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SLSecret: Week 379
· Lourdes Denimore ·
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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.
I hope everyone is staying warm this winter! It’s so cold! Brr.
Bark bark!
Ruff!
“Rolls over for belly rub”
WOOOOOF
#2 True Story I happen to know first hand that this girl is a problem starting slut. Find your own happiness and stop trying to steal other peoples. Literally sits on SL ALL fucking day loool sad life you have there just sayin’
Someone enlighten me… are we supposed to know who the commenter ‘whateves’ is?
They know nothin, they have some little beef with someone so they assume I’m her. They’ve never had a tangible thing on me. I could put up a link to anything and say it’s you, doesn’t mean it is.
If anybody wants to read back over the weeks, they will find all the posts including the flickr links where she f*cked up and outed herself. She can protest now all she likes, but the deed was already done.
It’s old news, and people need to stop reacting to her here week after week.
She craves attention, responses and posts. It’s sad to watch a middle aged woman be so pathetic.
Not to mention you said I was a copybotter and a thief but when asked to provide REAL evidence i.e pictures of stuff I’ve copybotted and prove of my SL identity you and your croonies failed to do so. You have a beef with someone in SL and you have been hell bent on trying to link my virtual-secrets personna to that person because it suites your witch hunt. LMAO you have no way of concretely knowing who i5 am unless you have access to my IP addy from this site, so do ya? Do ya?
If Beth wouldn’t be right, you wouldn’t defend yourself 😉 We all know who you are, so save your breath.
Lol where is the grammar nazi when you need it
Lol there was no prove whatsoever. You could have put up a link to brad pits flickr and said it was me. For example here is Beth https://www.flickr.com/photos/50325419@N08/6150020111/in/pool-34809300@N00/
It has been on here a few weeks and flickr. Yeah her name is elle cresendro and she uses her rl images on flickr connected to her instagram
A lot of the people that I’d be proud to call friends have their names on the lonely rock at the fastnet lighthouse by now.
Care to step back and think about that?
Thought about it, don’t know what you’re on about.
Bark! Hi! I think this link might clear up the reference Lance made! http://www.economist.com/node/12792727
Bark Bark!
Close enough. The Lonely Rock refers to the SL version of the same monument mentioned in that article… there are just too many names on it that make me go “Yeah i knew that person”.
I think some of you need to step outside of your house and meet some real life humans, online friendships do not provide the same level of depth as virtual friendships. There’s a level of distrust online. Don’t you people have lifelong friendships from school and stuff
They can. Friendship is about talking and connecting, I’ve had some close online friends I saw every day and connected with deeply. I felt great loss when one of them passed and sadness when many moved on. Lifelong friends are very hard to come by, we all change, grow, and move on. For some disabled or introverted people or those who live in remote areas, online friends are all they have.
That said, we all need to leave the virtual world and exist in the real one too.
@ too old, You make good points. People who are disabled or remote would hugely benefit from an online community or a friendship, I do get that and I’m sorry for losses.
You don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about you idiot. “Online friendships do not provide the same level of depth as virtual friendships.” They are the same thing YOU FOOL!!!!!!!!!!!
There you are, judging, criticizing and generally belittling everyone else with your FUCKING trolling and you show your complete lack of intellect with this little gem.
You prod and poke people into reacting to the bile you spew, all to get attention. YOU ARE NOTHING MORE THAN A SADISTIC PSYCHOPATH. Poor little boo boo — didn’t your Mommy breastfeed you long enough? Didn’t your Daddy give you enough cuddles? Or maybe Daddy gave you too many, you pathetic lump of pond scum.
Get back into the box you crawled out of — or better still, go hang out with all those friends from school and “stuff”, you ugly little worm.
Oh dear POUTY looks like you need a bit of sunlight lol. But you’re right virtual and online are the same, I was busy doing life and interacting with my real life friends and didn’t read back over what I’d written. Just to clarify as you’re so testy………online/virtual friendships do not hold the same level of depth as when you actually know a person for real. Now calm yourself please I’m concerned you may have a stroke.
For you maybe but i doubt any of your *friends* know what bullshit you pull with the bullying and stalking.
So with that in mind how are you real friendships anymore genuine than the posters aboves online ones?
Sociapaths are REAL good at faking being normal and maintaining a level of friendship either way.
So Whateves perhaps once your friends know what you really are like you will see there is no difference.
And the difference is that I can actually make real life friends and interact in sunlight and you know fresh air and the like. Some sad sacks live their life online, you know it’s true. You’re probs one of them
LMAO my friends know everything there is to know about me. So if you’re threatening me, then go right ahead…..eh wait a minute, do you know my friends, do you know who I am and you called ME a stalker LOL
Cool lets test your statement? Do i have your permission lmao to prove you *right*… you publically have your rl stuff linked so not like you are keeping them a secret so as you put it in the publix domain it is fair game right?
Are you threatening and bullying me again Chaaar um i mean alienbint.
Lol everyone has rl stuff mine isn’t linked here. And no you don’t have my permission to stalk me nor did I imply you could no matter how you twist and turn my words.
Oh come on limp-dick. Surely to fuck you can do better than that! A stroke? Puh-lease! It would take a lot more than you or any shitful remark you made to make me have a stroke! HAH! Listen up you filthy cockroach: You won’t club decent people into submission by belting us over the head with your ass-wipe remarks. Wake up and smell reality for a change because — NEWSFLASH!! — NOBODY HERE CARES about you or your asinine and cretinous remarks you stink turd. You come here, week after week, flame people and drop your bombs before you scurry on back to whatever little rock you live under in RL. Go back to your little playgroup with your “school friends and stuff” (aka The Kingdom of Trolldom”), boil up some weiners and eat dick for breakfast. One more time, since you show yourself repeatedly to be S L O W:
Run along you sad little shit-eating, cum-guzzling grunter of the Third Reich and FUCK OFF.
Hahahahaha. Amazing slam down of whatever.
It is about time somebody put her in her place.
More please.
Back by popular demand …so here we go!!!!! Wots, you are nothing more than a pus-drinking slag. Again you prove yourself to be extremely S L O W on the uptake because you clearly can’t read. Your comprehension skills are also non-existent so we can add those two to the long list of your shortcomings and fails, you ugly, old dog. Actually you’re like one of those yappy little shits that just barks at every passer-by. YAP YAP YAP, always seeking attention from people you know in your heart are better than you. And that’s not hard either; you truly are pitiful and inadequate. As for your *claim* that you have sooooo many RL friends and such a full and fulfilling RL, how come you spend so much time here, slagging off at everyone, trolling, flaming and generally being an awful little excrement-eating maggot? And before you rush in and answer like the thick knucklehead that you are, that’s a *rhetorical* question sweetheart. (You’d better look that up nitwit because I’m sure you have no clue what it means. NOTE TO OTHER READERS: Wots will no doubt respond [it can’t help itself because of its fragile psychological condition and very low intellect] thus proving its ignorance and stupidity…AGAIN!!!) Other decent ppl on this site are 110% correct when they say that you’re a bully and a stalker; scum buckets like you like to dwell in the shadows of anonymity because you know how sad and pathetic you really are. You say how much this all makes you laugh but you are so socially CLUELESS and inept that even on a forum such as this you don’t get that the joke is on *you* and we’re all laughing at your fat ass, you infected piece of meat. As soon as someone… Read more »
Oh pouty you gave me a little nick name, so endearin WOTS. I love it
Oh and one more thing. Trying to insult my intelligence is a waste of your time, I don’t claim to be a nerd, I’m beautiful I’ve never needed to be smart <3 <3
Delusional is Wots you are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Go shave your back, you shit-for-brains fat dude…coz your ‘beauty’ has nothing better to do. No wonder people here call you a troll; you probably go to sleep at night under a rat corpse-infested bridge with all your RL “friends”.
Spit out the hair growing inside your mouth and shove a baseball bat up your ass then bleed a lot and go the fuck away. And get your “friends” to kiss it all better for you, soft cock.
Awww nooooos please stop being so mean to me boo hooo
Now see alienbint this is where we see your lies. I never gave any time line as to my illness or the time frame to when I was hospitalised. So you then go and say it was 6 weeks since I was sick. It may have been 6weeks ago that I shared that information with this loving community, you would know exactly when as you hang off my every word. But I never said when specifically it happened. So stop with your lies please sugar dumpling.
Oh alienbint don’t be so silly, I have no nerves lol
Do you imaginary friends also have imaginary hospital stays being an imaginary 50 pounds a few months back then rocking up to 140 pounds in less than 6 weeks?
Did i touch a nerve over the friendship thing, you seem worried that when people see what you splay over the internet under not anon names they may realize you are a douchebag with issues? perhaps they no longer will be able to stomach you. Let’s face it you try so hard to suppress your true self letting it roam free here, in it’s marred ability to interact with other people with only intent to harm others. But I bet it sneaks out sometimes, they probably do realize and a little trigger of that public information likely with bring it to it’s full public glory.
Your behavior dictates your outcome. Karma asshole.
Fuck me pouty you sure do go on. Again I fear for your health and because you’re such a fat bastard I’m now very worried you may have heart failure if you continue to work yourself up like this. Gosh I really hey to you huh
Oh opsi daisy *get to you*,tis tis autocorrect
Where, who, when I’m not seeing what you see
Oh and one other thing Pouty you sound fat you should eat less of those wiener things.
ROFL pouty you care about my asinine cretinous remarks, you just admitted to reading them “week after week”. And you’re like sooooo mad and upset by me, it’s really making me laugh quite a lot. Oh pouty you’re so S.L.O.W.
Re #5
Maybe they wanted to be seen together.
Did they have voice on?
My best friend is also my boyfriend who doesn’t talk to anyone in second life. He simply comes online to talk to me and then log off. So secret person you are washing the paint brush across lots who aren’t insane but just not interested in making friends.
I don’t agree with that in all cases. I’m a very shy person and it takes me a while to warm to people to the point of calling someone a ‘friend’ During that time many people in the fast paced and fickle SL environment move onto newer shouty and cooler friends. I made terrible friend choices over the years (8 years in SL) I resigned myself to the fact that either i was terribly unlucky, a bad person or people were just shit. I don’t sweat about it now as i’m happy with the amazing friendships i have right now…wouldn’t trade them in for the world. It’s not about who you have known the longest, but those who came and proved themselves.
Have to agree with #1. I’ve been in SL over seven years and have friends I’ve known for almost that entire time. We might not talk to each other every single day, but we’re still close. Hell, I’ve had the same partner for about six of those years. Most people I know are similar, with a number of long-term friends.
On the flip side, I’ve known people who have been in SL five or six years and only have any friends from the last one or two because they’re batshit insane and chase off those who used to be close to them. There are legit reasons for not having many long-term friends (being away from SL, getting out of a bad relationship, etc) but it’s absolutely a red flag and makes me wonder what happened. Doubly so if they put down their old friends or refer to them as being crazy.
my closest friends call me crazy …I AM crazy 😛 this does not hurt my feelings
In SL, we are *all* a little bit crazy. (Actually, I’m pretty sure that crazy is an intrinsic part of the human condition.) Thankfully, it’s mostly just the good or benign sort of crazy.
Then there’s the sort of crazy that negatively interferes with relationships, requires professional therapy and possibly medication, and (this is important) literally makes other people fear for their own safety and/or mental health. You know. Certifiably batshit insane.
Regular crazy is not bad, and can be kind of fun. Batshit insane is never fun.
My friends mainly just left over time. I have had drama but that was 9 years ago. Second Life is full of great people…I talk in chat once in a while. It still offers me a ton of activities!
#1- I’ve been in SL almost 11 years. I don’t have any friends. I used to…a long time ago. I’m shy and introverted and rarely speak to anyone in game. I don’t think anyone needs to beware of me. I’m actually very nice. Generalities are rarely a good idea.
#1 – I’ve been in SL for seven years and only one of the people I first met even still plays or bothers to log in once in a blue moon. I’ve had five friends who died, couple dozen who moved on, and a handful who were so toxic that I burned bridges with them – I can’t say I have any close friends in world now and my FL probably looks pathetic.
Some of my favorite people, and best friends, in SL have been oldbies. This is not to say that there is never drama — where there are humans, however experienced, there is drama — but in general, those I’ve had issues with have been on the younger end of the spectrum. Well, my SL age or younger. (What’s 5 years old in SL called? Middlebie?)
I’m sure it varies by community, too. The vampire types *might* be more dramatic than the live music folks, for example. :p
us oldbies referred to the mid range folks as “midbies” 😛
“Midbies.” I like that! For those of us who don’t feel like oldbies, but are definitely not newbies anymore. Thank you!
I don’t have really any friends in sl either and I’ve been in it for 5 years. I realized a little while ago how many toxic people there are in sl and now I no longer trust anyone I meet there. I just keep to myself and am happy with it. There are times I wish I could share things with people, but the risk of meeting someone who would share information about you in a heartbeat is too high. I mean, how many of you have been scorned by at least one person on sl? This whole entire site is just about that.
Shush bitch, you got me
I’ve been in sl for 12 some friends I’ve had for all 12 years, some for less then 1…Its heartbreaking to know how many of the long term friends I’ve lost over the years in all that time to many tragedies. Sometimes its easier not to get too close so you don’t have to bear the pain of losing them. A lot happens in 12 years. Folks have kids, People change jobs. Not everything stays the same forever. This is life. It is not unusual.