. Stop the lies being told. I know she has been lying telling people I pushed her friends away when I never did. She did that to ME. Ask Chloe.

      • If you say you don’t care anymore why don’t you just move on and just stop. It’s always a he said she said thing when people break up no one is going to believe anything that’s said about it unless they know the parties involved personally. Just move on get over it and learn from it and stop harassing people about it.

      • Because its more the fact that shes been telling people that ive been controlling when I never was. Its the fact she shared personal info with others and those people ran their mouths publicly about it. How else would Josh know about certain things that only she knew? December of last year was absolute hell for me.

      • And must I remind you, Amiec, that also in December, she screwed over and hurt our little daughter very deeply and wanted me to apologize to our daughter FOR her because she refused to do it herself. You’re telling me Monti is innocent in all this? She’s not.

      • You apparently care a lot and you have yet to prove anything I’ve heard to be “Lies”. In fact you have admitted to some of the info I stated in my original post to be True! I’m sorry that you posted in virtual-secrets to gain public sympathy and all it did was backfire & make you look like a total Nutball. Even if I had heard nothing on this through out the week I would have known the moment I saw your “Secrets” that they were a bunch of horse shit like all the other “Oh woe is me, she/he hurt mah feels” secrets that come through here and get laughed at.

      • What proof do you want? You want the name of the little we had together that she screwed over and hurt? You want a screenshot of the $40 I sent to her to cover her cancer meds because I cared enough at the time to want her to live? You want screenshots of the stuff Josh sent me detailing how she cheated last year and and how he somehow knew the secret about me that only she knew about?

      • Lol, I don’t really need anymore proof… you already admitted to the following:

        1~ You only gave her the $40 of your own free will when you said “I only sent her $40 ONCE after I finally talked her into it. ”

        2~ You admitted to the Harassment with several Alts when you said “Yes, I made alts. I admit to that. I was pissed and shouldn’t have done that. I guess I wanted to let her know how I felt. I was wrong, ok?”

        3~ and in that same post you also admitted to a tracker being placed on her with this “Ive never put a tracker on her. I told some friends and they did all that and let me know her movements and who she was with and such…”

        Then.. to boot you have made comments about getting upset that she didn’t give you her real password like you were entitled to it… like with this little comment you made “She would purposefully give him wrong passwords to her account and then get mad at him when he would confront her about it and get suspicious.”

        So really the more you speak and the more you shoot yourself in the foot and prove you are just a controlling Ass. Anything you say at this point will mean nothing but more proof that you are a Nut so stop talking and move on.

      • I know nothing about trackers. In some of the pics I got sent there was an online indicator thing in the corner saying she was “online and here”. I dont think anything was “placed on her”.

        In all honesty, she could have just said no to the password instead of giving out a fake one while in the same breathe saying she loved me lol. That creates a lot of confusion and anxiety for someone who already suffers from anxiety. Seriously, whats so wrong about just being honest?

      • They are both stupid I wouldn’t feel sorry for either lol. By the way. He had another person stalk her and josh and cause issues. His name is Brute Bravitz. She lead him on and he stalked

      • Your next comment that ends up in moderation stays there. Pick one name and email and stick with it.

      • I’m so glad right about now that I’m much to lazy to change my name even from week to week Coffee Break suits me well enough 😀

      • No, he said he was gonna do it. I was the one accused of being the alt when it was actually him.

      • @Nerds I feel yah there but don’t bother he’s so determined to make everyone believe his side of the story he isn’t going to stop.

  45. Awww I love Giselle. Anyone who knows her, knows she is a real sweetheart. Also, aren’t models supposed to take pictures and be seen?

    • The problem with half of you people on SL is that you are coat tail riders – dick riders. Just because someone takes good azz photos don’t make them a good azz person. Half of Sl know she a damn witch. And she always giving good advice but dont’use the shit herself. She lost me and half of her family because she a bullshitter, fake and she think she god’s gift. But we know the TRUTH. Go sit your azz down! Damn fans. I am glad she was exposed for the filth she is. And I feel bad for that poor man she dated she ruined him and every other one she ever had. Know your facts! LET’S KEEP THE COMMENTS COMING!

      • WELL!
        Miss Madness,

        Sounds to me like you’re speaking of a relationship that went sour. These things happen after a breakup and sometimes it depends on who is more manipulative enough to make the other person seem like a horrible person.

        Yall got too much time on your hands for this mess. Did you make that secret? Arent you tired of the madness?

      • Oh yea I can for surely attest to the fact that Giselle thinks she’s something kind of special and feels like everyone should know who she is based on her pictures. She introduced herself to me by immediately showing me her photo link and I must say I was very unimpressed, not by the photos but how unhumble she was. I knew then that she felt like she was god’s gift to SL. Sorry sugar plum but not all of us feel the need to be a fan of you or fan around you for that matter. As far as that guy Naj she dated yea she openly dogged him saying how manipulative and narcissistic he was but what all did you do SIS??? Headwraps and bullshit zodiac signs don’t make you peaceful nor humble. Stop it with the bullshit because believe it or not there are those of us who see right through you.

      • Finally someone else who knows the truth about this back stabbing, self absorbed, fake woman. I thought she was classy and fashionable when I first met her but over time, I realized more: she’s manipulative, selfish and self-absorbed. Gi says what someone wants or needs to hear so she gets her way (free stuff such as jewelry, photos, modeling jobs and more.) Too many residents want their egos stroked and asses kissed so when she comes along, they gobble up every fake compliment and zodiac shit. She comes across sincere and genuine but do not fall for it. Her favorite targets are good photographers and top creators. She infiltrates their lives and keeps the bullshit flowing so she stays relevant in their circles. She even became friends with her kids’ friends because they’re the young, popular black creators, bloggers, photographers. We see you Boo Boo! When you call her out on her shit, she blocks you on facebook and makes a sub as if she handled you. Most of her minions are clueless about the awful person she really is because they’re star struck. Strip away the glamour, fake Queen mentality, Miss Cleo persona and you will find that hood chick who first logged into SL trying to find virtual fame by modeling. Her ex children, men and family can attest to the piece of work she is. She is also a demanding control freak to her men and when they don’t give in to the madness, she breaks up with them and runs their name through the mud. She calls them manipulative and abusive but she is the one. She needs her ego deflated and an entire humble pie.

      • What I have learned about the SL community is that the same people that praise you will be the same people that tear you down the next day when you get too “big” or too “popular” for them.

  46. Speaking of 24) anyone have updates on Vanity’s situation? Did Robeal ever successfully get in contact with the landlord? Thirsty for info…

    • #17 can be the face of the landlord if landlord exists (sarcasm again)

      • I chased George 3 times no response to my email. I am guessing he doesn’t have a clue what I am talking about so thinks I am spam or something ! At least I did the IRS report if nothing else she will have to pay her taxes.

    • thats what i came for lol real drama.. not who’s short and who’s a hoe wearing lingerie to the supermarket

  47. you see pedo everywhere, be cautious when even defamation, one day your site will be closed, Seems that the complaints accumulates against you

  48. Sips on my coffee as I read all these “Secrets” some made me chuckle like #17 ~ some am like don’t know and honestly don’t care. @Nerdferatu regarding the blogger comment you are so correct but explain how this blogger’s pics https://www.flickr.com/photos/143502532@N06/41551253442/in/photostream/ on Flickr get so many likes and views compared to this person https://www.flickr.com/photos/146629049@N03/40842510905/in/faves-115859236@N08/ if you spend time looking at the first person pics just astounds me and unless you have that many views and faves stores will just ignore you. Most of this week’s secrets made me chuckle, the other half again do not know nor do I care.

    • I’m a little too tired at the moment to fully analyze the differences between the two at the moment, but I’m going to hit on a couple things.

      First: Post Date. The first photo you posted was uploaded on the 20th, the second was uploaded the 27th. 1 week can make a bit of a difference for some people.

      Second: Followers. That first person you linked has 4,000 followers, whereas the second person has 270. The first person is also following ~4,600 people, so a lot of her followers might be follow-backs, but the second person is only following around ~280 so doesn’t have that opportunity. (I don’t agree with the follow for follow mentality, I’m just commenting on it as a possible contributor to the disparity.)

      Third: Groups. A lot of blogging is marketing, even on Flickr. The first photo you linked is posted in 53 different groups. So that means in addition to the 4,000+ followers she has, the photo is also being shown to the members of those 53 groups. Whereas the second photo you linked is in 0 groups. It’s really hard to get good work out there if the artist isn’t willing to put in the effort.

      Now, again, I’m not saying that the first photo is better than the second. Tbh, I’m not terribly thrilled with either of them for their own reasons, but a lot of Flickr is a numbers game now, unfortunately.

      Hope that helped.

      • Ok I used a bad example of that I apologize, my point was actually quality of the images along with the comments. There are so many better photographers that barely get any likes and yes they have a lot of followers and follow a lot of people yet again am not going to like every single image nor will I comment that something is gorgeous when it is ok nothing fantastic. Yet for some guess they will just like and say blah blah this and that so it gets returned. Sadly, it is just numbers and no one wants to be honest anymore.

      • Seconding all of what nerdferattu written plus it does not seem the second person is a blogger hence numbers would be different not due to quality but to first one it is a job while second has a different target (could have a working account so maybe this one is just personal). Any digital media related work is going to be based around promotion, seo and then finally the proper content. Also second person has a pretty adequate ratio which is good; while first one is also quite similar in that and not worse but completely different – she takes raw screenshots and apparently likes one windlight setting.

        You could compare people more similar to each other and it probably would give better data on that.

      • Maybe my point has missed the mark and again I apologize that I chose a bad example to try to make a statement. Yes, I am aware one is a blogger and maybe that was my mistake comparing blogger and non, So will stop as it is probably me that more bloggers tend to bust themselves getting faves, views etc and some who the image quality is far below theirs are off the charts. Shrugs and ends the discussion

    • i agree@funnyface plus a lot of bloggers like eachothers pics which is kind of pointless because they aint buying. i can name quite a few people who like everyones pic whether it an art pic or a toenail

      • @me i spilled my coffee with “i can name quite a few people who like everyones pic whether it an art pic or a toenail”

      • And your right @me, if you know a few of the bloggers and look at the quality a lot of their photography, is outstanding yet their ratings are low. Oh well things won’t change so accept and move on

  49. #10, Thank you to whoever wrote this. even on plurk Bunnzer/miyu is always seeking for attention and complaining how nobody cares for her and how depressed she is blah blah blah. stupid fame-seeking cunt

  50. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLL 41 tho
    Grabs popcorn because bih wheres da got damn lie ….. anna sis stop fuckn cryn over dis if she wanted ur miserable crybaby ass she wuldnt be in other bitches dms …. BUTTTTT bby u kno disssss

    • lolllllll sit your clown ass scared anonymous hiding behind ims because I’m a scared ass bitch down

      • I gots receipts for days bih ……… lets show anna …..or da timeline

      • show them must of had your tits out whose the real attention whore here?

    • If you know me so well you would know I get a kick out of all this so please if you are so generous go to the timeline and show all that you have and put on a show because I love that shit

    • Firstly, most people that know Frankey well enough, know that all these things that they said isn’t true. Secondly, idk why I’m getting involved in this post. No ones miserable here but the ones hiding behind the secrets and/or posts. Post what you want, or what you think you may have. We’re honestly not bothered.

      • ANNA PLEASE STOP COMING TO DEFEND THE SAME MF YOU BE CRYING OVER! Every damn month and week you talking bout leaving SL and jumping over a cliff because Frankey be fucking w you. You so damn weak and sad. You defending someone yet yall ain’t married? What happen to the wedding? This is sooooooooooo entertaining! Look at the lovers defend each other. Yall ain’t even public and you saying WE. LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Frankey wassup w dat Poly?

      • LOL thanks for chiming in had you read the comments you would know that shit was a joke sit down

      • You clearly dont know him well because you shoulld’ve known that you alone wouldn’t be enough. How is it that you cry about her but turn around and have her back, then turn back around and bitch. You guys are starting to look like the same person. Frankey is this your alt hunnnnnn??? Hmmmm

      • it’s amazing how everyone has a anonymous voice about someone elses relationship lol

      • When couples like these are hashtagged relationship goals.. what a joke… a damn mess

      • who hashtagged us relationship goals? i’m not even sure why our relationship is being watched like a episode of love and hip hop

      • Because you broadcast it as if y’all are some sort of celebs. The drama between you both is questionable and calculated. Fram matchings stores, poses, etc. Hell the bitch just started changing that tired ass wig. Jesus Christ

      • say it again. They get all upset yet they advertise the shit on the daily, what did they expect!?! As for hiding.. no one has time for your mindless sheep to come forth and swarm. lol nobody gots time for that.

      • I know there is some prim butt hair on the MP, but a whole Ass Wig too!

      • You scary ass bitches. Whos the miserable ones sat here all anonymous, trying to have their say, assuming about something they nothing about. Put up your real name, stop the hiding, then try again 🙂

      • @kesseret I 2nd that… my god I can barely understand a word of all this “Lingo”!

      • and you sound just like Frankey when you’re upset. Alt life drama FOH

    • This whole comment thread is pathetic and sad I’m not sure why Anna and Frankey is even entertaining people hiding behind made up names judging them off of facebook posts.

    • FFS…do either of you even know how to speak english? You both sound ignorant as hell!

  53. Looks like I got here early. Let’s pass around the popcorn and the tequila and get started…

    1. I’m starting to get sick of secrets with ‘serious’ accusations without proof. It’s getting old and taking up secret space from what we all come here for… the stupid, pointless drama.

    2 & 3. Serendipity is not a creative name in the slightest. In fact, a simple group search will show you a mall, at least one brand, a few family groups, a rp sim… it’s not creative. That said, I don’t know the restaurant or the wedding person, and I can’t be fucked to research them.

    4. Don’t know them, don’t care.

    5. Disturbing, yes… but report the listings, don’t waste SL secret space with it.

    6. Don’t know them, don’t care.

    7. Again, disturbing. But DO SOMETHING that amounts to something. Report it, report the avatar. Make a difference about it if you’re that concerned.

    8. This isn’t my particular rp genre, however I know this person through a couple friends. She didn’t strike me as a raging psycho, but she’s also got some jealousy/insecurity issues, so it wouldn’t shock me if her sim issues stemmed from these.

    9 & 10. Don’t know them, don’t care.

    11. No one knows what a millennial is anymore.

    12 & 20. Don’t know them, don’t care. (Sensing a theme, yet?)

    13. There are a few brands that do this constantly, that irritate me to no end. So I get this person’s gripe.

    14. ME TOO.

    15. Let people throw money at what they want to. They’ll realize their own mistakes soon enough.

    16. Oh look! Something positive. Someone bookmark it before it goes away.

    17. Same, some days.

    18. Kink-shaming isn’t a good color on you, secret-submitter. Neither is BRIGHT FUCKING BLUE text.

    19 & 22 & 44. So here’s the thing about Broderick. Broderick is a professional con artist in the worst way. Based on my own personal experiences, he’s a master manipulator and loves leading women on, because he’s got this f.o.m.o with any woman he has even an inkling of chemistry with. He won’t let anyone disclose their relationship publicly, because of course he doesn’t want the other women to find out about each other until he makes some kind of decision, which will often take him months, sometimes years. And when he does finally out that one relationship that he manages to pick, he will not only turn your own feelings around on you and try to make YOU feel like you’re the one that misread everything between the two of you, but he then tells the girl that he’s with that you (and any other girl that he spoke to) is crazy, so that whether or not they were or are your friend, they won’t believe you. Which in turn, makes you come across as crazy when you’re simply being honest with your friend. I ASKED him, several times during the months that we were ‘talking’, if he and my friend were involved, and most of the time he dodged the question completely, but several times he did outright deny it. Until they finally came out, and then it was, “Oh yeah, we’ve been together for awhile.” So, while it’s not exactly the most mature thing to be friends and then not be friends over a man… as someone who lost a friendship with a good person over this same man because of his manipulative ways, and then regained it later after we were both free of him, I can personally see how these women would find each other again. Especially to commiserate after the bullshit that he puts them through.

    21. Height alone does not dictate the age that an avatar is portraying. I can’t see this person from the front, so I can’t see the full on shape, but if she’s got womanly hips, then I would be more inclined to believe she is an adult. A disturbingly young looking adult, yes, an I wouldn’t make my avatar look like that personally. But we can’t just be like “This person is short! They’re a child!”

    23. I won’t buy a shape without a demo, but I also understand those who are wary about it. It’s very easy to copy shapes. I won’t even go into pricing of shapes cause I don’t have the energy to bother.

    24. Lmao. Just… lmao.

    25. Don’t know them, don’t care.

    26. Truest thing on this week so far.

    27. This too.

    28. Not quite. Nice try, though.

    29. This Lance drama just keeps getting better! Let us refill the popcorn.

    30. Unfortunately, being a blogger trusted by larger brands nowadays is about how many views and faves you get on Flickr, and how pretty and/or realistic your photos look. Integrity is considered in so few cases nowadays it’s sad.

    31. This is a slippery slope in using things as ‘transformative’ pieces, and whether or not the original artists think enough to copyright their original works. Unfortunately, not everyone is as informed as all these keyboard lawyers that show up on SL Secrets submissions.

    32. TL;DR

    33. I don’t think everyone knows it, cause I don’t know who you’re talking about.

    34. Don’t know him, don’t care.

    35. Don’t know her, don’t care… but just as an fyi, to call her out for slut-shaming and then slut shame her is a level of irony that makes me laugh.

    36. They look almost exactly the same. If anyone didn’t know they were alts, they need glasses.

    37. Don’t know them, don’t care.

    38. Having a male persona to blog with isn’t a crime. Many bloggers do it to make them more marketable to brands. Also, see above for my comments on Broderick and his exes. This particular woman is an amazing person, knowing her personally. Do you really have nothing else better to do than try to shame someone based on what they do with their blog?

    39. Don’t know them don’t care.

    40. SL Secrets being used for personal, petty drama? Say it ain’t so! At least show us who it is. Jesus. SL Secrets 101.

    41. Frankey is the opposite of most of these things. If you don’t think so, you’ve probably crossed him and earned whatever ass beating you got.

    42. Why do we care about everyone else’s relationships? Can’t we just focus on our own?

    43. Oh look, more people taking inspiration for their SL items from RL clothing. Shock and awe!

    45. Know her, but still don’t care.

    46. Don’t know her, don’t care.

    • Reporting does nothing. I’ve reported many listing to see them still be up months afterwards. LL doesn’t care one bit.

      • But do you really think posting it here on SL Secrets does anything either? We literally come here to laugh, not to take up our next cause…

    • #1 is true she got busted years ago wonder if she did it again. Pple never learn

    • Thank you for your views on Broderick. More people should be warned about him and stop supporting his degenerate practices. He is someone no one should invest time in because it’s more about an angle(that benefits his own visibility) than building anything of substance. I think a lot of us have watched him maneuver through and discard women quite a lot over the past several years he’s been on the grid. He gives a bad name to decent men out there (both online and offline) and I seriously hope this will help stop his cycle. I commend the women for showing that maturity means being able to not hate because they’re “not supposed to get along”. You have to wonder how bad it must have been if this collaboration even had to take place. I would hazard a guess that Broderick was behind the posts here anyway- that seems to be more his style, perhaps. Just throwing that out there.

      It’s pretty disgusting when someone feels the need to manipulate people into thinking that they’re the problem. It’s abusive. I really hope anyone involved with him now cuts their losses before too much damage is done. That “gentleman” facade is just that; just another misogynist that hates his wife and RL in a suit…..then finds someone pretty to be the face of his next failed venture.

      I’m sorry you had to experience that. I hope no one else will have to.

      • I’m not aware of the whole story surrounding Broderick but I found it interesting that Adalynne Romero is telling people how to behave when her SL partner is a married guy with kids who plays around with her when he’s not truck driving.

      • Whether or not that’s true is not something I can speak on because I don’t know her personally (and I assume you do if you felt the need to share that). However, that is not something I’d be concerned about versus a sociopath that I’ve personally watched wreck people for sport and then try to convince everyone else is the problem. People like that need to stay offline and stop breaking people out of boredom or the need for attention. And anyone defending Broderick is questionable anyway. He’s suddenly best friends with an aunt that he shamelessly went around bashing because she was talking badly about him to everyone and showed people her conversations to in order to make her look irrational? I don’t even know the parties involved but I found it interesting that those screenshots from Facebook are gaining traction again.

        What people do in their personal time is fine, but when they are leaking that mess to the public, the public is going to speak on it. I can only hope that more women speak up about it so he can’t keep up this nasty ladder-climbing act he does. The things I saw him saying were horrific….yet they’re defending him like he’s a saint. There isn’t anyone, spare a couple of other more docile family members, that he hasn’t spoken ill about- including his brother-in-law. He has no moral compass.

        If people want to get upset that the truth is starting to get out about someone who needs to come with a warning label, so be it. I will make sure no one I know ever gets in his grasp. I can’t watch another friend fall victim to his BS act and if he wants to really keep siccing his “hounds” on these women, I’m sure all his secrets are about to come out in a way he can’t defend anymore.

        I’ll enjoy the show. It blows the mind that so much drama stemmed from a picture and looking at them I cannot see where there was ever any mention of him. Doesn’t it raise eyebrows as well that so many people assumed it was a) about Broderick and b) indicative of there being a body? Maybe I interpreted it in another way because it’s not so unfathomable for mature people to genuinely get along, even if it’s over someone who apparently screwed them all over. The number of people who found it funny also made me realize that he’s not well-received at all. His name was never brought up. Is he that vain or that notorious?

        Deva and company need to take a seat and realize he’s just as shady with them too when they’re not looking. Again- I personally have seen this and cannot wait for those screenshots to come out so there’s no hiding behind this “I’m the good guy in the situation” act he has going on. Is he still leveraging his “heart condition” for his nasty behavior too?

        Ena, you’re going to remember this moment in time because if there was ever a red flag to tell you to run, this is it. Please don’t allow yourself to become part of this trainwreck. He’s charming, he is considerate and he can be sweet, but that is one seriously fucked up human being that will trash you as soon as your purpose has run out or you get “too busy” for his constant need for attention. I don’t know you, but I want you to really think about this one because it’s not us against Broderick for giggles….it’s us warning the public about him now because he has done some serious damage and manipulated people for his own gains. You were a move to hurt other people as well- you just won’t realize how deep it was until it’s too late. Listen to these people’s stories and take caution. You would be sick if you saw how he speaks when he’s not “playing” the gentleman he’s really not. This isn’t supposed to be a Bonnie & Clyde situation. Be safe and protect yourself. I’m sure his “proposal” is forthcoming in an effort to cling to what’ll likely be his last option in this cycle of abuse.

        Best of luck to you. I’ll pray for you especially. Find someone who can actually voice on the regular.

      • My situation with Broderick wasn’t even the worst of it. See, I was simply one of the ones he keeps quiet about until he decides what he wants, and he wanted one of the ladies in the picture. It’s like some fucked up version of The Bachelor, but none of know what’s actually going on until he comes out publicly with someone and you do the timeline in your head and realize what happened

        But by that point he’s already been diligent in his efforts to discredit anything you could say. Because he’s as cunning and manipulative as he is fake and charismatic.

        Ena, please see this for what it is. Look into your own relationship and see the similarities to what we’re showing you. A tiger doesn’t change his stripes… And you also know what they say about the past: those who do not know it are doomed to repeat it.

        You know it now. It’s up to you if you want to repeat it.

      • I’m so sorry that anyone had to get pulled into that cycle. I’m glad you were one of the ones that fared better. I really hope Ena understands that we’re not even involved in the OP that started this discussion…..it speaks volumes. He’s mastered the art of covering his tracks before you realize that there is even a problem. My suspicion is that his decision to pursue her was motivated by the desire to retaliate in a really disgusting manner.

        Ena, you’re a smart woman from what I’ve learned about you. You are clearly creative and lovely. But please take some time to process what’s being shared. You’re almost lucky to be privy to a lot of experience that can be shared from past “conquests” with a master manipulator. It’s really not worth it if you don’t want to be hurt and lose face in the end.

        There’s what’s being portrayed by him, and then there are the experiences others have had. I wish I could speak to you directly, but once he figures out who I am he’ll retaliate against me too. I don’t need any more angst and drama from him.

      • I do not understand all this going on about a guy on a damn video game!! If you want nothing to do with him, block him and move on. This is not the first or last player on second life. MANY men do this. Thats why you stay as friends, not some husband wife aunt uncle and so on. Warn this new woman all you want, but she will choose herself what to do.

  54. #33 – ooohh
    #34 – link the new flick… we wanna see 🙂
    #42 – grabs popcorn..
    #46 – this heifer. Fake a hell. Can someone tell me where the hell she came from. She’s an alt who for sure couldn’t fit in the first time around and came back. Aiming to a specific group of flickr individuals. Have ya not figured that out… Hand-me-down Bridgette wannabe. Low-key IIzo isn’t the only low-key.. how’s Diego?

    • Sofie is just another alt that the blackmilkers Ines and Bridget send out. They send out alts to spy on people… this is common knowledge. She came out of no where and suddenly all over this groups lame cliques and in their photos. Talks shit about Ines and Bridget to keep you from realizing she’s one of them and sharing over info. Beware of that group of people

      • ^makes great sense. wondered where the hell she came from out of no where

  55. @#24, The fact that someone even took the time to write that whole thing out is just sad.

  57. #29 yeah keep making Lance famous you crazy obsessed thirsty bitches lmao

    • Exactly! My guess is it’s some salivating skank who saw his box empty and wanted to try and get in with the owner, but got rejected. Seriously, go and get yourself a life..and no..SL isn’t a life

    • Lance is famous? What BS my friend- Lance is pitiful and so are the dumb ass 30sum yr old womens tryna get their cool back and slob on his knob….

      • Funny how you’d bash him but somehow jump to comment on anything related to Lance? hmmm. Another rejected thirsty ho? or did he ban your ass from FMD? maybe both *shrugs*

      • @ImWithYa….I’m guessing you are in your 20’s or younger? When I was your age I was out RL doing some “COOL” things, not sat home living in SL, judging people who are older and were more than likely ten times cooler than you will ever be, in your 20’s, 30’s, 40’s and so on. I hate to burst your bubble but being in your 20’s/ younger, in SL does not make you cool, the good news is that when you hit 30, you won’t need to get your “cool” back, at FMD or any SL club unfortunate to have you as a member, see, you never were cool in the first place. Now stfu, log out and go share screen shots of your avi being cool in SL with some RL strangers and see how cool they think your 20 something ass is…weirdo.

      • Another big factor, these Cool 20 somethings sitting doing SL all day are probably obese, which could be a big reason why they can not live a real life. The technology addiction esp in the US, has made more and more people growing up obese. That is why it is dangerous to be on SL such long hours.

      • Gosh I hit on some nervesss lol…naw, wrong on most counts. Go back to the cock slobber love : )

    • The part of the Lance thing that got to me was go look at the one from last week (I think?)… The screenshot of the profile has the “add friend” button greyed out.

      So either someone is trying to promote him and FMD, or it’s just another scared bitch on his friends list hiding behind the anonymity of SL Secrets.

  58. #17. LOL thats a good one!
    #18. Hold on folks….. Leave Jeff alone he is a great person!

    • His balls are in his chick’s purse, so just stop trying to leave her.

    • I was shown the blog that his former partner sofia diage posted. This “great person” has been using virtual-secrets to anonymously grief many of his former X’s. Such a great guy.

    • He’s not a good person at all. He’s manipulative, a liar, a cheat, and he’s not worth a damn. Hopefully, he scurries back under whatever rock he slithered out from.

    • All the thumbs down I got on this tells me one thing…. There are a lot of Jelly Ho-Nuts that are Photographer Groupies that are jealous they can’t have him. LMAO!!!!

      • Before you start with the name calling.. consider this… anyone who lies about real life issues to ghost someone is not a good person. Someone who uses another person to get back at his ex is not a good person. It isn’t a matter of being jealous.

      • I don’t know him from adam, but a brief SL search and looking at his profile picture, there’s nothing to be a ‘groupie’ of. If his work is so amazing that people would be jealous they can’t have him, please link it so I can stand corrected.

    • talktothehand (aka jeff goodnight) – Any desperate woman that still would be with you deserves all the cheating, lying, manipulation, abuse and virtual-secrets griefing that you will do to them eventually. They should also disinfect that horrid tiny cock of yours.

    • He’s on his 3rd RL marriage but comes into SL giving the illusion he’s a big shot because he does photos and a blog in SL. I recall him having 3 extravagant weddings in sl within just a matter of months. Wish the silly, desperate women would open their eyes.

    • jeff goodnight is one of the most talked about losers in SL. Linden Labs has made a fortune for his constant partnering and unpartnering. SL mirrors RL with this dickhead.

    • Jeff you are a submissive cuckhold who is deeply attracted to other men. Embrace it! There is nothing wrong with that but it’s not fair the way you bait and then switch to women. Just go to the cuckhold clubs and you will find other men and women with the same desires.

      • Your next comment that ends up in moderation stays there. Pick one name and email and stick with it.

      • That right there speaks volumes. Commenter’s a little salty.

    • Can you believe those two idiots are back together again? How many times is it now? We all know it’s just a matter of time before he does the same stuff and she gets mad and then decides to write Part 3 of the blog telling all his secrets. Should we feel sorry for her? I don’t. By her partnering him again, it makes her look like a liar to everyone who read that blog and he is probably sitting back and very smug.

    • Giggles to myself at all the people responding to this and thinking that I am Jeff LOLOL. Last I checked, someones SL is THEIR SL and not anyone elses. No really I am not Jeff. I can appreciate other bloggers and photographers. I schmooze with the best of them. Hell I am one of the best of them. Been blogging for 10 yrs. But all this drama is rather entertaining all the same.

    • You’re definitely Jeff, the same unwarranted ego, moronic mumblings, lame lies, and low IQ. Sofia must like her cuckolds mentally deficient. What a pair of losers. Now get back to cheating on your 3rd RL wife when you rendezvous with Sofia in RL, and keep up insulting her RL children like she said you do in her blog. Mother of the year we have here.

    • Jeff Goodnight’s a stupid cock-breath asshole. He stole a friend’s girl once only to dump her a week or two later when Sofia miraculously showed up. My friend was crazy to take her back… after all would you want to be with someone who was in the sack or on the greedy table with Jeff?

  59. Crescent666 IS a total twat is what I meant to say in my last comment

  60. Lmfap crescent666 isn’t a total twat waffle with extra crazy lmfao wtf you on about…she’s partnered to her alt….she pretends to be british,then was called out so suddenly pretended to be French. She fucks over anyone and everyone whoes ever walked into her life. Either she posted that herself or some poor innocent girl is well on her way to getting hurt. Glad it’s not me this time.

    • She’s actually partnered to her rl partner who has joined sl, and she’s proven to me that she is french and used to live in the UK. Get over yourself LOL

      • you’re so racist that it’s not even funny XD you all crack me up so much lolol. Don’t get mad just because someone posted something nice about someone you may have had a bad encounter with. People change, misunderstandings happen, especially in sl. So move on and be happy in life. And for your info, I posted it, I’m not her, and I’m not her girl. She’s happily taken LOL

      • racist? if it was it wasnt meant to be.. perhaps ur just hyper sensitive like most of the world… which is why most of the world are a bunch of cry baby pussies 😉 ooh u prob are her.. exactly my point

      • I’m really not but I’ve known her 10 years and I’ve met her several times In real life. I know who she is, just because people “get to know” someone on the internet does not mean they know them. The person who made this comment is probably someone who dated her on sl for like 3 months then disappeared. Not hardly a reliable resource.

      • Man true that,people on sl date someone for like 2-3 weeks and think they know everything about them. I love Bunny too, she’s amazing.

      • no need to waste your typing on my comments lol the only interesting part of it to me was how someones nationality was proven. I’ve never went on a date to a ancestryDNA place.

      • Birth certificate. She showed me her french birth certificate which is different.

      • lame who tf does that? next .. seem to be the same ‘LMAO’ in the rose story.. so we def dont believe ur words

      • Lmao if you say so ^____^ I know her, so I don’t really have to feel obligated to prove myself or her to you anymore than I already have. Have fun with your sl dramas XD

    • Don’t be hating on someone who is amazing just because something between you and her didn’t work out YEARS ago. She is amazing and she has seriously bettered herself over the years. Actually talk to her and you would know this 🙂 She is the best person I know

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