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virtual-secrets: Week 447

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Before we delve into secrets…
• If you hook up with a crazy in SL, it is not our responsibility to help you deal with that. If it becomes a RL issue contact law enforcement.
• Trust no one. If you tell people your laundry they will air it for you.
• Secret submissions are anonymous. We don’t know if your crazy ex or your abuela submitted them.
• Make your secrets legible.
• Do not contact us just to threaten us, especially with e-lawyers. We’ve been doing this for 12+ years. You are not the first nor will you be the last.
• Lastly, if the material submitted here triggers you, please get help. If the materials submitted here make you suicidal please see the suicide hotline numbers posted. They are there to help.

Welcome to virtual-secrets, week 447.

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It is not shameful to get HELP! You are worth it!



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  2. About the 2)…

    And??? Her things,her designings,her work, her decisions!

  3. Hilarious that y’all can take 5 shitty secrets

    And make them into 40+ comments within less than a day.

  4. This was a horribly boring week. I vow to make lots of secrets in the next week so we have something to laugh at.

  5. Your a bunch of cowards. Use your real sl names instead of hiding behind anonymity!

    • It’s better to not respond. Your business won’t be ruined just because some random person said some shit about you. Most people know exactly what this site is really all about. There’s an upside anyway, because it brings attention to your store…you have some very pretty skins so now more people are going to go look.

  7. Arol Lightfoot gets depressed and anxious if she hasn’t got a dick to jump on and pose with.
    She’s on to another one after Enzo already.

    • You seem to follow everything she does very closely so you’re either a stalker or a fan

  8. #3 Diapers?!?! Really? It doesn’t look to me like so… But hey, if the diapers you have seen/used look like those thongs you might be a perv, just saying… 😀

    • Maybe not diapers but they do look like sumo wtester pants, they’re awful

    • Coming from a guys view, stop making those damn girdles and straps my grandmother use to wear. It looks like a cross between training pants toddlers wear and liederhosen straps. Men like the sexy Victoria Secret look which Erratic does best. And those straps are boring as fuck , everyone is wearing them and they look like mummy tape. Bare legs and stilettos is where it’s at.

      • Because of course, women are supposed to only dress themselves in accoutrements that are pleasing to the eyes of the male of the species.

        Here’s an idea. Go fuck yourself.

      • Look. One man who thinks his taste is representative of all men’s taste.

        Not to mention, if women dressed to impress men we’d just go naked.

      • Coming from a girl: stop wearing those beards in SL. They look awful, fake, or like pubes that grow around your mouth.

  9. #3 the bitch came back posting shit again. So many complexes chica. You need a hobby! Jealous much of Phedora?

    • They have a complex yet you are posting under several different names defending Phedora?

      Your other posts in moderation have been trashed. Fill free to repost them under this name.

    • Hatersgonnahate aka Mangos and Peaches aka MeanPotatoRotato I told you one name and one email. Don’t try and play me for stupid because I am not.

      I am enjoying your psychotic behavior.

      • Are you on your mind???? I’m only posting from one! Wtf is wrong with you!?!?

      • See was that so hard? Now you can commence with your rants.

      • Ohh ouch you called some fat. The devastation and scorn they must feel!

  10. #3 it’s so obvious who posted that secret. Arent you tired posting shit about phedora? Grow up bitch!

  11. #5 can fuck right off.

    If it bothers you so much, SIMPLY REMOVE THEM.

  12. #2 – I’m not involved in either of those events so not sure on rules, but if the event allows previous items from stores to be sold then I see no problem. Unless the deal was the items had to be brand new exclusives then there is probably room for grumbling. There’s no indication if either of these are listed as the event exclusive or just happen to hang on the wall in both booths

    #3 – personal grudge much? Garters with skimpy pants that show more ass than necessary and bondage -esq leg straps don’t stand out as diapers to me.

    • At Tres Chic it’s supposed to be always new item but many creators don’t give a fuck and the management is also so useless and shitty to investigate about it. It happened several times before. There is a brand which puts out their 2016 collection at every event. They dont do anything about it because they are so desperate they are happy to have stores participating. The whole event is basically a sinking ship with hunderds of inactive people, shitty brands who make vintage maternity dresses whatever the theme is, template mesh designers, a lot of mediocre bloggers with old people’s style, the few good brands who are in it are slowly leaving.

      • you are very wrong and i like a one of designers who enter tres chic event each round can say they grow up to something better and bigger then lots events out there.Ham i suggest first of all read rules of tres chic then put comments like you did as what you wrote is total not correct and big brands slowly leaving hahaha that is funniest part of what you wrote .there is big brands who stays already more then 2 years and some even from beginning. Its one of most visiting events and great profit giving events . If event was so bad def there wouldn’t so lot ppl going and lot brands entering each round. So all you wrtore is total opposite in whats going on at tres chic

  13. #5 I too struggle with depression and anxiety, but I don’t feel the need the tell others to be quiet about their struggles.

    Not everyone can afford to seek out medical help (psychiatry, psychology, general practitioner, therapist etc) as every state / country have their own set of agendas on charging through the nose for these sorts of consultations.

    I turn to my online friends who support me and let me talk to them when I am down, they are my guidance people, and it’s free healing. If they were uncomfortable
    about listening, I’m pretty sure they’d not stoop low and make a secret about being sick of hearing it.

    Remember that everyone suffers with their mental illness in a different way to those around them. Some people can handle internet
    bullies and people being mean online because it’s anonymous to a degree, others aren’t so lucky and things you might find ‘harmless words’ can have very serious ramifications on the wrong person.

    If you can’t handle seeing posts or having your friends talk about their problems then try one of two things – tell them that the conversations affect you, make you uncomfortable, whatever and can it be kept to a minimum. Or simply unfollow the posts and ignore the conversation.

    Their not hurting anyone, in fact they may just be saving them themselves from self harm by talking to friends online about their troubles. So let them do their their own thing, and you do yours.

    Wishing you happy thoughts and healing for your depression and anxiety.

  15. #3 does not say diaper to me or anyone I know. This is a shitty attempt at hurting Phedora.

      • Whatever I think you should go back to your rabbit hole. Ooops sorry I meant whateves.

      • Oh ok so others can bag the sumo diapers but as you are all so threatened by me , you’d prefer I go away. Sorry ain’t gonna happen babes

  16. #5
    To the person who posted this secret please may I advise that if said person is upsetting you or you’re tired of hearing about their depression and anxiety then remove them or maybe even talk to them as a friend and tell them.
    Making a secret about it makes you look bad and uncaring.

    • Seriously.

      Just tell them politely you don’t want to hear about that aspect of their life or remove them/unfollow them. Nothing worse than having a mental illness, thinking you can rely on someone/have a safe space to vent, and having them go running to some anon secret site to bitch instead of having the balls to remove you or ignore it.

      • Actually, I am of two opinions on this topic, having struggled with depression and self-harm for 16 years it can get very grating to hear about it constantly.

        I want to be a good friend, really do but somehow I became the main outlet for problems for four different people while trying to stay afloat during some very bad times. I was in therapy etc actively working on trying to get better. I also wanted to be there for others and not take away from their problems so I listened for hours on end every day while never really sharing (beyond a short mention every few weeks) what was going on with me because I did not want to be a burden on my friends.

        Then something major happened in my life and I reached a breaking point and very politely asked the four to not make me their constant shoulder to cry on because I was trying desperately to come to terms with the murder of my older sister. And they collectively freaked out on me called me selfish, a bad friend, uncaring etc. So I sucked it up apologized and kept going. Eventually, I did suggest for them to look into getting professional help, learning some strategies to cope etc… guess what again total freakout. They were not really interested in finding solutions to their problems.

        I finally ended up on medications together with my therapy and my issues went from bad to I can cope with this. (Thanks Wellbutrin you were a life-saver) Now I am actually doing quite ok but I have accepted that my brain just needs a little chemical help and life is a lot better and I am quite happy. Shortly after getting medicated and yelled at for daring to suggest that or therapy once again I did cut them all out permanently.

        I am ok to listening to people’s problems but if it is all they do and they are not actually looking for solutions and just want to complain 24/7 and guilt trip you when you ask for them to not make you their free therapy.. then these people can well and truly go fuck themselves. I can see both sides here really do, but those in need of help must also make sure they are not becoming a singular toxic problem for their friends to deal with or they may find themselves without friends one day. Supporting and being supported through hard times is awesome… but you gotta make sure everything is balanced or you could end up hurting those that want to be there for you.

      • You’re not wrong, Just, but it’s never a good idea to run to a public secrets site to handle what you really should just buck up and take care of or vent about in private if you can’t face the person. Seen this multiple times in the roleplaying community, it just leads to the person feeling betrayed and humiliated and getting worse.

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