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SLSecret: Week 339
· Lourdes Denimore ·
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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.
Brie, thank you for continuing to include something uplifting, even amid all the nasty hate, because someone -always- needs the messages you give. Don’t ever let the drama-loving trolls stop you. ♥
Bitch pleaaaaaase. If you don’t like the drama loving trolls… here’s a useful life tip…. fuck off. But no doubt we’ll see you back here soon.
#8 please in future can you not adopt the brie style layout, I almost skipped reading yours!
Is #5 about the creator who has just begun molesting his 13 yo step-daughter in RL?
this is a bomb that cant be just dropped and walked away if there is truth in this allegation and I have anything by someone who did this I want to know so I can not only get rid of this creators things I can burn it. thank you.
Maybe An’s comment was assuming that other people already knew about those allegations, and know who said creator is?
It would be just be like most comments for people not on Plurk, not knowing a single back-story about the posts here. Just because you handful do not know, doesn’t mean its not already known by many others.
Funny how people freak out when they feel they weren’t kept in the “loop” for juicy “gossip”.
Doesn’t seem like the type of story to be talked about publicly, however. I would assume that those who even know about the designer and whats really been going on wouldn’t talk much about it, more-less post details on this website.
Then again… knowing SL… An could just be stirring the pot and getting everyone talking. How easy it would be to just come in and throw out a comment like that and watch the snowball effect.
You probably should not make such accusations here or anywhere without proof and if you have proof might I suggest CALLING THE POLICE instead of dropping unsubstantiated things like this on the internet?
Lol when are people going to learn the police don’t give a toss about anything any of you write in a blog about SL. You will not be taken seriously, police work with facts not hearsay and sure as hell not hearsay from a site like this. This is a place where people can and do say anything they want to disparage the reputation of someone simply because they are jealous, don’t like them or have had an altercation or drama with them in the past.
Stop with the “omg call the police” shit, it won’t fly, drama larma’s.
My comment to call the police is the the benefit of the 13 year old being molested not for the internet. I am well aware that the police give zero fucks about what happens here. But instead of being a drama whore and saying it here where nothing can be done call the police and report the molestation. Them dropping that here does absolutely nothing to help that child, just makes them look like an ass and a liar.
Good point, I agree with that. That is If they know these people in RL and can report them because they actually do know it’s happening. If it’s just 2nd, 3rd – 5th hand news generated by idiots it’s worthless.
WHAT
Tits or GTFO.
(This is a metaphor for Proof or it’s gonna be ignored.)
omg. whet?
3. add “wins the costume contest boards at her own club while wearing texture shoes”
TEXTURE
SHOES
… I didn’t know there was such a thing. Eww.
I didn’t either until I saw it there. It was just the foot shaped into a vague high heel figure with a pink texture on it. I guess they used the sock layer?
It was scary.
re #6: what in the hell is the big deal with the mesh mouths? some people know how to wear them properly and some don’t. why are people so annoyed with the making of mesh mouths when there are mesh asses, tits, dicks, heads, pet pigs etc being made on the daily? why do so many people put down loud mouth and nyam? get over it already. so boring.
re #1: LOL. ditto.
re # 9: dear submitter. you’re boring too.
cuz you look like a carp or bass
A what and a what??? WTF
i don’t wear mesh mouths. but per your comment. *snore*
Then that’s their business and not yours. You don’t get to dictate what people choose to look like. If you don’t like the mouth then don’t wear it and let those who do wear it carry on without ridicule from people who think their opinion is better or means more.
I agree with you So?
. like move on and stop crying about it.
Sure…..but people don’t get to dictate whether mesh mouths should being created and worn. that goes both ways. i don’t even wear mesh mouths, but I’m not sitting around bitching about people who do make/wear them. It’s annoying, even to those who don’t wear mesh mouths, to see whining ass posts about people who do. so again, that goes two ways.
#11 No Lie Was Told – your weight now or before was no one’s business. It was and is your business. I am sorry it has caused you so much trouble with your health both then and now. It’s funny on Plurk and SL…we come to feel as if we owe our “friends” there full access to our life and complete open honesty. Of course honestly is important, but that doesn’t mean that everyone should have full access to your personal private life. They don’t need or deserve to have access to something so personal as your weight loss journey or surgery (surgeries). That’s personal. You share what you feel comfortable and safe sharing. I have absolutely no doubt you were beautiful at 327 and you are beautiful now (beauty is not a number and beauty is not only on the outside). I do understand how isolated you fee now, but if you do wish to talk about it just do it. If someone dislikes you for simply wanting to have privacy to deal with something tough…they weren’t really your friend in the first place. And if you can’t bring yourself to admit to this on your TL, then at least take heart in the fact that you talked about it here and shared your experience with those considering this surgery. They needed to know your experience too, and thank you for sharing it.
Oh, and your RL partner is just a dog. Some people just cheat. It’s about him, not you. He’s the damaged one. Thin or not people get cheated on all the time. It’s a disgusting and low thing to do to someone, but it happens. You have enough to deal with…so please try not to carry this with you too long.
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My best friend IRL had gastric bypass. From what she’s told me, it is definitely not the “easy way out” a lot of people think it is. I’m glad she shared her experiences with me, and I’m glad you’re sharing yours. People need to hear about it, especially if they’re considering having such an operation. Don’t be ashamed, be proud of what you’ve gone through, be proud of your strength. Like Kesseret said, your real friends will appreciate that, and they’ll appreciate your honesty and bravery. Noliewastold is right about your boyfriend, too. You deserve better than that. You deserve to feel good about yourself. I know first-hand that weight issues can really mess with our heads. But having friends who accept you, and learning to love yourself at any size, is what matters. If you ever need someone to talk to, who won’t judge, send me an in-world message. And if not, I still wish you the best of luck whatever you decide to do. ♥
i had gastric slevee and its the hardest way and drastic way to loose weight… i had healty issues too and i still cant drink water as a normal person, when i have to eat sometimes i prefer dont! i can understend her situation very well but im not sure if i can understend the part with lying about it! i always say to people i made this decision and im not sorry even i i have health issue… im very sure that if you would say the truth those people that love u will understend and they will be there for you! and it will be mush easier for you and your soul to get pass tru all this!
and p.s ur husband is a bastard or cheat you!
Also open up to some people about your situation. Explain yourself and what you are going through. I guarantee any real friends will love and and support you and want to help you in your current situation. You need a good support system and some therapy because your partner is a dumbfuck.
If you need someone to talk to, you know how to find me.
#6 – You speak for all of us. Or most of us that have any concept of what we and others really look like with those pieces of shit. Thank you.
You don’t speak for me.
I may not be a fan of the mouths myself and will probably near wear one but if someone wants to wear one then it’s entirely their own decision. Doesn’t matter what YOU think they look like as long as the person who is wearing it is happy then that’s all that matters.
i so agree Urm, no. .
the passionate dislike for the mesh mouths are unhealthy. ThankYouRaptorJesus. maybe you should stick to RL then? maybe? perhaps? or should designers stop making mesh mouths, heads, peeners and anything else you do not deem realistic enough?
And they’ll be judged superficially for that decision, just as so many are for having hips wider than physics allows, tits the size of Jupiter and so on. If you look like you frankensteined yourself napoleon dynamite’s lips and that’s what makes you happy, more power to you. But hey, I’m allowed my opinion here where faceless opinions are the purpose, just like you and the op of the secret are. 😉
i would love to see your avatar for judgement. i’m pretty sure I can make movie references in conjecture to your avatar as well. you have a wonderful imagination….but still…no one cares …