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Virtual-Secrets Week 790

12/24/2023 · kesseret ·

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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.


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Make It Yourself Then
1 year ago

42 – Imagine paying for assets and then being accused of stealing…. make it make sense people. There are actual thieves thriving on SL right now that yall worship and adore. If THIS is considered pirating then we all must be thieves. Don’t buy a template off MP and use it or you’ll end up in here.

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Passing by
1 year ago

#38 is just too stupid to get caught. I bet there are loads of those Xaara peeps alting and sneaking around. They just haven’t been caught. They hide behind bdsm but their true colors always show.

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wow
1 year ago

Imagine being so mad your revenge sim where you tried to snatch all the players and lore crashed and burned that you’re still pointing fingers at any player you can think of who didn’t suck up enough and still trying to get the original sim to close because you are embarrassed they outlasted you. If everyone but you is toxic why does it bother you so much that they can have fun without you?

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#closewithdignity
Reply to  wow
1 year ago

Imagine having had no more than 4 visits on your sim in the past 6 months, and yet still claiming that you have created the best rp sim on sl and that everyone is jealous of you. While desperately pleading for all the people you drove out of your sim to come back, enticing them with promises of rewards… while, instead of focusing on improving your sim, you choose to waste time posting comments here…

Atb completely emptied your sim and only closed down on its own terms, despite the fact that people still wanted to visit. But you are still empty. Now, dd is doing the same. Just like Bots did, along with cob and 14 flames.

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Snownyte
1 year ago

#18 – I don’t really like this kind of direction where femboys have gone to in recent years. Like, what’s the appeal? Making yourselves look like jailbait? You’re doing it wrong, dumbasses.

#24 – I sometimes see some freebies as just junk or poorly made. But, what can you expect? Either don’t get it or don’t get it and save yourself the whining. Blown mind shit right there.

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HubBub
1 year ago

I heard “secondlifegeneral” bought pictures of Kesserets kids feet!

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HubBub
1 year ago

Kesseret sells pics of her kids feet on second life!

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SaucePlz
Reply to  HubBub
1 year ago

Source/Proof?
Anyone can say anything.

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secondlifegeneral
Reply to  HubBub
1 year ago

Someone sounds mad. It’s not Kesseret’s fault that a secret about you was posted here. People get shit talked about every week on this site. Choose better friends next time in SL because either they’re the ones talking shit about you or the groups you surround yourself with.

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HubBub
Reply to  secondlifegeneral
1 year ago

No it is true. Kesseret was trying to get xmas money by selling pics of her kid in second life. I am not mad at all . I support free speech, clearly, as demonstrated by my participation here. You sound like a person that just assumes that their friend can do no wrong and is willing to turn a blind eye to any activity in favor of not making waves.

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FairyGothMother
Reply to  HubBub
1 year ago

You sound like a troll.

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HubBub
1 year ago

Some Kesseret lady was in Sl trying to sell pics of her child. So gross.

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HubBub
1 year ago

I heard Kesseret sells pictures of her kid in second life.

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wat
1 year ago

Most of these are stupid as fuck and many are obviously by the same person.

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lagertha
Reply to  wat
1 year ago

You are more stupid to come and read it xD

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Lara Corpse
Reply to  wat
1 year ago

many? I thought all of them and the rest of the archives were posted by a single person who’s also the owner of this septic tank website LMAO

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poopface
Reply to  Lara Corpse
1 year ago

yea put your tinfoil hat on. Also Covid isn’t real.

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ThePenIsBlue
Reply to  Lara Corpse
1 year ago

Yet here you are, being a turd in the septic tank! Cheers!!

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OhMyGeebus
1 year ago

#38 Ask their ex-partners. Both ex’s can confirm. Multiple people in the community know and have proof. Another community has already banned them for lies. Rumors are the Xaara Powers That Be have proof now. It’s just a matter of time before karma come for them. Best chance they have is to leave now. That many people with proof can not be suffering from the same delusion. 

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Stop Censoring Our Comments
1 year ago

Yo website lady, is there a reason why my comment was never approved? Like, is what I’m saying offensive somehow? All I said was if people can’t afford to invest into their business just say you can’t afford it instead of calling another creators products stupid expensive. It’s not for you if you can’t afford it.

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cool2
Reply to  Stop Censoring Our Comments
1 year ago

think someone else is modding atm and a couple comments i’ve made on 42 gets caught on moderation hell then deleted. never been like that before

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About time
1 year ago

50- Maui at least got better once reni was expulsed. Never seen a woman lie so damn much and actually be a man irl.

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Ms. Cynical The McFuck
1 year ago

#17 & #18 Doesn’t look like a kid, just looks like a person with a really huge, big ass head for their narrow shoulders. They just look like bobble-heads. I’ve never seen a child’s body look like this but I’ve seen bobbleheads and this is clearly a bobbled-headed little person that hasn’t had a growth spurt.

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meep
Reply to  Ms. Cynical The McFuck
1 year ago

yeah I see lots of femboys that look like that, it’s not a kid.. just some people don’t understand them I think.

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?
Reply to  Ms. Cynical The McFuck
1 year ago

This has to be sarcasm

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Ms. Cynical The McFuck
Reply to  ?
1 year ago

Definitely not, their head is so big, I’m amazed how they’re able to keep it upright.

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A former GOT player
1 year ago

I was a Maven hater, but once the letter got posted, I’m a Maven enjoyer. The letter is literally the truth and people are hating him for telling it. GOT Players are their own worst enemy.

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Judge 666
1 year ago

I want the D in my vagina Toby this is triXxie
Cousin.

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Judge 666
1 year ago

Please master punish me

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Nuhuh
1 year ago

# 31 The scream I scumpt lmfao

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Daddylonglegs
Reply to  Nuhuh
1 year ago

lol, I note that former Electric Sheep co-owner, serial pest and man of many alts Alistair Corvinus aka Alistair Atheria aka Deaglan O’Phelan aka Teegan Blackwood aka Cormac McGregor aka many others is back in the fold with his old pals again. Bankrolling another shit club perhaps? It’s just embarrassing now.

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Kee Mills
Reply to  Daddylonglegs
1 year ago

I’m the owner of both Neo and The Ritual – I have absolutely nothing to do with Alistair Corvinus nor does he have anything to do with my club. I foot the bill for all club related expenses and always have done.

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Hate to break it to you
Reply to  Kee Mills
1 year ago

Even if this is true. You should control your sheep staff. They seem to like to run around like fucktwats and cause drama in other places causing drama. Been on this site too. They got your club in their groups as staff and profile picks. It can be brought to your club.

Maybe try running your place like a real job a bit and not just what goes on only in the club? Might help the overall community?

many of us grown up adults with real jobs if we act the way we do in sl in rl outside of work in real life could get fired!

Hate to break it to you…

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GoT, or GoD?
1 year ago

41: I was unaware of Colmar being a shit slinger if I am to be honest..I do know a few people had issues with him but he was quick to tell people admins backed him up.

Lorent is a child, who just rerolls for shits and giggles

River, I haven’t heard much of..

But Willas, Willas had issues with everything.

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misscongeniality
1 year ago

31.- Are we not surprised by this? Same staff watered down from the sheeps owners. Whispers of a certain paypig funding it from the side lines now. Curious to how it will play out this time. Another random closing and only hiring big popular names? Clout chasing is as clout chasing always was.

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Trina is Gross
1 year ago

Trina is someone who is not new to stealing other people’s creative content. She used to have a custom avatar that was all stolen content from Renderosity. I wouldn’t be surprised if some of the it’s not mine stuff was stolen from others. Ask her sometime about all the people in SL she’s stolen from. She’s used and abused others all over SL.

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Thoth
1 year ago

#38. Ask Arella, maybe she will lie some more. Her ex-partner can certainly verify that this is true. He can also verify he was never told. RB’s recent ex-partner can verify everything as well. They are not the only ones who can verify. Karma comes for everyone, especially those who actively work to deceive. Rumors are The Powers That Be are not happy, at all. Xaara has rules on alting. If Rella & RB are smart, they will grab their collections of subs and run, run far, run fast. Multiple people know the truth. The probability of them all suffering the same delusion is nil and void.

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Aili Panthar
1 year ago

11-15: no shape is worth 1000L$, anyone can make a shape it’s not really a talent. just need patience and to look up “human proportions for artists” on google images.. also I don’t get why you’d want to look 100% like someone else’s avatar, isn’t one of the point of SL to create your own avatar style?

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cool2
1 year ago

42 – (og comment was deleted. no clue why?) do people not know that you can purchase vector or psd assets from stock sites (designbundles, freepik, creative market, adobe stock, etc) and use said assets in your work (provided that you adhere to the license)? it is the same as so many “mesh” creators buying items from 3dsky or buying full perm and texturing it.

that moth illustration by olya is on such a site and her license permits it for use in logos.

at most you can accuse toxxic for using stock items and not hand-drawing a logo, but do you think you’re getting a hand-crafted brand from a graphic designer for 50USD? be serious. that’s not even an hourly rate for most actual graphic designers starting out.

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Trina is Gross
Reply to  cool2
1 year ago

I’m going to say one thing as someone who uses said sites for graphics some of those terms absolutely do NOT permit the use of the images in this way. They are never to be redistributed full perm in digital format for any reason. So yes, for some of those images she’s used in the past she 100% is not following the terms of service. I don’t think anyone is accusing her of “not hand drawing it” but actually using content that wasn’t licensed by the owner for her to use (the screenshot seems to indicate the owner was not aware of it’s use this way?) or not using them correctly.

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cool2
Reply to  Trina is Gross
1 year ago

the branding and branding templates created by toxxic are a derivative work which is permitted given the terms of use stated on all three of those sites. if you don’t want people to use your work in derivative works (ie a branding template on SL and a psd with thatbrand for vendor templates), then why sell stock assets on said sites with a permission for derivative works underneath every asset?

if that’s the case, every creator using assets from any stock resource site or buying full perm mesh should be off chased out of here?

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cool2
Reply to  Trina is Gross
1 year ago

toxxic’s templates are a derivative work which is permitted given the terms of use stated on all three of those sites. if you don’t want people to use your work in derivative works (ie a branding template on SL), then why would you sell stock assets on said sites with this under those illustrations

“Perfect for creating logo designs, graphics for websites, social media, marketing, prints, postcards, invitations, tattoos, textures and patterns, brand identities, designs for textile prints, and much more.”

there is no full permission other than she is literally giving you templates of a brand SHE CREATED FOR YOU for you to use in marketing templates. if you’re paying for a branding for your store, you’re not going to edit the artwork yourself (i believe she flattens/expands said logo and just gives you the logo to throw on your own promotion materials). you have a brand created for you. you’re going to keep said brand in tact, right? so you are usnig said BRAND IDENTITY as a brand identity.

this is literally how most freelance and corporate graphic design works outside of SL. i don’t know what to tell you. that olya’s illustrations are all over (it’s literally used in spa artwork in my country) is a graphic designer doing graphic design?

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Trina is Gross
Reply to  cool2
1 year ago

You are very hung up on the fact that she says it’s perfect for logos – this means the person can buy it in a logo and use it for a business for themselves – not transfer this to others in a digital format. Giving access to a .PSD with the digital file is not permitted by most of these websites. You can keep spouting on and on about the fact that it can be used in a logo but this proves you clearly don’t understand what you are talking about.

There are different types of licenses as explained to you below by others, personal, commercial use, etc. I guarantee that Toxxic is not paying for the license to redistribute the graphic.

I found this listed as the license on one of Olya’s works. So please keep on telling us how this is okay. It’s not. https://www.designcuts.com/product/divine-beauty-logo-designs-elements-patterns/

If you review the license it clearly states that you cannot redistribute, sublicense, or share resources.
https://www.designcuts.com/licensing/

  • Redistribute, sublicense or share resources
  • Resell resources as digital stock images/downloads You may not resell work created from our resources in a way that is seen to compete directly with the original product creator. E.g.: Downloading an illustration pack, combining the illustrations to create a new illustration and reselling this as a downloadable stock image.

I know that Creative Fabrica has a similar license as does Vecteezy and I’ve seen plenty of graphics used by Toxxic from both places.

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Be Less Ignorant, Please
Reply to  cool2
1 year ago

Maybe it was deleted because it was stupid? Then again, we’d have almost nothing to read every week if that were the case.

At any rate, you should read that post again- where the original creator clearly says they do not give permission to resell their work- and notice that there is literally not a single pixel different from the original graphic to the stupidly overpriced SL MP listing. The message from the original creator also refers to Toxxic as a pirate, meaning they have confirmed she didn’t have permission. All that shit you said, while true in some cases, is completely irrelevant to this situation.

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TellMeYoureBrokeWithoutTellingMe
Reply to  Be Less Ignorant, Please
1 year ago

If you can’t afford to invest $50 – $100 in your BUSINESS just say that…

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cool2
Reply to  Be Less Ignorant, Please
1 year ago

my example is relevant because olyacreative also sells on designbundles, a site much like freepik where graphic designers can find assets and fonts for graphic design projects (much like canva).

under each of her illustration sets on designbundles (including that moth) contains the following paragraph :

“Perfect for creating logo designs, graphics for websites, social media, marketing, prints, postcards, invitations, tattoos, textures and patterns, brand identities, designs for textile prints, and much more.”

why would you be selling artwork and assets on those sites and then it’s not meant to be used in projects such as the ones toxxic sells? i genuinely think because there is a language barrier, she probably misunderstood and thought toxxic was reselling her exact templates from etsy, which clearly is not the case.

if she bought the item from olya, it does grant permission for it to be used and edited for your own needs. she might need to attribute but that’s about it. you can even buy out of attribution if you subscribe to those sites. it’s probably not edited because maybe olya’s license does not allow her assets to be edited so that’s why it’s a carbon copy? i don’t know how pirating shit from etsy works because you do need to purchase the item so how’s that work?

there are creators on sl that use assets from freepik and adobe stock and don’t edit them and sell at bloated prices. are they thieves too? like what’s the line here?

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KG
Reply to  cool2
1 year ago

Ok so, I sell art assets on several websites, design bundles, creative market, envato marketplace, etst.. etc etc It’s good money! Now there is a license that comes with it. And several buying options. The price you pay determines the license. Personal use only, light commercial, heavy commercial and unlimited. Most of these people will buy the personal use only, cause it’s the cheapest. Now when we look at the license a little closer, it outlines how to use these products. Licenses vary from site to site but a lot of them are similar. For example most of them allow you to use the product for ONE PROJECT ONLY. If you were to use those assets in a commercial manner again you would have to purchase a new license.That does not mean I’ll use this one picture for this project, thise other picture or asset for another. Nope just one project, period. Second you are sipposed to make that assets yours, change it, simply slapping in t on a background and adding some text or making it a seamless pattern isn’t enough. Third When you sell your project, the files are supposed to be integrated in such a way that the purchaser can’t just pull the original artwork out by itself. So if for example one of my images was used as is and put in a branding pack sold on sl I would (and have before) file a DMCA. As it’s the file as is, no changes, now someone else owns it, has no idea of the original licensing agreement and might use the file for a whole number of different projects. That is not permitted, the new license made by the initial purchaser is nil and valid as the original license by the artist is the only one… Read more »

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cool2
Reply to  KG
1 year ago

good info here! i also sell stock and yeah the worst of it (you see it on second life) where those buy a personal license or abuse the hell out of free to make money.

it’s the mentality of “if i don’t get caught, it’s fine” that absolutely ruins everything but something something capitalism.

thank you for your insight!

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Be Less Ignorant, Please
Reply to  cool2
1 year ago

So, instead of the simple and clear information presented in the post, you decided to invent a whole other scenario with zero evidence and declare it’s the truth? How creative.

Obviously the poster sent the MP link to the original creator of the artwork, so what leads you to believe they didn’t understand what they were being told? What part of that MP listing suggests it contains the original creator’s templates, so they might logically make that mistake? Why do you think purchasing something that you’re allowed to use in your own logo or other work means that you’re allowed to resell that work to someone else as your own? That definitely isn’t automatically the case, and you don’t know if she paid for anything. Even if it’s only a matter of missing attribution, that’s still selling something she didn’t create as if she did, and not following any agreements she accepted if she actually bought the templates instead of stealing them- which again you do not know.

Don’t mistake the thumbs up and down for anything relevant- this site is full of proud stupidity, and there’s also at least a couple of people who would agree that the earth was flat with their click votes if I chose to argue with a flat-earther.

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cool2
Reply to  Be Less Ignorant, Please
1 year ago

i didn’t make up a new scenario. we’re both operating on assumption but when a normal person who does not understand what SL is reads the words “resell my products”, that would entail that she thinks that toxxic is literally reselling/reposting templates and assets she has listed on etsy, designbundles, creative market etc…ie, her products. i don’t think i’m alone in that assumption. for her to “confirm” that toxxic is a pirate would mean that she combed over every transaction across multiple platforms, found her based on a SL user name (lol) and “banned” her from buying stuff from her on all of her selling platforms vs being normal and just DMCA’ing and going about her day. i think this platform and the exploited labour that keeps said platform afloat has deeply warped your perception of what creative work actually costs outside of SL because the “inflated” price (60 USD) of those templates toxxic sells represents the cost of labour put into making a brand: consultation, research, then the creation process, then edits if they have them. the templates she sells on MP do not entail authorship of that artwork or imply that she created the illustrations from scratch. she’s not forcing you to pay for her work. you can go buy assets and resources and create your own brand yourself. and if you don’t like the price, go to someone else that meets your budget instead of doing all this. Don’t mistake the thumbs up and down for anything relevant- this site is full of proud stupidity, and there’s also at least a couple of people who would agree that the earth was flat with their click votes if I chose to argue with a flat-earther. there is this amazing adult life hack called “changing your opinion or forming… Read more »

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Festivus Frank
Reply to  Be Less Ignorant, Please
1 year ago

Stupidly overpriced?! People are paying 100k lindens for custom branding done, so 15k is quite the deal on a kit that can be customized to their liking.

As far as permissions go, it depends on the site that Toxxic used to get the asset from, and from a quick bit of searching this specific moth asset is offered on at least 3 different websites. Maybe there is a chance that she misunderstood the license, mistakes happen, but she takes her work seriously and wouldn’t do it intentionally.

The thing is though, she isn’t just reselling the asset, she is selling a fully customizable branding package.

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cool2
Reply to  Festivus Frank
1 year ago

these people do not understand what a derivative work copyright is and i don’t have the spoons to explain it lol.

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lagertha
1 year ago

28 – 32 – 33 If you want to enter these events 60L only need to make a beautiful photo, the owners not respect or value the original creators, accept full perm of people who are BANNED in their events, greed is rotting everything
46 Thanks Velour but I don’t want your fucking dandruff for this Christmas
42 Sells 16k a stolen image, then indulges in talking about copies and other people thefts
37 Hahahaha definitely the person who makes the render for the went on vacation without warning
19 – 30 These poor devils give themselves away

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Adi
1 year ago

We get it you hate BrownSL. Damn there are so many posts this week about them.

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llsucks
1 year ago

17, 18 idk about you guys but i never see kids that are six feet tall but yanno.. it does seem LL has some things against femboys.. its sad.. but if you put tits on the femboys noone gives a shit if they hold a teddy bear or wear a pacifier.. its double standards.. why can’t there be cute boys

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Daruma
Reply to  llsucks
1 year ago

Femboys who do childish cutesy type stuff like this are a lot easier to mistake as children specifically cause of the flat chests and feminine builds. At a glance it’s not so easy to tell “is this supposed a mid-puberty girl or a young man who’s trying to look like a mid-puberty girl.” And women do for sure get this same type of treatment if they dress up like babies or toddlers while doing sexual stuff, especially if they try to make their shape look real young. It grosses most folks out regardless of gender.

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Get Your Ducks In A Row
Reply to  Daruma
1 year ago

i have to agree, as a person who does femboy inside and out SL, there IS a broad line between looking like a 12-year-old boy, and looking like a feminine male. Its fucking annoying coming across people who build these avatars and think they are being cute, it is not, It’s nasty. If you look at these “im not a child im just smoll” avatars and find them sexually enticing, you have a problem. nobody says anything to them, lets them stand there looking like a whole pedo. You are not cute, You look nasty. If you see something wrong say something to them.

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Angie
Reply to  Daruma
1 year ago

Most of them look like children and Age-play is against LL TOS. I agree with LL – sexualization of under 18-year-olds in SecondLife is a pedo-culture and it is DISGUSTING!

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Ms. Cynical The McFuck
Reply to  Angie
1 year ago

ageplay is not, sexual underageplay is. You can pretend to be any age you want but if you’re doing sexual stuff as an underage person, you’re banned, however I don’t see see two adults doing that as pedo, since both are adults. It is disgusting, creepy, but if you make pedo to be something other than going after real little kids, then it loses its meaning and becomes a joke and that is even more disgusting to see those victims as a joke.

I, also, think that if a person is a pedo in r.l. is doing stuff online with another adult, they’re either trying to stay out of trouble or locking themselves up and people kicking them off the platform where they can go back into real life and harm an actual living breathing kid isn’t thinking about what harm it would do if you let those people back out into the real world.

Rather them do it with another adult over a real life kid and support them in the effort of staying away from my kid as far away as possible. This is why my kids aren’t going on second life, it’s not a platform for kids.

Because if they’re on a sex offender’s list, they already have not many options to go.

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Daruma
Reply to  Ms. Cynical The McFuck
1 year ago

Consuming and creating fictional CP doesn’t “satisfy those urges” and keep pedophiles from being interested in real kids, it makes their fixation grow and normalizes it. It’s worse when pedophiles are networking with other pedophiles through that fictional CP because then they have comradery with people who have similar interests. It can very easily progress past fiction when there’s a group of them all supporting and encouraging each other, in fact that’s a common way for CP rings to start and operate.

Gonna get a bit personal here, but I’ve seen the documents and evidence in criminal cases where pedophiles have been caught. It’s sickening and haunting. Sure, some of these pedophiles can stop themselves before it gets to be anything particularly noteworthy, but many don’t stop before they get caught. They get involved with production and distribution of real CP and/or start abusing the kids in their life.

In the majority of these cases I’ve personally seen it’s not “one or the other” with fiction and reality, they’re engaging with both in large amounts. Almost all of them have enough self-preservation instinct to not let people besides their pedophile friends know what they’re doing. Many of them you would never guess what they were doing in secret before they got caught.

I feel it’s worth saying that fictional CP is illegal in many countries, including the US despite some folks trying to claim otherwise. There’s just not enough manpower to pursue those offenses most of the time unless it’s someone who’s incredibly high profile, similar to how most online piracy offenses aren’t pursued. Lack of legal action doesn’t make something legal. Pedophiles don’t need their urges fed to “keep kids safe from them,” they need professional help before it gets worse.

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Be Less Ignorant, Please
Reply to  Ms. Cynical The McFuck
1 year ago

The “options” pedophiles have are to do nothing sexual related to children period or be locked up- they don’t deserve any other options. There is literally zero reason to believe that using SL as an outlet for fantasies of raping children keeps them from doing the same in rl- in fact, it makes way more sense that the more they focus and obsess over their sick desires, the more likely they are to push that line further and further until they get what they truly want. No one is “letting” them do anything- being in SL doesn’t lock you away from rl, and no one but them is responsible for what they do. Stop making excuses to allow for SL pedo shit- it makes you look very fucking guilty.

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Be Less Ignorant, Please
Reply to  llsucks
1 year ago

I don’t know if this is your first week here or what, but people definitely care when avis who look the same as those type femboys- only with tits- run around dressed like sexualized children. They come under fire here a lot more often than the femboys actually, just based on sheer numbers. The underaged kind of “cute” is completely nonsexual for decent adults, period, regardless of gender identity.

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TheOriginalSmh
Reply to  llsucks
1 year ago

just FYI – it’s not LL, it’s people who create/upload/sell items. what you see is what people have chosen to create.

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Try again
Reply to  llsucks
1 year ago

These avatars come up to the chest of any adult male avatar. They 100% look like children and one is even holding a teddy bear. If they’re caught doing adult activities they SHOULD be banned. These are children. And “boys” are by definition also minors.

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wat
Reply to  Try again
1 year ago

Nah, those men are just 8+feet tall for some stupid reason.

Realistic height avis are going to win this war

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Be Less Ignorant, Please
Reply to  wat
1 year ago

Not just camera angles, but 99% of the builds as well, both structures and furniture- the only logical choice is to make yourself realistic height in relation to environment instead of being stupidly stuck on slider numbers, because using rl height in SL is not, in fact, realistic in any way.

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WhatIsYourDamageHeather
Reply to  wat
1 year ago

The “realistic avis” crew have been riding that hobby horse for over 16 years. GTFOver it. You won’t convince people to do a shorter height than they want to have. The camera angles are still not in your favor.

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Ilaughatdumbpeople
1 year ago

#4 lmao so it makes someone trash because their ex has them in their profile….the same ex that hasn’t been on his account in months? Sweetie educate yourself because your look down right stupid to even post this thinking is hurts someone’s feelings. It’s really pathetic lmao. Go look at your mans Flickr under his favs and look how many naked women he looks at on a daily basis. You think he is great but deep down your as desperate and stupid as he is.

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Hate to break it to you
Reply to  Ilaughatdumbpeople
1 year ago

He probably in the boxes trying to pose with em too!

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TheMoonTheStarsTheSky
Reply to  Hate to break it to you
1 year ago

Honestly who knows. He might lie or make up some excuse.

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Passing by
1 year ago

#38 you sound like an ex or was rejected. Give us the proof/details not what exists inside your head.

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WhatIsYourDamageHeather
Reply to  Passing by
1 year ago

LOL. “Passing by.” Make it more obvious next time. May I suggest “I’m in this meme and I don’t like it.”

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OhMyGeebus
Reply to  Passing by
1 year ago

Ask their ex-partners. Both ex’s can confirm. Multiple people in the community know and have proof. Another community has already banned them for lies. Rumors are the Xaara Powers That Be have proof now. It’s just a matter of time before karma come for them. Best chance they have is to leave now. That many people with proof can not be suffering from the same delusion. 

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OhMyGeebus
Reply to  Passing by
1 year ago

Ask their ex-partners. Both ex’s can confirm. Multiple people in the community know and have proof. Another community has already banned them for lies. Rumors are the Xaara Powers That Be have proof now. It’s just a matter of time before karma come for them. Best chance they have is to leave now. That many people with proof can not be suffering from the same delusion.

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Thoth
Reply to  Passing by
1 year ago

Ask Arella, maybe she will lie some more. Her ex-partner can certainly verify that this is true. He can also verify he was never told. RB’s recent ex-partner can verify everything as well. They are not the only ones who can verify. Karma comes for everyone, especially those who actively work to deceive. Rumors are The Powers That Be are not happy, at all. Xaara has rules on alting. If Rella & RB are smart, they will grab their collections of subs and run, run far, run fast. Multiple people know the truth. The probability of them all suffering the same delusion is nil and void.

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Thoth
Reply to  Passing by
1 year ago

Someone should ask Arella, see if she lies again like she did to her ex-partner. Better yet, ask her ex-partner. Ask at least one of RB’s ex-partners. Both ex-partners can confirm as well. Does this mean multiple people are suffering from the same delusions? Karma and the truth always comes for those who are deceitful. Best thing either can do is take their collection of subs they’ve lied to and exit the community stage right. Do it now cause rumors are the higher ups are not happy with the ongoing drama. Rella & RB are digging their own graves.

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0cean
Reply to  Thoth
1 year ago

OhMyGeebus and Thoth, why don’t you go ahead and ask Ariella or the ex-partner? Why have not done this yourself already? Best thing either of you can do is do it now cause you are looking more and more cowardly and pathetic.

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Merry Christmas!
1 year ago

#42
We all know that toxic resells free assets from behance. People who design their own store should definitely have seen this. Try to convince me otherwise.

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DaddyJimJones
1 year ago

45.Ha!, i knew it, Sky Acer always was into cuckolding!!!!!

That explains all those black alts he had, i remember once he asked me to cum on his face after i finishied banging his little girl at the time, the guy was such a loser hahahahaha

SIKE!

46.to be fair most females on sl prob don’t wash their hair irl either sooo hahahahahahaha

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XfilesInvestigator
1 year ago

45. Does anyone have any sort of evidence that Gaycer had ALL those alts?

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Fuck off
Reply to  XfilesInvestigator
1 year ago

Matt Markus is a female in rl. So Acer is???

Spoiler

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ProgressManaged
Reply to  XfilesInvestigator
1 year ago

No but using gay is a pejorative is disgusting.

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Too keen it looks like
Reply to  XfilesInvestigator
1 year ago

nope, and added names there that are so freakin unrealistic cant even begin to consider. Alec Lygon, Titus Palmira, Dutch Ireman and Matt Marcus please lol

Last edited 1 year ago by Too keen it looks like
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The watcher
1 year ago

All the GOT stuff. Just don’t go easy as that. Some of yall are acting like there’s a gun to your head or something.

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ClappTrapp
1 year ago

47 doesn’t realize that there’s a difference between consent between RPers you know well doing a CNC/R RP, and having it sprung on you as part of an event. There’s a real human behind the screen… There’s not a real human being affected by the things happening to characters in books.

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ThePenIsBlue
Reply to  ClappTrapp
1 year ago

Clearly you don’t read books that grasp you and make you feel. Actions in RP and books can/do have effects on the people taking part of or reading them.

The sim should have an SA warning, and everyone has the right to FTB or walk away from an RP.

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Wait
Reply to  ThePenIsBlue
1 year ago

Way to miss the point. What you think should happen isn’t what actually happens.

SA is not part of **rp culture** in the GoT RP community WITHOUT CONSENT. We all know that it occurs in the books, but SA is not mandatory and there is no reasonable expectation to be sexually assaulted in RP.

Besides, enough people consent to SA rp that it’s not necessary for it to be an expectation.  

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ThePenIsBlue
Reply to  Wait
1 year ago

I was commenting on the idea that reading/rp has no effect on people.

“There’s a real human behind the screen… There’s not a real human being effected by the things happening to characters in books.”

People who read are always affected by things happening in books if the book grabs ahold of them and their imagination like any good book does. Also, the secret said…

“Bitch clique upset they didn’t see a specific warning about SA.”

If there is no warning posted anywhere, then perhaps there should be, but everyone can RP and not partake in the actions itself, here are some options. Clearly, I am only speaking on books/RP – emotions/effects to people and perhaps a warning is a good idea, but you can always FTB or leave if need be. So, way to miss my point.

Last edited 1 year ago by ThePenIsBlue
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Former Soviet Nation
1 year ago

Every time I get the itch to play GoT again, I look at VS and suddenly that urge goes away.

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All I see is Brown
1 year ago

I think I saw a post about a guy named Brown, but I might be mistaken…

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A little bird
1 year ago

So who is the one obviously trying to defend Maven and Cat for their shitty ass letter?

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A little bird
Reply to  A little bird
1 year ago

Cute that you’re using my name, but you’re not me. lol

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A big crow?
Reply to  A little bird
1 year ago

So completely loosing the point, aren’tya?

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A Wide Load
Reply to  A little bird
1 year ago

I’d just eat 10000 calories a day if I wanted to be you

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granite countertops
1 year ago

17&18- I absolutely love how most femboys come in two unfortunately proportioned settings: Tiny baby head with child-birthing hips, or Massive headed, 12 year old girl.

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mary whitehouse
Reply to  granite countertops
1 year ago

17 18 This thread on SL reddit was so gross. Normally the mods just post “we can’t do anything, tough luck” when people post about their bans, but this time it was a femboy – I think all 3 mods are lgbt – and so the thread was go go go and the mods went to battle to save the femboy! They tried to create a narrative that he’d been targeted by some nasty anti-lgbt types. It never occurred to them that maybe it was a fellow gay who was fed up of people looking like kids. One mod seemed to know of numerous femboy’s who’d been banned!! (read my friends)

Finally, he posted his pics and it was obvious why he got banned – namely he’d created a sexualised child avi, When it was clear he was in the wrong the mods then tried to say permanent bans were wrong. One mod said a permanent ban was way too severe and that it was a case of ‘your avi needs work’. A second said nobody should be banned forever and that banned users should be told they are having ‘issues’ and ‘see you in six months’. Which is a bit weird given how freely they ban anybody who dares even the slightest transgressions.

What made it funny was he said a few of his buddies had been banned so you’d think this might have been a wake up call to check the rules, but no.

The mods of SL Reddit need to stand down.

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Omg thank u
Reply to  mary whitehouse
1 year ago

Bravo. Literally the best summary! 😂

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ProgressManaged
Reply to  granite countertops
1 year ago

I absolutely love that your only experience with femboys is the VS Paedo patrol.

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Be Less Ignorant, Please
Reply to  ProgressManaged
1 year ago

So this is the second time it’s been mentioned that the image most of us here in these comments have of SL femboys isn’t actually how the majority of them look- but thus far, we’ve seen no examples of these fully adult looking femboys without ridiculous proportions. If they’re so common, it should be easy to find some pics, right? Surely some of them have Flickrs just like most people. Show us what you mean when you insist we don’t know what we’re talking about. Otherwise, these defensive comments are pretty easy to dismiss.

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Be more ignorant, I think it's funny
Reply to  Be Less Ignorant, Please
1 year ago

Yea, I agree. Every single so called “femboy” i’ve seen has looked like the pics above. This person came onto reddit to complain that they got banned and even the admins were trolling about how LL must have something against femboys. Frankly, that’s total fucking bullshit. These not only look like children, most wear child like clothes and carry around bears and dolls. It’s fucking creepy as fuck and I’m sick of it. Now i have seen succesful twinks in SL and thin obviously adult male men who don’t identify as “femboy.” But no, I have yet to find one avi that calls themselves a femboy that hasn’t been insanely and inappropriately childlike.

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Be Less Ignorant, Please
Reply to  Be more ignorant, I think it's funny
1 year ago

I personally know one; he looks like a young, thin, adult woman, in height and shape. Aside from him, every single other one I’ve seen either looked like a 12 year old hooker or exactly like every other generic “chubby” bbg, only with a bulge thong. I’ve said it before- if femboys who don’t look barely pubescent are really the majority, they are the ones who should be the most pissed off at people co-opting their identity to obfuscate pedo shit. They make everyone under the label look bad.

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why do men
Reply to  granite countertops
1 year ago

thats what happens when Y chromies make fetish shapes, it never usually makes any sense anatomically

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WhatIsYourDamageHeather
1 year ago

24 – Anyone bitching about the gray hair packs has forgotten her hair is tintable. I love gray bases for that. Those and blondes are the two natural ranges that give the best contrasts if you’re aiming for a color job. Can someone who wants to be blonde use gray? Figure it out for yourself. If not, they were free. Delete and move on.

38 – Are these going to become a series? Or is this strictly about two toxic jackasses who try to ingratiate themselves with the people they think have power while mistreating the ones who remind them they’re weak-minded and pathetic? They deserve it and a lot more, mind you.

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Personal in practice
1 year ago

Funny one person posted about Samantha Foxy and the SL wrestling community. Maybe you’re ass should’ve not said a word and you wouldn’t get what you got my dude.

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Osama bin Lin
1 year ago

The truth about Toby he beats on women remember the battery charge crme you been charged last time about 4 months ago. but the girl mysterious drop the charger I wonder why

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Verbatim
Reply to  Osama bin Lin
1 year ago

What are you on about? Toby fiddled a little boy. The charges weren’t dropped he took a deal and gave up a bunch of people. Get it together your spreading of fake shit just out of hate makes people not know what’s real and what’s made up.

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A wild fae
1 year ago

42 – As a fellow graphic designer, I fail to see what Toxxic did wrong here. If she purchased the element, she is rightfully allowed to use it via the original creator’s terms of usage. She modified the original design by adding her own text. This is actually a very common and accepted practice in graphic design; the buying and using of pre-made elements.

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mitsuru senpai
1 year ago

47. Okay but defending rape rp is weird and you need therapy

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Little Miss Something
1 year ago

44 – Maven and the imaginary roleplay community supporting him.

Who?

Ain’t no one want anything to do with you anymore.

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Gabriel Archon
1 year ago

Barely a day passes without Bandor announcing another “flash sale”. It’s become beyond ridiculous lately. As for the “we live or play in their home…” BS, those renters are paying for the ‘privilege’ of being crammed together like sardines as the rental plots get smaller and smaller, desperately trying to fit more and more people into each sim. A recent “special offer” was free Debauchery releases “for life” for the low low (!!!) price of 125,000L$. You can smell the panic as “tier day” approaches.

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Just lower your prices bandor and you'll sell more
Reply to  Gabriel Archon
1 year ago

His stuff would actually sell if it was AT ALLLLLLL reasonably priced. People really do want good animations but we don’t want to pay 6,000 lindens for them

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Be Less Ignorant, Please
Reply to  Just lower your prices bandor and you'll sell more
1 year ago

Lucky for you, you can buy the same animations he uses in dozens of other stores; check the contents tab in Edit before you buy any furniture. You’ll see that all the animations from most places are made by the same handful of people. Some people do good work with them and charge reasonable prices, like Lalou, while some people do barely mediocre work with them and ridiculously overcharge, like Bandor.

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That One Girl
Reply to  Gabriel Archon
1 year ago

Maui needs to poof into the great beyond already. Bandor and Dani allow for all kinds of shit in the sim and wonder why people don’t come around, you have the debauchery spam but then you have a bunch of fucking drama llamas and more people that act single than swing there when its supposed to be a swingers place.

They also need to do better by kicking out people who are now using Maui as a place to AFK, and I don’t know which shithead “interviewer” it is but someone keeps allowing short fucking female avatars into the group and onto the sim.

My avatar is 5 foot 5 inches which is tall enough to be considered average female adult height, but then there’s these female avatars I’ve come across at Maui and they barely come up to my tits/neck area.

I bet I am not the only one tired of these short ass avi’s trying to pretend to be adults, if you’re gonna be on an adult sim at least have your fucking avi look like it in BOTH height and looks.

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Gabriel Archon
Reply to  That One Girl
1 year ago

Couldn’t agree more. Several questionable avis there lately. I’d hoped (in vain) that when they had the most recent drama-surge that led to a large chunk of the existing “elite” leaving, it would make things better, especially the departure of the three witches who always stood like a malevolent cluster of tits ‘n ass in the middle of the floor there (Crimson, Cryptic and the other one whose name I can never remember). But it’s still the same old story. There’s also the issue of the “swinging” couples who join where it’s obvious HE wanted to and SHE went along with it. Good luck swinging with any of those – the evil-eye looks if you even walk too close to their man will melt your pixels.Whole place needs burning to the ground!

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That One Girl
Reply to  That One Girl
1 year ago

I also forgot to mention in the above post, you may as well count Bandor and Dani as part of the “GoT sim owner horde” because Bandor and Dani owned a Game of Thrones sim before they ever made Maui.

Their GoT sim failed, and Maui is on its way to failing if Bandor has to beg people to buy his shit just to fund it.

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cool2
1 year ago

42 – ok but anyone can purchase olya’s bundles and use it in their own branding or templates. that’s what toxxic did? stock imagery like this is meant to be used and edited by other graphic designers/creatives. you got that etsy girl thinking someone is buying and reselling her exact templates as their own, when that is not the case.

https://designbundles.net/olya-creative/1473204-divine-logo-design-elements-esoteric-mystic-symbol

the most you can accuse toxxic of is not being creative but do you think you’re getting a full hand-crafted brand for your pixel doll business for 30USD? be serious

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Proud Poppa
1 year ago

#6. I am guessing you are just a tad bit jealous that Samantha Foxy is far superior to you in every single way from how kind, sweet and adorable she is to the quality of matches she puts on and that everyone absolutely loves her and no one gives two shits about you and your stupid whiny idiot bitch self

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Colmar
1 year ago

41 – I haven’t posted on here EVER. Thank you for bringing me into this cesspool. Thank you so very much.

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Be Less Ignorant, Please
1 year ago

37 – Do you really think the image on the left is a “picture” someone “took” and not an image made outside of SL? Because no lol

Vendor ads can lie but demos can’t; don’t be dumb with your money.

42 – Say it ain’t so! That egomaniacal twat is a full on thief? I can’t come up with even the tiniest bit of shock. “But [event]!” sigh

50 – He never lets up looking for money, so why hasn’t it occurred to him to let a few regions go if he can’t pay his real life medical bills? What kind of priorities are those? Also, 50% is the absolute minimum discount I would need to consider buying anything he assembles out of full perm everything and sells. The textures are consistently amateurish whether he chooses decent meshes or not. The only thing that makes his stuff slightly different is how many options he has for like 8 people at a time, but who cares really? Separate, unique, higher quality furniture in the same space is better for group stuff than everyone using the same generic animations just to share a giant couch or hot tub.

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teaser
Reply to  Be Less Ignorant, Please
1 year ago

Bandor’s stuff is crap anyhow – it looks dated (go back to the 1970’s) and it is ugly – not to mention high prim. Why pay for for one of his couches when you can decorate a whole room from another vendor?

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Be Less Ignorant, Please
Reply to  teaser
1 year ago

Absolutely. He buys meshes, textures, and animations- the only actual work he does is fitting the animations onto the furniture, and he does a barely passable job of that. Now, this is mostly true for about 80% of furniture stores in SL- very few are making their own original animations or meshes- but at least some of them make nice looking textures with some depth like properly used materials and shadow maps. Bandor never even bothered with regular materials, so there’s no way he’s going to do PBR, and his stuff is going to just keep getting more outdated. Is he ever going to show the awareness to reflect that in his prices? Probably not. He will probably just continue in this delusion until he truly can’t afford Maui anymore and then he will blame everyone else for having to close it.

A certain furniture store with full perm meshes but original animations and textures put a piece of brand new furniture out with a big discount for group members for the whole month before xmas- less than 5k for all these unique, physics and bento enabled animations you can’t buy anywhere else. Bandor thinks his generic shit is worth more than that, and he’s so resentful at offering any discounts he can only stand to do it for a few hours at a time. It’s actually kind of funny.

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M🎄
1 year ago

24 the hairs come with a tint hud

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👾
1 year ago

17 and 18 is real pedo behind the person luring people you got banned you got what you asked for. You do the crime to do the time.

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