Welcome to virtual-secrets, week 394.
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virtual-secrets: Week 394
· Lourdes Denimore ·
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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.
#11 That person is no longer apart of that event, You all are just making a bigger deal out of something that has been solved already, than needs to be done. Way to shoot down a person who made a simple mistake. She wasn’t promoting that swimsuit, only the maker, and mistakenly invited a person not realizing just how bad the product was until someone convinced her to try it out herself.
I loved Hentai fair… fuck ya’ll haha
Who are #5 and #7?
No such thing as ‘irrelevant’ creators. For every pot, a lid.
gurl they should have put a lid on it, ew
What does that even mean?
@10 you were talking to an avatar in a virtual world, how much of that do you think is real? SL isn’t a dating site, it’s a fantasy world, people are not obligated to tell you a thing about who they are.
I agree nobody simply using SL for personal fun in world should have to disclose anything.
Technically it is not a fantasy world it is a virtual world. So some people RP but many do not.
That bahavior in the original secret is gross.
The only time people should disclose is if RL comes into it and mostly, for example, if they are meeting up or taking a friendship into real world. In that scenario, I think friends should be honest with each other as friendship should be build on honesty. How that is a rare example and shouldn’t be confused with people happily playing in SL who have no intention of being RL into it.
Age play, beastiality… There is so much fucked up shit when you really open your eyes. It took me 6 years to even realize how disgusting perverts on SL can be. I might have had my head in the clouds– because I personally couldn’t phathom that people would actually participate in many of these ‘activities’. As a child avi myself, who has the smb body– because I am a big kid (7-9) — am appauled at the clothing options or lack of for big kids. And the so many smb creators are making child slut wear. I inmocently ordered a tee shirt set to use as pajamas, and it came with undies. Ok fine. But there was a dirty undie option? Wtf! And if there are events for children, creators should not be endorsing ageplay wear!
11 is so super gross. She’s the reason I won’t buy an SMB body on my kid av, because I don’t want to be even slightly associated with that garbage. Hey LL, want to find where the ageplayers are hiding? Go check where her buyers hang out.
Really, how is this disgusting store is still around?? The ultimate pedo feeder! No one ever reported this shit?
I have, many times and I know others have too, it’s still there though.
#6 The person who started this event has a long history of making sexy, kawaii themed things. She is not one of “you guys”. She is a nice person and a fun creature.
creature is alright lol
Who are you trying to be? I don’t post here for weeks and you miss me so bad you try to imitate me, awwww Char I’m touched, but you need to pay more attention to detail
#10 He She It (LOL) owes people to know nothing about her RL situation. SL was not born to be a dating site so a person’s private life is irrelevant.
The only reason why people gett butt hurt about gender swapping is because they can’t fathom they were attracted to someone who does not meet their criteria.
Please don’t make light of someone’s rather hurtful comment with regards to another person’s gender identity. Granted, L isn’t a dating site, but that doesn’t excuse someone from referring to a transgender person as “He/She/It”, which is highly dehumanising language, so your “LOL” comment wasn’t much better than the original that you were trying to mock.
Remember, everyone is a real person behind the screen.
It is an object. Unless some is RPing a chair or a table lamp– “it” is not ok.
#4 Considering how little respect TMP is getting for how they behave towards creators and their absurd stilll no refund on HUD disposition no wonder they have so little product placements.
As for the script count I think its very low but then again most people will DERENDER every avatar to avoid lag so it matters little how you dress for the occasion
My problem was that even only wearing my head, (floating head).. The demo huds for the skins would put me over limit and I’d get the warning that I was gonna get kicked.
#10 I don’t do voice, cam, or Skype. I assure you I am a woman and have been so for many decades. I don’t have a headset nor do I really want one. You really shouldn’t judge people on such a ridiculous idea.
I very rarely do voice, and scarcely ever Skype. If I do, it’s with people I’m already friends with. And yeah, I’ve been “accused” of being a guy before (which is frankly kind of hilarious, especially since I’m an ace and not interested in relationships beyond friendship. Gender is irrelevant where I’m concerned.) If that happens again, I may just have to go into detail about my menstrual cycle or something…
Some people are way too hung up on the sex of other people, and #10 really needs to do some serious self-examination…
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No, not *that* kind.
Well, okay, maybe that kind, too. Whatever helps?
#10 The original writer of the highlighted post makes my blood boil. In this, the 21st century, there is NO place for such ignorant language as that. None. This Jenny Paige Scout clearly is very bigoted and ignorant, which the creator of this secret is highlighting and obviously Dear Jenny would like all of us transgender (not transgendered) girls to wear some kind of identifier, y’know, like the ones Donald J. Camacho Drumpf wants the muslims to wear, or Hitler with the jews. Maybe that’d make Jenny feel better? Also, I’d like to educate Jenny on something called ‘choice’. I’m a transgender woman. I didn’t ask to be trans, I was born trans. I’ve always been trans. It can’t be taught, it can’t be changed. However, Jenny *chose* to be ignorant and hateful towards someone. You’re not born with hate, you’re taught it. It’s a trait usually picked up through the ignorance of those who influence you in the home. You don’t have to hate or be ignorant. You can break the programming, think for yourself and become a better person. One who doesn’t refer to a fellow human in such a derogatory term as “creature”. Another point I’d like to bring up is the fact that the ‘lovely’ Jenny automatically assumed that this trans girl was male in real life. Second Life is a hugely, hugely important tool for trans women. I know many trans girls in SL who use it as a tool to be able to express who they are inside, because circumstances dictate that in reality, they can’t be the person on the outside that they know they are. Maybe they live with someone like Jenny here, suffering in silence because they feel threatened by ignorance? Whatever the reasons, SL lets them express their true identity… Read more »
For me the gender of your real self doesn’t need to be reflected in SL, besides at the end of the day gender doesn’t even matter. If you like someone for who they are then gender is not a factor, its all about personality and honestly Jenny’s personality is pretty damn shitty.
I don’t voice often in SL its a rare occurance and I skype only with close friends, but I’m all woman I just prefer text over voice. I really have issues articulating myself speaking, where as in text I find its a lot easier to do.
There are some people in SL mostly men who want to know your real life gender, just so they know that when they are porking your pixels they are jerking off to a real woman and not a man with a female avatar. Seriously if fap bank material is why you want to know real life genders, do yourself a favour and just watch porn. You aint banging the real life person, you’re doing their representation of themselves.
My brother irl is a trans man. I watched him grow up and struggle with his birth assigned gender. I was always aware of his pain and confusion at having to fit into the ridiculous gender standards society forces on all of us. He’s the most caring and awesome person I’ve had the pleasure of knowing and to hear any trans person talked about in the way that Jenny did cuts me like a knife. We need to be better than this in 2016. Stop the hate, stop the bullshit. Instead of sitting at a computer and passing judgement try getting out into the world and affecting some positive change. Or if that’s not an option try some serious self reflection. Read a book written by a trans person. Go watch Boys Don’t Cry ffs. Just please, get some perspective and start acknowledging all human beings as people who deserve the same love and respect you’d want for yourself. And to anyone who has or is struggling with their gender identity just know there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You will be loved. You will have success. Just keep being you.
Natalie, Ham, Exhi: It’s heart-warming to read each of your comments.
In such a world, you’re a beacon of light, and hope.
From a trans-woman: Thank you.
PS: For anyone needing it, if you do, (whoever might read this), please don’t hesitate to call the translifeline:
http://www.translifeline.org
♥
How the fuck a stupid bitch who has less IQ than a German Shepard can not be ignorant?
If I’m a transgender who am I supposed to tell what’s up? Not a bitch I met a few hours before and went shopping together, obviously…
Note to jenny paige cunt: Just letting you know, about half of the SL population are playing the opposite sex so be very aware and hide under a rock instead. Or turn off the computer and go educate yourself with television as you did before, you piece of human waste.