Welcome to virtual-secrets, week 502.
virtual-secrets: Week 502
· Lourdes Denimore ·
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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.
@#11 … transphobic much?
Number 30. Obviously hating on someone they work with and/or for a club they spend a lot of time at gathering the info. What is the point of doing that? The FOSTA bill is about to make second life adult business a thing of the past anyway. Girls should be more supportive of each other. You’re going to be out of a job soon anyways. Stupid drama hoe. Cut it out.
Number 5. Learn to spell. Your lack of intelligence causes serious doubt.
Sad to see Beas name bought up once again, bea is one of the hardest working photographers i know, if you dont like her work thats okay, everyone likes different things, but why the need to slag her off? Why the need to try and make another person feel bad?! Beas work in my eyes is amazing and i know so many photographers/artist that aspire to be like her one day. So why set out in your day just to try and tare another person down. Please go about your day and mind your own god damn buisness.
I just saw your flickr and I can see why you are standing up for her bea lite
Your just ripping her style lmao
Ok so as an short person in both rl and SL (rl 4’10” and SL 5’2″) it is sometimes looked upon my avi as ageplaying but I don’t do that. I will never ageplay as it is disgusting. I am an midget and proud of it. You try to ageplay with me and I will report your ass.
As a fellow proud shortie I know your feels & High5!
Voidism was already banned in past for ageplay ,perma hardware banned,he is back in sl with a new pc …LL would have to check his account…so AEG is a pro ageplayer club guess……
Is not an AEG issue lol
Complaints about creators and bloggers, their rights and responsibilities aside, I am *SO* glad someone has shone a light on Narcisse Constantine because she’s a real piece of work.
Narcisse will be all ‘sweetness and light’ when she wants something from you or if she thinks you can further her agenda even in some small way. But, when you’re no longer useful to her she will cut you off.
This woman is a calculating and manipulative bitch. Don’t fall for the nice girl routine because it’s nothing more than an act.
#2 – It’s pointless to pay a lot of attention to someone’s follower count on Flickr because that really doesn’t determine their popularity. So whether someone has 10k followers or 1k…the amount of favorites they receive for their posts tell the real story.
#3 – Again with the Rose shit…I think everyone who reads virtual-secrets gets it by this point..If people are dumb enough to still buy her shit after knowing what she does then that’s their problem.
#6 – Pedo this…pedo that…cough up some pictures that don’t consist of 2 avis hugging and I might actually care…because I hugged adults when I was a child so….
#7 – Did it ever occur to you that the majority of us take everything posted with a grain of salt? Most things are over exaggerated because the poster wants it to be interesting. Also, 80% of the shit posted is more than likely lies because some salty bitch didn’t like something so they have to make that person out to be a bigger monster than they really are….and of course they leave out all their own nasties because they want to seem innocent and pure.
But I do agree that we need some fresh material.
#9 – Just another failed attempt at being creative.
#10 – Vanity hair is awful…js
#11 – Really poster? You are really that ignorant with all types of people out there?
#12 – I can agree that it looks ridiculous but…they it doesn’t look like cow teats to me…
#32 – I’m not reading this fucking mess because it makes my eyes hurt.
the number of favs on flickr means NOTHING lol actually.. anyone with 1/2 a brain know its in views…haters wont like a pic but will stop by to find your outfit often
@me…..lol in views? There are many who click to view a photo in their feed and then just keep swiping through them….therefore adding a number to everyone’s view count whether you like the pic or not. Not to mention there are groups that are made specifically to increase your view count…clearly you’re the one with only half a brain lol
Totally agree but also there are gazillion ways you can get favs and views on Flickr like following 10k+ people, favorite every pic from anyone and everyone, comment in popular flickr, fake flattery, post the same canned response under every pic. If you want to get really specific about people who bring you sales and business then all that matters is link (slurl) clicks from blog posts. Asking that from bloggers would be kind of ridiculous and tedious imo.
#6 that’s NOT a child. That’s a so called adult babygirl he fucks.
Did you look at her Rl piccy on her SL? Looks like some emo teenager with her eyebrows shaved off. Stop trying to babygirl it up. People have spoken up on how that piss of a man is an age player
#2 Number of favorites don’t mean anything. People can have favorites because they fav or comment others, because they add pics in groups or because in game they have a shop or are friends with owners/creators. The amount of favorites is actually 100% bullshit.
@Miha…I’m well aware of how favorites work. It still shows popularity over follower count.
After signing up for SL .. you should be brought to a place that has 2 teleports. 1 – where u would go to ‘explore’ and do whatever you feel like doing… and there u stay for ur duration… and a 2nd – for the match.com .. everything created with a chat box is fair game for finding love…except ill be an avi.. a size 3.. with a perfect rack.. and a freshly injected ass…ooh oohh and flawless skin i can change anytime i want.. even go catwa or lelutka with tons of makeup/skin choices …but everything else will be from my rl because i want real love and everything real as i approach it really fake. =P im taking door #1 – #2 is full of fucking crazies.
#15 Guess a ho can’t leave RL husband for da SL piece after all. It’s a Trisk thing!
It must be.
Talking of following people –
Does this person Melly who keeps following everyone also have another stream as Mjel Grigorovich??
And where did Thyme Carter go?
#32 – What does that say? How am I supposed to read that?
Anyway, Asphyxiation Point has great places to take pictures. That’s all I know.
#28. Tries to steal boyfriends dressing like that? What’s up with that black shit on your nose? Ain’t you too old for that. Looks like someone’s done been shopping at Walmart. You go girl!
Oh gawd SERIOUSLY get off the PEDO crap ~ its just as old as the con artist ROSE ~ how about people doing Bestiality cripes there is a whole dog park for that and you think thats alright? Have you seen some of the wierd shit that goes on in SL and wonder why because it was created to do whatever you wanted that you couldn’t do in RL ~ creepy, scary shit that maybe in RL they are bankers, accountants, police but in SL they can be freaks with looks and attitude that would scare the crap outta you in RL and you know before SL there were just chat places that you would be RL pedos or creeps that wanted you to change their diapers gawd now that is fuckin scary ~ SO what a 70 year old man wants to recreate his childhood and play a child avi is he bothering you? Maybe not your thing or mine but unless he is breaking the law by advertising that he sleeps with little boys in RL so what the F is the big deal. I think at times it is so hysterical to see people get their panties in a wad about some of these people. Hey if they are cheaters and you keep enabling them to cheat shame on you ~ come in and whine boo hooo ~ bring on my haters please and lets have a conversation instead of giving me down votes have some guts to speak up intellectually ~ dare ya
so much truth xD
@FunnyFace-I think I may know why you get so many down votes. I’m just going to guess that it’s not “haters” about your opinions or people that necessarily disagree with you, that hate what you post. But it’s HOW you write it sweetie. I’m not a grammar nazi, but your posts are a bit painful to read. They’re all one huge loooooooooooong run on sentence. I don’t doubt your intelligence, but it’s hard to take someone serious, when they sound like a 5 year old hyped up on 2 bags of chocolate and an energy drink, that can’t get a single thought straight. And…that’s kind of how your posts read. Just sayin’.
I’m just giving that silly twat funny face something to moan about with my down votes!
Laughing and if you knew me in SL Devils Advocate you would probably say the same exact thing because I do then to ramble on and on like a caffeinated energizer bunny, which is a lot of time I rather voice than sit and type and type and type
1. guess I will just make my points known this way from now …………………….. NOT
2. again it is funny so many grammar experts in here
3. its like a tv channel don’t like it don’t read it
4. am not going to change or kiss ass just so i get all the up votes –
Honestly does not matter how I write whether it is one sentence, with perfect grammar, punctuation and spelling that I get at least couple down votes and sweets am not here to win popularity contests with the best written replies
@Gimme – I type pretty much how I would speak to someone. The “…” that you & FunnyFace point out that I use, is not grammatically correct, I’ll give you that. It’s used to show a pause, just like I might pause when actually speaking to someone. It’s difficult to convey tone & inflection through text, so I use different things such as this to do it. Again, I am not a grammar nazi & I’m not saying “my way is best”. Anyways, moving along…
@FunnyFace – I’m going to add being redundant as fuck to the reasons your posts might get a lot of down votes or negative replies as well. I’ve only recently started reading virtual-secrets. I’ve gone back & read through the past few months postings out of boredom. I have noticed that you frequently call out your “haters” and “down voters” in your comments. If you care so little about the votes on your comments, then why mention it at least once, every week? Just curious.
In this week alone, in regards to #31, you repeatedly mention Patterson Core. Not once, not twice…but FIVE times. You also never fail to bring up Rose/Olive every week, even when she doesn’t make the virtual-secrets list that week! In response to what you said in your comment “bring on my haters please and lets have a conversation instead of giving me down votes have some guts to speak up intellectually ~ dare ya”…it’s just so difficult to have an “intellectual” discussion with a broken record that has no pause button. *sighs*
On a side note though, I do agree with what your post said about the pedo stuff. I gave ya a thumbs up for it! 🙂
Broken record just might get my point across when they keep insisting “Bea” is an artist “pause” and you must not have a huge life if you can spend time going back and rereading all my posts that I have made and spent time counting on what I mentioned *pause* Am not the only one on here that keeps bringing the same shit over and over but whatever *huge pause* Oh the fact that I mention my haters truly is a joke for me because no matter if I post one sentence or a paragraph and if I was so torn up about it I would disappear……………yes I am quite redundant on the Rose issue to use her as an example that real life money was conned out of hard working people ~ yet most of these secrets that people are up in arms are minor that they bitch and moan for months at a time when they keep praising her on FB and buying her crap. BTW will give you thumbs up for pointing out that I sound like a broken record, have no pause button and difficult to have this intellectual conversation *PAUSE* so will actually give you a thumbs up ONLY for having the balls to point those facts out
@Devil, You’re one to talk there…sweetie. I may not always agree with what funnyface says but I do enjoy reading the comments.
He lacks maturity and breaks cardinal rules when it comes to domination in BDSM. So it’s ok for him to have a sexual attraction towards people who look and act below 10 years of age because that’s how she looks and acts. Have you seen them in local and know them personally because I know them both. He is a cheater too so lets defend such an anszing little boy behind a screen. Do what you want in SL fine but don’t project it publically where you are going to get outed for it and judged
I don’t know about all the down votes; I actually look forward to your comments every week. Even if I don’t exactly agree with you there is always a good point or 2 that you bring up. I actually have to laugh at your haters because when they do leave a comment they sure do like to use straw man tactics or suddenly decide to be the grammar police.
Get a room, you two 😉
PS: In case anyone is offended, this is a joke. (a joke which the two people involved probably got)
will say no on the room hehehe am not offended gawd I just look in the mirror for that
why thank you Coffee and really sometimes I do wonder too since most just give me that thumbs down but provide nothing to back up with a few exceptions but hey since they rather not speak up I just laugh
Love these shorts and all other femboy accessories that don’t make me look like a slut.
DEADDOLLZ DRAMA minute 21:57 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GvH7YVqKsFg Dead Dollz Store Owner Kido destroyed her image with this haha she just put all other bloggers down that where sitting there
I’ve been reading what has been said here since my last off hand comment somewhere in the line and some of the things said I find intriguing. As a blogger myself this is a topic I like keeping up with and listening to all thoughts upon the matter agreed with or not. I seem to have an urge today to put in my 2-cents in about what has been discussed. Blogger vs Photo Hobbyist – There has been much debate about what a SL blogger is not just this week but past ones as well. Many compare it to RL blogging but I have to side with Lourdes who said “You also can’t compare to RL blogging where you actually receive payment and/or tangible goods.”. But, what about the ones who write actual SL reviews and such vs the ones who just put down the credits and leave it at that? 80% of the time I fall on the “credits only” side of the fence with my blog posts. The other 20% I will write about some SL topic or give a review on a certain product (even if it isn’t a sponsor of mine). And, sometimes I even team up with an actual writer who uses my blog as a platform for his own artistic work. Well, now why don’t I do this the other 80% of the time? Because, writing is a skill that takes talent and time just like the pictures. This isn’t a skill that everyone has, and there isn’t the time to write and proofread then rewrite till it’s worthy to be displayed for all to read and pretty much “judged hard”. Does this make me and my credits only peers any less of a blogger? No… we are just letting the pictures speak the… Read more »
All this did was enforce that most of these people in control of blogging are “cigarettes for breakfast” kind of people. By the time we got past the coughing, hacking and growling as the vocal chords warmed up, we had what was one and a half hours worth of what we knew already. That is nothing about the bloggers, it is down to views. What these people don’t understand is views are nothing unless targeted to sales. Giving awards to Flickr photo people without a blog cheapens the whole emphasis about blogging.
There is a difference between a blogger and someone who takes items from a creator, as props to further their own photo hobby. If it was not them providing items, they would get a freebie from another place. There is no brand loyalty, its about keeping things sweet so you get props and listing them to keep the deal sweet. The other factor is because the photo Flickr is challenged for a like for like game unlike the blogger, who if they are good will have an honest review of the items they use.
Flickr SL people of the most have no interest in the product , only the possible rung in the social ladder. It has nothing to do with quality of pictures or the quality of the blog . That myth has been uncovered via SL secrets many times.
It’s is to do with who you are ass-kissing and how many days you can sit to like everyone’s pictures, regardless of how good or bad they are. But it nothing to do with sales targeting.
Dead Dollz did say it was “all about the views and likes on FLICKR ~ not sure if there was any mention of a blog at all. For me whats that tell those who spend quality time giving time and energy describing the item. Its like fuck the ones that are so so photographers but they will delight you with their text in their blog, tell you where you can get it *ex. Black Fair* and is it for one specific body ~ will give her kudo’s to her pics as yes they are well done but more am learning about bots being used to up the views into the thousands and likes into the triple digits.
Honest reviews on products are very important. Part of that is why I feel editing should be minimal on the sold item, or honest reviews should be given. Many times, the demo does not live up to what I’ve seen in a picture. Personally, I think it is smart to be selective about what you blog; support the creators you’d be buying from anyways.
Or just face that Rina does better pictures than a lot of others. Is she the best? Certainly not. But she is good. Methods aside, you cannot argue quality.
Also, I cannot decide if these butthurt bloggers live in a cave or are just out of touch with reality that it is laughable. Bloggers are business tools. Not even on the level of endorsement because they are -volunteer- marketing vessels for a profiting pixel store. In business, numbers matter. In business, influence matters. Unless you can provide a metrics report that directly correlates your blogging influence to sale conversions, views and favs are the only rudimentary indicators to a store that you can possibly bring them business.
To the a-hole stores who don’t appreciate your own bloggers, you’ve got some nerve to complain about the people who volunteer their time in promoting your pixilated crap. While creators come out with RL money, these bloggers get pixel items that do not cost anything to create as no resources or supplies are needed to manufacture a product. Stores -use- bloggers. At least treat them well.
Well damn… glad I never had the slightest interest in blogging for her ever. Creators are human and can make mistakes including putting their foot in their mouths… but that is why most businesses and anyone with a very public face hire PR people. She should have invested in that or at least wrote down what she wanted to talk about and had a friend read over it who could have said “Oh dear, No not a good idea at all”.
I watched the clip and heard her tell the audience that everyone should try be as hardworking as the blogger, Rina Edenflower who apparently gets the most favs and views on Flickr. Just want to say that goal is unatinable for human beings with a job and a life. Rina sits there and favs every single photo on flickr irespective of how or what they look like, pretty much Skippy’s female version without the comments. So Kiddo, sorry that is not a goal any blogger would like to work hard towards. You are delusional.
I really disagree she didn’t put anyone down. She states in The clip your success is not hers. As creators we are held to a certain standard. Post your photos in more groups. Even groups outside of Flickr. Bloggers need to stop whining, IRL if you were a blogger applying to brands, they would require the same things. Sl is not just a game and not everyone who is doing business within is doing this as a hobbie. Creators spend HOURS, DAYS, WEEKS, MONTHS, YEARS even to reach some requirement details. Wake up people. Work hard and you see payoff. Do something as a hobbie on your free time thats fine to but lower your expectation and prepare to tread water. That’s life,,..
That’s the thing about it, there is no “pay off” for bloggers. The only way they see a “pay off” is if they self host and run ads or video blog and monetize. Just blogging alone is not going to get you the big money that some bloggers claim they make. Yes you can work hard become really good at photography. Then perhaps get a job taking ad pics for some stores. That’s when you’ll actually see some money. Those of you saying that bloggers get “paid” with fat packs. You are all crazy. You can’t pay your bills with fatpacks of pixelated goods. You also can’t compare to RL blogging where you actually receive payment and/or tangible goods. That’s the important part, TANGIBLE. If I get a flat iron to blog for free from the company, it has value. When I’m done blogging it I can keep it or sell it on ebay. What can you do with your fat packs after you blog them? Nothing, they are no trans, and have no tangible value to the blogger. So when a store owner sets high requirements for being a blogger for their store, it should at least be on par with their level amongst their peers. Store owners want the best to market their projects, I get that. However to get to be “the best” as a blogger it requires hours, days, weeks and years. So after hours, days, weeks, years of hard work you get to provide marketing to a prominent store for free. Then after all that you get to watch some store owners, talk shit while they rake in the money, and throw pixel goods with no tangible value at you and call it “payment”. Its not like giving your bloggers the pixel goods is any… Read more »
Holding photography contests and giving linden to top performing bloggers seems fair to me. As you say, bloggers work really hard and rarely get the credit they deserve especially in terms of monetary value. The top stores make enough lindens which trickle to event fees, land fees, possibly advertising fees and possibly Blogotex fees. I think it’s a good idea to give selected/favorite bloggers lindens. It’s a FACT that after event traffic BLOGGERS are the second source of income flow to creators. Whenever a popular blogger blogs my items there’s a sudden surge of sales.
So agree with you Lourdes and the only blogger that I know of that does make RL money and has worked hard at is Strawberry Singh she even did a video telling those that yes she makes enough money to pay for this and that and not a whiner but yes am a blogger ~ fatpacks to me I never bought them for myself as I usually got one color and that was it ~ a lot of work for bloggers these days as more stores are expecting bloggers to do their jobs ~ blogotex helps as there are a lot of lazy bloggers that do the minimum if they are being monitored and even less if they aren’t. Looking at the quality of the images they take I just smh at some.
As a friend of mine said, to be tops on flickr, one needs a thick pillow to put on the seat, as they sit on their ass all day liking pictures . Rina and Skippy must have flabby asses. Lol
Who is skippys female alt??
I so agree with the oversaturated bloggers and push comes to shove people will start using bots to get the views or the likes
Surprised no one has called out 2. Jin Zhu out on it earlier. He’s done this to me and a few people I know. What a scumbag.
who has the time to check if one person actually unfollowed you? obviously you’re someone who has a lot of time on your hands to be able to notice the small change…perhaps you’re obsessed with your own “sl fame” and flickr follower,s otherwise why would this even bother you? like did it take food away from your plate that he unfollowed you? seriously get a life.
#to someones shot of whiskey not everyones tea. I agree with you: amont of contacts don’t mean anything, sometimes you can add people just to be polite, it’s creepy to check who follow or who don’t follow you. The only detail that I would agree with the “ok” person is that it is weird to add very quickly lots contacts and delete them few days after. It’s indeed a way to beg for attention to me. And finaly “ok” person, we can all have our own opinion and share it. Some parts i agree with you, some with “Whiskey”. However i don’t like your disrespectful words. When someone share a point of view and try to explain it niclely, try to stay worthy and be clever instead of turning into some junk agressive person.
The one thing I remember reading in his profile was “stay humble” but this action is the polar opposite of humble.
being humble doesnt mean you have to keep pity following people who doesn’t inspire you. everyone has a choice of what they want to see on their flickr feed. if your work is hideous to look at i’d unfollow you too…. and also… stalking him, reading his profile and checking is follower count is creepy….not to mention going out of your way to comment about it…feeling .rejected much?
Actually, I’m a fan of DYNASTY xD This SLS made me go to his Flickr to like the pics I missed lately since he’s been so inactive creating. The humble-not-humble statement is a testament to the character trait of adding thousands to delete thousands only to have followed you as a- Promotional Statistic- to a Store Flickr or Blogger Flickr. That, is the distasteful part. Not following and unfollowing those who inspire you. He (and others who mass unfollow) must have been very inspired one day to add thousands and dreadfully uninspired another day to delete thousands.
right…dedicated fan…whose distaste comes from your own silly assumption, that these people mass follow and unfollow people to get a fan base… Do you even know him personally? from my experience when i started flickr i thought it was impolite to not follow back people who followed me, so I ended up following a bunch of people without even checking the feed and what do i see ending up on my flickr feed? a bunch of bad sl porn and pictures that do not inspire me. So I unfollowed all these people over time (which is not hard to do…you see bad pics posted on your feed, click on the name – click unfollow). Regardless, its still a wonder how people go out of there way to let these irrelevant things affect them so much that they would stop supporting or go out of their way to call them out lol…has any of these people given you bad treatment? Have you gotten bad products? Have you gotten bad customer service? That’s the only reason that should leave you with any distaste. otherwise…things such a changes in follower/following count and profile descriptions, shouldn’t be any of your business (from a fan standpoint)…unless you’re the stalker type. IJS
You’re a little too triggered. Calm your titties. Maybe you should lay off everyone’s tea for a while and go whiskey jump shoot yourself into that poor someone’s throat. Probably Dynasty since you’re so concerned about him.
LOL i think you’re the one who was TRIGGERED by trivial business tactics of others (that’s still none of your concern) – enough for you to go out of your way to comment about your ‘distaste’ on this site….which makes your comment open for judgement from everyone…so if you don’t wanna be put in your place and be told your opinion is irrelevant, then you should’ve kept your thoughts (and your pointless business terminology) to your own lil’ dedicated honorable smarty pants retail workin self, instead of putting it out their for public opinion… now all you have is silly insults and no more valid argument so….my job is done here. *sips whiskey*
There were creators/bloggers doing it the point of 0 Following (Mulloy, on SLS a few weeks ago, who has since re-followed people on Flickr) and keeping their thousands of Followers. Tell me how those 0 followers inspire them? They don’t. They are just sales statistics. I was a retail manager for two big box stores in USA and while getting paid $20 bucks an hour the sum of my job was basically to drill into my employees to get e-mails. Why? Because e-mails = sales. The more e-mails you send the more a consumer remembers your brand and the more likely they will return to your business. That is the same tactic used here on Flickr for stores and bloggers. But in the end, it is most wise to care for your customers/followers/clients/fans in return not treat them as a dispensable cash cow-like-button data base.
#6 and #16 are probably by the same person who posted up that so called “Pedo list” last week. No proof, no evidence, just character assassination by someone who got triggered.
B-I-N-G-O ! ! You win! ! !
Its so easy to pick off the weak ones first . . They seem to crack the easiest! ! ha ha ha 😉
Triggered? ? No . I’m doing the ppl of SL a favour xx
If you really want to do us a favour, how about you show us the evidence to support your accusations? Oh that’s right you don’t have any.
Anyways. When is list #3 coming? Or are you just going to pick on individual people? Cause that’s kind of boring.
DDLG is NOT the same as being a pedo. When will you people understand this? DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl. Everyone involved is still adult in an adult avatar. It doesn’t mean that the dominant fantasizes over actual children. Often times, when in these roles, it’s not a sexual thing. Often, couples with this type of dynamic will drop the titles when engaging in adult activities. On the other side of the coin, it’s nothing more than roleplay between two consentual adults. They both know their actual age and are not in child avatars. DDLG allows the little to maintain a childlike heart. They may enjoy activities seen as odd for an adult to enjoy such as coloring, playing with dolls, etc. They might use adult bibs or pacifiers. It’s an escapism form of coping. There’s such a huge misconception here and it’s so frustrating for people not to understand the difference. Now, adult activities in child avatars is crossing the line for sure, and yes, THAT is pedophilia. I also agree that over sexualized clothing for child and teen avatars are disgusting and need to be taken down from the marketplace. But DDLG and pedophilia are two very different things.
Also, to 8:
Everyone starts somewhere with their mesh. Bloggers get paid in product. It’s an equal trade off. Designers pretty much give their items to bloggers in a way to sponsor their stores for publicity.
He fucks her as this “little”. It is actually ageplay. She sexualizes a child avatar and they do this not only in private but in local too. That is BDSM clothing is wearing on a child looking avatar and talking like a child. It is not DDLG. They are actually pedo. He has been busted for this many times with others and ex’s in past.
Yes, that is not ok then. If he’s still treating her as a baby while engaging in sex that’s different and they don’t know what DDLG is.
Oh come on, let’s not pretend that “DDLG” isn’t a gateway for this shit. Particularly within Second Life.
I’m all for people feeling loved and nurtured and looked after and whatnot, but particularly within Second Life – if I’m calling you “little girl” in public and in my profile, I am *definitely* calling you little girl while I fuck your “princess parts”.
Shit is gross.
I’ve been resisting saying it but.. here we go.
“They may enjoy activities seen as odd for an adult to enjoy such as coloring, playing with dolls, etc.”
Second Life is quite literally “playing with dolls”. You dress up your avatar. You go play pretend with them. You may even play “house” by having a SL family. The Sims is much the same. Don’t get me started on coloring either. There are entire aisles for adult coloring books.
I wish other adults realized a lot of the things they do are just forms of the same play they did as children and they don’t need to be in some DDLG relationship to enjoy non-sexualized stuff like that.
While he has already had an account banned for … AGE PLAY
I want to make this clear, as said above, I don’t know them personally and yes, that does change my perspective.
There is a difference I know the BDSM,DDLG dynamics. And these two are crossing lines.
Sexualized play with a person acting younger than what 6 maybe? Just looking at their chat doesn’t make any of what they are doing right. And so we are clear he’s had an account banned in the past for being caught out in age play. Difference of being nurtured and cared for in a DDLG relationship but to engage in sex/virtually is fucked up.
A Dd would never engage in that manner, he would see and treat her as a middle not a fucking babbling baby.
I can appreciate that reply. I don’t know them personally, nor do I know the depths that they take it. I do agree that if it does go that far, it’s not appropriate. My comment that DDLG and pedophilia are entirely different still stands, as I know you understand that (this is said towards some of the prior posts, not you in particular.) Also, I didn’t know he had a banned account for ageplay either. I can see this differently in that case. I’m mostly trying to defend the lifestyle, as it has such a huge misconception, not these two in general. The height thing doesn’t bother me though. I prefer being short and chubby in SL and most guys are taller than me too. Not by that much, but still a lot.
“Childlike heart” – get the fuck outta here with that shit.
DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl. You said it yourself. Little Girl. You want to act like a “little girl” be prepared for people to think you’re engaging in fucked up things. That screenshot/photo grossed me out, the size difference alone makes me feel super uncomfortable.
Feel free to defend it, but be prepared that others may be disgusted by it.
@Bobby, So does this mean that little people make you uncomfortable? How do you know that girl in the photo isn’t portraying someone who with dwarfism?
Little people terrify me.
Little people, however, are not prancing around in BDSM gear saying things like “I sooo big!” nor getting called babygirl in a childlike way.
Justify it whatever way you want, friend. You do you. But goddamn this shit is creepy, and I reserve my right to think that. Ya fuckin’ weirdo.
Look at her facebook and get really disgusted with her taking a bath with her daddy and his jizz on her lips in every picture while he calls her his little one.
Damn glad to see you point this out. I would add the Ddlg doesn’t necessarily involve age play and age play isn’t the slur all people seem to think it is. It can be as simple as some slightly bratty behaviour and the consequences that come with that. Some people take it further to clothing and such but as you said, it’s not always sexual either. Seems folks on here see the words age and play and immediately jump to fiddling with child avatars, which it is not. It’s a relationship dynamic and yes, sometimes baby talk is involved but it’s between two consenting adults.
Kind of like how couples do baby talk or call their partners “baby” or “bae”.
I have mixed feelings on DDLG because I’ve had my posts about innocent childhood and kid things reblogged with shit like “I can’t wait for daddy to come home and spank me #ddlg #princessparts” even though I’ve been very vocal about my dislike of sexualizing childhood. Specifically things related to young girls. I’ve also been roped in with those types just for being a big kid at heart.
Number 19 – You missed the square reading as follows. ” I bought this item last month for 300 ls and now its on FLF for 50?” ( Not that i’m salty about Hextraordinary or anything :P)
Don’t forget the square with “Chatterbox again”. Commoner has Chatterbox every FLF. It actually is rather annoying though, I have to admit. They should just get out of FLF and let another creator take their place. Same junk every time it is their Friday. I thought FLF was suppose to be at least semi-exclusive. There is another creator that is notorious for just picking something off their lot and making it 50L.
And this week we get to see that hell hath no fury like two prominent families of SL sexual age-players getting their shit laid bare on SL Secrets. See how they lash out at anyone and everyone who they ever imagined has wronged them! Apparently the cuntiness of these lovers of pre-pubescent boys knows no bounds! LOL!
I think you’ve miss the point.
Very few people care what people are doing behind closed doors.
People may not agree with the alleged / assumed actions of the people in these lists, but they could care less because real children aren’t being hurt. The same as real dogs and horses aren’t being hurt on the animal sex sims or real woman aren’t being raped on the rape sims.
And in case you didn’t pick up on the secrets posted… that individual featured in them was posted for -defending- someone from the lists and being annoying with their poor me crap.
Not really too sure how you see that as the “prominent” families being the one who attacked them but alright. We’ll just continue to let you live your delusional “I’m better than you sickos and oh so powerful” life with your world-mate Abel (or is that just you commenting on your own stuff???) and move onto the more juicy, interesting and less gay hating gossip.
Is it just me or does the line here of ” hell hath no fury like two prominent families…” suddenly make anyone else think of the opening act of ‘Romeo and Juliet ‘? What makes a family in SL “Prominent”? Actually… why should anyone care about this SL family thing in general? I just don’t get this whole big deal about being part of an SL family.
In all my crazy odd years of being in SL I’ve avoided this foreign concept like the plague even with the side glances of “omg how do you survive SL without one?”. I just don’t get it; somebody please explain what the big deal is about people being in these families and why there are these feuds or fights or whatever dumb shit falls on their laps on some particular week.
If any of you do care to explain this to me please keep in mind… I have never once been down with having an SL child (even adult ones); I would rather cut off my tongue and gouge out my eyes then call somebody my SL mom or dad ; and seriously if anyone dare breathes they are my sister or brother it’s a definite “I think not; so just don’t”. I’ve had people try to get me to join families and every single one of them got turned down flat because I just don’t play “house”.
It might be a lost cause to explain any of this to me but I would like to understand a little more about all these secrets that pop up about people family hopping, getting booted, or whatever the story is.
It is so amusing really. They think there onto something but there just further exposing themselves for the disgusting ppl they are. lol ! !
#2 I have fewer followers then the people I follow. Honestly, I use FLICKR for shopping also, art. Mostly Shopping Lol. The people who take Flickr fame serious… awww you poor thing .<3
@Who I am…. lol I wonder myself why people take it so seriously…
Sadly the Designers/creators are using Flickr views/likes as a determination on the blogger apps even making the regulations that YOU must have so many followers, so many views and likes ~ case in point is Dead Dollz latest talk on what they think makes a good blogger is how many views each pic gets and for me am not going to sit all day liking pics just so I might get a like back. Nope not going to happen if I am not judged by my blog posts and my work then so be it
Yep, you have to get some many thousands of views each pic. So yes you end up having to spend hours hustling on flickr to meet store owners requirements.
And also to remind you. You aren’t getting paid a dime to sit there on flickr following people and liking photos. This is extra work on top of the actual blogging.
Thumbs down must be someone who thinks Flickr fame means something. “Here’s a Band-aid”.
#31 – Bea is a true artist and she have been for years already, now cmon, who you are all fooling? You come here trash somebody’s work saying its exact the same and I CAN BET you are one of Oakley asslickers, THAT girl is an example of EXACT SAME pictures, lights and whoreness. Yall so HYPOCRITE!
Artist , yes she is, sometimes she does great work. But I will never recommend her to any of my friends. First time I did regular pictures with her, all of them had mistakes, weird ankles or eyes, hair poking out of clothes and such, Decided to give her a second chance with an artistic photo, and that was a mistake. I asked for one thing and she did like completely the opposite. However she offered refund and provided it. She is honest, and has imagination, but sometimes I think she takes on too much work and skips on the little details, because she doesn’t have enough time to work on the photos.
listen or read carefully I am so not agreeing with you saying she is “an artist” almost threw up in my mind writing that you seriously think she is an ARTIST? that is like saying screenprints are PICS that someone in a group keeps trying to pass of as ~ giving a refund is providing good customer relations and true artists will take their time and make sure little errors, which most photographers who are working on a pic will take a moment go into PS look over the pics just for that reason or when they are editing their pics they will enlarge it to double check for those errors and correct them. Where is this artistic ability come into play? Basic editing skills ~ be able to remove a background and replace ~ checking for mistakes and learning to correct them ~ that is not being artistic ~ what is take a green screen pic, really bump this pic up with details and again I will use Patterson Core as example to look at his youtube channel and his flickr page as most are done strictly on green screens and tell me the comparision with him and this so-called “artist” difference is night and day and he is an artist even Skippy is very artistic in his compositions, they are artists ~ and seriously where is the imagination in most of her pics ? please point out at least 2 pics that she had to use her brain to put together a composition probably can’t ~ so keep defending her style whatever but artist she is not close
Funny, could you sound any more elitist? We get it. You don’t like her and clearly in your mind, she’s not an artist. Every comment I’ve see from you about her, you’re bashing the hell out of her. There’s having an opinion and there’s just being a dick. And I’m dying to know, since what she does is so basic and not art, can you do it? Clearly it has to be easy and so simple a child could do it, right?
actually NEXT I can do basic as have mentioned before that yes I am a photographer as well as a blogger and actually I think am giving my opinion on the fact I do not consider her to be an artist so what! Just like the ones that keep bashing two families for weeks on end or the hoes in the escort clubs. Hardly am elitist but cripes when people keep saying this chic is an artist when I asked couple questions why I get blasted to hell and back. Let me again repeat myself for the basics of learning Photoshop besides knowing what each tool does, how the workplace should be arranged then onto taking a simple green screen pic and removing it and replacing it with a background is almost childs play. What does take talent is making the image look like it is all blended in well. My talents are possible mid range nothing like Skip Stahl or Patterson Core, that to me are green screen experts that I absolutely would love an ounce of their talents. Taking the pic on a green screen and replacing the background with something blah and boring to me and to others is not considered artistic ability if that is being elitist so be it
no comeback haters? pathetic
How much of a child are you? Lol”haters” Not everyone that points out your better than thou attitude you seem to have is a hater. You think you’re not a dick for discrediting anyone’s skills because of a stupid background you keep harping on. Cool. I disagree. I read what you said and didn’t feel the need to reply to your Ritalin fulled paragraph but the “haters” part made me chuckle.
No comeback because your posts are impossible to read. Skipped ✌?
Hi Funnyface! You seem to really know your stuffs and I was wondering if you could share your own blog and Flickr here?
Now that is funny ~
She did give 2 options, refund or re-do. I picked refund because I did not have time to wait. 🙂
Lol if someone doesn’t like a persons style it doesn’t always mean they are a fan of someone else
LOL true artist aka escort photo factory aka same shit every time aka lazy
#8 Your payment is the FULL PACKS of items that designers spend 40+ hours to create. If you feel you are entitled to more than a full pack and get your feelings hurt when a designer tries to put you back in your place because you feel self-entitled – BITCH YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG. Get off your high horse. Seriously.
I agree with you on the “payment” of fatpacks. Bloggers knew the deal when they started and it’s just how things are so if you don’t like it then don’t blog. But!.. now what irks me as far as this goes is when a creator does not give the “full payment” and sends you like lets say 1 color of the dress or a few pieces of a gacha. That is cheap and shows that they do not value you as a blogger or what you do for them. This happens most often for event blogging so it’s kind of hard to complain but I understand feeling irked by it specially when you had plans for something that wasn’t included in the blogger pack but is in the fatpack.
there are a lot of thoughts why some creators do not send fatpacks or just 1 color and being a little bit mouthy asked ~ some creators like to push the bloggers to use a not so fave color maybe you know that ugly OLIVE and see if the blogger can be creative with their words or their text same with at times gacha items as looking at some blogs not every blogger credits every item they will leave out pose credits, gacha items maybe just mentioning their fave or just using one gacha item and the designers do get annoyed ~ other creators used to send out every blogger fatpacks and they might see if lucky 1 or 2 bloggers even featuring their stuff and it was not for lack of the clothes being ugly just way too many bloggers try to push themselves to get more and more stores and why when they cannot keep up just to get their numbers up and traffic to their blogs ~ so the little stores that might not be well known get pushed aside since OMG they finally got a better known store like Dead Dollz which was the goal ~ instead of being polite and letting the little store owner they would not have time to blog they just ignore stuff ~ some don’t have blogger managers to check on what is being blogged or use blogotex ~ designers/creators who use blogotex let the software do a lot of the work even still owner or manager does have to approve each blog. and Coffee if you get irked by not having something that wasn’t included a nice notecard solves the problem as most owners will send it to you if they know you are a good blogger and will mention… Read more »
I’m pretty sure the reasons for doing this is different for every creator and I will admit I’m one of those who does not credit poses but that is because I actually will animare them to hell and back so it is no longer the original pose but my own special one that can’t be bought. I also leave some things out on purpose because it’s my special consistent look and really who wants to see me credit the same body & head for every post I do.
I see what you are saying but I have to disagree with you on this. I can’t speak for other bloggers who may or may not have the work ethic that I do. It’s a respect issue for me really; I’m a Blogger who filled out that application just like everybody else and got the “gig” to provide a service… I’m not some spanger on the street corner asking for a handout! I shouldn’t have to go ask a creator to pretty much provide the “full payment”.
I actually will quit as a blogger for any store that does this; and if it is a store at an event I blog for I won’t blog the item from that store because it’s pretty much a slap to the face to do this. I actually have more respect for the stores who opt out of the event service and don’t provide a blogger pack at all…I will happily go buy their stuff if I really want to have it and then blog it.
But, that’s just me though.
Nothing wrong with being irked by that. It used to annoy me also. I just didn’t blog the store if the color choice they made wasn’t one I prefered. I always felt ok if you are going to be choosy can you pick a neutral color so it will work with anything. But most of the time it was the color that probably sold the least.
LOL the 8 people who disliked this are those entitled bloggers who think they are owed more than a fatpack.
Why do people assume that you have to follow someone on Flickr just because they followed you?
I follow you because I like your artwork and style, not because you followed me, and if you followed me, cool beans.
It’s kind of toxic and depressing that it’s expected of you.
I am under the impression that it is semi polite to follow someone and I have made some bad judgement calls in doing so without lookin at their pics am not mindng bad pics to not follow someone ~ what I do mind is for me I don’t need to see 20 million (yes am exaggerating) but still of dick shots, blowjobs and cum shots, 3ways, etc ~ that i will unfollow not prude just most are just bad porn and if I truly want to see that I will look online for giggling
Expectation of them following as a standard no I agree with that part but if someone follows thousands just to unfollow them all to appear important they’re a jerkoff and everyone needs to unfollow him
Dear #1- I secretly wish for the same thing. Now if I could just find you.
Super disappointed that I can’t read #32.
32, Can’t read it at all… 28, No one is ever snatched that wasn’t willing to be. Not defending the “other party” but it takes two to cheat.
So just what IS wrong with us trans girls having clothing like that eh #11? Nothing. Nothing is wrong with it. Nothing at all.
Oh give it a rest nobody was saying that stop being offended by everything you snowflake
“Snowflake” is used the the immature parrots of FB
OMG, I’ve made it! I got called a “snowflake”!. Go tell someone who cares
You care enough to comment with your faux outrage
The world isn’t out to get you
Waits for Blaise to comment.. 😛
#22 & #23 To be near them at their sets or anyone else’s is truly sickening, not forgetting they were brother & sister before going full on Slincest
We all need to pass a bucket around that’s for sure
#14 Moody is one of the fakest chicks on sl lol I’m actually an old friend that had no idea she was bad mouthing me to everyone til it was too late. She got a big dose of karma recently. She is disgusting. She is very trashy looking in rl and sl. Talk about strung out looking yuck
#2 Valentina Secretspy (Valentina Blogger on Flickr) does the same, follow a lot of people and then delete in a few days, crazy people trying to be popular.
Everything to appear on creators radar, since designers care about follower count = more freebies! Also her shapes all look the same!
I think Pupito its a bastard but all info you can find is people sharing their conversation, insults, etc,.. the problem here isnt Pupito, its people who spread the hate, .. im not saying he is right in what he says, its matter of hate all, people just have to resolve the mproblem not spread their privacy trying to boycot,.. i see so hate and envy here every sunday ..yes pupito its crap,.. lakua Mh, i love lakua *ionic* and *Spell* and exchanged many times gacha and never had a problem, anyway… we all should look for ourself, remember the ones who spread the hate are you and all the post here “except for the ones that has reason like “phedo” etc that I agree 100% to be exposed, but private conversations, insults, chats. I think all this terrible and insane hate its the 10% of the SL people, that makes me keep being part of it.
Hmm this week I guess I need to change my name to “Coffee & Reading Glasses” ~
Did I miss some memo about this being “small unreadable print week”? #7,14,18,24, & 32 congrats on getting that memo!
Now as far as the ones I can actually read:
What happened to “Part 2” I was so looking forward to that extra Saltiness! #4 so true lol… but come on there isn’t enough salt at this table this week I don’t know this Elian and #22 so what if somebody has a short avi that does not make it age play! Is there now going to be some rule that everyone has to reach a certain height requirement…oh wait there is that rule on certain sims and It’s stupid as fuck.
#11: That is no “lady boner”; I have one word for you “Femboy”! If you don’t know what that is here you go:
A young man who presents extensive feminine mannerisms and actions often blurring the line between a boy and a girl. This is not to be confused with ladyboys & transexuals. Femboys are also different from cross-dressers. Most femboys have naturally smaller, curvy bodes, others have a muscular tone, giving them a more androgynous look.
#21: You have peaked my interest but, alas, I did not attend that function and I’m a little confused as to what happened. Care to elaborate?
Ms. Kiddo Oh sidekick to virtual-secrets regular Astralia is a vile person. If you’re not familiar with this delightful duo, take a seat, pour yourself some tea and enjoy SL drama at it’s finest with these two terrible individuals.
As a follower of her personal Plurk, you will see her hate filled rants against her own customers. She simply doesn’t care about the people who purchase from her. She will create a fight out of absolutely nothing. She spewed angry hatred towards a customer that cammed to see her above her workspace above her store. She became so enraged on Plurk about this individual, she didn’t know, that she implied she banned her simply for camming to her workspace. When you ask her why she’s so harsh towards her own customers she acts elitist. She expresses how talented she is and she only wants the best bloggers and popular people wearing her brand. Her ignorance is astonishing.
When any drama surrounding Astralia occurs Ms. Oh is always close to her side defending her immaturity and making nasty cruel accusations against their mutual customer base. I point out mutual as they have worked on many Gacha projects together. When Backdrop City drama broke out Ms. Oh stood firmly by Astralia’s side affirming her terrible behavior about the matter.
Neither of these woman want to provide a positive shopping experience in SecondLife. They are two of the worst creators in SecondLife to purchase from. Maybe they should reach out to the owner of Chaper Four they seem to be three peas in a pod.
Enjoy your tea btw.
yes Mr. Clue so many have had this discussions while back and most agreed to boycott both as it was known that Kraftwork kicked out their bloggers due to the whole BDC debate that skank Astralia started and most at least I know am one that tossed anything that mz azzwipe made out of my inventory and have not bought anything and will not ~ same goes for the con artist Rose ~ if people would stand up to be counted and stop buying from them it might make an impact ~ call them out for their nasty behavior as I still am so appalled that Olive hair has not gone down the tubes too many are concerned about stuff they have no control over but FRAUD which is exactly what ROSE did by lying about the charity when it was HER POCKET that all that money went into is no big deal ~ SERIOUSLY no big deal when we are talking REAL $$$ whatever when she cries again and those idiots hold another EVENT for poor poor ROSE and a blogger who I wont name tried to kiss her ass too by pleading everyone should donate to POOR ROSE am gonna just laugh and say yeah go for it ROSE since its no big deal
Why do you type like you have half a brain cell left? I agree with what you’re saying but, it was so hard to follow.
maybe you wanna rewrite my response correctly is that it ~ or if you see I have responded just scroll down and ignore it if it is that much of a PAIN not that I give a Flying F
Looks like the page owners decided against posting pt 2 of my list. Oh well Looks like there was more than enough exposed this week to make up for it .. . 😉 love when people do the dirty work for me! congrats on youre spotlight #6 & #16 . ha ha ha !
They didn’t post part 2 of your list because most likely, after last weeks looooong, drawn out discussions about pedophilia, age play, child avatars, etc…honestly, what’s left to be said? You have no proof of anything that you’re accusing the people on your so important “list”. By this post, you just make yourself sound like a bitter, lonely, pathetic person that got scorned, and now you’re out for revenge. *yawns*
The secrets this week are overall a little bland and boring in my opinion, and they STILL didn’t feel like bothering with posting yours so…what’s that say about your list? No. One. Gives. A. Fuck!
Also, the secret maker posted that stuff on FB already. virtual-secrets isn’t sloppy seconds. 🙂
@Devil’s Advocate it’s all good virtual-secrets always has something to lol over on Sundays.
@kesseret totally don’t blame you for not accepting that post this week specially after finding out the lamest and most boring reason of why it came to be. virtual-secrets is where we come every Sunday to get that fresh juicy drama 😀
@Devil’s Advocate You’re probably right… the only reason I was even looking forward to the next installment of the list was:
1- due to it being cheesy soap opera worthy
2- the mystery behind who wrote it and why people were chosen to be on that list
3- to see if my predictions of who was going to make the cut this week came true (my avi name included)
Otherwise I didn’t give a single Fuck about the list.
But, at least the schmuck posted in comments this week only to knock the wind right out of my sails for my theories and reveal this all has to do with him being a Homophobic little prick and nothing more. So no longer is it even cheesy soap opera worthy and the mystery behind why people were chosen a total disappointment. Which in turn made the mystery of who the person is along with my predictions a total *yawn fest* as well.
I guess the only thing we can really look forward to is a future SLsecret that will reveal who the schmuck is in SL so that we can all promptly pull out our Ban/Block hammers and see him receive his just desserts.
Awww so sorry Coffee Break! Better luck next week! Hopefully we’ll have some better juice 🙂
Feel free to tell us what your SL name is. I know a number of child avi’s that would love to rip you to pieces over the vitriolic bullshit you’ve posted. Or are you too much of a coward to call people Pedophiles to their face while having no evidence to back up your claims? You’re a piece of shit and a complete bitch.
Oh I don’t think it’s just a number of child avis at this point but probably most of the LGBT community as well; and most likely others just because he’s an embarrassment to the human race in general.
Meh who cares man, you probably dabbling in the ageplay yourself . Easy to spot as your post was full of the salt, shows what a little bitch you really are. What someone gave you less attention than you deserve?? Oh poor you lol.
Whats funny is you posted it on FB before SL Secrets. Tip – if you are going to post something, please try not put your stuff as sloppy seconds. It just makes your point look cheaper than it already is.
Maybe explain why you so salty?? Now that might be worth reading, other than a random post of names with a label put on it.
If you going to have balls, do it right and speak your mind so I and the rest of these good people, have a clue what you are on about? Or just sit and play on the gachas like the rest of the great unenlightened.
Ha ha. I’m not ‘dabbling’ in this creepy gay shit! ! You aids ridden fags can keep that to yourselfes!
We need a SL Secrets Salty Called Out Comments Bingo:
-“Your all fags”
-“you must weigh 600 lbs”
-“fix ur teeth”
-“You’re on welfare/ssi/food stamps”
-“Go take care of your kids”
Well damn, I had hoped for actual Salty goodness like the list being due to some falling out or over some juicy drama… You’re just a Homophobic Ass with nothing worth listening to spewing out of your mouth! This list no longer interests me, please move along I’m pretty sure those Westboro nutjobs will accept you with open arms so go there.
But…that’s you lol . No creepy fags here but if you don’t like gay people, you sure immersing yourself in that . Otherwise you find something else more worthwhile to do with your life ?
And that’s it right there. Everyone on those lists are either gay, lesbian, transgenser and many are shape and age shifters.
Abel / Pedo Hunter / Listmakers is just a homophobia asshole with a vendetta. Plain and simple.
*Transgender pardon the incorrect spelling.
You forgot the “self-hating” part too. Most of these guys who try make a comical “hahahaha ” on these things are normally hiding something in the closet. And the word “yourselfes” is a very immature term, I think gay boy/ kid with failed relationship or not enough attention. Seen them all before, little drama queens .
@Yorkshire What’s the bet that Abel Resident is actually Schillar? Wouldn’t be surprised as what you have said describes him perfectly.
Schillar/ Colbydark , same difference, same bullshit.
Whatever happened to Loki’s sim stalker Umega? I can’t for the life of me remember his name but he was one very angry person. He use to message every kid that walked onto the Escapades and say gay slurs at them while they shopped. If I’m not mistaken that was one of Schillar’s alts?
Umega was just the same, a hypocrite. He had been seen sexing adults on sims but was openly hostile to any kid he thought was “gay”. Loki was harboring him as well through all that time, never kicked him off his sims or did much. In some points looked to be his friend.
Colbydark is still around , now in the famed McCullen family. Which is another story altogether
The last thing I heard about Colbydark was that he had gotten banned from Meshmerized for making some pedo accusing comment regarding the mesh body.
That was so long ago though. Is that kid still around? I figured after being kicked out of families, banned from some sims and stores for his unstable, pedo accusing, homophobic vendettas that he’d have gone onto another new account.
Oh?… well some of us want to see this list I hear it was posted on FB mind sharing the link?
yes please I want to see the list too
#22 This guy has quite a few alts. Two of them are partnered to other women. One smart chic I know, dumped his sorry ass. On the picture below, how does one not get exhausted from typing that baby talk all day? I guess that is how 40 somethings today talk.
Reading it makes me want to puke
31. This really screams untalented piece of shit to me. The only way you won’t be able to see the differences in Bea’s work is if you are absolutely blind or have no comprehension or artistic tendencies whatsoever. Even her work over the past year has been a major progress, always bettering herself, always trying new things to make her customers happy and always striving to out do herself. The first differences I see in that new picture already are a more whimsical element with feathering and flowing strokes over the harder, stronger and bolder strokes she usually uses.
Do yourself a favour and go to art school 101 before you sound like an idiot again.
Seriously as I told the other ass kisser my vision is perfect and if you truly want to see talent please look up Patterson Core or as he is known in SL m8ty and look at his work for green screen and yes I can see what type of customers she takes care of *rolling my eyes* and excuse me what art school did you go to that you can tell regarding brush strokes gawd you would think we are talking about Picasso or Rembrandt which seriously she is far from that ~ striving to do what? and actually you are the idiot so sit down and join your other moron
@FunnyFace Oh I totally agree with you there are very talented artists that do SL digital art that make me green with envy and wish i had just a smidge of that talent…my work isn’t too bad but nothing compared to them (and I so already took note of looking up Patterson Core because I love finding new talented artists).
But as far as what I said here it was because some of the comments are about as eye rolling as when my friends and I sit around a box wine and jokingly pretend we are “wine connoisseurs” as we sip on it out of cheap juice glasses. I’m probably preaching to the choir with you though so \o/.
Patterson has been around for over 7 years and his work only gets more amazing ~ and yeah I also wish that I had his talent ~ yeah am not an expert on paintings or wine just only know what I think is good and hey x bf taught me wine doesnt have to be expensive to be good hehehe so I know whatcha saying
More whimsical element with feathering and flowing strokes? Mate…. seriously? She used the burn tool a little more lol. Don’t shine up shit.
I hope she gives out some free photos for these fan girls that are helping her push this garbage out lol.
IKR that is too funny mentioning brush strokes and feathering cripes is she is taking meds or what think she needs her eyes checked
you just got to love how people talk about sl pics like it’s art in a reputable gallery or museum
Hey there are truly some great artists in here that possibly could be put in some of the digital art mags that are now the rage that customers will buy digital prints onto RL canvas for big big $$$ in the RW ~ but her talent is pffft compared to some that I do envy as they truly have talent ~ don’t knock it there are huge FB groups that are dedicated to the creation of digital artists that would blow your minds with their creations just keep an open mind as the digital art world is huge and yes a lot do get put onto canvas ~
10 times out of 10 this was made by some pressed, sub-par “artist” that is in their feelings that everyone goes to Bea, whores and nonwhores alike. instead of them. Spend more time refining your craft instead of being a twat. It’ll get you far, I promise.
This type of behaviour goes on every week on Flickr.
People adding thousands then removing once they’ve been followed.
Thalia Heckroth being one of the worse offenders along with that Maya Sour Tea person.
Guess it makes them feel popular.
Yeah gotta love follower collectors
7 – Ain’t nobody got time to read all that., if you want more juicy secrets why not add some yourself instead of whining.
24 – Woe is you, poor gacha reseller. Understand that ‘Exclusive’ means exclusive at that event, once the event is over a designer is able to then put the item out in their store. The only event that I know of that doesn’t do that, at least not to start with, was any of the mystery crates like Luxe box, Deco(c)rate etc. Why on earth would they put it out as a full set to purchase?? That then ruin your business if you’re reselling it as a gacha and make everyone that purchased it as a gacha get screwed over.
25/26/27 – Stop supporting asshats with your lindens, simple. You don’t need to make a massive drama about it and stand outside the store with pitchforks. Once they stop being paid or having attention (Like being on this site every week, negative attention is still attention and they crave that) they will soon vanish.
31 – Bea isn’t lazy, if you’re incapable of seeing a difference in her artistic and normal then you need your eyes checked. You’re clearly someone who has never attempted anything artistic in your life otherwise you’d understand how long it takes to do a decent edit. Bea is constantly working and is one of the few editors out there who keeps appointments on time, delivers when promised and is always polite, friendly and professional. Your whine is salty and sounds like someone too broke to afford decent work, go to Backdrop city and take a snapshot you can cry into.
Not a Bea photo fan myself anyways. Don’t know her personally, doesn’t really much matter. I see backgrounds reused constantly on her items. Same poses everywhere. Same detailing and sorry half those bending backward poses. Backs look broken and some weird ass pregnant deformed shit to stomach. Not to mention the fact the overbrushing exposure makes more of the models look like damn drag queen men instead of even remotely the avi it started as .It is NOT attractive at all. BTW diss me all you like. I have been teaching and doing graphic arts long before photoshop even existed. Her work is badly done and overexposed.
Thank you W/e am sure they will value your opinion above mine since I am considered a over indulgent elitist that talks too much
You are fucking retarded. That’s not what exclusive means, AT ALL. It means sold at that event, and then never sold again, although creators will hop on any loophole (looking at you, creators for the now defunct Bishbox and Luxe Box) to screw over the people who paid for exclusives. Putting it in the store after an event immediately is nothing but a slap in the face of the organizers of the event, making both they and the creator in question liars.
“Limited” is the only item you can count on being sold only that one time & never sold again. You’re welcome.
@ BeLess grab a mirror and look into it dear. You my dear are the 1 missing the chromosome. Exclusive being the word that has to be visible for Seraphim (pics & ad) & bloggers to know that is the item SPECIALLY CREATED FOR THE EVENT. Maybe ‘special’ works better for you but the word is indeed exclusive -(to the event) ..has nothing to do with other peoples box rules as events dont come in a box.
Oh lord, have you never shopped at an event before? Events like Hentai Fair give out exclusive stickers to the designers to place on new products being debuted at their event. Especially when old items can be sold among new ones… it shows what has been made exclusive for the duration of the event. Nobody is lying to you lol, you are just confused.
Nah, most events specify their exclusives are only for the duration of the event. After that it’s up to the creator if they put it in their store or not. I know, it’s not the literal meaning of exclusive. Though I’m not sure what’s so amazing about having a virtual good that other people can’t get after the event. Such special. Much exclusive.
Go look at Black Fair. Each designer had to make an exclusive item for it. See that word there? Exclusive? Only it will be at their stores after the event. Same with every big event, the events give out a sticker that even says E-X-C-L-U-S-I-V-E.
I can’t tell if you’re just an idiot or trolling. Perhaps a mix of both, but it’s common practice in almost every event in SL that the designer makes an exclusive new item that stays exclusive for the period of the event, then they can sell it in their own stores. As for BishBox and Luxe, the designers were getting income from people buying old boxes, but when the event closed down they would no longer get that income…so what, you just wanted them to delete the item and forget it? Why would they, it’s a business to them and there are customers out there who would want to purchase the items.
They aren’t liars, they follow the event rules. The event rules state they can do that, the same as the box owners told them they could resell their items once the events had retired. If you don’t like it, don’t shop at those events or complain to the event owners about the rules, see how far that gets you.
I’m a fan of Bea but to act like she doesn’t reuse backgrounds (she just keeps these off of her social media), pass normal off as artistic because she knows girls will shut up and take it (see Kink’s comment below lol), and doesn’t use shit from the freebie site freepik.com for her logos is a bit silly. She is quick with the delivery and reliable like McDonalds and you get what you pay for. Most quality artists in SL are ATLEAST 3k and take about 1 – 2 weeks to deliver because they spend time working on your photo.
thank you for saying that
My eyes are perfect since I just had them checked and honestly I do not see any TRUE difference ~ wanna see a true artist look at Patterson Core work now he takes green screen pics that are amazing not that trash she is doing like whoopee she puts a background or hair on them LOL boy that takes talent NOT! exactly what is she working on finding other females with huge TITS that most are so unrealistic am trying not to vomit ~ maybe you are one of her cough fans but am not seeing her work deserve all the views and likes but am guessing in the porn world it rates with all the morons trolling for pics to masturbate to for me this is truly nothing artist at all ~ so yeah wanna check out a true green screen artist check out Patterson Core’s youtube work
Backgrounds aside, she works from green screen as well. Just because you don’t like her style, doesn’t take away from the fact that what she does takes talent. She can’t control what her clients look like, it isn’t like she makes them have huge knockers, but the cartoony style she does with the vivid palette is appealing to a lot of people. Her highlights and shadow work is top notch and hand drawing hair is far from easy. Just because aesthetically you aren’t into her style, talking trash about her talent just says volumes about your character and very little about her skill.
At the end of the day, if her work makes you vomit, stop looking. If you don’t like her pricing, don’t buy it. Go spend your time productively creating something instead of trying to rip down someone who does.
btw I only looked because some on here put it out and trust me I take better pics than she ever will don’t care if she uses a bot to get her views up or whatever her little clique does there are better photographers in SL that does just throw on backgrounds and hair and call it talent ~ and my time is spent very well thank you
Again I spent time looking at her work and I repeat NO TALENT and my character is fine tyvm for your concerns again you are trying to badly defend her work when compared to Patterson there is no absolutely NONE ~ and seriously this is not talent to put on a background and I seriously doubt she hand draws her hair on ~
#31 Bea is AMAZING. She has been around FOREVER. She works super hard and always has a kind polite word for everyone around her. If she were lazy or lacking in talent she wouldn’t have been able to build a business and sustain that for all these years. We love you here @ KINK Bea, to us you are always the best <3
@kink… fuck off with your advertising.
KEEP MAKING US FAMOUS, SALTY CUNTS <3
NOBODY. GIVES. A. FUCK. ABOUT. YOU.
The only time you’re a thought is when you post a secret about yourself or you write something in the comments (which apparently you watch like a hawk now, but whatever helps kill the time when you’re clearly not getting clients). 90% of people come here for gossip about designers and well-known people of Second Life.. not some shitty skybox filled with busted old ladies. Don’t confuse mine and others’ responses laughing at you on this website with any social standing.
Notice that once again Babygirls was posted about but they didn’t respond because they actually have clients and staff to tend to.. not the time or the insecurities to argue with anonymous commenters on this website lol.
notice how you commented about Babygirls probably work there
Nice to see another shitty bea photo to add to your collection was just done lol look at that money in her hand nobody holds money like that… suck some more dick in her comments kink it might get you some favors lol
Really you truly think that is talent did ya even read my comments or you around azz licker of hers with those huge tits ~ takes all kinds deosnt it SMH
Interesting that Kink were poised and ready as soon as the secrets were posted… Almost like you were waiting for them!
Actually, further to this: didn’t Kink have their numbers posted a few weeks ago (I seem to remember them claiming Photoshop and then admitting that they weren’t), and now I see that Baby Girls’ numbers have been posted as well and Kink is literally waiting for SL Secrets to be updated?
Looks like they are going to be regulars now. And to think they made us believe they had more important things to do.
I can smell the desperation
Get her dick out of your mouth lol you are once again looking like idiots
Psychological projection is a theory in psychology in which humans defend themselves against their own unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by denying their existence in themselves while attributing them to others.
lol don’t laugh at them, Bea is all they can afford after weeks of standing around at Loseria. Hopefully Bea gives them some free photos with EXTRA photoshopped money in the backgrounds so it hides the fact that the Krusty Kink has never seen any real physical money from Second Life.
Psychological projection is a theory in psychology in which humans defend themselves against their own unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by denying their existence in themselves while attributing them to others.
Boredom from being broke whores with no clients is a theory in Second Life that is proven by the repetitive comments on SL Secrets after proclaiming that you are too busy and better than replying on this website.
For an example of this: see the Krusty Kink (no seriously, go visit them – they need all the clients they can get. They will desperately beg for someone to come see them on any social platform they can make an account on).
Us commenters that you feel the need to defend yourself to remain anonymous on this website and can say all the shitty things we want.. you on the other hand continue to embarrass your business by getting dominated every time you make a post and everyone really appreciates this more than you will ever know lol. Thank you Kink girls for continuously making fools of yourselves! :-*
oh my sorry and your comment Brothel is probably so true that it does make me laugh
Good riddance. This was a LONG time coming. Maybe if the two cunts running this place (Deranean and Kuluk) actually took suggestions and improved there sim instead of talking down to everyone and running the same events over and over again (Hurricanel 7 Literally 3 times in the last 2 years), then maybe this place would have lasted longer.
Dera and Kuluk, you’ve driven away some very loyal player bases thanks to your mismanagement. I speak for a lot of people when I say we’ll be celebrating the closing of this sim!
(don’t know these people or this sim, but I’m waiting on my nails drying and I’m bored, so I ran it through a filter to read it)
#7 – bitches about the quality of content, makes the worst fucking post this week themselves LOL
Edited to add- OK, the last post is technically worse due to illegibility, and really shouldn’t have been posted at all. But otherwise- that person typed a ridiculous wall of text to bitch while being exactly what they were bitching about, so still-
Be the change you want to see, dumbass.
#11 Who ever posted this is obviously stupid, a man and a homophobe.
Technically “Transphobic” but hey. I expect I’ll be called a “snowflake” again for replying to this.
How about being called “the whinging unicorn”? Uh… yeah, I could not find any titles at the top of my head…
Secret is wtf mostly since not a secret as shop always had items for both male and female bodies in various forms (and I do love unisex items).
Did not consider OP meant it in bad way till you mentioned it above but I do hope it is pure naivete.
Don’t forget the Femboys who aren’t Trans >.>
disappointing week, what happened to part 2 of the confirmed list … Also #32 your choice of color is useless making your secret totally unreadable.
Named might be #22
She NEVER use to be that short or act like such a baby
He has a thing for “little” littles. Even that image of their chat makes me cringe.
The list was already posted on Facebook prematurity.
Link Please I so want to see it.. I’ve been looking forward to it so I can laugh & laugh over the stupidity.
LOL stupidity is correct, was a random bunch of names on people nobody knows who they were. It was a disappointment too. Don’t get me wrong , I like a good gossip but he is some kid on the salt, that nobody gave him enough attention.
That or he had a failed relationship and his immaturity got the better of him.
Of course if he wishes to state whats up with him this week, he is quite open to . But the list was boring and he already leaked it, which defeats the purpose of posting it here. A little salty kid looking for attention is all .
@Yorkshire you could still laugh at it as it was quite clearly targeted at Elian. He (or she) made sure to include three child avis he friended on facebook for the sole reason that they happened to be friends with him.
we need a link! haha
Seriously! I was looking forward to this all week. I am so beyond disappointed! 🙁
Whoever wrote #7 you are the real hero!
Anyone who thinks someone who does nothing but bitch about a problem instead of solving it is a hero has got to be either a moron, or the poster of the secret LOL