Welcome to SLsecret, week 367.
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SLSecret: Week 367
· Lourdes Denimore ·
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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.
#4. “a even dumber bitch” …. “a even” …. hahah oh the irony.
Ok, to the commenter who keeps leaving comments that are too stupid to post.
YES that KingGoon girl posted my RL info.
NO Lourdes and I are not the same person.
It doesn’t bother me that you call me ugly and terrible looking. I already know a) I am fat b) I’m not a beauty queen and c) who I am. If you want to make a website with my RL pictures please feel free. I DON’T CARE. Do you k now how many times people on SL and in my life have made fun of my looks or my weight? Get in a fucking line, pal, there’s like 300 people ahead of you calling me names and making fun of me.
Please post your proof on FB of your accusations and then provide a link in comments. The ball is in your court.
AGAIN: I’d like to remind everyone that comments are a privilege NOT a right. The end.
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I wish you’d not body-shame yourself. I suspect I know why you did it, though, and I do understand. It doesn’t matter if you’re big, bigger, or even fat. None of this equals ugly, or unworthy, nor does it imply you have no value, or substance or meaning as a person. I know you didn’t necessarily mean it this way, nor does it necessarily mean you think ill of yourself based on these traits (ie: overweight) but I guess it does break my heart when people speak ill of themselves because of something physical.
As for ‘beauty queen’ or not: Try not to let anyone else decide this. If you’re heart is in the right place, and you mean well, are compassionate, kind, caring, then that – without intent of platitudes – makes you beautiful. I say this not intending to sound maternal or pushy.
To anyone making ‘fun’ of you for a physical trait, I ask them this: How would *you* impress the world if the entire world was blind?
I don’t know you, or pretend to kesseret, but I hope one day you are impervious to any kind of slams on your appearance. You’re worth it.
“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.”
– Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
Thank you for your kind words and comment!
I know I have loving friends, amazing family, and 2 cats that require feedings at 8am and 8pm. I’m doing alright!
I’m still waiting, though, for a fascinating website all dedicated to me! lol
There’s enough body shaming on this blog please don’t do it to yourself. I have no idea what you look like but based on your fair and balanced comments here you’re a beautiful person. Please be kind to you.
Uh. *your. hehe
To the troll stuck in moderation. Feel free to post your proof on FB, then come back here and post a link. I’ll approve your comment, then we’ll all sit around and laugh while you make a complete fool of yourself.
Well if you going to do it then do it. Why are you still here trying to post comments that won’t be published. Seems to me you have a website to build. Get to it.
You don’t know who britneybee is? They are posting from your house, your computer and your internet. You still wanna play with us?
Why are you talking to yourself?
dumbarse aka Brittneybee aka next crazy name: kinggoon didn’t post my RL info. They posted Kess’ RL information. My name is Lourdes I am a different person. This is why I am laughing at you. You don’t even know who are addressing.
So post your proof on FB.
Brittneybee I am talking to you. You know I’m talking about you. So top trying to pretend you are a seperate person. Post your proof. We are waiting.
Eh secret 2 wasn’t juicy but now I want to read shouju manga lol. What’s wrong with empty booths? I think noobish designers get butthurt when they see an empty booth and feel as if the event managers should let them into these events, while knowing their meshes are not up to par with the rest. Maybe someone should start a new event 10 linden crap club xD When you know your meshes ALWAYS look like a lowest LOD upload zoomed out on 300 draw distance in a laggy region when you actually have ya settings set to high and the only person there , um there’s a problem. Step up your game get more skills don’t hate on talented designers.
You rant on the assumption the secret maker is a wannabe designer who doesn’t have the talent to make it into an event. Whether or not that is the case I think there is a point being made that the event, which is clearly Fameshed, had a no show from a certain designer for 6 days. I questioned the empty booth on day 5 when I finally gained entrance to the sim but knowing who the designer is and the kiss-ass attitude that abounds, I’m not at all surprised he wasn’t usurped by the organizers for a more reliable; ‘ready-to-go’ participant.
I don’t altogether agree with you that we need a 10 linden crap club but I’d probably sponsor you for a talk crap club,
I hate no-shows as well, but I try to give someone the benefit of the doubt. Like a computer crash or health or family emergency. It’s really easy to take a passive aggressive route, but you just never know. Seeing an empty booth or a sign saying “coming soon”does not necessarily imply what you’re saying.
Now, if it’s a habitual offender, that’s a whole different ballgame…
Same here. Every month we have the zomg somebody copied. And name monthly eventm and all shades of gray inbetween. Every quarter zomg think up the same for The Arcade. Honestly I read what people have posted naming creators calling some *cunts* this week. Seriously horrid behavior and the reality is for each person they bully or defame or try to get a reaction from I wonder what the hell sort of personality enjoys that. Narcissism at it’s best perhaps.
I also prefer benefit of the doubt seeing the best in people
Me too, there are some designers who wear the ” OMG I got copied AGAIN” badge because they think it makes them look so popular everyone wants to copy them. There was one dumbie that posted to her blog, her group and public forums everytime she imagined she was copied. In the end everyone was like *eyeroll *. Insecurity is sad and pathetic
Ah yes I know who you mean. I left her group because of it. Sometimes when she would name and shame I’d go take look and if the other was cheaper or better I’d buy that one haha
OMG I need10 linden crap club. It’s got to exist in some form already, right? I know we already have the Wash Cart Sale but I have alts to clothe, you know?
Re: #1.
Denigrating someone’s fundraiser – regardless of how legitimate you feel your complaint to be – always seems unnecessary to me. If I don’t wish to donate to the Salvation Army: I won’t. If I don’t want to fund anything – I won’t. Those I wish to donate to: I do.
It’s really a very simple concept.
(Isn’t it?)
I agree with Matchbook’s comment so much. While I wouldn’t ever put up a gofundme for my own personal gain, a lot of people do. And those who feel like donating, can. I don’t see why others cry about things like this. If you don’t want to donate, then don’t! They’re not forcing anyone, just throwing a line out. I was always told closed mouths never get fed. Same concept here. You don’t know if you don’t try.
#2, let’s be best of friends!
You single and straight number two? People wanna know.
Awaits thirsty bitch comments… 😀
#2 i want to be your friend! D:
#3 AppleFall anyone?
Loser!
Nr 4 Is Skittles such a ville cunt, and everyone runs after her.
I know some vile cunts (not ville), and Skittles is not one.
Not even close. It’s a well known Flicker account.
Your all wrong 4 is about that dumb cunt scarlet Bartlett
Or Darla.
Let’s face it…both Skittles and Darla are equally massive douche bags; albeit for very different behaviors.
Is #1 about me? I bet it is! Well guess what, too bad! My work’s going on public walls where I will paint beautiful SL avatars and there’s nothing you can do about it! NOTHING! Except maybe stare at it and take some pics 😀
BTW if anyone is curious, my fundraiser is here: http://www.gofundme.com/hp2r4ju8
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You are one conceited and untalented insanely crazy bitch lol
Let’s see your portfolio or your body of critiques.
WHATEVER
Your artwork is amazing! <3