Welcome to virtual-secrets, week 398.
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virtual-secrets: Week 398
· Lourdes Denimore ·
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Ugly says
Catwa heads are very ugly. Had to be said.
talking truth says
Idiot!
Future says
Although it is ugly, it has more to offer than other heads so that’s why most people go with it. I must say though, I’m eager to see what is going to happen when project bento is released and catwa heads loses it’s advantage over other creators (the anims) …maybe the same as Slink?
Lourdes Denimore says
Not everyone thinks they are ugly. How well a mesh head look also depends on the skins you wear with them. I’ve seen some horrid Lelutka and LOGO appliers.
I don’t think features figure into it as much as looks and skin availability. If the head isn’t visually appealing and doesn’t have skin support all the bells and whistle don’t mean shit.
Booboo Dun- Fuckedup says
#6 has been using a woman from the UK’s instagrams, FBs, etc. for years. Found the real person and talked to her. The poor woman is so paranoid that she won’t have any social media anymores. Her entire family is under fake names to hide from this fucking sick bitch. How do you do that to someone? And then fucking lure people in with lies about death and tragedy and stuff? She still lurkyin around. But that voice- lol. that voice that be soundin like some 50 year old soccer mom. bitch you got found out. Even if you think you didnt.
Nomatter says
Number 6 is a bit disturbing when you read it. What’s the background? Are you saying you managed to track down the woman who is in hiding and she talked with you about how scared she is. Is this some kind of psychotic catfisher?
BETTYBOOPED says
#6 has been around for years.
She just recently as last year became involved in a lot of “high profile” SL families and creator’s by either being in their families, dating or befriending them.
Nothing to really be suspicious of at first being she gets on voice pretty easily. But then the stories begin to flow in. About a lot of death in her family. She even got involved with a really sweet and good dude, and before you knew it- she disappeared. Then she did it again to another guy. And another girl. And another one.
When people that were close to her began digging and searching they all realized one thing… she didn’t exist. At all. She was under a hidden IP. She was lying about family members having cancer, being killed in car crashes. Giving detailed information about their deaths, watching them die, etc. to steer everyone away from what they all were suspicious of, which was her being a catfish.
Upon further investigation, the photos she was passing around of herself (all compiled together of the same woman, but from different people that were all contacted that she had passed the photos of “herself” to).
Well once it was figured out, she had stolen them from a woman from the UK. She claimed she lived in Toronto Canada, Louisiana, Vermont, and a few other places to different people. so she was NOT from the UK and did not have a UK accent.
The original woman from the photos was finally found (not easy) and was spoken directly to a few times. On the phone and in email. She said the following…
“My sister got a message from someone called Luiz on Facebook in 2014 saying the exact same thing. Unfortunately there’s no information I can give you. I don’t know anyone by that name. I used to know someone called Eva from Canada (we met via a game on Facebook). She was the one who contacted me first of all and told me about this game Second Life and how she thought I’d been playing because someone by that name was on there with my pictures.
The person seems to have stolen my pictures from Facebook which I stopped using about 5/6 years ago. The more current ones they have stolen maybe from Instagram (which i deleted last year) or perhaps my siblings’ social media.
It’s really horrible to think someone has done this and used it to cause pain to other people. I am sorry for all the pain that has been caused.
I hope that, as she’s been found out, she will no longer continue to use my pictures. I’ve withdrawn completely from social media, I don’t even store pictures on any cloud storage. My siblings and family have all changed their names on social media and scrutinise who they accept as friends. Hopefully this will eliminate the changes of anyone obtaining any further pictures… ”
She’s put this woman under a severe fear of social media, facebook games (which she used to enjoy) as well as her family. It’s disgusting.
She likes to tell people her twin sister died of ovarian cancer (which she claims they both had together) she tells them her mother died of cancer and her father died of cancer all within the past 5 or so years. She also tells people she has a “dream job” of sorts by saying that she’s an ad exec, a creative consultant or works with creations of band logos, toys, etc.
What has been found out. Is she’s a home maker. With children. Which would make up for what her hours on SL would be. During the day Eastern Standard Time- disappears around dinner. Comes back after night time and stays on until wee hours of the morning.
She claimed she lived with her uncle and his children in Toronto, and was stuck there trying to get back to the states. (and now it is found out that was her husband and their kids.) the children’s genders always change. Sometime’s it’s a 5-6 year old boy, sometimes its a 5-6 year old girl, there’s an older child around 16 (*this winter she claimed that one died during a drunk driving, to which when people told her they were suspicious- she disappeared completely). And that they are her cousins, and her uncle she is residing with.
She talks about having diabetes as well. Won’t get on cam, or have a phone to text or call with.
Funny thing is, she is around and about on the many alts that she uses. But if you hear her voice, it’s very very distinct. Nasally, a bit raspy. Her age range is around 40-50 years old. She lies about that as well.
She really doesn’t just go after just men or women. She goes after anything. Anyone. Friend, friend’s boyfriend, her relationships are shitty and she tries to turn people against each other. She’s manipulating and disgusting and vile.
She’s fucking psychotic.
Sputnik says
Nomatter is probably the one you are talking bout. She was the one who was using that guys pictures on Flickrs pretending to be him last year.
Watch her try and throw you off the trail.
Nomatter says
I don’t know if someone used this nic before me spudnik so please stop it. I’ll change my name next time I post if you keep it up.
Thanks Betty for the update.
Trokel says
I think the resident troll used it so yeah you may want to pick a new name as she isn’t very popular/liked on here.
Nomatter says
Thanks for the tip but I’m not interested in a popularity contest or in the previous politics.
Mewho says
The girl I thought you were talking abt uses the name Rachel, Sammy and Lucy and she was supposedly in foster care and is psycho and plays on your feelings she’s from Massachusetts. She also used ppl and is a catfisher.
Amused says
Wait, wait. So this women, so scared she has “ceased all social media, has involved her ENTIRE WHOLE family to change their names”, so paranoid, but yet… you were not only able to track her down, but also get her to speak with you?
How curious.
Amused says
*woman
bored says
To the author of #4, please get a handle on copyright law before you spew further rubbish. In the US, a work’s copyright does not exist in perpetuity. While the rules for works created prior to 1978 may be a bit involved, some of the works co-opted by this designer are necessarily in the public domain, while others almost certainly are.
Let’s take the “Food Don’t Waste It” poster as an example. It was published in 1917. The applicable copyright law at the time was the Copyright Act of 1909. Under 1909 act, said poster was eligible for no more than 56 years of copyright protection. That means the “Food Don’t Waste It” poster entered the public domain no later than 1973.
While I’ve not verified the copyright status of each work used by this creator, it would not be particularly difficult for said creator to do so, thus ensuring they did not run afoul of copyright law. I’m sure you did the same thing before submitting this “secret” though, right?
Cicadetta says
The “Food Don’t Waste It” poster is publication of the US government, created for the associated agency by a freelance artist. As such, it may *always* have been in the public domain.
The private posters may be a little trickier. The 20 Million Miles From Earth poster, for example, was issued in 1971, and it has a copyright notice, so it may not be in the public domain at all.
Yeah, I’ve been Googling. Interesting stuff.
Blaise Glendevon says
So, basically, y’all don’t want to pay people shit for their hard work? Is this what we’re saying? The consensus of virtual-secrets’ secret submitting commentariat is, “Fuck creators.”
Realistic says
I did. These are very well done, and made to look as if they have been folded up. The creases are nicely modeled. and I liked the choices of subjects.